you will NEVER be an ARTIST 🥀dealing with negativity from others & within, paint with me studio vlog

[@randyloire9857]

In either your first video or your second i said to you if you are going to be on youtube or any social media with your art you would have to grow a thick skin because there will be negative people saying negative things just because. A long time ago i was told that if someone says your art sucks or you suck its because they are jealous of you because they cant do what you can do. If someone critiques your work keep in mind that it is only an opinion. If it is basicly bashing you or your work and not giving you true reasons why or comments why they think something should be different than they have the problem not you or your work. As it is said opinions are like backsides everyone has one. DO you BE you and use every painting as a learning experience, look at it and ask yourself what could i have done better. If you do this self critique you will get better at anything you do. For you and everyone out there if you paint something or draw something or create something, You are an artist. If you sell something you have done you are a PAID artist. Ashleigh I am so proud of you. You are now using the undertones, sketching and blocking, blending, and spending more time on the little details. You can see how much better your paintings have become. I think you are at the point its just keep painting keep doing you. You inspire a lot of people by just being you and doing what you want to do. Lastly there are more people here to support you than to try and drag you down. Remember that. and smile

[@AshleighKing]

I so appreciate your comments Randy! I do remember you saying that on my earlier videos and I have come to realize how right you were lol. But all of your advice on this topic is spot on. I feel as if you are one of my art professors and you have done a great job encouraging me in my journey so far. I am getting better at ignoring the negativity and will not let it stop me from practicing and improving! The support from all of you on here truly keeps me going. Thanks again, and have an amazing weekend.

[@gracie99999]

💯

[@immercallisto]

Im close to 40. When I was in my twenties I used to paint and sketch, it was my passion, but once I presented my work to people I was told I should just quit. And I did. I didn’t think like you do, if I had continued, I be much better now. I quit my passion and lived a life depressed and daydreaming of what could’ve. But I took painting and writing back, and I’ve never been happier. I no longer care what people say. To all artist, Please, please don’t quit your passion and just keep trying. You are awesome!! Thank you so much for your beautiful video. I love your work! Your passion and your heart.

[@AshleighKing]

I am so happy to hear you are back to painting and writing! It is really never too late to follow your creative passions. Thank you for the encouragement! Much love

[@AshleighKing]

thank you! wishing you the best! :)

[@gracie99999]

I think someone said “some people can do many things, some can do some things and some can’t do nothing” I’ve been told “hey maybe this not for you” and I’m glad I took their advice cause it saved me much time in finding what really matters, which was all along under my nose.

[@thewanderingstarseed]

Me tooo! Almost 40 and coming to terms with how much of myself I lost when I left my art behind…. I even went and got a science degree after art school… and ended up in a boring lackluster job. I am so much happier now that I am back to doing art every day. Taking the leap of faith and doing what I love!

[@immercallisto]

@@thewanderingstarseed so happy for you! Don’t stop doing what you love.

[@eftelyatuna9203]

I graduated in arts, but now I have another full-time job compulsorily. My only dream has always been to be around art. I don't know how to do that under these circumstances! but watching channels like you inspires me. I hope I can join your ranks, and finally, keep your mind wide open and don't change your focus for someone. There is no greater freedom than being in control of yourself, with love E 🖤🖤🕊🕊

[@AshleighKing]

You are too kind! I really appreciate you saying so 💖 I wish you the best and hope you achieve all your dreams soon!

[@eftelyatuna9203]

@@AshleighKing for all of us 🖤

[@artroomtalks]

Yes. What you said is correct. I too have a full time job as an art teacher. But still i can't find time to paint. You are so lucky to have your space to do art whenever you feel like..Keep doing art.. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@eftelyatuna9203]

@@artroomtalks I guess everyone is complaining about not being able to spare time for their own wishes these days... I hope everything goes well. 🌸🌸

[@sarahogden3826]

“Your work isn’t exactly Rembrandt quality…” said my art teacher over 12 years ago. I wasn’t yet equipped for the criticism, and stopped trying for a long time. Thankfully I am starting to get back into art again. It was my dream even as a 3 year old kid.

[@AshleighKing]

omg what a horrible thing for them to say as a teacher...I'm glad you are getting back into in Sarah. Wishing you the best

[@DQ_ArtGroupie]

Some teachers can be quite toxic and reckless in their critiques, especially when they're supposed to be helping people to find their voice. It sounds like you've found yours once again. That's definitely a good thing. :)

[@malaikaanwar2002]

@@DQ_ArtGroupie Yep, Me and my sister are also into drawing & art. There was a competition of drawing in My sister's school and she was judged by a teacher on her drawing and she was so sad, but the day after when result announced she was ranked 2nd in her whole class. 😋 I was so happy for her.

[@Ddalgiichigo]

People like that shouldn’t be teachers.

[@asimian8500]

To Sarah: And neither was your art teacher's "art", "exactly Rembrandt quality" either....or most artists. That was complete nonsense from someone who wasn't acting like a teacher. A teacher should be encouraging.

[@delmar5652]

I like your art, and those negative things that people comments is because some are jealous. You are young and your paint is very nice, you have your style and of course you will become much more better and better. For example my parents told me that I wasn't make it as an artist, I love painting, and to look for a better profession, I got discourage and did what they said . I always paint something as a hobby and now I am retired and dedicated to paint more for pleasure. I regret all the years I wasted not painting. So don't listen what people say no matter who they are, go what your heart tells.

[@AshleighKing]

I’m glad you are painting again Delia! But thank you for the encouragement, you are very right about following your passions 🤍

[@williajohnson1851]

I do it anyway, regardless of what people think or say about my art. My creativity is a gift to me from my Creator. The byproduct of my art is a gift to others to explore their own creativity, and in some cases, the source of their negativity.

[@AshleighKing]

Well said Willia 😊

[@seidenschnabelfederflugel5441]

♥️

[@obscuraxxxx]

ironic that this pops into my feed the day i was pressured once again to just give up on my dreams. those same people say i'm so talented, but they don't think i can make it as a full time artist and it places immense pressure on me, which sucks since i'm supposed to avoid stress for my chronic health issues. :x your work and videos are lovely

[@bunny_0288]

As a writer myself, what you said about dealing with negativity from others and from within is spot on. It's funny how really any kind of creative work/art is so similar. We are all pouring so much of ourselves into our respective types of art, and the fear that it isn't good enough or that people won't like it can be paralyzing at time. It can be so hard to put your work out there for the world. I admire you so much, and I am really enjoying your channel a lot! I've decided to get into sketching/painting as a fun hobby. A way for me to be creative without all the crazy expectations I put on myself with my writing. I also think it's fun to try different hobbies because I love to have characters with a variety of interests/hobbies, and in order to write about it, I need to have at least a basic understanding of it. I think the paintings you made in this video turned out beautiful!

[@Zvzm]

Ashleigh responding to all comments, she's so good. Glad you're in my life🌠🌈

[@rhiannonsalt]

thank you so much for this video! If it helps anyone, the way that i deal with internalized negativity in my own brain towards my art comes in a lot of forms. For context, i have a lot of ~trauma~ around making things and putting myself out there and doing things for myself. 1. is whenever you might feel shameful about creating, meet yourself with kindness. You didn’t chose for whatever happened that makes it really hard to believe in yourself. Your younger and current self deserves all the love it didn’t get when creating. 2. Make creating an occasion!!! So like i, even though I work full time and am in school, I have 1 day a week hard boundary that I have to make stuff. And so I wake up early, make myself a nice breakfast, put on podcasts , make sure I do everything I have to do before that day so my brain doesn’t try to avoid making things etc. 3. Remind yourself there’s a reason why you are having ideas or an urge to make things. And you deserve joy. 4. Ask someone to be your accountability buddy to make things. 5. Find community whether it be online or in person for art making. There’s a lot of great Facebook groups and insta spaces like The Jealous Curator (and they have a podcast!!) of people supporting each other creating. It really helps to normalize that it’s a thing you can do if you see people everyday doing it. All of these are forms of exposure therapy and if they don’t feel great doing it at first that makes sense and you aren’t “broken”. You deserve to feel joy and it just takes the dedication of giving your brain and your heart more memories of doing what brings you joy for it to start to feel like something you deserve, regardless of if it’s been months or years since you’ve made things . Please keep going. If anything, I’m rooting for you!!

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much for sharing this with me Talia! You’ve given me a lot of great advice and wisdom about finding the joy in art making 😊 I’m happy to hear you’ve been able to create a joyful creating environment again and I’ll definitely include some of these tips into my own practice! Again thank you so much for the encouragement and kind words 😊 wishing you the best!

[@eternaldreamergirl]

You're one of the most inspiring artists i've come across on youtube. Not only because i truly love your art but because your spirit and soul are just so beautiful. I always look at your videos when i feel down about my art and paintings, when i doubt etc, the way you share your experience helps me a lot! It's like a little therapy I'm thankful for. Thank you Ashleigh!!!

[@DaestrumManitz]

Just love the dual nature of the video. Watching you paint and express your ideas on art and also the commentary on negativity. You are on to something here! 😎

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks John!

[@limeDEC15]

I’ve been watching your videos while painting. They’re very calming and inspiring. I have been painting for years, and have actually sold some paintings and done some really big jobs. However, recently I haven’t sold anything…like in over a year. I tried making an online store, but I haven’t even felt like painting, because I’ve felt that I have to paint what everyone else would like, what would sell, and not what I actually enjoy and feel deeply about. I’ve started painting for me again. If people like it or not doesn’t matter. It’s about my enjoyment and learning… So thank you for your videos. They’re really nice.

[@peterbelanger4094]

I used to be a graphic artist. That push to make money off my art has undermined my own creativity. I know the feeling you speak of. I have lost touch with making art for the sake of art, and put it all into if it sold or not. I still struggle years later to get back in touch with my creativity. i used to be so prolific when i was young. Now I feel empty. I have no way to share my art. i don't do social media. i have no friends or any social life. Why paint a painting nobody will see? That is the negative thought I battle. I don't fit in with the new online world and have been left alone in life. No place to share my art, so, i no longer bother. 🙁

[@ewelinasiciarz9604]

never listen to people who offend you and what you do. people who write such things themselves have never got anywhere in life and are simply jealous

[@alexafoley8150]

This seems like it would be a challenging painting, with the different perspectives, such as the cliff, the field, the prone woman & her face in the grass. An approach that turned out really great, Ashleigh! I love this wonderful painting. Details of face, hair, grass & flowers are elaborate & well done!

[@thegildedpaintbrush9276]

I love that last painting so much… so powerful! You are wonderful. Thank you for the encouragement and positivity and thank you for your time sharing yourself as you do. That takes strength, courage… ✨💚 and you have such depth in what you say. Wonderful combination 🙏🏻 have a beautiful weekend!

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much for your kind words Laura! I really appreciate you saying that

[@gracie99999]

@u

[@LadyBrilxa]

Sincerely feel calm when I watch your videos. I can't stop watching! To see the channel grow so quick is awesome!

[@AshleighKing]

I appreciate that! Thanks Stephanie 😊

[@cinnamon_bubble]

i just discovered your channel 30 minutes ago and I really enjoy your art, your personality and your videos. You are such a beautiful and amazing artist

[@AshleighKing]

you are too kind! Thank you

[@denisestover2416]

The negativity that creeps up on me usually gets me upset(mad) and I end up painting some of the best paintings I've ever done, lol! It's just weird! I have Adult ADHD. When I'm angry I'm able to "bee-line" focus on my piece, which comes out beautifully. When I'm not angry I have a hard time just thinking about what I want to put where....it's extremely frustrating! Great video! Thank you so much for generously sharing your process and your passion! God Bless 😃

[@heatherbozarth6152]

"A Cliffside Escape" is now my favorite painting I have seen of yours. It is beautiful and really spoke to me.

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks so much Heather! It’s one of my favorites too.

[@skinnylizardstudios]

Some negativity comes from jealousy. The ones who throw negative towards a positive is to bring them down to their level. Keep doing you, if you are a creative then keep creating there are so many consumers and takers in this world that we have to provide. Farmers provide food for us and many people say that farmers lives are boring and too difficult but we have to have them as a society, just like artists. Who do you think makes movies? Its not a bunch of non talented people on a camera. Its artists.

[@AshleighKing]

Those are great points! Thanks so much for the encouragement.

[@Psalm_27.4]

When I saw that art box you had I thought it must have been a custom made item, costing about $400.00! I had no idea what it was but it looked gorgeous! Pochade box, and less than $100.00! Wow, again! Thank you SO MUCH for listing it! You’re doing a great job with your art!! Don’t let anyone discourage you!!!

[@somethingimlearning]

beautiful pieces... and great points about managing that vulnerability... i've even suggested not even showing to friends/family if at all possible when ur first starting out. y'know, it's like... are they necessarily true members of the audience your art is even meant for, if we're being honest? maybe the answer's yes, which is a gift, if true. but it seems to me friends and family more often come out on one of two extremes (neither very healthy for a new artist): a) 'omg you're the complete pinnacle of amazingness and no one's better,' or b) 'lol ur dreaming, give it up and do something practical.' ...i say show to strangers, instead. when someone u don't know says 'wait, is this your work this is amazing,' you know it's real.

[@AshleighKing]

That’s great advice! I think there’s a lot of truth in what you’ve said. Especially with the two extremes of reactions from those close to us. Thanks so much for the encouragement! Wishing you the best :)

[@dianadeleon9203]

I am going to be honest I really don't care what people think or do I always going to do what make me happy and what's make me happy is painting and drawing and I will not going to stop doing what's make me happy 💪💪💪💕💕💕💕💕💕💕I really love yours videos keep the good work ☺️

[@oii_iio]

انا فخورة بكِ كوني من اول المتابعين لكِ و كيف اشاهد رسمكِ يتطور انه شيءً عظيم ، و حبكِ للفن يزداد ، احبكِ و اتمنى ان تستمري 🫂💙💙

[@sabellagrace]

I find your artwork so inspiring Ashleign! I myself understand what it feels like to work so hard and create something completely yourself, but still feel criticism toward it. I enjoy crocheting and designing clothing, but through the project I often criticize small details that are barely noticeable and stress myself over it. I’m trying to focus on how no mistake is a wast of time, and that no matter what, if I continue my passion, I will only improve.

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks Bella! I definitely have those tendencies as well. I hope you’re able to keep your passion and that dedicated mindset. I’m working on it as well 😊

[@u7267]

Talking about art , you are right and frank in every word you said. You are beautiful and your art is beautiful.

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks Ali !

[@bretdoesart]

This is so relatable and encouraging Ashleigh! It’s really cool that you are always so open about the struggles of being an artist. I think that it builds community and like-mindedness for all of us who have the same struggles. You inspire and motivate myself and obviously many others and your art is continually getting better and better which is really cool to watch! God bless (:

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks so much! I’m glad you think so. I’m so grateful for this community as well. Everyone sharing similar stories from their own art journeys is so inspiring to me. Have a great Easter weekend 😊

[@Aleynaellah]

Iam so glad that i found you Ashleigh❤🙏

[@MadisonBriggsArtchick]

Your style looks great in the still life genre. I normally don’t really like still life paintings but I love yours!

[@beatooker]

I feel the same. I can’t escape art making. I make it every day.. Your a nice reminder, to keep going! I appreciate your video.

[@AshleighKing]

Wishing you the best Bea! Thanks so much 💖

[@StephanieVFineArt]

Thank you for this video, Ashleigh, it felt so much from the heart 💚 I often find myself struggling with fear and the feeling of not being good enough. For a long time, I let this stop me from sharing my art with others, but this year I finally took the leap and started a KZbin channel. And I realized something - by sheltering my vulnerability, I was indeed protected by external negativity, but like this, I was also standing in my own way to connect with a lot of wonderful and inspiring people. Also, my internal dialogue was going on a rampage, so that didn't help :D I've decided now to focus on more appreciative self-talk, comparing my art to the art I've previously made while looking at the art of others to beat myself up but to inspire and challenge myself to grow as an artist. I hope you know that your art is wonderful and that you bring a lot of inspiration to others 💖

[@AshleighKing]

Oh wow Stephanie I completely understand how you felt! I’m so happy to hear you’ve found ways to handle the negativity while still being open to vulnerability. I have a feeling it’ll be a lifelong process for me :) thank you for your kind words and encouragement! I appreciate it more than you know 🤍

[@StephanieVFineArt]

Thank you so much, Ashleigh ❤️ I'm also still a long way from being comfortable with all of this, so far I've just managed to motivate myself to act against my fear. But people like you and other artists definitely make the internet a better place ☀️

[@brucema5659]

Hi. I watch a few of your videos and I enjoy them because your videos went deeper than just art but also the internal struggle as a professional artist. My first artwork was when I was 5 years old. Art has always been my first language because I can express myself more naturally with it than with words. I never became a professional painter like yourself. I went to college as an engineer but I still paint as a hobby. I always wanted more time to paint because that’s really my true passion. Engineering job just pay for the paints and canvas. With my art I never dealt with negativity because I never showed my work. I sometimes post on Facebook but rarely get any criticism. For a long time art was personal to me and I didn’t feel the need to share with anyone. I felt the joy that art had given me was enough. Many years later I had a change of heart. Watching the videos of yours reinforced my new view of my art journey. I am no art teacher. I probably cannot give you any useful advise. I am just someone who spent my whole life painting within my own world. I had fun doing it. But I think your way is better. I just want to write to tell you this.

[@sirius-ly6326]

I couldnt deal with perfectionism and your last video helped me so much. This video helps me so much either and it has so good advice.Thank you so much for sharing your unique art journey because i have an art journey too.I believe that sharing our journeys gives us the ability to improve

[@AshleighKing]

I'm so glad! Everything I say are things I have to tell myself too. So I'm definitely struggling with the same things. I'm so glad you all are sharing your journeys with me too :)

[@strawberries2633]

Really inspiring painting vlogs . You are god blessed person. I love your painting art most beautiful nature painting . Continued dream works ❤️

[@lucialux_]

Hola Ashleigh! Estoy feliz de volver a verte después de un par de días, disfruto mucho tus videos ya que me transmiten paz y tranquilidad, y también me motivan a seguir pintando 🥰❤💐

[@victormurray704]

If we stop doing the things we love doing we are not living life be happy and never ever worry about what other people say you have a gift a talent stay positive in the journey take it one day at a time.

[@katherinehedrick9108]

I'm very much in love with your second painting. It's absolutely beautiful how that painting speaks to me. ❤️🌼

[@AshleighKing]

So happy to hear that Katherine! Thank you 🥰

[@eilidhthomson4195]

I think your cliffside escape is so beautiful. Thanks for another lovely video- you've really inspired me to start painting again. Like you, I really struggle with perfectionism, but I've been really trying to just go with the flow and see what happens!

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you Eilidh! I’m so happy to hear you’re painting again! Yes, try to find the job in it without worrying about perfection. I have to remember that as well 😊

[@kdontcare-h3n]

your art is beautiful.. and tbh i really enjoy watching you paint.. its therapeutic.

[@las_lucas]

Loved the cliff side escape painting, your videos are so peaceful, it's a joy to watch it!

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks so much Lucas!

[@leial5023]

We all know - the world can bei so mean - but you bring so much beauty, love and joy into the world through your paintings and make this world a better place! I absolutely understand how you feel, as I want to be an artist too, so just go in and do what you love 🌸 Take the journey 🤗 Thanks for being you and sharing it with us, you're doing an icreadible good Job 👍. God bless you 😊 Lea

[@petergates7962]

My wife is my best friend and greatest critique. i was painting 5 years before i liked what i had done. Now i have had quite a few commissions. KEEP GOING x.

[@AshleighKing]

I love that, great advice!

[@handsofthecloth797]

I think your artwork is beautiful and have no idea why anyone would say anything negative about your work. You are very talented and skilled . Your work gets better with every painting.

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you :) I appreciate it and try to keep my passion and practicing going.

[@yemaya_la22]

Compliment your plants when you water them, it makes them happy and flourish…. Your art is truly inspirational and beautiful thank you so much for the lovely messages and for sharing this❤️

[@AshleighKing]

Aw I love that! I will definitely do it next time 😊 💖

[@hueartnoen]

I love your art sm Ashleigh, it’s always make me look and more forward. Thankyou sm for addressing to these thoughts, I really needed it💜

[@husnatalhaart9976]

Ahh such a soothing and lovely video Ashleigh! All those people passing negative comments actually don't know the reality of art. A very common misconception about art is that it comes from talent while an artist would know talent is only 10%, the rest is skill. All the practice and effort we've given to our talent over years brought us where we are. Therefore, I think it's better to smile and ignore the person who judges your destination while you're still in journey🤞🏻✨

[@jooja4045]

Both paintings are so beautiful, the colors fit so beautifully. The second painting explained my emotions some days, keep the inspo coming 🎨🦋✨

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks so much Jooj! 🥰💖

[@moche_RC12]

I have watched almost all your videos, im a young artist and your videos really inspired me to try new things as an artist!! Thank u :)

[@AshleighKing]

Very happy to hear that 🤍 thank you!

[@sbhk55]

All artists are perfectionists. Just feel free to express yourself not for others. True. Negativism exists in life from inside and outside issues and factors. Glad you have the skills and found a way to get out of it. I am still searching. But your works comfort me.

[@AshleighKing]

That's a very good point. These are ways I'm training myself to not dwell on the negativity, but by no means have perfected it haha. Thank you though, I'm happy to hear that.

[@Pocket2Aces]

Hi, I enjoy your beautiful art and videos. Most of all I enjoy that your art reflects your journey in life and growth. I am a self taught in art and do not consider myself an artist. I believe that each stroke of our brush is an expression of where our life is taking us. Please do not believe in what others say, I also believe that the art we produce is the reflection and a window into our individual journey. Keep doing what you do. Your inspiring more than you know. Everyone wants to know the personal story about each piece of art and the life if that artist, mostly after they are gone for the story of an artist is as much a part of the art they produce. I love following your journey here. Thanks for your inciteful art and videos.

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I appreciate them more than you know. And thank you for the inspiring advice, I will take it to heart. Wishing you the best with your art journey as well 😊

[@bangtwitterandtwicetagram830]

The live chat was so much fun! Thanks for the video Ashleigh

[@AshleighKing]

I had so much fun too! Thanks for watching :)

[@amelieclare1258]

Today I had an "off" day while painting so afterwards I journaled and cried. Sometimes my painting just doesn't turn out the way I want it to.

[@fatemehbazmandeh24]

I admire you because of beautiful vibe you make 💜🌟

[@СтаноСокол]

This is the first video of yours I had a chance to see. I love what you say and what you do. The video is also excellent with the addings of your life. Wish you all the best in arts and life.

[@kathyesargent9088]

Get rid of those negative people in your life.❤️❤️

[@soknimolart]

I feel so inspired watching this video. I can also feel so related in dealing with negativity. Until now, my confidence level is still very low. I get unmotivated and lazy so easily. It’s so hard to stay motivated when your surroundings mostly judgments instead of encouragement to your art.

[@AshleighKing]

I hope you’re able to find yourself in a better more encouraging environment one day. Wishing you the best!

[@soknimolart]

@@AshleighKing thank you for your engagement art and inspiration video. Keep sharing more such beautiful art of yours. I will definitely keep up with my passion with art as well XX

[@emq6892]

oh Ash the one (cliff side escape) is beautiful. gives me tingles

[@AshleighKing]

Aw thank you! I’m glad you liked it :)

[@shizartist1508]

Why is everything on this channel so aesthetic and calming, I absolutely love your videos🤍🤍

[@gabriellemaciel.]

Hi Ashleigh, how are you? Me Gabrielle and I'm from Brazil and I've been following your videos since the beginning of the year when I found your channel by chance. I really appreciate all the content and your sensitivity in passing on your sensibilities as an artist that can also be felt by other people (just like me). Your videos give me a lot of peace and they have made me get out of my comfort zone and challenge myself with other materials and artistic styles, so thank you very much!

[@jhoaobustamante1647]

Paz,tranquilidad, inspiración es lo que nos das muchas gracias 👏🎨🖌️

[@JennaRaineyChannel]

Thanks for sharing and encouraging others to overcome negativity. Love this. ❤️

[@AshleighKing]

thanks for saying this! wishing you the best Jenna ❤️

[@itypt]

Thank you once again for an amazing video! They help me so much to grow as a person but also as an artist. Lately i was feeling really sad about myself because of negative comments made by people around me, and I started to lose motivation to produce my works. This video came in such a needed time! Sending all love for you from Brazil ♥

[@AshleighKing]

Aw I completely understand. I hope you’re able to keep going and ignore the negativity. Wishing you the best! 💖

[@user-dd2ys9dd8c]

I stopped painting 16 years ago. I didn't quit because of negative comments. I quit because I didn't believe I could make a living at it. I've started painting again. Oddly, I can paint better now than I could when I was younger. I was born to make art, and I have been denying my birthright. Self-doubt is powerful. Just have to keep at it, and never stop.

[@thaiandswedishwithkropom5561]

Thanks so much for sharing beautiful art and positive energy.😇

[@AshleighKing]

Aw of course, thank you 💖

[@YamConcepcionTV]

Great artwork Ashley! ♥️ love the last painting!! Beautiful

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks so much!! 🥰

[@naqoee]

Im so excited!!! Your videos always inspires me 🥰🥰🤩😊

[@AshleighKing]

Aw thanks so much 🥰

[@corinablair3336]

Your a left handed artist I love that!!

[@gloriah4631]

You are extremely talented. I do paint in my free time. Now less than before. I haven't studied Art. It's just a passion. People don't get why I put so much time, effort and money in my paintings. I have a full-time job that has nothing to do with Art. But I'm extremely creative. It's what keeps me going. I don't keep my paintings. I usually give them away. I share my paintings with those who find beauty in them and truly appreciate them. I lack so much skills I must say

[@AshleighKing]

I love that you keep your passion for painting even though others don’t always understand it. I agree, being creative is also something I’ve always had to keep in my life one way or another!

Ashleigh Siempre Sigue Adelante!!! Veo claramente tu progreso ,Estilo y Forma de Pintar. Y estoy Totalmente Seguro que realizarás cuadros Sumamente Hermosos!!! El TALENTO es la CAPACIDAD Especial o la APTITUD que una persona tiene para APRENDER las cosas con FACILIDAD , o para DESARROLLAR con mucha HABILIDAD una actividad. Cualquier "MAESTRO" de Arte (sea quien Sea) en sus comienzos era ESPANTOSO dibujando o pintando y tuvo que APRENDER y DESARROLLAR la CAPACIDAD y la APTITUD para dibujar o Pintar Mejor !!! Tuvo que Desarrollar su TALENTO.!!! Hasta Rembrandt tuvo que APRENDER Cosas!!! Solo hay que ver los COMIENZOS de CUALQUIER artista para darse cuenta que TODOS tuvieron que MEJORAR. Yo he visto muchos trabajos de artistas que al comienzo (cómo TODOS); sus trabajos no reflejaban todo el potencial que tenían!!! Y sin embargo, con el tiempo lograron y logran realizar unas obras tan Hermosas y con una maestría tan grande que realmente conmueve el Corazón!!! No todas las Frutas maduran al mismo tiempo. Tampoco podemos acelerar que una fruta Madure. Cada Fruta madura a su tiempo. Igualmente cada Artista va madurando en su Propio Arte sin necesidad de compararse con nadie. Lo importante es ir adquiriendo conocimientos y así iremos madurando y creciendo como artistas. Habrá momentos muy Duros y Tristes en el camino del Artista, pero quién Realmente es Artista desde lo más profundo del corazón... Se levantará y comenzará a Dibujar o Pintar Nuevamente pues su Fuerza viene desde el interior de su CORAZÓN ; y ningún comentario , crítica, ni opinión Negativa podrá Borrar de su corazón el sello grabado a Fuego que lo impulsa a Pintar. Quienes AMAMOS el Arte entendemos perfectamente el "LENGUAJE" del Arte y sabemos perfectamente lo que SIENTE un artista al PINTAR porque NACIMOS con ese Sello!!! Así que Ashleigh ....Siempre Sigue Adelante!!! Realizarás Obras Tan Hermosas que hasta a ti misma te Sorprenderás.!!!! Y aquí estaremos nosotros para disfrutarlas.!!! Muchas Gracias

[@DivyaJoan]

Hi Ashleigh... awaiting your next video. I hope the negativity hasn't slowed you down. People can be really mean and negative but when you address them in a video or slow down, you are letting them win. I find your videos to be very informative and you have a beautiful voice. I'm 40 now...when I was in my early twenties, I used to go for art classes and draw/pain regularly. "Watercolor shows how confident a person is. Your brush strokes are not confident." Those words from my art teacher hit me hard...I didn't dare try watercolor after. It's only in the last few months that I started drawing and painting again...and started with watercolor. I wish I had this access to information back then... Look forward to your next video...

[@AshleighKing]

That’s very wise advice and thanks so much for the encouragement! Wishing you the best..I’m glad to hear you’re back into watercolor painting 😊

[@charlaw5127]

your artwork looks even better than the examples you're using i can tell you've definitely improved!! I love your take on how being an artist requires us to be vulnerable and how that ties into constructive criticism because sometimes we can take that too personally especially in the beginning stages

[@AshleighKing]

Oh wow thanks so much Charla! And that’s a good point about how we handle criticism early on

[@jessicasolano_cr]

Día a día mejoramos nosotros mismos 🌹🌿 Ser paciente con nuestro propio crecimiento y con los demás, nos hace más fuertes. Me encanta tu arte! se que serás cada vez más buena en lo que haces, gracias por darme motivación hermosa 🌵🌸 Saludos desde Costa Rica!!

[@brianbraddock6903]

Bravo 👏 👏👏 I loved the paintings!! At the moment, my fav is the still life. The colors are very pleasing, and the subjects are somehow comforting, but both are really good 🤔 I think you offered very sound counsel here. Negativity is a very real challenge. Thanks for sharing your insight. Also- I can see that it costs you to be so vulnerable, but it’s not wasted. Many gain strength, courage, and comfort from your willingness to put yourself out there. Thanks for pursuing your passions. ❤️☺️

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much 😊❤️

[@Linesnstrokes]

Ashleigh Thankyou so much for touching this extremely important topic for your video. Negativity and criticism by people really makes it hard to keep going. To all the artists Let people say what they think but don't let their words discourage or demotivate you. Art is a journey and we are going ahead at our pace. We are fortunate if we are getting chance to pursue our passion. Keep going do not let their words affect you and your Art.

[@AshleighKing]

So happy you enjoyed it. That is such great advice too! Thank you 💖

[@charotarazona]

Hermoso video , muy inspirador, me encanta buenos consejos. Muchos exitos Ashleigh King. Saludos desde Lima - Perù 🥰🥰🥰

[@chuiga2935]

I'm usually the biggest critic to myself. But, nowdays I have more room for unperfection, so I'm usually okay with that what I do. I usually see what I need to do differently to make my art better. I also don't be nervous or anxious when I'm sharing my art online. Never had any bad comments so far, as I don't have that many followers. But this spring my biggest wounds came from school regarding my art. I had to share my vulnerability to other class mates from my paintings, like several of them. I wan't to be in charge what I share and to who, and I did felt like I didn't want to share some hard things to my classmates because the things I painted are my deepest feelings (loss, grieve etc). Sometimes when I like my painting (and when poured some soul and heart to it) I don't like it anymore after the critique. It was quite rare to me like my art anyway, so when I got critique (and I have to say, it was not a critique that I could use for future), I felt that okay this painting was not good at all and somehow I felt it was ruined and I also was tricked to show my feelings and then they got stomped to ground. I usually started to hate the painting after that. After one critique I cried and told this to my mom (I'm adult but sometimes enough is enough) and she said "Those harsh comments are like piss under spring sun. They will dry super fast.". For me that was a really good comment, because yeah, those comments just come and go. The only thing that matters is how I'm feeling about my art. If I like it, I can like it and there is nothing wrong about that.

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I can definitely sympathize with the dangers of vulnerability from critiques. You're right, it is hard because we attach so much of our emotions and self-worth to our artwork. I also love the comment/encouragement your mom gave you! It made me laugh haha. I will keep it in mind for next time. I'm glad you've reached a place where your opinion about your art is what matters the most. That is a place I want to be all the time :) wishing you the best!

[@catarinateixeira234]

Hey, I´m still here since your first video, love your progress and thoughts. Keep growing you doing so well dear. I think art is infinite, it can never be bad. We learn and evolve. Love you. 💕

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much! It means a lot to me. You're right about that :) much love!

[@silent0141]

Beautiful.. everything. Keep going, don't listen to opinions they just change with time, you focus on pouring out your heart out in your craft. Follow your heart's flow.. Good luck 👍

[@AshleighKing]

that is great advice! I will definitely apply it to my life. Thank you!

[@silent0141]

@@AshleighKing good luck 👍

[@e.alanis]

Again bringing important topics while doin a Masterpiece ❤️ it's very hard to deal with negative comments, but i always try to remember that I do for me, that others negative comments means nothing, they just wish they can do what you do. ALL FORMS OF ART ITS VALID, DO WHAT YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT, IGNORE THOSE JEALOUS AND INSECURE ONES

[@AshleighKing]

Very good advice! Thank you for the reminders! :) wishing you the best

[@graphitesmiles9688]

Thank you Ashleigh ☺️ this means a lot to me . I always struggle with negativity but the support and happy faces of my friends , family and also the inspirations like you i am smiling 🥰🥰🥰

[@AshleighKing]

Aw so happy to hear you have a great support system! 🥰🥰

[@graphitesmiles9688]

@@AshleighKing ☺️☺️

[@princessgarces]

I’ve never worked with oil paint before, but you inspire me too. I’m gonna take classes.

[@AshleighKing]

It is so satisfying once you get the hang of it! Wishing you the best!

[@lostincolors10]

Atleast you push your creativity everytimeand don't give up...!!! You create great expressions! Kudos to you!!! I reallly loved cliffside escape! Keep painting and shining!

[@AshleighKing]

So kind! Thank you Shruti 🥰🥰

[@jyuangrace4502]

A liked an A subbed. I missed out on these parts of my life, it's nice watching those you traveled by. Thank you.

[@shizartist1508]

I love your voice, it’s really soothing and calm🤍🤍🤍

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks 😊

[@joannvargheese4290]

Hiii mam really happy to see u back he he after so many days missed u and as I saw am waiting for the video really negativity comes for everyone but we have to overcome It and i know that u will overcome it very easy we are with ❤❤💜💜😘😘😍😍😍😁 and love those drawings I too draw when I am sad too but as i see your relaxing video just everything out of my mind 💖 ❤ 💗 💕 thank u

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks Joann! I hope you enjoy it! Your comments always make my day 🥰😊💖

[@CJShopland_Art]

Just discovered, enjoyed the words. Fun having some vlog style thrown in for the art supplies; nice to see the shop has original art for sale. Nice vibe to this video :) My obsession for art outweighs any self doubt or negativity I may have; it’s helpful to know all creative people have this. Trusting process and looking back at past art usually find actually it’s better than you remembered or see how far you’ve come 🥰

[@AshleighKing]

That’s great advice! Looking back at my own progress is something I like to do as well 😊 thanks so much!

[@rajesh79090]

thank you so much for helping

[@pedritoguzman1544]

Excelente video Ashleigh King!! Es bastante entretenido ver como pintas, magnífico!! Te felicito y que sigas cosechando éxitos. Bendiciones.🙏🎆🌹💖💪👍👏

[@AshleighKing]

🥰🥰

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

Seems like this will be a very important video. I’m excited for this!

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you! I hope you enjoy it 😊

[@jayspaintings4007]

You make the most beautiful paintings on your channel! You keep doing what your doing! ❤️🖼🎨

[@AshleighKing]

thanks so much Jay! 💖

[@jayspaintings4007]

@@AshleighKing of course! ✨

[@axleochidae2853]

A great teacher once said to me, “only when others negativity ceases to deter your efforts are you ready to make art of genuine value” 🙏🤙🏽

[@AshleighKing]

Well said!

[@LearningPointsDD]

Beautiful painting. Lovely plant. Nice video, friend.

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much 😀

[@nadiacastil5941]

Omg the second it’s my favorite! I think it’s your best job, greetings from Mexico! ❤️✨

[@AshleighKing]

Thanks so much Nadia! It has become one of my favorites too :)

[@cyndih4720]

Bad or good, it's always subjective. Some people hate realism and love abstract and visa versa. Every likes different things. The only thing that matters with art is to ensure colors are harmonious and that the composition is dynamic and balanced, with good contrast, depending on subject or style of painting. Otherwise, the style you choose will always have lovers or haters depending on what they like. Thanks for your lovely videos!

[@makizenin1840]

I can relate to each and everything you said♡ Just remember that you're a beautiful human who's also an amazing artist and we love you and your artworks❤(also your dreamy vlogs helps me to calm my anxiety so thank you) Do you think a beginner artist should create a KZbin channel especially if they're not 100% confident on their artistic skills?

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you Maki! You are too kind 💖 If you feel like that’s your passion, go for it! Everyone has an art journey to share. Just be sure exposure on social media won’t harm your confidence and cause you to stop creating 🤍

[@z306jynng]

I hope you're aware on the positive impact ur making towards your viewers. I honestly love every single one of your videos, as someone who's still figuring things out in life in general, your videos are really inspirational and comforting and means alot to me

[@AshleighKing]

That means a lot to me 🤍 You all are a big reason I keep going and sharing my journey!

[@bademyag7893]

Kendinle gurur duymalısın sanatını hissettirebiliyorsun ✨💗🦋✨💗🦋

[@humeruslady1730]

I enjoy your videos and artwork. it makes me want to paint. keep your chin up and continue to follow your heart.

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you so much 🤍 enjoy your painting!

[@daysofmylife2652]

Stay positive! Love your panting

[@AshleighKing]

Thank you!