ASK THIS On A FIRST DATE But NOT THIS...

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[@blancherodgers]

Do you have a job, are you on drugs 😂😅😂

[@sindisiwemoyo9742]

Faith and values

[@haleywhitney9463]

My husband’s basically first question was how many children would you want. I said I want a big family and he said “me too”, then we talked politics and were aligned then it went on to faith. Happily married with 4 kids. ❤🎉

[@haleywhitney9463]

Colorado❤

[@CarlosXPhone]

I understand now. I dated women, but i didn't necessarily know how to do the "date." This is THE BEST conversation about a date I've ever seen. I am grasping the concept of a date.

[@highcapnative]

Such a bot comment lmao

[@CarlosXPhone]

@@highcapnative Go somewhere else to troll, kid.

[@nizambao4653]

​@@CarlosXPhonefacts. Let his punk a** know. These p**** think that we are all concerned about their comments. I am happy with your comment, because I also grasped the concept of dating.

[@highcapnative]

@@CarlosXPhone Lmao your comment is so NPC.

[@CarlosXPhone]

@@highcapnative Go cry to mommy about it, kid. You are on Officer Tatum's channel where he will not respect people who put others down. Congratulations.

[@fionasmith-bz8ox]

If a woman wants a taste for a man's temperament early on, just tell him no for something he wants. Also, pay attention to how he responds to you, other people, and stressful situations. Men will show you exactly who they are very early on and any woman that says "oh no, he hid it so well" is probably lying or automatically dismissing the signs because they don't want to deal with it. I never met a man who didn't show me who he was early on. Sometimes it is in a day, sometimes it is within a few weeks. The real issue is women constantly justifying the red flags or dismissing them so that they don't have to give the guy up, and then they refuse to own up to the fact that that is what they did. Men do all of this as well but a lot of them don't want to own up to it either.

[@UniversalPatriots]

My question would be do you have any children

[@okboomer6201]

And by how many different babies daddies.

[@AnnaFelicio-iu6rd]

You know - I thought NO MAN. Would want to start a relationship with me with a two year old. And because of her, I was far more selective of the men I would want to date. Surprisingly- I had no issues and it was younger men who were cool with the idea of someday meeting my daughter. They were family focused. The man I fell in love either, my daughter met and loved too. 8 years later he’s the perfect father. I’m so blessed to have met him.

[@nizambao4653]

He is right. Let it be a natural conversation, and not an interview.

[@whisperingwind8091]

The first date should be comfortable. Like Tatum said it shouldn’t be an interview. You can still get info without asking certain questions, example how does he treat the waitress/waiter?? Does he order first, try to order for you, does he drink, does he drink a lot? Is he loud and obnoxious…. So much can be said without speaking a word, Vice versa for her, is she constantly self complimenting, is she rude, does she order most expensive things on menu etc….. Look for red flags, if it goes well then I think date #2 she be question time, to a certain point….

[@ComicalCoconutOfficial]

Her: "What should you ask on a first date?" Him: "That's a great question." Me: *takes notes, goes on date* Me: *reading my notes* "what should you ask on a first date?"😂😂😂

[@Kjoyful419]

😂😂😂

[@roystonmarshall5027]

A relationship channel?...you mean i have to work at this?..😖 ..... 😏

[@ReginaConnell]

Yeah, I totally interviewed. I’m a naturally inquisitive person, so I just douse people with questions cause I’m curious most people think I’m invasive. Most people just don’t know what to make of me. As long as my hubby knows what to make of me, my world remains right

[@catholicfaithofmine2664]

Ask this on the first date? The first thing I do when I get asked out is to run a background check on the person. Ppl lie and are not always who they say they are.

[@kendavonhamm4063]

True Story. Met a guy. He has 3 sons. Cool. Fine Asked if he was Divorced. Said Yes. Fast forward 3 months. Starting to get "interesting", holidays approaching ..... Find out he has a wife. When I said "you said you were Divorced"!!!!??? HIM: well I am....from my First Wife No joke.

[@UceScooter]

B Tatum is this channel just for clips of these podcasts or is it somewhere we can find the full videos of these discussions?

[@CarlosXPhone]

Definitely clips, because Tatum is trying to sell tatum+. Without "selling" it. 😉

[@ReginaConnell]

I say, just scare them with the scary questions on the first date. That way you know. It’s unnatural to hold back questions I think.

[@nizambao4653]

That's great.

[@jaimezimmerman161]

If you are dating for marriage, you should be asking marriage worthy questions... or better yet, make sure you are both aligned in the beginning with that you are dating for marriage, makes the convo easier when expectations are known 😊

[@ReginaConnell]

Oh yeah, I’ve been in those relationships you know you gotta do the cane and top hat act for the first six months because you know it’s a new experience for six months so science tells us that everything is going to be exciting for the first month six months

[@tabbylivvy]

Knew it

[@user-ks8gp4rv2w]

🤔what a good topic.to me it would have to be a natural thing however my faith and religious view points would be a deal breaker if he isnt a Christian and blasphemy towards my king would have me leave table immediately..as i throw down funds for my portion of dinner bill but thats just me being me🥰much love.. respect

[@timwebber5787]

Bro women love to be asked questions . Ask them everything u can without being a nutjob. Listen to them. Unless there liberal than leave

[@ReginaConnell]

You would be completely surprised at the information people will freely offer.

[@ReginaConnell]

I want to know how the two of y’all met and got together I need to watch more content if y’all even released any of that yet

[@seashelle73]

A date is not an interview so don’t drill the person with questions. Let conversation happen naturally. You can figure out if they’re your kind of person by listening to them. “What do you like to do for fun?” If they say get drunk with my friends and go to the strip club and you’re looking for a family man, he ain’t it. Don’t try to convince him or judge him or be rude. You let him be and move on with a different date. He has to realize on his own whether he’s hubby/Dad material. In the meantime, pursue your interests. Take a cooking class, go to Bible study, join a club (book club etc). You’ll meet people and have more to contribute to conversations when you do go on a date.

[@michaelmarrs9277]

I'm old different questions

[@andrewking7989]

Y'all should have kids! I feel like you would raise them right! Y'all should be a power couple!

[@patrickkennedy3066]

Are women real?

[@qh4007]

TATUM match

[@pepperjack6421]

Dating anymore isn’t about family or making one. We know what it’s about, so lean into it. If more comes, fine, but that’s not the world anymore as I see it

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

And ladies watch a guys body language when he looks at you or communicates with you on a first date!!

[@chrisk.6849]

Will you submit to a blood test?

[@RichardJames101]

Are you Right or Wrong 😂

[@Mike...01]

What's your relationship with the santa clause and the easter bunny.. ?

[@ReginaConnell]

And what I think is the greatest, people offered this information, and they don’t even realize the information that they are giving. All in the actions, Baby. They can give me lip service all day long. Jesus is Lord baby.

[@CVEIWKID]

What's your body count. Who are you voting for..how much savings do you have. How much debt do you have.

[@dpainter1526]

"Body count...?!"😢

[@moneymitch6790]

What that mouff do

[@chrisk.6849]

Should you get with someone that already has kids.

[@AngelaJones2433]

Do you have a job?? And do you smoke weed. If no job and smoke weed then goodbye!!!

[@JB-yq9bn]

Have you had a divorce? If yes and their not a widow, you already know their not marriage material.

[@lkae4]

Not necessarily. If they got married very young and the other person was a fraud and now it's 5+ years later, it might be ok. But if they got divorced late 20s or later, that's a flag.

[@creativelychimaine110]

Not true. Infidelity from partner could cause divorce at any time in the marriage.

[@harleydavidson6851]

In MY Reincarnation, wen I come Back S a Goregious woman?? Id Ask for a Financial statement! & Date NO one who Makes UNDER 500.000 MINIMUM! Id Love to BE the HUSTLER! Instead of the HUSTLE'IE 😊😊😊 For a Change