You can Bond with Him Through VASOPRESSIN | Here's How...

Vasopressin is a hormone that impacts how you bond with the man in your life.
Here's how you bond with him through Vasopressin:
This hormone is key to male bonding.
Vasopressin is about stress bonding, or bonding while resolving stress together.
Men have more vasopressin receptors, so when you overcome challenges together with your boyfriend or husband, you help prove that you're a good match with him.
This will allow you to bond with him!
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[@ellammix8931]

Vasopressin= teamwork + solve problems together

[@AttachmentAdam]

You got it!

[@jonrazo7912]

Escape Rooms are bonding experiences and great dates!

[@jbabygotback15]

So I feel like being a friend to a guy first is most important because you need time to bond. Also I think maybe that’s why if a man is “friend zoned” they always end up falling in “love”.

[@AttachmentAdam]

Taking some time to build the relationship is a great idea. But for men who get friend zoned, it's often because they lack the confidence to be direct about their feelings in the first place, so falling in love is a consequence of those unaddressed desires. Adding up more friendship on top of that just reveals the already existing desire.

[@abraxadabra4224]

I'm a women and I feel this vasopressin bonding is important for me in all my relationship, not just romantic. I'd like to start with my brother.

[@Moshka627]

Commendable, a powerful step to a healthy society. Thank you!

[@martakeczek6476]

I haven't commented on any of your videos, because I didn't feel like I could contribute something new/worthy of sharing; here, I just.... I just feel I have to share my "eureka!" moment at 2:03- THIS right here explains why I always felt more happy for doing "manly" stuff, doing things together more than cuddles or talking about emotions. Somehow could explain why I became such passionate artist; doing drawings, handmade stuff and helping my artist friends with their projects or character/design ideas. This is all about problem solving in a family where emotions are not talked about, yet critic, anger and guilt tripping was always there. No problem solving teaching. Also, for many years I struggled with being oversensitive to touch or at least "just" uncomfortable with, which could come from the brain not being comfortable with "too much" oxytocin levels, untill I got used to this.

[@user-bi4hf6vq1d]

Love it! Great info Adam, knew about the Dopamine & Oxytocin but this Vasopressin info is new to me & so important. Thank You!

[@dvegas]

Thank you for teaching me what vasopression bonding is. 🙌 I have always loved working through challenges with people in my life, including personal and clients. I feel like it really shows someone's character, and if we can work together well, our relationship has always been stronger. It could be things like a real estate transaction, financial or job issues, health crises, and tough things, which are where I can bear down and shine with my level of commitment.

[@AttachmentAdam]

I knew this one would resonate with you! Being practically minded and focused on goals makes vasopressin bonding super easy and attractive. And it makes you more attractive to your partner as you do it. 😏

[@milaladislau]

Thanks a lot. You have wonderful content and didatic. Your channel is exceptional. I learned a lot in this video....now I see why my last romantic relationship didn't progress.

[@kew824]

Great information Adam!

[@AttachmentAdam]

Glad it was helpful!

[@nunyaabizz4807]

Also, this information is absolute gold

[@AttachmentAdam]

Thank you, I appreciate that! Which part was the most helpful?

[@soma_life]

Thanks a lot for the useful information. 🙏🏻❤️

[@AttachmentAdam]

Glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻❤️

[@MNDJTM]

You are great!

[@athompson3485]

Thank you for all of your videos. This teamwork hormone makes sense why people often choose co workers when they cheat on their spouse.

[@AttachmentAdam]

Absolutely. In you opinion, how can a married couple problem-solve together to avoid this?

[@athompson3485]

@@AttachmentAdam establish boundaries, have better communication, analysis together their bonds strengths and weaknesses to form a strategy to prevent infidelity.

[@Mar_La_Rey2020]

This is amazing, I heard about Vasopressin before but never understood how important it was specially for male bounding, this help us women understand men better and help us helping them connect better with us, if ironically that we are set backwards ( Vasopressin-Oxytocin for men; Oxytocin-Vasopressin for women) thanks for pointing that up in your amazing videos, Gracias 🙏

[@AttachmentAdam]

I’m glad this helped! Most have not heard about vasopressin before. How do you plan to use it?

[@dianacarreras3461]

I am so blessed to have found this information!❤

[@AttachmentAdam]

Glad it was helpful! And welcome to the channel!

[@HellenofTroy897]

Totally makes sense. Thank you.

[@AttachmentAdam]

You're most welcome. Which part truly resonated with you the most?

[@HellenofTroy897]

​@@AttachmentAdamVasopressin is little known to most people. My DA Ex and I had our first fight when I tactlessly pointed out some red flags that had to do with his intermittent distancing. We'd been talking for about six months. I've learnt a ton from your channel about attachment styles and would've handled the fight so much better had I known about vasopressin. We've been in no contact since Dec 8th. He said he's working on himself...I miss him so much... But if he doesn't ever reach out, I guess we're done. Thank you for this channel. I find you very credible.

[@Moshka627]

Teamwork makes the dream work🙌

[@AttachmentAdam]

Love that ! 🙌

[@socialfive]

The suspension bridge effect could be an example of how vasopressin affects attachment as well.

[@_itsmejanae]

This is so cool 😎

[@AttachmentAdam]

Thank you, I'm glad you liked it!😎

[@roaringsqueaks5537]

Thank you!

[@AttachmentAdam]

You're welcome! Planning to use this with someone special?

[@LARealEstateChannel]

TY!

[@AttachmentAdam]

Glad you found this helpful!

[@christinatichenor9721]

This is so interesting and helpful! I am wondering if you could share some ways in which men might initiate this in an organic way (ie very early on in the relationship) that women might miss, or maybe misunderstand the motive behind it? I’m generally a very aware and attentive person but I don’t believe I have ever been with a man who actually initiated this type of bonding. I also have a suspicion that all of my partners have been avoidant. So I guess I can’t tell whether I didn’t pick up on a cue, or if an avoidant attachment style may have interfered with their ability to initiate this type of bonding.

[@AttachmentAdam]

Good question, I do have other Vasopressin guides here on this channel that will show you this!

[@JoyJoy-ig9kl]

@@AttachmentAdamwhat’s the title of the video? I‘m trying to watch all Videos related to this topic 🤣

[@Jbelly275]

Could this be why some men choose hanging out with their friends over being with their partners? The friends have vasopressin bonded with the man in ways the woman never thought to since we aren’t wired to want the same things.

[@swasandswam]

Can you do this with shopping too, when you want him to help you pick stuff out for you lol?

[@AttachmentAdam]

Great question. Is he interesting in fashion and shopping?

[@swasandswam]

@@AttachmentAdam yes, Let’s say that picking outfits for me really gets him going 😂 But he‘s generally interested in fashion too.

[@user-KLE2024]

What hormones are wrong in a narcissists brain? How does that affect the matter in the brain... Or is it the other way around?

[@dsm8460]

I really like you lol. The link to join your community doesn’t work though.

[@AttachmentAdam]

Here's a direct link, thanks for bringing this to my attention. adamlanesmith.com/the-attachment-circle/

[@ishitaroy4427]

Can you tell how to do vasopressin bond in distance relationship?

[@AttachmentAdam]

I'll be talking about that in an upcoming episode. so stay tuned!

[@qonitasyahira7042]

Now now, i just realized during my school years few boys fell in love with me after i asked them to teach me some subjects and we solved the assignments together 🤔 huh.. so that's finally makes sense

[@AttachmentAdam]

That’s an interesting realization! It's amazing how connections can form in unexpected ways in our brans, isn't it?

[@vivianvennicia]

I brought up the trauma bond thing because it seemed like a probable likelihood. I miss a ton of cues a lot of the time and rely heavily on my intuition to fill in the gaps. But sometimes my intuition does not come up with an accurate conclusion until long after the fact. So when people try to work with me and I am not getting clear signals my brain just goes into hyperdrive trying to solve mysteries and by the time I get it sorted out the other person is pissed and thinks I am stupid for missing cues. How do I fix that?

[@AttachmentAdam]

Sounds like slowing down and checking in with the other person on purpose may help this part of the process in a big way. Intentional check ins.

[@vivianvennicia]

@@AttachmentAdam who is supposed to do that? Me or them?

[@sarahsavarino8024]

What's the difference between vas... And being used as a tool. Can you clarify that please?

[@AttachmentAdam]

Comes down to attachment security. Do they see themselves working WITH you? What do all their behaviors together indicate? Are they cooperating or managing?

[@jasonbourne2601]

Hey adam, im skeptical about the whole vasopressin thing can you link me to any studies so i can do my own research? Thanks

[@AttachmentAdam]

Skepticism is healthy when it comes to research. While I don't have specific studies to share, you can search for "vasopressin and bonding" on reliable research platforms like PubMed to find relevant studies. It's always good to gather information and form your own conclusions.

[@ewamg8510]

Hi Adam! Love love your knowledge but my avoidance husband never wanted to do with me together, always doing and going out alone,.traveling alone. When you mentioned to talk to him during sex and give him guidance well he would.always tell me be quite keep his eyes closed and our communication was non existent. Well he is ex-husband now due to cheating for over a year.

[@AttachmentAdam]

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds incredibly difficult and painful. It's important to recognize that you deserve a partner who is willing to communicate, share experiences, and work on the relationship together. If you're looking for support, guidance, or help while moving on from this experience, feel free to reach me through [e-mail]

[@Gracie4012_]

I'm interested in a guy who i didn't pick up was trying to vasopressin bond with me when we first met. He would offer to cut my grass (i don't have a yard) move heavy things for me (i didn't have anything to move) i just kept rejecting him without knowing that was his way of trying to bond while i was wondering why he doesn't just ask me out. 🤦🏾‍♀️ now i want a redo but the offers have stopped. I can't just ask a guy "hey do you want to solve a jigsaw puzzle with me?" I need ways that could at least trigger him of asking to help me again or something i can do that would make him want to help me i just don't know what.

[@Me-mn4nw]

Tell him you have an itch that needs scratching while asking if could help you out.

[@ram47863]

Show him your problem, if he still like you, he will give you solution You can even show him your money problem too, only if he's not broke

[@jbabygotback15]

What if you’re like super feminine and consider yourself not that great at like certain things like building lol

[@AttachmentAdam]

Tons of other ways to get this bonding in, doesn't have to be building an addition on your house!

[@Kyle-fc8jv]

what about bonding with her?

[@AttachmentAdam]

I've got a ton of videos for that on this channel and will be happy to help if you have specific questions!

[@nunyaabizz4807]

Us and our animal brains

[@AttachmentAdam]

They're so simple and yet so complex, aren't they?

[@katelandsmith3760]

When i help out with a task, and keep asking, "Is this ok?", "does this look allright" , "am I doing this right" : Is this vasopressin bonding? Feel like this negates some of the attribution The other person has to manage your anxiety while you're helping with the task, so may be less of an ally, and more another part of the project.

[@AttachmentAdam]

Depends how he responds. Have you asked him about that part of it?

[@katelandsmith3760]

@@AttachmentAdam No, I haven't

[@MollyTheMoonchild]

Adam, how can I vasopressin bond with my man in a long distance relationship?

[@Flx-zh8ze]

Next time you have an issue in your life, bring it up and ask what he thinks you should do and if its applicable- do it and report back in thanking him.

[@MollyTheMoonchild]

@Flx-zh8ze That's a great idea... I appreciate that, thank you...

[@samanthabrotto1272]

Man should date other man.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Exactly. This is too much work. We women already have life SO much more difficult than men do. They're attracted to each other on the down low anyway because they bond totally different than women do. No wonder so many horrible relationships and divorces occur between men and women. No thanks. I'll stay single and STRESS FREE.

[@gotrinigirl76]

😂😂​@@irinaivanovic9792

[@austinzizzi1142]

This is why men always say that they are looking for a girl that brings peace into the relationship

[@JC-gw3yo]

Vasopressin.. The first I ever heard of it. I had a mother that was like an alley cat. I instinctively knew I needed that vasopressin mate. When I found my life long wife and mate, we were lovers, had children, we built a business together, we went to church together.. We were together for 40 years until she died from cancer. Upon trying to date a new mate, the women I have met are poor at vasopressin, as most are divorced and afraid of serious attachment. I imagine they didn't work at vasopressin and their relationship failed