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Baby Mama Drama

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SWAIN

SWAIN

Күн бұрын

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@thevudolady6775
@thevudolady6775 2 жыл бұрын
I as a woman do not believe in child support I am now married I am not a bitter woman I don't keep any man from their child but when women do all of the above she's hurt and still wants him
@BeautifullyBroken143
@BeautifullyBroken143 Жыл бұрын
Girl yes. Absolutely agree💯
@isaac1994ir
@isaac1994ir Жыл бұрын
If you still want her how do you get back to family
@PreeminentbrandsNet
@PreeminentbrandsNet Жыл бұрын
Sounds good in theory but we men think with the 2nd head by nature.
@ambanese
@ambanese Жыл бұрын
And also she is not mature and it's so sad that she is already responsible for another life
@Aunit1984
@Aunit1984 Жыл бұрын
Well someone needs to explain to my BM that I do not want her anymore and she needs to get over me and to stop the foolishness of using our son as a pawn..
@DejiDigital
@DejiDigital 2 жыл бұрын
Well… first of all, we need to stop getting women who ain’t our wives pregnant. Let’s start there
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
A wife dnt gaunaneteee anything
@064harmoney
@064harmoney 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ do another video with less anxiety
@kcjones9828
@kcjones9828 2 жыл бұрын
It protects the man though and makes it harder for women to play games. Black folks love hollin bout marriage is just a piece of paper. So is a birth certificate and you can’t do shit without it. Let the man die and you not his wife. You not getting shit. Y’all know everything though.
@DejiDigital
@DejiDigital 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ oh and a *BABY MAMA DO* ?!?! Dafuq?! I mean shit it's *_BETTER_* than a baby mama ain't it? Jesus Christ fam. Actually second thought, it DO guarantee something... Guarantee that your kids will absolutely grow up in a broken home.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
ThTs not true marriage does not Gurantree anything
@SheWhoDivinelySpeaks
@SheWhoDivinelySpeaks Жыл бұрын
Exactly I told my husband this about his bm. So glad you Kings are learning about these low vibratory little girls. God will always help those who help themselves.
@Aunit1984
@Aunit1984 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MonicaMontgomery_
@MonicaMontgomery_ Жыл бұрын
🎯🙏🏽
@thecultarchives3440
@thecultarchives3440 5 ай бұрын
"Too emotionally invested" so you're the world recognised expert on exactly what are the limits and boundaries of a man's natural emotional state and critique it as if there isn't any good in biological, natural emotional attachment to his children and deem it as extremely dysfunctional, need to rethink that effeminate way of thinking, men have naturally masculine emotions, stop assuming all emotions are feminine. Men can use emotions with logic as it's a big part of how they naturally bond with their children, why do so many on social media think they're the vanguards of Masculinity & erroneously think they represent Masculinity and think they're so called "alpha" and expect every man to see things as they do & think they're an embodiment of Masculinity when you are only showing dysfunction and a serious lack of understanding between the masculine emotions of a real masculine man within a correct context and are teaching men to accept and submit to their female exes dictates and agendas of coercive control and enabling tactics and your solution is ONLY financial accomplishment as intended by the gynocracy you pretend to criticise as if all a fathers value is financially. This is typical self defeating beta male acceptance of feminist subjugation, can only show your value as a father and man financially and that's sound advice apparently?! Taking a couple of out of context social media concepts to incorrectly advise men, very little was right in this video and the false expectations that any man who doesn't deal with any form of natural emotion for his children in a healthy and non draining way as if all and every masculine emotion is bad is deeply dysfunctional, if all a man can do is financially be on top years later and that's the best a father can offer to his children and that's deemed Masculinity in and of itself then you're deeply lost. Real masculine men court real well raised women with approval of the father of that woman, not hook up behind his back like the coward beta male concept of dating you're pushing, real men don't 'date', they court with her father's approval, status recognition and respect, beta males have no issues with pookies "dating" their daughters without their knowledge or approval, masculine men don't ever play or allow their daughters to be "dated" if they're truly raised them right in the first place...💯
@jptruth2372
@jptruth2372 5 ай бұрын
Amen
@jayo3074
@jayo3074 26 күн бұрын
Where do they make women like you so I can kidnap one to marry
@belo621
@belo621 10 ай бұрын
I skipped the "child support system " .I gave her a debit card and every time I got paid (direct deposit) she got paid. Took the middle man out, AND was able to prove that I was "sharing " my money. After all I don't know ONE ATM that doesn't take pictures when you withdraw money, THUS disputing the claim "he don't pay nothing ". Ah,your honor who's that at the ATM?"😂😂
@breezyfilms9356
@breezyfilms9356 Жыл бұрын
you are 100% right ab the child support. I put my self on child support and the case was in my name and it help me out tremendously and now we have joint custody and I don’t have to pay as much in child support. everyone listen he’s speaking straight facts 🗣️
@leonardj1
@leonardj1 5 ай бұрын
Do you mind sharing how much you had to pay her with the joint custody? Im currently going thru it also and a little scared
@diving.deep.
@diving.deep. 5 ай бұрын
Rule #1 🗣🗣🗣make sure that baby is yours
@lkc8845
@lkc8845 6 ай бұрын
Dam bro you just saved my mental health im putting myself on child support I’ve been scared of it she’s always threatening me about it I’m done time to do it myself
@leonardj1
@leonardj1 3 ай бұрын
Smartest move you could've made... I put myself on too just to take the power out the evil demons hands
@butchblack6045
@butchblack6045 2 жыл бұрын
My brother got a good lawyer and got full legal custody 😁 then moved out of state !!! She got angry when that child support stopped.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 getting out of state is always a good way to get rid of CS I believe I’m paying it but when it’s not a fair payment get the fuck on
@leonardj1
@leonardj1 2 жыл бұрын
How did he ultimately get the child from her? Was she abusive or on drugs?
@butchblack6045
@butchblack6045 2 жыл бұрын
@@leonardj1 she was sending the child support on herself. She would goon vacation out the kids and also hit the clubs and bars.
@thecultarchives3440
@thecultarchives3440 5 ай бұрын
If one was never married in the first place to the so called "baby mama" and don't call her an ex wife, then you're no doubt an irresponsible foolish beta male pookie who ran up next man's daughter without his approval, consent, strictly for marriage and exclusively court her as real masculine men do, one is just another pookie and other pookies will equally run up in your daughter. Still promoting pookie deflection tactics of non accountability for pookie, irresponsible sticking one's pipe all over the neighbourhood in other men's daughters but when it comes back around to your daughter you will reap what you sow...💯
@ricoo_rose
@ricoo_rose 2 жыл бұрын
yeah you definitely gotta take your emotions outta the situation but instead i went into my situation fully emotional 🙄 but that’s facts you can’t find da dead beats at all shawty 😂😂😂😂 im weak asab & yes arguing w women is pointless I’m learning that , they’ll never admit to being wrong or acknowledge their mistakes but damn me & my kids mom beef but i take care of my kids !!!! & ian on child support , but shoutout to the dads that take care their kids & sending positive vibes to the dads that’s battling difficult times ! 💯
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Bro we get zero credit but it’s Expected in this society we just got get better ThTs all we can do
@ricoo_rose
@ricoo_rose 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ 💯‼️
@d1bama90
@d1bama90 4 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@fvhellcat1060
@fvhellcat1060 Ай бұрын
100 percent of this. There’s a guys named Fathers right and Resources here on KZbin that helps dads get custody without a lawyer. Good video just subscribed swain 🏄🏼‍♂️
@Swain_
@Swain_ Ай бұрын
Thank u bro
@prisonmike729
@prisonmike729 Жыл бұрын
I’m just glad I was able to get 50/50 with no child support thank god that judge believed in me and saw through my ex lies smh
@Swain_
@Swain_ Жыл бұрын
Thts a blessing bro
@thecultarchives3440
@thecultarchives3440 5 ай бұрын
"Too emotionally invested" so you're the world recognised expert on exactly what are the limits and boundaries of a man's natural emotional state and critique it as if there isn't any good in biological, natural emotional attachment to his children and deem it as extremely dysfunctional, need to rethink that effeminate way of thinking, men have naturally masculine emotions, stop assuming all emotions are feminine. Men can use emotions with logic as it's a big part of how they naturally bond with their children, why do so many on social media think they're the vanguards of Masculinity & erroneously think they represent Masculinity and think they're so called "alpha" and expect every man to see things as they do & think they're an embodiment of Masculinity when you are only showing dysfunction and a serious lack of understanding between the masculine emotions of a real masculine man within a correct context and are teaching men to accept and submit to their female exes dictates and agendas of coercive control and enabling tactics and your solution is ONLY financial accomplishment as intended by the gynocracy you pretend to criticise as if all a fathers value is financially. This is typical self defeating beta male acceptance of feminist subjugation, can only show your value as a father and man financially and that's sound advice apparently?! Taking a couple of out of context social media concepts to incorrectly advise men, very little was right in this video and the false expectations that any man who doesn't deal with any form of natural emotion for his children in a healthy and non draining way as if all and every masculine emotion is bad is deeply dysfunctional, if all a man can do is financially be on top years later and that's the best a father can offer to his children and that's deemed Masculinity in and of itself then you're deeply lost. Real masculine men court real well raised women with approval of the father of that woman, not hook up behind his back like the coward beta male concept of dating you're pushing, real men don't 'date', they court with her father's approval, status recognition and respect, beta males have no issues with pookies "dating" their daughters without their knowledge or approval, masculine men don't ever play or allow their daughters to be "dated" if they're truly raised them right in the first place...💯
@pinkishdiamondz
@pinkishdiamondz 2 жыл бұрын
The one thing I most agree with is men should put themselves on child support. I've been giving that advice for years. I gave my child's father ample opportunity to help support what we created. After he showed he wouldn't be consistent, I put him on paper. Children add to the expenses in the household in many ways. A person shouldn't have to wait to see if you feel like making your financial contribution a priority that week or that month. We settled on a reasonable amount that was less than what the judge ordered. I'm not greedy, I just need the CONSISTENT help. Children need something every single day.... And I refuse to let the government play daddy (welfare and such) when the child's father is alive and well. Much love, just pay your part.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
I actually agree with what you just said I def think men should pay for their e child but when it’s done unjustly out of spite or, over paying for the moistened greed I can’t get with tht but what u said sounds logical
@pinkishdiamondz
@pinkishdiamondz 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ I appreciate that
@popeyedyer2007
@popeyedyer2007 2 жыл бұрын
Man you, the truth, I would love to do work together! Anyway to reach out?
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@popeyedyer2007 thanks bro Dm me on IG: Trulyindigenous_
@thecultarchives3440
@thecultarchives3440 5 ай бұрын
"Too emotionally invested" so you're the world recognised expert on exactly what are the limits and boundaries of a man's natural emotional state and critique it as if there isn't any good in biological, natural emotional attachment to his children and deem it as extremely dysfunctional, need to rethink that effeminate way of thinking, men have naturally masculine emotions, stop assuming all emotions are feminine. Men can use emotions with logic as it's a big part of how they naturally bond with their children, why do so many on social media think they're the vanguards of Masculinity & erroneously think they represent Masculinity and think they're so called "alpha" and expect every man to see things as they do & think they're an embodiment of Masculinity when you are only showing dysfunction and a serious lack of understanding between the masculine emotions of a real masculine man within a correct context and are teaching men to accept and submit to their female exes dictates and agendas of coercive control and enabling tactics and your solution is ONLY financial accomplishment as intended by the gynocracy you pretend to criticise as if all a fathers value is financially. This is typical self defeating beta male acceptance of feminist subjugation, can only show your value as a father and man financially and that's sound advice apparently?! Taking a couple of out of context social media concepts to incorrectly advise men, very little was right in this video and the false expectations that any man who doesn't deal with any form of natural emotion for his children in a healthy and non draining way as if all and every masculine emotion is bad is deeply dysfunctional, if all a man can do is financially be on top years later and that's the best a father can offer to his children and that's deemed Masculinity in and of itself then you're deeply lost. Real masculine men court real well raised women with approval of the father of that woman, not hook up behind his back like the coward beta male concept of dating you're pushing, real men don't 'date', they court with her father's approval, status recognition and respect, beta males have no issues with pookies "dating" their daughters without their knowledge or approval, masculine men don't ever play or allow their daughters to be "dated" if they're truly raised them right in the first place...💯
@elevatewithkd5063
@elevatewithkd5063 Жыл бұрын
Bro you dropping major gems .. love this shit ‼️‼️ on point with every point.
@mattwilsonracing388
@mattwilsonracing388 5 ай бұрын
“Put yourself on child support” is bad advice. In my state (Arkansas) the state doesnt care. You are the “payor” and she is the “payee” regardless who opens the case. It has no bearing on custody or visitation. Unmarried mothers get full custody and your child support is the same regardless of the time you have the child.
@1mikesofocused42
@1mikesofocused42 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely childsupport doesn't benefit the child it's only there to benefit the state you have to think about getting off it so that way you can do what you gotta do for the kid yourself
@28Ducex2
@28Ducex2 3 ай бұрын
Definitely not good advice lol
@1mikesofocused42
@1mikesofocused42 3 ай бұрын
@@28Ducex2 here's the thing when you put yourself on it you volunteered for the shit what you want to do is balance the ledger and settle the matter
@zozozizi6688
@zozozizi6688 2 ай бұрын
It is not about paying or not paying. It is about having peace and focus on others things than all the BS of the BM.
@feletiaventro5639
@feletiaventro5639 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a woman and I can’t understand why they so bitter he didn’t breaking with his kids just you.
@cruzbedreamin3700
@cruzbedreamin3700 2 жыл бұрын
I literally am going through what you are talking about. I’m not finna be put in a situation where my BM can literally lie on my name and not let me see my daughter. I’m 25 and I’m still learning how to make money. Ima put myself on CS when I come up with enough money fr. Thanks bro for the advice fr 💯 you a real one
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
No pressure man this is something a lot of men deal with, but we ain’t letting it beat us fuck tht
@cruzbedreamin3700
@cruzbedreamin3700 Жыл бұрын
@benjamin bessette did you even read what I commented?? You dumb fr
@392driva
@392driva Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the vid. Had a daughter when I was 19 and a signal father… helped me understand things different and how to deal with situations I needed.. appreciate this fam
@Swain_
@Swain_ Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I could add value bro
@user-uu5qk3rk7w
@user-uu5qk3rk7w Ай бұрын
Needed to hear this fr. Thanks
@FelixsCourierDeliveryDigest
@FelixsCourierDeliveryDigest 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro. I’ve been grinding these past few years making six figures from my KZbin channel and got entangled with a subscriber. Almost got trapped. She was bad but after hearing your story I’m glad I dodged that bullet
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Bro trust me its the demise of most men
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
What’s your Ig Handle
@D1_Tactical
@D1_Tactical 2 жыл бұрын
My dawg
@Soulbarbernumber1
@Soulbarbernumber1 10 ай бұрын
Peace King! I needed this video 14yrs ago. Everything you've said is facts. Thank you for sharing.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 10 ай бұрын
No problem bro glad i could add value man
@Stanley_Fields
@Stanley_Fields 7 ай бұрын
Great advice and this will help a lot of men! You have to understand how to maneuver within the system otherwise you’ll waste a lot of time and money complaining about it and that doesn’t benefit you or the child! If you have a bitter baby mama, put yourself on child support and go to court and establish a parenting plan, so the boundaries are outlined! You are your child will be better off in the end!
@harlemkid144
@harlemkid144 Жыл бұрын
Thank you man. I needed to hear this today before I ruin everything.
@Swain_
@Swain_ Жыл бұрын
Glad I could help bro
@MsKage
@MsKage Жыл бұрын
A conversation that needed to be had. So true 👍🏾
@theolatate7586
@theolatate7586 2 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate.... appreciate you sharing. This is woke.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
More content on the way bro
@AcapellaNutella6
@AcapellaNutella6 3 ай бұрын
dude...this is the realest video i think i've ever watched. no shit. i had to come watch it again.
@MB-mz8ts
@MB-mz8ts Жыл бұрын
Nothing but facts!! I salute you sir for this!!
@kaygee1623
@kaygee1623 3 ай бұрын
If wisdom now be held in low esteem, it is not wisdom’s loss but the loss of man.
@CoppaTopPopYaTop
@CoppaTopPopYaTop 3 ай бұрын
💯
@user-ix6kg2bn4c
@user-ix6kg2bn4c 3 ай бұрын
Bro thank you so much for this video !
@woleolaoye7251
@woleolaoye7251 4 күн бұрын
meehhhhn i just stumbled on this video and its opening my head, please do you have a platform for men where men share their experiences.
@leroybonds
@leroybonds 2 жыл бұрын
I'm class of 2012 childfree black King i be 29 this November 2022 and all the niggas I graduate from high school all of them are baby daddies and paying their child support 18 to 21 years
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
What u mean bro ???
@leroybonds
@leroybonds 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ what do I mean I'm talking about most of the niggas I graduate from highschool class of 2012 are on child support have baby mamas
@grahamodonnell4980
@grahamodonnell4980 10 ай бұрын
Thank you! Helped me relax tonight
@Swain_
@Swain_ 10 ай бұрын
You’re welcome bro
@zozozizi6688
@zozozizi6688 2 ай бұрын
Put yourself on child support and being a beat dad and become a millionaire, then you can try to build a relationship with your child specially if you have a daughter
@Smurphy415
@Smurphy415 10 ай бұрын
This man is very smart, listen to him.
@9ChefGerm7.
@9ChefGerm7. 11 ай бұрын
I had to rewatch this
@9ChefGerm7.
@9ChefGerm7. 11 ай бұрын
Bro I got my timesharing for my daughter it got approved by the courts and I’m still going through issues. She’s attempting another restraining order I don’t know how much more I can take before I snap
@xaviersd3178
@xaviersd3178 2 жыл бұрын
I put myself on child support, b.!!. Loved it Abrazo from 🇦🇷
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah bro is def best tht way in my opinion
@bwood7205
@bwood7205 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Thats crazy I would be annoyed
@FavoredE
@FavoredE 5 ай бұрын
“Child support only effects the good guys” not true .. but I understand what he’s tryna say. 😂😂😂😂
@Bobthebuilfer
@Bobthebuilfer 11 ай бұрын
so many gems!!
@Mrdealornodeal618
@Mrdealornodeal618 Жыл бұрын
Imagine being that man that stepped into a woman's life with children before you and laying down boundaries and telling her that her kids' "child-support money is for you and your children, not for us and our living." Imagine trying to teach her sons how to be a man, learning how to do yard work, make repairs on a vehicle, etc. The child's Father spreads and brags about how he pays for your house (through child support and whatever unknown expenses between him and the child's mother) Only to be met with conflict because the child didn't like doing any of these things because of only one reason, you're not their Father. Okay, cool, so then you step back and not engage as much because you realize the mother keeps coddling the boy instead of giving them the life skills that they need as boys to grow into men. Now, these identical boys are irresponsible, entitled, and expect the world to bow to them. When their actual father sees how they turned out, he thinks they've turned into sissys from being around his baby mother's "beta male." In reality, his baby mother turned them into sissies... That step Father decided to up and leave the relationship because he's not feeling respected in his own house and has finally realized the many errors in the Mother' ways. I say all of this to say this- the problem was never the stepfather in this situation; the root problem was the mother due to poor parenting, poor money management skills, defamation of other people and their character, and, of course- deceit. This was not to challenge what your content is saying because I agree 100% but I wanted to add perspective to this. The problem is the "scorn" baby mamma.
@MB-mz8ts
@MB-mz8ts Жыл бұрын
100%
@badhabit714
@badhabit714 9 ай бұрын
11:50 I felt that. I really did.
@DennisSlack-dp2uw
@DennisSlack-dp2uw Жыл бұрын
Dude, if you baby momma disrespect u like that then it’s a high chance that ain’t even your kid , hells wrong wit some of u dudes
@ochunsalter7242
@ochunsalter7242 4 ай бұрын
Man I'm 50 I messed u are absolutely right
@ernestagyemang-botchway108
@ernestagyemang-botchway108 Жыл бұрын
Finding you was golden!!!
@deeluton86
@deeluton86 2 жыл бұрын
Just stay positive at all times when she’s negative
@useradmin2881
@useradmin2881 7 ай бұрын
Don’t put yourself on child support ever bc the mother will just file and it will be on her.
@SickBoy6ix
@SickBoy6ix 2 жыл бұрын
RNS! FUCK EMOTIONS WE GIVING ALPHA ENERGY OMM!!
@Aunit1984
@Aunit1984 Жыл бұрын
I'm 38 with a 2 year old son but still improving and building..I still feel like I'm in my 20s in regards of that but mentally I'm in a better place now but it's still kinda hard financially somewhat but I'm all about personal growth and my son now..I guess the younger 20 year old men aren't there just yet..
@AcapellaNutella6
@AcapellaNutella6 3 ай бұрын
Bruh. I fucking love this video. I liked it and unliked it again just so I can like it twice. 😂
@Swain_
@Swain_ Ай бұрын
Thanks bro lol
@exodus1536
@exodus1536 10 ай бұрын
I’m going to be real. This video has stopped me from making a bad decision and possibly spending life in prison. Bro thank you.. if you ever see this. Please do a video on the mother of ya BM (mother in law) being toxic and destroying the relationship.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad to hear that bro and I can definitely do a video on that
@Swagpapi16
@Swagpapi16 2 жыл бұрын
I beat child support but I took a lot of work and money
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
It definitely takes money 😂
@Swagpapi16
@Swagpapi16 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ honestly if I had known better i could’ve done it for free. Sign a contract with her stating 50/50 no child support and no modifications get it notarized. File the parenting plan thru the court ✅ I paid a lawyer 1800 to fluff it up with more legal stuff but in the mist of all of the custody fluff those bullets were in there. The lawyer said catch her when she’s in a good mood and do whatever it takes to get her to sign I bribed her with spa treatment and Cheesecake Factory done she tried throwing the original away but thank god I made copies she knew she messed up.
@xaviermatthews165
@xaviermatthews165 Жыл бұрын
You was cooking my boy 🔥🔥🔥
@J_Mania7
@J_Mania7 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the game 💯‼️
@zombiemaru14
@zombiemaru14 2 жыл бұрын
Great vid bro 🔥
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@BarbaraHale-ep5yu
@BarbaraHale-ep5yu 3 ай бұрын
The child wasn't the problem but she was and he didn't try to help with the situation
@yusafgussine-thomas3686
@yusafgussine-thomas3686 2 жыл бұрын
I tried to put myself in CS but they told me I can’t file a petition against myself
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
It possibly depends what state you are in I’m in GA
@1mikesofocused42
@1mikesofocused42 4 ай бұрын
Nah they want leverage that's why they want that
@yusafgussine-thomas3686
@yusafgussine-thomas3686 4 ай бұрын
I’m in NYC She doesn’t have the power to ruin my life
@youngneo2956
@youngneo2956 Жыл бұрын
Man this is what I am trying to do.
@Imjusty1
@Imjusty1 Жыл бұрын
I have triplets currently and a daughter on the way with my babymama and this the perfect video I hate it here man get her pregnant was the worst mistake but I love my kids for damn sure you don’t know how bad I use to just say fuck this shit and be a deadbeat but I didn’t cause I had a father myself 💯
@Swain_
@Swain_ Жыл бұрын
Yeah bro as a man we have a duty to protect and provide for our kids
@mrwealthysoon
@mrwealthysoon 3 ай бұрын
Can’t weaponized a child to a dead beat
@tyronebradley8978
@tyronebradley8978 2 жыл бұрын
THIS VIDEO SAVED MY LIFE !!!!!!!!
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Love hearing tht bro
@notlisteningwhocares8877
@notlisteningwhocares8877 21 күн бұрын
Facts
@devinbridges3049
@devinbridges3049 Жыл бұрын
Amen. Put my self in support. Best thing ever don’t let her beat you to it fellas
@ThatBoiEj334
@ThatBoiEj334 2 жыл бұрын
Bro I will pay you for a conversation with you…
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Dm me on IG @Trulyindigenous_
@real_ronnied
@real_ronnied 2 жыл бұрын
How is the dad the dead beat but the mom is really the dead beat sounds like we calling somebody dead because your supposed to
@RCBIFE
@RCBIFE 2 жыл бұрын
Makes me glad I have no kids
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah kids are a blessing the Drama frm the mamma is the bs
@mrwealthysoon
@mrwealthysoon 3 ай бұрын
You cant weaponized the child to a dead beat.
@madscientistlife
@madscientistlife Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video.
@gailainsley6939
@gailainsley6939 Жыл бұрын
Ain’t nobody taking men out the home. I’m sorry but anybody that TRULY wants to be there, will find a way. So they are going by themselves.
@Swain_
@Swain_ Жыл бұрын
Not true
@PreeminentbrandsNet
@PreeminentbrandsNet Жыл бұрын
Cap
@gailainsley6939
@gailainsley6939 Жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ An adult that can be somewhere but chooses not to. Is the fault of who? 👀 Explain. 😂Mothers do it all the time. Why can’t fathers? Lol. It’s all excuses. They just don’t want to take responsibility and don’t care for the kids. That’s all. No one took them out of nothing.😂
@Swain_
@Swain_ Жыл бұрын
@@gailainsley6939 & this is the problem right here
@n54kv
@n54kv Жыл бұрын
This is literally the type of shit BM's say to manipulate and guilt trip men into staying in toxic situations.
@ambanese
@ambanese Жыл бұрын
After watching this video I understand why my man took actions like that against his babymomma. Looking at it from the male side it totally makes sense 😅
@Aunit1984
@Aunit1984 Жыл бұрын
That's good you seen it on a man's prospective but now you gotta go tell your home girls and educate them because that's how change also works..
@edmorales5980
@edmorales5980 Жыл бұрын
I love this dude man
@spazz4sevv382
@spazz4sevv382 Жыл бұрын
As far as child support what if u don’t wanna put money directly in the hands of the mother. So instead I just get my daughter stuff she need on my own and give it to either the mother or the gma.
@WiseGuyWright
@WiseGuyWright 2 жыл бұрын
Gave me some hope.. thanks
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what it’s about bro 💯💯
@ochunsalter7242
@ochunsalter7242 4 ай бұрын
Legitimization is key
@macknificenttvmcgee8591
@macknificenttvmcgee8591 2 жыл бұрын
The Real Talk! Joe!
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@jptruth2372
@jptruth2372 5 ай бұрын
6:10 fuckin facts, its EXACTLY what im doing and have been doing.
@leroybonds
@leroybonds 2 жыл бұрын
Your 30's and 40's is when you start to make money
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
Biiiiig facts
@leroybonds
@leroybonds 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ 💯
@Dudechill-
@Dudechill- 22 күн бұрын
Thank you bro bro🙏
@shaddelick
@shaddelick Жыл бұрын
My issue is that my girl doesn't give the child the right attention because she's always focusing on her family's drama and letting her nut job family do whatever they want
@SheezyB
@SheezyB 11 ай бұрын
Need this bro
@feletiaventro5639
@feletiaventro5639 2 жыл бұрын
I hear you and agree to a fault because no video is telling us about the fact is no w those that had to go social service in my state if you need welfare they require them to locate the baby daddies.
@quisfinesse9267
@quisfinesse9267 11 ай бұрын
Definitely appreciate the vid
@travissaldana8647
@travissaldana8647 7 ай бұрын
Foreal don’t have kids u will regret it
@marquisnishawn6598
@marquisnishawn6598 Ай бұрын
Facts
@johnblaqu854
@johnblaqu854 2 жыл бұрын
Real talk bro
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@dwaynevigilante
@dwaynevigilante 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@CrypticPockets
@CrypticPockets 2 жыл бұрын
FOREX IS THE KEY TO ALL THIS. FREEDOM.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
I agree I’m tryna get more into that
@youngneo2956
@youngneo2956 Жыл бұрын
I dont have a support system.
@feletiaventro5639
@feletiaventro5639 2 жыл бұрын
But can I ask a question not all baby mama but some of you guys is bitter baby daddy if he can’t continue to get bumping your baby mama.
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
What’s the question ???
@feletiaventro5639
@feletiaventro5639 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ the question was there are father’s who desire to take care of that child or children. My question is how can we co-parent without your father ain’t shit excuse my language. The same thing with baby father’s telling his kids your mother made me leave or asked your moms Newman to support you. The question is does anyone bothered to see what too adults are doing to these kids it scar them each child girls or boys growing thinking this is okay. But it’s not okay for your toxic relationship. Now this is not a question women asked yourselves are you bitter because he is not with you and taking better care of the woman in his life. Some you hit in the pockets so he won’t have damn there no money to spend on her. Same for you fathers your ex moved on with a new relationship but you get piss off cause they can’t come back and get some ass it he can’t I’m trying to deal will have tell you new man to take care of them . Finally Children are not a pawn in your games you are playing with kids. Let me asked this question what state are you living end that stop child support at 18 years old . I currently live in the state of NYS . I asked because my ex spouse had arrears that had to be paid back to myself mind you my kids are in theirs thirties.
@GreenGiant873
@GreenGiant873 18 күн бұрын
​@feletiaventro5639 your vocabulary is appalling I couldn't understand what you were trying to say.
@wigsnatcher121
@wigsnatcher121 11 ай бұрын
How old was your child when the mother put you on child support?
@Swain_
@Swain_ 11 ай бұрын
3 yrs old
@wigsnatcher121
@wigsnatcher121 11 ай бұрын
@@Swain_ How much did they hit you with in arrears?
@Swain_
@Swain_ 11 ай бұрын
@@wigsnatcher121 let’s just say it was BANDS 😂
@foestergomis134
@foestergomis134 Жыл бұрын
Respect brother
@segujja
@segujja Жыл бұрын
Strite game
@deeluton86
@deeluton86 2 жыл бұрын
What is trading on the foreign exchange? 🤔 I’m curious now
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
It’s trading currency
@deeluton86
@deeluton86 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swain_ got any videos on it?
@Swain_
@Swain_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@deeluton86 nahh but I could make one
@djmitty1
@djmitty1 2 жыл бұрын
Nasty game
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