Be Confident: Use Body Language to Boost Your Influence & Income | Mel Robbins Podcast [ENCORE]

[@FD1111Ministries]

37:09 two magical WombMen ✨✨👑👑

[@FD1111Ministries]

49:03 I naturally talk with my hands 🙌🏽 but I was told I’m too expressive, maybe I need more balance🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Tam-Solo70]

Mel your like a warm cup of coffee on a cold winter morning. Your so genuine, fun and I feel like I am listening to a friend on FaceTime. Thank you! And Vanessa…Very nice Podcast today. Thank you for coming on!

[@sister2mysoul]

Sooo good right!?!? ❤🎉

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching! So glad you enjoyed ❤

[@kentuckylucky5762]

So glad you did this...however as a former paramedic who became ♿ handicapped in 2012. The way people treat me differently now is shocking. They are often kind in openning doors or asking if i need anything .However i am treated as non existent or unimportant in meetings..my own confidence has been chipped away. When i mention elevators not working or the handicap chair to the pool not working. I am dismissed. Yet i watch a friend of mine with Charisma go in and things are fixed asap.

[@denises9426]

I’m sorry you’re going thru this. 🙏🏻 I do understand what you’re saying. The older I get the more dismissed I feel as well. Hope things improve for you.

[@MindfulBG]

You still have it! ☺️ Para medic now Para plegic - a World apart in a few letters in a word. But for you to become a paramedic it took brains, inner strength, persistance, a lot of knowledge, being a good empathic and compassionate communicator, being good at stress management and a lot more👌 Im sorry you had to go thru all that, but now; dont look back - you’re not going that way 😘

[@MrsJax304]

I am also a former Paramedic and now I am disabled as well. Confidence is really hard when you’re entire world changes. Fake it to you make it? Idk I just try and most of the time my face tells on me no matter what I say 😂

[@leesaward5550]

@MindfulBG Wow, so absolutely on point!!! Beautiful and solid advice! I love it❤ Thanks for giving the gift of empowerment!

[@staejaye1910]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@balsamicisgood1473]

I have adhd and had a brain stem stroke about a year ago. I work from home and found I am a much better worker because I am not trying to read body language in meetings and am just focusing on the message which has made me a much better employee because I am able to take my insecurities out of the mix. My confidence has grown and I am able to speak up more and I chalk it up to the fact I cannot see their reaction which frees me in a sense.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

That's great to hear!

[@caseyc8920]

I LOVE YOU MEL ROBBINS 🥰❤️🙏🏼

[@clevelandgirl3226]

Mel, you always have great topics, but this, by far, was the best podcast interview I have ever heard in my life! Absolutely fascinating information! And so incredibly helpful. Thank you!❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Wow! Such an honor to read your comment ❤

[@EmeraldPath]

When Vanessa put her hands on her heart to show using warm words 1:16:30, I felt the warmth and competency in my heart. ❤ Thank you both for sharing your contagious charisma. ❤️ ❤❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You’re so welcome ❤

[@meandmyheatpress6551]

I feel that I fit under the warm category 98% of the time. I don't try to make friends, but I feel that most people tend to like me naturally because I am easy to talk to and I do empathize with others. I am an over thinker as well and I 2nd guess myslef often (like should that "2nd" be spelled out?) I am really enjoying this session as I do with all of your podcasts. You have the most valuable speakers! Thank you for that! 🧡 -Adair

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching ❤

[@stellaschnell6652]

Many, many lovely thanks to you Mel Robbins and Vanessa van Edwards !❤

[@katemallory]

15:00 it’s the Mel I love! She cracks me up !

[@RinaValan]

I can’t thank you enough for this amazing video. It is a gold mine!!!! To both of you again, thank you and I’m sharing with our entire sales force, family and friends.

[@kjperez83]

She was saying everything I feel. 😢 I would love to be a recovering awkward person. ❤

[@JarmilaXymenaGorna]

Amazing. Thank you to both.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching❤

[@puretranscending]

I see your shorts all the time, am listening to your book on audible and was shocked that I hadn't subscribed. Great video🎉

[@Arggggggggg]

The pausing while talking thing is just how I talk because I have a hard time verbally expressing what is in my head. Much better with written communication. communication.

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

Loved this vid. Confidence and authenticity are very instrumental to goal settling, achievement, and feeling valued and appreciated.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@EmbraceTheStruggle24]

@@ScienceOfPeople 👍

[@ArtByHazel]

This is soooo good. I had to watch and listen to this again. ❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Really glad you liked this one ❤

[@janetlassala7129]

🌼🌸💓Wow!! Mel Robbins this has been probably by far one of the most interesting topics ever. Come to realize this is probably why I’ve been single for so many years I’ve given up dating for about 12years At my age 50+ I’m Beautiful and athletic, independent warm charming woman but my god very highly shy Now that I think of it I believe it has to do with giving out the wrong impression because of shyness maybe even a bit of insecurity as to being judged and not liked.🧐

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you liked this one! ❤

[@ricardoruizesparza8054]

Loved the episode! One of the best I've heard of Mel. Wrote 3 pages of key notes and definitely buy Vanessa's book.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Amazing!! I am thrilled to hear that ❤

[@katherinesullivanMFA]

Mel you’re hacking my life!! Every morning I get a newsletter from you in my email it’s like you are connected to my day to day! I have a first round of interviews today and this is perfect! Thanks

[@sister2mysoul]

Best wishes! ❤

[@kentuckylucky5762]

Wow so true on warm people vs competent people.. Liked vs right.

[@Traveling_Soldier__]

You are a great woman i am from Sri lanka now i got some confident thank you so much

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So happy to hear that ❤

[@theresaboston159]

The best podcast so far Mel !!! I want to Chef up a dinner & drink wine with Vanessa and you ! I was cracking up as well as learning and saw who I am ! Love you !!❤☮️

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I appreciate you!! ❤

[@lamees99]

Thank you Mel and Vanessa. Your're both amazing and inspiring women. ❤️ 🙏

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you ❤ I appreciate you being here!

[@joymax72]

Thank you,❤ your guest is brilliant, love when YOU Mel 💌add your inquisitiveness to you guests to the benefit of all of us. Very much also enjoyed the 'Zoom call' confidence from a few months back. My curious mind is why bring up RIP Steve Jobs?

[@emmylou9459]

I’m an introvert who is crunchy to the max! This was so incredibly helpful and I’m running to get her book!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Yay! I love to hear that. I hope you enjoy my book ❤

[@cathyjennings5580]

Thanks SO MUCH!!! AWESOME INFORMATION . Chrisman SKILLS. GREAT!!!.😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching! ❤

[@tobirodevick2365]

Love you Mel, thank you for this ... Blessings to you 🙏❤

[@SunflowersandSunshine22]

Such a valuable conversation. Thank you ladies.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I appreciate you watching! ❤

[@flavoredchris]

such a good episode!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you enjoyed! ❤

[@MindfulBG]

I for one admit that I need to watch this a ton of times😘

[@stefb1717]

Me too! Oh, I have so much work to do ...I am not following any rule now, I am a mess😂

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you found it informative ❤

[@ebmholisticwellness]

Mel, I want to thank you for your amazing contents. This episode, especially, is fantastic to me. I love you 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Really glad you enjoyed this one ❤

[@chixandegg]

Oh wow! Two of my favorites collaborating! Thank you!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

❤❤ Thanks for being here!

[@narellemitchell298]

Thank you 🙏 😊

[@ScienceOfPeople]

❤❤

[@pinksolutions2557]

This was an extremely valuable message, as always Mel! I took soooo many notes. I am beginning to think I need a notebook just for notes from your podcasts! Keep being you and providing value!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Soo glad you liked this one! ❤

[@suedeibler8740]

This was excellent! I got so much from it. I love you Mel and I love Vanessa! Thanks so much for sharing

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad this was insightful for you! Thanks for watching ❤

[@Sassy4mylife]

This is so awesome, and I'm not even finished!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Love to hear that!!

[@deborahmason7240]

Thank you Mel!!!!!!!!!

[@AliTheIrfan]

This Vanessa is Awesomely Fun and I learned from start to finish 😊💚🙏

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Amazing!! Appreciate you watching ❤

[@shunwilliams6180]

Thank you so much for sharing this amazing video ❤❤❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for taking the time to watch ❤

[@jacquitaylor2256]

Love this I am so glad I took 5min this morning to read your email and to be directed to this, so needed to hear this 🥰

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Yay! So glad it was what you needed to hear ❤

[@kentuckylucky5762]

Absolutely a fantastic podcast❤❤😊( real smile from my eyes)

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Appreciate you being here ❤

[@silkebrandner1188]

This was so entertaining and useful😊 Thank you so very much, Mel and Vanessa. You are the greatest🎉

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching ❤

[@EvaDennis]

Mel, I'm in Jamaica🇯🇲 and I shared your videos until my fingers are, tired

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I truly appreciate your support! ❤

[@HANNAHLUMERIA-it5rw]

I dig her she's relaxed, yet you can tell she knows what she's about. Condem and also a boss in a respectful

[@kjperez83]

I absolutely loved this podcast. So so relevant to my life in particular. Those hacks at the end were so appreciated. ❤❤❤ Thank you so much. Sending a giant Virtual Hug!!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Aww thank you! I appreciate that ❤

[@nancyminui9108]

In the beginning you mentioned that you’ll be able to tell what someone thinks of you in the first 15 minutes of meeting you. I don’t really care what they think of me. I am a really cool person I’m very outgoing and friendly and have a lot of positive traits that I think should make a good impression. So basically it would only be if someone had a bad impression of me that I would need to know about. If someone has a bad opinion of me, it’s really none of my business because it won’t affect me. Especially if I don’t care! If someone doesn’t like me I figure that God has weeded them out of my life and it’s not someone I would want in my life anyways. So in the end, i’m better off without them around.

[@cathyjennings5580]

Charismatic skills . It is a learned skill.

[@cathyjennings5580]

Impassioned Cordial, presenting information, welcoming.....

[@MarcelinaDiaz-t8n]

New Subb🎉🎉🎉THANK YOU MEL!!!!

[@debradecoteau8240]

Incredible information. Thank you!!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You are so welcome!

[@freebk01]

This was the best! I learned soooo much!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Yay! Love to hear that ❤

[@claudiapmuller5227]

Awesome job 👍 Thank you so much dear beautiful women for sharing this wonderful video! 🙏🙏❤❤🎉🎉

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching!

[@stephania8784]

Amazing! Thank you both.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You're so welcome ❤

[@steph-inspire]

Great interview Mel. Knocked it out of the park. I'm already thinking of how to use these techniques. Appreciate you and the team so much!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you liked this one ❤

[@DeborahChapin]

This was very interesting. But the one thing that hit me the hardest was what Mel said about Best. I have been using that word for years and I mean it because I use it with people that I care about. And I think it may be a generational thing because I’ve been using it since I met a Navy guy back when I was in my 40s in the 1990s. It was not phony for me, but I’m not going to be using it anymore because I’m trying hard to communicate with people 20 years younger than me. And listening to you talk about how you perceived the word Best when it wasn’t the intention behind the word means that that word’s meaning has changed. Sadly, but there it is.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Makes sense - thank you for sharing!

[@priyashajaiswal2590]

I absolutely love your work ❤

[@jennifermcculloch2250]

Very informative. Thank you so much!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@StaceyLScott]

This BLEW MY MIND! Definitely worth a rewatch to take notes. Invaluable information and insights! Thank you 🩷

[@Claire-sp5ho]

I also took notes! 😊

[@ScienceOfPeople]

SO happy to hear that! Thanks for being here ❤

[@codsniper5471]

That was AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Sooo happy you enjoyed! ❤

[@ellenconrad0514]

Excellent. Podcast! I learned so much. Thank you!

[@lucaswilkinson8398]

How are you so wise I aspire to be like you

[@JessieJones07]

Loved this, will watch a tons of times! Thanks Mel!❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@karinam4115]

YOU ARE ENOUGH, WORTHY, LOVABLE ! Don’t let anyone make you think otherwise. God made you capable, God loves you so much! persist in your goals, God is there for us! 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@iliannavazaiou]

That was...fantastic!!!! One of the greatest podcasts!! Bravo and thank you so much! To your success....

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you enjoyed ❤

[@tobirodevick2365]

I totally wish that this woman would have more time with us

[@ScienceOfPeople]

❤❤

[@pw1669]

I am highly warm and not respected. So interesting!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you found it interesting ❤

[@cathyjennings5580]

Nervous fears. Anxiety. Biting nails, & caressing face & neck.

[@marinaxeix]

OMG, so interesting! I am excited to try it on my next audition! 🥰

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Best of luck! ❤

[@marinaxeix]

Thanks!@@ScienceOfPeople

[@sister2mysoul]

This was soooo good! I have been watching in spurts so I can digest it. Thanks Mel!! ❤️

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching! ❤

[@memesfarmhousedesigns9254]

I love Vanessa!! ❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you!! ❤

[@gayegalvin]

That was soooo AWESOME!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you!!! Love to hear that ❤

[@tishaswift3669]

Always love watching you both and to have you together was fantastic! So informative and uplifting...right im off to video myself 😂

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for tuning in! ❤

[@BananaTNO]

I just watched this video yesterday from 8 months ago! Ironic as heck I view it at 8 hours ago. I’ve been telling everyone about this video. I’m absolutely obsessed with ya’ll both!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for passing it along! So glad you enjoyed ❤

[@janespitfire9884]

I write articles and blog as SME (subject medical expert) related to my professional job. However I still get ignored especially by my boss and coworkers However I work at home FT. Tried to start a book club for fun...nothing from folks gave book too. Other thing I am thinking about is writing about my life

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You deserve to be heard ❤ I am rooting for you! Thanks for watching.

[@llh1023]

Loveee Vanessa!!! ❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you ❤❤

[@ramandariddle6920]

Thanks!

[@Progressivelyyou]

I love how Mel just reacted and enacted exactly how and what I felt when I heard the word lubricant 😂 I am not alone with my nasty thoughts!!

[@jennymeyer982]

Love this

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Glad to hear that! ❤

[@michellelilley9895]

Love you too!

[@Say-Hello-yall]

Love this

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@nilsthart4154]

Super interesting and really fun podcast. Vanessa = super smart and delivering the message really well. 💪🏻 (I was leaning forward… 😜) Keep it going Mel 🔥🔥

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Love that!! Thank you for watching ❤

[@francegallo8747]

awesome ! thanks !

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You're welcome!

[@gxxxhunter823]

This, by far, is one of the most informative and influential podcast I've ever heard. I'm literally listening again and taking notes 📝 As a health practitioner, this will help me tremendously to become more competent and even putting some of these into practice, has already made me confident 🫶

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Wow! That's fantastic. I'm so glad this was helpful for you ❤

[@HammadAli-kf4uy]

GReatest lecture

[@minare2024]

Lol you nailed it Mel! Forwarded to all 3 sons 😂

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So happy to hear that! ❤

[@kjperez83]

Love you too so much ❤❤❤ what is the name of the book she wrote?

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you❤ My book is called Cues!

[@yuwmelon3868]

There's no coincidence that I'm a big fan of both of you and you two are so charismatic that you can get away with labeling Steve Jobs

[@Shu-Burst]

How are u I am a big fan I am a teen and I am watching ur videos

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for watching! Appreciate you being here ❤

[@michellelilley9895]

40:00 What about British Doctors in this study when the tone is very much the same? Hard to tell...?

[@helenrachel1520]

Ty to you both😅

[@jodiejo1609]

Excellent! But what if I’m a valley😅 girl that naturally up talks? yeSS? ❤️

[@Rose77745]

❤❤❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

❤

[@kristalhumphreys4621]

💖💖💖💖

[@crossbow9002]

now I know why I HATE working in corporate america so much; ppl use the voice going up inflection at the end of every sentence lol!!!!!!

[@ilsanking4334]

I did the test and I got warm but I want charisma zone

[@ScienceOfPeople]

It's definitely possible to get there ❤

[@cathyjennings5580]

Always put on your happy face. Habitually in public. Oxytocin rush. Dopamine rush!!Rush!!!

[@kristinpetersen5709]

???At 31min in..having others take the assessment "as you"..Is it as THEY personally see you OR as they think you see yourself???

[@cathyjennings5580]

😊