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[@nicolesmith7611]

I did this to my sons dad, because I still lived with my mom and she would judge him. When she would mention things that were no big deal to me, I would run and criticize him. I saw myself breaking him down and I pushed him away. I regret it but that relationship made me want to self reflect and change. Also to realize my mom was projecting her hurt and bad relationships on to me.

[@Timetrae]

This video made me very emotional because I am married and I definitely criticize him in hopes of change and he constantly says that doesn’t help him but I didn’t know where to begin in changing that. Thank you for sharing this!! So much food for thought!! I need to learn how to edify him and help him re- associate me with positivity. So much wisdom here. I appreciate it!!!

[@elizabethjones4325]

hey @timetrae one of the things that helped me was focusing on what I need to change. Vs imposing on someonelse to change.

[@JaniceHylton]

Timetrae Sounds like your son dear. Never deshield, your hubby in public and never criticize.

[@shawnesewoods8564]

Great message! I can relate to this video in terms of using insults in hopes of improving someone behavior towards me. I not only successfully hurt people, I also reduce myself as a person. Negativity breeds negativity. I’m happy to say I no longer behave in this manner, but it took a good bit of trial and error. I wish I came across this video earlier in life.

[@mariek4362]

Thank you. I'm going on 60 and going in another (final) relationship and your advice is priceless!

[@kkrobertson1]

You're teaching excellent musing skills. A lost art in today's western woman.

[@kristianm6102]

You are heaven sent dear. So glad I found your channel❤

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Welcome!

[@Silkyslim48]

I love this video and thank you for sharing your private thoughts with strangers. I needed to hear this for me!

[@lakieshatucker99]

Shena52. ME too so guilty

[@rhondabrown8707]

I need to be reminded of this also so me three!😏

[@iqueen2472]

i agree with you. from experience i can tell you that it also works in the reverse. meaning ...when he empowers you, he then becomes the king of your heart as well. great vidoe sis. thnx for sharing 👍👍👍

[@baiyinadotcom]

Amazing Monique...such a powerful story and so inspiring. Yes!!!

[@honeychilehontina3173]

You so Right. The key is us women been broken and fixing it. Love all u said. Thanks so much for your message.

[@pearlpearly8998]

OMG!!! You are the one! Thank you and Thank God .I have been praying and searching for a woman online who God could use to minister to my heart about relationships and femininity. Happy to have come across your channel today.

[@feliciabarnes6234]

This is confirmation, I need to connect with you. You are helping me and I just started thinking this way... I have incorporated affirmations in my relationship.... thank you for this

[@Ang.143]

Yesssss queen I’m learning! We are so much happier when I let him take the reigns in his life. I want him to be the best man he can be and I want him to make the best choices for himself because he is capable.

[@bodypilot2006]

You're speaking truth! I love personal revelations when they lead to real breakthroughs of perspective

[@latresemagee8554]

I did this too, he's still here but I'm sensing resentment but I'm praying that I can heal and still have him in my life, I'm praying that I can be the woman we both need....hes really a good guy but I've been something else

[@angelinasamson6996]

That helps his confidence build , Wow I’ve just been asking the universe how to empower my man and help him shift into his masculine energy ❤

[@dionnemoore3249]

Hi Monique, I've been watching a few of your videos, you are always such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing this story, we as women allow our insecurities to take hold of us and some of us don't acknowledge our part in the "bad" relationships. What I think we ought to do is LEARN from each experience and work on becoming better versions of ourselves. God bless you sweetie!

[@JMSCollegeFun]

As a fiance, I definitely don’t know how to not be critical too. I always feel that he could do so much better without me. But he loves me through all my bs. He’s so amazing and a girls dream but sometimes I feel I take him for granted. I need to learn to speak power, and uplift to him

[@Seremonii]

"He was just practicing" ! In my opinion, he wasn't a good catch anyway. He was playing with both, you & her feelings. 😕 I wonder if she was aware that she was simply a practice run.

[@rtp1968]

Fyendi DarNesha :EXACTLY!!!!!

[@rtp1968]

She taking all the blame when in fact her boyfriend was funky anyway.

[@Seremonii]

Right, rtp1968. I'm like😕 sistah need to talk to somebody like me cause she's looking at a couple things ALLLLL wrong.

[@marliynball214]

My thoughts exactly. She’s putting the weight of the relationship on her shoulders. A cheater is a cheater.

[@lyciakavumbi7294]

Exactly! women always step low taking the blame when something goes wrong in a relationship!and this potrays men as angels,unless we change the idea men will always hurt us and get away with it!once a cheater always a cheater!where is this practising coming from in the first place?

[@LovelyMsJ]

Hi Monique, I just came across your channel today March 2018, and I subscribed! This is so refreshing and inspiring. This is what All women need to know. Everyone can use encouragement and instruction on how to become a better person in their quest for companionship. In order to accomplish anything it takes skill and you are teaching that...Love,Love, Love it! Take care..Be Blessed!...Johnetta Crumpton

[@rhondabell-jones9706]

Johnetta Crumpton ĺ

[@TM-pj7yu]

I have gone above and beyond in relationships before these videos were available. I am conversational, mysteriously risque and submissive but not a doormat, clear about my expectations and open. I can get any man by the way I carry myself as well. Still my finances are not satisfactory and when men find out I'm a single parent and struggling men RUN and stay gone. I have done all I can ,I'm a awesome woman but I'm not giving my 75% and left empty anymore😔 thanks for the energy and truth put into your videos (I'm a newbie)you are a beautiful woman elevating woman. Keep changing women's lives.

[@errandsunlimited1276]

I am currently working on that femininity allure myself. Confidence self love ❤️ appreciation.

[@amykimball5953]

I am so glad I came across your channel. I love how you speak about being feminine. How to do it, and why it’s so important. I’ve been married for 2 years now, and it helps! 💕

[@entheogenicmidwife]

Thank you much. Definitely need to work on receiving. Someone JUST called and interrupted me watching this. They told me to come to the door and quess what, they had a gift for me and left. ✨💪 I admire you already.

[@monicanadine]

I love this video and the message in it! Side note: I amso happy I found you again (I lost all of my old subscriptions when I started a new channel). I used to watch your videos back in the day when you would shimmy to house music while talking about femininity and doing your natural hair. I am admiring what your channel has grown in to 💕 Update- Confession: I just rewatched your “Naturals Have More Fun” video after I left the comment above lol. Thanks for keeping those videos up :)

[@Claudia_CLP]

So well said, Thank you for sharing ❤ agree with your message. I am learning the same, we need to empower our man, not break him down ❤

[@JoannaCubana]

Thank you for sharing this with me and us. I did what you did years ago with my boyfriend just last night. He opened up himself to me, and instead of being loving and compassionate about what he shared, I criticized him. I feel horrible. I know it's because I probably am too broken or scared to give him what he REALLY needed at the time. I signed up for therapy today... I don't want to lose him, and I truly pray that I haven't. 😳😳😳🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ramonan3720]

Thank you Monique for being open with your life experiences! You're helping the Queens...

[@AnotherShyFlower]

This video was right on time!!! You are a jewel ❤️

[@helenamills4563]

I love all your videos sis👍👍 I just subscribed you😘 God bless you and your husband😇

[@rodericko9534]

This is very powerful..very insightful..i think for both men and women..and I am a man..i am sometimes guilty of that too.. learning n growth is so important..but acknowledgement of our lacking or needs is very vital so we can address those needs..

[@LadyofCleves65]

He must be nuts cause you are truly beautiful woman. Ok I made that comment of your beauty before listening to what you had to say and Now I get it. It has nothing to do with just being beautiful because you surely are but how he feels with you. I like what you are telling woman. God Bless you.

[@reneeware8964]

Very honest thank you for your transparency I needed to hear this

[@thelotusexperience6683]

Ive always done this and hasn't got menanywhere I've invested in trying to build someone else up when I've should've put that energy into myself

[@michellevickery2214]

Im usually not a comment leaver but I had to let you know that you inspired me, woke up a part of me i forgot was there. Thank you.

[@traciesplace]

Great information! It's so important to know how to talk to them, thank you for that!

[@queenangelelshadai62]

miss Munique your pretty, your hair, your smile, theeth, your a doll honey

[@lluvsu09]

Yes i agree with you because that’s the same way my son dad & I ended because we were both broken but now we’re friends

[@bridgetsbuttahs3412]

Thanks Monique I am 48 year old widow woman now for 2 Years. I was married for 20 Years and Monique I am not good at dating please help. I am enjoying your videos.

[@oluchinnona7519]

Thank you so much for this clip! I'm really really informed and inspired.

[@rumbidzaimashangu5818]

I wish I had watched this a month ago 😟. I’m empowered, thank you for sharing .

[@elocinyelsaeb640]

Thank you for this video. You appear to be beautiful both inside and out. I've only seen two or three of your videos so far. This one really hit home. I need to clean up my act. Thank you again.

[@aaliyahbutler4773]

U are so honest and wise thank you for sharing your experiences .

[@AnyasHeart]

This is the 2nd video of yours I watch and I have to sign up to your emails because I NEED IT! I have an amazing man in my life and although I’ve done a lot of work on myself since my last relationship I have more work to do. So thank you!

[@deenastylz439]

Im a new subscriber and your videos are really inspiring. This video in particular I can relate to a lot

[@procoatroofingsolutions147]

This is very helpful to me personally. Thank you for your investment of time and life into this video. God bless you

[@jamiamason5173]

This is a great video. You're so pretty too! Thank you for the advice.

[@sandracarter3023]

Thank you for your transparency. I need what you learned and quick.

[@TumiMalete]

I'm really glad I came across your channel. Your insight is very refreshing. I'm taking in a great lot.

[@bubblebubblegum2732]

I do that exactly.. and they always leave you fro the girl they practice with yes. Thank you I haven’t did it in years but I am changing this is the truth. Great movie it’s. Don’t abuse the relationship. Wow

[@rochellebailey8352]

Just learning about your channel. I love what I have heard and I am subscribing! Thank you for sharing your truth.

[@aliyarahman85]

Hearing you come to your power is heartfelt and inspirational

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

That was still disrespectful of him because he could have said what he wanted. Would he have been so understanding if you would have practiced with another man. I appreciate your vulnerability, and as far as what he wanted he could have helped and told you earlier what he wanted, like, I would appreciate it if...We can’t give them a double standard. We may be immature, but there are still boundaries and morals to keep.

[@TruSpoken]

This is me all the way and i want to change but I also feel that I'm defending my heart.i do not want this to happen in my life or in a future relationship.

[@cee1970]

This is so vulnerable and i can completely relate. Thanks for sharing.

[@theeretha3303]

New follower looking forward to seeing the materials you have. Blessings Aretha

[@MoniqueJay50]

Hi Monique you look beautiful.

[@muta_othernames]

Wow. Practising because he didn't feel he could make you happy. I have come to learn just how important it is to a man to feel he has it in him to make you happy

[@BlessednHighlyfavored12]

Thank you so much❤️💎 This is a gem

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

You’re welcome. Appreciate the comment

[@rhondabrown8707]

Hello Monique, I have just found your video and really like what you have to say about awakening the femininity and open his heart to you. Thank you for your helpful thoughts and suggestions.

[@manolyarowe3794]

Love your Hair !

[@imternizamccartney3739]

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I was interested in the free course, but its not allowing me to go past email address to the site, its saying, its email protected. Kindly note.

[@prettyhurts1237]

Everything relationship teaches on both ends !!!

[@patriciawalker6677]

Hello Monique, this info help me so much with my marriage...Thanks

[@kishaj1]

I love everything about this video, I will be emailing you more in-depth.

[@cyd73119]

I am so glad I came across your channel. You got a new subscriber looking forward to more

[@alishadasilva349]

Hello thank you so much, I am in that same situation and scared as hell but this video is such a motivation

[@careyhope4025]

I’m so glad I found your Channel

[@Margo_78]

Monique, bless you and thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.

[@becoming_me_gigi4158]

I am new to your chanel, I stumbbled across one of your videos and I subcribed immediately. It was like you were answering the questions I have asking myself but did not have answers nor did I know how to find the answers.I need more indept info lol. How can I reach out to you?

[@donnalofton7988]

What powerful, useful, much-needed information. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@errandsunlimited1276]

Words that empowers a man to desire us. Awesome communication skills

[@theh.r.m.oneracethehumanracecu]

Great video, thank you Queen❣️🙏🏾🥰🌹

[@treenaave4739]

Way to go sister. One thing I disagree with though is you said that you don’t want to give and not get anything in return but that is not God‘s way. In fact a lot of relationships that I have known,n the women are really suffering because they feel that their husbands are not living up to their potential or they’re holding them back or they’re not doing this or that and they just feel totally at their wits end and so one of the things that I told them is you just need to do your part you just need to give expecting nothing n return. If we expect things in return and we don’t get it then that is disappointment and disappointment leads the frustration and frustration leads to divorce and just whole lot of health problems ,headaches and high blood pressure etc. etc.That is just what I have learned from counseling and seminars and a marriage workshop and it has helped me a lot not ever husbands are good or great and we can’t Taylor made everything for every relationship so what do you do when the man is just no good LOL?

[@nginaable]

First timer and am liking this.

[@msbabycakes4uable]

I'm so glad that I found your channel.. This will help me a lot

[@AFROcentricFLO]

Thank you for this, I can relate. I'm learning this as well.

[@ga9100]

Marissa Jones hi how are u from ur pic u look beautiful wombman

[@juliuskirimi5811]

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[@triciam8244]

Hello Monique! Thanks for the tips! Am quite new on your channel. I definitely relate to your story & only difference is it is my husband. Please email me the 6 step process on how to become the queen to my hubby’s heart

[@stillwaters7233]

Thank you for this. I'm a newlywed , learning much from you. You're gorgeous by the way.

[@philiciaragsdale1296]

Great content ! I can relate so much to this story in the video . New subbie!

[@shamilakhan66]

I am so glad I found your channel xxxx

[@keionedwards4396]

Hi Mrs Monique I have watched several of your videos and truly your work is a Much Needed value to our women today. i know a lot of women, i have seen their struggle and desired to help but as a man well you get the picture. i happened to stumble upon you in my quest to add value and empowerment to the many women within my environment including my lovely, beautiful, absolutely incredible wife. I look forward to sharing your videos, however I have but one request please do a video on how wives could present themselves at home. Thank you.

[@ReneelovesGod]

Amen this is good!!! I’m new.. I like this

[@florencemutetwa3810]

Thank you so much for this video. Needed this

[@timiewarewah2827]

Wow.... Just found you. Love your energy, love what you do. You're on point.

[@jacquelinengwandu3467]

that is me now at 24 and have been so With my relationships. I wish to make it better

[@lilywoods1532]

So many negative comments coming from negative people the woman is giving her experience and the outcome that she wants to share with us at least she admit she she snooped and realised we're she went wrong so stop bashing her for giving wised advice

[@queennefertiti3686]

You lost me with, "you pushed him into the arms of another woman". No matter what you do, that's a choice he made. I would never take the blame for his decisions.

[@tstar1766]

Queen Nefertiti I think what she is doing is look internally, rather than the blame game. That helped her to focus more on what she can change about herself, rather than his shortcomings... And yes, it was his choice, but Monique chose to focus on herself and fix her in order to learn and be the woman that she is today... The woman that can uplift a man with her words.

[@lonewolflovechild7390]

Queen Nefertiti ...precisely!

[@lonewolflovechild7390]

Terese Tess ...this is exactly right! However, in the process of self examination, one must recognize that ANYONE can learn a lesson from a bad situation, but let's FIRST acknowledge the fact that the other person in the relationship (who had choices) made a conscious decision to disrespect Monique in the first place. THIS happened FIRST. Her man MUST accept accountability for lack of respect in their relationship and not shift the MAIN focus on the valuable lesson learned. The lesson is a true blessing. Yet, it is an aftermath of a messed up situation created by someone who dishonored the relationship. Lessons are valuable...very true...but how many of us go INTO relationships specifically to get disrespected...just to learn a lesson??? Do the right thing from day one. Don't do as you please as an indirect way of contributing to humanties life lessons. My thing is...we can sometimes learn these lessons with each other when we are meek, naive and don't know any better...just as much as intentional foul play. Keep intentional foul play out of the lesson plan!

[@tstar1766]

Lonewolf Lovechild thank u. I agree that we should do the right thing from day one.

[@giaunique7806]

I Agree. You can't lose the man that God has for you

[@crystalclear9361]

This made me cry, cause I did this so much in my last relationship thinking this would change or push him, because of the potential I saw, thinking it would spark change, and he would tell me all the time that I emasculated him alot, but I thought it would change him for the better, and a day before I left for work we had a serious & passionate conversation about it, and he was so angry yet emotional but I couldnt put my self in that emotional state at the point of time cause I was late for work but I had apologize and left not knowing that was the last time I would see my baby alive,

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Big hugs to you.

[@azrael5310]

Oh wow. Hugs to your heart. Talk to him.. still. His energy is definitely with you. Call on him.. have that conversation and let him know he is loved. Energy never dies..it transfers. He’s around.. and will show you. Look for signs. All my love

[@janellem.5582]

Thank you so much My mom does this 'helping' a lot and I think that's y my dad doesn't have the vibe to do anything because she's really hard to plz...overtime I realize my dad has neglected his duties and doesn't do them to the best of his ability...I'm 18 and in a three yr relationship and we've been thru the whole infidelity thing and it has left me with doubts about myself and him...but we've had long conversations and I can see him trying and the problems are lessening and I want to reward him but I jus don't how...he's being really honest now and I tell him I appreciate it..but he has been thru some really deep stuff in his past and I jus want him to kno that he can trust me with his fears how do I do that? I genuinely want to help and share his burdens but he's never spoken abt the death of his mom to anyone and I can see the emptiness in him sometimes... plz help me miss Monique🤗🤗🤗

[@Heyu7her3]

I hour your no longer in that relationship. Being in a relationship with infidelity problems is already a "no" (esp of your not the one who stepped out)n but esp at 18, and in it for 3 yrs!!!

[@jordangray1837]

YESSSSS KELLY ROWLAND ! love the look

[@ieyona]

Thank you so much for sharing. I needed this!

[@sharonthompson8406]

I loved this wisdom. I want to learn more! I don’t know where the link below is.where do I find your email

[@Joan1able]

Thank You for Sharing 😊😊😊

[@taylorjohnson6898]

a true queen, these videos are amazing

[@marilynrowe5041]

Sadly I need to go to wife school if any exist. Going into relationship I've had great guys but I've always felt inadequate after sex etc sleeping over getting to know each other etc. I never know how to comfort him properly encourage him big him up. And now i met a great guy went on our first date and I want to be the woman for him (his queen) dnt want to be dull just want to get it right this time.

[@victoryshalom3947]

Thank you, I needed to hear that!

[@loveforeignaccents]

Monique, you are so sweet!! All the best to you, my dear!

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Thank you!

[@1976ursula]

Thank you so much for that message! I really like this man and I hurt him because I'm allowing my own insecurities get in the way. I'm a plus size woman, he empowers me by saying I'm beautiful and how proportion I am, and instead of believing what he says I become negative. I've come from and have dealt with hurt as a kid, in my marriage(I'm no longer married) but I always feel I'm never good enough! Well, I said if you don't want me just leave me alone and I've said more then needed and this time was the last straw....he no longer talks to me he would answer the phone but no feedback and he has been so good to me, that now I'm just hurt and wish I could take it back, but I can't. What can I do or say for him to reconsider ?

[@lunatic1007]

This is great advice!! I totally agree!