Big Viewer Drama | Wine About It

[@stebyy]

maya is talking about married at first sight season 13 and SPOILER SPOILER he says yes to staying married at the end and she says no !!!! woop woop know your worth girl !!

[@madisonblack7201]

SHEEEEEEEESH LET'S GO BAOOOOOO

[@emmafountain2059]

This is kinda just directed into the void but in case anyone needs to hear it, there’s lots of us out there who understand. Being in an environment of people who think there’s something wrong with you just for being yourself can be spooky and just really isolating but the number of people who will love, and accept, and protect you for who you are far outnumbers the people who will try to make you pretend to be someone you’re not. Even if it doesn’t always feel that way. Things will get better.

[@amaryllis0]

To any trans people reading this who are having a rough time, no matter in what way, please try and reach out to your local lgbt+ community, look up if there are any local meetups or scenes. Having people in your life who can support and affirm you is seriously important to your mental health

[@crispytofu9528]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@randallhudson6231]

Thank you for saying this

[@dimension4RC]

Thank you so much ☮️💜 you are beautiful and you are loved.

[@N_g_er]

​@@randallhudson6231you're genetic defect

[@3yp0n]

OMG IT'S WINE ABOUT IT WEDNESDAY GALS!!!! Audio listeners there's no wine involved again

[@barley2262]

Drinking is out. Drama is in.

[@nokap5994]

Psst they can't hear this

[@3yp0n]

​@@barley2262🍵 is healthier than 🍷

[@skyhorizon6860]

Wine should be on the patreon hopefully

[@oftheHowl]

The irony of no one here being an audio listener

[@CasualClassroom]

I’m shocked that the tension in the air after the second thanksgiving story wasn’t it’s own segment. Hope that viewer is okay, that’s so absurdly disgusting

[@TearsOfThem]

Audio listeners Maya is holding me and my family hostage, please help

[@simonkemfors]

we've all been there...

[@Fleshdeficiency]

I'm coming, it might take a bit with echolocation...

[@Seruphin]

Well Audio Listeners cannot read so you are out of luck.

[@Blooper_Ink]

Jeez that part about the trans person made me sick to my stomach. that's so awful to go through, they deserve to be treated better. what a sick family.

[@vinnycastro7101]

What's even crazier Is that the person that texted her thought that they were actually extending a helping hand. They really thought they were doing good. That text is a torch to a bridge that will inevitably be burned down if her family doesn't get their heads out of their asses and realize that they are all sinners as well and are executing gross self-righteousness while demonizing her in the process.

[@Blooper_Ink]

@@vinnycastro7101 it's so upsetting

[@a.e.1502]

I come from that religeous type of background and the thing is, sadly, I dont think you will ever change their negative view of you. You will never be able to move past their "desire to just help you with ypur sin". They're literally trained to constantly find ways to "help encourage" and "insert god" in every interaction and conversation with you once they find out. I'd encourage anyone dealing with this to draw a line and ask them clearly if they will simply accept who you are. If they can't or try to worm an explanation as to how they do "really love you", even though they they believe you're "living in sin", you're better just leaving them behind. It's just trauma and a burden of a guilt-based system that is not benificial to your personal growth as a person. Leave them and find friends that will actually care, accept, and love you for who you are. People who bring out the best in you and don't try to make you into their image.

[@crispytofu9528]

@@vinnycastro7101very well said yup.

[@ActionScripter]

@@a.e.1502 100% certified truth right here. I've been on both sides of this dynamic and you will never get anywhere while the religious types are performing religion at you. If you can't get them to drop it and treat you as a person, leave and don't look back.

[@eyegnieesllA]

Imagine they did put fake names in the story but Maya somehow says the real names lol

[@insomniac9428]

Was low-key thinking this!

[@inverted6033]

I love advice/listener mail type stuff in podcasts. Loved this episode

[@AlliSinned]

I hope that our fellow trans girl gets herself in a better situation. Love to all my queer friends

[@JinxHyena]

Feel so sad for that person.

[@BuffiestFluff]

Yay for religious family members.

[@TissueCat_]

if its something you'd want to do, you guys should def have a reacurring segment like this where viewers send their stories, and maybe each one is a different theme. great episode as always ❤

[@CoyoteKate22]

Thank you for showing this to the masses

[@misolaneous]

21:07 "I'm a mountain biking vampire witch from the future!" - Katya

[@x3dfritz0]

"Prezoh Doesn't Deserve The Gays" should be on a shirt lol

[@dylan6356]

this really makes me want to join the patreon to catch all the episodes ive been missing on there please do a relationship version of this love the drama

[@AudenGriffin]

This should totally be a series!

[@315peaks]

This was a great idea for the pod, I think asking viewers to send stories could be fun, even just to laugh or give advice. Also, sending love to the fellow trans viewers, you're all so fucking important

[@MFour5507]

Maya looks so gorgeous with this minimalistic looking makeup

[@Sunshine-cc7hq]

I thought I had a bad holiday season, I hate how hard holidays are for everyone. My heart goes out to you all and I hope you get what you need from Christmas.

[@Misvie.]

Just wanna say I am 33 and I am by far the hottest I’ve ever been. Don’t let qts low self esteem fool you! Women in their 30s are the hottest!

[@wengeance8962]

nice

[@aramdosworld5428]

All the juice in this podcast leaves no need 4 wine.

[@heykalei]

was just gonna cue up some music to play while i clean and got the notification there's a new wine about episode. yessss my fav 😊

[@hollym4592]

but how did gina know where all the dishes went in the kitchen when unloading the dishwasher? that makes me anxious thinking about scrambling to put them away

[@CrazyCatMan13]

Omfg that puzzle story and then the puzzle reveal is actually insane.

[@omgifoundnemo6412]

I loved this episode, if the patreon episodes are like this then I’m missing out

[@RetiredRobot]

Dude, the dads sad creepy friend totally burned the house down

[@DaGoon_]

The Wine About It experience is gossin wit the gorls and involuntarily saying THINKABOUDIDT and every variation whenever you hear the magic words

[@ChunkTheEditor]

To the person in the second story - it gets better. Hopefully you have friends to support you ❤

[@rbysparks]

yes please do a relationship version of this drama i’m so ready for it

[@maddieshutup]

I hope that trans person in the second story finds people who are better than her family, I obviously have not experienced the same things exactly but I can understand that feeling of being treated as other from people who are supposed to be there for you

[@samilovee]

13:58 - 14:10 never knew this was the motivation i needed to become famous

[@Magstarcutie]

I'm glad you guys made this youtube one instead of patreon i love hearing everything

[@JoshDoingLinux]

I feel like I missed something about one of the stories prior to the bit about him “not knowing if he wants to be in a relationship “ because at that point I was on qt and mayas page in thinking “yeah break up with him”. But prior to that bit it felt like she was making unreasonable demands telling him that he needs to drop “I love you” by thanksgiving, and that just screams insecurity (maybe not the right word). My main point is if you have to set a deadline for that, maybe the problem wasn’t him, but her? For some people that’s a major step in a relationship, and a deeply fearful time for someone. I’ve seen people (and myself) drop that word and then just immediately get shut down. For further clarification after he wasn’t sure he wanted to be in a relationship anymore then yes by all means break up with him, but setting ultimatums for the “I love you” is a bit toxic imo.

[@JinxHyena]

Loved this episode , very emotional.

[@itstyqk]

A PATREON ONE TOO IM SO HAPPY!

[@DarlingsOrgans]

Them reading off the trans screenshots, my family is the same way. They are all super conservative and they want the queer community to basically die. I don't have any allies within except my younger sibling. But, I'm glad that i have great friends. Me and my sibling just don't talk to our family, we both chose our own! We're each other's only biological family I totally get the humor of "family sucks but it is what it is!", the shock on their face kinda made me realize that, wow, we shouldn't be disrespected like that. Transphobia to me now is just funny, i find it sad when people try to purposely trigger me

[@laluna333]

begging you to do a relationship drama episode because i will have a novel for you 🙏🏻

[@NoriegaL]

The last story really seems like an outside looking in perspective. My cousin married at 20 and she is a stay at home wife (recently mother) and against every one advising her not to rush into things it’s what she’s always wanted. While I may think it’s a weird and cringe dynamic for couples to have (the gender roles of provider and home maker) if she’s happy that’s all that matters.

[@link6913]

Prezzo catching strays

[@gaguto]

"robert" has the emotional maturity of a rock, probably why he had sketchy relationships, but the girl saying I love you and pushing him to say it back is CRAAZZYYYY, what does "i love you" means when someone is saying because of pressure ? she has ALOT of maturing to do as well

[@tgg_music2]

I'm friends with the woman Maya's talking about around 25:47, this is a full circle moment for me for two very different worlds colliding..

[@mel.bon12]

My brother is the same way as that girls brother, I call him out all the time. And call him my dad which is a huge insult considering my dad left us lol. But I think as siblings you should be able to be honest with them.

[@drewmichaels2652]

1:37 sounds like one of the seasons in Love is Blind

[@davidfuentes1414]

Great episode. Glad it’s on KZbin. Might actually sub. Preach Maya at around 35 mins I was clapping

[@gentleshadow1]

WHAT MAYA SAID AT AROUND 34:00, TRUER WORDS HAVE NEVER BEEN SPOKEN JFC

[@PlantBasedLaughter]

I am only at the beginning of the episode where you talk about the Married at First Sight Franchise. They are big yikes. They have had multiple law suits over mismatching people for drama. I believe in NC, one of the women was unable to get a divorce from this truly awful guy because he is scared for himself. I hope she was able to get it by this point, but she spent so much emotion, money, and time into the situation.

[@rubydeslaurentez9191]

yippeee wine about it wednesday!!!

[@kayzoomin]

Love how QT says "love thy neighbor" twice and realizes she's religious 😂

[@user-zx9xc9cn8f]

As another trans girl with a not very accepting family i feel so fucking bad for that girl

[@BluFui]

I always say if your relationship feels more like a movie, or a dream then its probably time to reevaluate it

[@tashaberg1906]

Love the podcast! It’s helped a lot and you have great advice! Dont worry we won’t come for Johnny! we love thy Neighbor :) 😂💖

[@connorwestcott]

Ain't no hate like Christian love

[@Fleshdeficiency]

So suffocating.

[@gerechjorney5547]

this is so random but sometimes qt voice sounds so similar to Lumpy Space Princess from adventure time, like in 45:11 'save gina from your brotheerr'

[@omfgjaron4467]

QT reading that Bible verses and having some serious feels.

[@bananawammabama]

Girl you made me look for the Netflix show you were talking about for SO LONG because you said it was actually called "Why Not" and either way I have to switch my VPN to American Netflix but thought I'd try to at least look it up first lol.

[@K1ngisar]

Best podcast out there! I wish the best!

[@phshgaming5281]

ok the southern girl and they brother that could totally be a consensual dynamic they both want and we shouldn't assume otherwise

[@loky2798]

as a child of divorced parents too thats sooo fcking true... ive reached an age where im finally starting to consider my self as an adult(that quarter life crisis be like 🤪) and looking back at my childhood and teenagers years... im like bro i dnt fcking care what went wrong between yall... yall were grown and shouldve known better😂 and they damn should... nothing felt better than recognising that and allowing myself to feel that anger

[@davidcook8236]

Great podcast, I came from fear& podcast and this Is such a vibe it’s my new favorite

[@PewDiePieFqn56]

Great format !!!

[@HellyeahRook]

QT thank you for being vulnerable, same for Maya.

[@simonkemfors]

Loved this episode! I hope everyone who sent in their stories are doing okay...

[@krywhal]

love goes out to the trans woman that wrote in. yet again trans women are incredibly strong people. hope her family settles and can come to unlearn their biases

[@wellz9532]

At minute 1:00 Qt makes a very good impression of Bella Cullen.

[@mirandah.2714]

The story of the “dad’s sad creepy friend” I’m 80 percent sure is my father. Our house burned down and he always complains about who owns land and is a pathological liar and narcissist who did indeed try to kill his wife.

[@iamFracture]

Audio listeners Maya's bangs are surfin 😎

[@Wiiansym]

Just now realized I forgot to answer about my family drama 😭

[@notsowisegirl]

this is my first ever time listening to the pod but maya looks really good with orange hair

[@missymidnight]

33:29 being a 17year old watching this podcast 😭

[@gracielablanco5975]

The guy from "dad's creepy friend" is a depiction of my dad. Wonder why I don't talk to him anymore

[@calvinhuo6668]

is this the usual for your wine about it patreon? tbh i think it's really juicy, love it, thanks for putting this up here

[@serdna102]

Audio listeners both qt and Maya look really pretty today

[@MegaAwesomeguys]

Bao was such a cute short film too, do watch if you guys never did. 😊

[@MalphasMikaelson]

3:54 Yes, but that's with make-up. I had to Google more pictures because I needed more information. I also saw he got a girlfriend now because he's divorced already and she is an upgrade for sure. But looking at many different pictures I can tell that Johnny was more attractive than Bao. And I'm not saying Johnny is attractive but compared to Bao, yeah I would agree with it that he was out of her league, looks wise at least.

[@mirandah.2714]

The story of the “dad’s sad creepy friend” I’m 80 percent sure is my father. Our house burned down and he always complains about who owns land and is a pathological liar and narcissist who did indeed try to kill his wife. None of his children speak to him.

[@nameinprogress2698]

wish i actually submitted a thanksgiving story, every year is crazy

[@madisonrios5585]

this episode has convinced me even more to invest in the Patreon soon as a Christmas gift to myself:) LOL

[@corro202]

Amazing podcast.

[@mortemwentbang]

please do a relationship advice episode I really need it rn

[@jamesk1ng665]

I'll always be ready for a another wine about it episode!

[@Shibanuwu]

There should be more of these

[@squigs4824]

dude I wish I had this podcast at 17

[@jasonjavelin]

Damn if this is a patreon ep I’m gonna have to sub to that shit post haste

[@dih0106]

There's some internalized misogyny with thinking you're only hot at like 23 😭 A lot of women are hotter in their 30s. Also bigger hips are good lol not that clothing manufacturers have gotten that memo

[@Phaereis]

the dad's creepy friend sounds so similar to my own dad its uncanny. besides the mom in the house fire and inheritance of the property. otherwise, uncanny. needless to say all 4 of my siblings and i have gone no contact with him lol.

[@CommandoMiniclip]

On thr topic of the johnny and bao situation, how exactly should he have worded his dislike of her excited "childlike" personality without hurting her self esteem? Ive run into issues before in the past where i get like a ick with someone and idk how to voice it without being rude so i may make a offhand comment about it but its not direct enough ig and goes unnoticed. Like i understand ppl are born being who they are but how do you voice your own needs and wants without sounding like the bad person

[@sharknadofartquake2449]

Johnny probably has a small WANG so Bao can do better. A favor he did her.

[@naln7426]

21:00 now thats a Katya fan

[@anxietysalsa7643]

God I wish I had Maya and Qt tell me to leave my toxic ex when I was 18... 2017-2019 were years lost to a pos 😪😪

[@Ph0enix7373]

Everyone love thy neighbor! 😂

[@yusha5728]

I think Gaga's boyfriend told her she will never make it as an artist and she replied something like one day you will see my face on billboards

[@pounceysilverkitten]

I enjoyed this.

[@Redsomethingsomething]

This is my first time watching. Are these livestreamed somewhere or are they recorded offline?

[@MrDummyisDumb]

Just wanted to say, don't know if it's the Thanksgiving break, holiday spirit, or voodoo witchcraft...but both QT and Maya are looking extra beautiful this episode

[@paxman192]

Also cool that QT watches Sofia Elizabeth

[@WilliamSt.Clair1399]

Frankly the success rate of this is tremendously higher than most shows right? Isn’t there like one couple from Bachelor/Bachelorette that are still together over a long time (just meaning like they are like actually beyond the like popularity and actually living real lives again).

[@mayurmadiwalar2157]

what happened to qts eyebrows?

[@shamilton1990]

Lesson for today's episode:, love thy neighbor whether you're religious or not

[@KLil37]

So if there's no wine is it just about it?

[@mustafaaziz6731]

Hey welcome to SSRI about it

[@maccamachine]

Hell yeah new episode