Binders, Packers, & Underwear

[@Jammidodger]

Hope you enjoyed the video guys! Thumbs up if you want me to be your trans dad 😝

[@VBArtPlace]

Trans Dad™

[@vincentcole5706]

Jammidodger you already are my trans dad

[@vaughendustries]

TRANS DAD

[@starbittenpixieboy]

I've adopted you as my trans dad. I am now your trans baby boy

[@Ahlis369]

I’ll be your trans son. 😂

[@shirojoong]

One day I was trying on an old shirt to see if it still fit me, it was a bit tight and I asked my mom “Does it look too tight?” And she said “Yes, and your chest looks flat” She meant it as a bad thing cause she doesn’t want me to “hide my chest” but I was happy cause that means my binder is working haha

[@ksy1111]

Man this is a mood

[@rainbowpanic5632]

Is Jae your bias? And my mom would totally say that to me too

[@veronicasardo76]

Wholesome

[@thecreamylad]

@@veronicasardo76 ish

[@lievdotpng]

ö

[@Hh-sp3fh]

*A S E L E C T I O N O F P E N I S E S* -jamie raines 2018

[@ethanp2889]

LittleLionHowls *claps*

[@joshuadunsdrumset5402]

LittleLionHowls pack n pee

[@Arthur-yf9yv]

Very bad monsters are on the first floor. They have TWELVE PENISES! * wiggles fingers *

[@immaggiethesenilegoldenret7918]

LittleLionHowls Yessssss...

[@Froggypants-x_x]

i just officially changed my name to liam and my gender to male. I’m so happy 😁

[@alexinamumin]

Liam is a reaaallyy nice name!!!

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

congrats!!!!!!!! nice name btw

[@assassinscreedreallifepran1080]

...I can't choose between Aiden and Edward... which one should I pick, lads?

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

@@assassinscreedreallifepran1080 what color is your hair?

[@assassinscreedreallifepran1080]

@@alexanderfelixmathewson9533 Black. I also have black eyes...

[@VBArtPlace]

Best Trans Dad™

[@GNfae]

V. B. Art send him a mug for Father’s Day

[@VBArtPlace]

And I'm older than Jamie. But he is still the best Trans Dad™

[@VBArtPlace]

@@GNfae I was thinking a tie with dinosaurs wearing 80s pop fashion gear, like slatted sunglasses, slap wrist bands, zoot suits, and punk mohawks. I wish he had a PO Box lol

[@GNfae]

V. B. Art what?! I didn’t know he didn’t!!!

[@VBArtPlace]

@@GNfae I know! We need to accost him and Shaaba to get one!

[@kalakakku7749]

Just got my name legally changed this week. I am so happy it hurts!

[@Jammidodger]

Congrats! :)

[@patashnikelroy]

kalakakku congrats friend!

[@grey7251]

congrats very happy for you

[@isacl5042]

Buying men's underwear was the easiest part of my transition because a couple of years before I realised I was transgender my mom bought me a pair of men's boxer briefs as a joke (idk why) and said that I at least could wear them at night. After wearing them a couple of times I started to really like them and asked my mum to buy another pair and since then I've only wore boxer briefs.

[@samthedystopianrat1945]

Thanks Jamie. This really does help since I mean, I'm a 12 year old at an all girls Catholic school and when I leave I need to be prepared. This means a lot, so thanks.

[@JO3YSworld]

Sadistic Goat stay strong my friend!

[@tanalicia1057]

All the best !

[@cyrrender]

You probably won’t need all this advice when you grow older. Trans at 12? Eh, unlikely. You do you, but don’t make choices you’ll regret later on. I had a similar case when I was a little around your age. You’re probably just very tomboyish, or going through puberty, which means lots of changes in mind and body. You might feel out of the box now, or believe you’re, uh, trans or any other gender the Internet provides, but give it a few years, you’ll look back and be surprised at how much you’ve changed, or cringe at your past beliefs and/or watch history... Consider coming back here when you’re older, when your brain is more stable, or something of the sort. In any case, good luck. :P

[@amypatterson9073]

@@cyrrender Just because this happened with you doesn't mean that this applies to everyone. Even if you don't believe they are trans at least be respectful and keep your opinion to yourself. Many trans people know from a young age but even if they are a trender or just confused it's doesn't mean you have the right to be rude to a child you dont know over the internet

[@cyrrender]

Amy Patterson Now now, where did I disrespect them or be rude? I was just advising them. Children shouldn’t exactly be on the Internet nonetheless, but I guess it’s normal to be now. People younger than 14 tend to be easily influenced by things on the net, and they themselves start believing in things that aren’t really... Alright, I feel like if I go on it’ll lead to misunderstandings. I meant no harm, I was just giving advice. Adolescence is a period of tremendous change, after all, and constant change, that is.

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

*Thank you.* Far too many people neglect to mention how *not* to bind. I totally understand the desperation behind binding, but it is not worth permanently damaging your body in the pursuit of a streamlined chest.

[@pmbluemoon]

I have to add, I'm overweight FTM, and since you can't see my "package" anyways, I choose not to pack, I have enough "down there" to make it look like I have a package anyways. Slim trans have different issues than "fluffy" FTM's, and I actually had to go find my "niche" in the online community for "hefty FTM's" and have found lots of support if there's anyone out there who needs any sort of that support (By no means am I trying to offend you or any slimmer individuals, but there's a whole other set of issues being overweight with surgeries, prosthetics, binders and such.) HUGS to you Jammie, and thank you for this video!!

[@ghostpandatwin2054]

This may sound stupid but it's so reassuring to see that there are other "fluffy" FTM's like me

[@pmbluemoon]

@@ghostpandatwin2054 We're a bit harder to find, but LOTS of support, extra care tips, and places to find larger sized stuff to help with transition :) I like any fluffy/hefty channels as well to gather some extra resources and info.

[@reggiepollock4669]

This might not be the time but A hefty ftm A *heFTM* _HEFT - EE - EM_

[@pmbluemoon]

@@reggiepollock4669 I like heFTM :)

[@ewenconquet6842]

Also : you probably wont be able to find gc2b bimders in your size (at least I dont) but underworks has a larger selection of sizes. Oh, and long briefs (like the "im an old brit dude" underwear") often are better for larger people cause they dont cling to the thigh at all and often come in larger sizes (i got charles wilson ones from amazon, 6 for like 15€ and that's cheap af for the quality) ! Also you may want to get a longer binder because tri tops binders tend to roll up the chest when you've got a bigger stomach, so it's going to hide better + it also hides the hips a bit !!

[@underscorenoah]

ah yes, binding. it helps me flatten my *t* *r* *e* *s* *t*

[@underscorenoah]

@Cam Morrison w-what?

[@youngbutretro4228]

@@underscorenoah this other guy is transphobic

[@theagaram9581]

@Cam Morrison Excuse you, Cam! Sod off!

[@Hebi_1412]

Cam Morrison Some people would rather have them flat.

[@nekothecat8418]

@Cam Morrison not everyone want breasts, they could be trans males or just dont want them, you can't force someone to something they dont want to do.

[@spooks4421]

Me @ Jammi: "Dada?" Jammi: "BOY DO I LOOK LIKE-?!?!"

[@elias.3219]

Ik what you mean but his name is spelt Jamie he’s talked about this in a video that his KZbin name isn’t how you spell his actual name.

[@BreadDisposal]

Me, a cis woman: ah yes a perfect video for me

[@BreadDisposal]

Brett Wagland yes..? But specifically I’m Cis

[@supremeoverlord0]

@@BreadDisposal Haha, yeah, same. Although, I might be getting these things recommended to me because of searches where I'm essentially like "being a girl sucks." I've never gotten used to it, but I wouldn't want to be a guy, either. I'd rather be an formless amoeba-like blob. But yeah, other than general discontentment with my existence, I don't get anything like dysphoria. I just think being a fleshy human sucks.

[@angel_wolfie8235]

Yep

[@cyansalvatore6011]

@@supremeoverlord0 Then I present to you r/voidpunk.

[@supremeoverlord0]

@@cyansalvatore6011 Haha, just looked it up. I've always joked I'm an alien. I like their style.

[@toastmcbreadbin6956]

let's be honest, jamie is the trans dad to all of us

[@weirdgenes9820]

Dear jamie, im not sure if im transgender but i wanted to know more about it so i looked it up. I saw your videos and they really helped me understand the different aspects of everything and im so thankful. You have made me feel more comfortable with the fact that i may be transgender and may not be. Im only 13 and still trying to learn about it and how i can be more supportive in the community even if im turn out not transgender. Thank you so much jamie, i love you, and everything youv done and im proud of you for who you are.

[@_kismet_]

I'm really sorry for asking but can I ask how you're doing know? I'm in a fucked up state in my life because I think I'm trans, but I'm really scared I'm just an influenced teen because of the transphobes. If you don't want to answer you don't need to.

[@yvonaamariaa]

OK this might sound weird but I'm a 67 year old straight Gramma and I came upon Jaime and his transition vids a couple of months ago. It is April 2021 now. I've got to say, I love this man!! He is so much more confident than in his first vids. I haven't watched every one but enough to know way more about the trans community ( I don't know if I said that right???) than I knew before watching him and his journey. He is a real man with real feelings and is now in his authentic skin. luv him!!

[@user-tw8bh5bn1m]

It’s official that I’m trans as of yesterday! Changed my name to what I would be if I was born male. This helps so much!!

[@jujubeebles5079]

My only problem with boxers is that I'm constantly running out of them. So when my dad says "why do you need another couple pairs, I just bought you some" I have to explain that it's because satans sacrificial waterfall comes at the worst times and likes to ruin them.

[@cardinnairn6345]

Elijah Mortensan hey, if you get to them intime and rinse them with cold water, it works really well.

[@kainovember]

I wear tampons and also (sadly) just wear girl's underwear during that week.

[@allowmetointervene]

Hey! Some advice is wear pad-holding or underwear you're not afraid to get messy, then put some boxers on top of that!

[@reverb6494]

Wearing black boxers would reduce stains if that’s your problem. (Thats probably obvious and if you already do that then why does it still cause you problems?)

[@Arthur-yf9yv]

I've only got 3 pairs and I'm scared to ask for more tbh. I've done a bleed in two of them but they're ok.

[@basslut1948]

I’m a transgender male and I went to the store to buy boxers and felt kinda awkward buying them. When I tried them on they felt so weird. They’re tight around my thighs since I have big thighs and hips, which really suck for me since I want to be seen as male. But I do feel really confident and happy in my boxers and I love it

[@mywither7878]

Ok, amab here, I have very big thighs and hips, have had comments on having "a fat ass", and still seem like a cis guy in spite of it all. I haven't started any HRT or the like, so you're probably being more conscious about it than you need to, my friend. Don't get in your own head too much, stay safe, and live your life how you want.

[@raviosolaire]

baby trans here(nonbinary trans masc)! my friend bought my first binder for me, and my mama bought me boxers! my mama is buying me another binder soon, and I'm really happy. I still get misgendered and deadnamed by other people sometimes, by my mom corrects them, and it's not very often. my hair is nice and short, and I feel like I look masculine.

[@bunnymeeks6490]

I came out to my school today, well more of one person who wi change my info to my perfered name Owen, but I think you helped me do it a bit. If I hadn't done it, I bet it would have never happened. I normally get really nervous talking about my sexuailty or gender so I'm surprised that I came out. But I'm glad.

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

congrats! i hope you have intelligent classmates/friends

[@bunnymeeks6490]

@@alexanderfelixmathewson9533Only some are. Most were confused when my teacher said Owen so he had to say my dead name which I was ok with because I knew it would take time. He then said he was sorry after class which I said it was fine. But most of my classmates aren't that open and know what transgender means so I kinda have to explain it. But its better then being misgendered I suppose.

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

@@bunnymeeks6490 thats good, also your teacher seems nice, my would call jesus on me and call me satans spawn

[@bunnymeeks6490]

@@alexanderfelixmathewson9533 oh I am Satan's child so meh. Hope good things happen for you too

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

@@bunnymeeks6490 i mean same but whtvr, and thanks!

[@emmaw944]

I have to say gc2b are so helpful, my child needed a binder, if you contact them and send measurements they will advice what's best, and so safer. They were so happy with it and it fit them well. As a side note we resurched this together and they don't wear it on pe days!

[@joojimaikeru]

you are such a good mother/father/parent ^^ i might ask my mom to get me a binder from gc2b hope all works well!

[@enbyishimaru]

If you're our trans dad, is Shaaba our mom??

[@suzannepaxton6087]

I'm okay with them being my parents.

[@suzannepaxton6087]

@@standup2982 drag is an art form & trans is everyday life.

[@suzannepaxton6087]

@@standup2982 if you want to educate yourself about transgender individuals and gender dysphoria please read a DSM, you can find copies at your local medical library or you can download a eBook for your kindle, if you continue to have doubts about transgender individuals being real please forward your questions to the head of the American Psychiatric Association. Bless your heart and you have a Happy Thanksgiving!

[@suzannepaxton6087]

Educated* 🤣

[@En1gm4t1c]

@@standup2982 Did you really just say you were "education?" you don't sound very educated to me.

[@bookwermofthefandoms]

3:40 you know what, I'm so glad i have my headphones on right now. What a Perfect line

[@Arthur-yf9yv]

Me: * winces * Friend: what's wrong? Me: I got boxers and they ride up and they're literally in me. Friend: * backs away slowly *

[@whatthefrank5941]

Same i'm wearing boxers and I get wedgies every single day

[@theagaram9581]

How does one prevent that? I get wedgies with womens underwear too...

[@Arthur-yf9yv]

@@theagaram9581 idk prayer? Lmao me and my huge ass haven't figured that out yet...

[@sam-the_royal]

@@Arthur-yf9yv 😂😂😂😂

[@Nik-ny9ue]

@@theagaram9581 Briefs. Just briefs

[@justcallmejayd]

I’ve been super gender dysphoric recently and watching your videos help me a lot ❤️

[@rodentia1474]

When I first had to start wearing bras I was confused for a second because “they don’t even flatten anything what’s the point?” And Then I remembered 😂

[@olivergullikson2080]

Hello! Fellow trans guy here. Just adding to the binder safety stuff, I was told by my social worker that after taking off the binder, you should lean over an cough super hard. Idk the science, but apparently it reduces some of the safety dangers

[@galaxychill9578]

arch your back or hunch over ?

[@mywither7878]

@@galaxychill9578 Being only an engineering student, I have a limited base of body mechanics, but here's my thoughts. probably tummy inward, going more towards pike rather than hollow position, like an old man hunching over. My reasoning: doing so makes it easier for your diaphram to push the air out with a full cough rather than a stifled one when leaning back and this is a prosition coughing usually puts one in anyways. Now, for my theory behind the cough itself : I'm gonna guess one coughs to loosen up any locked muscles to then open up freely once again when you breath in.

[@Andrew_Young]

really digging your short beard!

[@ivyrose5153]

Andrew Young I thought this said bread and I was so confused how we went from underwear to baking hahah

[@aciddrinker2194]

@@ivyrose5153 same tho.

[@MetalGearEnthusiast]

@@aciddrinker2194 you evolved to a half mustache....i'm proud son

[@username_773]

@@ivyrose5153 same i was confused as hell lol

[@sludgeparty]

it's a little stupid how ridiculously gender affirming buying the "right" underwear is 😂

[@lostforever773]

Not only that, it can be more comfortable, even as a cis woman And of course, non binary and transgender people might/personally feel more comfortable, I agree

[@windcrystal1349]

@@lostforever773 A lot of (almost all) NB considering themself as trans. You dont have to separate NB people and trans people...

[@lostforever773]

@@windcrystal1349 not almost all, no One might be an umbrella term, but still

[@lostforever773]

@@windcrystal1349 so yeah,they are still different enough that I'm separating them the way I did

[@windcrystal1349]

@@lostforever773 a trans person is a person who disagree with the gender of his born. Every NB I know are considerating themselves as trans. Just one of them dont, but it's cause his parents asked to put the ''x'' gender on his paper, because he has XXY chroms, so he is cis NB, but if he didn't have the ''x'' gender, he would be trans. Anyways, I know that some dont, but I dont see in what a trans men and a trans NB are different... And please, less rude when you talk to someone ! I'm a person, I have feelings, I'm not a shit, so stop talking to me like if I was one, thanks you.

[@starbittenpixieboy]

I'm a baby trans I guess... *_DAD?!_*

[@jaypegasi3769]

Brother/sister?!

[@janetmissjacksonifyourenas2904]

Many Mind's System's Gacha bruh

[@janetmissjacksonifyourenas2904]

Many Mind's System's Gacha bruh

[@veronicasardo76]

P R O G E N I T O R ! ?

[@theagaram9581]

Sibling??

[@kristophjj17]

I'm the W O R S T at remembering to take my binder off after 8 hours

[@PatheticManEnjoyer]

Kristoph J Same

[@galaxychill9578]

start a timer maybe? Idk

[@littledevilswickedworld]

Just like galaxy said, you could maybe use a timer. It's what I do and it really helps when you keep forgetting

[@michaellukas1183]

Set an alarm

[@obscure_munnerz6917]

so i go to an all-girls school and i wear boxer briefs under my uniform skirt and that really helps, so i definitely recommend that lmao

[@gabimitran7565]

Last time i was this early i was cis

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

same

[@Lia-py1qo]

i just choked on my water

[@leoyakafudy]

SKSKSKSKSKSKSKSKSKS

[@kainovember]

Same

[@ashton3499]

Lol

[@lewisB03]

Hello you are soooooooo cool and have helped me and I keep asking my mum for a binder but she is scared but won't let me explain to her. What could I do I have been feeling okay but my chest is the worst. Thanks 😁😁👍🏻😘😘

[@ssuperspidy5387]

Tell her it’s the safest way and it’s going to help you so much

[@mrjon4884]

Jamie! Before I thank you for this amazing video I wanna drop this: You look really good! Look at this fine looking, handsome, charming man!! Go you!! Now: I'm so glad you make videos like this! I JUST came out to my therapist after having been out to my friends and partner for waaaaay longer.

[@ALLTHEDRUGSFORCREATIVITY]

My mum is the only one in my family who knows I'm Genderfluid and I'm one of 6 so it's hard. Although my brother was trans so my mum understands fully. A week ago now I asked her for a binder and she did it super descritly! She's so supportive and amazing! :) Shoutout to my mum for raising 6 kids all on her own unemployed and having to deal with 2 of them not being cis!

[@youngbutretro4228]

@Cam Morrison you are the only one here that is cursed

[@wy0min9]

I came out 3 years ago and haven't started my physical transition due to finance 🙄🙄 so tips always help me cope 💓💓

[@cancermooncrone5810]

Cis mom here. I love your videos and courage to educate the world. You are a class act even in your underwear lol. Thanks for teaches us.

[@somedude172]

Packer hack: if you have an extra small mr. limpy, you can stick it in a sock and pin the sock to the waistband of your underwear. I usually cut out a hole for the actual shaft part to stick out so i can adjust it better, and i cut off the heel so its easier to pin. It works really well for me, and I havent heard of anyone else doing it, so just thought i'd share lol

[@TheOhhlookamonkey]

Very awesome "dick" hack, your ingenuity is impressive, great tip

[@elijahslayton2614]

Honey, you can be my Trans Dad any day!

[@etfs1fan603]

i’m sick atm and can’t do anything except watch things, play games or message people and i’ve been binge watching you, you always make me happy and this also help a lot.

[@vaughendustries]

I get my binders from Shapeshifters, they sell them in a lot of fun designs for Binders, and their binders are slip on.

[@starbittenpixieboy]

I just heard of them today. Are they comfy?

[@galaxychill9578]

* gaspe * the Name

[@Ray1624]

I shouldn't be laughing, but I just pictured a packer doing the inchworm down a pair of skinny jeans 😂 Love ya man

[@HAdams-bw4bq]

Good evening everyone who is reading this, I hope you all are having a good day!

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

thanks

[@assassinscreedreallifepran1080]

Nice

[@OK-hi5ym]

I just watched one your older videos and just the change in how you hold yourself and talk it’s amazing to see how just comfortable and confident you are in your own skin now. From baby trans to transdad

[@jacksonohno]

i’m getting my gc2b binder soon and I’m very excited

[@theozubek912]

I love this video, Thank you for making it Jamie!💕✨

[@piercedsiren]

*dudududududududu* *it's .. TRANS DAD !*

[@Slytherin88]

Hey, just wanted to say I recently started watching your videos and although it's all very confusing to me, I think you're awesome! Your videos are honest and obviously made from a place of love and respect. You're to the point, no punches pulled and I think you're an inspiration. Not only to other trans people but to anyone who might be going through any kind of judgement or prejudice from others who don't understand them. I'm just some random gay girl, I know absolutely nothing about trans people! But I just wanted to say, I respect your honesty and your willingness to share your experience with others and to try to educate them about this stuff. It's important and you're doing a great job so keep up the good work dude! :D

[@it5ybitsy35]

Thanks so much for sharing your experiences and your tips. I've just started my social transition and all of this is super helpful. I can't thank you enough.

[@polarisktut]

I’m 19 and figuring things out. Your videos are so amazing and helpful, thank you so much

[@kristinreynolds577]

Great video!! It’s very helpful for so many different people who are looking for different things! Have a great day!! Love from America!

[@alexanderryan7615]

I just got my packer today! I got the Masho Packer and just about to start T! Amazing vid!

[@GNfae]

Yooo I just heard that you don’t have a PO Box for fanmail!! What?! I need to send you some Fathers Day gifts!!!

[@charleston1789]

Jamie, just.... you're so freakin awesome. Thank you 💙 we are so lucky to have you.

[@alecwilliams1992]

I am claiming you as my trans father 😂❤️

[@frankslefttesticle3247]

Amazing Alec back off he is my trans dad 😂😂😂

[@SavageMinnow]

I’m glad young guys who are trans have a “trans dad” like u 🤘

[@thisisepic3052]

AAAAH YOU FEEL LIKE A PARENT GETTING ME READY FOR THE REAL WORLD 😭😭😭😭

[@charleynickson6543]

Thank you so much, this is so helpful, I have just come out and this helped so much ❤️

[@赤お兄さん]

i'm proud of you bro : ) remember there will always ppl who try to put us down but don't let them! you are worth so much my dude

[@oliveriscoolerthanu7834]

just remember guys, if youre having trouble being sure if youre trans, remember that being trans isnt about wanting to be masculine/feminine, think to yourself, say, it youre ftm, do i want to be a man or do i just like being masculine? its important to ask yourself this question because a lot of people get the two confused

[@IDK-hm6zu]

Well my question is my school is 10 hours in a day how am i supposed to take my binder off after 7 or 8 hours.

[@jbach1738]

Thanks so much for this video. I recently had my hysterectomy, and I have been researching online to celebrate with some new underwear that I won't be throwing away soon. I think I'll check out underwear expert. Thanks so much.

[@aciddrinker2194]

You are my DaAd, You're my dad! boogie boogie boogie boogie

[@bunnyday1473]

This video was posted ages ago but it's super helpful as I've worked with trans people at work (retail, shopping) and these sorts of things are important to know as it can help me to make things more comfortable for them by understanding.

[@Rachel-fi4sc]

Thank you. Thank you so much for putting in this much effort. The worst transphobia I have ever experienced was from a shop assistant. Thank you for going out of your way to make sure others don't have to deal with situations like that. Your kindness and understanding will mean the world to your customers.

[@bunnyday1473]

@@Rachel-fi4sc I'll continue to do my best, everyone deserves respect and understanding no matter where they are and I want to try and make sure that always happenes no matter where I work. I had one experience where I was helping a person who was mid-transition while they were in my fittingroom and I felt horrible as other employees in our store want to "get a look at them". I kept my girls busy keeping those other associates at bay but I wished I could have done more. I never saw that person again and I'm sure it's because of that incident, I'll always feel so horrible about it. I hope you never have a bad experience ever again and always feel safe and happy no matter where you go ❤

[@Rachel-fi4sc]

​@@bunnyday1473 That sounds like an awful, awkward situation! Thank you for doing something to keep that person safe. Hindsight is always 20/20, and it's much easier to come up with ideas when separate from the stressful incident, but if something like that ever happens again, would a threat of calling store security on the associates work? Because, that sort of behaviour is 110% not on, and there might be a good legal case for them a) acting inappropriately toward / perving on a customer, and b) misusing their privilege as employees to do so.

[@bunnyday1473]

@@Rachel-fi4sc honestly, it's something I would consider, sometimes you've just got to do something a bit more drastic when people don't listen and respect others. It's sad but it is what it is. Thanks for talking with me about this, I've always felt bad about what happened and wanted to learn so I can do better in the future and this has really helped, I hope I can do my best when it's needed 💚

[@Rachel-fi4sc]

@@bunnyday1473 Thank you for protecting that person as much as you could. Thank you for educating yourself to better protect others in the future. Having been on the receiving end of people like those unfortunate associates, I know how much it means to have people like you around.

[@alphabeticalorder168]

I came out last week and I’m leaving my all girls school soon to go to a coed college and I’m buzzin’ 😁

[@d-meth]

Tomboyx underwear is great. Looks like male undies but fit the female form. I had a hard time getting well fitting boxer shorts but managed; j.crew used to make great ones, GAP also has some (but sold as PJ bottoms). My beef with the men's undies is that the waistband ends up way too high on my stomach. Or the crotch part hangs halfway to my knees =/ Although now they make those "gay undies" (those micro briefs first showed up in gay stores, about 10 years ago tops) so you can go with those. Even companies like fruit of the loom make "low waistline" boxerbriefs now. "Back in the days" there were less options 🤷‍♀️

[@leovlogs7950]

im actually getting my first binder! its coming on Sunday im so excited!

[@leovlogs7950]

@@joojimaikeru yeah it has im so happy!

[@outmodedtiger]

I'm trans but no matter what I do I can't to pass as male in public because I have naturally massive hips and there's nothing I can do about it.

[@RoundSeal]

Me too, it's terrible. It makes trying to find underwear/trousers that fit an absolute nightmare. (Waist size fits, but it'll never get over the hips....or fits around the hips but it's so loose at the waist you can fit a battleship down your pants. sigh)

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

Would gaining muscle in your top half help balance it out at all? Or at least make your hips less obvious?

[@bobduncan9187]

I find large shirts and sweatshirts help hide curves

[@5hundredsixty8]

pro tip: in order to conceal a fleshy bulk, you actually wanna have the garment fit that area well, and then add more clothing bulk to the neighboring narrower body area!!! basically, its counterintuitive to add extra bulk to a zone you wish to de-bulk, so instead widen out your narrower zones to make your wide zones appear less wide by comparison! example: get pants that fit you perfectly at the waist to thigh zone with a straight/wide leg. also, upper body bulk is your friend!! tops and jackets with extra detailing on the shoulder area will add visual mass to that area and draw the eyes upwards (if you do that and add visual interest to the footwear department it can help make ya look taller too apparently)!

[@alexanderfelixmathewson9533]

@@5hundredsixty8 i can confirm that this works

[@butteredlampshade]

My binder is coming in 2 months! I'm really excited for when it comes through the mail! (Don't worry Ill try and not go over 8 hours and I'll try and take several day breaks)

[@赤お兄さん]

my binder is coming in in 2 months too! aah im gonna cry- im happy for youuu bro

[@butteredlampshade]

@@赤お兄さん aaaah im so happy for you too!

[@gnarls4480]

I'm a bb trans... honestly cant WAIT to get a binder..... also, love these videos. They help a fait amount.

[@mirandadewey9998]

My boyfriend used briefs for packing but his new favorite is boxer jock from under armour. He likes his a little snug so things dont shift around on their own. He recently got a new multipurpose packer and started using a harness. Binding sucks especially for those with large chest. Wish the USA would wise up and make it so he could get at least top surgery. No way we can afford it on our own.

[@jeffreysegal2065]

I enjoyed the underwear fashion show. As a cis male, i tend to have not enough in back and too much in front for most underwear, tho I have pretty good luck with pouch-front trunks. You should discuss the challenge of different proportions and finding clothes to fit.

[@valerienpops7176]

Thank You Jamie for all your advice and sense of humor you are just wonderful!

[@laradilley5572]

Cheap and cheerful 😂 From watching another KZbin channel, Being British: Joel and Lia, I learned that the word pants in the UK means what we call underwear in the US. I had not known that before. We use the word pants to mean like trousers.

[@laradilley5572]

Tony Mvr Are you in the Facebook group?

[@ezekiel5537]

In Canada we say gitch to mean (men's) underwear 😂

[@blue_jay31]

You have been so brave,thanks for tilling your story! All the best ?

[@trixxartarchive7705]

It honestly also makes me feel good as both me and my partner are trans soo we can understand soo when I need to tell them to take my binder off they understand. I got my binder from Spectrum and it is really good I feel soo much more confident.

[@lifenothingbutasong]

I misheard lucky dip... had to go back to listen again 😂 Love your videos Jaime.

[@frogspawn4302]

I am really digging your hair . its looking really good man

[@snailofkale]

Here we see a father trans caring for the young. Nature is amazing.

[@snailofkale]

First of all, it's a joke. Secondly, it's not bodily destruction. It's a highly controlled transition between genders. And thirdly, I'm not even trans?

[@ignis1594]

Yeah gc2b is wonderful

[@samhawley4130]

Just bought a binder, I got the size from my undergarment and t shirt size, I just tried it on... it is waaay too small it won't fit both my arms, my shoulders are too wide! Tried to do a DIY thing and cut one down the side, so I could attach velcro... no good! I just can't send it back right? I bought 2 and the other one I could sell on Ebay or something... just sad right now.. 😞😢 I was sooo excited, now I'm just kicking myself for hoping I was getting something right?! Any advice would be helpful, by the way my name is Randy 😉🙂😞

[@GaTraCos]

My zip up binder broke T.T and I can't find the seller anymore T.T

[@alecjones2360]

Thanks Dad !

[@ethanp2889]

Thanks for making this on my birthday my dude

[@MusingMoss]

Lol the hesitance with which you said Christmas 😂 Thanks for at least being kind of embarrassed about it

[@MistyRainClouds06]

This video had to be in my recommendations after wearing my binder for 7 hours straight without taking a break 😂 (btw it's my first time wearing a binder)

[@itsarubiks]

I got my first binder today from a thrift store aimed at the transgender community ( they have a 1st binder free program), I'm non-binary and I'd be lying if I told you I didn't start bawling when I saw myself in it.

[@aimeelouise4352]

Wow your hair looks fantastic

[@malingreaney-stasiak2837]

I got my friend his first binder for Christmas in 2021

[@3lli0]

Hi Jamie, I'm trans ftm, pre transition, and I've spoken to college about using the male toilets and I think I might be allowed to. I've never been in the guys toilets before and I'm quiet nervous and scared tbh. Any tips or advice?

[@elliotjakupcak4352]

Shay yeah that was a big change for me. Honestly, it’s a little anti-climactic. People don’t really care that much, the only thing you need to prep for is the uncleanliness.

[@kalakakku7749]

They generally don't have sanitary containers in there so bring a plastic bag to have in your back pack if you have a period.

[@elsiewilson1689]

Confidence is key - nobody will look twice if you don’t look like you’re nervous and out of place

[@FinchesFables]

Be prepared, men's bathrooms stink half the time.

[@sala509]

@@FinchesFables girls restrooms are pretty horrible in Miami I think it's a toss up here.

[@freddy9585]

I have been talking with therapists now about top surgery and I'm exited

[@joojimaikeru]

i hope you get what you are looking for !

[@izstarlightmoongacha4758]

Im non-binary and the part with the binders helped me out so much since i have really bad gender dysforia(i can't spell) and doing P.E at school was a nightmare like rugby,football and basketball(i don't run in them btw i just walk a bit faster when wearing it during P.E and the lesson is short anyway)it would be overwhelming for me but now I'm a lot happier when doing P.E at school.But anyway thanks for the tips and help. Edit: I'm still struggling a bit to get the binder on and off but my friends help me out of it and sometimes help me get into it

[@tracyblacknell3610]

As a Muma Bear to my trans son I have to say,Jamie I adore you xx

[@brooke4888]

anyone got any advice for wearing binders to school? considering it’s 6h and sometimes i’m out for a few hours afterwards.

[@wolfman75]

Thank You for sharing!!! Much Love

[@LUckybones25]

I don’t know why I’m watching this, being that I’m a regular biological male, but you seem like a great person Jamie!

[@user-on3zj3fs1i]

A binder sounds like my back brace except it’s suggested to wear all the time

[@kokichikomaeda1678]

My trans dad is better than my actual dad?😂

[@urboisammy2323]

SaMe??!

[@youngbutretro4228]

@Cam Morrison Jamie was born in the wrong body. He wasnt the gender he was assigned at birth. Biological sex and gender are two seperate things. Why is it so hard for boomers to understand that?

[@youngbutretro4228]

@Cam Morrison *bisexual man

[@krymsonuchiha14]

[@username_773]

right now im using an old pair of tights or leggings (idk which lol) and i can still breath normally it doesn't hurt at all and idk maybe this will help its helping me now as i save up for one. and the way you can it you can easily make the neckline wider or thinner so you won't see it through the neckline