BODY LANGUAGE Mistakes ❌🚷😎👀

Most people read your body language to decide whether you're likeable, trustworthy, and competent, among other things, within one second of meeting you.
"You may have heard that you only have a few seconds to make a first impression," says Bernard Marr, an author and global enterprise performance expert, in a recent LinkedIn post. But the truth is, the other person's brain has made up its mind (so to speak) about a you "within just milliseconds."
"Until we get to know someone," Marr says, "our brain relies on snap judgments to try to categorize the person, predict what they will do, and anticipate how we should react."
One way to hack this split-second judgment is to be aware of your body language, he says. Whether you're applying for a job, asking for a raise, or meeting with a new client, altering or being mindful of your body language can influence the other person's perception of you, and may change the outcome of the situation.
1. Crossing your arms.
This gesture makes you look defensive, especially when you're answering questions. "Try to keep your arms at your sides," Marr says.
2. Leaning forward.
It can make you appear aggressive. "Aim for a neutral posture," he suggests.
3. Breaking eye contact too soon.
Body language is an aspect of nonverbal communication where physical behavior is used (as opposed to or in addition to words) to convey information.
Body language includes:
facial expressions
posture
gestures
touch
the use of space
eye movement
It’s also known as “kinesics.”
Interpretations of body language vary from country to country, and from culture to culture.
It’s important to practice awareness of how your local culture interprets nonverbal cues so that you can prevent miscommunications from occurring.
Many nonverbal gestures are made up of different parts.
According to Barbara and Allan Pease, authors of The Definitive Book of Body Language, “The shoulder shrug is a universal gesture that expresses confusion. It has three main parts. Exposed palms show nothing is concealed in the hands, hunched shoulders protect the throat from attack, and raised brows serve as a universal, submissive greeting.”
The expression you make when delivering bad news, the posture you take while leading a meeting-these are all manifestations of body language.
We express and interpret these bodily signs without even thinking.
Try watching one of Charlie Chaplin’s silent movies.
See how his eyebrows move, and how his arms flail during particularly tense moments?
His body language pulls us deeper into the narrative-when he frowns, we frown. When he runs off, we lean back in anticipation. When he tilts his head back and laughs, we laugh along with him.
Practicing these nonverbal cues is an important aspect of business etiquette. In order to succeed as an entrepreneur or manager, it’s crucial to communicate effectively, with our words and body language.
What about remote work, where meetings are virtual? Body language still matters. Many of these body language guidelines apply even when you’re not in the same room with someone.
The Power of Body Language
Most presenters focus their preparation time on the words they will say, but research shows that body language accounts for as much as 55 percent of a message’s total impact. Meanwhile, your tone of voice accounts for 38 percent of the impact and your actual words for 7 percent.
This means that most of us are missing a big piece of the communication puzzle.
In her life-changing TED talk below, Amy Cuddy shows just how powerful body language can be. Not only does it change the way people perceive us, it also changes the way we perceive ourselves.
Touching any part of your face or neck is a low-power position (as opposed to the high-power poses mentioned above) and can indicate anxiety, nervousness or a lack of control.
One surefire way to lose your audience’s attention is to turn your back on them. Not only does it seem to send the message that you don’t care about what they think, it is also just plain rude.

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[@terminentzer]

Touching the face covering the mouth or any form of hiding like arms fully in pockets can be signs of lying

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[@TheProphesor]

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[@Kojin2001]

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[@NavyaSaini-creater]

Yes we know everything but we don't know how to apply it😕🙁

[@ario9995]

Arms folded doesn't show that you lack confidence. It's a self soothing mechanism that humans have, and doesn't portray anything other than that.

[@Dark_jb]

Who are introverts forget it😅

[@ParklLuna8214]

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[@arvindrathod5147]

Mujhe kya mai tho Introvert hu

[@Diyaa0942]

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[@Gautam-od1wr]

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[@rahuljethi]

Keep tone high and low is actually a way to engage audience. Depending upon the words we are speaking we should exaggerate it and speak louder while slower for some words. Its recommended not to have monotone

[@ashrayranipa2312]

Speaking in even tone might bore the listeners, changing the tone will help getting back their attention.

[@radharaha2870]

Really very much impressed by your tips and look! I want to share u one thing daily i work out aerobics after that what should we take pls advice bro

[@nitishsethi100]

Sometimes we have to accentuate our voice for good communication

[@PralaynathGendaswami]

Mujhe Ek trick batayi thi college me mere Campus councilor ne aggar Eye contact me issue ho to... aggar aap chashma lagate hai to thoda sa rigid frame wala chashma pehne us din aur (Yeh dono ke liye Aap chashma pehne yaa nahi) Dono eyes ke beech me- Jis area me Unibrow banta hai- wahan pe concentrate karen.. isse aage wale bande ko lagega ke aapne eye contact banaya hai... Smile rakha karen taaki aage wala uncomfortable feel naa kare, aur usi tarah se minute seconds keliye eye contact toden.. taaki, same reason, aage wala creep out naa kar jaye and Blink often

[@rajkumaar1999]

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[@impandu99]

you look like the formal edit

[@Seyanaghughu]

I was about to say this

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He is senior of him. He is one of the OG fitness KZbinr in India.

[@MRX-km9tg]

I thought the same

[@AveeKusmee]

Your voice is so confident & body language too ❤❤ Now a days I'm handling client face to face, & feeling good😊

[@ABHINAVMAHAJAN]

Wonderful!

[@strangerinsaan09]

My voice problem bad

[@MdMeraj-iw8uf]

But u looked so funny

[@gopu5124]

Close arms 😂😂😂😂 bhai tum Swami Vivekananda ji ka nam sune Ho? Unka favourite pose hai close arms.. unka confident pura duniya janti hai

[@OPTIMISTYT]

Op ❤❤❤

[@SANJAYGIRI-ir8uy]

South India me arms close karna respect show karta hai, to kya we log low confident hote Hain। Just don't rely on theories.

[@UmarHassan.]

Formal edits jaise ho ap

[@STUCONTENT]

In this video bro you are use 50%60% word of English bro hindi me bola kro English bolna koyi fation nhi hai kyunki English to America ka bhikhari(bagger)bhi bolta hai

[@amandeepsingh6581]

3 advice is wrong tone fluctuation is good to have if you are speaking in monotone that's not good communication

[@rajadagur]

Bs eye contact ni ho pata

[@phenomenalone2013]

Yeah sir my dad taught me everything u said but most of these things I can't follow

[@Mikbha07]

Sab mere pass hai par meri awaj ni me thoda totla hu sab majak ban dete hai awaj ki meri 🥺

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[@Mikbha07]

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[@brijesh_vn2239]

or ager apme bhut Sara confidance hai to iske bina attractive lagoge

[@shieldshield7487]

Inmein se ek bhi quality mere andar nahin hai 😂😂😂😂

[@callboysofficial3439]

I thought he's formal edit

[@MYSELFZIA]

Hi bhaiya I am ziaudeen from tamilnadu how are you India

[@PizzaBox000]

Did not underatand a word, but I agree✊️

[@Cody49819]

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[@dont_talk2me]

Finding yahoo page in 2009

[@jaiipant]

Tonality is important bruhh you need to adjust your voice according to the word or the moment but i really appreciate the other ways you mentioned in your short but the matter if the fact is if you listen to any charming personality such as jordan belfort or any successful person they will guide you to adjust your tone

[@parampreetsingh7600]

You are more like formal edit

[@digvijayanathsingh5332]

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[@raziquex_razio]

Bruh never heard of modulation 🤌🏼

[@theinquisitivemind7525]

Confident people have these body language.people who learn these body language will not be confident.

[@simbasimba2735]

Fun fact: Paisa hai to kuchh krne ki zrurat nhi, uuunnn he sab kuch mil jayega....

[@mandarfitness]

Nice bro 😀

[@aniketgupta4407]

I disagree with the last point ...talking continuously with an even tone will make the speech monotonous

[@aayushkaushik9709]

Bhai aap amit mahajan ko jaante ho

[@mohanraina5213]

Ok 😂🤪

[@eduzoologyhindi]

Mai bhi dewangan hu bhai🥳🥳

[@anshuraj5734]

Is hand movement a bad habit during explanations or, even general talks ???

[@saddamhossain6003]

Thanks 🙏

[@yashgaming1275]

Apni posture sidha kayse kare

[@ABHINAVMAHAJAN]

Check my old videos. I have covered this topic.

[@piyushgamer9689]

Molisa he kya

[@010_FanG]

Voice wala nhi ho raha

[@SirGadwalls]

इस बंदे की टिप्स फोलो कर के मेरे तीन क्लाइंट्स भाग गए। 😂🤣🤪

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You looks similar with zlatan Ibrahimovic.

[@richardwastaken]

I have no idea what this man is saying but at least there are captions 😩

[@BlissU5]

There is nothing wrong in Voice Modulation.

[@radharaha2870]

Really very much impressed by your tips and look! I want to share u one thing daily i work out aerobics after that what should we take pls advice bro

[@LimeMoneon]

What did he say?

[@chuxks]

Aye!! can you repeat but, slowly?

[@netiknamdeo6710]

Voice modulation r very much helpful.....

[@vishalmohod6221]

Be smart,Be expressive than impress,be neutral

[@MichaelAfton733]

What

[@sahilghuman1744]

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[@BookofAsh]

Arms crossed is comfortable I like to cross my arms

[@Pakistani.Bodyguard]

hum ne to ghar mein he bolna hota hai bas uskay liye yeh sab jaroori nahi😁

[@yoyofans9300]

Bhaya jeb me paisa rupaya hota hai to ye sab language ka koi matlab nhi hai.😎

[@avijitkarmakar9893]

Ks😮

[@LfishL]

why do i love your accent so much?

[@rawvlog5402]

Same tips but different person

[@MehanRex]

Sir, do you know about voice modulation ?

[@VinayYadav-xz3dp]

Club ke bouncers kisi se baat nhi krna chahte arms cross krke khade rhte h 😭

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[@ABHINAVMAHAJAN]

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[@yashwantsinghpathania]

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[@rajansharmaish]

👌👌 please make video how to walk confidentiality

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😅

[@mintumurali4075]

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[@quotes_mind17]

Eye contact mere se hota he nhi hee🌝😁🤭

[@Rajatop]

Bro shirt kaha se karidtey go??

[@abdulmoiz00144]

The formal edit 2 😂

[@ElecAndAll]

Dhaniwadh

[@sumitradahal634]

Thanks 😊

[@pankaj_singh09]

Yes I learned this in PR development classes for defence

[@girrajsingh4094]

Okay right

[@ABHINAVMAHAJAN]

✌🏻

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Hello sir you are awesome

[@rockroy384]

❤️🔥‼️

[@saikatactor]

Thank you sir 🙂

[@WayMlbb143]

Sir Nice explanation

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Also abhinav❤

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Thanku bro

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[@mansoor8228]

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