Animal Crossing and (My) Mental Health

My mental health story and what Animal Crossing has to do with it.
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[@BoldlyWired]

I was individually replying to comments when the video was at 100 views, but it's completely blown up in the span of 3 days now (THANK YOU) and there's no way for me to keep up with all the comments so let me say this: Thank you to everyone who has shared their own story in the comments section. To keep things brief, I was really nervous putting this out because I was worried it wouldn't be relatable or as interesting as any other gaming video. But seeing everyone relate and have something to say about the video really warms my heart. Again, thank you. Stay well! I'm working on other stuff at the moment, and I hope you stick around for that! If you'd like to see anything specific from me, lemme know! Thanks again!

[@itsmemnmxd3701]

I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this with all of us. Personally I like hearing other people’s situations. In May 2017 my house had burned down and my mom was in the hospital for a while. People were trying to help us by giving us things or someone trying to give me food. I felt guilty for needing things from others or being given things. And then we stayed in an “apartment” at someone’s house, I had felt uncomfortable to even leave, I fell into depression. And I am still dealing with it. I still want to go back to Animal Crossing and have the memories of an easier time. What had helped me was Skyrim just being able to get away for several hours a day was amazing I didnt think about anything else while I played I got lost. I still have depression and night terrors about what happened but I feel as if games can help in a sort of way like you said wanting to go and do things when in real life you didn’t but you could in animal crossing, for me it was getting up and going outside in the reaches of skyrim.

[@itsmemnmxd3701]

I’m sorry I’ve never really when on like that anymore but I feel as if hearing other people’s experiences give me hope with dealing with my own.

[@gerlonggaul]

I wish you all the very best man. Good to hear you found something to remedy your situation. Hopes everything will get better

[@TheGreatMrKid]

Having been there myself, I totally relate to all of this. And the best thing I can say is that I'm proud of you for putting yourself out there like you did in this video. Also, don't worry about sounding cheesy! If you feel a way, truly and honestly, then don't worry if it sounds cheesy or lame to other people. The people it needs to reach, it will reach them. Good luck, bud. I'm thankful for you today.

[@haruhisuzumiya6650]

That was deep

[@cadetcosette8024]

I constantly reference Katrina “bad times are just times that are bad” it’s such a special game.

[@wuttiffleaf7651]

its kinda funny when she says that but if it makes you feel better when she says that then thats good

[@sirpsychosexy]

The fuck does that even mean

[@aikaterineillt9876]

[WUT] Tiffleaf I find it funny but also kind of dismissive, more of a black humor

[@wuttiffleaf7651]

@@aikaterineillt9876 yea

[@cake811]

Cadet Cosette in the german version she says "bad luck is just luck that isn't there" which i like a lot too🌹

[@miasakura1933]

10 years ago I literally named my dog after one of the animal crossing characters. No regrets.

[@jadew6795]

Is he/she still alive? I hope they are...

[@miasakura1933]

@@jadew6795 how nice of you😊. Yeah, she is perfectly fine!

[@jadew6795]

@@miasakura1933 aww! Give her a treat from me!

[@enthusi4st]

no regerts

[@abigailhyde2697]

@@miasakura1933 aw! Which character? They're all so cute

[@minesweeperlegend]

I remember playing Animal Crossing on the DS in elementary school and the most surreal moment was when one of the villagers were moving, her name was Ingrid (I can’t remember how to spell it). What was different about this was there was a girl in my class with the same name and she was dying of cancer. She and the villager looked pretty similar, mostly because the villager had sickly looking eyes. About a week after she died, that’s when the villager was have a moving away party. I attended the party, she said she was happy I attended and the next day she was gone. I just sat on my bed deep in thought, not knowing what to think or feel. Edit: I have been informed that there is no villager with that name (I played in the English version). I’m in college so this happened a long time ago so my memory may be fuzzed. I was nearly illiterate back then, so the villager’s name could’ve just had similar letters. The most I remember what the villager looked like was the they were gray, I think they were a cat, maybe wearing a pink dress, and had lines under their eyes (tried or sickly eyes). If I ever find my DS and AC game, I will check it out to find the truth

[@goldndrago3491]

Damn that's deep

[@flowercollector9013]

Whoaa...

[@Yolwoocle]

Damn...

[@Daltygaming2]

Dude I’m sorry that happened

[@TamerBekir]

This one hurts.

[@L-92761]

New Horizons couldn't have come out at a better time honestly its chicken soup for the soul in videogame form

[@maisiekxng]

L P yeah i wish i could afford a switch to play it

[@tifyuploo]

@@maisiekxng play the pocket edition its free in the app store on your phone

[@maisiekxng]

Terra Lim i play it, it’s fun but i’ve been playing for a while and i’ve achieved most of the game tbh

[@CanadianHorseFace]

I have to say Animal Crossing can cause severe diarrhea, just from sitting too long on the couch while you become this giant stagnant bag of shit ready to explode at any time.

[@SaddosAnarchy]

Pure truth

[@madidee1093]

This. This is why Animal Crossing is such a special game series to us and I'll forever buy it and play it, no matter how old I am.

[@schlubenno3827]

Can’t wait until the switch version comes out, I’m getting the switch just for it lmao.

[@Fractal_blip]

@@schlubenno3827 same

[@Jundesite]

Like that 87 year old lady

[@mahougesu170]

@*LA SHORE* I was five when it came out and not much older when I bought it (probably about six or seven). I still have great memories of playing it with my brother when we were kids. I don't have a Switch yet but I can't wait until New Horizons. I hope he buys it (and a Switch) too so we can play together.

[@saintsrowisntcancelledanym7099]

Yeah i'm so hyped for animal crossing New horizons

[@Samurai_Edd]

Animal crossing is not just a game, it's a masterpiece.

[@geno-cide6680]

Is an overrated one

[@dxxm9999]

@@geno-cide6680 Ironic that you want to use the word overrated while having Geno as your profile picture

[@SmashyPlays]

@Geno-cide heck off

[@cynrid8209]

@@SmashyPlays oh my God 👀

[@SmashyPlays]

Colton Anderson XD

[@tyree3774]

When he said “You sleep because....it’s nighttime.” I felt that on another level.

[@miezimauzi6545]

This is how I live at the moment... It is very... sad :[

[@horror_punk_gamer9932]

@@miezimauzi6545 I feel ya, see my comment I posted, 1st one on top in over a yr, never played AC but I feel it can be therapeutic to some degree, got it yesterday and stil haven't gotten myself to open it, HOPE ALL IS WELL

[@youcantbeatk7006]

im14andthisisdeep

[@youcantbeatk7006]

@Nylthanyr IV I made a reddit reference. Surely I'm nothing but a pseudointellectual incel.

[@starjones1]

For me personally, I've always been the one (in moments like those) where I instead would be going to sleep because I had nothing better to do anymore or because the sun was rising, so my family was waking up and I didn't want to interact with them or talk about how I was feeling.. I really didn't want to be a problem, and honestly, me doing that made me an even bigger problem because then I would be awake when everyone else was headed to sleep- meaning my noise would keep them up or wake them randomly in the night even when I was trying to be quiet.. It really sucks because you already feel crappy, and then you feel you can't even do something as simple as wake up or sleep without being an issue or like you can't do it properly... Makes the hole feel so much deeper..

[@kathrynb.kavanagh2621]

It’s been implied but no psychologist has ever told me straight up that I’m depressed, however I’ve been formally diagnosed with an eating disorder. Animal crossing pocket camp has this thing where around breakfast/lunch/dinner the animals get excited and begin to talk about their hunger, asking my character if they’ve had dinner, etc. In a time where the lack of regular routine (due to self isolation and being out of school) puts me on the verge of relapse, the random input from these characters is weirdly comforting

[@robin0135]

That's great! I hope you're doing well :) Good luck with your recovery I believe in you

[@maliaspoto992]

Animal Crossing came into my life around the same time my mother died. It was the time my three sisters and I would huddle together around our tube tv and spend hours in this bright, lively world where we could each be our own unique person. I shared a room with one of my sisters, and we started telling stories every night set in our Animal Crossing town. The story got bigger and bigger as we kept adding to the world. We'd stay up late, laughing so hard we'd wake up our little brother. Those stories we told sparked the books I'm writing now... And it's all thanks to Animal Crossing.

[@AromaticAromantic]

It's very eerie how much I can relate to this

[@lunar_chan4964]

Man this reminds me of the able sisters because their mother died too i feel sorry for ya man we all have been through some hardships but we atleast have soemthing to focus on to not think of bad things

[@ladyfoxwf1075]

💖💛💗 sounds like a golden memory

[@mahougesu170]

This is so beautiful. I would love to read your books

[@baijane.]

Mind plugging your book? 💖

[@HyunYa13]

Honestly it doesn't matter how cheesy it sounds. Video games can do so much for you, they can get your mind off of things, remind you of the important matters or even heal you when nobody else really can. Animal Crossing is such a calming experience, I'm forever thankful to the creators for making a game that helped me pick myself back up.

[@funeral6907]

I know I’m late, but the media is SO wrong about video games.

[@matthewstepanenko9540]

Unless video games are all like animal crossing I would dis agree, im pretty much a hardcore gamer right now and I’m starting to notice more and more that video games are just rabbit holes leaving you life empty and feel useless. You play cuz video games are addictive and when your done you feel like all that play time is for nothing, wasting your time and accomplishing nothing in real life

[@leowright2251]

@@matthewstepanenko9540 well video games are meant for fun and a little escapism; if you play just for accomplishment you won't find any and a lot of people play games sometimes to procrastinate something and this is also bad- video games are good if you're playing them in moderation and not expecting anything from them but entertainment, and then sometimes you'll be suprised at how peaceful or healing a game can be when you're just having fun- for me it was this game but also a game called night in the woods had a huge impact on me more recently

[@mamambooo3876]

I totally agree with you...when I saw ACWW I played it nonstop and now I have ACNL and yeah bc of school I don’t play as much anymore....that’s really sad...I wish I could be younger again...and play all day...:((

[@rollings2035]

Totally agreed. There's so many things games can for you!

[@yamil3x37]

I’m depressed. I have anxiety. And I just went through a breakup. He left me for someone else. And I feel alone. I’ve never played this game but I did purchase the new horizons before it release date, because i heard its very calming. It was recommended to me by a friend.

[@yamil3x37]

Chitose Game Thank you.

[@natcargill4804]

bad times will end, they’ve got no choice but to end. you will make it through sooner than you think. i’m right there with you and i’m hopeful for us both. hang in there, be gentle with yourself as long as you need to, and let animal crossing be there for you. we will get through this, i know it for certain

[@tasteslikecyanide1852]

Have you gotten Pocket Camp on your phone? It's a mobile version of AC and it's free. I hope you get to feeling better, bad times will always pass.

[@yamil3x37]

Tastes Like Cyanide Yes I have. It’s actually really calming, I really enjoy playing it. It gives me something to look forward to the following day

[@etherealelf]

I hope you really enjoy it!

[@TheSaganic0]

This is why Animal Crossing should never have micro-transactions. Thanks for your story dude

[@nifa361]

Animal crossing pocket camp: *sweats nervously*

[@toastthedino5267]

Enter Pocket camp.

[@thanos8641]

@@nifa361 pocket camp is the only one i play bc i dont have a switch or a DS. Oof. But i like pocket camp. It's good,

[@nifa361]

@@thanos8641 Hey Thanos, if you like pocket camp then all power to you, I don't thinks it's too bad a game for having in-game payments I've played it before and it's pretty good for a phone game , I was just saying that this game does have them. But animal crossing pocket camp ain't that bad glad there are people who really like it haha 😁.

[@pennythecatsalt4154]

@@nifa361 yeah I love how it's completely possible to play the game to it's full extent without buying anything.

[@vandythevandy]

I’m autistic and as a kid Animal crossing really helped me understand human relationships and gave me tips on how to connect with those around me by providing a way for me to “practice” with not-real people that certainly felt real to kid-me. It may sound dumb but it helped me learn how to get people to see I like them and enjoy their presence with minimal words (writing letters and giving thoughtful gifts). As an adult it helped me through big spouts of depression and pretty much everything you said in the video about it being something to look forward to every day. Seriously, having something to look forward to has saved my life so many times and when I don’t have anything it feels noticeably easier to just end things or self harm. It’s a simple yet detailed game and doesn’t cause any unnecessary stress or anxiety but still gives you the feeling of accomplishment from more fast paced games, if not more so because of all the time put into it. The villagers feel like family and the fact that your character doesn’t really talk much but is still so loved is so validating for people like me who have a hard time expressing themselves with spoken words when that is so important in real life society. It’s nice to feel loved and important just as we are and small deeds to show we care. It really is an important game for a lot of neurodivergent kids and adults out there :)

[@dylanellis4320]

This really touches on how I feel about the game! I'm not sure if I'm mildly autistic or moderately autistic but there's definitely something there and I have TERRIBLE anxiety so even if things start to go off the rails I can take five minutes out and centre myself with this wonderful game. It really is amazing and has helped me interact just like you said even if it's just learning how to convey complex notions in not a lot of words like the characters do! I can't describe how bad I am at human interaction and how much my mental health messes with me (it's nothing that makes life unlivable or anything it's just a MASSIVE hurdle that's constantly present) but I think how you described it is exactly how I feel as well!

[@vandythevandy]

Dylan Ellis yes!!! that is EXACTLY how I feel too!! I’m glad there’s someone else out there who feels the same way as me hehe I also struggle with really intense anxiety that can lead to meltdowns and without fail this game helps me root myself a bit even if I only play for a few minutes :’)

[@dylanellis4320]

@@vandythevandy Exactly! I'm glad somebody understands! Wish you the best with everything

[@rubyrubia9090]

[@soso1634]

I’m autistic too but just in a talking way but I got over it!

[@DeadlyTsuki]

I remember when I was younger I would have a favorite character and when they moved out I felt so sad and would cry lol...

[@timleijonmarck8988]

UwU

[@saintsrowisntcancelledanym7099]

@@timleijonmarck8988_ *No.*_

[@MyChristi123]

DemiTsukii same and now in my new leaf file I always tell my favourites not to move away when they want to LOL and after several months of not playing I’m always anxious to see if my faves left while I was gone

[@Flaurealis]

...Carmen

[@aury5836]

ME TOOO, it was Jet :(

[@jesseg.2413]

Animal Crossing was one thing that helped me keep going. When I was little I was lonely and bullied. I didn't have a single friend for over 10 years and my bullies asked me every Monday how I'm still alive and when I will finally do them the favour of killing myself. Animal Crossing gave me friends. I played it and felt save and liked around these animals. Now being 21 I am doing loads better. Still have ptsd (and was diagnosed with aspergers) but I've learned dealing with it and I cannot wait to play the new Animal Crossing without any severe mental issues. Thank you, Stitches, Cube and Julian. You are my best animal friends.

[@andthebanshees]

Jesse G. so glad you're doing better!❤️

[@jovanconey761]

❤

[@mrhoovy889]

:D

[@localnarcissist1270]

:)

[@youtubesfavoriteidot7714]

I have a similar story I was bullied ever since 5th grade and me not being able to socialize due to the bullying ,but animal crossing and my villagers helped me and they still help me (I played with new leaf and new horizons), with stress and online school, And animal crossing new horizons made me, my sister, and my brother a bit closer because we played with each other (we usually didnt hang out also wandavision did something similar with my family) Thank you animal crossing and my villagers from new leaf and new horizons

[@redacted5078]

Animal crossing seriously helps me with my anxiety, and now that im in quarantine cause of corona and my mental health IS suffering, im really glad i have it

[@lizmowrey9866]

Same

[@localnarcissist1270]

I'm going through the same thing, my eyes keep twitching and I keep worrying about the smallest things

[@Nonaaaame07]

Therapy: expensive Animal Crossing: Slightly less expensive (I think)

[@clintdona4586]

Noname The squid i don’t have a DS but does the mobile version count

[@Nonaaaame07]

LPS LunaKat uwu o o f

[@clintdona4586]

Noname The squid indeed

[@Nonaaaame07]

LPS LunaKat uwu and yeah the mobile version kinda counts because u still have to pay money (for the in-game purchases)

[@clintdona4586]

Noname The squid o yay, i still get less-expensive therapy :D

[@markerlee2231]

I always cry whenever one of my favorite villagers moves away, and some people always ask me why, like why do I cry over characters in a video game, it’s not like they’re real. I know they’re not real, but a few years ago when I had no one else to talk to, I talked to my villagers, and they helped me feel less alone. I have really bad Anxiety, talking to the characters in the game, listening to the music in animal crossing and just walking around, doing things at my own pace always calms me down. I feel this strong connection towards the game and the characters, because it used to be the only thing that was able to calm me down. Animal crossing will always be my favorite game, because it cheered me up when nothing else was able to do that

[@jekk2484]

This is one of the most relatable comments I've seen. I felt worse whenever a villager left, because it felt like I had lost someone that I connected with. Games like animal crossing, stardew valley, and others of their kind, help me feel less lonely, especially when it's so hard to talk to and connect with people when you feel anxious in any social situation. I feel the same way as you, and I'm sure other people do, so I hope everyone who has to deal with anxiety, depression, or any other mental illness, can find something to help them like this.

[@brynn1713]

Xuxi’s Hoe i know how it feels to have anxiety, I’ve had a disorder all my life and animal crossing has helped distract those anxious thoughts. I don’t think it’s weird to cry when a villager moves, there’s a bond between you and that character. Anyway stay strong through the anxiety. #spreadawarness

[@freya3024]

I cried when my best friend (in the game) moved away I was so sad and all I had was their picture

[@victoriasaez3970]

@@freya3024 same

[@edamame1443]

Baby

[@lizettejunjou88]

“Time was just there to indicate when it was time to sleep” ... that’s what I have been trying to put in words, thanks.

[@shepardcommander5174]

this hurts..

[@paigespencer3123]

For me, it's the soundtrack. The music is so incredibly soothing. When I feel like I'm losing control or find myself getting anxious, the music helps me calm down. It's such a special game.

[@Arikt5]

YES! The evening music on ACNL is such a calming music, omg

[@adamzapplezzz]

I think the creator actually created it for this intent, at least for helping people with loneliness. I’m so glad he did, this created my childhood. I blocked out so much of my childhood but I remember sitting down and watching my sister play Animal Crossing. Got ACNL later on for Christmas, and it’s helped me through a lot. While it didn’t save me through depression and self-harm, it’s always nice to go back to my town and say hello to Apollo, and feel like I have friends. I love games for the power they give; a reason to get up, a new life to live of sorts, an adventure to complete, and something to feel proud about in a way.

[@autbot6911]

Lemonysnicker i love apollo🖤

[@lilyp396]

Lemonysnicker Yeah, when I was about 8-10 years old, my parents were going through a divorce. I would regularly cry every night and animal crossing really helped me.

[@nickreynolds9745]

One of the safest things for me is animal crossing

[@idefk73]

I hope you’re better now/getting better :) animal crossing helped me too

[@mira-leeestella5337]

Lily, Elise, and Beau are my three favorite villagers because they were so kind to me at a point I felt I had no one. Lily was the first villager to give me her photo. I hope I can get them in my next town and remind them of our friendship.

[@sienna7904]

Docter: So what medicine do you currently use? Me: Animal Crossing-

[@aa-uf3bi]

"Hey mom, I need my daily dosage of animal crossing."

[@Thawah]

My medications: Trintellix Abilify Adderall And starting on the 20th, Animal Crossing: New Horizons 💞 Ok this was cheesy lmao

[@JoyxStyx]

My happy drugs are 4 hours of daily acnl

[@Cristasphoto]

Exactly for me haha

[@siennaluvskz]

What up name twin

[@killahcam8114]

I got my grandma animal crossing on the Nintendo switch and I never seen her more happy she has been through so much It makes my day see her happy playing and talking to her villagers ❤️

[@Darleer]

The feeling of regret when talking to people about your issues and mental health is so real. I am glad you brought it up in the video

[@WitheredFreddo]

Animal crossing's creator need's to see this...

[@LulitaInPita]

needs*

[@akumaponipon2426]

Er... He's died.

[@burr5100]

@@Laura-er5rh gosh I miss that guy

[@untitled2303]

ni

[@overstar7900]

@@burr5100 Same

[@BeQuietAnt]

I was suicidal during my last year of high school. Suicidal as in, I literally went to jump off a bridge, and the only thing that stopped me was the fact that I couldn’t find the words for the note to one of my friends. During this time, I played Animal Crossing daily. My interactions with my villagers were some of the only kind words I was receiving each day. I ran a blog where I would give away my hard earned bells and items to newer players, because being charitable felt good. Mostly, though, I remember setting an early alarm before school, just so I could get in half an hour of gameplay. This helped break my toxic sleeping habits and gave me a routine, a reason to get up in the morning instead of laying in bed feeling sorry for myself. Five years later, while I still have to work to manage my depression, I’m proud of the fact that I’m alive. That I’m no longer suicidal. And I believe I might not have made it out of that time without New Leaf. 2021 EDIT: I have received so many kind responses to this through the years (and people thinking they’re edgy by trying to tell me to kill myself lol). I am still here, I’m engaged, life isn’t easy but Animal Crossing is still a bright spot in mine. I still credit the game with getting me through a dark time in my life.

[@kenyakookie]

Happy to have you still with us!

[@hydo589]

This makes me so happy to hear. Whatever makes you feel better (and if it’s not alcohol), Do it!

[@HaruTheGyaru]

bich I might be crying

[@sophiac674]

We love youuu❤️

[@Shartwichh]

I’m happy you’re still here with us. I’m not good at consoling people but Please remember that things will get better, and we’re here with you ❤️❤️

[@madamHoodie1]

I've been playing animal crossing since the gamecube one, and each game onward. I remember playing city folk with my parents shouting in the background, I remember turning on new leaf after being yelled at to find my favorite villager who would talk me through my hysterics and make me feel better. after I calmed down, I would end up night fishing and focusing on that.

[@williammoll5594]

madamHoodie1 exactly me

[@andri7037]

Same, now I play New Horizons with my parents shouting in the background

[@sunysarah4565]

Mental health issues inspired this game. If I remember correctly. He (the creator of this game, sadly I don't remember his name) developed this game because he had to move far away from his family, to work for Nintendo. Into a city where he did not know anyone. And felt super lonely. So he created a invironemt where he could interact with people and so on

[@wikum3]

I’m amazed people don’t see the connection between videogames and mindfulness. Many games absorb you completely in the moment - it’s a way of escaping fully from the anxieties, trials and tribulations of the real world. I would strongly recommend Zelda Breath of the Wild - it’s such a peaceful and relaxing game world to just wander around and exist in; it really takes your mind off things and is filled with magic and wonder.

[@xSchreiberTVx]

I used Breath of the Wild to distract myself after my gf of nearly 4 years cheated on and broke up with me. Helped me get through the worst times at least.

[@kelseyhorton8514]

Getting a Switch and play BOTW was the best decision I made. I still struggle with anxiety and depression, but when I feel it getting bad I know to pick it up. My husband even knows when I need it.

[@mcclaik2]

I'm really glad you mentioned this. I never looked at it this way before and it makes so much sense. I've struggled with mental illness most of my life and always had a difficult time with small everyday tasks (dishes, laundry, showering, etc) to the point of complete avoidance because I couldn't stand being in my own head. Therapists would always reiterate the importance of mindfulness but I could never seem to 'zone in' on anything. Video games have always been one of the few activities that distract me completely. While it isn't a cure, I absolutely believe that our minds need a break from this constant bombardment of stress, anxiety and worry, and for many people video games provide that escape.

[@SegaJennesiss]

"peaceful and relaxing" Have you never encountered a guardian?

[@DarkworldLP]

Thank you for your precious comment! I can only agree with you :D That's the reason why I decided to become a game developer in the future. I wanna build up a bigger game company (in switzerland first, because I live there). I want to create more games who give people chills and relaxed feelings. I want them to be able to escape their difficult reality for the time they're playing and be able to get new power and motivation. My games will also include social criticsm The human race may have evolved technologically, but there has not been much improvement in interpersonal relationships and behavior. Don't listen to the people who say games are bad, they have a fixed mindset and only believe what they have been thaught. I whish you all the best, think positive and believe in yourself. ;)

[@PrideBornAmadi]

Dark Souls was my crutch in a similar depressed situation. It taught me that life is difficult and the only way to overcome that hard obstacle constantly beating me down was to get up and keep trying.

[@christophercobb8008]

I was going through a divorce when I tried Animal Crossing. It was a measly $15 on my 3DS and figured if it sucked, I'd not lost all that much. I guess I'm too much of a normal gamer that AC didn't do much for me. I got into Monster Hunter Generations later on cause it was on the best 3DS games list. Problem with that game is it's brutal and sometimes it would upset me more. Ha! Then I learned to relax and figure out the monsters moveset and that if I kept at it I'd eventually win. I remember trying to kill the first major boss monster in MH4U and I was so upset and when I FINALLY defeated him I felt a sense of accomplishment that all the other games I'd played previously had never given me. Course, I never played that game for the online aspect as I picked a weapon that was hated by other players online (Gunlance, in case anyone wanted to know). My point in responding to your message specifically? That perhaps AC doesn't quite work for everyone but that finding something that helps you feel capable is so important. I sure wish I could play Monster Hunter Worlds in a mobile setting, but oh well. Also, yes, we get back up, even if we're defeated over and over again cause if we learn from each defeat we'll eventually overcome.

[@dirrt5011]

That Annoying Furry DEFCON taught me the true nature and consequences of nuclear war. Millions die and the world has tons of radiation everywhere, which is why everyone needs to do their best to prevent it.

[@Storm_LunaTic]

Strangely, I think Celeste did the same sort of thing for me.

[@christophercobb8008]

@@Storm_LunaTic From my understanding, Celeste had a lot of messages in it. On the surface, dealing with depression, but the two of ya'll's comments about not giving up. It's interesting what people learn from a game that others might not have. Too bad I'm not a huge Metroidvania or platformer fan cause Celeste, Hollow Knight and Shovel Knight are some of the best in the category.

[@Storm_LunaTic]

@@christophercobb8008 Whilst I can't say It had quite the same impact (I played it after Celeste) Hollow Knight was also absolutely phenomenal and seriously scratched that itch for a challenge. I'm not normally one for side scrollers and even less for metroidvanias, but Hollow Knight and Celeste stole my heart and many hours of my time xD

[@corelei]

nothing more heartbreaking than seeing those moving boxes in your favorite villager's home and not being able to convince them to stay

[@hoshithefiercehamster3625]

Even in the new horizon?

[@Storm_LunaTic]

@@extrashotofespresso_ Don't worry! I'm fairly certain in the more recent games you can often convince them to stay pretty easily!

[@WellPreparedTreeFrog]

Hey You They won’t even leave anymore unless they want to and you let them Even if you’re away for months or time travel

[@icardian]

If you have friends that like to visit your town, the villager that left could move to their town instead, so you could still talk to them.

[@rpg500e]

I'm actually a therapist finishing internship and just wanted to say... TO ANYONE WHO HAPPENS TO SEE, there are several places with sliding scale fees like our school's counseling center - I literally see most of my clients for FREE and no one pays more than 25, you choose how much you can spend. Please don't let money be the thing that stops you getting in to see someone, there IS help if you can get yourself there. I've been a gamer all my life and have had my own battles with this stuff before getting to where I'm at. I feel ya'll. Hope and love.

[@andreah9587]

Elias Burke thank you for posting this!!! I have met many friends who really need therapy of some sort (mostly because I can’t keep being their therapist for them, I’m still taking college courses to be one) and the main reason they don’t seek help is because they don’t have money to pay for it. They don’t believe me when I say there are places where it’s cheap or free. So thanks for having our backs :)

[@marquislafi153]

Hello! That's really great to see.

[@alexayats8618]

This! Please share this comment! Like this comment! Screenshot, repost, spread. We need this!!! Also Elias, thank you so much for your work. You are awesome!

[@kaicaelum9181]

Fellow therapist here! I kept scrolling hoping to see if someone would mention this. Yes! Plenty of licensed interns ready and willing to help with myriad skills at their disposal - on the cheap! Healing is a holistic endeavor. Use your skills, social network, therapy and games to get to where you want to be. Psychology Today is an invaluable resource to seek capable counselors near you for affordable rates, some with those sliding scale rates they mentioned. Good luck, villagers, you got this :)

[@yujm7]

For a long time I thought I couldn't afford therapy. Finally the government gave it to me for free. I visited three different people and they all wasted my time and made me feel worse about myself.

[@sirsleepy6145]

My mental state: literally going crazy Animal Crossing: allow us to introduce ourselves

[@shellssoul]

@Sir Sleepy LOL YESSSS it helped me a lot sophomore year a time when i was so stressed. God bless u sir sleepy ^.^ “““You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:14-16‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ www.bible.com/114/mat.5.14-16.nkjv

[@rachelfairfield8755]

I can’t wait to play my ACNH soon, I’m 20yrs old and I don’t think I’ve ever needed this game more in my life then I do right now. I’m scared, lonely anxious and the thought of entering adulthood overwhelms me so much 🥺 as a kid, I loved it but I didn’t realise how therapeutic it was and helpful it really can be. I just played it like any other game. But now that I’m in that awkward in between stage of not quite a adult but also not a kid anymore, this is really gonna help me ground myself and ease my severe anxiety of growing up.

[@Alfiefoxxo]

Rachel Fairfield it’s ok no matter how old are you It’s still YOU

[@biancaperez957]

Boomers: Video games cause violence! Animal Crossing: Hold my Bells

[@samubluu_]

Boomers: **runs away with the bells**

They do cause violence you damn millenials! You people need to see sunlight some time. All your noses are glued to the screen. Back in my day kids were whooped if they didn’t listrn to their parents nowadays parents are so spineless that the kids they’ve gone soft and weak. Go outside more!

[@cameron4259]

Boomer: video games are causing violence in today's youth Animal crossing: cöllect..... Bugse

[@biancaperez957]

@ Okay boomer.

[@libbyf51]

Mike Oxmall I get what you’re saying but maybe say it in a different way? Or else no one will take you seriously

[@AmandaDavis6130]

"Why do you need medication? You seem fine!" I'M FINE BECAUSE I'M ON MEDICATION YOU DOLT. I feel ya, man. It's rough.

[@dylanellis4320]

Seriously! And even then it doesn't make you happy it just makes the sadness bearable

[@kendram13]

In college I mentioned being on antidepressants and one guy told me that he could definitely tell a difference now that I was on medication and I was like what do you mean I've been on it the entire time you've known me?? some people are just dicks

[@UserError-gp8sl]

I got that a lot too when I was on them. I do get offensive when people are like 'people shouldn't resort to Anti-depressants they should just cope' there's a ton of reasons why people decide to go on Anti-depressants.

[@ChiribitaDruidaForestal]

Last year, my English teacher didn't come to class for two weeks before Christmas. Some of my classmates said that she had depression and she would return once she felt better. One of them said: "She's not suffering from depression; I saw her going shopping last Saturday and she looked happy. Somebody depressed would not smile" I wanted to kick him. I have depression too, and he has never realised. You see, I laugh and I can have a good time with my friends, so does it mean I'm fine to you? My psychologist would give you a clear answer. I haven't told him, though. There's no point. Stop stigmatisation, please.

[@kendram13]

@@ChiribitaDruidaForestal yes this ! People always tell me how cheerful and happy I am.. that they wish they felt like I did. How I act is in no way indicative of how I feel inside.. I think dark thoughts EVERYDAY I just dont walk around with my head down taking it out on everyone around me. Depression and anxiety are silent killers

[@strawberrymolk]

I never played a single AC game until NH came out, and I honestly relate to this story myself, although I believe I was diagnosed with depression much before, I believe I was ten. I’m 16 now, and honestly I can’t believe how much Animal crossing helped me, even through this dark period we’re all going through right now. It amazes me how much Nintendo adores their fans, wanting the best for them and they obviously show it through every game they produce (Mario, Animal Crossing, Legend of Zeda, etc). They don’t do things to break the norm, but just out of respect for everyone around them. My villager, Pashmina, is a major comfort character for me. She offered to cook me food, let me talk to her whenever I felt down, and would honestly brighten my day every time I see her. I even wrote her a fucking letter telling her that despite me knowing she isn’t real, she’s helped me a lot. I wish people were like that, willing to make a person happy even if it isn’t a lot. I hope your journey continues to go well, brother.

[@galacticgardevoir9496]

Honestly, this video has one of the most heartfelt and accurate depictions of depression I've ever seen. I have been battling depression alone since middle school, I'm now in college and with the encouragement of my boyfriend, started working with a counselor and was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. My entire life, I viewed depression as people who cried all the time, took anti-depressants, and were diagnosed as a young child. Nobody took the time to say that depression wasn't only sleeping too much, it was also sleeping to little. Depression isn't only finding no joy in life, it's also not having the mental energy to do the things you enjoy. Depression can be waking up at 8 am on weekends but staying in bed till 4 in the afternoon because it takes that long to be able to get up. Depression can be doing the things you've always done not because you have the energy to do them, but because if you don't then people will start to notice. It can be a constant state of feeling nothing despite wanting desperately to feel something. It can be a fear of being confronted by those you love because you know something is wrong but you dont know what and you dont want to admit that you're not okay. Depression is such a diverse mental illness and it manifests differently in every person who has it. Animal Crossing provided me with a very similar relief, but honestly for me, it took reaching out to someone I love and allowing them to guide me through the process of finding out what was wrong and getting the diagnosis I needed.

[@kingzennia1750]

When you missed catching the fish, I felt that.

[@utvm6748]

Xd 💕💕

[@ComicDrake]

Man, I am so glad this video hit my recommended. This exactly captures my feelings and why Animal Crossing is my all time favorite video game series.

[@LegendryHeropon]

Hey man, I've been a fan of yours for years. I know you've had a rough past few years, but I'm glad you're still here. You're one of the most enjoyable content creators on KZbin, and it really wouldn't be the same without you. Lots of love, man. I wish you all the best.

[@dumb-eboy]

_THE BARD_ no one cares

[@Ali-sk8ee]

@@dumb-eboy thats a bit mean

[@thethunderchu1013]

Comic Drake Same here.... Everyone thinks that I am a super happy person, but inside I’m pained... I’m scared that no one cares and others would bully me more than they already do

[@memepolice8783]

Same

[@laurene111]

I relate to this, especially in this quarantine time with New Horizons, it just gives me a goal, a purpose for waking up in the morning, even on Sunday mornings so that I can buy my little turnips, anyway this game is really something 🌞

[@flyingpastakitty]

I can relate. Depression is rough. I was diagnosed at age 12. That whole summer before I was diagnosed, I laid in bed, slept and ate. I was struggle, I didn't know what was wrong. My mom originally assumed I was just being lazy. Once school started, I was bullied and my depression got much worse. My mom felt terrible when she realized that I was depressed and suicidal. I played a lot of pokemon games. They helped me a lot.

[@taylorbritt499]

Towards the end of the video, the notion hit me that this is a video of a guy, sitting in some room somewhere with a mic, telling his story. The visuals are merely there as a supplement and something for your eyes to look at. The important part comes solely from the story of how a game changed someone life for the better. And that, to me, is so powerful. The fact that someone can just sit down, tell their story and help so many others come to terms with their own demons? Its incredible. I don't even know you, but I'm incredibly proud of you for sharing your story and climbing your way out of that 20 foot hole that many people know all too well.

[@CLOYO]

I was searching for a comment that said what I wanted to say, and here it is.

[@taylorbritt499]

@@CLOYO Glad to be of assistance friend :)

[@donaldlarrimoreIII]

@@CLOYO She basically covered majority of it, thanks for the Analysis Rep.

[@J_larry]

Very well said

[@taylorbritt499]

@@J_larry thank you!

[@lilith9875]

Even when therapy is covered, it is still hard to go. Just wanted to mention that.

[@Sasha-up9er]

I moved to the UK a few years ago, where things like therapy are free but the whole system is very strained. It can be really difficult to get mental health treatment and it's easy to convince yourself that you're not worth putting the strain on the system, especially if you feel like you aren't getting much out of it.

[@private8944]

@@Sasha-up9er yes same but I finally looked for help here in Germany. Get well soon to you 💚

[@TempestTemple]

I've had multiple times where my therapist told me to call her when I'm ready to see her again and I just... don't.

[@lucegibbs6044]

Sometimes I don’t even want to leave my house to go to therapy I just lie in my bed and I can’t do anything

[@Lolly74079]

Not to mention how exhausting it is when you get there

[@sadie6792]

I was painfully depressed and anxious, especially at this time with the pandemic. I couldn’t sleep, or keep my mind off it. I was so scared. I finally got off school for spring break + an extra week. I figured out ACNH was coming out soon. I begged my mother for it and she was convinced. I worked for it. I was so exhausted. Soon, the day it came out. I have been playing. I have become so much happier. I have goals, friends, I feel less lonely in this time. It’s so much fun, and distracts me from everything. I have finally found the happiness inside. I have had an all time high of happiness lately! I’m so proud of myself, and now I don’t need a therapist anymore! I might later, when school starts up again. (Not online school) but I have the same situation. It’s nice to know someone else has had the same experience

[@sp8cey]

I’m glad it’s working out for you ♡!

[@EsspressoStresso]

You know, I've suffered from depression for a long time. I just picked up animal crossing new horizons (my first animal crossing game) and I can TOTALLY see why it's so beneficial to so many people. I've had some in depth conversations with my therapist about it (she actually recommends it to her clients with depression and anxiety because it applies so many different therapy techniques in a more approachable way for someone who has severe mental illness, kinda like you described.) All in all, I'm so glad that this game exists. Almost everyone I talk to plays it as a form of therapy, and I think there's something to be said about that.

[@MCJMFP]

I think a lot of people who play animal crossing feel the same way, I do. Thank you

[@AlltheRageBH]

I agree 100%.

[@hamatee3175]

When I was younger my dad killed himself. It’s been 15 years now? I’ve been playing Animal crossing since city folk and wild world, but I got really into new leaf because I loved the graphics. The game made me really happy to play every single day, and tune out my childhood. It would get me away from thinking about my father- and my brother’s death. I don’t know how to describe how Animal Crossing made me so happy and excited to be alive everyday. It was such a nice little game. It was hard to afford therapy, especially I had speaking problems so my therapist wasn’t much health when I did go, they would say “speak up”. Animal crossing was there for me when I was learning English, even though I have only moved in and out of Germany once in my life. I was very obese when I started animal crossing and Animall Crossing helped me get through the correct meals at the right times and I was okay. I can speak about animal crossing all night long. I have a wonderful boyfriend now and a kid on the way now, but I regret I wasn’t able to come out to nor my father or brother before they passed. Animal crossing let me take my mind off that and it helped my mental health and physical health, it got me into a good eating habit like I said, and it made me happy to wake up everyday. If I didn’t move to America I probably wouldn’t know of animal crossing. I’m a 20 year old man who loves animal crossing and I feel no shame. I of course don’t play it often, work and stuff. Thank you if you read it all. 🙂 Edit: thank you all for the wonderful replies, they mean so much to me. i try to reply to everyone i can. bearbeiten: Danke euch allen für die wundervollen Antworten, die mir so viel bedeuten. Ich versuche jedem zu antworten, den ich kann.

[@BoldlyWired]

I read it, thanks for sharing :)

[@hamatee3175]

Boldly Wired thank you for taking your time to reply. Your story has touched my heart and many others. Animal crossing is such a happy game for kids and adults alikez

[@janaekelis]

I know how it feels to not be able to tell your loved ones EVERYTHING before they left. I thought I was the only one with this anxiety but reading your comment makes me reassured. Thank you for sharing this man.

[@hamatee3175]

Ghost Shrimpe ❤️I try to help others with my story.

[@amilueur]

You are 20, not even fully grown. Don't act like you're too old to relax with a video game, as though it's embarrassing. My friend had a grandparent that was a huge MMO player! Gaming is a hobby that never leaves you, because even if you grow out of it, your kids will inevitably pick it up thanks to smartphone games. Even people who golf, paint, etc. sometimes go months without a relaxing session. Gamers are the only hobbyists who feel they need to be involved with their hobby daily because it's similarly addictive to gambling, with regular dopamine highs that become increasingly less effective. That's what depression stems from in gamers, numbness. The dopamine you get from gaming becomes necessary but impossible to maintain in unregulated amounts. Anyway, not sure how I ended up here. Lol. Maybe I should stop watching Animal Crossing videos, they're rarely about Animal Crossing.

[@CuspofCrazy]

Spoken from a voice that never feels heard: Thank you. I know how terrifying it is to be vulnerable, but I’m glad you took a leap of faith. You’ve created something beautiful, and I’m incredibly happy I came across this video today.

[@alguiendemarteodevenus681]

I’m pretty late (2 years haha), but: As someone who lives with depression too and medicates, there are only a few things that make me feel relaxed, liberated, at least a couple hours. And one of them is playing videogames, including animal crossing. In this case, having an opportunity to ‘live a life’ where you are alone with kind neighbors, to choose your environment and express yourself, feels really good. Being free to choose your own life, made playing animal crossing a wonderful moment. There aren’t a lot of things that I’m confortable with; but MY town, the house I created and the life I CHOSE to live, makes me feel especial and unique.

[@vtechvsmile]

In 2013 - 2015 I was homeless, in an abusive house with my mom's boyfriend, and my dad died of complications with chronic Lyme disease... and my I add, on my birthday... If I didn't have Isabelle to greet me every morning, I highly doubt I would still be here today. Animal Crossing sort of saved my life.

[@Esandeech2]

Bastien Bolafeld i hope you’re in a better place now. Many hugs to you ❤️

[@vtechvsmile]

@@Esandeech2 ❤️

[@polypolar715]

Bastien Bolafeld you’re a strong, brave soul. Sending lots of love ❤️

[@elizabethossmann2017]

I remember very clearly, about 2 or 3 years ago I was having a horrific panic attack. Crying, shaking, my head spinning. It was 3 in the morning and I was alone. I hadn’t touched New Leaf in about a year but my heart told me to play it. I remember going to the island, fishing, looking for bugs and just seeing my village. It had a few weeds and a bit of love needed again but everything was there. Everyone was happy to see me. That feeling stuck with me and is the reason animal crossing is so special to me.

[@uwuouo1773]

Elizabeth Ossmann aww that’s so sweet

[@bronchitis6492]

ive had many similar experiences Irelate so much!!!

[@teteryas]

"Everyone was happy to see me" Bruh legit almost cried

[@robin0135]

"everyone was happy to see me" that made me cry. I'm glad AC could help you get through that rough time. Hope you're doing well now :)

[@carlstevenwilletts]

Animal Crossing is a really soft, luxurious pillow that cushions our fall into really deep holes. It cradles us, diverts us, and ultimately allows our anxiety to reduce to the point where the circus of life doesn't seem so daunting. The whole series is a blessing.

[@carolineeiser5483]

When the severe outbreak of COVID-19 hit, i became depressed. Everything was cancled, my play that i had worked forever on, my school, everything. For me, there was no point in getting up. There was nothing to do anyway. I just would stay in my room for hours, scrolling through tik tok. Then i saw animal crossing on my fyp. I loved it from first sight, so i looked into it, loaded up my switch, and with my amazing mother's money (i rlly cant thank her enough) bought it. Now, there is a point to getting up so i can check the stores, make frienships with villagers and do all sorts of activites. Thank u, nitendo.

[@walmartsupercenter3281]

My dad is ocasionally nice to me, and sometimes he just can't stand to be in the same room as me and I don't know why. I don't have many friends in real life, it doesn't matter who they are, they always have someone else that they'd rather talk to. These are just a few of my problems. I used to feel useless and I still do, but that all changes when I insert my New Leaf game into my 3ds. There, in my town, I have friends who think I'm the most interesting person in the world. There, I have things to do and a purpose to fill. There, I am not a pathetic, invisible child unworthy of human status. I am wanted and loved. I get ripped on by my friends for playing at school sometimes, but that's okay. They don't understand, and I don't expect them to.

[@kmac6118]

I know how you feel and i hope you're doing okay.

[@celticwuffy6637]

Hi, I know exactly how you feel, you’re not alone.

[@navr1111111111111111]

@Nathan Guerrette do not be niave friend :)

[@decapitated420]

*I WILL BE YOUR FRIEND AND YOU CANT STOP ME*

[@katomacabre697]

I've been there. All my childhood I didn't have anything you could call a friend. I was the most unpopular boring kid to everyone's eyes. And it sucks. And it might be one of the main reasons why I've been struggling with depression for 10+ years. But at the same time, all this bad experiences made me learn a lot about myself. I had to learn how to appreciate spending time on my own. It gave me time to think, to reflect upon myself and develop a set of moral values that I couldn't me more proud about. It made me grow and evolve to who I am today. And today, 21 years old, I still don't feel like I have what you could call a friend, but I've been using that time on my own. I've moved three times, I'm living on a foreign country, I'm making my dreams come true and I'm working my dream job. I've met lots of wonderful people, and I have the most amazing girlfriend I could ask for. So what I'm trying to say is, just hold on, because you never know what life has prepared for you, and you never know how strong you'll be when you get out of that awful situation you're in right now. If I could do it, you can do it even better.

[@Bwaabbb]

the makers of animal crossing should watch this

[@emmacarlson8858]

Marshmallow Clouds I agree they would be so moved!

[@akaimizu1]

Emma Carlson agreed.

[@nuclearthroner256]

Marshmallow Clouds no

[@acerreviews5456]

Don't you mean *N I N T E N D O ?*

[@Greennoob2]

Bruh this is their specific goal with the Animal Crossing series

[@dickbowlmidz]

When I was younger and having depression issues I bought animal crossing for gamecube. I remember having high hopes learning what the game was about. I named my town freedom... To this day I still buy and play every animal crossing game that comes out and I will always call my town freedom. Your video hit so close to home thank you for sharing.

[@Nintendan95]

15:25 Conversely, this hit over 1 million fucking views. Thanks for sharing your story, and I'm glad you were able to get out of that nasty hole. Depression really is a thing that cannot be explained. To anyone that's never felt it before, even with your explanations, they won't understand, and to everyone that has, they'll just be nodding up and down the whole video. Depression is the absolute fucking worst. Bravo for speaking about your experiences. AC is really something else.

[@AzaJabar]

I was on so much anti-depressants, my ex left me because I was basically a zombie with no feelings at that time, on the day that she left I bought New Leaf and it literally saved my life, I went to my doctor a few months later and got on a program to quit the meds that I was so relying on, I lost weight, I started going out with friends, I started to write and work and live better, at the same time I was playing New Leaf every day, my 3DS broke a few weeks ago and I just ordered a New Nintendo 2DS XL despite the fact that I have a Switch and I don't need another 3DS, but I just want to walk around town when I want and hear the music.

[@verrybarato892]

💕

[@Blingy]

💗💖💓

[@ladyfoxwf1075]

I’m so happy for you! You’re a superstar!!! 💛✨

[@kayseacamp]

I LOVE the Animal Crossing soundtracks. At work I will pull up a KZbin compilation video of it and it helps get me through my long work days. I think for me, that was one of the major “healing” aspects of this game.

[@Emma-xz1pm]

So happy for you! I have nothin tray to look forward to...apart from animal crossing New horizons. I swear the creators are godsends

[@Slashy.]

I hate people who think that people with depression are looking for: Attention Pity and so on. We don't WANT to be depressed. It just happens.

[@merlinthemidget]

Chris Miller do you know them irl?

[@richiemier915]

@Chris Miller Don't jump into conclusions, we may live in world where people lie. But it doesn't mean everyone's fake

[@shinren_]

You know some people act depressed for attention? Not pointing any fingers here but thats why they say it

[@frostfueledraptor7978]

Chris Miller shut the fuck up

[@aleksandari.7834]

We are just looking for understanding.

[@zartheitalian5376]

Seeing this video just remembered me how deep in a pile of shit i am currently with my own depression but by the end. Maybe I'll just have to fight through it and there'll be a end to it. I contacted my therapist after this and resumed therapy, also looking to start retaking my medication. Thank you for this.

[@Zoltiboi]

I wish you the very best! You made a good decision :) I am proud of you

[@biancav2147]

i don’t know if anyone will see this, but i wanted to share my story as well. i have depression and anxiety and have been taking meds for over a year now. for a while things have been going great up until a few months ago. i’ve had relapsed here and there but it was the first time in a while when i felt hopeless. especially since this quarantine that’s been deteriorating my mental health. not to mention a messy break up and losing a close friend of mine. for a couple of months i’ve been very sad and confused about everything, up until i got animal crossing new horizons. i was hesitant to buy the game, since i thought it was boring and wouldn’t captivate me but it was the opposite. even though i’ve had the game for over a week i’ve done so much that it makes me feel some sort of balance that i still don’t feel in real life. i feel myself getting in control more and i even feel myself being happier in general. i admit i may be addicted to this game (hopefully not to an abusive extent) but honestly i love it so far. beforehand i didn’t look forward to waking up, now i’m like “oh i can’t wait to see the bridge!” or “oh i’m excited to see this new villager!”. i haven’t really felt excited in a while so this is a pleasant experience. i wonder how the game will impact me once i advance more, all i know as of now is that animal crossing has given me at least a bit of reason to wake up everyday :)

[@gcil8214]

I remember coming home crying, or breaking down in the middle of the night. I’d pick of good old animal crossing and play until my tears were dry or gone. Animal crossing really helped me through some stuff.

[@johnxina7496]

hope youre good now

[@lilpandaXD]

I remember a year or two ago I was going through some dark stuff mentally. I was addicted to animal crossing at the time. One day a towns person from my town called Tom (I’ll never forget) Sent me a letter. I opened it and it read something along the lines of “Your my best pal! Don’t let the small things in life get you down. Stay smiling” or something like that. I remember sitting in bed balling my eyes out. This game had just giving me exactly what I needed. I’ll always remember how safe I felt while playing it on my bad days

[@Tabby3456]

"how do i even express this emotion. Its like i'm crying but with a smile." I have spend nearly half a decade of my time on videogames and i belive without it, I would of been dead the moment I would of moved on to the 11th grade. But...No. I am very much alive and its all because i had something to look forward to. wether its a holiday event in an online game or completing that one thing that i can't wait to do when I wake up or get back from school/work. Videogames will always stay close to my heart and i woudn't want to give it up even on the belived stigma that videogames will turn you into a permanent virgin. I'm about to turn 18. and i wounder what will happen to me. as a person diagnosed with ADHD and GAD; it made me a little less afraid and less impulsive in daily anomalys like when someone lashes out at me and my temptation to throw the rock back at them, or be afraid to take a minor risk. I wouldn't of been here if it was for the very thing i loved and remain loving even if my parents thought that 4 hours on the weekends on a evening could metaphorically kill. Thank you game devs. Thank you friends. Thank you Boldly Wired.

[@skinnyd_tk6795]

I actually can relate to your situation. I am currently jobless, since almost a year. I have no responsibility at all and time just feels like it's kinda there. I did nothing in my time at home, staying in my room. now i can start an education for pharmacy. it is still 5 months until my first day of school, but I picked up sports wich helped me to get going. I feel more confident and social, it helps me to get out and see some friends. It's really frustrating for me to have nothing to talk about what goes on in my life, because there wasn't anything going on. I just landed here because i can't wait to play new horizon (this will be my first animal crossing), and seeing this beautiful community which is so open and honest really makes me happy. I don't even know you all but I already fell in love.

[@Axenna]

This brought me to tears. Nintendo really needs to see this, and to know the impact it had on your life. I hope you’re doing all right.

[@missgurlyteengurl]

It brought me to tears too and I really wasn’t expecting to

[@jameshiggins8601]

I think it's atrocious that this video is restricted. Why is learning about mental health struggles something that my 14 year old cousin shouldn't do?

[@Epicred1997]

It can trigger people and small children, please read the disclaimer

[@sneezu]

WorkOrc1910 i can see it triggering people who already suffer similar mental health problems, but people who are curious about it and/or wanting to know more about it to help themselves be more aware shouldn't be restricted

[@redactado266]

WorkOrc1910 exactly. it already has the disclaimer. it doesn't need censoring. as for the triggered people like it said in the disclaimer, they aren't obligated to see the full video, even if they already started it

[@englishwithari3971]

Thank you for this, I can’t believe how much of what you’re saying is something I can relate to. I was having a discussion with a friend the other day and they asked why I like animal crossing and I couldn’t quite articulate it but you’ve just encapsulated everything I feel

[@Squizoon]

I always go back to this video, it's a nice rehabilitation.

[@thefriedegg4498]

This is really relatable, one of the reasons I got really hooked on the Animal Crossing was because it was a way to escape to a perfect world, everyone is easy to talk too, simple characters, like you said you can *control* . You can't control life, you always worry that you're judged or talked behind your back, that your friends might leave you, but in Animal crossing *you have* friends. Yeah its "sad" but it really helped me cope with life.

[@mrwaffles3106]

@ed champagne don't mean to pop the bubble but in the first animal crossing the villagers would talk behind you're back if you are away for a while.(I missed when the villagers gave you sass)

[@jipto11]

Mr waffles 2401 as someone who is very self conscious about about what other people think about me, I also think animals should have more personality like sass and being rude. Personally If animals talk bad about me I dont care because i know its a game. I think more personality would make the villagers much more relatable, more enjoyable, and more interesting.

[@Twat_Dirt]

Are you well?

[@Twat_Dirt]

@Smash 456 I just wanna know if he's well dumb ass.

[@camcancun]

The Fried Egg this hits close to home

[@dudders91]

New Leaf really helped me get through the brunt of an anxiety flare that lasted months. It's so zen for me.

[@Ghostlythereaper]

Humphrey Cassel same here. I'm going through college, and it's helped me avoid being way too anxious about... Everything...

[@FiftyCenk]

I still play New leaf, and i will play the next Animal crossing games! The People in AC are like humans should be in RL.

[@PurpleDust1]

It does this for me to, I make it nightime in the game and and zone out

[@subice2158]

Hey, thanks for putting this video out. Really struck a cord with me. I wish you the best and can’t wait to see more from your

[@bobituba]

This year has been the worst year of my life I just bought ACNH. I’ve played with my friends and it’s the only thing that pushes me to keep going on life. Its something else

[@seth1393]

my dad passed away 7 months ago, nobody expected It. Since then my life turn into a roller coaster of emotions and things to do for others, having to replace my dad for my mum's sake. My brain started to give me stomach pains that wouldn't let me go to work, I decided to start theraphy and helped a lot to realice I was trying to heal my mum instead of heal my own pain. Animal Crossing was that little world where I had to take care of nobody, where I could feel and be safe. sorry for my grammar, english is not my first lenguage.

[@diamondkitten7918]

I’m so sorry for your loss. You are so strong for trying to heal for your mother. Things will get easier. I used animal crossing to cope with problems too. Remember to think about yourself and your needs too. I hope everything is okay for you.

[@ErraticConduct]

I'm sorry for you loss. I don't know your belief system, but I know without a doubt, you'll see him again. He would know you are going to miss him, but he would not want it to overwhelm you. While the missing doesn't go away completely, I promise the pain does lessen as time goes on. Good luck, and much love from me! 💙

[@tamayoisaac52110]

Thank you for sharing

[@milesndulue2015]

👍🏾

[@reveluvreveluv7257]

I lost my father a few years ago and the pain you must be feeling is almost unimaginable until you experience it. That pain stays but you grow strong enough to deal with it and things will be okay xxx

[@x01x0_]

you explained depression and the misconceptions around it perfectly, thank you so much

[@ayyuh1936]

Animal Crossing New Horizons has made me genuinely happy day to day even while not playing it. I’ve been depressed for a few years throughout school it’s been well depressing I’ve wanted to be happy and just try to be happy but when this game has gave me feelings I have longed for and that childlike innocence I’ve missed for so long. Nintendo from the hearts of thousands of others THANK YOU

[@Loolieland]

This resonated me in a way that I didn’t know I needed. Thank you for sharing your struggles with mental health. I hope you are still doing well💕

[@pandavova]

I lost some tears trough this video... I somehow see myself...

[@spookychan7189]

Then I hope that you'll find happiness like this man did. Never give up, there's always someone there to listen

[@arthurgps2441]

@ed champagne no u

[@pandavova]

@ed champagne im not gay

[@lavishclver4738]

@ed champagne if you have the time to come troll people who are clearly depressed that didn't ask for your reply who don't deserve your ignorance and have the time to write a god damn paragraph to try and target someone you legit need actual therapy. Call a god damn help line you sadistic borderline disorder failed troll.

[@evanobar5856]

@@arthurgps2441 there's nothing wrong with gay

[@tbrew222]

this was breath of the wild for me

[@BrianHopson]

Can't commit suicide if your scouting the land for shrines.

[@Person-fq9uz]

Yeah, Breath of the Wild, Animal Crossing, and most of all Persona tbh. (Like seriously, that series did a lot for me)

[@chaotika693]

same

[@mjangelvortex]

Same here. With my case it's Animal Crossing, Breath of the Wild, and Pokemon.

[@kassyyar97]

YES! For me it was Super Mario Galaxy (I started having depression at 12), FFXV and Breath of the Wild Some games just make you want to keep living and find out what other adventures you can get into

[@missobvious5436]

This is a really moving story and I can tell how passionate you are about animal crossing and how it helped you. It doesn't matter if it sounds cheesy, it's the truth and it's amazing. I'm glad you're better (even though I don't know you, randomly stumbled upon this) and I'm sure this video helped a lot of people. Thank you for sharing this =)

[@OscarinofTime]

For me, the worst part is that even though I want to talk to someone, I just can't talk about my feelings and thoughts without feeling ashamed. I truly don't remember a time when I felt genuily happy, and I just work to avoid having negative thoughts. However, during this coronavirus lock down I've been feeling worse than ever. I even feel ashamed but I've been thinking about not existing anymore. Even the thought of killing myself makes me want to cry because I just don't want to die, but I just can't seem to change. I hope to go to therapy as soon as this lockdown ends, but watching this video and playing animal crossing (pocket camp, 'cause, y'know, I don't have money right now) certainly is keeping me going.

[@yuka-samax3178]

This made me literally cry for like half an hour. Because i feel completely understood. Animal Crossing was one of these Game that gave me the little warm feeling of being in control and that everything's alright. Also when i had a rough day, and i heard the calming music of this game, i felt so calm, no one ever could replace this.

[@leonelson6790]

Animal crossing really helped me when I was younger, my parents used to be drug addicts, and our roommate had a meth lab in the house, now, I was an 8 year old who’s only social interactions were with one friend (my best friend of 6 years) at school, and besides that I didn’t talk to anyone, didn’t interact with anyone, and it wasn’t until my little sister was born my parents got their act together. But through the years, of coming to terms with being trans, and that my dad is dead, through 2013-2019, animal crossing was seriously my only coping mechanism. I have normal interactions with people now, but I’m homeschooled, so everything including having friends is limited. I feel like a different person when I play AC and it makes me cry knowing it stopped me from ending my own life, I know it sounds ridiculous, but I was ready, and I was saying goodbye to my animal crossing pals, even though I know they aren’t real, I felt obligated to, and then I talked myself out of it, just, talking it out with, uhm, I think it was the dog Biskit, he kept talking about how it’s better to keep smiling until you have something to really smile about, and how it will be worth it. And I’m still waiting for that day, but I bet it will be worth it.

[@dta1329]

Leo Nelson bless you 🙏🏾 and thanks for sharing.

[@caleviwin]

Bob was is my favorite, the purple cat. His lazy personality fit me hahah. Im glad that the light in that game gave you hope.

[@TheKarret]

Man, that's an awful childhood to have. :C Hope you find that day soon! Best of luck out there! You're really strong!

[@philine3143]

💕 Thanks for sharing! I wish you all the best ☀️ stay strong

[@BigMilkCartons2]

im really proud of you

[@deimos5030]

also can we just appreciate the release of new horizons in the midst of all this craziness and uncertainty. i feel like it’s seriously helping a lot of people, including myself, get through the constant state of change we’re living through right now. reality has often become too hard to handle for me now that everything has changed and i’m stuck inside. the news is scary and constantly showcasing the rapidly changing situation, but animal crossing has been consistant. i know what to expect, and i know i can rely on it. it’s good to spend a few hours playing and forget about everything going on.

[@patentedyikes]

i feel like this video perfectly encapsulates the struggles of depression and how video games can play on that, positively and negatively. i really appreciated your story and glad its gotten better for you 😔🤲❤️ i randomly put this on and haven’t regretted it 10/10 video

[@PrimalSincerity]

When my parents were divorcing, my sister let me play he DS. I only ever played Animal Crossing because I felt like a had a stable group of friends/family. Honestly the game taught me how to have healthy relationships with people

[@villager7262]

I heard this story about Animal Crossing. So the story was about this woman with cancer and animal crossing anyways here it goes. So there were these sibling who got the animal crossing game (for wii) so they played a lot and then got bored. Around this time their mother was diagnosed with cancer and she knew that the kids like the game and decided to play it. The kids went to school while the mom became obsessed with it in the end. The mother passed away and so for some reason the kids went on the wii and played animal crossing. Come to find out the mom got all of the gifts, made things beautiful in the town and wrote little notes for then kids.

[@yiyyiyiy351]

The Unoriginal Alex omg I've heard that story too but I have no idea where I heard it

[@themysticfedora]

@@yiyyiyiy351 its a gif

[@StonyArc]

I read a version of this years ago where it was the GameCube version

[@villager7262]

StonyArc it could have been I don't remember it's been a few years since I read it

[@otterpus]

www.duelinganalogs.com/comic/a-tear-jerking-story-about-animal-crossing/ Have you people forgotten how to use the internet?

[@operrorthex7016]

Wow this video feels like deja vu, I've heard many stories of people's pov and how they went through it but this one is the only one that I can relate too nearly 100%. This makes me happy to know that I can relate to someone who genuinely knows how difficult it was to get out of bed, the mental strain of having to go outside let alone the thought of it and I just don't know what to say besides thank you. Thank you for telling this and thank you for making me feel less alone.

[@Azire]

Okay so this video hit me differently. I have experienced depression too, for about 9 months out of grief and then also an uncertain future. The game that helped me was actually Zelda botw.... for three months I played this game non-stop. But what hit me most about your video is how you describe depression. Honestly, I've tried to explain it, but it's just really hard. And you managed to get so close to me, to put words on this disease. Thank you.

[@aMAXproduction]

I don't think I've seen a comment section with so many paragraphs. It's nice to see how much you and the Animal Crossing franchise have helped so many people. For me personally, while I don't have depression, I've noticed so many benefits and life lessons that spawn from this game. Most recently, while playing Pocket Camp early this year, I realized just how much this game has taught me about finances, budgets, and overall money management. While not exactly like the real thing, it's a great stepping stone into the financial world. That more that could even say about the one economics class I had to take in high school so long ago...

[@noeliagutierrez4223]

It taught me the difference between "withdrawal" and "deposit", words you are never taught but expected to know later in life when you get a bank account. Priceless

[@LulitaInPita]

Wow that's great!

[@saritaartista3951]

I explained to my brother what inflation was using animal crossing and cheat codes

[@stellarstarvibe]

Exactly! AC also taught me to focus on earning, not on spending, to have a bigger achievement in the end!

[@selimlmr5403]

It thought me so much general information about fish, insects, plants, paintings and dinosaurs. Now when my mother asks me something about that I can tell her names+information. 😂

[@rollings2035]

Yeah animal crossing helped my depression too. You feel like you're interecting with people, doing jobs, be in a bright place. Also animal crossing's music is soothing to listen to. I'm sure it made many people feel happy.

[@change_later6561]

Thank you for sharing. As someone who has never dealt with depression (Or at least not on any level that could be considered lingering). I found this video helpful in understanding people that do. In a strange way I think I understand how animal crossing helped you, in the same way it helps me understand how depression works. I can't explain it too well, but in a since of somewhere between how you said it gave you something to do and it brought you balance and realizing what you do is in your control. That coupled with Knowing how animal crossing works I think helped me understand how depression works (a bit, I'm no expert all of a sudden). I think you sharing your experience is a wonderful thing. Thank you, I feel as though you have helped me as well.

[@betternow1906]

5:27 "Find the *right* medication" Took Celexa for three days and legit don't remember that week at all. It was like a really bad acid trip without the pretty colours.

[@nymphicide]

stories like this make me feel like i’m less lonely.

[@redrooster3420]

You are not alone, although I know how lonely it feels. No matter what, there are people out here that care. I'm glad that we can bring each other hope simply in our existence. I wish you happiness and I hope for us all to continue to grow. Remember, you are worth it and you are always enough.

[@nymphicide]

Just Taemin The Snake thank you so much, you don’t understand how much that meant to me. i also wish you happiness and peace because we are humans and we deserve that right. we’re not gonna let it get to the best of us ♡

[@codevoid4238]

Yeah same here.

[@superXfairXgirl]

Jesus is the only way out of depression. And I know what I am talking about. He is the one who fills the void. Get out of depression, seek Jesus (in the New Testament).

[@redrooster3420]

JesusIsTheLord, as someone who literally recovered from severe depression after years of suffering, who is not religious in the slightest, I want to ask you to kindly refrain from making such comments. Perhaps for some people it would be okay to suggest practicing faith as an option to go along with their individual treatment for depression, but to outright say that it will cure them of depression on its own, let alone suggest that it is the *only* way out of depression is frankly damaging and inappropriate in every capacity. There are extremely religious, Jesus-loving folks in this world that *continue* to struggle with depression because of the nature of this difficult and not-well-understood illness. For you to say otherwise, you are denying the reality of many peoples' experiences, as well as insinuating that one must practice their religion to some unclear standard (even if they are devoutly christian, as if they are somehow "not good enough" and choosing to suffer because of that??? :/) OR they are doomed to a life of misery... Do you not see how harmful that assumption is? I still struggle with many things in my life, but major depressive disorder (as well as eating disorders) is something that lies in my past, and I am very grateful for that. To anyone who is struggling now, please do not allow the worries or fears that you may never stop suffering fill you up completely. I have been at the lowest places I can even imagine throughout my life, and I can assure you that there is *always* hope. Especially when it's hardest to see. There is still hope to be found in the dark. Whether you look to faith or not, I wish you all wellness and joy. Regardless of anything, know that it is going to be okay again. It is okay to cry often, to talk about your feelings, to enjoy the little things, and to feel unsure. It is okay to sit in the sun, to open the window and feel the breeze on your skin, to feel the cool air as you inhale deeply through your nose and the warm exhale as it leaves your lips. *Every single thing you do to keep yourself alive is worth it.* You are all so very powerful and I am beyond proud of you. Take care, everyone. You are alive as you are meant to be. It is more than okay to keep going. Keep going, keep growing. I wish you all the world.

[@hollys_labyrinth9774]

for some reason, this made my cry.

[@jellycheol]

worm

[@DBSKxSECRETsarang39]

Your voice is really soothing (I love how you talk) and I can relate so much. Animal Crossing has helped me personally on escaping the real world briefly and I have connected with a lot of people on visiting their villages or inviting them over to mine, creating such great bonds along the way. I needed this type of video in my life, thank you so much for sharing your story/experience ❤

[@eggsteph]

Animal crossing will always hold a special place in my heart forever.

[@kelleyklein]

THIS is crazy. Animal Crossing did exactly this for me. It never occurred to me that someone else may have had the same experience. Thank you for your sharing!