Can A Man Love Two Women At Once?

[@jewelsafire6844]

If he does, he doesn't "love" either one of them enough. He gets their full commitment, while they do NOT. Somethings are just too painful to share.🙏🏽

[@ParsimonyQueens]

“For men to be IN love a man has to be vulnerable, a man has to be completely open, a man has to have connection,” “quality time, he has to have the woman’s presence” 🎤 drop

[@tieonne]

It is so crucial for women to know their worth so they don't waste time entertaining grown boys!

[@profmj7630]

Tony, your response as a man is greatly appreciated. As a woman, once I find out it's 2 of us a man has love for or is deciding who he wants to be in love with --- I'm out and I am not into competing. I know when a man is truly in love with one woman by the way my grandpa loved my grandma (there was nothing he would not do for her). That being said, ladies hold out for the man who is only in love with you and proves it with actions/words and, most of all, has a strong relationship with God.

[@Realness4sho]

💜💜💜

[@reginadavis1028]

That strong relationship w/God part is essential.

[@profmj7630]

@@reginadavis1028 absolutely

[@c.l.9344]

A man can be in LUST with two women at the same time. But NOT in LOVE with two women at the same time. LOVE and LUST are TWO different things.

[@piak78]

i agree. A man cant share his lolipop with two women unless hes a manhoe. Man lie for their convenience. Commitment is a choice.

[@ThisIzKena]

​@popa213 thanks for that POV. IF I may add..I would also say for that man to also ponder if he can emotionally handle the fallout/reactions from said women once they come to the realization that their commitment will never be fully reciprocal from the this type of man. The average woman (traditional, modern, from Earth or alien) are not 'built' for that kind of union/arrangement/relationship.

[@iamcellular6650]

If you watched the video and listened to the first few minutes, Tony explains this. You can love almost anything, and maybe not at the same level. All it is is a strong appreciation, but to be in love is to be faithful. So a man can love to women at the same time just not at the same level. Which also hints at the fact that he can only be faithful to one woman at a time. He even mentions that the love grows with physical touch and appreciation. Around 5 to 6 minutes into the video. He also mentions that when he’s in love with a woman which means faithful in doing and giving to the commitment, he won’t have it in him to love another woman.

[@michellemarshall8199]

Very Much 😢

[@reginadavis1028]

YESSS!! Ppl get the 2 mixed up because they feel the EXACT SAME BUT lust leaves once the quest has been fulfilled where as love stays even after the quest is conquered.

[@doreenlane2370]

A man that loves is faithful. Love is faithful.

[@mrc3226]

Sex is not a indication of a man loving you.

[@phizzy123]

this is so important for us to realize

[@listeningviayoutube7229]

You better say that again!

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

Shouldn't be hard to realize.. is that not common knowledge, should be!

[@phizzy123]

@@user-zx5xw4yw2e clearly it isn’t otherwise we wouldn’t be discussing it

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

@@phizzy123 Well it SHOULD be.. who's raising these folk...

[@victoriouslee1218]

Never compete for a man's love ladies. Just saying it and thinking about it makes me nauseous and throw up in my mouth. I will never lead a man on or juggle multiple men because I love my life, my God, know my worth, treat others how I want to be treated, and understand universal law that what goes around comes right back around...father God thank you for fresh wisdom, revelation of your love, Godly wisdom, and my brother, Tony for keeping me on my toes 🙏🏾☝🏾✝️

[@Queen._sam_]

Most women only ask this question 🙋🏽‍♀️ because they’re continuing to deal with a man who chose to get involved with another woman. Just leave that man alone. Speaking 🗣️ to my God fearing women on here: We have to stop 🛑 striving so hard to have a relationship with God, just to turn around and deal with everything we’ve been striving to get away from. Meet a man that is God fearing as well. A man that wants to be loyal and have integrity, the same way you do. We literally have to start taking it back to the basics of not being unequally yoked. This is the only way we’ll start seeing better results. If you even have to ask this question 🙋🏽‍♀️, leave that man alone now!

[@fatimamajette1782]

🎉🎉🎉yassss!!!

[@briannalisaphotography5477]

"If you chase 2 rabbits you catch neither" well done Tony 👏 ❤❤

[@Bermygem]

What I understand from Mr. Gaskins is when a man is in love with you, he has made a sound decision that you are the only 1 for him. That woman fills in all the pieces in his arena of Love... Noone else. This can be pressure for the woman and when this is the case you will not have to question it because it is rare and Very obvious when a man is truly in love with you.

[@thehopefulbudgeter]

“Kiddy pool love” 😂 it is what it is. Can’t expect “true love” from a shallow man. Ladies, u deserve to be more than someone’s “sometimes” no part-time/half-ass love. Know your WORTH. 👑💍

[@annemarie7203]

Yessss 🙌🏻 he was stringing me along in a situationship for 8 months making me believe that he wanted a relationship with me but he ended up choosing another girl. I found out he was keeping his options open. So he apologized for being unfair and for hurting me. But he was only saying sorry for the sake of it because just 2 days after he posted seeing this new girl he left me for lol karma is real and what goes around, comes around. Either he or the new girl can do that to him later too

[@YourLoveNeverFails]

I must think like a man, because there is no way I would respect a man who left their wife/baby mother for me. Tell it like it is TG, you’re like a big brother full of wisdom.

[@reginadavis1028]

This is true for both sexes. As a woman who had an affair, you CAN'T fall in love w/2 ppl. I was IN LOVE w/the OTHER man because I wasn't emotionally connected to my husband by the time the other guy caught my interest, which IS WHY he caught my interest. Besides having NO BUSINESS being married @ 21. Smh. I since have REmarried and NOW have no doubt that I'M IN LOVE w/my husband and I've NO DESIRE to have another man on the side. No room in my heart for anyone else.

[@angelhampton4365]

Being married at 21 isn't the issue... It's us not being taught what you know now

[@reginadavis1028]

@angel hampton I'm going to have to agree. That and the lack of life experiences and a lack of maturity. But also not being ready or really understanding COMMITTMENT OF THAT MAGNITUDE so young! And lastly, not having any examples of what a healthy marriage looked like in BOTH roles.

[@weareallone6148]

Thank you, Tony for the Truthful Guidance! Love yourself first and then you’ll know your value! Do not settle please, Ladies! You deserve way Better!

[@saltycat662]

They can when they aren't really in love lol. Those men are more in love with themselves than any woman they're with.

[@blancarodriguez1340]

WOW! I literally was watching your other video “Can a man love two women” from 3 years ago a couple of days ago! That video is so real & honest! I can’t wait to watch this one too ❤

[@Dantheman12467]

I loved two women with all my heart, I immediatly told them about the other, it wasnt a sexual thing it's just something I felt deep inside.. For awhile the 3 of us were connected and the two women were really getting closer to each other BUT at the end they couldn't keep from attacking each other and sadly the relationship ended.

[@Ptah1130]

Love yes. In love, no...

[@irenenjeri8720]

If I get to know a man has another woman he won't have to make a choice am making it for him, I leave so remains with one choice, being alone is better than competing

[@millicentstollenwerck5239]

Women that have dated men can tell when you're not the only one, cause his inconsistency will show at some point.

[@dollfacethebeauty88]

For the part where you said that the people that want to have sex all the time usually have childhood trauma is NOT always the case. Some people who have mood disorders like Bipolar and Borderline personality disorder often experience hypersexuality and we have a hard time dealing with being impulsive during a manic episode which causes the “high sex drive” . I wish you would make a video on how to properly date when you suffer from mental disorders. This is something I have struggled with mostly all my life

[@WandersNotLost]

It may not be his area of expertise, but if it yours then you should absolutely film yourself doing a talk analysis on the topic and share it. That’s a niche topic which would benefit your community.

[@jasmineclark5817]

Well said.. Trauma is a part of life and Not Only childhood. I consider Myself a very affection & delicate passionate with My lover. Everything has its place though.

[@jillberry2066]

Ladies yall hear that, most men never fall in love! So why bother, it's just like a dog chasing his tail. Probably only 15% of lady will ever have a guy fall in love with them.

[@farrahwhite2008]

You teaching tonightttttttttt!!!!!!! Oh and Team pisces! !!!!!!! We a vibe❤😂

[@jam1369]

I'm in love with Jesus Christ. I can't go a day without talking with him.

[@phinolanurse8059]

Amen to that

[@Hype4Christ]

❤

[@LuxeGlobalLifestyle]

"Alot of Times a Woman is with a Man until she finds a better man. " whew that hit different. 😢

[@oasr231]

I'm in love with two women right now, I'm a polygamist. But I'm also a pagan spiritualist. The other factor is that I'm bisexual. I've never been faithful, until now that I'm in love with 2 women. My only problem is my wife doesn't know about the other woman, we are all friends. I respect others points of view and I agree with what you are saying. I can't explain it, I split my time with both. I accept the flaws of both. I can't leave either one, but I feel complete with both. I'm very sexually active and my wife and girlfriend are not. But not everything is about sex. My connection is spiritual and I only like messing around with men. But I love the emotional connection with women.

[@FutureAttyInTheMaking]

As always, Great message! Great emphasis on the difference between “Loving two women” and being “In Love” with two women at the same time. Your points are spot on! Please continue to share the truth. Stay Blessed 🙏🏼

[@iamcellular6650]

I think it went over some peoples heads that Tony describes the difference between having love for someone and being in love with someone.

[@tripleb1104]

✴️✴️ When a man says he's, "In-love with you", is it a reasonable question to ask him, "Why he believes that to be true"? ✴️✴️

[@mamabearj785]

Great video tony, I watched the old one a couple times before. You should do another remake on how to know a man is in love with you and the difference between being in love and just having love for them…so many women in these comments are broken and it’s depressing to read how hopeless they are, id think some are even listening or watching the whole video. I am married but I also totally understand the terrible state of dating nowadays.

[@jessiegraz7520]

Remember the story in the Bible Jacob loved Rachel and not Leah. In the Old Testament.

[@Lovegod4821]

MY EX-HUSBAND SAID THAT TO ME AND I LEFT HIM HE WAS LIKE HE DONT KNOW WHO HE WANTS, I WENT TO GOD ABOUT HIM AND AS SOON AS GOD GAVE ME MY ANSWER AND SAID GO I LEFT AND NEVER LOOK BACK AND IM SO HAPPY I OBEYED GOD THE BEST DECISION, NOW GOD HAS SOMEONE SPECIAL FOR ME AND JUST WATING AND GOD TO BRING IT ALTOGETHER BECAUSE HE ALREADY REVEAL HIM TO ME. LOVE YALL.

[@nkwetisamacyran1936]

I am in a situation where the guy says we both have what he wants in a wife and when he said that i decided to back out for him to stay with her but he tolerated the space just for 2 days and came back and said i was his best friend and no matter what i am the only one who understands him completely but at the same time he says he also loves the other lady. I love him too and i don't know what to do. The guy makes me confuse because he listens to me, if he has the means he attends to my needs, he is a best friend the only time he is terrible is when he is with the other lady.

[@teishahowlett6342]

Me, I am one of them, soon 2 years, I just feel like it..Plus so much stuff going on these Terrible Times, Women have to be Ultra Careful, with all these Nuts running around..You really lord have Mercy, Don’t know whose who…

[@NoMoreTears64]

Relationships are screwed up. Easier to stay single.

[@trutherone2140]

Certainly, a man can love 2 women at the same time. Thank you Tony!

[@annaadams86ful]

Lol raggedy tictock😂 😂😂

[@MichelleNagir]

😂😂😂

[@shes_ah_truckher7716]

😂😂

[@lindastl.3407]

I feel 13:50 to 16:25 is the very game that men play, which women just got tired of being the victim of and started to play that same game too. So this proves that it's just a vicious cycle just going on. That is sad and I'll choose to not be a part of this madness; not emotionally, not physically, nor mentally. We are adults and should act as so; Open Communication is a great start. You are worth it.

[@christineporter9914]

Thanks Bro Tony for breaking this down so real‼️💯♥️🎯

[@CoachLadyD]

Had to hear this again... a necessary replay! A lot of people don't understand/experience real love because of relationship pains, hurts, insecurities, past traumas...

[@angelamoore261]

Wow Thank-you Tony that make A lot of since.

[@VirtuousWoman1143]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. TONY !!!! MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY & ENDEAVORS.🎂🧁🎁🎈🎊🎉

[@bbQueens22]

Love the message u r so true about how men thimks

[@mrs.k1525]

Can’t wait to hear this!

[@LarennPBel]

💙💙This was broken down well. I like how Tony expanded on it. That’s my 2 cents.💙💙

[@kekefobbs8647]

I'm not competing for a man if he wants to go let him go. Hopefully one day he will wake up an see how much he hurt that woman. A lot of men don't know how to communicate an that where a problem comes in at.

[@MyFav77]

Hello. I totally agree with everything you said.

[@Michellemybell739]

Nah now Tony I’ve heard MEN FALL IN LOVE in a woman’s absence now YOU saying men fall in love in our presence-at this point there’s nothing I believe with these men.

[@texcoco41]

He said most men, not all men.

[@gapeachy912]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@Michellemybell739]

@@texcoco41 That’s still some bs sir-which one ARE you?

[@ieshjust16]

I love how u gave the analogy about a woman who could still be in love with an ex wow Tony you're the best 💯

[@destinyselevation6004]

💯 Wisdom, Thank you Minister Gaskins

[@dinomeanmann7391]

This is great conversation my brother!

[@LarennPBel]

Notification on point 10 seconds in.

[@elatquotes7725]

Women need to make God their first priority in life period than everything else will fall in place.

[@oasr231]

Also that mindset can be connected to religious beliefs, not being a Christian probably is why i think differently. Thank you for explaining things the way you have. I respect that and you have explained correctly.

[@Braveh3artGirl]

This was so hard to hear, but thanks Tony ❤

[@cassie101]

Yes in 2 different ways. A love of convenience because she is available and the one he is in love with but may not have access too her .

[@imspecial2286]

Great video, T.G. This video makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your spiritual advice on the relationship. God bless you and your family.

[@bumblebee2227]

I'm confused. My husband said he fell in love with another woman but he didn't want to provide a life for her. He wanted to spoil her but didn't. He was only with her for 2 months. We been together 10 years at the time. He told her that he would never leave me for her. Im just so confused.

[@LadyAngela678]

Im still just wondering if a man can really even love. 😅

[@ThisIzKena]

Sounds like they are capable..but some have fear of 'losin control' of their emotions with being in Love.

[@sibel3795]

Everything you have said is 💯 Tony you are so observant on both genders! ❤

[@mariagrady2924]

Men are so different than women about love , most of the time if how they are raised. Rarely the man that has trauma at a early age 🙏 will not love deeply easy. Most of the time if they are raised to see daddy loving mommy and mommy loving daddy. Find it easier to love by example, most of the time. Then people have their own will male and female.

[@drekathigpen4869]

Cause for them it’s all about trust and believing they can be successful. It’s hard to trust something you’ve never experienced or believe you can be successful at something you’ve never seen

[@mariagrady2924]

That is WHY GOD ASK US TO TRUST HIM. LORD ORDER OUR STEPS, TO DO SO. AMEN 🙏🔥🙏

[@mariagrady2924]

All humans have like passions. To be successful in life in CHRIST we must right where we are in life to get deliverance from evil, to live righteously in CHRIST. Then we have to get an be anchored in HIM to keep the righteous virtue we have gotten from JESUS. Our flesh is against us, let alone satan demons an people. We have to start with ourselves asking GOD FOR HIS HELP.

[@dianthomas2797]

After going through life - I am starting to believe that a man can love two women BUT for two different reasons! I am not addressing right or wrong ONLY the direct question! James 1:8. 👍

[@intentionalgreatness]

Agreed. The dynamics between any 2 ppl are different so what he may love one woman for..the other woman doesnt even have. Ppl often focus on traits and not how the 2 relationships differ.

[@ThisIzKena]

Love but not "in love".

[@PulsatingThoughtsPodcast]

Agreed

[@niki-mars955]

But, that was a bar when Tony said, "A man cannot be in love with two women" There's a difference between loving and being in love because it really does take commitment.

[@iriswilson7387]

I totally understand and agree.

[@PrsWater8]

If part of love is to desire what's best for you, how can he love while purposely causing emotional turmoil or playing mind games.

[@MayfairJones]

COME ON THRU TONY!! SPOT ON MAN OF GOD !!!

[@akilahbatyah6505]

Good message.

[@kaysgraphicalexpressions219]

Thank you Tony for your six cents

[@Realness4sho]

Beautiful Mr. Gaskins.💜

[@lumintalocke7724]

This is good!!! But I can't help lmbo. "kitty pool"

[@ruschienedeidrick]

Wow! 🎉 This message with so many valid and strong points makes soooo much sense and definitely relatable! 🙏 Thank you Tony ! Appreciate your advice 1,000% 💫✌️

[@bridgetbonita7914]

This is the best video by far from you. Thanks so much 😊❤

[@rebeccacordero3996]

Would love to hear you speak on ways a man tests you to figure out if you’re the one

[@christyrobinson6827]

That's was a good question and I was wondering that myself and thank you for the message

[@staciadavis-5p1cac93]

Excellent and much needed message.

[@kekefobbs8647]

Lust and love are two different things.

[@MyFav77]

Absolutely! Some men really do have a lustful spirit. Only God can deliver him.

[@niki-mars955]

I'm weak! Tony said, he's trying to fight a yawn right now. Ggaghahahahhahaah Too funny.

[@qscott888]

Happy Saturday checkin 👋🏽. Looking forward to our GC calls this week. 🙌🏽

[@corneliabridges7285]

Hi Tony. Thank you for this because I needed to hear it. 😢

[@steph_steph876]

This is a good explanation Tony for sure. Always on point.

[@kingsagenda]

Yes, momma and grandmomma.

[@sarahjean-paul4979]

Great video 🙌🏾Always on point!! Can you cover the Sean, Shanice and Olivia Polycouple situation? I would love to hear your analysis

[@grandreactionsnreviews3508]

What is it about? I have to look it up.

[@godsgrace2187]

Profound message 💯

[@anchy0027]

Thank you Tony, I need to hear this!

[@a.5939]

The short answer is NO. The long answer is also NO.

[@tarahbruno3793]

We needed this!!! Thank you Tony

[@caroladams437]

This was so good 👍

[@elianaisrael2757]

When he said "the two women share his body". One word .....Gross!

[@lmason3001]

i know this is serious but Tony just cracks me up, a wam bam and done, I'm not sure if it's because I'm english so the terminology is just funny to me, and with that accent on top LMAOOOO y'all are too funny man.

[@dantoinettetaylor1663]

The saying goes, Wham, Bham! Thank you ma’am!

[@talkswithlaterrio4177]

Love this topic

[@CeeceeH1819]

If he in love with 2 women at the same time, his love is divided/split between the 2, so the women r not getting his full focus, time, attention and resources. No 2 women are exactly the same so he has to love them differently.

[@Rica228]

This was great!!! 😊

[@dantoinettetaylor1663]

An example would be King Charles was in love with Camilla but he loved Diana.

[@CeeceeH1819]

He did not love Diana and admitted it in an interview.

[@michellelogan7273]

Facts!

[@zenobia.bridgewater9961]

Happy Birthday Tony🎉. We share the the same bday!

[@Jay-Kay-Buwembo]

ALL LOVE GROWS WITH PHYSICAL TOUCH AND PRESENCE! Scientific experiments with baby monkeys & their mothers show that touch is the most important thing to build connection.

[@awilliams382]

❤❤❤ Explained nicely.💯

[@mjj5642]

“If you snortin powda or on that oil” 😩😩😭😭😭😭

[@gapeachy912]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@ThisIzKena]

I was tryna figure out what is "dat oil"..😂😂

[@mjj5642]

@@ThisIzKena Im assuming he means lean or just normal alcoholic drinks 😩😭😭🤣🤣

[@iwantcrystals]

@@ThisIzKena I. Am. Weak.

[@colebritney78]

😂😂😂

[@Ruthforme]

Thank you Tony.

[@reginamarie123]

They don’t split his ❤️is 💯!!!