Can You Ask Guests to Wear REQUIRED COLORS? | An Attire Q+A

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[@beckylang91]

it’s the “Diddy’s White Party” reference for me 😂❤

[@sXe_Wolverine]

How about now?

[@beckylang91]

@ oof yeah, this didn’t age well

[@sXe_Wolverine]

@@beckylang91 lol my fiancé and I were dying at that part of the video

[@brookie_cheers]

I am a December 2023 bride, and love Jamie's channel! I got my dress online from Jenny Yoo. The first dress I ordered and tried on was the one! Loved the fabric, and was true to the size chart! We also did a black tie event, but requested dark colors on our website and when people asked. I think the biggest tip would be to not feel bad for requesting attire to create the day/theme ya'll envision, but have grace on your guests knowing there will be people who do not show up in that attire for various reasons! (Price of attire being the main one) Overall, we are happy we requested attire/colors, and were not upset with the few guests who did not show up in it. Ya'll should be focused on one another at the end of the day anyway! :)

[@xmoonxbabyx3483]

Loving the hair ❤

[@Muppetfanforevah]

Cathedral veils can be bustled for the reception if needed. They can also be temporarily attached to the train (need the seamstress to do this bit) ti guarantee a better flow and fluff.

[@maryseKassim03]

Our guests will be wearing “all shades of Brown” … I will be providing a palette for them to choose from! I am excited 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Thanks for your tips !

[@rebeccaleann]

I bought my wedding dress on Amazon and it is the exact same as the one that I picked out. I absolutely love and can't wait to get married in it. The prefect fit!

[@miggy90200]

Hi Jamie! I had my guests wear dark jewel tones (reds, greens, golds, blues, etc.) while my family and in laws wore plum and navy respectively. It was fabulous. I put this information on the invitation AND the website.

[@s.a.4358]

I think that’s fine because you still give options of different colours, both cool and warm tones.

[@miggy90200]

@@s.a.4358 yeah, it was more so for an aesthetic and wanting everyone in complimentary colors rather than "you must wear this color". I figured all would have something that matched without having to purchase an outfit. Everyone looked coordinated in pictures and nothing clashed.

[@lovelyrainflowerfarm]

I had a great experience with a Azazie. And I’m a size 18W. But I am one of those persons that does not need a dress to be marketed to me as a ‘wedding dress’, to choose it as a wedding dress. I’m looking for a certain cut, detail and quality. If I find that in a dress that’s labeled in a different category - that doesn’t matter to me. As long as it’s a high-quality dress. I ordered a size up from Azazie because I want to err on the side of caution. And then I got a local tailor to do alterations. In the end it cost me about $250. Just putting that out there. But I totally respect the desire of others that go about choosing their wedding dress differently.

[@doravalencia2214]

I want to give my family a pallette simply for the pictures.. went to a wedding with a white dress code.. bride wore gold and champagne colored two piece and groom wore salmon... to this day a very taxing wedding

[@capnchrissy7006]

Bright floral colors and literally anyone can wear whatever they feel lmao I’m gonna look good and feel good and I want the same for everyone else. Also I love your hair!!!

[@s.a.4358]

Not everyone looks good in bright colours or in florals

[@allykaye89]

I bought my dress for $100 from JJ's House. Admittedly, the booby cup was askew, which I fixed, and the skirt was a little on the sheer side but not too much. But I loved it. Was a backyard wedding and ended up changing into a different dress for the reception anyway.

[@susancook1448]

My daughter went with Kennedy Blue for bridesmaids. We got a discount and it worked out well. They even sent us sample dresses of our favorite styles and that helped a lot!

[@sXe_Wolverine]

11:00 Diddy Party mentioned

[@jgates594]

Many of these online shoppers offer at home try on. Yes Azazie, a few others like JJ's House, Revelry and yes Kennedy Blue; but not Birdy Grey 🤔. JJs House/ Azazie/Kennedy Blue sell brides dresses. Revelry dresses cost more then the others, so if your planning on wearing more affordable dresses (bridesmaids) check the others out. FYI - although some offer a decent amount of color options, they don't have many primary or secondary colors. Something to keep in mind, depending on your color palette (if you already decided on one).

[@FortheLoveofDCL]

Love Azazie!!!!

[@saintXbernardXloverX]

I had considered asking all the guests wear black but I thought it would be rude to request but I mean everyone looks good in black lol

[@happening_quietly]

That’s what I wanna do since black will be one of our colors. Not so I as a the bride stand out but because I want to look out at my favorite people looking elegant and aesthetic. Of course I’d allow accents though. Black is just so gorgeous. It’s all I wear!

[@feychildtarot355]

Jjs house also has bridal dresses, bridesmaid dresses, mob, prom dresses also. Wedding dresses from average 200-500.

[@genevieve9015]

In our invite, we included a Dress Code Card so guests could take it shopping with them ❤ If they don't wear a color from that card it is what it is lol

[@MaeSitler]

I love Tori Kelly ❤

[@orionspero560]

Gibson Girl trompet and empire wast balgon Especially if you give the early Victorian features to the ladder and the late victorian features to the former is my suggestion for 2 brides victoriana without two matchiey.

[@susancook1448]

Your spelling almost gave me a headache!!

[@LaurenLavigne-d1y]

Azazie Bridal has try on samples. We ordered a bunch and made it a party at home. My dress that I love ended up being less than $500

[@CynthiaChenDustBunnyyy]

What was your discount code for Generation Tux you mentioned? BPJamie?

[@nriamond8010]

I personally hate demanding guests to wear specific colours (totally fine if it's optional!). Yes, it looks pretty on photos. But how rude is it to let your guests pay to be a kind of wedding decoration?! I would never in my wildest dreams do this! It's something else to ask for festive clothes because this influences the atmosphere a lot and you have to own some piece of formal wear anyway. But it's already expensive to be a wedding guest and then asking to buy new clothes on top of that? Very wasteful, too - I don't want to have a closet full of once-worn stuff (I can't borrow or rent something because I'm 5' and wear cup G, so my figure issues are not even weight-related, I cannot change them).

[@angel4utasia]

It really depends on your guests. I remember I was invited to a wedding on the other side of the country. The invitation asked guests not to wear : white (of course that's to be expected), red (again reasonable), black, navy (including suits..), gold, green, orange, and pink. We had to buy a new dress for myself as my go to colours is navy and green, a new suit for my husband - he only had navy and black, suits were required. This along with paying to fly across the country, accommodation and a wedding gift, not to mention on the ground travel. Church and reception were 45 minutes apart with no public transport. Plus a pet sitter. I asked my friend who was getting married if it's okay if we sent them 1500 as a present instead of attending they said no. It was a very expensive and stressful weekend.

[@klm_shadow]

That’s a lot of restrictions. I can see saying no white obviously and say maybe the other colors of the wedding like burgundy and champagne or something like that. But to say no navy, green, red, and that whole host of other colors it makes it difficult. Like you were left with gray and yellow and purple? Not a fan of that and not a fan of how the bride was rude to you when you offered a very generous gift. Cause I get it. Pet sitting, flights, hotels and new clothes and Ubers or taxis sounds expensive and unkind to the guests.

[@SebbieSaurus22]

I'm doing kind of the opposite of asking them to wear specific colors. We're doing a Medieval fantasy wedding, and I am sewing my own dress. It will be purple instead of white. My family is all going to be in similar shades of purple, my fiancee and family will all be in darker shades of green, and our wedding party is going to be in lighter shades of purple and green. So I'm going to ask my guests to 1) please come in Medieval or fantasy attire in lieu of gifts so that our pictures are AMAZING, and 2) please do not wear any shades of either purple or green, as these are reserved for the wedding party and immediate family. I'd be totally fine with a bunch of people showing up in white.

[@notinvogue4287]

Has anyone tried jj's house?

[@JasmineJones-wh1tv]

Our friends had requested their guests wear black and white. The photos were sick.

[@jessicagarcia3279]

Do you wear barefoot shoes?!?! I do and they have changed my life and my food problems!

[@sjpublicart]

just got invited to "women must wear floor length black/men in black suits" - first thought is hubs and I would cross dress, second through "respond no". I'm not here as a prop. Sorry