Captivate - The Best Social Skills Toolbox for Reading People by Vanessa Edwards

[@jpjp9111]

I met this lady at a workshop right before the release of her book and she is a really nice person. She is also a very smart person that communicates and teaches well. I'm still in the 2nd chapter of the book but I personally can vouch for this book from what I've read already.

[@rea8585]

Anyone else learned about microexpressions from tv show Lie to me? I love that one! Another thing I love doing when I am talking to people is finding out what they like to do and what they are interested in and then I ask them questions about that. There is always something to learn, even if you feel like you already know everything about it. Because we each understand things differently and so even if you don't end up agreeing with the other person, you can still learn that there is more than one interpretation to any fact or info and that keeping an open mind is a key to successful conversation and relationship.

[@chibay99]

how come your content is ALWAYS interesting and inspirational? like i really enjoyed the video and instantly added the book to my to-read list. honestly man, i have nothing but appreciation and admiration for you and your hard work! keep it up!

[@MrRgarcia2010]

Spot on! These are great tactics for social enhancements. I especially agree with letting people teach you, even if you already know it. I've been doing this for some time and you'd be amazed how many times people light up when you ask them for more info. Yes, the majority of the time it's redundant information but you do get on their good side and will learn a thing or two. Another thing would be when you're trying to get to know different coworkers/departments at your job. Ask them about projects and/or some personal passion you know/heard about them (easy one is sports/kids). You'd be surprised how quick you catch their attention. Happy socializing!

[@eRockBrowser]

You did a fantastic job. Vanessa's book has already made it to my favorites which includes Will Durant and Napoleon Hill. Thank you

[@GuidingEchoes]

Thanks for this! I bought the book (well, I bought the audible) based on your recommendation. Looking forward to reading it. Thanks for everything you do here. This is one of my favorite channels. :)

[@valeriaostenova4728]

I love this chanel! I alredy know many things what you are saying but I like listen it. Sometimes I realize somethnig new. i am trying to use your advices and my mind to ive exactly how I want. Every video is a big motivation form me.I realize that the point of my life is goal now. It is good to know that you have some task, you can do it.And the best feeling is when its done. Anyway, keep doing so amazing videos and reaching your goals!

[@EnglishwithBecky94]

Great video! Just ordered the book now. Thanks for the recommend.

[@swaguilar_]

Well done! I'm subscribed to Vanessa's email newsletter and I love her work! :)

[@hit6208]

Back at it again with the great vids

[@krizziaudtohan2154]

thank you for this wonderful video!

[@Leondragon06]

Love Charisma on Command one of my favorite YTers =)

[@welcometoopa]

Nice summary - makes me want to read it myself 😊 thanks for sharing.

[@giochacon8354]

I have this via audible, and it is a super great book!

[@danangelohilao2058]

another awesome video! ugh! love it

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Thanks for the support; hope you love it and learn something :)

[@danangelohilao2058]

i always learn something new whenever you upload something! :D Thank you for your videos man

[@aadarsh91]

Hey man the video was awesome I subscribed to your channel for watching such types of videos but after long time you have posted a video that I was looking for. 👍 so please make such types of videos....... Like book reviews

[@knowledgeisgood6791]

Great great book review brother! indeed, body language is extremely important when you are out there in the world. depending how you use your body language, you can come across as being a weak person, a lazy person, having low confident, etc. if you want to influence people or have people respect you more, practice on improving your body language. specially if your trying to attract another woman. did you know that females are way more perceptive than man? in other words, they are able to spot the contradictions between a man’s body language and their words. this is why most men get caught lying to their women. MRI scans shows that women have 14-16 areas in the brain to examine other people’s behavior versus a man; 4-6 areas in the brain. this explains why men say women talk forever and women say men talk very little. that being said, body language is crucial when communicating with others. Good work Practical Psychology! hopefully soon I’ll be collaborating with onepercentbetter on a book review I did about body language so wish me luck! God bless you brother!

[@ErinsLassie]

Very nicely done! One of the best you've done in a while I think! Thanks for sharing! Side note... It's pronounced like pig-MALE-ion. The original story of My Fair Lady was called Pygmalion since Professor Higgins "sculpts" Eliza to be the perfect woman...fun fact! ;)

[@TheArtofInternet]

Nice video practical psychology

[@utkarshkumbhare]

and another great video...👍👍👍

[@echogaybaldfith7466]

Really great video

[@alphasociety1962]

Awesome book review.. Making me wanna read it now!!

[@curiocity7614]

Much needed video

[@edi9892]

What if I got a problem looking other people in the eyes? When I talk and get mentally involved in my story, then my focus drifts away from the person in front of me to what I'm doing (thinking of every detail, while my eyes tend to drift down). Even worse, if I observe someone and he/she looks me in the eye, it makes me feel uneasy. Subconsciously, I seem to take it as an intrusion in privacy and as an aggressive act which requires a fight or flight response, which I have to suppress on a conscious level.

[@davidr9165]

where do I find all these recent studies you are talking about

[@nightfury2068]

Love the whole video but I am confused about we should do make eye contact more then 7sec or not.....?

[@AliexFolgueira]

Congratulations on 1,000,000 😁 how do you feel about it?

[@mustafazakiassagaf1757]

Wow, you sound super energetic

[@lesslostpodcast]

@practical psychology hahah I just had to watch the video like 5 times since I applied your tips for writing with girls and my attention was kind of somewhere else :)

[@rogue]

'You, are obviously NOT a vegan, but...' WAIT HOW DID YOU KNOW

[@joanevladimarycruz377]

This is so cool!

[@dcardigan13]

"Pygmalion effect" for me is like "Give a dog a good name" section in How To Influence people (I'm not very sure it's the exact title, but.... The author's name is spelled close to something like Carniege or something like that I'M SO SORRYY I'm bad names)

[@Areyouseriousor]

Awesome, as always :)

[@ralfrd5]

what other books do you recommend to this

[@GeekyMino]

Super useful video! This looks like a very good book to read (added to my reading list) 😁

[@rodchristophertoledo4612]

Black Screen Education o

[@emanuelvlad6336]

Really good video but felt like you threw fact after fact really quickly where it was hard to fully comprehend before learning the new fact. A psychological study says if you say the same information three different ways to audience will remember it more likely. Just a tip

[@bestvideos3801]

Which mic do u use?

[@xhulioballiu8538]

When will you upload the next video?

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Probably tomorrow :)

[@xhulioballiu8538]

Practical Psychology tomorrow is going to be a better day. Thank you sir

[@anandkrishvvenkat5644]

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[@tremulo5568]

The power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is awesome but you have to read it with an open mind 😊

[@anandkrishvvenkat5644]

Misifú thankyou so much | this message is really meant lot to me

[@anandkrishvvenkat5644]

gbrsc 🙌💪 tysm | friend

[@scienceisall2632]

Np buddy. Keep a log of your conversations. Save good questions and save good responses for later use

[@anandkrishvvenkat5644]

Gary Bates 😊✌️👍💪

[@pranshumishra2376]

You really come up with good content i must appreciate... but at times you go too fast while presenting your content.. if you can slow down a bit on your pace - it will help in understanding and internalising the topic better.. keep up the good work you are doing. Best Wishes!!

[@priyankjain5427]

Sir, Its a great channel and i have always loved and followed your videos. A humble request to you: Could you please send me the habit harvester book for free because in india 3$ is a big price sir... I will be greatful for your help

[@kingchuks2586]

hey brother in somalia if you make aye contact for to long you may end up in fight it awkward in Somalia

[@BrixtonBando]

"You are OBVIOUSLY not a vegan" lol 100%

[@nobu665]

So, how can I go about preforming a rape?

[@DylansDIYWorkshop]

#notified

[@CIRCLEDDOT]

65 + 69 +84 + 109 + 195 = 522 not 559 Articles :P

[@jumercolee4337]

" you are obviously not a vegan " lol lol 😂

[@meecall465]

Notifications squad was too slow ☹️

[@abheyparashar]

I love ya mate

[@litoboy5]

COOL

[@crazyace__]

I have terrible social skills, probably end up ending it

[@daphnededrick8493]

crazyace1586 _Ending what? Your life? Dont think that way man. Life is beautiful. You just have to look for the beauty._

[@nilstarlight]

Hello Theodor!

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Hey!

[@Zett76]

So... I'm "obviously" not a vegan? :-)

[@HiddenWen]

I find these tutorials really nice, but does anyone else at times feel fake when they have to apply these techniques to a real social situation?

[@TheMindsetReset]

HiddenWen I definitely know what you mean but don't get too caught up in feeling "fake" You're under no obligation to be who you were 5 minutes ago..

[@jasonr7035]

Cool

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Hope you enjoy :)

[@jakemaxwell5959]

Lay of the coffee

[@Melomotooo]

7:35 sound like he ate something

[@leahcimmmm]

The Pygmalion Effect just reminded me of One Thousand Lies.

[@saitamaez1972]

Let them teach sth for you...like how to pronounce pygmalion? :D

[@ekanshsinghgour2228]

It's awesome.....but can u go a bit slow next time....no one would mind a 10 min video.

[@psy-lion]

who cares

[@xhulioballiu8538]

So if you by reading this book, you will have the ability to get nudes os sb just by looking at their eyes? Just kidding awesome video thanks.

[@damjanlisjak5953]

Are you black or white?

[@TheMindsetReset]

Damjan Lisjak It's pretty rare black people would draw the "hip black guy" when referring to slang"nah im saying man" Especially a 1990s Will Smith baggy clothes type hip guy.

[@charliegreenwood2125]

7:13 woman got me 🤤

[@lightr2187]

First

[@fbiagent57]

It's Morty lol

[@boiledfrog5739]

this video including business unfriendly content,convince people not to buy books .

[@HunniiChii]

boiled frog maybe, but I personally don't like buying things without knowing what they're about. So if I watch this video and like what I hear, then I'm more likely to want to read it

[@meecall465]

Notifications squad was too slow ☹️