Casual Conversation with an ENFP & INFP

[@floranox816]

As an intj, I have to say that I have great respect for Xnfps. Comparing the people I know with these two guys, they all seem to me to be kind, deep and creative souls, much stronger than what people (and maybe even themselves) think. I admire their diplomacy: they have the ability not to betray themselves and their values without at the same time 'coming into conflict ' with others (whereas I tend to be more edgy and extreme in my opinions). You are beautiful people, infps and enfps, and it's so nice to have you around. 🌹

[@justcallmejon22]

Easily two of my favorite type as well ❤

[@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes]

Thank to your amazing friends for their participation. It's a gift that your bring, to share your close circle with us. ENFP and INFP are among the few types, who never judged me, and accepted me, loved me directly as I am. Who directly adopted me. I guess they love our INTJ uniqueness.

[@justcallmejon22]

They really are great people and I appreciate how our friendships developed organically. NFs really are the best 😃

[@Violet_Odorata]

Your expression when they start talking about umbrellas is priceless 😂

[@justcallmejon22]

I laughed at myself when I editing and though you all would appreciate it as well 😂

[@frikuv]

Loved this! So useful to see the dynamics between the types in conversation. Would have been interesting to hear the INTJ answers to all the questions to see how they differ from the xNFPs.

[@justcallmejon22]

Glad you enjoyed it! They really are fantastic people and I enjoy sharing my Fi with the world. I talk too much already on this channel, they deserve the spotlight 😃

[@_Thunderball_]

- Really funny to watch Jon space out right after finishing talking, and you know the guy is experienced: he doesnt just space out while looking at whoever he was talking to, he moves the eyes down to avoid death staring. - I think the ability to discern what people are making up about themselves is a function of Te, so it makes total sense why INFP has issues recognizing what exactly is fake about them even though she says she realizes that something's wrong immediately. - Generally agree with the typing even though an ENFP in engineering was something that made me super suspicious about his type initially. It's not that ENFPs arent capable but they usually have vastly different interests. And he did say that he chose that career for himself. Weird.

[@justcallmejon22]

I have to constantly tell myself to stop staring during interviews! I've said this on my ENFP video and it still holds true, ENFPs are consistently the most inconsistent type and I love that about them ❤

[@kelll3294]

I am very cognizant about stares as told people find it unnerving when it's actually me showing interest in the person's perspective.

[@NiTeFiSe.collie]

I'm an INTJ and I spaced out at the 2:28 mark, and stopped.

[@justcallmejon22]

Thanks for stopping by 🙏

[@vivjrhy1129]

you are really rare jon, and i like yur vibes. im not bashing but, in my observation your two beautiful guests seem to look like just everyone (despite of their uncommon mbti types) and their fashion, sense of style make me think that they use SE quite balance

[@justcallmejon22]

Thank you for the compliment and I appreciate the support! The beauty of learning MBTI is witnessing my loved ones engaging their lower/shadow functions because it means that they haven't stopped growing as a person. Se is easy to replicate because you just have to look at a magazine, it's the 'why' that sets us apart ✊

[@_Thunderball_]

Their types are not uncommon. Also, I'm not sure what sense of style you're talking about))))

[@vivjrhy1129]

@@justcallmejon22 Yes, that's right. but I'm more comfortable with unconventional ones. thank you too

[@vivjrhy1129]

@@_Thunderball_ the way they dress, , overall look, and the way they carry themselves, the standark look of many people

[@_Thunderball_]

@@vivjrhy1129 how else would people look in a casual setting? INFPs are the most popular type among females who are interested in MBTI, most of them look super unassuming. ENFPs tend to look a little more spicy, but it's a guy, guys dont really look different, even ENTPs and ENFPs, especially in this setting.

[@farhankapadia6814]

I can relate to their general vibe as an INTP. But ofc, there's exceptions with me being a high Ti user.

[@justcallmejon22]

Ne is going to Ne and I'm usually just there watching in amazement where the conversation ends up 😅

[@farhankapadia6814]

@@justcallmejon22 Yup, the Ne-Si in motion definitely goes in all kind of directions. At least, with my experience, those with the better balance of it (the INXP) will usually try to bring it back to original topic even if it does end up becoming tangential.

[@sarahhbaee]

i wish i was in this conversation- intj girl

[@justcallmejon22]

What would you say?

[@sarahhbaee]

@@justcallmejon22 particularly the part where you were asking them about topic changes, depending on who i’m talking to they might cut me off right in the middle of me explaining (usually to say “yeah girl don’t worry you don’t have to say all that”)why i do certain things or why i have certain opinions in specific topics and i prefer it when i’m given a chance to give explanations and come full circle on whatever is going through my head. oh yeah and as for what i would say, i would try to dive deeper into that part of the convo.

[@stu6097]

Is the US the richest country in the world if you take away the charge card and subtract all the debt?

[@justcallmejon22]

If you take away the debt, those countries won't get paid and their value drops as well. Also, California alone is the 5th largest GDP in the world! America rarrrrrr 🇺🇸

[@fabronator2342]

Whats your tritype?

[@justcallmejon22]

Im not sure. Where do I find out?

[@fabronator2342]

@@justcallmejon22 Tbh I don't know, I did enneagram tests and then I researched until I found out myself which one I am, and then I found out myself which one I think is my tritype, I also consulted both things with friends and they agree

[@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes]

@@justcallmejon22 FAST METHOD : Three of the numbers should correspond to you : One number of each triad : 8 or 9 or 1 (Gut/instinct) AND 2 or 3 or 4 (Heart/feeling) AND 5 or 6 or 7 (Head/thinking) ❯❯ THE BASICS FEARS OF THE TYPES 1_Fear of being bad, corrupt, evil, or defective 2_Fear of being unworthy or being loved 3_Fear of being worthless or without inherent value 4_Fear of being without identity or personal significance 5_Fear of being useless, incapable, or incompetent 6_Fear of being without support or guidance 7_Fear of being deprived or trapped in pain 8_Fear of being harmed or controlled by others 9_Fear of loss of connection, of fragmentation ❯❯ BASICS DESIRES & THEIR DISTORTIONS 1_The desire to have integrity (deteriorates into critical perfectionism) 2_The desire to be loved (deteriorates into the need to be needed) 3_The desire to be valuable (deteriorates into chasing after success) 4_The desire to be oneself (deteriorates into self-indulgence) 5_The desire to be competent (deteriorates into useless specialization) 6_The desire to be secure (deteriorates into an attachment to beliefs) 7_The desire to be happy (deteriorates into frenetic escapism) 8_The desire to protect oneself (deteriorates into constant fighting) 9_The desire to be at peace (deteriorates into stubborn neglectfulness) ❯❯ LOST CHILDHOOD MESSAGES - Messages they needed the most to hear in their childhood : 1_You are good 2_You are wanted 3_You are loved for yourself 4_ You are seen for who you are 5_Your needs are not a problem 6_You are safe 7_You will be taken care of 8_You will not be betrayed 9_Your presence matters (Lists the Book "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" - Riso & Hudson)

[@Bobby_101]

She seems like an INFP. But the guys' body language and speaking style is totally ENFJ.

[@Pinkywinkykinky]

Not enough to certify he's an enfj 🙏

[@Iceman219]

@@PartiallyCoiled Nah, Fe dominant is a big queen energy. She doesn't have that.

[@Iceman219]

@@PartiallyCoiled The guy seems ESxJ.

[@Iceman219]

@@PartiallyCoiled cognitive Fe would manifest in an assertive and physically forward expression so that's not possible for her. Ji dominant looks likely though

[@Iceman219]

Look at Oprah or Megyn Kelly. That's what Fe dom looks like. It's a leader and speaker archetype

[@luna69_69]

How do you type them?

[@justcallmejon22]

So I don't type people when I meet them, I let their cognitive functions show naturally. Over the course of a few months, I slowly start narrowing it down. I'm not sure if you're asking for a specific method but I'm aware of my own functions enough to be able to tell if someone has the same functions or the opposite function 😅

[@luna69_69]

@@justcallmejon22 that's cool man I was asking if you have a method to the madness...😅 I should have been specific

[@_Thunderball_]

@@justcallmejon22 Yep, devil's advocate way is the INTJ way.