gonna binge watch everything on your accounts and maybe i can like mbti a little better lmaoo thank you for the contentt. new sub👍

I think it depends on how the person was raised but I agree that boundaries are probably easier to set if you're and Fi user.

I think it's normal to feel like you've outgrown people but I also believe in loyalty. I feel like everyone gives something different in a friendship and that it's okay to leave if it doesn't bring joy anymore.

@@justcallmejon22 same I'm big on loyalty that's why I think I hold onto situations longer than I should sometimes it kinda sucks feeling this way but it's ok

I agree.

Slightly disagree with you as I've never heard an ISTP use Ne like I do. As an INTP-A, the world of information and facts is fractioned into multiple pieces like a jigsaw puzzle. It takes a rational mind to sift through all the of it, determine what's true and false, and then put the pieces of the puzzle together with the good information. I got into a discussion with a police officer regarding 2020 and told him that clearly the law enforcement community nationwide has not learned from their mistakes because it was the same outcome of what happened in 1991 regarding Rodney King. A few bad narcissistic officers is all it takes to create chaos and it was the exact same outcome back then as it was in 2020 regarding George Floyd. This is due to certain policies regarding criminal justice. The war on drugs and qualified immunity because of the fact that they both neglect constitutional law which is very complex to get into. However, the primary function of the US Supreme Court is to balance out truth, logic and reasoning in laws and policies (simplified explanation). When it comes to the war on drugs, addictive behavior is mostly emotional insecurities that stem from childhood trauma which the war on drugs completely ignores. So the war on drugs is missing the truth. Qualified immunity makes it difficult for other police officers to report bad cops since nothing will happen and realistically no organization is immune to bad people and this includes police departments. Those bad cops don't have to self reflect before they make a decision which takes away the logic out of logical decision making. They don't have to because they know they won't get in trouble most of the time. Then you add the fact that law enforcement is suppose to be a part of the checks and balance system in regards to their constitutional duties and they don't often dispute these policies like they're suppose to. So these race riots will happen again if none of these are fixed but most importantly if they don't weed out their bad apples. In regards to your comment, I've never heard and ISTP use Ne like this. This BTW is also how I make predictions since humanity is definitely flawed due to insanity. Humanity will continue to make the same mistakes repeatedly but the good thing is we're the first species in Earth's history that has control of our own fate. We can make changes that can last. You being an ISFJ, this might be a huge Ne-Ti dump for you as it might seem like a lot but I could talk all day about making predictions.

I have a personal grip with the word 'ignorant' as well and I have the inigo montoya “You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means” look when I hear it misused 😅

@@justcallmejon22 That's too funny as I was thinking the exact same thing when I commented. One of my favorite movies. 🙂

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Keep improving kiddo ✊

There was a moment in time where I had to grind my teeth whenever I heard someone use the word "Epic". No, Grace, that was indeed not Epic! It was the antithesis of epic! 🙃

@@justcallmejon22 LOL, absolutely overused. My current one is anytime someone says something is "braindead." Cause 9 times out of 10 in order to do it correctly you do actually have to engage your brain a bit to make sure it works.😂

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It really is a game changer 😅

We don't overthink, maybe it's others who don't think enough. "Overthinking" allowed me to understand a lot of things by myself.

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes It's a blessing and a curse.

Learning when to choose our battles was one of the most difficult part of growing up 😅

Having a difficult time making friends?

@justcallmejon22 I though I made friends,but we are not as close as I though we would be.So for the last few years,I found myself alone.Making new friends ? I don't know how ! For me it has to be natural and spontaneous when meeting and spending time with someone new. Can't approach people out of nowhere

I'm an ENTJ and I definitely start with the big picture then refine with details as necessary. I often repeat back a summary of whatever someone just said to see if I understand the gist, and it's often taken as an oversimplification.

@autocosm in this case it was done via text and there was no repeating back. I also think this particular individual and I had issues communicating because he was from a very different culture and made a lot of assumption about me and what I was saying. I also secretly believe he wasn't used to someone going against what he had though and carefully deduced. And for him it was good enough to be close enough to the facts and for me it wasn't the case. Because by going with it as simple as he did he was saying some very discriminatory things. For example he thought with few exceptions all other MBTIs were lazy. That's why ENTJs could do as much as they do. It's because they are not lazy. And he thought all people could achieve what he achieved if they were not lazy. Which doesn't add up because people are not a black box that can all output the same if they have the same input. Even with tailored input you will still have people who can do / handle more depending on many factors. Yes, people may be able to improve their situation vastly by investing more wisely and effectively in themselves but the outcome depends on many things. I've been around enough people and helped them with learning things to know that not everyone can be a CEO and own property and build it all from scratch like he did. With patience, guidance and support / the right information, lives can be improved for sure. But he thinks just because he did it without help everyone else can too and they don't because they are lazy.

@@Basilicum_Raspberry I don't share his view that all other types are lazy, and I regret that he perpetuated that caricature of ENTJs that we are all 24/7 coffee-addled grindset bros looking to crush our enemies. I find it far easier to type people I work with in the real world discreetly to evaluate how we can work better together than to openly discuss types. That's when these performative exaggerated characters reveal themselves.

@autocosm that is a way better use for typing. I think it is a very useful tool but it has limitations and a lot goes into what we see from people than just their basic MBTI types, like upbringing, culture, values, personal idiosyncrasy, maturity, personal development and so on. So I had some issue with how black and white he was being. I'm not sure if he really believes what he said or of he just didn't want to loose the argument. I know another ENTJ male CEO and I asked him a few things and like you he didn't agree with the view of the other one. Thanks for sharing!

​@@Basilicum_Raspberry Thank you for this thoughtful conversation!

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@@justcallmejon22I love the sarcasm juxtaposed with the sincerity… only we would know it’s not actually arrogance.