Change your life by changing how you speak

In this lesson, I will show you how the language we use is a reflection of our deeper psychology. For example, if you are the kind of person who always apologises for your “terrible English”, this is going to hold you back in life. Another example happens when people constantly talk about what they are going to do but in fact, they never do it. I will teach you to be much more aware of the language you use so that you can speak in a more powerful way than ever before. When you speak powerfully, you get what you want. If you speak in a weak way, you will never be taken seriously.
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The more you know, the more you know that you still have to learn.

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you still have to learn

[@bravekiller8115]

I hate that

[@EnglishwithCarla]

Soooo true!

[@sssbbbww]

well said

[@connyhanson6293]

So true

[@waldmeister000]

This is the line where language and sociology/psychology meet. Good for emotional intelligence.

[@AoyagiAichou]

"Do you speak English?" - "I like to pretend I do". Helps that I was born in the UK though.

[@pauljordan4452]

Why the Japanese user name?

[@AoyagiAichou]

@@pauljordan4452 I used to be a weeb and the name stuck, unfortunately.

[@lucindawinehouse2002]

Hi Jade when I was at school I had a teacher who looked exactly like you . That is why I like you as a teacher. I also find your English lessons really interesting and I enjoy watching your KZbin Channel because it helps my conversation skills get better ( This comment is coming from a native English Speaker)

[@timmurphy5541]

There is an aggressiveness in modern society which doesn't respect people who have doubt - hence you must avoid "should" and "trying to" and so on. But it's bullshit because nobody really knows or can have 100% confidence in everything. I have this problem all the time because I'm being accurate about my uncertainty and people take that as a lack of determination instead of truthfulness.

[@AlphaLegionXX]

I agree, it's all about "selling yourself" nowadays. Sadly, we must interact with humans, and humans don't buy arguments, they buy emotions mainly.

[@Selene-u3X]

Thank you so much teacher Jade for great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.."when talking about my English learning.l never realized l was expressing a possible failure! Words are so powerful!l will hereafter say:"l m learning English with pleasure and confidence!"greetings from Italy:)

[@jorgealameda]

Usually, I enjoy your lessons but this time I LOVE IT

[@yliasabas6689]

Hello thank you so Much Jade! I can say that my English is bad but being aware that my English is much better. It is kind of giving advantage to someone whose English is really bad to make them feel that their English is well.

[@senzanome7801]

A friend of mine told me about your videos. I like them, I enjoy them. Thank you very much!

[@JoseMorales-cy5ls]

Thanks for the class, you are a good teacher and besides being very beautiful.

[@sabrethemoment6799]

Discovered your channel a couple days ago and I’m hooked to your videos! Thanks for uploading

[@SSMMXII]

Learning psychology and English at once. I love your videos, Jade. Greetings from Romania

[@samo3496]

I'm in love with your accent

[@jas0nutub3]

Love your teaching style Jade, you inspire me as a language teacher myself

[@matthewcunningham2399]

Jade, you're fantastic. Thank you for a brilliant tutorial 👍

[@professormburatto7172]

Thank you for this class. I really appreciate your lessons!

[@Nicolas-ht4iv]

this is actually really helpful because i'm a master procrastinator and i find these tips actually help me propel forward , tks Jade

[@stdnqe]

Really like this lesson. Learning English is a psychological game. Life is also like that.

[@pauljordan4452]

You're a great teacher, Jade. One thing: speak a bit more quietly.

[@JonBilbaoMallona]

What I love about your videos is that you dont only teach the languaje, but also the meaning of live in English, wich I find it realy cool to know

[@Waseem9919]

Thank you so much for this lesson , we need more lessons like this one in order to better understand the language and be able to express exactly what we want to say

[@adamsjordan3293]

Thank you so much Jade💕

[@bluoltremare1762]

I'm trying to... "No! Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try." - Yoda.

[@suaptoest]

Thanks! I try to keep that in my mind.

[@senzanome7801]

The Force is strong with you!

[@w0nerx]

I think when someone is going to use the " I am doing that or I am already not going to do that " and fail, he/she is gonna go into negative circles

[@w0nerx]

think about how u think or your ways of thinking

[@gatronix754]

Great teacher!!! Thanks greetings from Argentina!

[@mimimonbebe9077]

This video is really good! It helps you with your self esteem too 😭👌🏻

[@ckrysyj7919]

People here in my country prefer to use “trying to “ “hope” “might” etc. they consider these as modest ... And they even think speaking too directly to show your desire is kind of impolite ... those who are just normally confident would be considered as people who like to brag themselves . So it’s so hard to be confident for a lot of people in this environment , also hard to express normally like The positive paradigms in your video , they’re the reasons why the words first come to my mind is “ I’m trying to “ instead of “I can do /am doing” ... and it’s easy to have insecurity when someone tells you that he or she didn’t do well in that exam and then they‘ll get 90+ /100 🙃 . Really hope there’s more honesty . ( see “hope” QwQ ）I will change my own problems , I want to heal my insecurity !!! What a culture shock lol

[@sitmengchue4077]

Timely reminder! Power to me! THANK YOU.

[@brettbirge8246]

I have to get up early and go to work. I want to get up early and go to work! Quite a difference. I feel better already!

[@mohammadzamanbasirheravi6471]

My amazing teacher Thank you🙏🙏

[@AHMEDAYASIN]

Yah, I agree that many people we meet pretend that they speak English well but actually they're not as good as they think they are.

[@patoninje8988]

You have very interesting lesson jade!

[@doppiorizzonte]

thank you so much Jade, I love your mood :-D

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I haven’t seen them all, but, this is perhaps one of the most interesting of your videos so far, on my humble opinion. 😊

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Hallo Jade, you and your lesson deserve 100 % degrees.

[@naikrovek]

as a native english speaker, I'm here to watch Jade. i can say definitively that this woman has the most beautiful eyes that I think I've ever seen.

[@puncicatore]

I wish you a lot of smiles!

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I adore your classes. You look amazing

[@meharnosh]

Jade you have explained it nicely:)

[@abidarach]

Interesting video. Thanks for your effort.

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Thanks for your videos

[@officialdevidchiran]

Thank you indeed.

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Thank you mam!🌈

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Wow jade best teacher English I love you so much 😘😘😘

[@caulazaro]

This class was very important to whole life. Thank you so much, Jade ♥️ One more subscribed in your channel

[@alejandrol830]

great life lesson!. thank you. You are a pretty and intelligence girl

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Just wonderful! Thanks for this lesson

[@mwat56]

Good points! And I love your dancing! 😉

[@enriquegranados5179]

Thank you, miss Jade.

[@whukriede]

Better say "thank you, Jade". We don't address people by their profession.

[@enriquegranados5179]

@@whukriede Alright, I corrected already. Thank you.

[@vadimmelnikov7809]

Great lesson. thanks a lot, Jade!

[@fabiolahernandez1114]

I understand why it's better to say things in a psycological positiviness, just not to block your action. But sometimes is also beneficial express what you think about your behaivior: I should... I have to... I wish... I think it's more natural, first you express this feeling, then you find how to do that, and of course it will be correctly say it as: Yes! I can speak english :)

[@rodrigolourenco1968]

- "Who said it? Your mom?!" - Nah, my wife...

[@faroukkhalid2102]

Thank you so much teacher, Jade, for a great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.." when talking about my English learning.

[@bincao6341]

Thank you

[@brd8764]

We can suggest life skills to those who are willing to learn or are open to ideas unless we need to appear and sound out of place. Learning is about liking to live life unless it is about wanting to live life. Liking is experiencing life and wanting is feeling life. Loving is living life and indulging is loving life.

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Thank you so much. Your lessons are very helpful.

[@hifsakhan5672]

I'm enjoying to learn everything it makes me more excited I want laern war/psychology/work life and psychology please and also customer service

[@beatris2210]

That's a really nice video, you were funny speaking such a true! I find so cool when people are funny being serious. I am in the 'my English isn't good team'. Thanks a lot.

[@CanisDei]

01:36 was the best. Haha! Really enjoyed the way you explained. Thank you!

[@waha6651]

Happy to see you again my teacher 🥰😍

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Hello I Love your english lesson.

[@ZeeshanAli-iz1ec]

Today I learned how to use have to. Great information

[@leonildoscofield5260]

I really appreciate your lessons at all. I hope one day i could be video calling to take a lot of doubts that i have. Keep teaching us. See you

[@DarkBlack-ep4sp]

Could you please answer my question? Are these two sentences correct? 1- This long winter will be end soon. 2- Will this long winter be end soon. I hope you answer my question. Thank you

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This long winter will end soon Will this long winter end soon?

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You are an interesting sassenach girl. NO doubt! Thank you!

[@pavelk7085]

Jade thank you, hope to see more videos with planations of language subtleties

[@alpaslanilkman3122]

Can you please make an up-date video?About any subject ?

[@alvarocr8]

Hi, Jade. Excellent videos. Very nice. You explain really well. I like that you speak in English and add subtitles. 👍

[@aizacl4253]

I'm so thankful i fhnd your videos. Thank you!

[@aleksiejporiadnyj9059]

I like the video, thank you, Jade. Have a nice time.

[@meenki347]

Jade, don't be so hard on yourself. Though your London accent is so strong, I can understand 80% of it. 😄🇬🇧

[@w0nerx]

when you feel for example wanna go to the bathroom and say: I have to go ... it's like you're separating your body with your soul cause your body 'wants' the bathroom but you (soul) say I have to go... this is actually really deep

[@czamman]

Has anyone mapped out the dialects of the United States with the European influences? For example the Irish and English from the northeast down to the southern states? German and Polish around the Great Lakes, Scandinavia in Minnesota. I find bits and pieces I just wonder if any one studied this. A map would definitely help. Thank you for getting the mind going 😊

[@navneetnautiyal4944]

I missed you Jade.. ☹️

[@charlesvanderhoog7056]

In the beginning of your video, you demonstrate people who are on a certain point on the Dunning-Kruger Effect curve. Google it, click Images, and be amazed in case you don't know that curve.

[@timirelle]

Thank you so much

[@saeedsadeghi2878]

huge lessons, tnx

[@ceuny]

Thanks Jade

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Excellent Jade!

[@aram5642]

Hope you're doing well, Jade! Crazy times.

[@aritzlizarragaolascoaga6254]

When do you use the infinite & when the gerund? That's confusing.

[@ismayilarifoglu6226]

"I am sinking of starting rowing again". Have had a problem to pronounce (th) for many years. Since then, I have improved good deal.

[@pauljordan4452]

Don't worry about it.

[@erdr4043]

Funny! It guess it made you sound as an Indian.

[@aqeelafzal7687]

Thanks Maam, its really helpful.

[@idoykc4585]

Authentically, your lesson makes me study learning English but just now, not tomorrow 😀... (Can you correct my mistake if there is in the sentence)

[@whukriede]

Actually, your lesson makes me learn English just now, but not tomorrow. (Don't say "study learning".)

[@oldisgold9512]

hi Jade, I have a doubt for you. " Donald Trump to urge society for Covid-19 pandemic". How this happen? i mean "to" was used without any verb. Is this reported speech?. Can you post a video for this issue? it will really help all who still struggle in learning English. From Sri Lanka

[@3g826]

Good effort from you teacher really i enjoy the lesson very much

[@imuselessfellow]

I am from India ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@stvanus]

Hi Jade! What has happened with Ur eyes in this vid? What sort of magic You've managed to witch as they are so green and bright? Just magnetically beautiful eyes as immaculate as You entirely are!!!!

[@mostafahassan5021]

An amazing episode.

[@notthatmuch9586]

If you put a summary end of the video it might be so effective

[@TheShahi]

really my English speaking is so terrible miss. and now i am trying so hard to speak a good English like a native speaker talk. in this journey i do i really need a book material as long as self practice? if yes kindly suggest me which English book should i get to strengthen my ability to speak English. thank you in advance!

[@oldisgold9512]

Could you post a video teaching difference between whilst and while?

[@cristianestebanochoapinzon5292]

I will continue enjoying your videos, Madam!

[@ridwanfarah3262]

Thanks jade i like your accent i wish i could do.

[@icodeHM]

thankyou very much.

[@user-yk8tt3ce1n]

Once I asked a man 👨 a question "do you speak English?". And what you think he replied? " What you do? "

[@freddyubaquiduenas3348]

Amazing video, you learn well, thanks

[@jorgealameda]

Can I add a translation to Spanish? It is a wonderful lesson that I want to share with my friends that can't speak English

[@pauljordan4452]

¿Que quieres traducir. Toda la lección? I speak fairly okay Spanish.

[@erdr4043]

No please.

[@aparecidoferreiravais321]

Hi Jade thanks for your video Have a great weekend my beautiful teacher 😉🇧🇷

[@xoavital128]

awesome