So relatable!! Being friends with straight women would always trip me up mentally and having that boundary.
@TheWitchAlexis10 ай бұрын
I will totally steal the “can I flirt with you” line, So cute! 🥰
@Faaaa5010 ай бұрын
Mal you’re such a good host, great sense of humor ❤😂
@_asantesana_squashbanana_10 ай бұрын
She is an incredible host. I love her laugh.
@MiriamDebora10 ай бұрын
I agree!! 🤣🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🌟🌈💖
@AMB76510 ай бұрын
Loved hearing such a positive story from a woman who came out a little later in life. It really is never to late to let yourself just be yourself!
@JudyBlevins-p3p14 күн бұрын
Why don't you have a job? Is it cause you can make fast money off these dumb asses? You give us lesbians a bad name and you're one of us?
@janparker49228 күн бұрын
Completely agree at 09.24 why she, and I, have so much respect for queer people- the deep work you have to do, plus go against our cultural conditioning, family expectations etc
@ashleyn198810 ай бұрын
Growing up without representation can be so damaging. So many of us have gone so long living in a way we thought we were suppose to. Seeing more and more people who felt the same and acted the same is such a comfort ❤️
@CyberLifter10 ай бұрын
This is my favorite channel... no doubt. I can relate so much to every single video.
@hiportugal10 ай бұрын
thank you so much! (i produce the show hehe) any chance we could ask you to write us a real quick review on Apple Podcasts? Helps us so much so we can keep making episodes!
@Seebee12310 ай бұрын
I’ve folllowed Nicole for so long and to know that we went through similar journeys in life to figure out what makes us happy is so nice to know. We really aren’t alone. Im so in love with this podcast ❤
@Liv4SummerWindАй бұрын
SCREAMING at the camping storyyyyy ahhhhh obsessed
@kaitlingobell1142Ай бұрын
Every time I watch a new episode… I am like yesss yess yesss. Coming out as bisexual at nearly 38 has been quite the journey but the love and support around me is palpable and watching videos like this has been sooooo validating.
@uscitizen325210 ай бұрын
Being inexperienced as a newly out lesbian is so real. Thanks for bringing that up.
@kileybatchelor10 ай бұрын
The amount of gasps that came out of my mouth during camping story time
@saeshakhurana986110 ай бұрын
love seeing you get comfortable on the pod and laughing so fully
@carolechero10 ай бұрын
Each episode keeps getting better✨🤌🏾, sending my love from Kenya🇰🇪❤️
@JennSarracenia10 ай бұрын
Her story of being turned away and then finding her gf made me cry happy tears! I want to find my person ❤
@junevertucci342010 ай бұрын
Great guest. Great Host. Fun episode. Love this pod.
@intrepid_astronaut10 ай бұрын
Yet another "dope" episode! So hugely appreciate Nicole's candidness and vulnerability. I can't express how meaningful her transparency with her journey will be for so many people, our stories ARE our representation! Grateful for your show, it's my new favorite podcast!
@soph748010 ай бұрын
idk why but Mal saying "fuck 🤨" at 4:48 cracks me tf up --- loving the podcast!!!
@Elena-du4bu10 ай бұрын
I really enjoy watching your podcast. You seem really empathetic and you create a warm atmosphere ✨
@eloisejenninger973510 ай бұрын
Such a reassuring conversation 🥺
@suzannenelson59765 ай бұрын
Every word this woman said resonates and is the exact same journey I went on in my late 20s early 30s! Surreal and validating!
@janparker49228 күн бұрын
Such a fun chat!
@ltrillium10009 ай бұрын
I love your channel. I am a 65 year old man with a daughter who is trying to navigate her way in this very confusing time. She is 20 and I so want her to allow herself to live her life the ways she believes is in her soul. I have recommended your channel and Shannon's channel. But I also like vanwives and the two canadian women - Kristen and... I think you all try to be true to yourself. Keep posting great content please.
@kylorenthehusky25844 ай бұрын
You’re a great dad ❤. Wish my dad was accepting as you are
@llaneritaright10 ай бұрын
I had doubts since 14 yo, but kept people pleasing my entourage and family, and even got married at 25. I was not unhappy, but something was missing. At 42 I fell in love with a woman, got divorced, and felt for the first time what deep love and desire was. I lost money and my house, and my family does not like my girlfriend. They keep praying that I come to my senses and find me a good man again. Every day I wake up with my girlfriend I thank God I did what I did. You have to be yourself, always. I did not have anyone relatable when I was young. Had a conservative and catholic upbringing, and just never had any other choice but being straight. It is so important what you do Mal. I find so wonderful that young people can hear this stories. Authenticity matters, and is key to a good mental health and to live a happy and fulfilling life. Thank you for this content.❤
@kylorenthehusky25844 ай бұрын
Hi! ❤ wishing you well. Enjoyed your story
@tracyhill61664 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It's very relatable to me (married to a man for 14 years but now I'm admitting to myself that I think I'm gay and that's why I've never actually enjoyed hetero sex, despite the fact that I have children). Heteronormativity is the most deciding historical factor in my life. I'm 53 though, and feel a lot like she said about not being 'lesbian enough", and my lack of experience is scary to me. 😢 I feel so lonely.
@valenngerez10 ай бұрын
I love listen to gay shit. Keep doing it! We needed this ❤
@bobbistgelais640410 ай бұрын
Love this!!❤❤ this is what I’ve always been wanting. It’s so relatable. I came out at 28. Amazing ❤❤❤
@lxxsely10 ай бұрын
“i will not work for the man” - mal ❤ lmao
@shelbymorrissey97510 ай бұрын
Loved this guest. She’s hilarious on IG and I always got a gay vibe off of her 😂 real recognize real
@nylyyyn791210 ай бұрын
Golden content! Love ourselves first, to understand “real love” and then love others! Wow ❤extraordinary 🎉
@sweetheartxox1010 ай бұрын
I really do love this podcast…the fact that this came out while I’m coming out at 25 is the biggest sign …no ? 😂 ❤❤ appreciate you Mal
@kweenstudios990310 ай бұрын
Always love tuning in for your podcast! Absolutely loved the stories shared this episode!! Now just waiting for the universe to bring me my person and I’ll be all set 😜🔥🥰
@sarahetrues9 ай бұрын
love that people’s partners are there what a good environment ❣️
@rNeyshabur10 ай бұрын
I recently watched “how to change your mind” and I have to say psychedelic assisted therapy sounds so interesting!
@julierussel335910 ай бұрын
Great episode. Totally relatable!!
@SaraxAdam10 ай бұрын
loved the ep! my only thing is that it's totally valid for people with more experience to want to only date others who are where they're at, just like it's valid that Nicole wanted to explore with people who were on her same playing field when she was starting out! :) don't think it's them being judgmental but rather realizing it's not a good fit anymore
@sarahlampz10 ай бұрын
This is my favourite episode. Relating very hard to Nicole and all she said about how she didn’t know who she was, and didn’t know anything was certain as an adolescent, aside from knowing she didn’t have any of the same experiences and feelings as her friends. Having to do the work to just dive deep and figure it out.
@Honeydoyou2 ай бұрын
I am both laughing and crying at the airport story I feel so invested
@amandaleo756910 ай бұрын
Love these episodes I wish they were longer😭😭
@stephfleurigene6809 ай бұрын
So many familiar feelings from Nicole story. I just appreciate listening to these episodes. I think this was by far my favorite one. Definitely really relatable of the coming out later in life.
@Koerfy10 ай бұрын
Love, love, love this episode!!! Thank you for sharing your story with us. It's a nervous experience, coming in my mid 30s. But stories like this give me hope it'll get better. Thank you❤.
@elisegray696210 ай бұрын
Same girl...
@alanaboso810 ай бұрын
Love this podcast so much :,)
@tracyhill61664 ай бұрын
Thank you for this episode. I feel like a societal freak and like I don't belong anywhere as a 53 year old woman who's only had hetero long term relationships but am actually likely homoflexible (vs hetero flexible) due to puritanical culture, growing up in a conservative family, heteronormativity and my own bisexual bias. I'm still working on my journey. These discussions help open up my inner dialogue and help me achieve self honesty and exploration. ❤
@AnnaBerlo10 ай бұрын
Listen, but that thr*some strategy: GENIUS
@lesliepless293910 ай бұрын
I enjoy the shorts and anticipate the full release with such longing, which seems very gay of me. Hell, yes!
@cocainekeiko10 ай бұрын
love this episode happy that she found her person
@anibr744510 ай бұрын
Mal, i love all of your podcast videos, you are great at listening and making the right question at the right moment. Kisses from a big fan from Brazil.
@ashleypello753210 ай бұрын
I need these on the daily thank uuuuuuuuuu
@risapaige75799 ай бұрын
THE MOST RELATABLE one yet.
@tianagarcia27955 ай бұрын
She’s so funny I love this!
@truetarottarius10 ай бұрын
I was so fucking stoked when I saw that you had Nicole on the pod. So rad. Keep creating 😍✌
@Allykey-d4c7 ай бұрын
Yo I love this girl! Please have her back on again!
@sarahbey130410 ай бұрын
Great episode and such a beautiful story to hear ! Thank you Mal and thank you Nicole for the positive vibes. Btw where are these hiking trips that she organizes ? Any chance we could learn more about that or is it private/exclusive?
@DopeKitchen10 ай бұрын
Hi! I only do about 2-3 a year. I have one happening in Costa Rica in April that still has spots open! I haven’t started planning 2025 yet ❤
@sarahbey130410 ай бұрын
@@DopeKitchen that's so interesting, how can I learn more about it and reach out to you ? Do you have like an IG for that ?
@chuluvokozela9 ай бұрын
My review is that I love everything about it Mal. Cingratulations. I like every episode I watch and I try to wath every Ad fully. You're doing great.
@pottertardis970610 ай бұрын
My favorite podcast ever I feel home
@kencoleman500710 ай бұрын
OMG that cabin story.a co-worker and I are (likely) like that. She (identifying as Q) and (mtf) have been quasi-flirting for what may be a year now, and apparently she had been discussing with her co-workers about the concerts that I go to and write about. We work in separate departments and personal conversations could be stop and go, but we see eachother across the cafeteria almost everyday, and she watches when I have platonic conversations with other women. When I suggested that we talk on social, she reached over searched her Instagram handle on my phone in clicked "follow". She then left the table, saying "I'm going to the bathroom. Follow me.". Seeing that she had already hit the "follow" button, I was awestruck. Like "I... You just... Was that a line???". A tarot reader who I follow just told me today that the person thinking about me is already thinking ahead about marriage, and I thought "U-Haul!!!". The mustic said that the person's nervous about the strength of their interest in me and is cautiously revealing her feelings. The mystic saw 3 possible astrological signs, and picked this person's. Now I'm wondering how stereotypically Gemini and Scorpio this woman and I may be.
@Raddiebaddie9 ай бұрын
I didnt know we would get such an awesome love story too! Very cute ~
@womenwelove7 ай бұрын
good interview....I loved the honesty by both of you...
@latticehudson10 ай бұрын
I love this episode ❤
@sharonabigailariashurtado895410 ай бұрын
Love it ❤
@LamAnopro_10 ай бұрын
“You don’t want to get wet” and that intro 😂
@ximenaarriagada213210 ай бұрын
love it!!!
@brentmerlinhootboodangy837410 ай бұрын
Best podcast
@linneasvanholm90910 ай бұрын
Make it a movie 🎥!
@SaloYD10 ай бұрын
This episode is tooo goood 😂😂
@susanacruz244610 ай бұрын
I love your channel and all your podcast. 😊 and definitely there is a pattern 😅 I also quit my job and I moved from my country in Central America to Europe. I already had my first girlfriend being on my 30's. 😊
@IAMAJNAMUSIC10 ай бұрын
Can’t wait any longer to ask what the book is at the end!!! Where the girls at lmaooo
@hiportugal10 ай бұрын
Thank you for asking!!! It is a book of lesbian erotic haikus written by me, the producer! Glad you are enjoying!! Feel free to submit some :)
@IAMAJNAMUSIC10 ай бұрын
@@hiportugal the best!!!
@backho58829 ай бұрын
Sameeee. It made me so akward in skool
@zoyaroya10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@ROCKONplaceboforever10 ай бұрын
I'm catching up love this podcast ❤👏👏👏 🌈 the pandemic really helped a lot of humans discover themselves
@_asantesana_squashbanana_10 ай бұрын
I dont stan cheating honestly. I always think about the person on the receiving end in these stories. I personally have never and would never fk with someone in any kind of exclusive relationship/do anything behind the partners back. Not worth it. Also those who do start relationships like that are likely to be on the receiving end later, or lose their partner the same way. It's a matter of integrity. I've had people towards the tail of a relationship that were extremely desirable and tempting but never crossed that line.... despite my partner having neglected me, mistreated me and cheated on me... but one of us left the relationship with a sense of stability in themselves founded on unshakeable good values and the other doesn't... they cycle through the same thing over and over again. I'd rather hold back my own 'wants' and have integrity, than lose integrity to pursue those wants at the cost of someone elses emotional health, trust and wellbeing. Because I know too well how much that can fk with someone's life. I'm hoping this situation was not as it came across... its important to not celebrate infidelity, even in WLW love stories.
@hiportugal10 ай бұрын
This is fair, but an important detail that was left out is that she was in an open relationship :)
@DopeKitchen10 ай бұрын
It was an open relationship. You don’t have all of the details, and I intentionally left a lot of detail out in order to be somewhat respectful of the relationship that was left. There was no cheating.
@ico211010 ай бұрын
Me encanta saludos de México City !!!
@shelbymorrissey97510 ай бұрын
Mal! You not doing your taxes sent me 😂 For the listener: You can definitely be penalized for this if you do end up owing money, and they charge interest.
@MadeItOutPodcast10 ай бұрын
an important psa for the people!!
@backho58829 ай бұрын
Its only later in life did i understood why ive always been akward w friendships and women ..that would happen when i was attracted to them
@charlycharly25654 ай бұрын
Yesterday was the first day I heard my best friends talk about how they would only bring their men into our Christmas tradition if they’re either married or have kids and I was sitting there thinking fuck I don’t want that, I felt so weird and distant for the first time. Then I asked if they would accept me bringing a woman and they said “sure. Of course. It’s all the same to us.”
@kasaaa_10 ай бұрын
yo. just read all the love songs by nicole pyland, kinda similar with meeting up at camp
@dew_africa10 ай бұрын
Fucking loved this interview...❤❤❤❤
@jordyndillard87949 ай бұрын
as a trans woman, i still adore this channel and all the positive content
@backho58829 ай бұрын
Always in our spaces!
@farleyandrews7269Ай бұрын
Let us read your T-shirts ! Love to you, keep laughing ! - Farley Andrews
@IAMAJNAMUSIC10 ай бұрын
I pizza & podcast every Tuesday with this, and I’m recruiting more for some gay ass shit! Leggo
@alaadamfree10 ай бұрын
❤
@risapaige75799 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@virgilmcclendon507210 ай бұрын
😎😃😊😜😍😘💖
@robinriebsomer46079 ай бұрын
i feel rather sad that you had to turn to psychedelics to sort yourself out. I have heard that psychiatrists are giving patients psychedelics with close supervision for depression and that people who are terminally ill who have been given psychedelics lose their fear of death. As a retired substance use counselor I would not recommend recreational use of these drugs since some of the people who sell them don't care how safe they are.
@dibaldgyfm99338 ай бұрын
The unspoken thoughts about hot girls, men's fear of FF (WW) relations, is only the tip of the iceberg in MF relations without balance, ... or something ...
@angellombness437126 күн бұрын
No. Dog mom & still .. please don't let me listen to her make fun of any other guests' Haul answers after that. A fork? And you've still judged? No. [comment engagement 💜]
@JudyBlevins-p3p3 ай бұрын
Why do you want to lie? You're not a lesbian Made it out post. You have people fooled but not me!!
@ohmylauren16 күн бұрын
lol what?
@Eli_sharing_TheGospel_10 ай бұрын
Romans 1:26-27 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. Romans 10:9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
@fresh-eggs7 ай бұрын
There's no credible evidence to show or support a God in existence anywhere in reality.
@Eli_sharing_TheGospel_7 ай бұрын
@@fresh-eggs well faith is belief with the absence of evidence so… Also, creation itself is all the proof we need tht God exists. Do you rlly think the universe created itself?
@fresh-eggs7 ай бұрын
@@Eli_sharing_TheGospel_ Firstly faith is pure gullibility.
@fresh-eggs7 ай бұрын
@@Eli_sharing_TheGospel_ Faith is pretending to know things you don't know.
@fresh-eggs7 ай бұрын
@@Eli_sharing_TheGospel_ And as far as science data has shown the universe started at the Big Bang.
@jenohuang26210 ай бұрын
PLEASE MORE UHAUL&UGHOST GAMES!😂Always love this part