CONTROL YOUR TONGUE Biblical Homemaking & Traditional Wife God Talk

[@CouponCrazed]

I’ve been a homemaker for 29 years and homeschooled for 25. This past year my nest emptied as the last child left home for adulthood. In this last year, I’ve grown lazy in my home making snd ESPECIALLY in the area of cooking for my husband. I found your channel tonight was instantly convicted by the Holy Spirit through your words. I removed myself from the sofa and from scrolling on my phone. I listened to 7 of your videos & in that time, I cleaned & reset my kitchen, swept, mopped, cleaned out trash cans, wiped down all cabinets and baseboards. Truly my kitchen hasn’t been this tended to in years. Thank you young momma for your ageless wisdom. My home & heart are so at peace now as I have reset my heart towards my homemaking!!!!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

🥹💞🙌🏼 wow! I’m so glad you found my videos!!!

[@abundant224]

My mom who passed away when I was 20 was such a good homemaker. I am reminded of her as I read your comment. God bless you and may you always be around your children and them around you ♥🧿

[@JESUSiscomingSOON247]

❤

[@heatherwillis5505]

This one is for me. My go to with the slightest frustration is vulgarity. I yell too much. I use my words to hurt. Lord, forgive me. Lord, help me use the power of my tongue to uplift and not to harm.

[@pamelachappell1089]

I, too, am quick to speak harshly. You responded to this video six months ago. My prayer is that you have found some healing and growth during this time. I will pray for you, as I will for myself that we both will grow more like Christ in this area. God bless you and your family.

[@akosua8779]

Sis!!! Holy Spirit is calling me out on this video....recently been struggling with controlling my tongue...thank you God for correcting me through my sister in Christ.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

🙌🏼🙏🏼🥹💞

[@rachelking7002]

Amen same here

[@paulmartin7053]

@@ThisMamasFaith cutting back curse movies that hinders my faith still learning and growing closer to the holy spirit amen ✝️☦️🙏🌅✝️🔥🔥🇭🇲🇱🇷🇭🇲🇭🇲

[@monicamontoya1578]

Amen! Same! 🥹 Tabitha, Thank you sister in Christ! 🙏🏽

[@rachelwilliams5544]

Amen this is something I needed to hear and put in practice all the time. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@alayshialashae612]

i don’t ever comment on videos because it seems crazy to do so but sis, the Lord has been working through you! im a 22 year old child of God, wife, mom of 3 (1 on the way). no one else (besides my brother who came to Christ before I did) is married in our family. meaning, I have 0 example of what it means to be a wife or even care for a home. I know my mom did the best she could as a single mom taking care of 3! but that did still leave me to be without knowledge on a lot of these things. but by Gods grace, through your channel, I’m able to learn about biblical womanhood and the importance of caring for your home as well as the people in it. I know you hear this so often but THANK YOU!!! ❤️ may the Lord continue to be with you and your family. praying for protection over you all!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Wow! I’m so touched 🥹

[@baus7]

Whew, I needed this. My mouth needs a cleaning. My heart, too. Please help me pray about it.

[@lanahundley8625]

I am an "older" Christian woman, and love your sweet, gentle reminders. 😊 💗

[@ThisMamasFaith]

So glad it helps!

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Me too

[@sonitar1310]

One of my favorite scriptures Proverbs 18.21- Death and life are in the power of the tongue. I made a choice a few years ago to speak only "life". I pray daily for the Holy Spirit to lead me.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Yes! Praying and asking daily is such a good idea!

[@Klaudyacampos]

I feel so convicted. We must speak truth to people. But we are to speak it in love. Wow. Key words speak it in love 😣 that’s hard. I have NOT been praying for this. As I wrongly think, it’s my own choice to be so rude sometimes and so so sarcastic and short. God can’t help me. AND WHAT A LIE THAT IS! God will help me. HE LOVES ME. AND YOU. GOD BLESS YOU! ❤ thanks for opening my eyes to prayer on this wow did I need that reminder

[@MomNTraining]

This was a good reminder. Not just words, but tone and volume matter too. Thanks Tabitha.

[@solideogloria6569]

Yes!! I struggle especially with this

[@jered2189]

Thank you for slowing down and teaching us what we need to strengthen ourselves.

[@alliebug19]

I absolutely needed this today. I've made progress with stopping swear words, but I often dismiss crude joking because it's "joking" when in reality it is harmful. Biggest challenge for me because I love joking and having a good time with others, but God's standard is supreme and final. This helped me to address this and say a prayer to the Lord. Thank you

[@adrienneabudo8692]

This video hit me so hard today. I am an ER nurse and often come home short tempered with a sharp tongue. I am working hard to stop and think before I speak so as not to hurt my husband or my children. Thank you for this message today.

[@michellechouinard4958]

Thank you! This is my greatest challenge, because I have lots of negative thoughts and when I get tired or irritated, it all comes out.

[@lauraf80]

I'm a teacher and as I head back this year, my goal is to not allow myself to be pulled into the gossip and complaining and such. Thankful for this video to encourage me!

[@AbbyAdams94]

This morning I was so frustrated and I was very upset with my husband because of unspoken expectations. I snapped on him and my son. As soon as I sat down to take a break and saw this video I was instantly convicted. Thank you for this video ❤

[@peggythomason2100]

When I was growing up my mother would say" think before you speak." She was not always talking but you knew by her expressions it was time to listen. ❤

[@trinahaigler292]

I just found this video tonight. My preacher's sermon tonight was on let the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart be acceptable unto the Lord. This is something I struggle with. T h e Bible has so much to say about our words. Thank you for your video. God bless

[@littlefordschoolhouse]

We are starting Monday, and our days are already so busy. I've been canning like crazy, and someday I'm all day in the kitchen. I enjoyed this, I think the way you speak to others, says a lot about you!

[@leasplans894]

As a Christian, this is my downfall this is what I struggle with on a daily basis. Thank you for putting out this video has really helped me to become the woman I want to be.

[@erynbill1976]

This seems the word of the day. Two pastors I watched on this Sunday was about your words. One was about Simon who had a name change to Peter by Jesus when he was asked to come and walk on the water. The other pastor talked about do not curse your body by speaking sickness and telling that your home is a no fly zone by what you watch and what you should say or do. This is a struggle for me because of toxic co workers that I work with. I am praying that God gives me people I should be surrounded with and a new job. He knows mine and your desires/needs.

[@debidurham984]

Hello Tabitha!!! Thank you for this reminder!!! Everything you said was so true!! I've found a everyday prayer life helps with this issue!!! Everyday reading God's word. The old saying think before you speak. We are all guilty of wrong speaking, of saying words we regret saying. I'm so thankful God forgives and gives us chances to make things right. You are so encouraging to us all. Thank you I pray that you continue to allow God to use you, and give you wisdom, and knowledge of his word. Take care God bless!!!

[@pamelachappell1089]

Amen and amen

[@9monava]

I like the way you encourage the viewer to get up and do some work while watching you. That's great! I will return to the 3 questions again and again. This is a really helpful video.

[@cassmith7045]

This topic has been on my heart and mind a LOT lately. The witness I give at work, especially. God forgive me when I ran my mouth, and please shut me up in the future! 😂

[@marygabrelcik2385]

Once again thank you for this! Your videos have truly helped me be more of a Godly wife, Mother and homemaker.

[@Romans_Twelve_Two]

So blessed to have found your channel, sister! Wow..definitely convicted on this one. Thank you for your obedience to our Lord Jesus! ❤

[@lifeatthekumars621]

I have four children at home aged 6, 18, 19 & 21 and I am perimenopausal so really struggling with mood highs and lows. This is something I am working super hard on, it's a 10x-a-day prayer kind of thing because these hormonal swings are overwhelming at times and seriously messing with my personality ..

[@CanaryIslandsToSF]

I feel attacked and loved at the same time. Seems like I needed to hear this today 😂 Thank you 🙏🏼

[@BarbieEvasstory]

Praise the lord 🙏 sister

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Amen!

[@BarbieEvasstory]

@@ThisMamasFaith 🙏

[@suzio9317]

Aha perfect! I had just started folding my gigantic pile of laundry xxx

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Glad we could do it together!

[@carolwhisenhunt7504]

We all have issue with controlling our tongue I believe. Ty Tabitha , this was a great , encouraging and convicting video. We forgot the power our words have. They have the power of life or death.

[@jilliansherrard2152]

I want to say this….controlling your tongue does not mean not speaking up when things are wrong or for those who cannot speak up for themselves….it does not mean to allow things to continue that hurt you for your sake of holding your tongue….I just watched that documentary SHINY HAPPY PEOPLE…and I felt sorry for Jill Duggar as she kept her mouth shut to a good Christian …..never stay silent when you or someone is being hurt…and when it comes to disrespect…choose your battles

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Yes!! I agree completely. We MUST defend those who can’t speak and God doesn’t want us to be doormats!!

[@DiS5064]

I just recently found your channels while learning the Flylady system and am finding your content to be super encouraging! I love that you are Spirit-led and I am so thankful for your wonderful example to so many of us moms!

[@The1HouseofPrayer]

Thank you for your encouraging words and allowing GOD to use you thru your videos.

[@daphinerose3838]

I was totally being called out by the Spirit in this one!

[@Allison.]

I needed this. 💕🌱

[@jennysfarmsweetfarm7726]

Thank you again for these gentle reminders of how powerful are speech is. I needed to hear this. God bless you.

[@9monava]

Yes, and I struggle with tone of voice as well.

[@amandazabrecky3729]

Mama your videos speak to me! They always seem to come just at the right time and double down on the homily that day! Thank you for answering the Holy Spirits calling for you with an unconditional YES! And making these videos you are truly inspiring ❤

[@skyewatson7199]

You have a beautiful way of speaking and such a good heart, I love your videos. I needed this message today. Thank you 🙏

[@ALANAYARSA]

Blessings. I don't know what happened but I was looking for your channel this week and I couldn't find you... I am adding this to my favorites so I can listen to it during my week.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

So strange! Glad you found me again and I’m so honored to be considered a “favorite” now 😆💞

[@LisaCleary]

Amen we need more videos like this. Our voice the most dangerous thing we have but we can control it with God's help.

[@scwendy6302]

Another timely blessing, Tabitha! I just watched while I did my dishes. I am about to get ready for work and head out the door, but I will be watching a second time on my lunch break. I DO have issues with control (which stems from anxiety in addition to personality) and I do often speak in an unkind tone and manner.

[@mistytrammell9188]

This video was a blessing .

[@rosamagallon34]

I needed to hear this!! I suffer in this are but working very hard to improve this.Thank you for this spiritual motivation ❤

[@elizabethrose6853]

I haven’t even started and I know I need this one! Love your videos.

[@DaynasPage]

This would make a great podcast. I would love to just listen sometimes and just close my phone. This is beautiful ❤

[@Thatonelostsheep]

I have been waiting for your video all week!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤🎉

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Aww that’s so encouraging thank you

[@Thatonelostsheep]

@ThisMamasFaith you are one of the channels I go to and love so much I re-listen to your videos and hear something new each time!!! Being new on this path I think I'm pretty lucky to have found you. Thank you so much for all you do!

[@jacquelineanderson5011]

Thank you. This is very helpful. God bless you.

[@MollysStory]

Thank you for this video. I’ve been convicted about my words and how I have talked about others. Appreciate what you do on this channel!

[@wilmascott8296]

Thanks for sharing this was so convicting for me

[@sherriruiz339]

Ouch, I am so convicted because these past few days have been hard and I have been careless with my thoughts and my tongue. Thank you for sharing this, it's just what I need..God bless you..Sherri-Payette Idaho

[@hopesmom77]

I am so thankful for your channel and your walk with the Lord. I have cried listening to your seasoning of sweetness with the Lord, as I was once like you. my load got heavier after a continued disappointing marriage after 2 years, now 20 years later. and adopted children that have added great blessings, but troubles as well that seem to be destructive to gaining any ground to a level of expected peace but rather around the same dysfunctional mountain. I am praying for my own settling in spirit and connection to SELF and my reach for the Lord. Music seems to unlock my heart that seems sheltered in a hidden cage, but it doesn’t seem enough...I want to be ME reaching for HIM open and free. PLease pray for those of us who are in situations with our families that dont allow freedom of heart to grow and breath but rather be more like survival mode daily in many ways. I love your dress and am glad you linked it. I am getting the blue one. Can you please continue to link your dresses or aprons etc..thank you and may our Great GOD Yeshua/Jesus bless you and your family dear one!

[@kathyterrell8024]

Thank you. We all needed this.

[@olololo9224]

I love these videos and the community of like minded women that comment to help each other become the wives that God calls us to be.

[@myurbanbeauty]

This blessed me so much. 😢❤

[@disciplechick89]

Thank you for this. Sometimes it's good to have this reminder, and I definitely needed to hear this. I've really been trying to work on patience with my three kids. Sometimes it's tough when I'm stressed, but I've been praying for more Patience with them.

[@colleenmcgrath7731]

Powerful message! Thank you for making this

[@LauraS1104]

Loved this today!! After watching your video and turning on my K-LOVE app Kelly was talking about the exact same thing. Said she saw a quote online line about the tongue not having bones but can break a heart. Maybe she watches your channel?? 😍😍

[@crystaledmondson669]

I look forward to your videos every week. God uses them to speak to me. I get so much encouragement and a desire to clean. Your words put me in a peaceful calm. Thank you for your faithfulness, I know it's not easy. God bless you. 🙏🩷

[@sunshineandsunflowers1643]

Thank you so much for the spiritual motivation 🩵

[@vonneatkinson2212]

As soon as you politely asked us to get up and do a chore, I did. Spirit said, get up off the couch and clean.

[@Thejoyfulhatmaker]

this is GOLD!!!! pure gold refined in the Fathers fire

[@ThisMamasFaith]

🥹💞🙌🏼 thank you

[@glendabreshears6030]

Thank you. I needed this.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Glad the Holy Spirit lead me to speak on this then!!

[@amandasfreshstart534]

This was MUCH NEEDED FOR ME TODAY, thank you!!! ❤ AND PRAISE GOD!!! 🙌🏻

[@rpaugh21]

This is very convicting and encouraging. Thank you, Tabitha 💜

[@blessedmama8133]

Proverbs 11:16 A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches. The Lord has been putting this verse on my heart lately. This video was a help and encouragement. Blessings.

[@Tori-to9jm]

Ugh I struggle with this so much. I really need to grow in this. Thankyou for this video.

[@jessicabrown6943]

These are great thoughts. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@Anne914]

Listening to more of your Lovley words today while cleaning my home 🙏🏼💖

[@carlal39]

This message really spoke to my heart thank you for this video

[@eyearesam]

Thank you for this video. It was piercing and convicting to my heart. I have spoken harshly to my kids for a long time. Although it has gotten better, its still not where i would like it to be. I will pray and seek to be kinder in my speech after this video. Thank you❤

[@jessicarupert8815]

This was one of my very favorite videos you have done. Such a good and needed word for us women, especially myself lately. Thank you

[@AngeliqueStevens]

Thank you. I needed to hear this.

[@brittanywilhite4018]

I love your videos ❤ thank you for sharing

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thank you for watching them!!

[@BernaAdams]

I really enjoyed this word ❤

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thanks for watching

[@Lena-ve2cw]

I absolutely love listening and watching your content…😊you truly know how to relate and how your sharing the Bible verses as well I just love it. Thank you for inspiring me 🙏

[@sharonc8613]

Blessings ✝️🙏🏻❤️

[@aka10421]

I feel like this is a common struggle for women especially. We can get way too comfortable saying the first thing that comes into our minds.

[@victorywithluisa]

Love this, just last week. I know I did not control my tongue, I repent even though I did not say anything so bad just correcting someone, but she's the one who gets offended, she's also the one who started speaking not good. I ask forgiveness but she just ignored me and saw my messages. I believe God protecting me from those people who are not really into him.

[@suzannelaban5726]

Love the decorations!! ♡♡

[@susannebrule3160]

Great topic! Thank you for your spiritual wisdom. You have such a kind voice.

[@beverlymitchell1892]

This was another beautiful godly video Tabitha!

[@starlawalker8106]

Thank u friend, this is so helpful and encouraging. This is a hard topic, but so necessary!

[@nowhereplace.26]

Thankyou for your kind words. I hope I can learn how to speak with a soft calm voice.

[@familiasantamaria9055]

Thank you! Beautiful message.

[@gloriamedina6908]

Excellent video. Thanks for sharing.

[@JenniferatHome]

Wonderful! ❤️

[@kerryrevelllivelove2016]

Just Found your videos a couple days ago & they have been inspiring me. Thank you! I do have a question… Do you exercise? You look like you take care of yourself, but I was wondering if that included exercise. And how that fits into your schedule.

[@rachelking7002]

I needed to hear all of this! Thank you for the reminders!

[@sarahfowler9907]

Thank you for posting, I really needed this reminder.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Glad it was helpful!

[@user-of6te8yw5k]

Lovely video! Thank you!

[@BreeciiiCaldwell]

I’m a new wife and mother (I’m due this May and these kind of homemaking videos give me hope in the Lord that I will be able to be a great wife and mom and most importantly a Women of God thank you for these videos and God bless 🩵☺️

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Congratulations

[@donsoderquist6003]

Appreciate your video. Thank you!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thanks for watching!

[@whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607]

Thank you for sharing . 🇬🇧💛🤍

[@gabrieleweber4665]

Thanks a lot 🙏❤🙏

[@joJo56976]

Thank you my sister, I really have to work on that 😭

[@samk2423]

Thank you.

[@HelenaTeeter]

The laundry cart 🙃 i have 4 kids and I feel this. Ahh.

[@GrowingRosesTX]

Always love your videos! Also where is that dress from??

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Amazon!! I have it in several colors. Here’s the link amzn.to/3W1DwSy

[@GrowingRosesTX]

@@ThisMamasFaith thank you so much for replying and sharing ❤️

[@Mamato3]

Thank you for another video 🙌🏼💕 Love your dress! Where do you shop?

[@ThisMamasFaith]

The dress I’m wearing is linked!

[@popy611]

Thank you 😢

[@Tompsf1]

YES.