A surprising amount of ladies have the "I'm single because I'm too amazing" mentality. It's crazy
@roberth43955 ай бұрын
I don’t want to offend the first one and I don’t care if I do. However, she is a 4 with make up on my 1-10 scale.
@philaman19725 ай бұрын
It's cancerous.
@LordReginaldMeowmont5 ай бұрын
Copium.
@HaleyMary5 ай бұрын
I'll never understand the whole "I'm so amazing" mentality. Even though I'm told by friends that I'm pretty, I honestly feel very average looking and I'm single. Sometimes I wonder if introverted women have it more difficult in dating. Being introverted, not in a shy way, but I wonder if being introverted and enjoying doing hobbies by myself threatens men who doesn't like a woman who is super independent? But, I don't seem to attract men who like independent women, either. I'm not trying these days though, either. I'm focused on my hobbies and my goals.
@Ray035955 ай бұрын
@@roberth4395 can’t even rate her because she’s slathered so much makeup on her face. I doubt most people would recognize her if she took it all off.
@josephmpalermo5 ай бұрын
So many women are incredibly arrogant and entitled now days. It's become my number one red flag. Women that are humble, thankful, grateful...total unicorns.
@michaelsix96845 ай бұрын
so right
@BlueFish-kq9fh5 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right. Sad but true.
@zergilli97194 ай бұрын
Yes!
@MikkoRantalainen4 ай бұрын
I think being arrogant OR entitled is already bad enough. If you have both traits, there's your reason for being single.
@ohplease68654 ай бұрын
Translation: insecure, will settle, low standards There are plenty of pickme girls like that. You just don’t want them. 😂
@dcron65 ай бұрын
I think she's trying to say that arrogant women have a harder time getting men to be interested in them. And she'd be right about that.
@pahakuutti5 ай бұрын
Arrogant and delusional especially, is a bad combo to have for dating.
@StefIsCold5 ай бұрын
Not to mention she is plain boring and devoid of substance
@turkson15 ай бұрын
Sighted on a Gent's lav wall: No matter how good she looks some guy is tired of her s***.
@MarkPlace-wb5xg5 ай бұрын
There's also the reality that a lot of guys are doing the math on what she looks like without the pound of make up, the fake hair, the fake eye lashes, the fake nails, the push up bra, and the Botox and realize she's not as good looking as she thinks she is.
@XfiverX5 ай бұрын
It seems like she's blaming other people when she's the problem and won't admit it.
@robsolf5 ай бұрын
A confident woman doesn't have to tell people she's a triple threat. A confident woman knows who she is, but leaves it to others to make their own assessment.
@docsavage86405 ай бұрын
Guaranteed any group of men who actually talked to her would not rate her very high due to personality problems.
@roberthaun66225 ай бұрын
Kinda like LeBron calling himself the "GOAT". 😂😂🤣
@user-yv4mm6bx3c4 ай бұрын
"Any man who says 'I am the King,' is no true king." This goes for women as well.
@JerseyBoy4894 ай бұрын
@@user-yv4mm6bx3c no guy says this stop😂
@user-yv4mm6bx3c4 ай бұрын
@@JerseyBoy489 I've heard and seen it from both men and women.
@EricMoore7905 ай бұрын
It is trendy for men and women to say they don't need each other. I think it would be nice to face life with someone.
@StefIsCold5 ай бұрын
Never hear men saying this, even “scary manosphere alphas” have whole girlfriends and wives- its clear what gender is confused about who they want or need lol
@OneFreeMan175 ай бұрын
I disagree. Parents and schools need to teach kids life skills, so they don’t ever need to rely on someone else.
@tommygunn69015 ай бұрын
Actually you both are right and wrong. Everyone needs to be taught life skills for when they actually want a relationship or marriage, they know how to conduct accordingly
@Nanohamage5 ай бұрын
i didn't see men claim "men don't need no women" the absolute worst argument i've seen is them claiming "there are no good women" which implies if there was they would want her very much so, obviously there are plenty good women but this is pretty much arguments on the internet
@mikeloki20645 ай бұрын
@@OneFreeMan17 Needing to rely on someone else isn't good. Being able to rely on another person like a wife or husband is the key to a successful, happy life. Women and men in the best case compliment each other.
@new_game25895 ай бұрын
Some people confuse "being confident " with being insufferable.
@essies42944 ай бұрын
They don’t, this is projection.❤
@Shah-of-the-Shinebox5 ай бұрын
Women, no matter how pretty they are, should not be put on a pedestal. We are all human.
@JackofClover5 ай бұрын
Lol, now they all think that they are "smart" too. What a joke.
@LamelKendrick5 ай бұрын
imagine her with runny bowels
@Ray035955 ай бұрын
@@JackofClovernot all. But it’s becoming too common, and probably why some complain online men like to “humble” them. It could be because they aren’t humble at all.
@GOD999MODE5 ай бұрын
It's usually attractive women under 25ish who think they're hotter s**t than they are. Once you're a fully mature adult and you've gone through some trials and tribulations in life, the facade of being a "triple threat" tends to fade out. As a guy in his 30s, I won't even think about considering you as a long term partner if you can't communicate to me in a meaningful and open way without showcasing your ego. I want someone who's conscientious and thoughtful. Not a stuck up prude b***h who thinks people are less than because they make less $ or aren't a perfect physical human specimen. I don't think most girls are like this, but there are some who are immature elitists.
@dancallahan1865 ай бұрын
The problem is that there are so many lonely guys out there throwing their money away at them on sites like onlyfans and stripper chat rooms that it empowers these nasty ego wicked women to be mean and conceited
@jiprider955 ай бұрын
Just because a man does not find a woman attractive or undesirable… doesn’t mean he is insecure. I did not find that lady in the video attractive, her personality doesn’t attract me. I am the type that goes for it. Lots of rejection and it is emotionally draining. But I t forces me to work on myself, emotionally and physically. Thank you Courtney 😊
@TurnStyle725 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@irene46335 ай бұрын
She wouldn’t even glance at you in public anyway lol
@fjockey15 ай бұрын
If modern women used the word "insecure" any more frequently, it would out pace their use of the word "like."
@fjockey15 ай бұрын
Yes, ebony babes can have thicker lips, but hers look blown up to 75 PSI. I don't think she was born with them.
@TheTank84 ай бұрын
@irene4633 that girl is not even a 7 and acts like she's 9/10. This girl is so full of herself.
@Snarge225 ай бұрын
Insecurity in men? Think about how men are so often dismissed by women and society. It's frequent, often instant, and sometimes with malice. Not fully financially stable? Not generous or selfless enough, not entertaining enough, not strong enough, have modest social skills, not always kind or sensitive, not attractive enough, no confidence and not charismatic enough? You are disqualified! Surplus? You're gone. And by God don't ask, or expect anything, or have standards of your own. Never be a burden, just deliver. And if war breaks out? Your life belongs to the Government. Women will complain about the insecurity in men, yet never give it any real thought.
@OneFreeMan175 ай бұрын
Preach 💯👏🏻
@JACQUEZ235 ай бұрын
Goddamn this comment should be pinned tbh
@LatimusChadimus5 ай бұрын
Like I always say, outside of boys who have never talked to women outside of their immediate family, there is no intimidation. We are either disgusted, we are annoyed, or we are not impressed. Just like the only time men would feel inadequate would be in the bedroom because they are with a girl that's been everywhere. If you are not the bowl like me, you aren't going to impress these women in that regard. Menards intimidated if she makes more income because men don't care about that. Men just don't want to be disrespected by women like that who have the inflated fragile egos that they claim men have
@Phantom8405 ай бұрын
Exactly correct, not to mention the girls own insecurity (far more common tbh) which makes them hypocritical - only they're rarely called out for it.
@troyberg62485 ай бұрын
Fact is, illustrated by your argument, men legitimately have more to fear hourly than women do. Women fear rape and homelessness. Everything else (while they're fertile) is deemed theirs until biology says "NOPE. You didn't put up [children] so shut up." All the while men pay into Social Security for _their_ future maintenance also.
@davesmith23125 ай бұрын
NEWS FLASH LADIES: YOUR YOUNG AND PRETTY LOOKS ARE TEMPORARY AND WILL FADE EXPONENTIALLY AS YOU AGE! Be a beautiful soul... that NEVER goes out of style
@Casual_Talk5 ай бұрын
Amen!!! 🙏🏾
@Snake3695 ай бұрын
nope. why grow or improve as a person when you can just shame others into submission instead
@heyhey117934 ай бұрын
“You have a beautiful soul” is THE best compliment anyone could ever get and if you ever hear it in a true sense you’ll never forget it.
@iwkaoy87584 ай бұрын
@@davesmith2312 knot if day dye young
@Jay-ef2ii3 ай бұрын
@@Casual_Talk Women will focus on looks while they are young. They will care about the heart once they are 78 years of age. August 2024, USA
@jay-t10305 ай бұрын
Every time I see an attractive woman in public I automatically assume 4 things. 1.She’s dating someone, 2. She currently has a boyfriend, 3. she’s married, 4. Even is I approached her, she will reject me in an extremely rude and aggressive way. So why waste my time and energy approaching. I understand I miss 100% shots I do not take but at some point I’m like “What the point?”
@billusher22655 ай бұрын
why do you assume information you cannot know?
@ItIsMeJamesE5 ай бұрын
Most attractive ladies I meet are married or in a relationship.. it's slim pickings out here in terms of high quality single women.
@4670765 ай бұрын
Get that last one out of your head. You’ve seen way too many KZbin videos. I guarantee you don’t know anyone who’s gotten in trouble for asking a girl out. Ask woman out, who gives a shit. If you get rejected who cares. No one will ever care or know except yourself.
@Ezero85 ай бұрын
Same, I have the exact thoughts.
@MarkRose13375 ай бұрын
What's thing 3?
@agemmemnon1005 ай бұрын
She is the only reason why she is single.
@Jay-ef2ii3 ай бұрын
All women have options when it comes to dating. They can date hot men, and unattractive men. All women have options when they are young. August 2024, USA
@ChineduOpara2 ай бұрын
@@Jay-ef2ii Facts!!
@Unkown_Meli20 күн бұрын
Jay-ef2ii No. People have boundaries
@daveblackman8165 ай бұрын
She seems to ignore personality. Not all about looks. Not good to be shallow
@jehu40675 ай бұрын
She forgets the fact that a lot of pretty women have HIGH UNREALISTIC STANDARDS
@kevinb88815 ай бұрын
@@jehu4067 And that's what makes them the epitome of stupidity!!!🙄
@jurassicthunder5 ай бұрын
if she's above 7/10 she is a public property. her hypergamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go femcel or become a 304. and we they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.
@jurassicthunder5 ай бұрын
if she's above 7/10 she is a public property. her hyper, gamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go efmcel or become a 304. we know they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.
@jurassicthunder5 ай бұрын
if she's above 7/10 her hyper, gamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go efmcel or become a 304. we know they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.
@hyabusa225 ай бұрын
Any woman that claims she’s the whole package or a 10/10 or anything that gases herself up is delusional and no man worth his salt is attracted any of those things. I gave it a shot with one of these “whole package” women and all I heard about was how much she’s amazing at everything. She started at a 9/10 for me, the personality brought her to a 2/10.
@facelessandnameless5 ай бұрын
I’ve had the exact same experience as you with these types of women! Haha
@Ray035955 ай бұрын
I’ve never heard a man or woman who is the “whole package” have to state it. Usually if they’re the whole package they are very kind, and humble as well. (To me, if you don’t have these traits it’s impossible to even be the whole package) I was not getting that vibe from this woman.
@nytracus96805 ай бұрын
She's average looking at best for London, that's her problem. Men don't care much about her iq or confidence
@Lefty2175 ай бұрын
there's almost nothing more repulsive than a gassed up mid who is feeling their oats.
@heyhey117934 ай бұрын
@@Ray03595Absolutely can’t be the whole package if you’re not kind.
@Danbecker0005 ай бұрын
"I'm so pretty, but no men will even approach me! I have everything a man could want, they must be insecure if they don't approach me." Maybe they don't approach you because of your ego. It's like when you hear a really abrasive woman saying, "Men are just intimidated by me because I'm so strong and independent." It's like, no, there can be a million reasons why someone doesn't like you, and your attitude is a big factor. Also, some women that are really conventionally attractive expect passenger princess treatment, and a lot of guys don't wanna deal with that.
@tehlaziness5 ай бұрын
Also my personal opinion is she isn't nearly as attractive as she thinks she is...
@coolnut995 ай бұрын
@@RicochetForce The true triple threat for women is hot (e.g. not overweight), young (under 30 or looks like so), and undamaged (few to no tats, low BC, etc.).
@neurathal0n5345 ай бұрын
Not to be too nitpicky here, but you won't get a sense of someone's personality until after you approach them
@BlueFish-kq9fh5 ай бұрын
@@neurathal0n534 Not necessarily. You can observe the way they treat others. In the case of women, you can observe the way they speak of men in general. In the case of this woman in Courtney's video, who the hell needs to "approach" her after watching that video?
@Danbecker0005 ай бұрын
@@neurathal0n534 You can hear words out of someone's mouth and decide not to approach them. You can see how someone acts and decide not to approach them. You can also just look at someone and decide, "that's just a person, not a woman that's waiting to be hit on." There are many reasons not to approach someone other than "OMG, I'M SCARED TO TALK TO PRETTY GIRL." You can get a sense of someone from listening to what they say, watching what they do, and how they interact with other people. You ever see a hot person treat a service worker badly or acting a fool and you go from, "Hey, I wanna get that chick's number" to "Wow, she's a real jerk; I should avoid her." And you never approach that person. If I see someone kick a dog, I don't need to approach them to see if we'll really "click," or if I would grow to like that person. I'm sorry, but whenever I hear someone say, "It's not me, it's the rest of the world that's the problem," I assume that they are their own problem.
@theRulekeeper5 ай бұрын
I’m 29, 6’6, in shape? And make multiple six figures working fit myself in the trade industry. I can pick up almost any girl at bars but dating girls is a headache. They all talk down to me because I don’t gave a degree or assume I have no money because I work a trade they don’t shut up about their degree and job and look down on all non white collar jobs. I’ve lost count of the amount of times girls have straight up said negative things to me about my job
@michaelsix96845 ай бұрын
they are programmed to say these things, how sad -- you can't fix that either
@gabriel-gc4uf2 ай бұрын
I'm 5'4, out of shape and barely make 3 figures, but I still get laid a lot because women find me fun to be with
@makavelijr245 ай бұрын
Single women keep women single. You can’t make this up.
@CourtneyRyan5 ай бұрын
Honestly this is a problem I see a lot. I might make a video about it!
@makavelijr245 ай бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan that’s good to hear. If I can make another suggestion. I think if you do a video asking married men why did they marry their wives. They three things that tik toker mention some men do not care about. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years and married for 4 and we’re expecting our first child.
@makavelijr245 ай бұрын
@@RicochetForce I know exact episode you’re referring to.
@jamesg38085 ай бұрын
In other words, "misery loves company."
@watamutha5 ай бұрын
I would say the reason why women are single is that, at most, they want 30% of men. If the women aren't fast, all those guys get taken up quickly. And since most women arent ok with 1 guy getting 2 girls, they stay single.
@friendnamedfive45265 ай бұрын
Pretty women will say "men don't approach me because they're intimidated". It's not that. When you date an exceptionally attractive woman you have to deal with other guys constantly sniffing around. Cashiers in shops will chat her up right in front of you. If you're out at a bar and you go to the bathroom, when you come back some guy will be trying to talk to her. It's tiring. And they have infinite options so there's always the chance the right guy will come along and she'll leave you for him. Kinda like a Ferrari, I guess. Nice to look at and spend a day with but would you want the hassle of having one?
@jdarnellsix5 ай бұрын
That's EXACTLY true. It's fukin annoying
@friendnamedfive45265 ай бұрын
There's also the fact that every woman today is a 10/10 queen who deserves only the best. Any man she's with, she's "settling" and a better deal is always around the corner. The grass is always greener elsewhere. I have no problem attracting women but they are so obnoxious today that I no longer have any interest in them. I don't look at them, I don't talk to them and I'm quite happy. Dating today is depressing.
@troyberg62485 ай бұрын
Facts, well stated. Men will go out camping and boating as an alternative to or escape from the condo or the property. The latter being the "more work" some judge may hand over in divorce settlement. TIME one can't have back. [Note: Ferrari tune-ups were running $US 2K last time I looked. Pirelli tires for them also around 2K. Then eventually it's sold to pay the lawyer. I've never had that "need for speed" feeling.]
@doberchic5 ай бұрын
@@friendnamedfive4526 How's that goon cave life lookin? LOL Solid L aura you got there.
@michaelsix96845 ай бұрын
seen this many times, the hassle of this woman isn't worth it usually
@JackGordon865 ай бұрын
An insanely pretty girl I approached agreed to go out with me. At one point she volunteered the reason she agreed, which caught me by surprise at the time, because I was the only one in over a year who had the confidence to walk up and talk to her like a normal human being.
@neilt64805 ай бұрын
I did approach a stunning woman back when I was young and dumb after being cajoled into it by the group I was with. I went over expecting to be crushed, and of course my expectations were met. I never made that mistake again, even with moderately attractive women.
@scottverge9385 ай бұрын
@@neilt6480 Sounds like you surrendered your manhood right there. Rejection is a part of life, you don't just give up.
@jazzyjake995 ай бұрын
@@neilt6480A mistake? Dude you were just turned down by that one woman, chill. It’s dumb to assume that every woman you approach in life is going to be that way.
@neilt64805 ай бұрын
@@scottverge938 About 50 years ago, at the urging of those workmates I ran an experiment where I was to talk to ten women a week in various settings until I met someone who would date me. My coworkers (men and women both) gave me lots of advice and tips, but nothing worked. Despite avoiding overly beautiful women, after ten weeks and 100 straight rejections, I called it a day. Things got better when I spent a few years backpacking through Europe and North America.
@BWater-yq3jx5 ай бұрын
@@neilt6480 A few years? Wow. But sounds like you discovered some truths there. Such as certain situations can drastically alter results.
@shahidmufti7955 ай бұрын
So I've actually learned through time that perhaps being single all my 49 years of life has been the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. Think about it, no nagging ex, no psycho ex, no alimony, no lost child custody battles, no financial loss and bankruptcy due to divorce, no crazy wife or girlfriend, no crazy in-laws, no girlfriends or wives potentially cheating on you, no kids disrespecting you as a father, and on and on and on.....
@brutus81235 ай бұрын
You’re assuming all women are crazy and psychos…
@omegamale78805 ай бұрын
No need to work a job you hate.
@yemengoto49053 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right because you live a total peace without owing anybody unconditional love like a slave.
@VideoGameRoom325 ай бұрын
Looks and personality are important. Not just Looks
@CourtneyRyan5 ай бұрын
Totally!
@garthwood51045 ай бұрын
Back In The Day™, my mom had a saying about women like this: "Looks can get the phone ringing off the hook, but personality keeps the conversation going." Having dated several women in my life that were supposedly "out of my league," I came to my senses and married a smart and wonderful lady who isn't full of herself. 32 years and counting!
@milforddekalb64294 ай бұрын
True beauty is found in their personality/character
@mannytorrez21383 ай бұрын
@@CourtneyRyanhello is there ac way to have a chat I have some? About my relationship
@ryandunn70205 ай бұрын
I've dated a super independent woman for 7 years .. she made more money had a higher education... I never cared for or put much thought into her being better than me... it was nice she had her shit together and was beautiful.. but it wasn't the driving force to why I was with her. But.. She had a whole slew of poor qualities that add up over time, the low self-esteem, the insecurities and the depression from her education, and the need to chase money.. and so on and so on.. I had to walk away from that relationship after success went to her head... I still see her every now and then.. and she's still miserable even after all her accomplishments.
@alexanderg53865 ай бұрын
Depression from education?
@BlueFish-kq9fh5 ай бұрын
@@alexanderg5386 Modern university education is infused with Marxist ideology (feminism, atheism, trans-genderism, misandry, etc.). Stay in these academic circles long enough (which is what most of these "strong independent women who don't need a man" tend to do) and depression is more or less inevitable.
@PappaBear_12345 ай бұрын
TikTok has killed off a whole generation of people… we gotta do better
@CourtneyRyan5 ай бұрын
It’s rough out there
@vlv7235 ай бұрын
Its not just TikTok, its social media in general
@PappaBear_12345 ай бұрын
@@CourtneyRyanwe still need a face counter in the corner… lol
@Individualati5 ай бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan You don't mention that women like her who are superficial, materialistic and vain are not able to have a genuine relationship. They will never love or be loved. They are INFERIOR women. They can only be bought or rented as trophies, by similarly vapid men. I suspect you are similar to her, just not so extreme and obvious. You embrace that "high standards" fallacy. Confidence does not mean ultra ego. She's not all that good looking either.
@lalosalamanca85745 ай бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan you know that normal girls don't post their life stories on tik tok. There are 4 billion females on the planet, with different personalities and characteristics. Your trying to to group all women in to one box. That is naive and foolish and naive advice . You lack life experience and you seem to get all your ideas of tik tok. Your young and immature and your giving men advice. Wow. People need a reality check
@dat8685 ай бұрын
I think most of us men also know our limitations. The prettier the woman can sometimes mean higher maintenance. And yes, men are worn down over being rejected or being labeled as "creeps" for simply showing interest in the opposite sex and also knowing that her standards are so high that very few men can meet them so why waste the time in trying?
@keithbieberly64455 ай бұрын
Don't forget humility!
@abodz97025 ай бұрын
Being in a relationship with a very beautiful attractive woman that men swarm around and constantly tempted and hit up, isn't fun. You gotta watch your back. Even from friends.
@2xcrzkxk5 ай бұрын
Not if she actually likes you you don't. You'll lose friends not her if she actually likes you. Remember, really attractive women who take relationships seriously are used to random ppl constantly trying to get with them & aren't phased by it. They're looking for real same as you
@RickMoraOriginal5 ай бұрын
People who are perceived as being very attractive, intelligent, and/or confident also are pre-judged as being high maintenance and not worth approching. Unfortunately, we have all encountered people like this so many times, it is difficult to overcome that bias.
@michaelsix96845 ай бұрын
they usually are high maintenance and demanding because they can get away with it
@williamholden43125 ай бұрын
That is absolutely true. You won’t find a 9 or 10 out there that won’t refrain from getting what she wants because she can and she will.
@The_LightArrow4 ай бұрын
That would be more of a stereotype than a bias, but unfortunately more often than not it does prove to be true
@yemengoto49053 ай бұрын
True! A diamond doesn't say it is a diamond.
@EyeOfScrutiny5 ай бұрын
It’s not so much about being intimidated by smart, intelligent, beautiful women, it’s dealing with their condescending attitude.
@charlessteadjr18395 ай бұрын
Most men know what comes with a triple threat .
@acuellaralfaro82465 ай бұрын
PROBLEMS+++
@asdfxcvbn7465 ай бұрын
a triple headache.
@SnookisInfant-gt8xu5 ай бұрын
Bodies, bodies, bodies
@jondrake19775 ай бұрын
That they could lose the title without being pinned? (:
@j0hns0n335 ай бұрын
They don’t need a man, they think their the men, and treat men like tools.
@timopartanen72625 ай бұрын
Very first thing that came into my mind when I heard men being intimidated by her confidence, was that the man probably didn't see someone confident, but someone annoying.
@williamholden43125 ай бұрын
😂
@rayg.24314 ай бұрын
Ha, that's the first thing that popped into my head too, "She's effing annoying!" Hell, if she was a guy with that kind of personality, I'd say he was a f*****g douchebag 😀
@lawrence314155 ай бұрын
A major issue with today's dating is that several men and women choose not to put in the time to get to know someone; they just want instant results. Modern dating is a difficult, but not unbeatable, numbers game.
@LisaFenton-h7f5 ай бұрын
True! Instant results is so much pressure.
@lawrence314155 ай бұрын
@@LisaFenton-h7f I don't know if I would use the word "pressure", but some people definitely try too hard to impress others; too many judgmental folks these days!
@The_LightArrow4 ай бұрын
There are plenty of men willing to put in the legwork but they are often seen as "boring, safe, and/or a simp" so most of the time they will be overlooked in favor of someone that just goes for the coitus makes them feel terrible but excited (the butterflies) then leads them on indefinitely because he has a menagerie of options
@Ioncekickedapregnantwomen5 ай бұрын
When a girl saids men are intimidated by her what she’s really saying is that I have a shit personality and even a shitter attitude, I refuse to work on myself because my looks should be all that it takes to attract a man (which is ironic since a man looks is never alone enough for women) but because a guy doesn’t wanna settle for a half relationship it just means he’s intimidated.
@Casual_Talk5 ай бұрын
😩💯💯💯
@sagemage86515 ай бұрын
When I was a young man I wouldn't approach VERY beautiful women for 3 reasons: 1. They already had a lot of guys chasing them. 2. They already had a boyfriend or husband. 3. They would consider me beneath them and reject me immediately. Of course all this was in my head and may not have necessarily been the truth. Because of these thoughts I wouldn't approach.
@75pdubs5 ай бұрын
Reason 3b you’re a dork
@75pdubs5 ай бұрын
I don’t know any very attractive, sweet, nurturing woman that is single that wants to be in a relationship. They have their pick of the litter in men and are always taken.
@williamholden43125 ай бұрын
9s and 10s don’t belong to you they belong to the community.
@alicia_nicole4 ай бұрын
I do. They don't leave the house often. That's it. That's why they're single
@stevemiller15173 ай бұрын
It was and is the truth.
@steveo137575 ай бұрын
I remember watching Katie Couric interviewing TV reality Host Patti Stanger aka The Millionaire Matchmaker. Katie asked her why is it so hard for men to find a woman. And Patti’s response was…”It’s the women that are the problem”. I’ll never forget it.
@ajtaylor87505 ай бұрын
While I totally understand where she's coming from, what this woman is missing is the attitude that some of these women tend to have. When a woman that has the so-called "triple threat" is aware of it, she tends to be quite condescending and arrogant towards men and it only turns men off because it lacks any true confidence. While there are indeed weak men not secure enough in themselves to date a woman that is pretty, smart, and confident, there are also a lot of men who know that sometimes these types of women have a big head and brag about how great they are instead of just letting it show naturally.
@LisaFenton-h7f5 ай бұрын
Arrogance is NOT attractive in women--or men!!!
@GoodGuyPlayer25 ай бұрын
Confusing "confident" with insufferable... that's pretty much it.
@pj200505 ай бұрын
Too many women chasing too few men
@williamholden43125 ай бұрын
80% of men are invisible.
@joshuabenitez32605 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head with rejection fatigue. I've been rejected/ghosted so many times I just feel ugly and I question if I am a creep for approaching. Nowadays I'm just doing for me and every now and again I see a woman I find attractive, but I no longer take that plunge anymore.
@tjames91205 ай бұрын
Congrats on 750k subs on youtube Courtney! Crazy how much the channel has grown and how many people you've helped. Compared to your early videos its clear you've grown as a person as well. You are much better at communicating your thoughts and opinions in a healthy way. Saw your husband hit 1 mil somewhat recently too. Well deserved 👏
@CourtneyRyan5 ай бұрын
You’re so kind, thank you! 🥹
@Zflayre5 ай бұрын
I'd like to preface that this is not an attack towards women. Moreso, it's advice that I genuinely hope is helpful to getting you that safe and loving relationship you dream of. I think i speak for a majority of men when i say that those 3 traits aren't a deal breaker. (Pretty, Condident & Smart) And it's actually a plus. What I think a lot of men find to be dealbreakers is: When they have those 3 traits but they're also blind to the negative traits they have -Combativeness -Stubborn -Vindictive -Materialistic -Emotionally immature -Lack of Self Awareness -Lack of/low empathy -Refusal to follow the man or be a team player for fear of being called a "housewife" and shamed by single women I'm sure there's more but remember women, if you're trying to get a man to love you and commit to you, you have to have the traits THEY are looking for, not the opposites.
@bobromasr17114 ай бұрын
Exactly on the money !
@scottclark37615 ай бұрын
If you put yourself on a pedestal like this, then you're a turn off. What she's missing is what most men want most. Loyalty, kindness, empathy. You can be smart, confident, beautiful and be a complete sociopath. The qualities she mentions are the bare minimum, and she's treating them like they're the ultimate goal. Who wants to date an ugly, stupid, insecure person? No one. Being attractive, competent, and confident is the price of admission, not the trophy. She's gor herself muddled up a bit.
@LABoyko5 ай бұрын
When you describe yourself as a "triple threat, " you are describing yourself as a threat.
@MreMeatify5 ай бұрын
This got me laughing. It is reasonable to run from danger🤣
@Vergil145 ай бұрын
I’ve learned that when hearing ladies like that speak on social media, to take what they say with a grain of salt. Everytime the blame is placed on men, it should be understood as projection. Also, I did like what you said about how singleness isn’t a punishment. But sadly, what people don’t always willfully acknowledge is how much being single is seen as being a pariah. I’ve been in church long enough to notice how the older generations treat younger single people as weird for not having someone in their life. Some churches even see a single man who wants to take a position in leadership as a weirdo and single women as a problem. Then young people who are single tend to be quick to leave instead of encouraging their single friends. I think what’s missing is people actually trying to encourage people and be honest about what can be done.
@pace11955 ай бұрын
Additionally, the church leaders don't use the networks and experience they have to help the problem. They just keep to their own small in-groups and complain about why butts in seats are declining year over year.
@StrumVogel5 ай бұрын
I just don’t want a woman make me feel disposable.
@jamesg38085 ай бұрын
In other words, you want a woman who respects you.
@kubasniak4 ай бұрын
Good luck with that.
@jepb69903 ай бұрын
I totally agree.
@allonsrensen58375 ай бұрын
There may be a hint of truth in this - however, I think the primary reason this happens, is that a lot of men have had numerous bad experiences with "high value women" turning them down, so they feel their effort is way better spent on more average women, who may actually give them a chance. Imo it has very little to do with being intimidated, but way more with using your time on something that has a reasonable chance of actually leading to something.
@stephanechouinard58675 ай бұрын
Sorry that’s not a high value women for men. Men want feminine women. And that’s final. A woman with degrees for me is nice but it’s not what men want. The world has convinced us this is high value but in reality a good feminine and nurturing woman is the most valuable thing any man in the world can have. Men will die and move mountains for that. I was successful and my ex was successful at her job and everything became a competition. I DONT WANT TO COMPETE. I will take a jobless, ugly feminine women over any beautiful, career driven independent women any day. Been there done that. Now I know.
@CyberDancerDany5 ай бұрын
As a woman who’s single and has a bunch of guys throwing themselves at them, I will say that lots of times guys get intimidated. Most people would say I’m kind and caring. I’m single because I’ve dealt with guys who were intimidated by me even when I accepted them for who they were. These guys were so insecure a relationship could not come out of it. I also dealt with jerks who gave me trust issues. Not only that having so many guys talking to me makes it hard for me to chose someone.
@falsificationism5 ай бұрын
Guy here. I'm not sure "confidence" is anywhere in my top 10. Beautiful. Smart. Humble. That's the triple threat for me. Am I weird?
@simontmn5 ай бұрын
No, no you are not. Excessive "confidence" is a big turn off. Humility is attractive.
@theurbancamper54104 ай бұрын
You do want someone with confidence that can be a helpmate with whatever curveballs life throws at you. You probably don’t want someone who behaves like a child and can’t be relied on as a partner. That said, I don’t think that’s what these boss babe types are talking about when they claim to be ‘confident’.
@falsificationism4 ай бұрын
@@theurbancamper5410 seems like a tortured definition of confidence to me, but per your definition, I certainly agree. I want a capable, mature partner for sure!
@XfiverX5 ай бұрын
Women who are never single: 1 Don't play games. 2 Able to regulate their emotions. 3 Enjoyable to be around.
@PatrickGotG5 ай бұрын
and don't post on tiktok
@scotthearts96345 ай бұрын
@@PatrickGotG I second this one! 😃😃🥰
@TomNook.5 ай бұрын
Don't gaslight
@stevec35265 ай бұрын
A woman’s looks catches my attention. Her personality, character, and intelligence KEEPS my attention. Men don’t find these women intimidating. The men just find them damned annoying. Young men are avoiding college because it is expensive, no guarantee of finding a good job, and the environment there is extremely anti-male. DEI..
@stevec35265 ай бұрын
I have college degrees in 3 different fields.
@vlv7235 ай бұрын
It's also the high standards the women are looking for. I'm sorry that not all men are 6 feet and make six figures.
@jamesg38085 ай бұрын
There's a difference between high standards and petty standards.
@Frontline355 ай бұрын
From what I've seen in person, a lot of the very attractive women do not get approached in public, but they get a million messages online. The chance of picking up a very attractive women online is very low. Women get so many messages, they aren't going to read all of them.
@Akilan.115 ай бұрын
Hi Courtney! Hitting 'like' right away was a no-brainer because your dedication to creating meaningful content is truly inspiring. Your videos have become a part of my weekly routine because they offer so much more than just information. Keep up the fantastic work, and know that your efforts are deeply appreciated!❤️
@CourtneyRyan5 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness you are so kind! Thanks for being here 🤍
@MessageInABottle8695 ай бұрын
It seems like she and so many others focus on the people they don’t want to date instead of look into why those who are confident and not intimidated don’t want to date you.
@acuellaralfaro82465 ай бұрын
As you mentioned, we can not generalize, but there is a very common reason why this type of women are single, and it's basically this: THEY ARE VERY PROBLEMATIC. High value men will always prefer a more traditional woman who provides peace of mind, loyalty, kindness and love. But a woman who thinks that deserves the whole 🌎 it's a nightmare.
@Tim_G_Bennett5 ай бұрын
For sure, this sort of video reminds me of the quote "for every pretty single woman, there's a man out there tired of her crap".
@zenigatago5 ай бұрын
@@Tim_G_Bennett same can be said for the 'pity queens'. Lowering your standards can be costly.😢
@lauradeneault35252 ай бұрын
I like that you approach things in an healthy way. It's so refreshing 😊
@Ryan664375 ай бұрын
If she'd said intelligent, healthy and happy or something similar I'd be all behind it. The confident portion carries far too many negative connotations these days. Might be a problem with me though, I apparently make the more scarred women feel safe. That's good of course, but I've already tried several times with them and it doesn't turn out well.
@tomstupka27745 ай бұрын
Courtney you’ve hit the nail on the head!! I see a ton of reels where women want a man who is at least 5’10 or 6’ and makes X insane income. I’m 5’6”, athletic (gym 5-6x per week), active lifestyle and work in medical sales making +150k on a bad year. I’m ruled out for my height by most of these “beautiful women” and know a lot of guys that are taller that want a woman 5’2” or shorter. I love a confident woman, but she needs to fit my active lifestyle and be career driven too. A lot of these girls aren’t getting up at 4am with me to fit my life. Everyone needs to accept they’re going to have to give a little on their “demands” if they want to find someone. I dated a woman that was 6’2” briefly because she didn’t care about dating someone shorter, and she wore heels on dates. I am very happy to have found someone in the world of picky women out there, but the standards some of these women expect are drastically limiting their pool. They are leaving themselves with a small pool of men, who likely have ruled them out too because they can be picky too. I hate to say, the tall wealthy men in their 30s are picking up younger women in their 20s ladies! One of my coworkers in his mid 40s married a girl in her early 30s so he could have a family
@OcbaPaul5 ай бұрын
Being single isn't a punishment, but long term singleness, or what I call "chronic singleness" really is or feels like it. Specially considering some of us have no desire to be single any longer.
@KevinMcClave5 ай бұрын
Good insight, Courtney. Nuance is in extremely short supply with virtually any topic.
@worldmustburn60565 ай бұрын
Attractive women have the mentality of "if shit goes sideways in a relationship, i'll just pick another one of the 200+ guys in my DM"
@alexanderg53865 ай бұрын
That's the guys fault for not regulating her social media or telling her to shut them down.
@jesse_campbell3 ай бұрын
@@alexanderg5386 Alexander Grace? Is that you?
@JeffersonRah5 ай бұрын
I've been rejected online and in person many times. It can get tiring but never take it to heart. The harder part is when you've been rejected by a woman who you really liked and had something going with you. That's when it get fatiguing and you want to take some personal time off.
@Rzr5435 ай бұрын
A beautiful heart and a beautiful mind are absolute deal-breakers for me and it’s very rare to encounter those today. Personality, character and being a lady. Unfortunately, the majority of North American millennials and Gen Z women are bereft of these qualities and have absolutely no idea what being a lady means and they seem even less interested in becoming one.
@michaelsix96845 ай бұрын
their mothers failed them
@civlengr685 ай бұрын
The triple threat: Beautiful, confident, smart vs. what men want: fit, feminine, friendly.
@jkbrown54965 ай бұрын
What is called a man being "insecure" is really just the cost/benefit analysis coming out high cost, low benefit. Smart, beautiful and confident are excellent traits for a dinner party guest. And a fine escort for a social event. But really, what's she likely like at home?
@aguyinavan60873 ай бұрын
The most valuable attribute that the women possesses whom are dating higher value men is modesty, in her sense of self-importance and everything else about her. If you're calling yourself the "triple-threat" , we don't want to come home from war of work, or just actual war, to a threat. A women is supposed to be a man's oasis, not his adversary. Watch Mulan's "a girl worth fighting for".
@AuroraBoreas5 ай бұрын
I threw in the towel a long time ago. I'm at the point in my life now where women are staring at me in public and I don't even give them a second look. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
@01SHADOW4 ай бұрын
Burnt out on rejection is the perfect phrase because I'm definitely there
@Vegaswill7145 ай бұрын
My response to the woman in the video is that she is correct, but if a girl is unattractive, not smart and lacks confidence she will most definitely have difficulty with dating. People have to realize that dating is difficult for everyone..
@pace11955 ай бұрын
Not true statistically. It has been shown even the worst women on dating apps will still get at least 5x the number of messages as the top men.
@AL15IS3505 ай бұрын
@@pace1195 "dating apps" are not for dating. It's a system designed to pander to women while the same system aims to take as much $ from the men as possible. How is it not bs that average guys on there literally have to pay for "premium" features to get "more" matches? Have you heard of the study that women find more than 80% of the men unattractive? They all go for the top 10% of men that are genetically gifted in areas they care about, even the very delusional ones that are not even qualified to be with those men.
@vincezeimis695 ай бұрын
Before cancer took her out, I enjoyed 32 years married to a beautiful, smart, confident woman. With her we raised three beautiful/handsome, smart, confident children. I was dated/approached/rejected by a whole lot of women before I met her. Now that I am back in the dating cycle again in my 60s, not whole lot has changed. I am still dating /approaching and being rejected by a whole lot of women. That is life.
@douglasrau50945 ай бұрын
I have never met a woman who says, "I'm single because men are intimidated by me" that I wanted to do anything with. No, dear, that is NOT the reason.
@elvisquiff5 ай бұрын
It’s not often I comment on your videos Courtney as I’m an older dad (48). I have a younger son who is 26 and he’s been in a relationship for 6 years. I think there are two issues here. One is timeless, girls will often go out in groups for safety and rightly so, the problem with this is it’s terrifying to approach a girl anyway but to add in a group immediately terrifies people and keeps anyone from approaching Additionally a lot of people used to meet in work (it’s where you spend a lot of your life after all) but now HR and law have left this so nuanced it puts people of both sexes off asking colleagues out (especially if that person male or female is a senior). This doesn’t leave them a lot of scope to actually meet people. I met my wife at a social club 22 years ago where we had a shared interest so my advice for both sexes would be forget work, look at your hobbies and anything you may do fitness wise and see if you can join something. Additionally go to events that colleagues or family invite you to. You never know.
@musicalone81235 ай бұрын
Courtney is nailing this one. The issue is more so the women than the men, and I'm saying this as a woman, albeit a lesbian. My experience with dancing around/approaching women is they have gotten extremely picky and are having trouble finding people who meet all of their standards as women are excelling more with women's rights improvements. There will always be guys who are running after women who are "out of their league," and sometimes we see women with men whom we wonder how in the hell he got her.
@realistrick5 ай бұрын
Men can be attractive for a variety of reasons that include but are not limited to just looks. However looks is the primary reason men are attracted to women. Hence why so many men appear to be dating women "out of their league."
@pace11955 ай бұрын
@@realistrick If men can be attractive for a variety of reasons, why do women only go after the top tier of men? I think what you mean is men need a variety of reasons to be attractive. If he doesn't meet a certain threshold from a variety of checkbox categories, he is invisible. Most men are attracted to most women. Men try to get relationships from a wide spectrum of women: from those out of their league below themselves all the way to those out of their league above themselves. Women just see and remember the hits and don't register or flat out forget the misses. Confirmation bias is real!
@troyberg62485 ай бұрын
@@pace1195 Richard Cooper's "435 Bullet Points" List.
@realistrick5 ай бұрын
@@pace1195 I'm not talking about tinder bro. Yes, on an app based solely on appearance, only the topmost guys get chosen. But in real world encounters which are still quite common, you see guys with a variety of phenotypes score hot girls.
@realistrick5 ай бұрын
@@troyberg6248 watch what women actually do, not what they say
@Nocturnal_Lorena5 ай бұрын
I've learnt that happy girls are the prettiest & having confidence without arrogance attracts men & women no matter what my age is or which part of the world I am in. Even if I turn them down, I do it kindly & I end up gaining a friend even if it's temporary. You receive what you believe. That woman has a negative mindset. Thank you for this video!
@stephenenglish22115 ай бұрын
There is an old saying..."Sleep with 9s and 10s, marry 7s and 8s". While you shouldn't evaluate people based solely on looks, the reality is when you meet an extremely attractive woman who is single and in her 30s, there's a good chance that she's high-maintenance and not a great partner. Does that mean it's true of all very attractive women? Of course not...but it's something to keep in mind, that women who are very attractive and see themselves as very attractive, but who have problems finding a long-term relationship, are often in that situation because they believe they can always do better and will be more likely to move in if a relationship isn't perfect and something they think might be better comes along. Many men have the same problem, but men are also more likely to "marry down" than women are if they find a relationship that is comfortable for them rather than ideal.
@simontmn5 ай бұрын
The 9s & 10s with great personalities do tend to marry young, and stay married!
@Seowie4 ай бұрын
When I first watched your videos in the past, I thought it was very nuanced to a female's perspective but over time I realised you gave a very unbiased explanation to the difficulties faced by both gender roles; be it a by-product of their circumstances or environment etc. Well said!
@palmer39775 ай бұрын
Arrogance is not a virtue.
@adaltonian5 ай бұрын
Courtney I don't even necessarily need most of your dating advice but I'm subscribed and keep up with your content just to hear some sort of sensibility on the internet. It's refreshing. Never change
@sethaaron955 ай бұрын
In my opinion, the standards are often too high across the board between men and women, in part due to the influence of social media, porn, etc. there's a great book that Aziz Ansari did with a sociologist called Modern Romance, breaking down these issues, and in it they talk about how just a few decades ago the majority of marriages were people who lived within a few miles of each other, and Ansari's own parents were an arranged marriage, his dad has 3 women to choose from and talked to each of them for 15 minutes. Arranged marriages are obviously not ideal, but I think it illustrates the point of how high modern standards are and more so the wrong standards, men and women are dissecting every small detail of their partner down to their height, salary, physique, waist line, body count, social media presence and followers, and we flag every little thing each other says as green and red while wondering why there are more single men and women than ever recorded. we need to stop living in fairytales and ideas of finding "the one", as if on a planet of 8 billion theres only one person who could possibly meet your standards to be mr/mrs perfect. theres probably at least 100 million people that anyone of us could have a successful, happy long term relationship with if we would just open our eyes, but in stead we stare at our screens, all our lives. what a waste of eyes. we post tik toks about dating and gossip. what a waste of lips.
@ZmQuad5 ай бұрын
@3:56 … I think this summarizes a lot. I think 1 of the biggest issues with dating right now, is very few women know what real confidence looks like. They confuse confidence and arrogance. That being said, many women also conflate status with confidence. A women who will only date successful men, is the equivalent of a man who has “standards” of dating only supermodels. If I take that approach, I can complain that “women are the problem” if my standards are built on total superficiality and ignorance
@gordongekko27815 ай бұрын
The problems of the dating market always comes back to the same root cause: almost all of the single women want the same 10-20% of the men. The men at the top get all of the female attention, so where does that leave the top women? Ignored. Because the top men are too busy rotating. Once again, the solution would be for women to broaden their scope, and stop ignoring every man who doesn't look like a model.
@hailus77145 ай бұрын
Being smart, confident and beautiful are not the only criteria for a healthy relationship. Good character, being loyal, helping each other, sharing some common point of views, ideas and activities are important. What is essential is not limited to those listed here.
@RedArrow20075 ай бұрын
She insults almost everyone except her circle of friends. She feels entitled. She insults the men, and then she insults the women who date these "high-value men" because her friends are unable to find one of their preferred preferences. She insults the men high value men themselves for being insecure because they are not dating her friends. She insults people who may disagree with her as "insecure" because she knows there is going to be a blowback from her comments. With this kind of entitlement, they deserve to be single!
@jckleme5 ай бұрын
Confidence is sometimes just narcissism with a pretty face. That's one of the reasons they might be single. What appears to be confidence at first is just an obsession with oneself and humility is non-existent. Great video as always.
@citydogpack5 ай бұрын
There are many reasons why. A big reason why the prettiest women have the hardest time finding a man is because the men in their caliber are busy being entertained by average to slightly above average women who will give them what they want for little in return. Now is actually the best time to get the prettiest girl if you’re an above average guy because the average and above average women are delusional and are busy chasing men out of their league and the prettiest girls are being neglected. The prettiest girls right now are the nicest and most appreciative when you take them on a nice date.
@overcomerbtboj5 ай бұрын
Thank you for a different take on the situation I don’t rate myself a 10 i’m not arrogant or conceited and i do value qualities in men that are not shallow- such as being loyal, dependable emotionally mature and stable along with confidence because insecurity in both sexes is a turnoff- and yes attraction is also important- if i’m laying in bed next to my partner he better turn me on physically so in that department he should be healthy, well groomed and want to go to the gym and be fit because i also work hard to stay fit and healthy and go to the gym for my health - that’s not too much to ask imo
@citydogpack5 ай бұрын
I agree and it’s ok to have standards as long as you have self awareness to understand what standards you qualify for. It’s just crazy nowadays what average-slightly above average expect. Even women I love and care about very much such as family members of mine. Not to pick on women thigh, I always say that if women desired men as much as me desire women, the delusion level in men would be 5x worse than women
@overcomerbtboj5 ай бұрын
@@citydogpack my theory about the average looking women is that they know they are looks challenged so all they have is below the waist and they are willing to give it up readily to bag a guy and it usually works- some of the most average women are the biggest 304s- that’s from observation
@warrenny5 ай бұрын
As a guy who probably doesn't have the best personality, I will just say that personality counts for a lot. If you can develop a good personality and hangout with good people, you won't be single. No matter what you look like.
@james502275 ай бұрын
Can we all take a minute to realize that there is a good amount of people out there in relationships that have already lost desire for each other and haven't even been intimate with each other in months and some that feel trapped and have already started life with the wrong person. A lot of people settle for people they don't really desire but are good enough be with.
@tomaszstramel35945 ай бұрын
Blame-shifting is probably among the most primal instincts a human being resorts to when faced with some sort of failure. It may be direct or indirect, like in the case discussed in this video. "I'm single because you're too intimidated by my looks, brains and sass." Notice how it also comes with a subtle diss towards successful competition: "It would be much easier If I were a dumb bitch with a pretty face." All that with the necessary caveat that is dead on arrival but the person doesn't even seem to notice: "I'm not trying to shame anyone or be mean."
@austinpowers19994 ай бұрын
Imagine having a mask made up of a ton of Make-up and thinking that mask makes you look pretty
@seattlesix5 ай бұрын
Probably better to show a man that you’re smart instead of telling a man that you’re smart. Prudence and humility will go far
@BlueJayWaters5 ай бұрын
When I was a free-lance videographer, I worked with several models, of various degrees of attractiveness and success. I was more awkward and shy in the beginning, but I became desensitized to the whole hot girl thing. I treated them like a client and honestly never even considered asking one out simply for my reputation and work. Since then, I am recently divorced, and simply aren't seeking a relationship. I find myself naturally able to talk with women who are probably out of my league, but there's no expectation. They know they're attractive, I know it, but I'm not there emotionally to care for a relationship. It lowers their guard. It appears those types of women just value what I would consider quiet confidence and professionalism. I can't say how to achieve that in pursuit of those women, but that's what I have experienced
@fredrikbergquist57345 ай бұрын
It is chocking how lonely some beautiful and famous women are. Like when Madonna gets pregnant with her gym trainer that was the only man she could meet. A golden cage.
@dlove1305 ай бұрын
Great job. I only know my experience. When I hear women I have dated about intimidating men about their career or looks it always has more to do with ‘em feeling superior and thinking the guy feels inferior. We don’t we figure them out and take what need and leave what we don’t
@yusikillah61755 ай бұрын
This woman is single cuz she's on tiktok lol. Nuff said
@Eaglespride1232 ай бұрын
women dream about marriage from young. Then they reach their late teens and early 20s and have so many options. If they reach 30 and aren't married, they are solely to blame and something is wrong with them. Imagine having that many options and yet no one locked you down and marriage was your goal.
@lascenethepodcast5 ай бұрын
She is like a 5 with make up. But she think is a 10. Maybe in other country she is pretty, but in Puerto Rico she can’t compete.
@pahakuutti5 ай бұрын
She looks very masculine to me, so maybe other women think she's beautiful.
@OneFreeMan175 ай бұрын
Makeup in my opinion is absolutely disgusting
@ChrisSadowski-pp1np5 ай бұрын
Agree
@lascenethepodcast5 ай бұрын
@@OneFreeMan17 Makeup is like me with fake 100 bills or rent a Ferrari.
@vielumiereg97945 ай бұрын
I've given up on trying to date tbh. Obviously not all women, but a lot of women these days spend too much time on social media I think, and they've developed these exact types of attitudes. I can't tell you how many times I've been called a broke and useless "little boy" just because I can't meet someone's standards. Yet, if I have standards, then I'm just being sexist and haven't grown into a man yet. It's toxic and mentally fucking exhausting putting up with the insane levels of double standards. So I've just come to terms with being single and enjoying my own company.
@AngelofJustice4125 ай бұрын
The irony of her implying that she’s single because she’s pretty, when without the makeup and fake eyelashes she probably wouldn’t even look female…
@genek86305 ай бұрын
Those lips speak volumes.
@maenad12314 ай бұрын
I actually feel like women who are good looking to the point of being complimented on their looks most days they leave the house (with or without their makeup & hair done and by all ages and both genders) have the hardest time finding men who authentically like them for who they are as people and don’t reduce them. Men also often have unrealistic expectations of them because they romanticize and idealize them the moment they see them and get mad when the woman is a whole 3 dimensional person with basic common flaws and want to punish her for dillusioning them and destroying their unfair fantasy And yes men love using humbling tactics even if you’re modest and only have basic realistic standards
@chrismoore99975 ай бұрын
I don't know why that girl is talking about "pretty girls" as if she knows, because she is not pretty.
@simontmn5 ай бұрын
She's a bit above average, but yes the video was her blowing smoke up her own butt.
@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle5 ай бұрын
It’s true. You can be beautiful, smart, confident and hard to get along with. Great point.
@queson525 ай бұрын
"I'm the complete package, but nobody will date me!" Proceeds to list 3 items only 1 of which most men actually care about.
@Michael-vc2cs5 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better myself!
@xavierpelletier26223 ай бұрын
Thanks for the part around 8:30 and onwards, where you say some men feel like leaving women alone from fear of bothering them. I do feel that way, and decide not to engage with women out of fear of making them uncomfortable. Then I'm told I come off as cold or uninterested. I understand women though for feeling that way. Times and moods are changing, and it is normal I guess, but kinda hard to navigate at times. And thanks too for speaking up about accountability. I find it easy to be written off or guilted into being evil as a guy when it comes to intimate relationships, even as one tries to be as open and objective as possible in conflict resolution. In any case, thanks for your work! Love your content.