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[@expressoevangelism80]

I learned not to go shopping for food when I’m hungry. A similar analogy.

[@Sophie-hm7yz]

A good analogy. If you see women as goods you can purchase.

[@kedabro1957]

Hilariously, you currently have 69 likes.

[@SMoneyT]

​@@Sophie-hm7yzThis is what Dating have become Buying and Selling of Humans as Goods. Women are the Sex Objects and Men are the ATM Machines and Sex Objects.

[@mesenburg]

Gross

[@puppyspit1132]

@@Sophie-hm7yzi dont think you understand the meaning. When you go out shopping for food when you are hungry, you end up buying tons of things you dont need a d some things may not even be good for you. Its the same with dating when youre in a place of desperation. You attract people you don’t even align with to fill that void. It has nothing to do with objectifying women

[@tanjajohnson4659]

I have a neighbor that got divorced. He is moving on with his life (they had no children together). According to her, he has not contacted her since the divorce, but every time she has a problem with her home (that she demanded in the divorce (and still has not finished paying for his share, as stipulated in the divorce) she burns his phone up asking him to come over and fix, or maintain it. It has been over a year, and he will still come over and change the filters in the HVAC, he winterized the plants that needed it, flushed the tankless water heater (twice), and replaced a toilet. (And paid for all the parts). To me, it looks like she needed him a heck of a sight more than he needed her.

[@IAmBeingSilenced]

So, why does he keep coming over to help her?

[@konstantin3374]

Because it doesn't bother him much to help someone he spent a big chunk of his life with

[@innocentorji101]

@@konstantin3374if he cares so much about someone he’s spent so much time with, why does he never call? Let’s not lie to ourselves here

[@santerisatama5409]

@@IAmBeingSilenced Self-respect. If you give in to bitterness and stop being a decent human being, you are not respecting who you really are.

[@sparta2705]

@@santerisatama5409 they asked for it. let them freeze should be the motto to fix this.

[@mickeymorrissey]

“Men behave in the way they need to to get what they want because they’re cavemen.” Women? Well… we’re made out of sugar and spice. Obviously.

[@mayonnaise9993]

Shes saying men have instincts created from back when we were cavemen. Women do too, but women weren’t the sole subject of conversation. Snowflake alert ❄️‼️

[@Tiredofthecensorship189]

​@@mayonnaise9993wtf is she on about? Conquest? Projection at its finest, 90% of men want a PARTNERSHIP with a rational woman, and fyi its not men that act differently depending on what they are trying to get, its no a "man thing" its a human race thing, and I have no freaking clue what the hell she was even talking about with the whole "void" crap.

[@melissachartres3219]

She just trying to communicate that men can be chameleons and don't always tell the truth. Worse still- a hard-on has no conscience.

[@ananousous]

🫂 you have been hurt... you have been hurt

[@dankassgonge]

​@@mayonnaise9993the short form video is to blame so both of you and the oc comments are equal levels of dumb. "Hello pot meet kettle."

[@damionevans4476]

Society teaches you that a woman can speak on men while men get prosecuted for speaking on women

[@MadHeadzOz]

Society is built on lie upon lie. As a result it is very sick. There are lessons to be learned from it. They will seldom if ever be what society teies to teach. Question everything. Be very wary of trusting anyone who tries to shut down questions.

[@aloisia1118]

On?

[@damionevans4476]

@@aloisia1118 ?

[@aloisia1118]

@@damionevans4476Do you mean like speak on men's issues?

[@longbottomleaf6918]

She's speaking about 'men's issues' but only to make herself feel morally superior. Loneliness is felt globally by every gender and race, so trying to say men are primitive is absurd. I can also say the entirety of female fashion is to attract a mate because women are desperate and lonely, such typical female cave brain, like... this women profits from these concepts the same as Andrew Taint profits from conning lonely men. Don't let toxic people beat you down with simplistic theory crafting logic.

[@tylerpuszkar]

I think a better way to say this so that it makes more sense is "masculine energy". We all have feminine and masculine energy within us and throughout history, masculine energy is at the forefront of males where the feminine energy gets repressed due to conditioning in society. Then the reverse in females.

[@stephenmuhlenbruck6876]

She’s right. This same argument applies to women as well.

[@ReyTheriault]

Sad but true.. However, when a man does mature emotionally and learns to treat women with respect. He will find that the damage that was inflicted throughout generations is almost too much to fix.

[@theodorelukasz912]

Females can also have a void they try to fill, dont forget that.

[@TheOneAndOnlyMichelleAngelique]

On point quite well, and I dig you lots for it. You are so right about the conquest being men's shadow. The stories we could tell.

[@tidewaters8975]

I don't often agree with her but when I do I drink a full glass of clean spring water.

[@syamali7562]

Thank you 🙏

[@markinglese3874]

Men! Dating is not complicated. Women make it complicated, especially when they are advising men. Don't worry, don't stress, work hard and enjoy life.

[@truthseeker2248]

What you mean mind expanding?

[@aaronyates5163]

@@truthseeker2248 its quite literal, there is nothing to expand on

[@truthseeker2248]

@@aaronyates5163 well then why men fail in relationships??

[@ShotgunSurgeon]

@truthseeker2248 Oh, my bad, I've been coming at relationships the wrong way. You're completely right.. there isn't 2 people in the relationship and I'm supposed to carry it by myself. Appreciate the insight.

[@truthseeker2248]

@@ShotgunSurgeon No its teamwork, but u failed to lead the team, managers dont carry business by themselves they have team that they manage, same in relationships

[@arianebennion]

Yep, I'm still bathing in that poisoned water. It's made Everyday for the last 6 years either heaven or hell. Mostly hell.

[@fstover5208]

Gee, I don't know about this. I went with a woman years ago who was more aggressive than me in a conquest sort of way.

[@triplegrace155]

Sitting there alone also leads to understanding your own self-worth so you begin to recognize the others who want control, (conquest)and you begin to trust yourself. Thank you, Teal.

[@TheJohmac]

She lost me at "the male race".

[@truthseeker2248]

Take chill pill then

[@johnharrison2511]

If you cannot understand a basic term such as "male race" then you need to go back to school or read more dictionary.

[@motalkbadazs]

@@johnharrison2511 There is no male race you simp. Its a sex and gender. Simple. Women and simps who say male race dont surprise me when they have drawings on their body and look pale from lack of nutrients.

[@TheJohmac]

@@johnharrison2511 Was not an issue of comprehension. If that is what you think I was saying, perhaps it is you who needs some education.

[@jamesl.9776]

male gender. Get some education yourself

[@jeffjohnson6709]

Women have a odd attraction to assholes is what she should have said.

[@truthseeker2248]

Thats different topic, to do with masculinity, they attracted to masculine men, asholes just happen to have more masculinity about them than avarage nerd or geek

[@peopletalkuttergarbage]

​@@truthseeker2248so it's more masculine to sell drugs and beat up women? Got you Einstein 😅😅😅😅

[@peopletalkuttergarbage]

​@@truthseeker2248the more masculine men work hard to protect their wife and provide for their family the less masculine men cheat, lie and abuse alcohol and drugs. So you've no idea WTF you're talking about...truth seeker my arse!!

[@boldbearings]

💯

[@jamesedgar5944]

Assholes are just masculine people unless you're the pen salesman from Paul blart

[@a7xzombiekiller-130]

As a man I completely agree. I have felt myself become someone else because of how lonely I was and how desperate I was to feel loved.

[@chansaken12]

omg.. same here brother..

[@longbottomleaf6918]

I can only say that you being a man doesn't define your loneliness. Don't listen to toxic people trying to make you feel bad so they feel morally superior. Your loneliness is something felt globally and something you can work on regardless of gender.

[@kevinmichallik6060]

Well maybe thats exactly because why you shouldve changed, If you stay the Same you will feel the Same and nothing Changes literally. If i want a ferrari im gonna have to Work Like i want one, and If i really Like Jennifer and Jenny only Likes Sportsguys i cant Complain she doesnt Like me even tho i sit at Home allday After Work or smoke drugs/etc... IMO we are supposed top Change our whole lives and Strive to get Something done

[@my_wife_tells_me_what_to_do]

Being alone is the most powerful thing you can do as a man. If you can’t then your always going to feel shitty.

[@katodd2925]

​@@my_wife_tells_me_what_to_doNot true. Eve was made because Adam was lonely, not the other way around. Women can be alone, men can't

[@lifeoffemi7788]

I really don’t understand why there’s so much contention in these comments, it’s pretty well known that a lot of dudes will pretend they want to date you so that they can have sex with you and ghost you, like this isn’t new information. She’s just saying that women need to do a better job of leading with discernment with these dudes rather than emotion and longing.

[@fallen546]

No objections. These are all facts

[@antonival50]

And we do with the boring girls? 🎉😂

[@lockandloadlikehell]

Females are known for their extra high natural neuroticism and strange desire to best males at male oriented themes such as strength power and resilience and toughness - that's also a holdover from caveman days It's also highly annoying- no matter how many times they fail they'll continue bc it's Ingrianed in their psyche

[@Jerryhayes2]

And a lot of women will pretend to like you for attention, money and favours. Many more than men who will pretend to like you.

[@Letitallhangout]

Absolutely 💯

[@bungeyedsniper1391]

All you’ve gotta do is talk sh*t and sound confident about it - Socrates

[@BreaktheShade]

Ahahaha 😂

[@Sheygo09]

😂😂😂

[@jeanpeter6391]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mysmartphonechannel]

Yes, I'm a data analyst, but what I'm really good at is bullshitting people. - The Oracle

[@ΓιώργοςΛουβης]

Η απαντηση ειναι ΠΑΝΤΑ η τριμερια της ψυχης.ΛΟΓΙΚΗ ΒΟΥΛΗΣΗ ΕΠΙΘΥΜΙΑ. Δρωντας με την σειρα αυτη ΠΟΤΕ δεν κανεις λαθος. Οποιαδηποτε αλλη σειρα φερνει το λαθος.

[@richardgreaney]

I'm male, and just came here to say Teal is 100% spot on here. I've been that guy she talks about. I also think it's worth remembering that the void in men that creates this behaviour is the exact same void that leads women to fall for it. In both cases, the answer is the same - to realise that nobody external will ever fulfil you, and you need to fulfil yourself first.

[@brettflower8058]

omg did you have a father figure? and no it is not, what she is saying is asinine to children and their parents, yeah make young girls hate their fathers so they start working the street. can bet you she does not have children, and why is a female giving hot tips about the 'male race'? this is disturbing dangerous and stupid

[@travelchannel304]

Wow. Talk more about that!

[@richardgreaney]

​@@travelchannel304 What Teal is really describing here is the desire to 'get what you want, no matter the cost'. This is what the men that she is describing do (they want to get their woman to fall for them so they get the 'keep' her). But the issue at the heart of this behaviour is a lack of true and unconditional love, which can only ever be met by us ourselves. The men Teal describes will do what it takes to woo a woman, because they believe that's the only way they can experience true love. And this can only be fulfilled by fully loving the self. So it's essentially the same shadow (lack of self love/thinking love from someone else will fill the void) for both women and men.

[@meghasanyal4861]

Makes sense getting what you want no matter the cost. Both are paying extreme costs to het what they want but no one is going the direction of self love. Can it be also the naivety of a person that they do it because the want is to share the love they have instead of a void? They just don't know the big bad scary world out there and trying to give at all costs? Or probably that giving at all costs is codependency. Not sure just thinking out loud.

[@Grace-em3bi]

Thank you for sharing this ❤

[@Sandra.B]

Fill in your void so you are no longer a match to other people with a void... Spot on

[@dddux]

This is exactly how my ex-wife (woman) behaved until we got married. So no - it's not just men. It's more like a general psychological thing attributed to narcissists and psychopaths. When they reach a goal, they relax and then you're in for some trouble.

[@xxxromant]

yeah. this woman here must've been real shocked when she learned that narcissists and psychopaths and all kinds of other people with very negative traits and behaviors exist and that - newsflash - it doesn't have anything to do with any kind of sex, gender, political beliefs, religion/ faith, and anything like that some people are just gonna hurt other people, which is fucked, but blaming this sad fact of reality on a specific group for your own agenda is also pretty fucked.

[@IAmBeingSilenced]

She didn't say it was just men.

[@geronimosbones]

Can you timestamp the part where she said everyone does it? Cuz all I heard was MEN.

[@bastil5856]

@@IAmBeingSilencedShe did, literally in the beginning. "Men have a holdover from [...]"

[@damienmcgrory9462]

Obviously this is a masculine trait though, it can be employed (probably with more cunning or "awareness") by women too but the feminine is often the chased and the masculine is often the chaser. As she says if you are changing who you are because you think people will give you what you want you will suffer and women generally do that in a different way idk just my opinion 🤷‍♀️

[@depblkman]

i find it fascinating that women. who has been women all their lives. can speak about men's emotions.

[@FUEGOSTARR]

Some women have close relationships to men. In some cases, women form men in their bodies then, raise them, and deal with their developmental stages into adulthood. Some women are such experts at understanding men’s emotions that men choose to spend the rest of their lives with women. Who knew???!

[@SensationalSeafairy]

Do you find it equally fascinating when men use phrases like "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish but a fisherman"?. Because they do that quite a lot. No matter how much women tell them there are certain things women are not attracted to, they keep insisting that they do because other men told them so.

[@depblkman]

@@SensationalSeafairy you do realize that a fisherman travel to plenty of lakes, oceans, rivers and streams to catch fish? They know what bait suits the fish more. Some women won't take the bait because it not expensive enough.

[@hotdogsarepropaganda]

of course the male analogy works because well, men work harder than women@@depblkman

[@jaguarandi2]

Some women say the same thing about men. Often they are feminists. For me but not for thee?

[@romans52345-cy3tq]

A woman would never date a man who lives with his mother but she would date a man who lives with his wife

[@knightheaven8992]

Quite true

[@fgoindarkg]

That's their favourite kind.

[@11mimiriri]

Because they think if that woman has got that man and stays married with that man, then he must be a good man right? Naaahhh

[@joshuanoriega5680]

I was still living with my mother when my wife married me. Its normal in a lot of cultures for people to stay with their family until marriage.

[@romans52345-cy3tq]

@@joshuanoriega5680 Not in the west, we're fucked over here

[@abenadickson1660]

She ain’t a man but she ain’t lying. She’s spitting facts.

[@mementomori5374]

😂you really believe the fairy tail she just spoke about??

[@Minlaroo]

​@@mementomori5374 Doesn't sound like a fairy tale to me. It sounds like reality.

[@vicgneswaran55]

​@@Minlarooreality for cheap man not real men

[@lauramytunes]

It is reality and many women fall prey to it over and over again

[@chedbeckford8067]

This isn't only about men. This is literally just human beings in general

[@carladams9345]

misogynist

[@delamarhamilton7225]

Yeah, women do the same thing tho, they call it bait and switch

[@Carlos27thFS]

​@@carladams9345Racism.........see, I can just say dumbass woke random words as well

[@tfkoincognito]

You are completely right. Double standard bull crap. She is projecting alot of dumbassery. If you are going to hold one group accountable, You hold them all accountable. Problem is the other group avoids accountability harder than cooties.😂

[@Cantripping]

Not only that, her understanding of what constitutes a race leaves something to be desired.

[@joecoastie99]

And women will leave a man for more shiny things that another man has to offer. The sword you’re swinging cuts both ways

[@zammymynakersnackstbmoth]

It doesnt. Read a book and some stats. Its men who are the ones leaving their wives of the same age for a younger shinier woman.

[@DBSMOOV]

​@zammymynakersnackstbmoth well I know u lying , it's fact women initiate divorce faster and more often than men . Men learned to sit in that void very young, women weren't designed to . But hey write all the books you want its really simple, the answer is fathers love. Women today are more likely to break up a home than the men. Then turn around and blame the men cuz he couldn't make her happy . He couldn't fill the void in her heart, though it was never his responsibility to do so, we're treated like it is . That's a woman since cave woman days

[@the876ceo]

​@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth🧢

[@TheGodly]

Facts!!

[@TheGodly]

​@zammymynakersnackstbmoth look up the stats again 😂

[@mdis2bod]

It's not just male behavior. It's human nature

[@whitworth5s248]

Hedonism is the ape-brain. Literally everyone is capable of a lack of discernment.

[@andynorck2389]

This one is male behavior, female don’t have the conqueror genes, at least not in general.

[@MichaelJohnson-kq7qg]

Perhaps. Except that human mating dynamics seem to be primarily set-up for the males to try to attract the pairing behavior of the females. So while women may have similar behavior deep coded, they're probably less likely to be expressed.

[@auntjemima7727]

No. We do not have the desire to conquer and she’s talking about you acting out of survivalist primitive coding. Our primitive coding is to self sacrifice and become resentful. That is our shadow and you have yours. The human races shadow is how long are we going to remain acting out of that dark place instead of taking accountability and not getting triggered because she specified which gender she was talking to given the context. Your triggers show you where you need effort anyways

[@WorkerBeesUnite]

Wouldn’t call it nature as much as easy to fall into/circumstantial

[@FuLengLives]

Wow. What she said can be applied EXACTLY to women as well. Bravo.

[@ObeyNoLies]

She's very bright.

[@1MahaDas]

Nope! There's no such thing as a "Male or Female race!" But there is a mind consciousness that transcends time and space. The physical body is merely an interactive platform

[@SerpentOfSatAna]

​@@1MahaDasthere is still female and male energy☯️

[@thisisntallowed9560]

It applies more to men, as they are more often put in the role of the "seducer". What she's saying basically is that men compete for reproduction and will put on a false front to get that. As women we need to see through that in order to choose the right man for reproduction.

[@blade797]

Yeah thats true. I also havent found this true about men to be a rule, seems more of an exception.

[@sr20vett]

Someone teach this "teacher" that the male sex is not a race

[@harryc1971]

i hate that, even when people describe their colour as a race - we are all the same with subtle differences.

[@mlk0655]

while you're at it, can you teach her that starvation and dehydration are different things

[@Pholoxo]

The teacher knows that. She's just using that as a substitute for a generic word for group. She's trying to emphasize how distinct the group is.

[@m0osefist]

"Never trust the advice of someone with a harry potter tattoo." -Great grandpa moosefist, 1864

[@erasethepatterns1]

That's probably the best comment here.

[@metalgear215]

Moosefist😂😂😂😂

[@tristonayter78]

I think that one’s slightly different?

[@fantasia12341]

I don't know who you are. But we're in love now.

[@npetrikov3801]

while this is really funny what she has is not the deathly hallows thing

[@yewknight]

She is like the Andrew Tate for women but also is describing a behavior literally every women I know has done but ascribing it to the “male race.”

[@FREAKSLICER]

Whats she's saying is true, but calling men, the "male race" is pretty disrespectful. But yeah being desperate isn't a male-only issue

[@DefianceOrDeath]

Yeah, it's not a male trait. It's a human trait. I've seen plenty of guys do it. I've seen plenty of women do it. Gender is pretty much irrelevant here.

[@landingblind5185]

It's aggressive and bias to say "sad behavior that MEN have"

[@RIOT690]

Andrew Tate is a loud man, not a smart man

[@gezusmofo]

I find she's more like Jordan Peterson. But with an actual in-person cult-like organization, not just a decentralized cult-like following.

[@soci0path]

She's very confident with her gibberish. If I was a man saying all women "act like this" there would be 100 feminist hateful comments. LOL

[@johnjames2181]

Yeah a whole lot of jumble to not say very much 😂 made sure to start with “men are cave men” though 😂😂

[@tempistproviah]

It's an analogy sorry you guys are to dumb to understand analogies.

[@maximumsilver2992]

While I agree with your first statement, you know all people are different. However, there is an entire industry for saying “all women act like this”

[@Kayprofessor]

A lot of men do exactly what she is talking about and women know it’s true. I have heard many men say that they need to learn things about a girl so they can pretend to be compatible to get her attention. Some women do too. Some men don’t

[@sburns2421]

I wouldn't call it gibberish, but it seems condensed down to a few key points that unless you already understand what she is trying to communicate, it is doubtful you will gain much from her words the first time. I think what she is trying to say is men are instinctively me find woman-me take back to cave-do what me want to do with woman. And as a woman, don't go out trying to find someone when you are desperate yourself, because men are at some levels always looking.

[@drewdurbin4968]

Always nice to hear a woman try to tell men how men are.

[@Get-db3xt]

Keep drinking your own poison bruz

[@jacobauskamp6961]

She is talking to ladies about men. Wait for the loading screen for you too follow.

[@ST-ik7ry]

I mean no different from the red pill content. All the men claim to know a woman's mindset.

[@whawhaa]

But men know how women are, just ask andrew

[@karolkarma4093]

Just like many men doing it the other way around? Hurts doesnt it? Stop dividing the world ye fucks

[@CoachHeyward]

For the men, here’s eckhart tolle saying the same thing: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jmG8qGmtg7Orbacsi=-wBOvlsfkFgX2WYB “The more you live from the deep * I * the less you need other people… you will relate to them no longer through your neediness, but through your ALIVENESS. And then the other will WANT to spend more time with you because it feels SO LOVELY to be around someone who doesn’t need you.” It’s at the 11:33 mark

[@hasensaurus]

There's nothing sad about that. "Women lie to hide what they've done, men lie to get what they want" the saying goes. Mother nature works.

[@lovetofly32]

Yep.. women have been hiding what they've done for forever. But that's ok, they're female, they get a free pass right?

[@jorgesalazar818]

Damn that's so true.

[@Ben-re5fx]

And neither are correct. Women should not be immoral to the point that they have to hide their past (which will eventually be revealed) and men shouldn't lie to get what they want. All those aspects were brought through atheism, nihilism, liberalism...

[@MrZZsharka]

@@Ben-re5fxPeople do what works. If religion was more believable and realistic, more people would still use it today.

[@Ben-re5fx]

@@MrZZsharka Asia and north africa that grew into islam are still majority in islam, christian Europe is turning to nihilism and atheism. I would argue that the current situation in Europe and in the west around many topics proves that the current system doesn't work. Islam is the fastest growing religion and by 2050, will be the top religion and will clash with atheism on the number of followers. Religion does make sense, it gives people purpose, the thing is people don't get a chance to even learn about it today. No attention span, no curiosity, no knowledge, only kreten like behaviour. More important to watch Logan Paul's humiliation ritual than to learn something and be better. These topics are detailed philosophical questions so to not yap any longer, it is complicated but religion is important.

[@michaelsantangelo7997]

the female dating playbook: 1. reject every decent guy who approaches you (after all, they're boring) 2. hand pick guys with the most red flags and date them 3. complain that there are no good men

[@warlockgrimsmith]

Taking dating advice from women is difficult. They chase money and are notorious for marrying their murderers. Men aren’t much better. They’re slaves to proving their worth to people who can’t see it and are notorious for murdering their loved ones.

[@ishitrealbad3039]

basically

[@cfri9332]

The male dating handbook: 1. Only go for girls that choose bad boys. 2. Complain.

[@katk8386]

That's exactly how it is..sad!

[@katk8386]

I've been there myself. I was the stupid one ):

[@pushthetempo2]

Basically everyone wants to be loved and to have connection and men and women both make poor judgement calls often to get it in their own way.

[@markflavel9783]

Well said. Men and women have thier owm tactics and ways of power over etc, but we generally do it differently (in saying that, there are outliers on both sides). So pointing at 1 while being silent on the other merely creates disunity and frustration ( true femanism is the prime example I'm how it became such a movement because women were finally sick of being told what they are and how rhey should be). So it seems to me nobody has or wants to learn both sides and as such history is merely repeating but in a different way with a different gender being the target

[@Aryzo]

not what she said at all. and not true either, the behavioral strategy she talks about sounds like asocial personality traits to me, where you just act to get things out of other people but dont really care aka "wanna be loved". these people just want things out of you like money or sex. and she says that youre gonna "have to have discernment" for people these people who are gonna trick you into falling for them however possible, even crossing ethical boundaries. youre desperate / thirsty > youre presented with person who seems perfect but isnt / glass of poisoned water > bad outcome

[@aking-on6ej]

this is very simple. I told my girlfriend's daughter that most men are relational chameleons. When you run across a guy you really like, never tell him the things you like. Ask him what HE likes first. Ask him what the most exciting thing he did... (any time frame before you). Pay attention how he speaks of his parents, siblings, ex-girlfriends, but do not talk about what you like until he has spilled his guts. That way you keep him from pretending to like what you do and you getting hurt.

[@paristo]

So your claim is that if the man happens to like same things as the woman does, it is danger danger danger. For same logic you said, never tell woman first anything, because they lie, cheat and twist the truth afterwards just to get revenge from anything man has done ever in the past.

[@-glitch-8195]

Facts! I tell my sisters the same thing. I think a lot of it will manifest itself into guilt. All those lies and deception ruins them from within. At least with women, we process our feelings. Men don’t. Which I understand is because they’re built different. However, it doesn’t help them mentally. Then add the fact that they’re an imposter and lying to themselves. Its a perfect recipe for an early pre-mid life crisis. I’ve had men truly open up to me over the years and I’ve seen what it does to them. That’s why I exercise caution. Sometimes you gotta protect others from yourself, but also protect them from themself by staying away. The sad thing about this is they can take what could’ve been a great relationship and ruin it with self-sabotaging behaviors. It’s unfortunate that they tell women that we don’t know what we want in an attempt to conceal their own ignorance of what they want. I do believe you will get what you put out in the world.

[@lamaisontokyo4696]

Don’t open up first is your advice 😂 That’s gonna help start a relationship‼︎

[@nowandrew4442]

What she doesn't realise, or at least doesn't acknowledge, is that *we raise people this way **_on purpose_* . It's beneficial for men to have women behave this way so we reinforce it.

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

Women behave in exactly the same way.

[@historybuff7137]

Women act the same way. It is called being people.

[@rojoyrichie]

history buff lol

[@vibe_depth373]

They do. Destroying other people to get what you want tho is a sickness.

[@BiblicalTestimonies]

The feminist isn't ready for this comment 😂

[@anomalousoddity]

​@@BiblicalTestimoniesdisagree, I'm a hardcore feminist but I think this is correct, and my feminism includes men, who suffer from patriarchy too

[@Ryan-cb1ei]

⁠@@anomalousoddity So you’re halfway there, which is not that common for a feminist, but why do you still believe in this concept of “patriarchy?” I just don’t get it. This seemingly magical force has no real world backing in academia, it is not something measurable or ever really concretely defined/studied; it’s mostly used as an easy cop-out explanation for certain social issues in certain social media circles and ideologies. It’s lazy and easy to blame but does little examination. How is there not a matriarchy by the same logic? It’d just be some other form of power that women instead hold. Saying there’s a patriarchy seems to imply men have power and women don’t, which is just not true and I think silly to believe. Women really underestimate how much they drive male actions (and I suppose sometimes vice versa). In fact the whole feminist movement seems to greatly underestimate and still does not understand how much power women have, especially socially, and in different facets of society like motherhood/raising the next generations of children and how powerful that is. Forget even how much they influence men. This “myth of male power” I will call it (which is a great book) seems so pervasive in my opinion probably because men operate much more in the physical, which is more obvious, compared to women. Also the way the sexes operate, on average, I think has something to do with our perception of this. I mean if you can sit here and tell us that men contribute to a system of oppression called the patriarchy, how can you not also believe that women also help uphold and contribute to it, or something, that affects both women and men? I mean it’s gotta be the case and I know it is.

[@mikebrock9615]

I'm going to behave in exactly the kind of way I need to behave to get whatever I want out of this woman.. Amazing she sees that and has no problem pointing it out as a fault of men as if women don't behave in the same way to get exactly what they want out of men.

[@troygardner822]

According to men women are disagreeable asf so your comment makes no sense and sounds like a bad cope. If what you’re saying were true women would be acting like traditional women all the time….but that isn’t the case so ehh

[@justadutchman5169]

I’m going to teach you something sad about the female race. Women have a behavior not a strategy that is a holdover from the Cave days and it looks like prostitution. Prostitution is the female shadow. It’s I’m going to behave in whatever way I need to behave to get exactly what I want out of this man.

[@bssaassin1900]

Ding ding ding

[@m4c4_]

I feel like this is a case of "men" meaning humanity and not males specifically but the Internet is so fixated on pinning men against women that even if that's not what whatever study this originally came from says, everyone will interpret it in this way

[@deadbeef576]

And if men didnt act that way they would never have a relationship

[@MaeganDrennan]

I love her. Idc what anybody says. She is a gift. Period. Thank you Teal Swan, for sharing your wisdom with us. 🙏🏼

[@shydogg-v1n]

Your gonna have a female try to tell you about a man?? You are the problem you wish to solve.

[@kaylacarpenter272]

"Male race".

[@Moesmakendehakker658]

exactly...

[@LuisXGP]

Anvorger race

[@basil8474]

She lost me there lol

[@thehippie3610]

Yes, let's get caught up on word choice and not the message behind what she's saying.

[@dawnchristine]

Male species.

[@stephenfowler4115]

Describes the "female race" perfectly.

[@lilishyta-ep4wr]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@jadefarah2858]

Cap

[@StraightGuyStraightTalk]

Facts. Women are the fakest of them all. Men are showing up as who they are. Women keep their representative on speed dial.

[@joshKirito]

yessssss. ben played and im done

[@Ihavehadmanynames7779]

The difference with them is they are automatically seen as victims when a relationship fails. They are constantly being mislead and yes men yes queen’d into a false sense of relief that they never even have the time or opportunity to learn to communicate properly. This is sad it’s complete and utter neglect

[@blake.everyday]

Dang, she just described the human condition

[@sneezyfido]

Keyword being human, as opposed to male. In current form it's just gaslighting.

[@peppersanches412]

Nah, just the majority. The nuerotypical ppl. I am not in the least interested in sex with a woman I am not extremely crushing on. I get this behavior, as I have been hounded by buddies to "go get p*ssy". I just don't crave it, i could be fine just masturbating. I am a romantic.

[@hope4ourfallen]

​@@sneezyfido🎯

[@shanesydney127]

Finally we are getting somewhere "that void" that's where your last journey will begin. In that void ❤

[@daveo1808]

We need more women to tell men what it's like being a man...

[@knuckle-sandwichmma681]

😂

[@Skyscraper2015]

Bru I just realised, you know that proverb "Don't judge a man until you walk two kilometres in his shoes"? Well that's what the trans people are doing, they feel they can't identify with women until they walk two kilometres in their stilettos. Now the women feel they can do the same although they absolutely cannot.

[@JT-km6th]

Better this than just buzzwords that don't mean anything like "toxic"

[@serpentine1983]

yep, we mneed more "womensplaining".... and more women saying we are a race.... Bah.... fem...ist are crap... just like the owener of this channel... If that were a man saying "female race" this video would get banned and before that, get so much hate...

[@RoscoesRiffs]

Womansplaining. 🥱

[@typeohero3519]

"Women are master manipulators" - TealSwan

[@jaiprakashagrawal3580]

Agree.master manipulators.❤

[@Hottiefinder]

PhD in nagging too 🤣

[@krabysniper]

They think their stinky clam is the only clam, to bad for them it isn't.

[@silentfriend369]

​@@krabysniperwomen are human beings. Not a body part. If you see women as a body part, you're the exact type of man she's referring to. You are a conquest man with a void. I feel sorry for any women you try to conquest.

[@vamp8388]

​@@krabysniper💀💀💀

[@matm1283]

A professional at avoiding accepting the consequences of her choices in men

[@ShaunCollins-vm9xc]

You're judging someone quite harshly off a 1 minute out of context clip. That's hardly fair. There is a 2 hour 20 minute interview of her horrific life story here on KZbin if you've any interest but be warned you may find it quite disturbing.

[@preytec]

is this a brain fart in action or just a word salad? She isn't avoiding anything, it's a 60 sec clip. However it's interesting that you hear her words and feel like you're been attacked. Do you have a void?

[@matm1283]

@@ShaunCollins-vm9xc cry about it

[@selfiestick1589]

Very confused, what exactly is the problem with this according to you

[@klaudiaheyy]

The fact that men act this way is a problem. It’s like saying oh no she isn’t taking responsibility for going to the store and buying a cake with poison, she sHoULD HaVe KnOwn BeTTeR blah blah blah, and never actually blaming the manufacturer. Come on now

[@devinmason5738]

This behavior is universal. Not just male.

[@matthewfield5748]

Not quite, she's correct that conquest is the male shadow. The Female shadow is called monkey branching, she will stick with a stable man she no longer likes until a better one seems like a sure thing.

[@dudejoe8390]

​@@matthewfield5748what did shadow mean here

[@twiggsherman3641]

@@matthewfield5748 people miscateorizing and putting their best foot forward, is absolutely universal. There's a reason crazy women seem normal for the first month of dating.

[@hashbrown4278]

@@matthewfield5748not really. Women will behave a certain way to get what they want just the same

[@IAmBeingSilenced]

I didn't hear the part where she excluded females, only the part where she specifically included males.

[@Yellowamber17]

We need our dads to help Guide us and teach us . I had a brother and a father and both of them didn’t look out for me or school me , I’m 42 , just learning !

[@randomelvis3359]

Mothers create Men…. We need Mothers, more conscious Mothering the emptier the prisons

[@quaord3738]

how would we get something like that now?

[@Yellowamber17]

Actually Men are the leaders , it starts with the men. If a man is protecting the woman making her feel safe and secure then she can pour more into the children and together they can raise conscious good humans

[@danielcruz8347]

​@@Yellowamber17Your words are very true.. Thank you for sharing. 💐

[@randomelvis3359]

@@Yellowamber17 Men ARE leading. Are Mothers Mothering? …

[@tigre9271]

Never go into a relationship when you're starving.

[@NINacide]

If you're like my ex then she will start a new relationship roughly 2 weeks before ending the relationship that she had with me. At least she wasn't single and starving for even a second.

[@tigre9271]

​@NINacide .She was probably starving at least 3 months prior to breaking up with you. Women will emotionally break up with you before physically breaking up with you. You just didn't notice or ignored the emotional break up.

[@benzun9600]

or drunk or on drugs

[@NINacide]

@@tigre9271 You think I didn't notice? How presumptuous of you. I wanted to work on it and invest in it and put in the effort. But it's fine. We both learned from it. And your arrogance offends me. Knock it off with the witch hunts, false accusations, and fallacies of logic. You don't need to start a fight with everyone you talk to.

[@tigre9271]

@NINacide You said she started a new relationship 2wks before ending it with you. So are you saying you just noticed something was wrong 4 weeks prior to ending it with you? Because if she started a new relationship when she was still with you and hadn't broken it off with you, till 2 wks later, then why did you stay?

[@nyaatama8529]

I have some bad news for you guys. If a female gives you attention she is using you to get what she wants. So there is this thing that you need to use in order to not be considered a simp. It is discernment. So please take the time to realize if you put in more effort than she is willing to give, please use discernment.

[@opticalraven1935]

And so are men getting what they want when give them attention. Accept humans are trash and use each other.

[@fm2dmax]

Scale your effort to her reciprocation.

[@untitled795]

This was the exact issue of my previous relationship, very nicely put and wish I had been wiser

[@cincinnatibrutality0201]

What's it look like when she's only after you?

[@nyaatama8529]

@cincinnatibrutality0201 can anybody really answer that. This is a question of perception and only the girl in question can answer it. Me...I do not subscribe to all females treat guys like crap; nor do I believe that it is the same for guys. I posted my comment simply because from guys I hear a one sided argument and the same for girls. It is rare where I see people explaining both sides of a coin flip and it irks me. It all depends on individuals and often the environment we grow up in.

[@wesleyryan6999]

Any time you put a gender on bad behavior it is sexist. She doesn’t say “some men” -she says men, meaning, all men. Somehow, it’s OK to be sexist, if men are the victim.

[@icedo1013]

Just a friendly reminder that the term 'gender' was coined by a man named John Money in the 60's and you should look him up immediately.

[@maomaeramnon3870]

You didn’t really get what she’s trying to tell

[@stephaniegormley9982]

@@maomaeramnon3870 I sure didn't. But it's not my fault. She uses too many non specific pronouns. In the 2nd half of the video, the person dying of thirst, sounds like she's describing men and their sex drive. But she doesn't specify.

[@cptplanit6314]

She’s providing a view of the mechanism that fires driving a behavior, and the individuals willingness to forego such reward; as the mechanism that drives them to drink, will kill them. Same with the emotional connection this “Male drive” searches for will grab what it can, if allowed. Destroying any hope of the connection our deeper selves long for, and empowered the same drive. Intent is the only concept we won’t allow others to provide.

[@LS13.]

Women behaviors are talked on as well because guess what- science studies both genders. Psychoanalysis happens to both genders. Y’all really need to stop being such offended woke beings because it’s annoying af. This is simple sciences. Let it GO it’s not someone trying to “offend” you or your gender

[@aaronburdon221]

She said a lot of words without saying anything.

[@darklightimages]

Thank you !!! I listened to this whole thing and learned nothing. She spent that while just saying a meaningless combination of words in an attempt to sound intelligent. When it seems like she was trying to describe female personality traits to men and failing

[@howardtreesong4860]

You need to start listening a bit closer, Aaron. Don't be the guy at the party nobody wants to talk to.

[@aaronburdon221]

@@howardtreesong4860 I don't go to parties because they include pretty much everything I hate in the world. Loudness, large crowds, inconsequential conversations, tight spaces. I prefer to spend my time in my garden reading and scratching my dogs ears.

[@Odvic]

@@darklightimagesnah she was perfectly clear . You’re just not very smart

[@agtronic]

@@OdvicNah, she spent 60 seconds making an analogy about thirst. We understood it in the first 5 seconds but she kept explaining for another minute.

[@JimKJeffries]

Your decernment is in listening to men that already know and love you, father, grandfather, brother.

[@obiwantschernobyl5650]

Know yourself. Be disciplined. Focus on your work or craft. Don't let yourself get distracted. Works for me lol

[@cherrypai44]

real question: how the hell do you find enough purpose/satisfaction in work?

[@obiwantschernobyl5650]

​@@cherrypai44 Ask that any artist :)

[@obiwantschernobyl5650]

@@cherrypai44 If something feels right when you do it it probably is. If you like to help people maybe this is your purpose. If you want to give something or leave your mark in the world maybe youre an artist. If you love to solve problems maybe engineer or whatever.

[@felang9257]

@@cherrypai44 If you think a relationship is going to give you purpose and satisfaction I have news.

[@drivindevil]

She says, its hard to live alone but if you do long enough, you won’t feel alone anymore. Makes sense to me.

[@chuckkelley5894]

There’s worse things than being alone, like wishing you were.

[@TheDYLAUGHING]

I finally got my wish to live alone & it is AWESOME. I LOVE IT.

[@rafitiki]

​@@chuckkelley5894for some people maybe but not true at all in general. From the fact that babies deprived of interactions die, to inmates in isolation going crazy. It's pretty clear.. have you noticed the long-term consequences of the lock-downs? 😅

[@nanouberthe7598]

@@chuckkelley5894 if your in a relationship and wish to be alone you can always leave.

[@robertavileikyte6288]

I am trying this now. Because I couldn’t be like that, i felt so lonely and not safe i just grabbed anything and it was damaging.. now finally when i am heartbroken so much, i am trying being alone and enjoy it, remember what is fun for me… i feel like there is very bad days but i am managing little by little

[@pmwwjd1]

She forgot to include that women do the exact same thing.

[@DefianceOrDeath]

It's just something people do. It's really common behavior. Hell, animals even do it...

[@hughbo52]

Ain't it so.

[@zachrohler1047]

Nobody ever admits that. Women can never do anything wrong. Even pedos are ignored if they're women or trans

[@garhent]

More like 100% of women do that. Women change their behavior and beliefs drastically to attract the man that they want always. Men on the other hand compared to women, don't.

[@MeandmySara]

@@zachrohler1047 Actually... she talks about women's flaws and issues too. Where did she say 'women can never do anything wrong'? Literally who? where? When?

[@mominaahmad27]

Damn woman!!!! This is the life lesson many women need! I just needed it! Thanks for this!

[@lordzodiak1575]

I wouldn't listen to her she has no clue

[@benevolentpercipience9195]

So here's another shocker. Women do the same.....

[@marlenedralionfontaine3010]

Indeed.

[@thelordcomanderwhocriedwolf]

Women can also display conquest behavior. It is about being in survival state, a primal state humans have not evolved out of. It is not something bad, but it can be harmful for your wellbeing if you are not aware of it on time. Teal explained beautifully.

[@benevolentpercipience9195]

@thelordcommander5 a primal state we need. We happen to live in a time where being alive is relatively easy. This is not the first time and we have not conquered all things that could put us back to the Stone Age. One burp of the sun at the right time, volcano activities increased, or celestial impacts have and will happen again and we will be taken back to survival mode. That is why we still have these instincts. Societal progression has not been a linear phenomenon but instead a bubbly one.

[@iliaselbourji1865]

​@@benevolentpercipience9195 The greatest survival state for women is selfishness. Females who give birth are selfish by nature because they must preserve themselves. Males, on the other hand, must extend and protect.

[@aliquida7132]

No, they do something different. Not better, not worse, just different.

[@btraina85]

This woman said "the male race"...we have an IQ problem in America

[@ox5579]

100% correct.

[@zaistarsgamingandfun]

I was thinking the same thing lol.

[@LoveLeigh313]

She has a very high IQ 🥴

[@edwinblake]

It's a jokey phrase, relax. You can also talk about people of the male persuasion...

[@philipsvensson9368]

Ever heard of The Rat Race?

[@betsyveritas1055]

Men are a sex, not a race. And in fact, we don't know what males were like before agrarian society formed.

[@jan_phd]

Hear hear.

[@betsyveritas1055]

@@jan_phd Indeed.

[@betsyveritas1055]

@@jan_phd Indeed.

[@Erqin]

never mind, all her preaching is wordy non sense anyway.

[@user-pq3um6ue5p]

Virus. Serpant. Women swimming through toxins. Yet doing all the work.

[@andersalkjaer4745]

Everyone gets a hormonal boost to their relationship the first time you get intimacy and love reciprocated. Almost no matter who you are you're gonna feel like they're someone that just gets you and you they couldn't do any wrong in the world. That lasts about 2 to 12 months in my experience. Then you better have a solid friendship and work on communication

[@williamboyd9037]

Woman: I'm gonna teach you about the male. Man: wisdom comes with age

[@livefromthebay2525]

Age does not guarantee wisdom

[@tickledpickle5671]

@@livefromthebay2525 Wisdom is a strange thing, honestly. And it stems first from learning from one's experiences, and more from having an open mind, and be willing to teach, *and* learn.

[@helenbarrett6451]

She says men lie to get what they want when women do nothing but lie to get what they want.

[@georgemargaris]

@@livefromthebay2525 , not guarantee but it increases likelihood.

[@entropy8000]

Wisdom comes from experience- age ≠ wisdom

[@erkanterzi180]

Conclusion : There is no way out of loneliness.

[@jeraldhood1327]

You embrace loneliness or it will kill you

[@kenishahammond3935]

You can only be lonely if you don't like the person that you are with, and that is yourself!

[@monkeyseemonkeydo432]

Lol…I think loneliness is the opposite of happiness I think life is like a very complex puzzle/game …I think the ultimate goal is to achieve happiness Sometimes we find happiness if we change what we do…sometimes we find happiness by changing how we think about what we currently do

[@The1stJack]

​@@kenishahammond3935so basically nobody likes themselves

[@TheTrailDancer]

Yup, and many studies show that loneliness kills. The average life expectancy for lonely humans is much less than humans in a relationships...

[@tubebejr1]

Dont women behave and dress a certain way to do the same thing? Do whatever it takes to draw someone in? Isn't that just how nature works? Most animals do things that they normally wouldn't just to catch the attention of a female. If that's how nature is, are you saying nature is wrong?

[@contentbabe5713]

I promise you that she is telling the truth! I’ve had my friend tell me this before and he said when he wants something from his girl he will be the best boyfriend he can be and he even times it because if he wants sec then he has to time her ovulation period and get her gifts, take her out and do everything that makes her happy. He gets the best sec and he is back to his default settings, whatever that is. IT IS TRUE! Some men will say it is not but I have been on my lookout for this and men do do this when they want something from you. When they get it, they’re gone! Go for men without a void. The ones in the comment section who are mad about it KNOW THIS TO BE TRUE AND HATE THAT SHE SHARED IT

[@R3vokenDallout1on]

You can either play the game or let it play you. Men play for cheeks, women play for commitment. After either gets what they want, they're likely to change. If they don't, that's when you know they real.

[@mementomori5374]

I promise you no one HAS the truth this whole existence is a mystery you are a part of the mystery NO ONE KNOWS ANYTHING thats the joke of life

[@2beornot2beholy]

Men aren’t gone when they get what they want, men are gone when they realize they wasted their time OR when they are tired of giving to a princess just to get some affection.

[@denisademko8966]

Men are gone when wife is no longer fertile. Till then they keep trying. And women need men who can provide for family, for the children and her while she takes care of family. They need a man who listens to their needs because then they can focus on building a safe home. We all are human animals and act to provide best future for our children.

[@mementomori5374]

@@denisademko8966 i am not a animal nor human speak for yourself

[@mollysreadings4845]

💯 nothing good comes from getting in a relationship etc. with a person from an energy of desperation. In fact, quite a bit of bad could manifest if you have the person around any length of time.

[@rudygracia5573]

Idk..I was pretty "desperate"when I met&married my wife.Her?Maybe.?That's been 27 years.We've done better in life than anyone I know of,and for much longer.I'm Grateful.

[@mollysreadings4845]

@@rudygracia5573 were you desperate in your general circumstances or desperate to find a woman?

[@Vestalvirgin22]

So well said! Spirit clearly sent this soul here for the benefit of lower consciousness people to awaken. I find it tremendously ironical that this evolved being who has come all the way down here to teach humanity about how to empower themselves, is getting attacked by those very people. Anyone I have ever known who deeply approved of her was already quite an evolved, integrated spirit themselves. It’s the sleeping, densed-shadow ones that seem to lash out. How ironical.

[@mementomori5374]

Lol nice fairy tail you really believe your nonsense ?

[@Gypsygypsy1]

@@mementomori5374just because you’re a lost soul with a dense unintegrated shadow which keeps you blinded to that which is divine, does not mean the rest of us are in the same cursed position. Some of us have done enough connecting with our spirit to be able to recognize it in another. Teal has it in piles, you have it none. ❤️

[@Vestalvirgin22]

@@mementomori5374how about you learned how to spell and THEN you can start condescending? It’s hard to take seriously the shallow judgments of a person who can’t even spell.

[@mementomori5374]

@@Gypsygypsy1 hahahahah you don’t know anything about me but you got SOOO much to say 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You think you’re superior isn’t it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Take care baby spirit

[@Gypsygypsy1]

@@mementomori5374 that was… mature.

[@everetttaylor8408]

I don't think this needs to be gender based, this is just flat out good advice. Always be discerning of a partner, and take relationships seriously.

[@mnmm1]

There is a difference between men and women. She understands this and is just educating. Both genders can be inauthentic and avoid accountability, but typically have different patterns. Conquest drive is real, can say as a man.

[@lucasstafford2160]

​@@mnmm1yeah basically what this guy said. What she is describing is just as real for both genders, but the point is that "conquest men" specifically, are a result of this, when it manifests in males. When it manifests in females, I'm not sure exactly what we'd call that, I'm sure there are plenty of terms, probably mostly derogatory. But that part, at least, isn't the point of this clip. But who knows, maybe her next sentence after this clip ends was about how it manifests in women. Dunno.

[@toddsullivan1949]

She's not going to f**k u bro

[@lordmithharn]

Here's the flipside: if you want an honest man, you have to accept him for occasionally saying no to you.

[@EVS2585]

Underrated comment. Narcissism hides in many forms.

[@jamesolivito4374]

Tell us you have "daddy" issues without saying you have daddy issues . 😂

[@teresareinert8271]

People have to realize that deep seeded you are attracted to what you know. Growing up in a dysfunctional home creates dysfunctional children. Some fight their way out of that and there’s change, so many just perpetuate what they learned. It’s just human nature, we are sinners.

[@Little.R]

This is why repentance is so important.

[@danielserene4532]

Had a girlfriend break up with me for that very reason. She grew up in a physically abusive household. I respected her and did not try and hurt her in any way. She just couldn't deal with that and broke up with me and went back to her abusive ex-boyfriend.

[@vergillives9890]

​@@danielserene4532thats what they always do they always go back to the abuser and get upset when they lose contact

[@markusfreund6961]

Story of my life right there. Be nice to females with a crippled self-esteem and they'll develop delusions of grandeur **on top** of their default solipsism.

[@pen8142]

I've never behaved out of myself for a woman. Every woman I ever knew, was a chameleon.

[@kenriehl7852]

Absolutely

[@delliv5451]

Yes, chameleons who will stab people in the back when the time is right.

[@watchingover3592]

Look into your self - it’s a reflection of our self that draws this to you . We draw to ourselves what we hold - don’t blame your self , just learn from it.

[@Salute51_6]

Let’s be real, womens expectations are so high that we almost have to act like we are above humans to attract them. Then they find out we aren’t super heroes then they leave us for the next guy who acts super human.

[@knightheaven8992]

You are not wrong

[@mr_green33]

bro this is so true. once a woman see's you're not superman, she goes to the next guy pretending to be superman. damn.

[@Mewa-tv6qc]

They found out you don’t view women as people and they get disgusted and realize they’re happier being single. I’m in a relationship, I just know your type.

[@astickem4428]

A big reason is because everything tells everyone how special women and are that men are basically only there to serve women. Throw in massive amounts of attention online from thousands of men they will never meet and you get a massively inflated ego. With that huge ego comes thinking they're more attractive than they actually are and thinking that they deserve better than they can realistically get. Top it off with never having to take accountability and it's no wonder dating today is a shit show

[@motrock93b]

Good, let her go. Don't simp to a woman.

[@Mgspudnik2005]

Male race hahahahaha

[@annikabirgittanordlander6887]

Next video perhaps: how are conscious, aware, awake men behaving? those men are interesting, thank you Teal.

[@drewgoodman7932]

We are out here, but we are equally trying to use discernment when met with the female shadow. The female shadow that says they want male attention and when you give it to them they pull back. The female shadow that makes men have to act like we don’t care about you when in fact we care about you deeply.

[@annikabirgittanordlander6887]

@@drewgoodman7932 ok, thank you for sharing.

[@SA-ey6nt]

​@@drewgoodman7932I get what you mean, just that's not a female shadow, that's every person with intimacy issues that acts like that. Interested but until you are, then they pull back. Intimacy issues.. I'm not discrediting what you say in any way, don't get me wrong, I guess I'm more interested into what exactly is the "female shadow". As far as I know it's being passive, being negative.. Wonder what's "female" and not exhibited bymales too..

[@drewgoodman7932]

@@SA-ey6nt maybe what I’m describing is not female shadow, but I would say it’s more of a female nature than it is male nature. I have found that women generally only respond when you don’t care about them or act like you don’t care. Guys certainly have their issues but I think we require less mind games.

[@Hotishh99]

@@drewgoodman7932definitely a behavioral trait of mine

[@TDawg45357]

Girls can avoid these men by introducing them to the men that care about them in their lives. Their father or brothers. Men can tell if one actually cares about their loved one

[@darkcloudultimate4047]

That is weak logic and very incorrect

[@TDawg45357]

@@darkcloudultimate4047 explain how it's incorrect please

[@ilikeitlikethat7305]

I agree. The problem is there aren’t always discerning men in one’s family. There are families full of absent or couldn’t care less fathers, nonchalant cousins, self-absorbed or confused uncles. So the girls grow up to be women starving for male affection , I.e void

[@jacobauskamp6961]

The point she is making is to understand one's self before trying to understand another person. You can not be truly happy without having the skill to self reflect. So how can you help another human. Male or female?

[@DivineLogos]

Very true. Thats why heaps of women fall for narcissists. They don't use male family to filter out the rotten apples. Probably because people have weaker bonds with family more than ever.

[@GenericName007]

I’m going to teach you something about women. Don’t take advice about men from women. You’re welcome.

[@cuttiecrazy11]

Would you say that you should take advice about women from men?

[@GenericName007]

@@cuttiecrazy11 I think not all men are the same, nor are all women the same and taking blanket advice from anyone with no knowledge of the specifics of your partner, your relationship and your life is stupid. This lady is making blanket generalizations, which I assumed she derived from her own experiences and then suggesting every woman should apply it to them/their relationship when she has no knowledge of either. I would not recommend anyone follow advice on that basis, whomever is giving it.

[@afixion1769]

@@GenericName007Great answer.

[@10RexTheWolf01]

Never take any advice 100%. A lot of things said are flawed in many ways.

[@BologneseJones]

Wrong

[@ayla4686]

"Behave in whatever way i need to"...... Sounds clearly like an early childhood program to me...versus a child that's taught otherwise during developmental stages.

[@ellasubbotina]

she was talking about particular type of people and pairs of “emptiness”. if you seek for person to fill your internal void you’d get people with the emptiness as well, because starving energy and hunting energy kinda close to each other. the point is to live through this pain of emptiness till it fills with your own resource so you don’t starve for attention and affirmation to fill the void - you won’t just have one❤

[@tylerdurden3722]

No, she was talking about how men will be whatever they have to "pretend" to be to get what they want out of a specific woman. It's not really who he is. He's just selling her a fantasy to get what he wants. This is probably 99% of male interactions with women. It's because man have two types of attraction. A purely physical attraction that's triggered when women portray themselves as purely physically attractive. And a purer attraction that causes us to view a girl as a potential mother of our children (which is very rarely triggered)...and most men, especially younger men or men who prefer to play the game run when they encounter this type of attraction.

[@MadHeadzOz]

​@@tylerdurden3722that's an exceedingly verbose way to inform people of your cognitive function is as lacking as your awareness of it. If you find yourself getting anxious and confused, start running and yell, " I gotta find Bubba!"

[@svetlanakokoreva9374]

Okay, but now to live through this emptiness then? How to fill the void? Is it possible? What to do I don’t understand

[@SatumainenOlento]

​@@tylerdurden3722Yes, I agree. But this was ALSO the truth and was expressed on the video. Teal was giving lots of layers of information in this video.

[@SatumainenOlento]

Very well written! Thank you for your share! 💗💗💗

[@joebloggs6131]

As a man, I think I portray my authentic self, and refuse to change who I am for anyone. That is why I am single and have no contact at all with anyone, except going to work, and perhaps going shopping, i get to speak to other people. The reason that men do what she describes in this video is to try to climb higher in life, be that being in a relationship, or buying nice things etc etc etc... the other choice is what I do, and it's very sad.

[@DoritoWorldOrder]

"be your authentic self" ... "NO, not like THAAAT!"

[@leeham6230]

The world isn't black and white dude.

[@_PJW_]

No it's not sad, it's just not choosing the bad. I have done so all my live. Never regretted it. Things didn't work out the way I wanted and hoped for. But all in all I'm doing just fine. Reports from the other side confirm.

[@joshuaper1]

I’ve been doing the same, but I lie to myself, and say, this is the heroes journey you’re born alone will die the same. In fact, I’m even willing to rush the process.

[@FMArocks1000]

@@_PJW_ It is sad, but it can also be fine at the same time. they're not exclusive and that's okay.

[@zachdancy5828]

As a man, i busted out laughing when she described us. I was conquest driven in my early 20's and Teal isn't wrong about a void...

[@scott7008]

This woman uses women psychology to understand male psychological process. And she is right, but her total overtake in describing it Is really over the top. Promise, it's really more easy to describe.

[@stephaniegibbsart]

I sat in the void until that false attraction went away. Not sure what is next, but the energy is different! Less anxious, more open to spiritual expansion. When someone flirts I visualize being with them and remember the life I’ve created without that distraction.

[@lareal5929]

This is a fantastic strategy. I'll try this. Thanks, Internet friend

[@stephaniegibbsart]

@@lareal5929 💜

[@lockheed55]

Uga buga, me Tarzan you Jane.

[@Followmybliss777]

Pretty much

[@ST-yc7uj]

me tate, you thot

[@pritinthecity]

@@ST-yc7uj 🤮

[@Geozuks]

Damn, this really shows how important is to become articulate, you can say the most basic and stupid shower thought and look like you actually know what you're talking about. I'm pretty sure a lot of people bought her point

[@ROSHing1]

The drive for conquest is the drive to conquer land and resources through martial power. What you’re describing is being a player, which women pretend to hate but keep responding to so I’m going to go ahead and do that while I look for a wife. I don’t bait and switch women but I’m not out here simping or offering a relationship, but if they think that is what’s going to happen then they can chase it. I blame the weak father figures, personally

[@rosewater_]

Thank you teal, I have been practicing being present in my own void for a while now and it has improrved my relationship with myself and others immensely

[@madelineasmr926]

That’s something I need to work on. I’ve seen it in practice as I’m just beginning and it’s life changing!

[@Performance-101]

This is true. As you know, men feel the void as well. Now consider that a great many men nowadays are completely forgoing dating. Most of us had already been living lives of quite desperation, it’s not very difficult for us to add another layer and just continue to show up, with a smile, for those who count on us. Women need to be more discerning, not just in who they choose for partners, but in what ideologies they trust and follow. In both cases there are predators out there just looking to rob you of your dreams.

[@knightheaven8992]

"They say that life's a carousel Spinning fast, you've got to ride it well The world is full of kings and queens Who blind your eyes and steal your dreams"

[@edwardcaulfield1937]

Out in the universe watch what you ask for. I've seen so many women get their Just Deserts!

[@johnsonjj117]

living for yourself will always lead to feeling the void you speak of

[@nathankirkham7866]

The best help for a young woman to get into a relationship with a young man who will treat her right is the discernment of a father.

[@SippenSomeTea]

❤

[@jonsnow7844]

I mean, provided you aren't black....

[@mnomadvfx]

And if the father is not your average Joe? That statement assumes that the father has been around the block a bit and experienced several women and knows enough of the way that other men think in order to make an informed guess about a boy he has just met. Now on the other hand my dad is barely a step above a hermit - he can barely socialise with other men at work and makes zero effort to engage their friendship outside of work. The way he acts I honestly wonder how he ever managed to ask my mother out given how hipster she is - it's one of lifes great mysteries, but what I do know for certain is that he don't know s**t about how other men think.

[@codyrice8393]

​@@mnomadvfxwell in order for that statement to be true, your father must actually be a man.

[@jessshnarcky1089]

This is statement will not work for those of us, whose fathers were the ones that we had to protect ourselves from.

[@leannerobinson1536]

She is 100% spot on. I spent my entire 20s and early thirties living that way, and when I finally decided I would be alone, no matter how miserable I was, until I was happy being alone... something absolutely magical happened and I have never been afraid to be alone since.

[@friedpicklezzz]

Regardless whether she’s right or not, she’s always stating opinions and beliefs as facts. She should preface with “I believe it to be…”. It comes across as very arrogant Also, men aren’t a “race”. We are human.

[@truthseeker2248]

Pls dont cry its gonna be okey u gonna make it

[@RareNotorious]

@@truthseeker2248What a weird response?

[@truthseeker2248]

@@RareNotorious im sorry for u. Must be hard to go through life not understanding stuff

[@opticalraven1935]

Yeah, and "alpha" male Podcasters always act like tbeir opinions are facts and the are not.

[@worldofameiso5491]

Correct.

[@My_thoughts_20]

It’s true, I had a turbulent childhood, abandonment issues form my mum leaving me and huge deficit of love. When any boy/man appeared I would consider them as I had this huge deficit that didn’t allow me to see red flags or that the person simply not right for me, doesn’t take me serious. This would leave me more broken with more deficit. After advanced psychoanalysis and reprogramming myself over the years I know to take things slow and allow actions to speak louder than words for both sides.

[@mumbaevelynchola7645]

Do you mind sharing the actual steps you took? I'm currently struggling. I can identify the red flags but tend to gaslight myself into thinking I'm being hyper critical. I come across a lot of this ladies videos but I've never seen one which shows exactly how to work on stuff like this

[@My_thoughts_20]

@@mumbaevelynchola7645 it’s already a big step that you’re aware of your own thinking pattern. The process and steps have been long, is there a specific area that you would like to learn the steps for?

[@AlphaDogsSwag]

I would like to comment, but I'm a lot allowed, because my thoughts will probably upset the infantiles, and they will cry and then I will be banned for 'hate speech'

[@tuhaggis]

Women portray themselves as something they are not in an attempt to draw the attention of men they like too.

[@millanferende6723]

Yeah or pretend to be "drawn to a guy", just to keep him in the loop for a bit and see if they like him well enough / if he satisfies their innermost needs and desires. I understand, but it is the same concept of "they will pretend to be a certain way at first" and I find it annoying and inconvenient when it happens. (Has caused me not to approach another woman who could potentially be my partner.)

[@PiggyGuy100]

But it’s mostly guys, since guys are usually more desperate for a partner than women are.

[@avasinha9764]

Detachment is the key!!! Starved for closeness or anything.....detach yourself and stay on your moral or ethics ground.....its always worth it!!!!

[@kleinvisuals9905]

Detachment, though hard to do, eventually sets you free from toxic connections from others not worth your energy or time. There is freedom in not needing toxic people or worrying about them. Carefree vibe. Relax. Self-Improvement. Income generation.

[@barrytelesford5265]

detachment kills your humanity. people are not meant to grow alone.

[@usmcdevildog6935]

She means well, but she's often off the target with what men are. She would be a better servant if she talked to women regarding how to behave like women than trying to teach men to be men. 🤔