Crystal Hefner: Objectification, control, and Playboy

[@karenferns6160]

Narcissists forbid autonomy..! Great interview Fearne & wishing Crystal happiness in the future.

[@CemeteryGates007]

I had no idea what she had been through. I hope she continues to heal and give herself some grace.

[@lisabedlow4305]

A very enlightening and honest interview. An insight for so many into coercive controlling and narcissistic men.

[@Suzy987]

Great interview by Fearne. Its hard to imagine why you wouldnt leave a situation like that if youve never been in that position. I think she was very understanding.

[@mayhamilton6652]

Bless her. Well done Fearne for such a sensitive interview.

[@naomicoward4687]

Fern you are an absolute legend of an interviewer.

[@bridiewright1519]

Great job fearne, you're so kind and understanding ❤

[@Tameron-xv8yn]

Fearne you missed the most important questions such as why did she run away before she married Hefner. Who did she run to and why did she change her mind. What kind of financial contract did Hef sign to get Crystal to come back and marry him and what role did her parents ( mother and step- father play in that decision.

[@supermodel6048]

It is very easy, to judge Crystal, but littrely she was the victim and step out from that energy it requires awerness and braveness❤

[@RianShafer]

I've only recently started following interviews with Crystal Hefner. I have done a complete 360 on her to seeing her much like the other young girls that got caught up in the Mansion life. Their stories are so much the same. The true take is what happens when you lose yourself to someone who is a true manipulator.

[@jairenesereno4519]

Im glad she is finding herself. I hope she continues to work on her trauma.

[@PrincessDisney86]

Very kind approach ❤ bless her

[@burkphotography2615]

I would love to see her with Holly and Bridget. Even a 5 minute talk.

[@katherinecollins4685]

Very interesting

[@JolieF]

❤ How amazing that Crystal used to live in England with her parents, and it’s a charming place one can visit to this very day, as it’s on about 400 acres, near Cadbury place in Birmingham, airport about 35 miles away, lots of beautiful scenery, charming pub near the hotel, et cetera, it’s a truly magical place to go and check it out for a holiday/vacation, or whatever you prefer. This is also a great interview, very interesting and informative, and all the best to everyone!‼️👏👏👏❤️

[@janiceleighton7348]

Thought she was going to change her name after her book told Morgan she was

[@chillinginmars]

Hef only has one f, it's short for hefner...on the thumbnail it's written heff

[@paulascott5701]

When the interviewer does a lot more talking than the guest, something has gone wrong.

[@jessicaselenecenteno]

Extreme power imbalance. 🤔

[@ccalexander1924]

I think when you are that young you get caught up in the fame , living in a mansion , having chefs and maids and having no real responsibilities ( like cleaning , cooking , grocery shopping etc ), the girls got free hair and nail and pedis , weekly spending money , cars etc …. But for a price. The price was master manipulation. However , I feel like the only reason all these girls stayed was for the money and opportunities that come with the Hefner name. Some of the things Crystal is saying is pretty similar to the other three girls from girls next door

[@Jonsoar]

Not a victim. She could have left any time. She's doing every podcast to sell books and market herself.

[@saarraagee1507]

Did she really just say it was financial abuse? She got 1000 a week for being his gf. Is that a joke

[@actuallyNo...]

Lol. Yes she did. 😅

[@ahul0812]

According to holly, they couldn’t really use that money as they pleased. They had to use it to keep up their appearances with wardrobes and hair and other beauty routines

[@burkphotography2615]

It wasn’t enough to keep up with the lifestyle. Holly was coloring her own hair for years at the mansion.

[@greatestever9086]

Hef had an account with the Jose eber salon she was only coloring her own hair because the mean girls didn’t tell her she could go get it done for free

[@musanyathi2298]

Not true. $1000 was their personal allowance. They got $2000 for clothes for big parties and all beauty treatments were paid for.

[@anniesizemore3344]

It was his mansion and his money. When you live in someone else's house, you do have to live by their rules. Those girls didn't have to stay if they didn't like it. They give reasons like oh, he would have taken away their centerfolds or oh, the money would have stopped. They don't try to cloak it in noble reason's like they had to take care of their family or they say they couldn't save money to leave. But I watched Girls Next Door and I don't believe some of the things their saying. Kendra saved enough for a condo on that show. Holly appeared to be a recruiter for girls to become girlfriends. Holly Madison said she regrets having to quit her job as a waitress to be his girlfriend? I don[t believe that. What did those girls think? That they would get his money and his lifestyle for free?

[@sarahlang2119]

Have you read the book? It's about coercive control

[@jmar808]

@anniesizemore3344 Exactly 💯💯

[@adriana-jn8ru]

That’s too deep for her to comprehend.

[@ccalexander1924]

The one thing you are wrong on is Holly bringing him girls. Holly refused to do that. The twins said Kendra pretty much brought them up to hef. Bridgette and Holly said they were able to save money while being there and they pretty much tried to budget the clothes they had to buy for appearances etc. any of them could have left whenever they wanted

[@MarvinTMartian]

Not only did she get $1,000 a week for expensive clothing, she took all of those clothes with her when she left. Also, when she complains about not getting paid for her work there... I'm pretty sure she got room and board, and all necessities paid for. 😂

[@ccalexander1924]

And they got to get their hair and nails done for free bc hef liked his girls very blonde and nails done

[@fingernailforceps9274]

NOT A VICTIM