Wow Chase, I am right now even more impressed with the depth of your knowledge and true understanding of the types and their functions. Unlike so many people in this screwed up world, you actually get it. And teach it. And sometimes preach it lol.
@kennttudara95444 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your free lectures!! You are one of the best people out there!
@dearkristin4 жыл бұрын
ESFP KZbin content is rare - thank you for this video. I paused it like 8 times to ponder epiphanies I had about myself.
@sirbradfordofhousejones3 жыл бұрын
This is so true- I need more! Watch the Joyce Meng videos. Those are really good!
@Clover5013 ай бұрын
You're an INTJ
@lil_debie4 жыл бұрын
Why do people hate esfps so much? As a Esfp myself , what am I supposed to say to those people people think so badly of us? All I can do is be the best esfp I can be, but I cannot change my own type. Sorry people. GET OVER YOUR HATE OF ESFPS, Seriously! Although we may not be a rare type , we seem to be one of the most misunderstood and overlooked. People seem to think they're unintelligent, airheads, uncerebral, stupid, among everything else. Meanwhile, overlooking the fact that the esfp sees things about that same type that is ridiculing them that is just as discusting . All the 16 types have their own flaws , people. There is absolutely NO ONE that is exempt or better that the other. So maybe instead of people hating on esfps, maybe they should try to understand them instead. That is why I am grateful for this lecture.
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@lil_debie4 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph Thanks.
@dearkristin4 жыл бұрын
Amen! Thanks for sharing the ESFP love.
@bobbyjean15814 жыл бұрын
I don't think that about ESFPs i love you guys
@tiffybl00bs99 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad that this isn't just bashing of ESFPs, it sounds like this lecture is to help us develop instead of just making us look stupid ❤
@rawthenticatedflavors91093 жыл бұрын
This video is so spot on I need to keep pausing due to its reflective intensity.
@joevaghn4573 жыл бұрын
32:46 DAAAAAAAAMN, so that explains why I enjoy reliving the past when I'm feeling down in the dumps. This is gold.
@rachelc.riggenbach31094 жыл бұрын
I haven't stopped reading since the day I learned how to and everyone tells me I'm smart but you still managed to make me feel insecure about my intelligence. Thanks lol.
@lalane50234 жыл бұрын
I have a nonverbal autistic loved one who manifests as the ESFP personality type. Thanks for your video! It helped me in relating to him, especially since he cannot verbalize all of his needs. 😊
@susanmalczewski90523 жыл бұрын
ESFP who's developed my INTJ subconscious. I have accomplished a lot in my life. That's so true. And yes, some of my favorite books to read are how-to's 😂😆🤣. People pick on me because of it 😂😜
@Hadeel.4144 жыл бұрын
Finally a notification said that you release a lecture , you were missed 💖 hope everything in your life is okay 😊 Love that one , lots of info that I don't know about ESFPs ✔ the sound or the volume was good , I listened to you clearly ✔
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
busy as hell
@Dakuta12 Жыл бұрын
19:00 Mature and Immature Ego 24:49 Mature and Immature Subconscious 30:48 Mature and Immature Unconscious 41:05 Mature and Immature Superego
@teamthoth4 жыл бұрын
I've been binging on the esfp material. My MIL and I keep butting heads and your content is giving me a little more understanding so thank you
@sirbradfordofhousejones3 жыл бұрын
Fellow ESFPs- you don’t have to literally read books to be your best self. That’s difficult for our fidgety nature. BUT. We can absorb knowledge from watching KZbin and documentaries/nonfiction programs while we do other things. Doing this has helped me get out of my midlife crisis (that cracked me up in this video btw).
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
Audiobooks are really good too.
@dairdb4 жыл бұрын
Want to see an example of an ESFP in anime, watch One Piece. Luffy is an ESFP and its funny that the show is about pirates
@pruje4 жыл бұрын
My sister is an ESFP. I think this video would be very beneficial to her. The video looks fine. The frame rate defaults to 30fps, but the 60fps mode does look good. The background (out the window) is really washed out, but this is common in cellphone video. The sound is actually quite good for a cell phone.
@abadi1734 жыл бұрын
hey Joseph, we appreciate your efforts to make this world a better place by teaching people how to understand each other as i do believe that the reason of all wars is that we misunderstand each other, you have no idea how hard my life was as an INTJ 5w4 , i have never understood people and they never understood me before i learned this theory from you, i have always thought that there is something wrong with me because everyone was struggling to deal with me, i learned how people minds operate in less then 15 months thanks to you, my life changed to the better and i become a much better person as a result of this theory, there are no words to express my gratitude to you, but all i can say best luck to you and i will always be a supporter of you. the journey of self development is a long and exiting one, and im looking forward to acquiring more knowledge from you to help me reach my maximum potential.
@wewjoj4 жыл бұрын
I can say you're not the first INTJ who has chosen that path. I'm also an INTJ, and this theory not only helps me (to help others too), but it has given me some charisma, despite only studying this for 8 months. I'm less awkward, and I have a new found strength I didn't think I'd ever get. The INTJ does have a good place in society.
@wewjoj4 жыл бұрын
@@dasein9980 Is that rhetorical? I've become less awkward because I understand people and why they say what say and do what they do. The INTJ's place in society is making change, despite being commonly misunderstood.
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
This is answered in the season 19 episode for INTJs
@thaisplouvier5403 Жыл бұрын
10:15 create conflict to test out ideas, testing the integrity of ideas. "How do you know that ? How do you know that ?" Screen of "looking smart" so people are willing to engage with them. 11:30 Si nemesis needs to develop the patience to read. App Filmic Pro 23:00 if people think that they don't know what they're talking about -> distrust -> loss of authority -> loss of freedom 24:30 words in a book are attached to other people's behaviour, so you'll remember them by watching people 26:00 Fi parents very often become a burden on other people. Then people are bitter but not complaining because they don't want to make you feel bad. 27:40 you appear as contradicting yourself, dividing against yourself 28:00 mature INTJ sub has developed its own systems. 36:45 make self-discipline a friend. Look what other people have done to avoid bad consequences, instead of being impulsive. Have the discipline to ask people first. 39:00 gateway to wisdom is to "ask permission" by asking other people's opinions about your decision. 41:00 Ne demon comes out when they have been impulsive and irresponsible with their choices. 45:25 Ne demon demands that you always get a win. Fi parent is okay with a win-lose, need to learn to make win-win or they'll take your freedom of choice away. Realize you're responsible for the situation where people took away your freedom of choice.
@BandE20182 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video! It will be very helpful when dealing with a young ESFP grandchild, who easily (chaotically) puts her INTP Mom & INTP Grandma into their ENTJ modes. Re the recording app, you asked for our input. Yes, it's been nearly 2 years since you recorded this, but I just found this video and didn't see any comments about the recording app after scrolling down through a bunch of comments, so, here goes. It's amazing how clearly it came out, even to the point of easily hearing your car change gears as you were speaking.
@happycakes19464 жыл бұрын
Interesting video, the sound makes me feel like I'm riding down a farm road too.
@jaredvaughan16654 жыл бұрын
The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. Steven R. Covey.
@sirbradfordofhousejones3 жыл бұрын
If you could stop yelling at me for my failures, that’d be great.
@hannah_marie973 жыл бұрын
For my fellow ESFPs, I highly recommend Vex King... oh my days, his book on self love is INCREDIBLE, and I HATE to read. I promise, your Fi parent will love it!
@dior89553 жыл бұрын
Thank you Hannah!!🥰
@adencase2.04 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this! Thanks Cs joseph
@sandradibiaso73167 ай бұрын
You are reading my mind. I always ask "How do you know that?"😂❤. When I was a teenager, I just wanted to live in the moment and was extremely sensitive and would read cliff notes instead of reading a book till I had to read The Odyssey in college. Then I wanted to to really read. I have been tempted to use someone else's term paper as my own because I got overwhelmed with anxiety about writing a term paper on something I wasn't interested in like a car company for my marketing class. I didn't follow thru with it because I was paranoid with my INTJ subconscious about getting in trouble for plagiarism. I remember taking a shamrock pin that made sounds at a stole without telling my parents till they saw me playing with it on my way out of the store. I don't remember if they got really mad but I remember my parents returning it to the cashier. My brother is an ESTP and he stole from me. My last boyfriend was an ISTP who stole from me.
@dolfdervish84954 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: "Instead of biting from others, *learn* from others." And, as the axiom goes: "A smart person learns from their own mistakes. A wise person learns from other people's mistakes." "Learn to connect the dots between 'how's' & 'why's,' &, conduct your own style." *"DISCIPLINE."* Powerful episode, Chase. Tapped into your inner DJBP. 😏 Edit: After having watched, I haven't been able to ignore my gears. Just some thoughts: Considering we have likely all observed an esfp exhibiting the behaviors you mentioned.. I found myself asking these questions (and thinking about them *deeply,* for years): Why would an esfp be depressed? Why would they perform? What is their Gift? Do their functions play any part in discovering/utilizing their Gift? How do they behave when they feel that Gift isn't valued? Why? You mentioned: "Everyone knows, but, doesn't want to say it because it will hurt their feelings." "You're the only one who doesn't know they know." (Paraphrasing) Hm. Let's unpack that... I can see them being deeply hurt by discovering that "everyone" feels that way.. And, instead of respecting the esfp's need for Fi Parent Authenticity and Te Child IS-ness, they inauthentically mirrored the esfp's "part" & play(ed) along the whole time... I've actually experienced that in real time. Anyhow... Since they are intj aspiring, are you *sure* the esfp doesn't intuit this? Since they have Fi Parent... Are you *sure* they would be fine with exploiting others *for their OWN* entertainment? Last, are you sure there isn't/aren't some trauma(s) (&/or blindspots from within the experience of said trauma(s)) driven biases within this particular portion of your assessment (which you may do well to process & heal from)? To be clear, I'm not criticizing you/your assessment. In fact, with Respect to EMPOWERING the esfp to be the BEST version if themselves, I found this video full of diamond studded platinum nuggets. I'm merely drawing attention to one commonly overlooked aspect of it/them... A critical aspect, in fact. And, who knows? Maybe there's an opportunity for growth there for you too? #WinWinWin
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
Don't use authenticity when referring to Fi... it is a misnomer.
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
Regardless, I do see what you are saying
@dolfdervish84954 жыл бұрын
C.S. Joseph "Don't use 'authenticity.'" Well, I'm down to change the term, Sir. That is, *if,* you give me (a) good enough reason(s) &/or alternative(s) (to encapsulate the experience). 😏 Whatchuh got? 😀 Edit: Why ya keep ❤'n & un❤'n my comments, player? Hella goofy. 😂
@sirbradfordofhousejones3 жыл бұрын
Point of disagreement about why we lose our freedom of choice- sometimes (and more often than you’d expect), WE are the responsible person and we lose our choice because of the irresponsible person in our life. It isn’t always on us, despite our stereotypes that CAN be true.
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
Yet only responsible if it benefits them directly.
@sirbradfordofhousejones3 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph haha fair enough, but I also do it to protect people I care about. I’m also 40 with kids and have matured. But as an overarching concept, I can agree with that if I’m being totally honest with myself in regards to my true nature.
@zhoumei68 ай бұрын
Alongside reading, working would be really helpful, too.
@QuesadillaGaming3 жыл бұрын
As an ESFP, I'm very afraid of failure, to an almost crippling degree. I don't know if its about "wanting the wrong thing" (at least now I dont think it is), but I just doubt my abilities a lot. I have ADHD so I'm very forgetful, and my attention span is shit (and as a result I'm very clumsy and people see me as stupid or ineffective in certain situations). I've been reading philosophy and psychology since I was 17. I find it very interesting and valuable but I still seem to be unable to get over my insecurity & fear.
@chrisburney94864 жыл бұрын
Sound is great!
@Riiiiiingo4 жыл бұрын
It feels like INTJ lecture 0.8, noice
@dakotad.86094 жыл бұрын
I'm curious, is there a type that you do not call brilliant, lol?
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
Nope.
@alexsantana35882 жыл бұрын
Ok ... here's my thinking. Supposedly Ti is about deductive reasoning and logic. Where is the difficulty in that? I have Ti Trickster as an ENFP but I don't think that I'm oblivious to deductive reasoning or logic. I have taken Logic courses in College for my Philosophy major and passed with great grades. I also did well in math most of the times and even Pascal Programming and other computer courses like C Programming. So how is Ti Trickster to be understood for me? I am struggling to understand the validity of the Trickster interpretation because I see logic as being so self evident that it's a no brainer!
@CSJoseph2 жыл бұрын
Te can use other people's logic like a tool, which is different than creating the logic on the fly.
@tajmarie13294 жыл бұрын
@20:48 The sound is good.
@Briller2 жыл бұрын
this is spot on
@taramcfarland Жыл бұрын
Hey Chase, would you be willing to compile a list of books you recommend please? Also, curious of how much one of your coaching sessions would run and how soon could you fit me in?
@CSJoseph Жыл бұрын
www.csjoseph.life/reading is the rcommended reading list and you can check my openings at csjoseph.life/coaching before you purchase.
@mrdamavandiii4 жыл бұрын
The sound is awesome c.s. I was wondering from the beginning of the video that why is the sound is so dope! Im Se inferior and confirm the recording quality of this session It got your bass professionally The noise of the car and the road is much lower from the previous car sessions And more important of all , I like your Jacket😊
@jaredvaughan16654 жыл бұрын
Covey talks of win-win relationships.
@nicodiangelo33084 жыл бұрын
I'm soooooo happy 😊😊😊😊
@alfie86453 жыл бұрын
Hi chase, quick question. When you say “smart” or “intelligent” do you mean it in the sense of having expertise or knowledge? Or in the sense of raw thinking ability?
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
Expertise and knowledge
@jaredvaughan16654 жыл бұрын
Is there a type that shouldn't read more then?
@InHellITrust3 жыл бұрын
@@דיןהיכל Or maybe you are just arrogant, who knows?
@SpectreTheHorseman4 жыл бұрын
Erraneous Noise Trigger Warning! ~ INTJ
@beefee72794 жыл бұрын
people are probably gonna get on your @ss about that plastic cup and straw! XD
@tiberiusgrey15292 жыл бұрын
my suggestion for shadow focused ESFPs watch Father Stu for reference
@mirab14883 жыл бұрын
I’m esfp, I can have understood it wrong but I think it’s my unconcious isfj that’s making me quiet and scared what everyone thinks and then I’m just in the background all the time and my focus is just to please others/don’t be any burden and I hate that because I’m not myself, I don’t think by myself and I don’t give anything. Is this my unconscious isfj??
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
If it's all the time, maybe you are an ISFJ who's ESFP focused.
@flyingguitarist70263 жыл бұрын
Developed their self-discipline through INTJ sub ? Well how ? Coz discipline is related to Si ,no an intj has si demon ... Please explain chase I didn't get this ..13:15
@taramcfarland19833 ай бұрын
Listen Chase … I do read … a lot. Reading has yet to be the fix all for my type problems. Sooo am I reading the wrong books then or???? Lol just sayinnnnnn
@nikitimmermans Жыл бұрын
What is the best way to study for an ESFP?
@devinbrines4 жыл бұрын
Fucking love ESFP's
@bafbaas12104 жыл бұрын
Do you need to be good at sports to have Se hero, cause i feel i kinda match with Esfp except that i'm clumsy and have pretty shitty eye-hand coordination.
@bobbyjean15814 жыл бұрын
I'm ISFP and i can be pretty clumsy. I attribute that to not having developed Se enough. (Unless i'm not actually ISFP which is a posibility). Something tells me though coordination in sport etc might also have something to with thinking functions - e.g. logicaly thinking of the best move, not just reacting in the moment. Same for remembering dance moves etc. ESFP and ISFP both have some some weaknesses with thinking functions (Ti trickster, Te inferior etc). I tend to think XSTPs are the most naturally gifted at sports etc. But that XSFPs can become good with practice and so can many other types (if not all)
@cassiecassie98963 жыл бұрын
Lol i am ESFP/ISFP and i suck with sport and do have shitty eye hand coordonation. I’m good with makeup and drawing but that’s all sports nope dancing nope nothing
@Moana_moo3 жыл бұрын
I am an ESFP and due to being chubby as a kid i was really insecure about playing sports and even though i work out now i am still not picking up sports too easily. I still love Keeping active. I’m good with makeup and drawing though
@gottesurteil32014 жыл бұрын
Leave it to me to get paranoid about the vices of another type...
@tiffybl00bs99 Жыл бұрын
😢 This video exposes me, I feel so attacked, but fine I'll go read books 😅
@bobbyjean15814 жыл бұрын
Joe Exotic needed to watch this video
@devinmustardseeds86144 жыл бұрын
Hi dad
@joevaghn4573 жыл бұрын
*** EDIT: 10:59 11:59 ouch ...absolutely! I've noticed that I do that often, and I'm not even trying ROFL. though, as I've matured, I tend to not do that as much, but I still notice that I do it sometimes (and sometimes even often)
@joevaghn4573 жыл бұрын
11:28 christ, I do that exact same thing...glad to know I'm not necessarily stupid if I can't sit down, read, and be patient about it lol
@juliaadler5452 жыл бұрын
So I go into INTJ subconcious over TE Child?
@SpectreTheHorseman4 жыл бұрын
Car Video!
@cassiecassie98963 жыл бұрын
Btw is Beyonce an ESFP? Like love her but she steals a lot from smaller artists
@susanmalczewski90523 жыл бұрын
People have profiled Beyonce as ISFJ, I believe
@Havic221233 жыл бұрын
Which books? What kinds of books? For the "life's playbook" analogy at 35:05
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
csjoseph.life/reading
@Havic221233 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph thanks
@kramerknipe43323 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph Psychological Types and AION were your only books by Jung listed? Really? Those are a few of his densest books, especially AION which delves deep into alchemical symbolism, which isn’t going to mean ANYTHING without having read some of the basics such as Man & His Symbols or The Undiscovered Self.
@kramerknipe43323 жыл бұрын
Fellow ESFP here who has been reading psychology since 17. Read Man & His Symbols for a very extensive yet most introductory summary of Jungian ideas, and then Inner Work by Robert A Johnson for a more practical focus. Also I found reading philosophy (I used to be really into Friedrich Nietzsche) to give me a clearer understanding of life and the human condition. For that I would check out Bertrand Russells “A History of Western Philosophy”. I’ve also been really into reading about Buddhist philosophy & psychology these days, and I feel like its something that most ESFP’s will resonate with. “The Way Of Zen” by alan watts is pretty amazing.
@sibestfunction44004 жыл бұрын
I dont plaigarize i never have ever. Idk if thats applicable if im indeed an ESFP
@einyell34 жыл бұрын
how does the wayfarer-templar relationship works or looks like?
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
Watch Season 14 Episode 9 for the answer: csjoseph.life/patreon it is in silver tier
@adecakasio64823 жыл бұрын
when you say ESFPs are not effective by default you are hurting the child :(
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
They have to learn how to be effective
@meenakshiapnikakshaaaa1044 Жыл бұрын
Thanks you
@jully17443 жыл бұрын
Can I watch videos instead of reading?
@CSJoseph3 жыл бұрын
watching non-fiction is better than nothing, audiobooks might be the best solution.
@jully17443 жыл бұрын
Thank you. My father is INTJ... I’m ESFP. 🤦♀️ I am taking over a business he started. Can you imagine his struggle? 🤣he’s always mad at me and telling me to read more. Just want to put it out there. Lol
@jully17443 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your lectures!
@rawthenticatedflavors91093 жыл бұрын
Oh ya... The video description currently reads: "What are the *Cognigitive* Transitions of the ESFP?" Hey, er'body poops 💩
@tylerpond12294 жыл бұрын
I love your content. It continues to perplex me though, how you still believe the Bible is based in reality. I am also Ex-Mormon (was born into it) and can prove beyond doubt that Christianity is just myth created by man.
@hiitsmyname69874 жыл бұрын
Oh yay another militant atheist so original
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
I never said or claimed that the Bible is based in reality. Stop putting words in my mouth.
@tylerpond12294 жыл бұрын
C.S. Joseph Sorry if I made an incorrect observation (and please let me know if I have). However, based on the number of times you reference specific verses from the Bible as if they hold some real authority leads me to that conclusion. If you review my comment, I didn’t actually put any words in your mouth, and you didn’t deny my conclusion either.
@CSJoseph4 жыл бұрын
I have used many other sources and quotes, check out my IG. Many of which have nothing to do with the Bible.