Sometimes what we experience as anxiety is actually overwhelm and exhaustion. I think it’s important to learn how to rest properly
@CoachMattRice2 ай бұрын
Marcus Aurelius's quote: "You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."
@yoooyoyooo2 ай бұрын
I hate to break it to you, but you don't have control over "your mind" at all. It does what it does. You having control is a miss perception.
@mattr85372 ай бұрын
@@yoooyoyooo😎😎
@the-Mafusal2 ай бұрын
Hi dear, there is a tiny chance that you will see this, but your videos help me in my fight to stay calm. I just want to say thank you.
@charlessmith491Ай бұрын
I know this sounds dramatic but this episode made me emotional. I’ve never felt so understood in my life. This ep. Feels life changing to me.
@CoachMattRice2 ай бұрын
The reminder that anxiety is often self-inflicted and rooted in our perceptions really resonated. Loved the example of Zeno’s exposure therapy and how we often suffer more in imagination than in reality. This reinforces that true strength lies in facing discomfort and focusing on what's within our control.
@TonyStPierre2 ай бұрын
It's amazing how timeless the Stoics' wisdom is. You’re right-anxiety, stress, and fear are constants across all human history. Marcus Aurelius dealt with pandemics, Seneca with tyranny, and Zeno with personal ruin, yet they showed us that the key isn’t escaping these challenges but learning to manage how we react to them. 'Is this in my control?' That question remains just as powerful today. Your message is a needed reminder that, while we can’t stop anxiety, we can use Stoic tools to reduce its power over us. Thanks for this empowering lesson!
@leemcmanus84272 ай бұрын
I used to spend far too much time worrying about scenarios that just never seemed to happen. After the thing I was worried about actually happened, it was never as bad as I was imagining. I'd then think to myself, that went much better than I'd expected. Yet I'd repeat this again and again. Through discovering Stoicism I've tried to apply this. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Each time it fails I try to not beat myself up about it and try again. Over time it has helped me more and more. I suppose the practice over time has made life a little easier. I'd certainly recommend to anyone to try these steps.
@MotivationMomentum-20242 ай бұрын
It's amazing how Stoicism encourages us to accept things as they are. Very enlightening!
@akuseru852 ай бұрын
Which is exactly why Ryan is not a stoic.
@4KBluePlanet.062 ай бұрын
Thank you for the insightful content! It's great to have a community that loves Stoicism. 🌟
@JayTheStoic2 ай бұрын
"It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live." - Marcus Aurelius
@Tom-rg7leАй бұрын
Simply brilliant, thank you
@RosemarieSKikel2 ай бұрын
Don't be too hard on yourself ... no body chooses to have anxiety. There is a good chance that something in your childhood made you this way. I believe it happens when you are always under stress because you don't know what to expect next. Do the best you can I don't believe you can overcome it all together but the self talk can surely help.
@jonnysolaris2 ай бұрын
Incredible, I love how practical and no-BS all of these are
@kevinloggenberg60002 ай бұрын
Stoicism offers a remedy to the human condition, but much like the path to overcoming addiction, its power lies in daily practice. It is not a one-time solution, but a philosophy that must be embraced and lived, one day at a time.
@dusty4047Ай бұрын
Great episode, Thank you Ryan!!
@kkarlin2936Ай бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you 🙏
@johnpatterson92192 ай бұрын
I truly enjoy these videos, Ryan; they are really well done!
@АнтонГончаров-р8т2 ай бұрын
Смотрю Вас из России. Большое вам спасибо! Здесь всё мягко говоря хреново. Вот и приходится постоянно практиковать стоицизм. Вот и ваши видео помогают в этом и вдохновляют! Спасибо🙏!
@likesgood2 ай бұрын
so grateful , needed this one.
@Bobo_Murod-r9i2 ай бұрын
Great advice! Getting support from a CBT therapist is a game changer. I’ve also heard good things about Normotim for managing anxiety
@MaihdilnLenar2 ай бұрын
this format really suits me
@avx42812 ай бұрын
Thank u Ryan.
@atitlanmagic57182 ай бұрын
Thank you
@TRXST.ISSUES2 ай бұрын
Quite the thumbnail 😂🔥
@rakheebajaj44782 ай бұрын
Thank you 👍
@Fahim_Lalani2 ай бұрын
❤that’s what I’m talkin about thanks
@stoiccrane42592 ай бұрын
Heavy weightlifting and cardio is the solution. Our minds and bodies and intertwined. To relieve the stress of the mind one must exert stress over the body. Men sana in corpre sano. Sound mind in a sound body.
@davecom32 ай бұрын
Very true. A cold shower has been proven to improve our response to stress. Our stomach is our second brain. Eat badly and you are more likely to think badly. Heavy weights have been proven to retain muscle and improve bone density even in 80+ year olds too.
@tonyromero82842 ай бұрын
Good stuff ❤
@iam_Leofit2 ай бұрын
Great video
@balto81112 ай бұрын
I’d still be anxious to pull a lower title out of a horizontally stacked bookshelf 7:19
@nocturneuh2 ай бұрын
Thank you Mr. Holiday.
@privatetatum2 ай бұрын
Nice one. ❤
@xyz8512Ай бұрын
Me too.
@MYTHFROMNATURE2 ай бұрын
Say this to yourself "I'm not doomed to catastrophizing"
@J.Zekavica2 ай бұрын
Great video 👍
@anna_tarapygina2 ай бұрын
Love it ❤
@TheStoicPath-t9rАй бұрын
Absolutely! The creativity here is inspiring. I share a lot of similar vibes on my channel, diving into topics that spark joy and connection. If you’re into uplifting content, you might find some gems there too! Keep enjoying this amazing journey!
@Deetroiter2 ай бұрын
“Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.” ― William Shakespeare, Measure for Measure
@iamdigitalanmolАй бұрын
You can start reposting your video I used to watch it daily in morning while making coffee but now it's something it's not there on KZbin. I don't mind watching the same videos. After all it's a reminder to myself and not some tv show or movie which has an end.
@AbogadoJay2 ай бұрын
Thanks
@lsr29372 ай бұрын
I’m having a really hard time getting over the anxiety of this election. I’ll do what I can and vote blue in a red state. I having a hard time letting this go. Thank you for the video.
@davecom32 ай бұрын
It's important to remember the result is out of your control. Anticipate the worst happening and how you would respond to it, how others will respond to it and the steps you might take ti mitigate any potential negative outcomes. Several stoic principles can be applied here.
@lsr29372 ай бұрын
@davecom3 - you are right. I have already voted and I ask everyone I meet if they have voted yet. Now I have to sit back and wait, and maybe stop watching the news.
@MasonHalo2 ай бұрын
really liked this video
@jimkon14792 ай бұрын
To quote the Stoic practitioner Mr Spock, "Live Long and Prosper." Have a nice day, Ryan.
@TomokoKashiwagi2 ай бұрын
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest
@IncognitoYoutuber-z7g2 ай бұрын
Nah that book is trash
@stanijev2 ай бұрын
Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood(thank me later)
@findsharon23 күн бұрын
My problem is that if I try to do point #2, it turns into #3.
@ChrisKAloha2 ай бұрын
Stay in the present moment and it’ll b conquered
@jitsu48722 ай бұрын
I like this. Thanks
@ChrisKAloha2 ай бұрын
@@jitsu4872 listen to some Eckhart Tolle if you haven’t done so already.
@alvaromoe2 ай бұрын
2:22 I'd also conquer my anxiety if I flew in a private jet instead of tourist 😂
@martingoldfire2 ай бұрын
I would get worse thinking about the damage to the climate a private jet has, and I was contributing to by being on one😰
@topocum2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@EdwardLen-p4b2 ай бұрын
David Glens
@SteveR.Burdick2 ай бұрын
best!!!
@grantforrest52822 ай бұрын
10:40
@KenE8082 ай бұрын
🤙🏼 Mahalo!
@no_one5142 ай бұрын
9:58am 9-30-24
@janzendavi2 ай бұрын
Thumbnail arrow makes it seem like the answer is to get AirPods
@JohnsonMark-m9u2 ай бұрын
Guillermo Cliffs
@Diomedes992 ай бұрын
In project management, we call premeditio malorum, risk management.
@MiddletonElsie-v5s2 ай бұрын
Romaguera Prairie
@messengerofgoodnews2 ай бұрын
Sometimes, the anxiety is not about a possible FUTURE moment, but the actual moment you are IN! Overanalyzing the body language or thoughts of the person next to you. Just saying 🤔🤷♀️🙃
@naturalnia4322 ай бұрын
In that moment, ask yourself “am I okay? If they don’t agree, approve or like me am is life going to end for me?”
@nicholasbolden19652 ай бұрын
At that point it’s “Distress” because it’s a present moment thing
@drd01142 ай бұрын
Worry is anticipatory. When we aim to make a good impression on someone or if someone arouses suspicion, we are worrying about future interactions with the person or worrying about possibilities of being in their range of transgression.
@stoiccrane42592 ай бұрын
Heavy weightlifting and cardio is the solution. Our minds and bodies and intertwined. To relieve the stress of the mind one must exert stress over the body. Men sana in corpre sano. Sound mind in a sound body.
@nicholasbolden19652 ай бұрын
@@drd0114 worry and distress are 2 different things
@GreenLucas-z5v2 ай бұрын
Veronica Turnpike
@SuperAryan2002 ай бұрын
I can the new video editors work. 😂
@philparisi91752 ай бұрын
Your anxiety is obvious. It’s more than a simple focus. It’s almost obsession.
@smtabatabaie2 ай бұрын
We must also question, how has anxiety helped me? As Robert Green says, it is essential in some of its forms.
@raginald7mars4082 ай бұрын
Anxiety Conquers YOU! You do not conquer yourself!
@vman95912 ай бұрын
It is all about the stakes. High stakes cause really anxiety.
@Justin888002 ай бұрын
Is that dude really wearing an OnlyFans shirt at 7:16?
@scottmichaels122 ай бұрын
That "dude" is Casey Neistat, so yes he was.
@Justin888002 ай бұрын
@@scottmichaels12 Pardon me, fanboy
@zacharyreynolds576929 күн бұрын
Do a stoic strategy for how to handle crazy little kids.
@FullCipher2 ай бұрын
At this point I feel like it’s mostly more-of-the-same with these videos. Been there done that
@vinetamer15 күн бұрын
So many ads
@LucaKilgour2 ай бұрын
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
@OceanFlan2 ай бұрын
Bot.
@jB..33b8542 ай бұрын
Scam
@Nenad-ICXC-Shuput-GFAMMA2 ай бұрын
Lol
@nzeel67522 ай бұрын
I am stoic, and I really liked Ryan until I found that he wants hundreds of dollars to sign up to his website. He's not very in line with stoicism in this aspect in my belief.
@davecom32 ай бұрын
He still gives a lot of free advice and there's still a lot of free advice on his website
@TheRunpoker2 ай бұрын
Oh no, another better help selllout:( don’t advertise Better help and teach ethics at the same time
@lisaforrester10972 ай бұрын
Roman emperors killed Jesus.
@SD_Canary_Corner2 ай бұрын
🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@deifor2 ай бұрын
He’s just trying to sell his coins
@Austinesselink2 ай бұрын
if you work a job your just trying to make money
@noemimendez195228 күн бұрын
Lol just don't buy them
@akuseru852 ай бұрын
How about not supporting a presidential candidate that advocates for abortion up until birth? Marcus would be disgusted to know someone like you were profiting of his teachings.