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[@karenmiller6229]

Don’t take a course…. Your more real than thousands of others out there. Your comical and I love watching your clips!

[@katia_g213]

She's great! I can't take the fake crap anymore. I was so angry last month or the month before that I unfollowed EVERYONE. Absolutely everyone for a bit, then missed Dani and a few others that are declutter/minimal focused. Not here for cleaning anymore.

[@caseyob2690]

AMENNNN TO THIS COMMENT

[@ce1581]

❣️❣️❣️

[@danniraearranged]

Karen your so SWEET! I cant tell you enough how much that means to me! This comment, is everything! It is not in me to be anything other then me, although I am at times a little much (okay all of the time 🤣) and weird and odd and a hot mess LOL I just cant do it any other way nor would I want to, so your comment really means a lot! Thank you xo (so sorry for the delayed response)

[@danniraearranged]

YOUR GREAT! and I appreciate you SO MUCH! xoxo PS I know where your coming from!

[@Sweetgotham]

Hoarder's Heart, which is a great channel, often talks about her own journey in letting go sentimental items, especially as she is processing past traumas. Highly recommend her content! And you are certainly not alone in this.

[@genaharmonson2071]

I love how real you are. No filters, no do overs, no deletes.

[@danniraearranged]

I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate that and how happy that makes me. I will always, always be nervous and wonder about every single video I put out, but it's comments like this that makes me feel so much better and means so much! Thank you! And thank you so much for watching and being here with me!

[@shannonpurgingspaces4959]

I stumbled upon your decluttering videos in August and I’m so glad I did. I really enjoy watching you. You are funny, real, and you even had me crying at one point because I could relate so much!! I have a lot of clutter, that’s why I found your series. I needed to find someone to give me the motivation I needed to get started. I’m tackling spaces rather than entire rooms for now. It makes it more manageable. I am just starting my decluttering journey, and I’ve been recording myself as well. (I suck at making videos, you are so much better.) I’ve done my fridge, my coat closet, my linen closet, and my dressers and coat closet. I also have a hard time letting go of sentimental items, and I have lots of those. Keep making your videos please, don’t take a course either. If it wasn’t for you, I wouldn’t be on my way to a less cluttered house. I appreciate you! Thank you!!!

[@alannaburg]

I'm dying at the inanimate section. Crying. You are so funny. Love it

[@danniraearranged]

I seriously cannot understand.. me, I can't understand me LOL I thought immediately after I said it "how did you just pronounce that LOL" couldn't help but bust out laughing. So happy that I could make you laugh, that is everything. So sorry for the delayed response, thank you so much for watching and being here so happy you're here with me xo

[@alannaburg]

@@danniraearranged I love that you don’t cut it out. It’s so humbling and so real to be able to see that side of you. Real bravery and emotional leadership comes from those moments. 💕

[@jennifermommajmcc7141]

It’s so good to see a person actively working through the issues instead of having a script and reading and acting the video out! It’s refreshing to see videos of people being real and honest and true!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and videos!!

[@danniraearranged]

I am so sorry for the delayed response, I wanted to tell you how much I APPRECIATE this comment, this means so much to me! Thinking of reading from a script or pre practicing a video is so unnatural to me LOL I couldnt do it even if I tried, I would never want to! I am a little much at times 🤣 okay all of the time LOL, Im odd, im weird I have no idea what im doing most the time, but I wouldnt want it any other way! So this comment is everything! Thank you for watching and being here, I am so HAPPY you're here with me xo

[@voggs3072]

Please don’t ever take a KZbin course. Your a joy. Love watching you while I clean. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@danniraearranged]

Oh my gosh, I cant tell you enough how much I appreciate that and how much that means to me! I always think to myself "Danielle, ya gotta get it together with your filming abilities 🤣" I always wonder about my videos! So it means a lot that you say this! Thank you! So happy your here with me!!!

[@sachadanielle6596]

Danni you don’t need to take a course, you are entertaining, hilarious and REAL!! Love from Australia 🇦🇺

[@danniraearranged]

I am so very sorry for the delayed response, im currently working on a better system for comments, hopefully coming up with something that not only is much more organized but also a fun way to interact with all of you, my friends here with me 🥰 I cant tell you enough how much that means to me! I appreciate that so much! I think I will always be very nervous and wonder about my videos but its comments like this that mean everything! Thank you for watching and being here, SO HAPPY you're here with me. xo

[@londoncuffman5698]

I love how real you are and that you show the process and how hard it is to get rid of stuff. All the thoughts and feelings that we have to go through to get rid of a thing.

[@lindsaysalvagni6368]

Never have I clicked on a video so fast! I needed your energy in my life today

[@danniraearranged]

YAY!!! Oh my gosh I LOVE this comment so much, you just made my week!!! You're a LOVE! Really hope you like the video, so HAPPY you're here, thank you for watching and being here with me 🥰

[@gloriaburnworth4508]

I used to do impulsive shopping. I went shopping when I was depressed. But it's ok to get rid of idems even current in style idems. Your growing and I'm proud of you. I'm so happy now that my stuff is gone.

[@vicki1120]

I decluttered a few years ago. Something that helped me let go of things that were my mom and dad's (both deceased) was to take a picture of the items. I can still see the items but they aren't taking up physical space.

[@danniraearranged]

I'm so sorry luv. it is so hard going through the items that were passed down to us from the people we have loved and lost. I hold onto so many items that I feel guilty about letting go of, items that I feel strong sentimental attachment to. Those are such hard items to go through. I think its a brilliant idea to take pictures of the items. Make a photo album or scrapbook out of it. I will be doing that Thank you for watching and being here, so happy your here with me 🥰

[@vicki1120]

@@danniraearranged Thank you! i really enjoy your videos. I feel like I'm watching a friend.

[@chrisengland9601]

Use the vase for make up brushes or kitchen utensils

[@mandypratley9723]

@@chrisengland9601 I was thinking make-up brushes too!

[@Deb_B]

The sentimental items that you are having a hard time parting with: take nice pictures of the items. Then if you want to, you can change them to black and whites (or leave original) and do a gallery wall somewhere. You will still have the items, they will just be “new” again. 💜

[@danniraearranged]

WOW! How incredibly beautiful and creative! This is such an amazing idea! I would have never thought to do something like that, I wish I had that kind of creativity! I love the idea of taking pics of the special/sentimental items and making a gallery out of them, I think the black and white photos would be so gorgeous! Thank you for this, I appreciate it so much! And thank you for watching and being here, SO HAPPY your here with me xo

[@chelsea2690]

I love the way you film. I like that you don't edit out when you move the camera because it makes me feel like I'm there with ya! "I'll bring you closer, over here" haha love it!

[@danniraearranged]

Awwww seriously this just made my week, I will always wonder and be nervous about all of my videos, so this comment means a lot. I appreciate that so much I appreciate you so much. So sorry for the delayed response, thank you so much for watching and being here so happy you're here with me xo

[@KCallaAK]

You crack me up and are SO sweet. I've gone through my house completely twice in the last 2 years. I "thought" I was done. Now we are moving from Alaska to Utah. $3000 for ONE little pod. Stuff has been flying out of this house! I'm excited but yeah... some struggles with the sentimental and decorating stuff.

[@danniraearranged]

You are SO SWEET! Thank you so much I cant tell you enough how much I appreciate that! Its a lot! Its definitely time consuming and at times emotional and stressful, sentimental items are hands down my hardest item to go through. Decor is another one and throws and candles, theres a lot lol. Congratulations on the move thats so exciting. Hope its a smooth and easy move, moving can be very stressful! OMG $3000 for 1 little pod WOW, id be downsizing too LOL. YOU GOT THIS! Thank you so much for watching and being here so HAPPY your here with me xo

[@erinbisson918]

There are so many reasons people hold onto items. You're trying to be a person your not(make up, clothing). Attempting to live up to the pinterest perfect home(housewares, decor). The Memories attached to items(gifts or handme downs). The Money you've spent on items giving you guilt. The fear of letting go of items you will need later. The biggest thing I recommend to clients I am helping to declutter is to have them do a "no buy". Start in small chunks, no shopping for a week, month, year etc. Whatever it takes to fit your needs. You have to use what you have. If you don't, out the items goes. Too many of us shop because we are bored, and use shopping to find fulfillment. Each category can have different set times. Example: No toiletries for 2 mo. No makeup for 6 months, No new clothing for a year, No decor or housewares for a year. Etc.

[@danniraearranged]

WOW! You are SO SPOT ON! I cannot tell you how many times i have done all of the above! The feeling of failing because my house isnt perfect, the fear of keeping something because of the "what if", the guilt of letting something go because it was passed down to me or the guilt of spending money because I used to do mindless shopping, I used to stress shop too and then would immediately feel guilty because of the money I spent and when I did mindless shopping or stress shopping, that was usually the times I purchased things that I really didnt want, need or use, I just shopped to shop and then would feel so guilty afterwards, it was a vicious cycle . I LOVE LOVE the idea of a no shopping for a period of time, I'm SO DOING this!!! I'm going to pick out some of my most bought items and set a specific amount of time that I cant shop that item(s) omg BRILLIANT! I appreciate this so much! Thank you for commenting, watching and being here! So HAPPY you're here with me!

[@bugbuggirl5239]

@@danniraearranged Hoarders Heart does no spend challenges each month. Her channel is great for motivation as she is a recovering hoarder

[@tonietteh2015]

Innnn Anna Mitt ! There we got it now Love you, gurl, I really really do 😂

[@danniraearranged]

🤣🤣🤣 I immediately thought after I said that, "what, why.. how did you just pronounce that" lol I couldn't hold back from bursting out laughing. I don't know what's wrong with me! Luv and appreciate ya so much lady 🥰

[@minimalzebra]

I'm happy for your breakthrough! We don't realize the emotional weight of objects we hold onto until we have the breakthrough and keep and declutter those objects.

[@danniraearranged]

I am so happy that I came to this realization of why I'm keeping this stuff. I feel like it's becoming easier and easier as I continue to declutter. There is a lot of emotional weight especially when decluttering sentimental items, it can be so difficult. Always so happy to see you here with me. Thank you so much (PS sorry for the delayed response xo)

[@minimalzebra]

@@danniraearranged Dcluttering does get easier. You are welcome and don't worry about the late response. xo

[@crueltyfreeraven]

I just love you, don't change your KZbin style 🥰

[@danniraearranged]

Awww lady I luv and appreciate you so much! Thank you 🥰

[@pdxoregon1]

Dani, you are SO fun to watch! And I learn from your experiences too! Keep up the great work!

[@danniraearranged]

You are so SWEET!!! I cant tell you enough how much I appreciate that, how much that means to me! So happy you are on this journey with me! Thank you for watching, for your kind words and being here with me xo

[@janetdalby6076]

OMG You crack me UP! Just keep doing what your are Doing!!!!!

[@cassandraknight8804]

Grief decluttering does hurt, yet, it was great to hear you speak out the real emotions in relation to your grandmother’s vase, and how SHE would or might feel you having it or not......That’s what I do and it is good work.

[@danniraearranged]

Oh my gosh grief decluttering can be so incredibly difficult. There's so many emotions involved. I'm just glad that I came to this realization that I place memories with a lot of objects, I had no idea that I had so much sentimental attachment to so many objects. I feel like it's getting easier and easier to declutter. And thank you so much for your kind words, I appreciate that so much, I appreciate you so much. So sorry for the delayed response. Thank you so much for watching and being here so happy you're here with me xo

[@madeleinesvensson-m3y]

It’s the best feeling when you literally don’t have anything in your house you’re afraid to loose. Like you said, it’s just objects. I don’t value objects, I value people. I don’t value a gift I was given from a friend like I value that friend as a person. That doesn’t mean I’m not grateful for gifts, but if I decide to declutter it I don’t feel guilty. When we put value (especially sentimental) into objects we can’t let go of it. I’m only keeping the things I LOVE. I’m not keeping things JUST because my best friend gave it to me. That object is not what I will remember them by. I will remember them by the warm and loving feeling I get when we’re together. I remember when I was at the stage you’re at now and you are well on your way! Keep working at it and soon enough you will find yourself in a house that’s minimal, organized and clean! 🙂👌❤️

[@danniraearranged]

I first want to sincerely apologize about the delayed response. I am currently working on a better more organized system for all my social media platforms, but I also hope I can create something that is a fun way to interact with all of you, my friends here with me 🥰I also wanted to say that I couldnt agree with you more! Its not about the object, its not about the things, its about the people we love and who love us, the memories we share and create. I also think that I hold a lot of guilt letting go of things that people have given me, gift and so forth. I most definitely hold guilt of things that were passed down to me or things that were handmade. Letting go of the guilt is hard but our loved one, family and friends wouldnt want us to feel guilt, or stressed or burdened by the things they have given or passed down to us. It does seem to get much easier as time goes on as I continue this journey. Its been an incredible journey. Thank you so much for watching and being here, so HAPPY youre here with me xo

[@claudiafrei2472]

I'm so happy for you that you had this breakthrough and of course that your husband finally agreed to moving those speakers!! It really looks way better!

[@marithdekloe]

I love the way you make your videos. Love how real and relatable you are do not change 😁😁

[@alyssapfluger4236]

I agree that taking photos is a good step! I also think that curating the photos that you keep is a useful approach, so that going through them is not a chore.

[@1234OopsyDaisy]

No course required just be your funny self 😂 It feels like you are having a conversation with a friend and it’s lovely 💕

[@danniraearranged]

🥰😍😘

[@suzysparrow4190]

Hello Danni I am from the UK I have been watching your channel for a while now and love your videos, they have helped me a lot, I also find it hard to decluter my special items and one's that have memories attached to them but watching this video helped me to decluter them and give them to a charity shop thank you so much for making these videos

[@BudgetingbyJenn]

Make a memory bin. Put the vase in it. You are not ready to let go. You are doing a great job! Love your channel!

[@vicki4345]

Great video! So glad you had a 'Break through moment'. The living room looks bigger and better without the speakers. Good for you!!! I think your camera shots are perfect and you are doing a really good job! Thankyou for all your hard work!!

[@miriansmile]

I am so glad you are figuring yourself out! Memories are there still after the item/persong goes away, don't they? You're on the right track!! ❤️❤️

[@danniraearranged]

It was definitely an AHA moment, I was like "OMG i just figured it our, this whole time ive been accumulating things that I didnt even realize were sentimental to me, but because Im placing the memory and person with the object it becomes sentimental to me and therefore I dont let it go" I couldnt believe it just hit me as I was saying it outload. I am so glad Im slowly but surly starting to figure it out. Your spot on, the memories are there, they stay, they never really leave just because someone or something is gone. They'll always be with us! Thank you for watching and being here with me xo

[@johnnasjourney]

Your getting there. I had similar break throughs when i started my journey. Im in my 3rd year and its so freeing and amazing. So much easier to stay on top of things. Its a process, well worth it.

[@annandersen3185]

You don’t need to change anything about your channel Danni this is why you’re such a breath of fresh air & relatable. Nothing fake about you like so many others who are all the same. Love from🇦🇺 Australia

[@KG-gg8rl]

That little vase is beautiful. Someone will love it 🙂

[@kag3818]

You are HILARIOUS!!! I love that you are so real!

[@bleumoon8426]

You always make my day...'inanimate' dying over here, happens to us all lol....just keep being you please its so refreshing

[@stinaflurp99]

8:52 I love this chaos!

[@danniraearranged]

I first want to apologize for the delayed response, I am currently working on a better more organized system for all social media platforms and at the same time hopefully create a fun way to interact with all of you, all of my friends here with me 🥰 I cant tell you enough how much that means to me, I always wonder and get nervous about my videos, so this comment means so much to me! Its is everything that I can make you all laugh or at the very least smile, maybe even motivate or inspire, thats the reason I make videos. You are so SWEET!!! Thank you so much for watching and being here, so HAPPY youre here with me xo

[@stinaflurp99]

@@danniraearranged

[@joseeross7218]

You truly are a breath of fresh air! My new favorite!

[@danniraearranged]

You're pulling at my heartstrings here! Your a LOVE and I appreciate you SO MUCH! I cant tell you enough how much that means to me! Thank you so much for watching, commenting and being here, SO HAPPY your here with me xo

[@amandanevius4764]

I watch KZbin while I cook dinner and my husband has come to enjoy your channel from just overhearing it from the other room. He says you’re fire and don’t change.

[@danniraearranged]

Oh my gosh you guys are so sweet. That just made my week. I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate that. Glad I can keep you company while you cook ☺️ I was actually thinking about making more videos on baking and cooking, I'm a horrible Baker, somewhat of a decent cook. But if that's something you all are interested in I can certainly make cook with me videos too, I can't guarantee that I won't burn the meal/set it on fire 😂🤣 so sorry for the delayed response, thank you so much for watching and being here, so happy you're here with me xo

[@amandanevius4764]

​@@danniraearranged You're so sweet! I'm so glad we could make your week! Wow! 💚I feel pretty confident saying I'd be engaged in watching you do anything so go for trying out recording cooking/baking if you want to!

[@donna7612]

Have you ever considered moving your dining room to the four seasons room?? It would be so beautiful!! The fireplace would be so cozy!!

[@ladyrosa817]

You are such a dope! You make me laugh and you make me cry, you keep it real and that is what is so awesome about you. I’m glad that you had a breakthrough about your feelings concerning sentimental items. Even though they are just objects they hold a special place in our hearts because they symbolize a person or a special moment in our life that we want to always remember ♥️ Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏♥️😊

[@danniraearranged]

First of all I want to apologize for the delayed response, second of all you're such a love. You always brighten up my day I absolutely love reading your comments. I am so glad I had this breakthrough moment, I just feel like it's becoming easier and easier as I declutter. It is difficult to let go of objects that we place memories with, it's definitely not always easy. Thank you for always being here, ALWAYS SO HAPPY to see you here with me xo PS I'm so glad that we're going through this journey together 🥰

[@pamelaruth6909]

OMG you have to post every day......watching you is one of the best times of my day!!!!! You are such an amazing person. TFS and take care...................

[@danniraearranged]

I'm trying so hard to post more, I become super perfectionist when I film and edit. And there's always so much that I want to add into the video, that it takes me longer to complete it I'm really trying to manage this better so I can post more videos throughout the week. I swear I'm going to get there LOL but you are such a love, thank you for always being here with me you are so sweet always make my day. I just appreciate you so much 🥰

[@debbwebb1279]

I find that my stress level minimizes when stuff is donated. Calming in some regard. Take care and be safe!

[@SM-yd8hq]

You don't need anything, you're perfect as you are and it's what I enjoy about you. The spontaneous, what ever comes out of your mouth fun that is also kind and sweet.

[@jillianking7351]

As soon as I said you can take a picture of it, you said, “I believe what I can start doing is I can take a picture of it and make a scrapbook.”👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@danniraearranged]

I am so sorry for the delayed response, I am currently working on a better more organized system for all social media platforms and hopefully at the same time create a fun and new way to interact with all of you, all of my friends here with me 🥰 I am so HAPPY he moved the speakers into the basement, it just looks and feels so much better LOL I also think that is the best way for me to let go of items, is to take pictures and remove the object, because at least I can keep apart of the object with me without keeping it. Thank you so much for watching and being here, SO HAPPY youre here with me!!!xo

[@siameseire]

you are hysterical as well as inspiring. I laughed myself silly to "inanimate" and could have listened to that for the 45 minutes. You're the Best!!!

[@mochilunia]

5:16 No joke Danielle, but that's a thing that I love about your channel. The camera-work may be chaotic, but also natural and I love it. ♥ 11:49 I love this idea! I am holding on to so many things because of the memories with it and don't like how much space they fill. The photo idea is brilliant. We still can remember those things but without actually stuffing our homes with it. Thank you for giving me this idea, I may really do it!!

[@TonyRed549]

I also attach emotions to stuff. And overthink things. I've heard a lot of helpful tips from a Hoarder's Heart and Minimal Mom.

[@danniraearranged]

I know exactly where your coming from, I overthink everything! I also am finding out that I apparently have more sentimental items then I thought, I guess I grow emotionally attached to more items then I realized. Both of those woman are OUTSTANDING!!! They're channels are amazing! Thank you so much for watching and being here with me!!!

[@josephinenelan4204]

Your mudroom reminds me of my bedroom closet. It's my stash spot and has to be dealt with constantly.

[@Mary-cj1vc]

Hi. Just found your. Channel. And been really. Enjoying it. Nice to see people being real. I really enjoy long videos. Keep them up. Binge watching your stuff.

[@nataliegagne1809]

Love your videos!!!! Love Option A for light fixtures!!

[@shaunahogsmeade6162]

Danni is the grown up, responsible Tana Mongeau I never knew I needed

[@danniraearranged]

OMG you are the 2nd person to tell me that, Ive been told "Im Tana Mongeau more responsible older sister" 🤣🤣🤣 I LOVE IT!!!! It makes me belly laugh. 😆 Such a compliment LOL Your a LOVE! thank you so much for watching and thank you so much for being here, so HAPPY your here with me xo

[@sharonwest1602]

Living Rooms looks great !!!

[@vee5032]

Wow so simply when we really analyze why we are keeping things is true we are afraid of forgetting

[@danniraearranged]

Its was the craziest thing, literally as I was saying the things out loud it just hit me, Im afraid Im going to forget, forget the people in my life, the special moments. I truly believe that this is the reason I hold onto so many things, I guess I didnt realize either, that I am holding sentimental attachment to things I didnt even realize were sentimental to me. It was quite an AHA moment. But yes I agree 100% once we start really analyzing why we keep things, it just comes together. Thank you so much for watching and being here with me!!!

[@marianalessa9576]

Hey Danni! I love your videos! I really don't think you need a KZbin course. You are so funny!!! Thank you so much for your videos!! Keep being yourself ALWAYS!! You are brilliant!

[@jerid2998]

Now that both of my parents are gone I had to go through stuff. I kept telling myself that it's just stuff it's not them. Nothing will ever erase the love for them. Alot of the things weren't my style and I have soooo much of my things that I continue to declutter. I remember how much my mom liked something but it adds stress to me to try to figures out what to do with extra things. Take a picture ofthat item and you will have it but not physically.

[@danniraearranged]

I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how hard and difficult that must be. I too would tell myself the same thing, "its just stuff" but I always felt reassurance from the actual items, like as long as I have it then I'm sure ill never forget and also I felt guilty about letting it go. But as you stated "its not them" A lot of what I kept wasnt my style either and it is stressful trying to find a place for it. I dont think they would want us to be stressed or feel guilt over there stuff, I had to remind myself of that as well. I think taking pictures of the item is the most brilliant way of letting something go but also keeping a part of it with you, thats exactly what I'll be doing. Thank you so much for watching, commenting and being here with me!!!

[@amandalangworthy7162]

Loooove The Office!

[@danniraearranged]

OMG I LOVE that show! I could literally binge that show all day everyday, it never gets old! One of my all time favorites! Thank you so much for watching and being here with me!

[@lisanicholson7330]

Keep going …can’t wait to send the end product…recommend painting everything white! Makes such a quick difference 🥂

[@katia_g213]

❤️❤️ *I'm seeing the "take a picture of the stuff" comments, but let's go a step further :) Create a tablescape or display of the things and add in what you do love, plus a picture of her! That sounds like closure to me!*

[@danniraearranged]

Oh my gosh I LOVE that so much! What a beautiful and creative way to display sentimental items. I seriously wish I was that creative, to come up with something as special as that! luv it! Thank you! As ALWAYS so HAPPY to see you here with me, thank you for watching xo

[@natureselement7588]

Pictures of sentimental things and if it's that important you can write about the memory to put with the picture. I've heard that Journaling the memories is better then keeping an item. Our loved ones don't want us burdened with things. They wanna see us living life.

[@danniraearranged]

I couldn't agree with you more, 1000% I truly believe that our loved ones would not want us to feel guilt or stress or burdened by the things that they have given us or passed down to us. I love the idea of journaling the special and important moments and memories in our life, I also love that when you're journaling a memory or moment you're getting a really in-depth and descriptive look back at the memory because you're writing it down, I love that. I have to start getting into the habit of taking pictures of the objects that I really just don't want but also don't want to part with, and I think once I get into the habit it'll become a lot easier. So happy you're here with me, thank you!!!

[@halyketarrant]

Gotta love a The office reference for the office 😂🤟🏼💯

[@SR2ify]

I have been going through a hard emotional time finally doing what needs done letting things go it is so emotional but freeing once it's away x

[@danniraearranged]

It can be so hard, so difficult to let your stuff go, especially the sentimental items, that is hands down the hardest for me to let go of. Its not always easy and definitely a marathon not a race! There are times were ive felt so emotionally drained. But really giving yourself grace and being patient with yourself is so important! I honestly could not imagine going back to how it used to be, it truly is so freeing to rid yourself of all of the clutter. You got this!!! Thank you so much for watching and being here with me!!!

[@cherylcoolidge8249]

Your livingroom looks lovely!

[@JazzyBabe56]

if your grandmother really loved you - and I"m sure she did - then she would be upset that she burdened you will all these feelings over STUFF - I know right now she doesn't care at all - she just wants you to be happy....and loving her and remembering her is the highest honour you can give her - not holding onto stuff that makes you have all these feelings....let it go...♥

[@pam14321]

This is why I don’t give my daughter things I’m getting rid of, as things get discarded I pop them into a couple of boxes or bags, when she visits, usually 3/4 times a week she has a look through in case there’s something she would like. Works for us, I don’t want to burden her with the ‘stuff’ I no longer want or use. 😊

[@danniraearranged]

Jazzy I first want to say I apologize for the delayed response, secondly I want you to know how much this comment means to me! I needed to see this! You are 1000% spot on! She wouldnt want that, she would just want me to be happy and to remember the great times we had together. Im not going to lie im getting emotional writing this. It was time to let it go and she would have wanted that! Thank you so much for commenting, watching and being here, so HAPPY youre here with me xo

[@a.p.3.10]

No curs needed 🤗 you're great I really enjoyed the video

[@munirasultana2313]

It's so fun to watch your video 🤗

[@arlana54]

I wish you were my next door neighbor! I love your sense of humor!

[@danniraearranged]

Awwww you are SO SWEET!!! Thank you luv. I'm so happy you're here with me. I'm also so happy you like my sense of humor, I'm... Interesting, it's the nicest way I can say weird 😆 I appreciate ya so much 🥰

[@pdxoregon1]

As a way to declutter, I keep some books and things I no longer need. When I go visit friends (good friends who understand me), I take them a book or an item as a little gift. I tell them that if they don’t want it they can trash it or share it with someone else. It’s a fun practice.😃

[@danniraearranged]

LOVE this! What a great idea! I'm actually going to start doing that more often. I do that periodically for close friends and family, I think that is such a great way to get things out of the house and also give a gift to family or a friend! Again thank you so much for watching and being here with me xo

[@gloriaburnworth4508]

This is so true. I dont have the GUILT when I gift or give to to a close friend. Wonderful idea. I'm going to continue to do that too

[@tinadawla6446]

Loved it! 🥲

[@jillianking7351]

It does feel better when I deciliter as well. It does look better. It’s a lot easier to clean & less things to dust. It astronomically just makes more sense.🙌🏼

[@merposs35]

I have a recipe from a church published cook book with two of my Grandma's recipes the pages are stained but I treasure them and they represent her in one of the best ways. Everybody loved her sweet potato pies. She always made sure everyone was fed good southern home cooking. I'm trying to find the perfect shadowbox to display it in along with her mother's apron.

[@danniraearranged]

I'm emotional reading this comment! Your grandmother sounds like an amazing, kind, loving, wonderful woman! I bet she was an amazing cook/baker...mmmm sweet potato pie, bet that is SO GOOD! There are somethings you have to keep, somethings you'll cherish and treasure forever, that is definitely a treasured item, along with her mothers apron, how special that is that you have that and I think that is such a beautiful idea for your grandmothers recipes/cook book and apron! Your so creative!!! I wish I was as creative as you! Luv and appreciate ya so much lady! 🥰

[@annlynch593]

Write a journal of important events each month. You won't forget special times. You can buy pocket journals too to hold pictures, artwork etc.

[@kimba8387]

I totally understand the sense of urgency to remove or donate certain items as soon as you make the decision to let them go. Time breeds hesitation and doubt then suddenly you’re digging them back out.

[@jillianking7351]

🤣😂I freaking love u & I’ve never laid eyes on u in real person. U & that word😂👏🏼I can relate so much. I wish I had u close by my house! My name is Jillian & your amazing

[@tonietteh2015]

For things that are attached to people Such as your grandmother's vase...if you don't think you are ever going to use it What about repurposing it ? Putting pencils in it in your office, or small tools near where you do your crafting ?; That is what I have done with things like that which are attached to people that I love

[@danniraearranged]

I LOVE the idea of repurposing sentimental items, brilliant! I think I may need to slow down a bit when decluttering because you all give me the best idea, tips, advice... repurposing it would have been really special. Unfortuantley I did let it go, but I hope whoever gets it, really, really loves it! That would make my grandmother very happy! However I do think with the sentimental stuff, from here on out, if im really questioning something, ill hold off and wait for the comments, because you all are seriously so creative and come up with the best ideas!!! LOVE IT! AS ALWAYS SO HAPPY to see you here with me xo

[@tinawatson5866]

🤣 🤣🤣🤣❤️ just cracking me up over pronouncing Inanimate 🤣🤣🤣 you’re so stinking cute !

[@danniraearranged]

🤣🤣🤣 I was like "what, why and how did I just pronounce that!?" I couldnt help but bust out laughing! 😆 your such a LOVE! Always so HAPPY to see you here with me! xo

[@tonietteh2015]

Ok my last comment I swear I had your same breakthrough a few years ago I too am so sentimental and don't want to lose my memories of my loved ones and our shared past So I kept allll the things Then it hit me outta the blue That no matter what, I get to keep the love I have for these people, I get to keep the love they have for me, even if they have passed away, & I get to keep the memories. I may have to write down the funny stories in a journal and keep a good picture of them, or me with them, yet no matter what I get to KEEP the love and the memories And so do you 😊 no one can take away your memories of your kids first words or their first steps. Those are yours and theirs 💜💜💜

[@danniraearranged]

You could never write me enough comments, keep them coming, I love all of your comments, I love reading all of your comments. This comment made me emotional! Because it's so true. Things are not what matter, it's people who matter. I love how you put this, because it truly isn't the object that holds the memories for us or the love it's us, it's the people who we love and who love us. Just so beautifully put. I think that that is such a great idea to write down/journal the special and important memories and moments in our lives. I love the idea of journaling it. And I think that once I start getting used to taking pictures of the items it'll just become habits, because I do think that is the best option for me, take pictures and that way I have a part of the object just not the object itself. Because I know myself and I would keep all of the things, but then carry all of the stress that comes with having all of the things. Can't tell you enough how much I appreciate you luv. Thank you for always being here with me!!! 🥰

[@merposs35]

So good to see my Danni!!!!!

[@danniraearranged]

So good to see my sista from another mista here with me 🥰 how you doing lady! Hope you and the family are doing good 😘

[@alexshaffer1825]

I am a huge office fan!!!

[@estherloske8180]

Girl .. try a quarantine box for sentimental or unsure items .. revisit it another time ..and don't get so stuck in the process .. its not easy ..its a process .. So glad I'm at the tail end of my de clutter journey ..

[@danniraearranged]

I love the idea of a quarantine box, especially for the sentimental items or items were unsure of. Anything to help not get stuck in the purging process. It's something that I tell myself all the time before I declutter "don't get stuck in the purging process" I guess sometimes it's easier said than done. I look forward to when I'm at the tail end of my decluttering journey. It's been quite a journey, but I can't imagine ever going back to how it used to be. Thank you so much for watching and being here, I'm so happy you're here with me. (PS sorry for the delayed response xo)

[@lisaconverse5858]

oh my....listening to you talk about your stuff and should I or shouldn't I? I have been bringing stuff to goodwill and putting things at the beginning of our driveway for the past 4 years during good weather. Things that I just couldn't get rid of one year I ended up getting rid of the following year. Not saying it was easy cause I have a lot of the feelings you have and I still struggle but my home is getting decluttered and it makes my mind feel better. I am going to do some of the things that Erin Bisson talked about in her comment. Thoroughly enjoy your videos and I get happy and motivated by them. You are doing great and wish you the best to accomplish your goals.

[@danniraearranged]

I know exactly where you're coming from! Decluttering, removing your stuff can be such a difficult process to go through, especially when we are attached to the item and apparently I have sentimental attachment to more things that I thought I did. LOL. I too have made a lot of trip getting rid of my stuff and I still feel like I have a long ways to go. its definitely a journey, but like you said, we feel better, our mind does feel better. I couldnt imagine going back to how it used to be, its freeing to let go and to have a clutter free home. Your doing AMAZING!!! You got this! You are so sweet , I appreciate ya so much!!! thank you so much for watching and being here, so HAPPY your here with me! xo

[@monaskelly3159]

Hands ✋to you girl. I'm a 100% Osmond fan. I have every album they have made, lots of memorabilia and I have every episode of Donny and Marie show. I won't give up my Osmonds for noone. I just got Donny's 65th cd. Totally love it

[@smoskaly]

I did that. I took a picture of some sentimental items that I just didn’t really need to keep anymore and didn’t want to get rid of strictly because of sentimental reasons. But I took the pictures and that enabled me to let the items go

[@vicki4345]

I can't believe there is another Vicki. I'll be Vicki #2. I'm the one with the toilet seat being down issue. LOL!!

[@danniraearranged]

😂🤣🤣 Vicki (#2 LOL) I had to tell you this, because of you Ive gotten in the habit of putting the toilet seat down, still working on the rest of the family, but we're getting there. This is a very good thing, because it does look way better LOL.ALWAYS so HAPPY to see you here with me, sorry on the delayed response. xo

[@sharonwest1602]

I was so excited to get rid of our speakers 🔊 out of our living room too! I understand

[@deniseprater9979]

Great job !!!

[@siameseire]

i nominate you for an Emmy just for being darned adorable and real and Great!!!

[@crystalreaves771]

OMGoodness…I also keep things because of the memories🤯

[@EODSuperDuty13]

I had 2 dresser drawers full of junk and got rid off all of what was in it and also narrowed down my jewelry to what my husband and mother in law gave me ❤

[@estherloske8180]

It helps some to take photo of something sentimental ..and let it go to bless others 🌹

[@sued616]

Good video love how real you are

[@noransakr2870]

you can use grandmother's vase to put pen or kitchen stuff in it, the wadding gift you can et it up as a decoration and jut ue them in a different way.

[@isabellerininger6249]

I’d keep the pink vase for Valentines Day❤

[@joannevenz5045]

The living room looks great. Some time downn the track, it would look great to get a tv table that is similar to your coffee table.

[@Brigitte_Cantin]

I put my eggs in the fridge in a vase from IKEA. Just a thoughtful 😁

[@helsey3293]

Hi Danni You are doing great. Every week your life and mind are benefiting from all your hard work. When you are debating what to keep or donate, you should remember how much joy walking into a room that is clear of clutter feels and how easy it is to do a quick clean. By the way the tv area looks great without the speakers (I feel you are working towards getting the t v mounted on the wall) 😀

[@peaceofrefuge]

Sometimes when it’s hard to let go of something sentimental I try to think of another way I can use it or paint it or something. But some things you do need to let go of. I kept my grandmothers mirrors and spray painted them to match my decor.

[@carmenbryan5174]

Hi love your videos I have been watching you for a couple of times now love it you are beautiful you doing a great job bless you 👍👏👏🥰🥰🥰🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@Globalyork]

Could you paint the TV stand? Would cover up the chips and marks and a pale/mid grey would really lighten up your room. Just a thought x

[@tinawatson5866]

As for The Office 😆 lights, I like Option A . Those are beautiful!

[@danniraearranged]

"As for The Office" HA LOVE IT! I really like option A. too. I think there so pretty! I always have the hardest time making decisions lol.