Dating in Miami older than 35 can be hard. Here's what an Expert says to do.

[@devilmaycry9969]

Miami isn't a place to "date". It is a place to have fun, work hard and get a degree. It is full of clout chasers and you will always be in competition. Don't ever be with someone thinking they are not seeing others. Especially if you a woman in your 30s. If you are promiscuous you will never be looked as serious. Keep being strong and liberated...

[@BD_1437]

💯 real talk

[@QuanPookie]

When all of the women are after the same men nothing good will come of it. Good luck.

[@BD_1437]

Exactly she is delusional thinking she will get the man she desires. Her expectations are thru the roof that's why she won't find what she wants

[@IntegrityMeansAll]

If the rest of the men would become higher quality men then they would be appealing to women too.

[@kseke25]

@@BD_1437It’s better to be alone than to settle.

[@biscaynesupercars]

I’m over 35 in the heart of Miami and dating is fun af lol. Idk why so many people are frustrated. I think people go after things they don’t really want or are qualified for and are comparing themselves and potential partners to things they see on social media and don’t realize what they see online is marketing and promo to sell you a solution to a problem you never even had

[@ProKay305]

Every one today is a life coach or dating coach

[@carlcounts1]

lol I've noticed that too

[@wyzemann]

It probably sounds less intimidating than “Pastor or Priest”🤔.

[@bnbbnb8115]

Especially on social media hahahah while being single hahahahah

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

And no ring on their finger 😂

[@kseke25]

She’s a psychologist. If not her, I don’t know who is more qualified than her. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@KayExposesTruth]

Let's get back to the basics of dating.... Honesty, loyalty, & meeting at the table with equal value... That's it. No debate. Even swap ain't no swindle....

[@QuanPookie]

But in reality: you must be 6’5, extremely good looking, and a millionaire

[@ike.o6944]

Unfortunately we will never get back to the basics because of social media and the words of these feminists spewing the women lol... Women need to understand something. They're born with their highest value and that is their youth and beauty. Play around and waste time and in your mid-30's/40's/50's "in general" you'll either have to settle for someone that isn't your first choice or just be alone with your animals. Social media is telling women that they don't need a man and that they can live all by themselves lol.... "in general" that one of the biggest lies out there lol...

[@samuelrigaud6595]

To late, you're not a virgin

[@newtrollaccount384]

@@samuelrigaud6595 You're probably been around the block more than she has.

[@HumptyMcFly]

It’s kind of hard to take dating advice from someone whose own advice hasn’t worked for her. She’s in her 40s, never married and no children. How is she an “expert?”

[@kseke25]

She’s a smart woman. It’s not about being married it’s about being SUCCESSFULLY married. She’s obviously still on her journey.

[@HumptyMcFly]

@@kseke25 Not surprised by your answer. That’s why corporations market so heavily to women. Give them feel good stories with no substances or results and they will make you rich.

[@HumptyMcFly]

@@kseke25 BTW in order to be successfully married you have to get married

[@BD_1437]

She is a so called expert using her looks and how she dresses to convince men and women of her nonsense

[@mikee3261]

Why yall dudes be sounding so bitter and heartbroken 😂

[@BrandonCBaldwin]

41 year old Dating coach who is single with no kids. The irony

[@TruckerJmitch]

💯

[@corneliush8961]

Lady stop playing games with your self there are broken family's in every race

[@jaeeluv]

💯

[@BD_1437]

🎤 drop all day everyday

[@TheRds797]

Not hard for men nowadays, VVoman in $outh Florida are predominantly with hook up culture. VVoman set the stage for modern dating ..

[@angeldetierra3855]

--- The right spelling is: $Voman!

[@designhub360customapparel]

What she did not mention is you're not going to attract higher level people when you live in a certain area. If you're not in those circles, it's not going to happen.. so no, it's not you attract who you are. Get in those circles and let's see if you attract those people then. You think somebody working in a high level job owning a high level business in the Hulu it's only attracting Hulu people because that's who they are.

[@cierrahshaw2677]

I kno tht ain't the lady from basketball wives

[@TruthBeTold1992]

It sure is, and a friend to messy Jackie Christie out of all people. Who in their right mind is listening to her or taking her serious as a "relationship expert" or "life coach"? Girl bye!

[@genovasquez8361]

Im 47. At age 30 getting cheeks got super easy. Girls has been on easy mode since 30. If a man works on getting a nice six pack, nice hair cut and nice shoes to make a woman look down and smile. You gonna have your pick of litter Getting cheeks is easier after 35 for men.

[@newtrollaccount384]

You sound like a real dream.

[@genovasquez8361]

@@newtrollaccount384 a dream to someone @ nightmare to the wrong women

[@jaytaylor2090]

I appreciate how they let her talk! ❤

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

No thanks ma’am, my wallet, my choice 😅

[@newtrollaccount384]

There are prostitutes all over Miami.

[@ReezyMontanaDaYachtCaptain]

😂😂

[@Califresh21]

Who is this chick she ain’t even married who listening 2 her

[@ike.o6944]

Exactly!!!!!!

[@frankmoolah]

She tried shaming Cam Newton for not being married while having 8/9 kids from 3x baby mamas and this the same wahman who turned down 3 marriage proposals in her lifetime. Who dafuq in their right mind is taking poor, futile dating "cope" advice from this insufferable cat lady 🙄🤷🏽‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

[@jctorres6112]

for real. the show sucks just having these woman talk

[@newtrollaccount384]

Evidently you.

[@Califresh21]

@@newtrollaccount384 ur dookie stinks fact

[@ShawnC.T.]

Dating ANYWHERE, older than 35 is hard for women, especially if you're a single mother, bad choices translates to bad results, almost always, the 🧱is undefeated...🤨

[@fam-a-lee7513]

Thank you ma’am for trying to remind people that a strong family with a good father needs to be the norm again

[@LM-128]

🙏🏽📿🪶 🌅🌌🌠✨✨✨

[@newtrollaccount384]

Absolutely nothing is stopping men from being good fathers. They choose not to.

[@herseyyoung4734]

They need to bring on a guy who can objectively deliver the COLD HARD TRUTH. The truth of the matter is there is nothing out here worthwhile for men in their 30s 40s and older to date. You have the majority of women who are bringing to the table immense BAGGAGE from a previous Relationship/Relationship where you will face the brunt of her TOXIC Experience and be blamed/judged for anything resembling her PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. That is why my advice to Guys is to go get your PASSPORT out like my Uncle did when he went to the Philippines and met a female from one of the Rural Provinces nearly half his age with ZERO BAGGAGE just looking to take care of him in the Traditional sense, where he has been happily enjoying that for the better of 12 years.

[@JamesLettetman]

THEY NEED KEVIN SAMUELS

[@newtrollaccount384]

@@JamesLettetman He's dead.

[@newtrollaccount384]

It says a lot about your relative that he needed to go to rural areas of a country known for sex tourists that seek under aged flesh to meet a match.

[@derricklangford4725]

​@@newtrollaccount384RIP To the Godfather 🙏🏿🕊️

[@sunvegeta]

For women, get rid off the "boss lady" and the "queen" mentality, and you will fair better in the dating pool!

[@jaeeluv]

Nah.... but just be normal 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@newtrollaccount384]

You all love stupidity.

[@floridaroadways]

Miami is not a good city for a man to look for a date, but it’s easy for a woman try going to a small town like Key Largo, Key West, or any small town in the Florida Keys other small towns like South Bay, Okeechobee, etc.

[@alexkovalev5533]

Miami women are pay for play, everybody knows that.

[@newtrollaccount384]

Who's paying?

[@williamriley5118]

I don’t want to end up like Tyrese Gibson.

[@SittipongKhochit-k5w]

Damn right ya dig me too

[@jpaul8419]

All these topics are no longer interesting to some men because many women have the most outrageous requirements for men to have before they can even approach them. For example, some women say they don't want broke men while these same women are broke. Decent men have checked out and now these women can scramble to settle down with bums.

[@ike.o6944]

Preach!!!! It's crazy. Women have so many options when it comes to men now that they aren't going to focus on just one. There is something called hypergamy. Women will always strive the top tier man when in reality the women are average or below lol...

[@BD_1437]

💯

[@SittipongKhochit-k5w]

@@jpaul8419 damn right ya dig

[@derricklangford4725]

Or buy a dog and grow old alone 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@BD_1437]

@@derricklangford4725 the Kevin Samuels infamous phrase. Still holds true to this day

[@24keys82]

Dating is over!!! It’s all Business! Money Money Money 💰, It’s all about finding the best AI Doll and focusing on living your life while enjoying it now!

[@newtrollaccount384]

Go for it!

[@SittipongKhochit-k5w]

Damn right ya dig

[@EzraIsrael-cb4st]

DATING IS GREAT EMPOWERING TO BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP. UNFORTUNATELY SOCIAL SOCIETY OF HOW CELEBRITIES ARE SETTING THE TREND IS UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS FOR AVERAGE PEOPLE WORKING. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN HAVE TO ENFORCE LEADERSHIP ROLE IT TAKES A COUPLE WITH INVESTMENT IN SUPPORTING THEMSELVES ACCOUNTABLE AND RESPONSIBLE. FEWER PEOPLE GROWING UP IN MARRIED FAMILIES AND UNMARRIED HOUSEHOLDS ARE MORE AMERICAN CULTURE HAS BECOME INCREASINGLY DIFFICULT FOR DATES

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

Why date one 35yr old independent feminist when I can date two young hot 18yr olds that just crossed the border? 😂

[@newtrollaccount384]

No one is telling you what to do. You volunteered that.

[@cjzanders5430]

At 35 I'm in my prime. And I'm looking for fertility.

[@ike.o6944]

Facts

[@ike.o6944]

As men age, we hit our prime... as women age, they hit the decline. It's just how it goes.

[@newtrollaccount384]

@@ike.o6944 You hit a prime and then you decline.

[@newtrollaccount384]

You have four more years of being in your prime. You've already aged out to be considered by many young women.

[@cjzanders5430]

@newtrollaccount384 - Not true at all. Women age 18to 25 love men in their mid thirties to 40.

[@Machdagwap]

She is very good!

[@305mom7]

Somewhere in the first few dates gotta find out that FICO score. That ball will be your chain.

[@newtrollaccount384]

I thought Florida was full of old people.

[@lexsismonique3783]

My fav Dr. Bryant

[@bryanthughes5799]

I hate to be the one to tell women this but men don't want you after you're 30 especially if you have kids. You go through your wild faze and then you want a simp to come and make you an honest woman??? Get out of here with that!

[@samuelrigaud6595]

It's always the same movie

[@jaeeluv]

😂 I'm 40... Can't keep em off me 😉

[@newtrollaccount384]

So just say that and move on.

[@derricklangford4725]

​@@jaeeluvare they asking to marry you and become a stepdad 🤔

[@McOofy]

Go finance her life and be a real man

[@brekiarnz161]

Weird all the meterologists on WPLG don't have this problem. I wonder what the difference is.

[@ericcarson342]

If women want marriage they need to realize men are the ones who will dictate if that happens. If it's just dating and hooking up then it's women who dictate that. You have average looking women looking at the top 10%. The math is not there. Miami, L.A., NY. are some tough places for people in there 30s-40s if they want marriage.

[@josiahmick1175]

Dating over 25 is tough

[@iamsentme2244]

Stay in your lane, be you!! Be honorable to your Creator who made you unique ❤love it that she recognized that 😊

[@DeepVerma728]

Unmarried, childless and no man an expert? 😆😆😆😆

[@samuelrigaud6595]

Dr

[@amac23557]

She’s a single cat lady…NEXT

[@newtrollaccount384]

You're probably addicted to PH.

[@derricklangford4725]

😂😆🤣

[@amac23557]

@@newtrollaccount384Who told you?!

[@genovasquez8361]

We don't take women over 35 seriously. We like women 24 and under. We like Young adults, not dirty 30s.

[@HumptyMcFly]

Trust me younger women are not a flex anymore. Have you tried talking to them? Two words…no substance.

[@jaeeluv]

​@@HumptyMcFly 😂

[@newtrollaccount384]

A thirty five year old that thinks women over 24 are too old is a pedophile.

[@derricklangford4725]

dirty 30s 😂😅

[@genovasquez8361]

@@HumptyMcFly Older women have more substance? where. i can count on one hand how many older women have actually stimulated me more mentally than 18 year old. Alls you got to do is watch kendra G and you will see the bulk of how older women have been talking since i was teen. i been talking to women over 35. nothing impressive at all.

[@MsAlexis]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@designhub360customapparel]

In that case, why is she not attracting the type of person she is?

[@zassy4778]

Isn’t she one of the ladies on Basketball Wives this season as a “friend of Jackie”??? Her face looks very familiar!

[@Goodnewsgoodeats]

Dating for any dark skinned woman is hard. Young or old!

[@undergod8666]

Thank you father god for making me your wife❤❤

[@derricklangford4725]

Cringe

[@GIMMETHELOOTNOW]

" expert " 😂😂😂😂

[@nae_petey_son]

It takes 2 two tango!

[@AnneDC_2532]

Dr Who looks older than 41, more like 58

[@nikhilmudaliar2501]

Blind leading the blind shi😂😂😂

[@derricklangford4725]

Your Promise Land 😂😆🤣

[@MarlyMar07]

🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@bnbbnb8115]

Men 30-50 you are good. Women 30+ with out kids and not crazy you have a slim chance if you have a low body count. Women 30+ with kids and high body count muhhahahahahhhahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahh. Que the single mom song...

[@samuelrigaud6595]

You will never know her body count ⚠️

[@bnbbnb8115]

@samuelrigaud6595 it's easy if has been in long relation ships you are good. But if she say she a 4 or t boyfriends in a year or been single for 2 yrs dead that

[@cjzanders5430]

@samuelrigaud6595 - Women who are chronically single and don’t make for good wives are usually the ones in with high body count. Women also talk a lot. Getting a specific number probably wont happen, but it’s easy to figure out she’s been with more than 10 guys in her lifetime.

[@newtrollaccount384]

I promise you that no one is interested in you long term unless they are attracted to ---- boys.

[@newtrollaccount384]

@@bnbbnb8115 Look at your profile pic Sweetheart. It's not that you're bad looking. It's just that you're Pookie or Ray Ray. No woman with some sense is interested unless she is looking for a ---boy. Men need to learn when they are the side piece.

[@Jedirising]

Female nature! The foolishness? Single independent strong woman

[@Pirelli812]

CHA CHA though