Day 20

[@TheLifeOfWoods]

15mins in. You hit the nail on the head with this one brother. Something I’ve been thinking into deeply myself.

[@Hamza-episodes]

G nice to see you here bro

[@AmbientClassical]

I feel like this is partially cope regarding the relationship stuff. I think marriage changes the equation. The intimacy of marriage grows over the years due to shared challenges that you overcome together. All our grandfathers, great grandfathers, and forefathers were all married. It would be arrogant to say they were wrong and we are right. In marriage and fatherhood, your masculinity has to rise to new heights that it couldn't have as a single person.

[@AmbientClassical]

Also, this degenerate trend with Hamza is partially why I left Adonis School. I used to be a member for many months. I think we just have incompatible religious perspectives. As a Christian, I only believe in marriage (no dating, intimacy before marriage, etc.).

[@Dragonballmaster-n1g]

Yeah if are great grandfathers did it it must be right?

[@guntherdasschaf336]

I like your conclusion, not your argumentation though. There are tons of things our grandfathers were wrong about. Living together is IMO a test to see if you are capable of raising kids together as I think kids should always have both parents in the household.

[@amayeralam]

Bro did he said that don't marry?

[@amayeralam]

@@Ghastlyyb You guys are just bound to jump into conclusions. You guys can't even think properly for a min

[@SebastianEmmanuel-xh3hv]

When i watch your vids its like im hearing a totally different person speak. A more chill laid back, and most importantly, genuinely authentic paragon of masculinity speaking his mind with no concern over censorship and no cuts to edit those thoughts out. These videos bring back the old feeling where it seems like I'm improving with you, if that makes sense. It's no longer talk down advice, it's real talk from a person growing alongside you, with his own journey, with his own challenges, and his own difficulties. Thats something worth thinking about thankyou

[@Hamza-episodes]

Thank you bro

[@ScottPrice7]

I have the opposite experience. Living and sleeping with my girl gives me more motivation to get up and get at it hard. I have to support and continue to her man. I never had more motivation to go for goals after being married

[@Hamza-episodes]

thats awesome good for you

[@sspeacelove4896]

Same.

[@neeleshkiran6103]

The more I see these type of videos the more I wanna improve myself. Thanks hamza from 🇮🇳

[@Hamza-episodes]

welcome bro

[@WildMan-eg4lu]

I think when your younger and your goals are still the priority then yes living with masculine guys is very powerful. But when you have a family and that becomes your priority then living together with your partner I think is best.

[@Hamza-episodes]

thats a pretty strong point

[@James.Chaiii]

Can you sit down with James and ask him his story as to how he’s now working and fighting in Bali. I also wanna do something similar once I get really good at Muay Thai, like to travel the world and fight in different countries and make money training people. Like how did he land the job? I would love to know the story. Did the gym watch some of his fights as proof he knows what he’s doing and is skilled in it. Pls ask him for me!? Seems like such a cool lifestyle and seeing James has honestly inspired me and opened my eyes to what’s possible with fighting. And the lifestyle I could live with the skills I’m learning. Muay Thai,mma and kick-boxing are all on the rise. I think in many ways it’s more valuable than many degrees if u become very proficient at it. And you are a good coach. Cause I truly love this sport and I wanna make it my life please ask him for me. Big up James he’s opened my eyes.

[@James.Chaiii]

Also can I watch any of his fights anywhere on YT? Also can u ask how long has he been training?

[@maaridge]

Bro wrote this on some HamzaGPT timing

[@Not_Livid]

Vouch for this. This sounds great

[@jaydensnowden7266]

Second that👌🏼

[@Hoodh.eadGuy]

up

[@joynulibneislam]

Hamza you saved my life. Because of you, I got into self improvement, I got into a rut in the late 2023 until mid 202r, now I started MMA again thanks to you. May Allah bless you

[@Dark.Manu.Official]

The speech about living with girls is actually something i never really stopped and thought about (before now), that's actually a good point Hamza. You and the coach are doing a really good job!

[@Dark.Manu.Official]

despite im good at english i didn't understand your reply, would you repeat please? Thx

[@Hamza-episodes]

@@Dark.Manu.Official don't worry about him he is our village retard

[@Dark.Manu.Official]

@@Hamza-episodes hahahahah

[@ethanaalexander]

I think the ONLY exception to living each other is when you’re not that present in the household. You’re making money, taking care of your health, probably taking business trips and such and THEN coming home to your woman. Other than that, I agree 100% with this. I used to basically live with my gf back in 2022-2023 (going to her place 12 hours a day) and it made our lives worse.

[@aja4875]

If your partner is the reason you’re getting complacent, it’s time to take a hard look at yourself, mate. A life partner should inspire you to push harder, achieve your goals, and build a better future for both of you-and maybe your kids too. If they’re the reason you’re slacking off or settling into comfort, then either you’re being lazy, or you’re with the wrong person-someone who doesn’t get your hustle. There's only two kinds of energy potential and kinetic - enough with this BS of energy. Put your head down and work lads. Empires weren't built on analyzing pueudo form of energies, but on grit and grind.

[@joezupko]

I’m with my gf all day everyday since we live together and run a business together. It’s usually alright because we help each other grow, but it can get annoying. When I wanna really get into some deep work it can be annoying, other than that it’s not too much of an issue

[@p4cov]

You honestly dont need two houses mate. You can have seperate bedrooms and seperate offices, even seperate bathrooms within the same house. So when you go about your day you just live in your part of the house, and at noon and in the evening you just chatch up with your partner anyway. Like in your office you can have your bed, bathroom, computer and all the work related shit and when you get shit done and feel like spending time with ther you can go and do that. Separate point: who goes to the gym with their girl? Youre softening yourself before even getting there. Like I cant see myself training with my girl, i did once and she called me insane for pushing her to the limit like i would when i train with men. Id just go at seperate times, she likes to exercise in the morning and i like to do it later in the day anyway.

[@Hamza-episodes]

thats a good point I think that's how Alex and Leila Hormozi do it.

[@p4cov]

@Hamza-episodes that way you can still see your wife asap if needed, support her emotionally and well fix shit around the house if needed. Living in different houses would make her your mistress not your wife.

[@Hamza-episodes]

@@p4cov yeah nice points. Maybe I just have to leave the house more lol

[@submissionisbelief]

@@Hamza-episodes i've been married for over a year (relationship for 4) and this is exactly what i do - separate bedrooms - 8-14 hours at the of each day Monday to Saturday - chill on Sunday's. Have dinner with the wife at a restaurant between work once or twice a week. Boys use the same office space as me. Wife comes to my room when i want her to. very optimal

[@byteblox100]

Living with your partner is definitely a real problem, idk why people are disagreeing. It’s literally what killed my relationship, and the only fun moments were exactly those when we did something new and fun instead of being monotone

[@codingwithkaran]

It can be a motivating factor if you have a good girl with you. You can help her grow as well alongside yourself

[@soundsofnature9919]

first 5 seconds:😳 rest of video: 🗿🗿 fr tho you saved me hamza

[@pedrogaspar_]

those first 5 seconds really made me question Hamza's sexuality

[@BenedictWard29]

I literally put a deposit down today to rent a house with 4 other guys. Can’t wait till we move in for the reason hamza mentioned early in the vid.

[@Gaël-Tk]

49:46 So true. I didn't play video games for years and I wanted to play Minecraft again once a week with my brother and a new friend I've met and it took me way too much time to reinstall it. Also I think the same, video games is fine if you just play with friends and keep it only as a social thing. For me it is only on sundays, no more than that, it allows me to speak with my brother every week (He lives far away)

[@Hamza-episodes]

Haha right. Maybe we are retarded now but I swear it was much easier to play

[@RookyFury57]

I actually completely get what you're getting at Hamza. I've had this feeling as well. If you really think about it I think that was the reason (weird analogy) but the Native Americans or you know Native of different areas had separate tents/teepees when in a tribe. You'd have the tribe leader in one tent then like his wife and child in another. Which makes sense because the tribe leader was usually up to important things like defending his land or making sure everyone got food and the convenience of having your wife next to your area but not fully distracting you from your goal (although it's not their fault) helped everyone.

[@kyleelkotni8653]

James you should make a channel for ur bodybuilding journey. I would watch I’m sure a lot of us would

[@nyeo]

Bro this is so true

[@theagentmemes]

Yo hamza, a way you could do more 1 on one meetings with Adonis gang is you could do livestreams like the KZbinr fitxfearless where you go on calls with guys and they ask for advice and stuff but you could Make them really Wholesome

[@underground.kid11]

lmao fitx came across a content goldmine with that idea

[@X.ap.1234-iv3bl]

Hamza. Is kickboxing your new bedside hammer?

[@abdelkader_blk]

that's such a good question bro, he said his anxiety spiked recently

[@Hamza-episodes]

nah it doesn't really make a difference in anxiety I think

[@X.ap.1234-iv3bl]

@@Hamza-episodes 🤠🤙

[@PatriceBeaudet]

Hello Hamza! Your new vlogs are very inspiring and we all love them. You probably don't do the editing but the subtitles are a bit distracting. It may be just me but I struggle to actually look at you when you talk because of the text. Thank you for sharing a journey that we can all relate to bro, a lot of love to you.

[@JonroeMordan]

If you are just taking care of yourself and your own goals you are a boy not a man. A real man protects and provides for a women and children. A boy is stuck focused on himself. You are forever chasing fame and external validation to fill the hole in your heart that love could fill.

[@JVAJacob1]

Bro in my opinion u r right about cohabitating with your woman. I love my girl but even spending time with her takes time away from my goals, as of right now in my life I’m committed to my goals, I’m married to my goals. She’s a great girl tho

[@Gainz245]

Good point, buts that’s from the assumption that you are at home most of the day. In a more traditional job we would be out all day and come home to a wife and a cooked meal. I think that would be a peak experience imo

[@Hamza-episodes]

yes thats cool - but a lot of guys will work from home

[@unknownvlogger7293]

Just be in separate rooms, have her with the luxury beautiful bed and fancy stuff and have your room basic and just simple. Treat her like a queen and be the beast to her beauty

[@jack.1.]

I want to live with my wife, but have space and things which we both enjoy which separate us. I think it makes you more masculine when you have to rise to the right level to impress her each day.

[@RisewithBrandon]

i love the authenticity of this series! ive been inspired to create my own youtube and im two weeks in if i can get any love that would be appreciated so much!

[@stormGod9999]

I think itll make more sense once ur at the point where your wife/wives are allocating energy and time towards your business which then at this point makes sense living together. once men get out the romance mindset and focus on family business mindset I think thats when men start to see that which is a lot after our bachelor/bachelorette years (16-25 years of age)

[@stormGod9999]

intimacy naturally occurs with sex/gender but when the romance/intimacy is prioritized over family business and community building than you cant truly build a successful family business and help create a prosperous community because both are very much coexist together. great communities are built off great families but families that are engaged together.

[@Nikhar-j2x]

I can understand that you guys might feel Hamza is right because he has said some really tough and bold things in the past. But this is not the time to blindly follow him or take his advice, especially when he lacks the experience of a successful relationship, marriage, or the responsibilities that come with raising a family.

[@JasonActualization]

I interpreted this video as food for thought, not advice.

[@BigRozes.]

its funny that i had the thought about the thing of living with the girl when you posted that recent video on your main channel talking about your dating mistake. I asked myself why live with a girl, thats something that i agree with the redpill, not living with your girl. Surrounding yourself with good friends and moving in with them imo would be a better option. They will keep you accountable and if u fail u will really feel like a little bih.

[@Hamza-episodes]

yeah I can imagine living with masculine friends could be sick

[@themandalorian1268]

Great music in the gym today

[@JVAJacob1]

Happy thanksgiving Hamza!

[@PauIdenino]

James is gonna have to switch to a higher weight class soon, that muscle memory is kicking in 😂💪

[@kieran368]

I agree with him, if anyone is aware of Dr Robert Glover's book 'No more Mr nice guy' or his other works, he talks about avoiding fusion with your girl, by not seeing her too much or over communicating through text and other means. And creating a lifestyle were you continue to hangout around other men, following your passions, hobbies, exercise etc. Because those things keep you differentiated and creates polarity with the feminine.

[@TheFishyFisher]

Hamza what would you then do once you have kids? It would be kids feeling they don't get enough attention from both parents because you are both always "dating"

[@Hamza-episodes]

yeah good point, I don't know I was just saying what was on my mind

[@livingrickroll1576]

Ah, once you find ‘the’ women trust me you’ll both accomodate for each other and just having her next to you makes you wanna take the world head on. And in your times of need she’s there, gods there, your achievements are there, everything is there to support you. There’s no reason to let yourself go because of others that’s just shifting the blame on others. You’ve chosen to be with them and therefore handle the consequences for it and therefore overcome the stuff you’re arguing about and fussing over.

[@jjpriv7077]

hamza what i find most interesting about you is that you can quote books out of nowhere. In this video it was about alexander the great. There was another video u quoted about the book Attached aswell . I must say i am impressed. Goes to show that all them years back you was reading books

[@JW0121]

Watch Tai lopez if u think this is impressive haha

[@Hamza-episodes]

yeah it's always cool when someone can drop a fact like that

[@nukediamondx]

a lot of your unique takes such as this one can easily be improved if you look at Islam and the prophet Muhammad. He woke up around 3am every night and went to work (prayer), which he did out loud without fear of waking up his wife or even his whole neighborhood. And to catch up on the sleep he used to take naps often at 12 am to around 3pm. And he used to go to sleep around 7-8 depending on the season. I think there's a lot of similarity with your life and its interesting how he dealt with this issue.

[@Prathmesh607]

Thank you

[@louisb-d2989]

Crazy good work on those kicks at the end there bro. That shit is HARD. The video you did on female no fap was super interesting and to me that ‘non bust’ orgasm idea where you’re just ready to go 24/7 and your energy levels remain high is super appealing and really resonates. I did want to ask, there were a couple of monks and spiritual teachers other than Deida shown in the video, do you have any resources on this topic from these monks and their ideas on this? I’d love a link or a title to search, it’s super interesting and powerful stuff for love and connection, I can absolutely visualise that. I’ll get the enlightened sex manual soon as well, I started the audio version a while back and it seems quality. Combine that with what you’ve said about cohabitation and it just seems like an amazing strategy to do something that is seemingly very very difficult- combining amazing progress towards purpose while growing an amazing loving relationship. With cohabitation it just feels like you’re constantly sacrificing, either it felt like I was sacrificing purpose to be loving or I had to wake up in the morning and kill of my loving self to engage in my purposeful mode. My girl at the time 100% felt that, sometimes I’d be really focused on being loving and she’d be in awe of the love she felt and the power of my presence (not trying to suck my own dick) other times she’d feel like I cut her off and she’d feel bad for getting upset because of that, she felt like she was holding me back, no good for either of us. I can’t wait for Bali bro, we’re about to book our flights for the 1st of January and the idea of that environment seems absolutely ideal man, we’re hyped as fck bro. Living around just masculine guys working hard, doesn’t get better. The best surfing in the world is a great bonus too haha. Anyway man, love from your home country and what you’re producing right now remains straight quality brother.

[@Hamza-episodes]

Come train at my gym when you’re in Bali bro let’s speak in person PS. Nice profile picture lol

[@louisb-d2989]

@@Hamza-episodes For sure bro, with a gym that nice, half our waking hours will be spent somewhere in there 😂. I should gratitude journal about the lucky timing of that pfp while filming for our old gym haha, it’s my profile on everything now.

[@Maximilliann_]

yoo back to old hamza 💪

[@Jjjkkkkhhh-pm8lv]

Hamza why’d you give up the upload streak on your main channel today?

[@BUGG316]

Just be single bro 😂 life’s short man, prioritise family and not just purpose, live like that (good luck finding someone too) and you’re finding yourself at the end of your career either lonely or just not knowing her properly.

[@johnmcfly-zf2xh]

I've been thinking of this one for quite awhile aswell

[@Hamza-episodes]

whats your stance on it atm?

[@Mathew5351-z8l]

Hey hamza i have some friends and they hate me and judge me because im on self improvement what should i do?

[@Ragendom]

What is the most important thing for you in a friend? I decide if a friendship is real or not by 2 things: 1) Supporting you to become the man you want to become 2) Providing value And of course both of this has to be mutual, meaning YOU should do the same. The first one is definitely a must-have, in my opinion. I have cut out some of my close “friends” because they were holding me back because they were not supporting me to become my best version. I support them, so I expect the same-I believe basically that’s why friends are for. Even if they don’t agree with your future values, which you want to achieve, they must be capable of giving you advice objectively by placing themselves in your shoes and not focusing on their values and beliefs of themselves but on YOURS. That’s how people should give advice to one another. The short answer is: First, I would try to explain this to them (what I just said). Then, if they agree and they can respect the man you want to become, that's great! Next time they should give advice based on that. If not, then in case your purpose and you becoming your best version are more important for you than your “friends” (who clearly don't give a f*ck about your future if they wouldn’t understand this), then you just need to stop talking to them. Which I know is hard, but it’s a necessary sacrifice for your development. Also in general, if you rather stay in a friendship that is toxic and bad for you and your friends don't even respect you, then what does that say of you? Would you like to be a man in the future who is too afraid to cut off damaging people, even if it hurts him? Would you like to be someone who stays in toxic relationships because of fear and lack of self-esteem? Or would you want to become a man who is confident in himself, who respects himself and demands respect from others (therefore is respected by others)? These questions are worth thinking about. It’s better to be alone than to be in the wrong companionship. Remember: We are all alone in this, together. Keep it up!

[@veronikastrickler3924]

Hamza has not found the answers but still manages to make money. That needs respect. Well if he had figured it out he would be enlightened.

[@Lennermark]

I think the problem you might be experiencing whilst living with women, could go away. If you were out of the house more, a lot of successful men for instance, are often away on business trips or away for 12 hours a day of working. I think that might help keeping polarity

[@Hamza-episodes]

yeah definitely. Being able to work from home is a blessing and curse

[@FightTheMonopoly]

Alexander The Great and his father Phillip both had multiple wives and even male lovers. This is a historical fact. What do you think about this?

[@Sun-mp3py]

Bro I recommend you to read the book "The Kybalion"

[@arthuragostinho9132]

Great points Hamza But if you have a child when married, are you still going to live separately? How would that work?

[@Hamza-episodes]

I read a couple books on powerful men like Alexander The Great, Genghis Khan etc and a lot of those guys weren't living with their wives and children. They were just out full time conquering, and came back sporadically. Wouldn't a primal man be the same? Caveman wouldn't sit in the cave with his cavewoman and children all day. He'd disappear to hunt and maybe be gone days. I could be completely wrong, just my thoughts

[@ZaidS-m4s]

Bro is giving signs of muslim convert

[@zeyadmohamed7841]

If you date for a long while before marriage marriage will definitely be boring and/or stale. I recommend looking into marriage the Islamic way which will definitely feel correct based on your explanation

[@guntherdasschaf336]

Bro is eliminating 20 coconuts a day hahaha (I am jealous af)

[@Lennermark]

How much does it cost to have a personal boxing trainer?

[@LorenzoBertotti]

Why not just buy an office where you go to work instead of buying different houses? That way you’re staying alone but you’re together at home

[@john_snow9435]

Jordan Peterson has talked about why you shouldn't live with your girl before marriage, although your alternative solution seems pretty attractive.

[@Hamza-episodes]

What did he say against it?

[@kamalg9001]

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[@jussef2057]

It’s getting ridiculous

[@herbsgaming7353]

Id like to see more sparring

[@JohnPork-uf8fm]

I really respect Hamza now

[@Joebilly15684]

Clean the tip when you're done

[@dfssdfxdbgfbbdbgnbbg2616]

What about the kids?

[@kaiser2571]

HEloo HAMza =)

[@pizzalegend1]

early af

[@richieak637]

Bro what about when you have a child ?

[@prathameshrana2099]

What's in that bottle?

[@JhanP7]

Fluid

[@sudaiskhan366]

Hamza I am first time disagreeing with you about this video firstly I wanna make clear that why the heck would you take advice from a person who has never even been in a fulfilling relationship never even had kids his own parents had traumatic household and he’s educating you about men women that’s alright but don’t talk about topics you never truly even religiously understand Hamza and who ever dislikes this cmment listen mate there are many people more successful in their love life and relationship than hamza so in this aspect don’t take advices on rs love and marriage

[@T.Xerr1]

Might seem cringe bro but it would be sick to see you fight on misfits one day a lot of cringe stuff goes on but might be sick

[@Soykan4103]

Nah bro. Normally I would agree with your ideas, but not this one.

[@Hamza-episodes]

what do you disagree with and what has your experience been?

[@Soykan4103]

@Hamza-episodes Man, I'm not going to lie. Honestly, I don't have much experience living in the same house with a girlfriend. And because of my religious beliefs, it's not appropriate for that to happen. Also, maybe I'm a jeffrey, but what you're saying is weird, even for Adonis version of myself in my mind. You said that living with a girl in the same hause could disrupt your future goals. But come on man, why would it be like that? You say "Do the hard work espacially when you don't feel like it." right? And I say, "Do the hard work, especially with a beautiful girl next to you." If you are a disciplined person, this shouldn't be too difficult. Also, probably there were women next to your masculine ancestors when they were on bed, right?? I am a Muslim and in Islam, it is not tolerated for husband and wife to sleep in different places. Sorry for bad english, I used translate 🫂

[@byteblox100]

@@Soykan4103religious reasons need backing though. I’m spiritual myself but you can’t use that as evidence. Living together isn’t a sign of discipline, it’s just accustoming yourself to your partner for no good reason. I do believe the older you get the more time you’d want to spend together, but in the earlier stages you just can’t do that

[@karlischonemann6883]

Yeah fine, sleep in your own room and leave to a workplace in the Morning. But living seperatly, especially with kids?

[@Patmc118]

Come to the Catholic Church Hamza. Confession will bring you to a state of grace. All I ask is you give it a true chance. This is the greatest form of self improvement

[@jjpriv7077]

FIRST

[@Sun-mp3py]

I see lots of army wife cheats to their husband.

[@ht8083]

Look up Mike Changs video on sleeping on the floor! Does wonders for you body!

[@ztheshanks5950]

A study done by a team of anthropologists from Harvard University found that married men (whether fathers or not) have lower testosterone than single men. Reality is, if you live with your woman, she'll make you softer. Now, if I go deep into female nature and esoteric knowledge, you'll never view a relationship the same.

[@shinra_tenseii]

Have to soooo much disagree on that, pretty sure having a family increases ur testosterone, like my dad doesn't go the gym and doesn't do any kind of exercise but I do but he's still more strong and active than me plus he even got biceps and back just by gardening lol

[@dundel2427]

Really great insight bro, will keep that piece of advise in mind.

[@alivensyde5484]

day 20 of the new hamza grift

[@Hamza-episodes]

if you think this is a grift you are just low intelligence and high distrust/anxiety honestly

[@Samplaceholder]

So Cringe.

[@Hamza-episodes]

what is?

[@NigelWalker5D]

Will bet you he ends up living with a girl in the future lol. He always flip flops his opinions

[@Hamza-episodes]

I'm allowed to change my mind. I'm growing too.

[@sspeacelove4896]

To be fair, that is the ultimate sign of growth and wisdom. I don't trust people who never change their mind about anything.

[@Hamza-episodes]

@@sspeacelove4896 right. I still don't get why people think it's a bad thing. I'm not afraid to be wrong. I think people just are not used to someone being so willing to be wrong that it looks weird how often I update my beliefs. But I think thats a good sign, and it's worked well for me overall.

[@NigelWalker5D]

@@Hamza-episodes Not saying you cant change your mind or grow. I do the same as well. Its just that at times you end up saying things with such conviction like its the absolute truth, and then you end up flip flopping further down the line. Your audience is very young and impressionable, and will take a lot of things you say at face value, so when you flip-flop on things that you previously had conviction with, it's hard to truly trust or believe in what you say.

[@SpaceyCadet]

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[@KaranVashisht-c1n]

Hamza your every video is just about yapping in the first part then just clips of you doing martial arts and thats so cringe to watch , when u first said you will be posting daily vlogs we thought u gonna be posting vlogs of u waking up , doing ur everyday stuff but nah ur every video is same as every one u can do better hamza , I pray downfall for you if u dont change ur content

[@Gainz245]

Let’s see you do a better vlog before you go judging someone else’s

[@PauIdenino]

Praying for someone's downfall because you didn't get to watch them brush their teeth is crazy 💀

[@Hamza-episodes]

"I pray for your downfall because you don't record yourself waking up" hahahah bro you need to fix your mental health asap hahahahahahaha what a weird little freak

[@xkai07]

Bro that cat would have been full of fleas and ticks , just letting it sleep on your bed😂

[@Hamza-episodes]

hahah I've been pretty itchy in bed recently