16 Personalities' Inner Monologues When They Like Someone

[@diaz6874]

*INTJ likes someone * INTJ: No.

[@williambriggs9990]

This is 100% accurate, especially when we haven't got our life sorted

[@indikapiyasena]

As a person that considered myself INTJ my entire life, Kristin's enactment of ISTP resonated more with me

[@shaymaeel-jaouahiry6278]

@@indikapiyasena same !

[@raytherad]

@@indikapiyasena INTP fit me more this time

[@aileenalvarez208]

Honestly.

[@dunmate27]

0:01 Infp 0:20 Istp 0:44 Isfj 0:48 Intj 0:58 Esfp 1:13 Estj 1:28 Enfp 1:41 Entp 1:54 Infj 2:24 Intp 2:38 Esfj 2:45 Estp 2:50 Entj 3:05 Isfp 3:22 Istj 3:49 Enfj

[@dandelion9064]

Thank youuu

[@user-qx3yd6nk4n]

Thank yooou! ~♡

[@streetvise6215]

Pin it

[@cedriceric9730]

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[@purplemind93]

INFP: romanticizes like shit in their thoughts, feeling happy and hopeful INFP the next day over same crush: TOTAL MISERY. I MISREAD ALL THE SIGNS.

[@Odysseus1999]

Haha yeah, I’ve done that multiple times. Follow some girl on social media only to realize they have a BF and are just being nice. Lol.

[@Hime.Gusano]

Noooooo why!? I hate when that happens ;_;

[@purplemind93]

@@Hime.Gusano yeah actually it’s happening to me right now. And I feel hopeless. Got my hopes up so high and fantasized about finally experiencing mutual love in sharing the same kind of mindset and interests. And now.... deepest despair

[@atomiccritter6492]

I would say the most likely ending would be the INFP simply doesnt act quick enough on any interest and the potential relationship just fizzles out. True story. I once met this lovely woman through Facebooks ancient app AYI (Are You Interested) we got on well and it felt like I was in a relaxing warm pool of water whenever I was with her. I absolutely loved it. After about 6 meets I decided I would tell her how I feel as I was very smitten with her...but I just could never build up the courage. I was petrified that she wasnt interested romantically and I would lose her friendship. We carried on seeing each other. We even went to a park in summer and it was an isolated moment and I mised a perfect romantic time to tell her..We saw each other weekly and then each time I just felt weirder and weirder that I had not asked her how she felt...It kind of just fizzled out and we stopped meeting fml

[@purplemind93]

@@atomiccritter6492 dude I feel you so bad. I was honest with my feelings with this guy today and found out he thought my intentions had only been friendly, even though he felt attraction to me he was confused. This has to do with the fact that he was at the same time dating someone else (long distance and they weren’t exclusive yet during our date) and his intuitive clues about this were too vague for me, or rather i picked up on them sort of but couldn’t make sense of it due to the other signals he were sending me, that he was interested in me too. I hope you could bounce back from your incident. But knowing myself I bet you obsessed about it for a long time?

[@infjvulnerabilityjourney1825]

Also INFJ: Envisions the perfect relationship that no one could live up to and wonders if they are even good enough for said person all while planning the wedding. -Single for life hopeless romantic INFJ

[@mrkerochan]

completely this...

[@mikezanden4611]

Sad but true

[@destaabigael9004]

No stop😭✋

[@latiie]

I ask myself "So what happens now if you finally meet that persom who completely reaches your standards and has a crush on you?....I'll probably just...stay away from them....because i don't deserve that love...yea it's a good plan..because what if they die before me?..i would be lonely again...withdraw from society..just like how it's always been-"

[@jencleofe7741]

Brooo

[@johnhalbig-author7012]

INFP sees ESFP ACTUALLY telling the person that they like... that they like them. INFP: "OMG, what are you doing, are you crazy?!" *disappears*

[@dearkristin]

😂😂 I can't keep my feelings about anything to myself haha

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

Since my crush is an esfp my heart is crushed now knowing if they don't say it then it is a sign they really don't. ~INFP

[@klee5318]

@@healingandgrowth-infp4677 ah, there still must be hope

[@jackies1729]

Seriously! I almost had a stroke! And it was so casual! Lol 😁

[@klee5318]

@@jackies1729 samee, it’d probably take years for us INFP to open up about how we feel

[@dew3968]

Alright, you didn't need to bully INFJs to that level, you chose it, and you really enjoyed it lmaaaaaaooo

[@dearkristin]

😏😏 hehe

[@dinkin_flicka14]

Does this mean she likes me? I'm an INFJ and this girl is also an INFJ and she's exactly doing the same lol. Tagging me on Instagram stories and we both connect so well but why doesn't she make the first move? Just tell me you like me and we'll be soulmates xD

[@deann7541]

@@dinkin_flicka14 she's comfortable with you and trusts you, as an INFJ she's also cautious and does not rush.

[@multiskype]

I'm an isfj but the infj one is even more relatable lol

[@dinkin_flicka14]

@@deann7541 I completely understand the not rushing part. It's just that my hopeless romantic side can't help but imagine a future with her. 🤣

[@arnaudj2708]

ISTP : I don't have time for love, that stupid thing Love : *shows up ISTP : Guess I'll have to deal with it

[@crowsinaboat]

ENFP... The unfortunate double-edged sword of "this is how I communicate with everyone" is also having friends think you're into them... 🙃🙃🙃

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha 😅

[@miahan8988]

Oh my word, yes 🙃

[@firespawnie537]

To be fair , i love to be around ENFPs either as friends or partners.If they re not unhealthy people, they re very warm-hearted and you can literally talk with em about anything or do anything.My best friend is an ENFP and the best partner i ever had was an ENFP as well.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

[@Heliorhodonite]

Even INFPs have this one, it can be funny but also annoying. T-T

[@saraps1]

INFJ: Wow, I like this person. Also INFJ: **Does nothing and just stalk the person**

[@richardthury5293]

It's a research 😂

[@abetteryou4228]

@@richardthury5293 a quick analyzing lol 😂😂😂 thank you kristin for heart 🥰

[@lpemkz]

@@richardthury5293 yes it’s research

[@TaunellE]

Do you ever really like someone. Go to bed. And when you wake up, you just don't anymore. "What happened? I actually slept (very rare) and now I kinda hate you."

[@TaunellE]

@@richardthury5293 Always.! Reading, analyzing, questioning. "I do not understand human nature.. I do not understand human behavior." But the whole humanity experience... "Some people are natural humanists. Like Kristin. Others no. From what I've have been even told.. I freak you out. It's okay. I love you for who you are. 🥀♥️~Infj.. Tauney. 💙

[@emilycross4527]

“I even let him touch my arm the other day without physically recoiling.” 🤣

[@kitkat2713]

that's a big deal for us lol

[@steph7397]

It’s true. I hate people touching me 🙄

[@Dany-rx7rs]

​@@steph7397Me too, INTP here.

[@JanKatrinaGuanzon]

Normal ENFP: supportive, sweet, caring, and thoughtful to their friends naturally. An ENFP who likes you: awkward and shy but still wants to talk to you.

[@gmcollazo1118]

I cannot emphasize this more!!! So true

[@monicamurton]

Yesssss lmao so awkward and one of the only times we are ever ever ever "shy" lolz

[@monicamurton]

But she also nailed enfp in this skit lol - I really do communicate with everyone.. pretty much in the same exact way. And yeah, sometimes people tend to think I like them "more" when I don't at all..

[@michaelajacobsen3619]

Absolutely, around my friends I talk like there's no tomorrow... But around someone I like... Oh ho no,

[@katiestevenson7742]

​@monicamurton She good at the ENFP because of her sister.

[@hang2125]

oh nooo ENTP trying to be so cold and unavailable, dismissing their feelings is one of the most relatable things ever ahaha

[@sreeharidascloud]

*yes, it's relatable, marbles are cold, so is my heart.*

[@hailseitan8522]

why do we have to be like that... WHY?!

[@hang2125]

@@hailseitan8522 because feelings are for mortals and we, even though it's hard to admit, are ones unfortunately

[@Hephzibah624]

@@hailseitan8522 Here, please let me share some of these feelings with you. I can no longer take it and would rather have a cold marble of a heart because it looks much easier. -an INFP

[@sreeharidascloud]

@@Hephzibah624 babe, become entp...give us ya hand(no pranks attached) we'll show u- how to be miserable (if u already are then plus point) welcome to the team. - Illuminati(joking im not i just want to be cool fbi dont track me homies)

[@migsmethinks5801]

INTJ: "Somehow, I like her. Huh. Fascinating." Also INTJ: "Ugh, external emotions, social interaction, vulnerability, possible reprucussions on reputation in other life areas, and higher exposure to STDs. Nah, not worth it yet to take any action." INTJ again: (in the name of automation and efficiency in finding "the one", creates as extensive and deliberate a dating profile as permissible while closely shielding all potentially- personally-identifiable and potentially-TMI info because divulging such a wide sampling without going into compromisable detail results in fewer but more targeted matches that you really hope some algorithm played a part in)

[@peacefulgrotesque1510]

INTJ reading a ENFP's profile: "Look at this fool totally oversharing. That's so risky!...Wait, no, this is perfect. With all this info up front, I can bypass weeks of small talk and careful observation trying to figure them out. Excellent!"

[@silene9803]

I am doing the extensive profile thing just now exactly as described above - plenty of clues, but nothing identifiable. I have already pissed/deflected/confused plenty of “non-targets” and attracted one interesting human being, so it seems working😎 (female INTJ)

[@ManuelPerezUS]

Alright, so... confession time: At uni many years ago, I created a ranking model based on attributes (total of 13) that I determined were most important to me. I set the cutoff at top 5 to get to get to know better and ended up exclusively dating the one with the top rank (I'm leaving names out for obvious reasons). Pro Tip: Never...**EVER** ... tell them they were #1 in your scoring model. I know you would *think* they would be flattered that they were your #1 choice... but--INEXPLICABLY--this will not be treated as a compliment. I know you might be thinking, "well, maybe I tell her after a year and she'll find it adorable and flattering." **DON'T**... just take it to your grave. p.s.: If you are "her" and you found this and are reading this... I'm sorry. ;_; I was trying my best.

[@migsmethinks5801]

​@@peacefulgrotesque1510 Gotta love the ENFPs and their long, insightful, and unfiltered tangents. But wait... if they overshare (especially about other named people), then wouldn't dating them be a liability?

[@migsmethinks5801]

@@ManuelPerezUS LOL! There are times in my life when I've wanted to create dossiers of people I meet. Then I realize that it feels too stalkerish, the ROI on the energy spent is questionable, and that that's what dating sites are for. But sure, if there's several great potentials I know IRL, then... scratch that; either there are too many potentials for the merely-possible return to outweigh the costs of voluminous data gathering or (more likely the case) there are few enough potentials that you can rely on intuition or the given circumstances to decide which one to approach first. And if those multiple potentials are actively pursuing you at the same time, then it's easier to just wake up or realize you're in a sitcom.

[@appletree6898]

Everyone: agonizes ESFP (picks up phone): Hey crush, I like you!

[@pete4416]

I might be free to fall in love 4 years later Now no time INTJ

[@dearkristin]

Lol!

[@peacefulgrotesque1510]

I'm an INTJ with an ENFP. Shortly after meeting, we basically put all our emotional baggage cards on the table, looked them over, and decided none of it was a deal breaker. The level of communication ever since has been sublime ❤

[@dearkristin]

Amazing!

[@peacefulgrotesque1510]

@@dearkristin They're an open book, and I'm...just really blunt 😅 So it leaves no room for secrets and nasty surprises.

[@bebelmatson]

I’m an enfp, and that makes complete sense with both types. the result of strong extraverted thinking :)

[@hersheykisseys]

Yes. Same story hahahaha

[@TheGreatWerebear]

Yep, sounds about right. ENFP married to an INTJ. Early conversations involved a lot of questions like "what's your conflict style?" "how many relationships have you been in?" "where do you see yourself in five years?" "what's something you like about your parents' relationship, and what's something you'd do differently?" . . . Alongside the more important and fun ones like "what's your favorite dinosaur?" because if someone doesn't have an answer to that question ready to go, is it even worth it? By halfway through the third date, we'd gotten through all of those, declared the relationship official, and started intentionally diving into our mismatched political stances to ensure we could talk about serious ideological differences in a productive way.

[@sylvia470]

I love how vulnerable and helpless ENTJ and INTJ are when catching feels. INTP on the other hand, have a foolproof strategy of not leaving the house or meeting anyone. Works like a charm, every time. ^^

[@otaku4Gaijin]

Vulnerable and helpless is right. Today I faced my ISFP co-worker to realize my imagination plus assumption indeed had led me astray for months. Details unsaid, our conversation was completely platonic despite hopes for connection. Emotionally, I've thus snapped back to live in the world rather than in the world of a dreamer. My emotional guard is back up. My co-worker relegated to my initial thought of him - a work mentor while he never knew anything different. I, thankfully even today, kept my cards close to the vest. - Female INTJ, 5w4; Iconoclast

[@koalakang8680]

the infj one hits the mark, I see patterns that don't exist and if I like someone and they give me a sliver of attention I start thinking that they're reciprocating "the feeling" smh why xD

[@madripoor6652]

Painfully accurate

[@kpfern2337]

The accuracy. 😭

[@rellyputri2957]

OHMY😭 yes

[@thomasswrisky6734]

Me an INTJ *finds someone attractive and is interested in them* Also me: “shame I still have 25 steps left in my plan before I can begin the process of approaching someone. Statistically speaking, the odds of long term compatibility were quite low though, so not that big of a loss, not to mention the potential risks of loss if things didn’t end up going well. I think I can rationalize this as a win to myself, considering the stress and deviation from routine, pursuing her may have caused me. Besides, the relative chances of success will be much higher once the 30 step plan is completed, at which point the expected utility of such a pursuit will be ever so slightly positive, thus rendering it worthwhile” *proceeds to read or work to distract myself*.

[@rome8726]

You read my thoughts.

[@ayannalopez3308]

I've never been called out so hard in my life and I don't know what to do about it.

[@involuntaryanalysis]

This, yes, absolutely. Relationships in general just aren't that high a priority.

[@sreeharidascloud]

my ENTP brain after successfully wasting a whole hour thinking about romantic feelings- **oh looks like a waste of lovely night**

[@vukasinlukic888]

yeah, thats me every fuckin day

[@Shalalalala_666]

LMAO I DO THAT

[@squarrot9355]

ENTP GANG

[@speakersr-lyefaudio6830]

Yeah

[@cam9759]

Doesn't sound like a waste to me. -INFP 😅

[@kellikakes81]

ENFP was way too realistic...almost hurt lol. I can sometimes relate to ISTJ one, too.

[@fadhil5749]

It's true I like asking 1000 questions to my friends, some of them gets suspicious when I'm just doing it out of curiosity and why not.

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

INTP: "Do I like this person? Well, normally I don't get emotionally invested in things/people, but when I do... There's the obsession. And now I malfunction."

[@justinjames4801]

I heavily relate.

[@gadnihasj]

Ah, yes. If I get interested, I'll want them. They'll be mine. No sharing. Are INTPs possessive?

[@sylvia470]

@@gadnihasj Yes.

[@Suyana06]

YES

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

@@gadnihasj Sort of. It's generally not, "simply because I like you, you must be like this, and act this way," but more of a, "all of my emotion is focused on you, and I have no idea how to deal with the fact that you're important to me, and probably the most important thing to me." Getting older and being aware that you're just obsessed once again helps with managing it.

[@wannaseemydog]

As a socially inept INTP, it was extremely difficult to figure out whether or not my ENFP partner was actually into me or not, let alone deciphering my *own* feelings...

[@jeanbates9595]

As a fellow Intp who's also into an enfp, I felt that

[@hemberry_]

yes. just yes

[@finnian5588]

INTP here married to an ESFJ. First I noticed she's cute but you know... she's not into me. Then our mutual friend put us in the back seat together and I noticed that she was a good conversationalist and she'll be a good catch for someone. Then she keeps interrupting a philosophical conversation I'm having with a friend and I think that she must really like my friend. Then she interrupts me again while taking my hand and leading me to the dance floor. I dance with her while she drapes her arms around me and I think that some guy is gonna be real lucky 'cause she smells real nice. I excuse my self because I'm getting confused having feelings for her. We're in the back seat of my friend's car on the way home when she kisses me deeply. Then she sits on my lap at the IHOP and the rest of our friends are like, "so you two move fast, uh?" She answers for me but I don't mind because I thought my friend's car is kinda slow... it's a 98 Buick. I'm back at my apartment at 6 in the morning thinking..... "that cute girl sure does kiss nicely.... I wonder if I should give her a call?.... hhhmmm... you know Hegel is rather long winded after all.... yeah give her a call...." One year passes we're engaged. Two years pass we're married. Fifteen years pass and I still ask her, "what's that for?" when she kisses me when I get home. Yeah, I was "adopted."

[@BelieveMontana]

@@finnian5588 omg this was the cutest thing I've ever read

[@sylvia470]

@@finnian5588 Lucky you xD good to know there are some intp like that too.

[@jiaminlin6275]

The moment you said "cryptic quotes on my Instagram stories", I immediately knew. Did you really have to call us out like that? T.T - a very impressed, yet embarrassed INFJ

[@sofitocyn100]

i have a friend who is an absolute cliché of an infj. She does that all the time. Unfortunately, she's always single because her tactics are just too obvious and scares off all men she is into.

[@ceetteet]

Same!!

[@spannycat2]

They always know when I'm posting about them. -ENTP

[@CrazyErzy]

My ESTP husband really managed to get my attention when I met him. I liked to participate in role-playing tales in a forum online, you had to create a character and you could join a storyline and interact with other characters, just like in role-play games but more informal without a narrator or dice, so imagination was your limit. So, he specificaly created a character to flirt with MY character, literally that's what his character bios said 😂. And his character was so cool and had everything that my character was looking for, that she had no choice but to fell for him... then to make long story short, while our characters were a fiction couple, we became real friends and after sometime we ended up as a real couple. We were from different countries so we spent 3 years being a long distance couple, till he saved some money and left everything he had and everyone he knew and traveled to my country just to be with me. 🥺. We've been married for 12 years now. ♥ -INFP

[@stacyowl1658]

wow this is amazing, congratulations!

[@lilstinkbomb]

that’s so sweet omg

[@tingtong7425]

👍

[@WorriorXD]

DAMNN I'm an ESTP we acaully care for people under our cool easy going persona

[@ello8842]

That's sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.... Cool and sweet, hope you guys love each other until you die - INFJ

[@alexarose598]

INFP- 0:03 ISTP- 0:22 ISFJ- 0:46 INTJ- 0:48 ESFP- 0:58 ESTJ- 1:13 ENFP- 1:28 ENTP- 1:41 INFJ- 1:54 INTP- 2:23 ESFJ- 2:38 ESTP- 2:45 ENTJ- 2:50 ISFP- 3:05 ISTJ- 3:23 ENFJ- 3:49

[@janeoak929]

INFP: * Deep thoughts, emotions, living a perfect romance in her head* ENFP: He didn't understand my obvious signals? ESFP: Hey, I like you!

[@jadeyu7197]

i aspire HUHU

[@ShawnDavid91]

👌👌 Differences noted

[@melonoire]

😆

[@flusel4949]

The INFJ one is very true EXCEPT I never post anything on instagram or other social media! I’m way to concerned about how other people - let alone someone I like - may perceive my posts to actually share something publicly, when I can’t see their true reaction. But that won’t stop me from reading way too much into other people’s posts!

[@MrMaro1995]

INTJ: "I need to wait at least a month to see if those feeling can be trusted" Also INTJ after thinking for 5 secs: *No. They can't."

[@rainbowratto1834]

We're proud of you ISTP. You got this.

[@unstabletwig1038]

Thanks

[@tokarukora7272]

It is fucking true. This is exactly how I flirt, and that is really bad. X-D (ISTP)

[@roxannesilva5778]

For me (INTJ), it's more like one month to realize I like a guy, followed by a period of denial, then months spent gaging his interest. I will not act unless I have solid proof that it's worth it! The major flaw in this plan is that reading people is not exactly my forte...

[@ericaaaafj]

Feelers: oh, amazing, I’m attracted by them!😍 Thinkers: oh shit, I’m attracted by them... really? This sucks...

[@hersheykisseys]

Hahaha yup so true

[@marvinmartinez3818]

Person: Hi INFP: I love that person, we are soulmates and we will live together an awesome life achieving our dreams together and caring for each other until our deaths, or maybe he/she was just saying hi.

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha 🙌

[@gmcollazo1118]

Even though I'm an ENFP, I do the same😂😂

[@SEXgoddess.]

SO TRUEE🤦‍♀️

[@MrSaske63]

I love how straight up and direct you portrayed the ESFP initiation, that was so cute :D. Also would have been funny if you either said for the INTJ or ENTJ: "I'm in love with this person? How did I let this happen to me?" XD

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha nice! 🤣

[@muhsinashardow998]

as an INTJ, I approve

[@cedriceric9730]

Totally accurate - intj

[@andreasantes5972]

I completely agree- ENTJ

[@ceilinh6004]

My husband and I are both INTPs. We were friends- gradually growing closer- for 2.5 years before we actually started dating. I don't know if I ever would have made a move. Given I'd literally never dated before... probably not. Anyway, he asked me out via email, and we've been married for 11 years.

[@polishmeow8298]

ESFP: We're dating! *laughs* INFP: *stares with disbelief* *confused* ESTP: *shy* *makes a nasty comment* *offers their hand* INFP: *frowns* *stares with disbelief* *confused* ENFJ: INFP: *understands the heart balloons*

[@Mamabear1138]

ESTPs aren't shy.

[@runningfromabear8354]

I'm not shy. And why would the ESTP make a nasty comment?

[@polishmeow8298]

@@Mamabear1138 Oh I'm sorry, I didn't include the ESFPs. But apparently Se doms lose their cool when they really like someone, they go from Se cool to Ni mess. From "good at being spontaneous" to "don't know what to do".

[@polishmeow8298]

@@runningfromabear8354 I meant the typical ESTP bluntness Se-Ti that often get them in trouble with feeler types specifically the INFPs

[@runningfromabear8354]

@@polishmeow8298 I'm an ESTP and I don't actually know what you're talking about. Yes. I'm blunt. When I met my partner, I introduced myself and hung out with him. I don't remember feeling shy or struggling at all. We've been together for years.

[@justynap5031]

I LOVE that you have Brooklyn 9-9 hoodie with as an ENFP (Jake Peralta is ENFP ❤) PS. *whispers* I love you ENFPs ~INFP

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha Jake Peralta! One of the most classic ENFPs around! Tied with J.D. from Scrubs ;)

[@justynap5031]

@@dearkristin Is he? Omg I need to catch up on some TV series hahah Thank you for your amazing content ❤

[@dearkristin]

@@justynap5031 thank you for your lovely comments 😁😁

[@evey89]

We love you too! ♥️

[@omarouaidat739]

We love you too cupcake :)

[@caeciliaina]

1:28 : ENFP 💯✨ asking them hundred random questions & thoughts & jokes to someone that I like ~ but also do that on everyone else in my live 😹 you got meee 🥳🤣

[@KarlaIleana]

I swear, this was the perfect description of myself!!! My boyfriend wasn’t thrilled about that 😂

[@Jclarno1]

ENFJ: When I sort of like someone: "Hey, give me your number. We should go out sometime!" When I REALLY like someone: (In my head) "Well, there's reasons A, B and C that she might like me back, but then again there are reasons D, E and F why she might just think of me as a friend. I really don't want to jump the gun and make her feel uncomfortable. I'll just keep creating opportunities for us to hangout and hopefully she'll give me some stronger signals that she feels the same way I do. At that point I will spill all of my feelings all at once and tell her every detail of how much I like her, how long I have liked her and how I could see us being married someday."

[@brumbybailey6599]

Thank you for that! That gives me a little insight into my favourite ENFJ

[@kqjwhhsp1783]

@@brumbybailey6599 haha same😆

[@freddieyang8848]

Am ENFJ, can attest to this, so real!

[@user-pv8sr1sh6z]

Usually mbti youtubers make Se doms look like brainless hedonists, (wear a sports shirt BAM you're an ESTP) it got into a point that I can't even watch them but you portray them so funnily and at the same time reletable... I love watching your videos as an ESTP, thank you 💕

[@dearkristin]

Aww this makes me so happy - Thank you!!

[@Mamabear1138]

Ditto!

[@alicialexists]

I, too, have tired of how one-sided ESTPs have been portrayed by some MBTI KZbinrs, and I am not even ESTP. I doubt ESTPs are alone in being cast as one-sided stereotypes rather than well-rounded people. After seeing Kristin's 3-dimensional type portrayals, I became convinced that I could get along with people of every type (but not all of humankind), including ESTPs.

[@hemberry_]

I'm an intp and that was painfully accurate. I'm always unsure if I just want to spend time with a person because I find them interesting, because I want to be friends with them or because I like them... um... romantically.... so I keep it to myself until I die

[@TWEEKR]

" I wouldn't do anything about it though..." - as an INTP , I can confirm that. :"-)

[@in_the_starz]

As an ISFP this is way too accurate. When I had my first crush I kept repeating to myself “This is just a first teenage crush, this is just a first teenage crush, everyone had that, *do not* make any moves at all you’ll get over them sooner or later, I swear if you even try to let them know you like them you’ll ruin your chances to be better friends with them”. I got over them after nine months.

[@dc49154]

Know I'm late to this but same lol but for one year in middle school and all four in high school with two different girls we exchanged glances across the room like every day and both of us were waiting for the other to make a move 😭 not making the same mistake in the future lmao

[@in_the_starz]

@@dc49154 oh noooo thats so relatable lmaoo

[@PrototypeQuill]

LOOOOOOOOL. The INFP one was PAINFULLY accurate lol. Then in my head I go "wait. The exact opposite is gonna happen if I keep doing this" 😆. Why can't we all be ESFPs? 🤣🤣🤣

[@MFillmore]

The ENFJ one is relatable. But you forgot the part where she has prepared 100 questions about hopes, dreams, and emotions to ask the person who is coming over. Not that I've done that before 😅

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha!

[@melbeth79]

You have the goggles on the side table beside the ISTJ at all times just in case. 😂

[@dearkristin]

Haha an ISTJ necessity apparently! (This is based on no facts or data)

[@haleyk4969]

YES being a self-aware ISFP is knowing there's always the possibility you'll change your mind lol

[@margaretgaby2356]

lol as an ENTJ who's most attracted to INTPs - this explains why I'm single...I'm waiting for the guy to ask me out and he's waiting for me to ask him out. lol

[@MrShloker]

If an INTJ likes someone, they will think up every possible scenario and pick the one with 100% success rate of attracting them but then the girl acts completely different from how I imagined she would UGH!

[@Odysseus1999]

INFP is completely accurate other than stalking them “coincidentally” (but if you’re also INFP like me and you creep-out on people, hats off to you) and writing a love story about them. I have written a love story for every woman I’ve developed feelings for, they’re just in my head. I would actually write one, but I don’t think I could convey the saturation and warmth of my attraction properly. You can never really convey into words the butterflies, the longing, the heartache, and the lust, into words. Imagery helps, but it makes a lot more sense when you’re experiencing it yourself. That, and I’m lazy and afraid someone would actually read it. EDIT: Maybe I do “stalk” them, because I will look up their social media accounts. I remember in grade school I asked my younger brother where his friend lived because I had a huge crush on the kid’s older sister who was my age and in a lot of my classes. Looking back on it I was a massive p***y because she sat next to me in multiple classes and I was still so intimidated and shy around her. I could’ve just made a move, not that she was into me anyway. These days, I’m different, I’m fairly obvious when I like someone. I can be a very flirtatious person. That is, when I feel comfortable talking to them. Online is a lot easier.

[@leakyycauldronn1092]

I like to write notes to people i will most likely never see again. Like if I'm traveling in a different state for example, I'm more willing to take risks, and the easiest risk to take is giving a complete stranger a note manifesting that i think theyre beautiful and then I walk away as fast as I can and dont look back. And then I listen to god only knows by the beach boys and imagine all the different ways I could (but never would) approach her

[@youraverageviewer9546]

I was a little creepy back in highschool when I liked this one guy... He probably thought I was very weird (/

[@Odysseus1999]

@@leakyycauldronn1092 That's kind of weird, but also something I can see myself doing lol

[@znuntius4789]

i hate online man, online is just not it for me, so much fake

[@raindropsonroses3919]

Yes I do creep on people 😂thanks for the support

[@carterconnell81]

I just realized after my second time watching through that the ENFJ says, “pen and paper so we can write affirmations to each other”. I want to be annoyed by this but it could be super romantic, I’ll allow it

[@susanmalczewski9052]

Nah, it's not romantic. It's because ENFJ's love to receive affirmations and compliments, and thus expect that others love to receive them too. My fiancé is an ENFJ, and it totally makes his day when I compliment him. His face lights up, and he smiles for a long time, boy does he love compliments! 😊

[@fatmarekhis5875]

INFP has already fantasized about getting buried in the same coffin with the person they like after 10 seconds of meeting them for the first time! Loving the videos Kristin ❤️❤️, would love to see one about the personalities on their first day at work, would be fun to see how you interpret ESTJ's eagerness to become a CEO on their first day 😂😂

[@JokerCrowe]

I (INFJ) can't help but go on an emotional rollercoaster every time I talk to a person I'm interested in. Because my Ni and Ti are looking for patterns and making conclusions based on what Fe and Se is showing me so it'll be like: "She laughed at the joke you made!! YEss she's totally into you, where should we go on a date-wait, she looked at this person when she was laughing, and this time she didn't laugh at your joke at all!! It's over, cancel the date, shut the blinds, shut it down boys there's no reason to live anym-OH MY GOD she asked you what you're doing this weekend and she seems genuinely interested,we're getting married! I'm thinking a june wedding... but then my brother and mom might have really bad allergies from the pollen, I do like autumn so maybe any autumn wedding inste-And she left withtout saying good bye, better make that autumn wedding an autumn funeral for your love life" It's honestly exhausting. 😅

[@Nivaluna]

lmao

[@lissyrae2283]

This is so painfully accurate

[@colerobbins124]

Stop being so accurate!

[@johnwitt6487]

Ok I’ve watched all of your videos and I have to say this is my favorite ENFP impersonation - “ I guess it doesn’t help that that’s the same way I communicate with everyone else in my life” 😂

[@dearkristin]

Woohoo! Glad you like it!

[@youreworthyourweightinavoc7189]

INTJ liking someone "lalalala this is fun" Also INTJ liking someone "I feel resentful towards myself and towards the person I like for forcing me to feel anything that puts me off-kilter. F*** off emotions".

[@Bella4Chrissy]

"He'll figure it out if he's not a COMPLETE idiot." LOL Every ENTJ *had* to know this was them before the reveal 😂 Well done, Kristen!

[@dearkristin]

Hehe thank you!

[@katarinawikholm5873]

Exactly. And If he’s a complete idiot, he’s not worth the bother. Follow-up: If he’s easily intimidated, ”crush” may take on another meaning./Another ENTJ

[@nzlioness]

The ENFP is so true it made me realise I need to change tactics with my crush

[@superstellarhere]

B99 hoodie for the ENFP!! Nice!!! And you did *not* have to start the video calling me out lol

[@dearkristin]

Didn't I...? 😏

[@JS-wz3km]

INTJ: Let them make the first move... all the moves... i'll just wait until i'm totally sure... they are completely serious and i'm not just practice... there can be only one... outcome or I shouldn't bother to even begin... I can see the entire path of this future... this pairing is... worthy... you will be mine... when you ask me out

[@Diaming787]

Yes! Spot on! I let the make the move, not me, even though I'm a guy.

[@ashtonewert7728]

Ah, yes! Very sad when the other person doesn't make a move and ruins that stream of planning but there's always a backup (cries in the frustration of fitting emotional people into long term plans).

[@Fernandanatac]

I’m an exception from INFPs, I’ve never been stereotypically “in love”, never had any crushes at school (actually, at all) and when I started dating my playful ISTP first boyfriend when I was 17, I’d take, like, a whole day to answer his messages (not because I was “playing love games”, I just genuinely forgot to answer them or just didn’t check my phone). Glad he put up with that terrible habit of mine and “pursued” me until the end 😂 if it depended on my initiative we’d be doomed lol it’s been many years since. We’re engaged. Guess I just stumbled upon my “fairytale” ✌️💕

[@AluminiumPanda6]

My problem as an ENFJ has been "ah shoot, another person with dreams of running away to a 3rd world country to do mission work... I don't want to create a difficult decision for them by expressing my interest and making them choose between me and their dreams... besides, if it worked out and we got married, they'd possibly resent me for keeping them from their ultimate purpose in life" ... luckily I've gotten better at NOT doing this. 😆

[@brumbybailey6599]

Ahhh, that's too close to home and JUST TOO CUTE! ENFJs are my favourite!

[@jadeyu7197]

HOLY SHIT

[@mikerivera373]

Fellow ENFJ. I know if I heard someone I liked talk about that being their life goal, I’d immediately start internally reshaping my life plans so that if we get married, I’d have the option of doing it with her. That way she doesn’t have to choose (and yes, completely departing from my actual life goals that may or may not rear their head at some point)

[@conquestconsultingrealesta3544]

Lol, literally spot on! INFJ here and all I can do is laugh🤣

[@miahan8988]

I’m ENFP and I don’t ask myself “why not?” but “why yes?”, I’m very cautious 😐 I really don’t want to be blind and have on rose-coloured glasses.

[@evey89]

ENFP here too... I tend to be rather impulsive and just think everything is going to be absolutely perfect... and then genuinely shocked when it's not. Do I learn my lesson? No... no I do not haha

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Fellow ENFP here :)) The one and only thing thing I’m shockingly cautious about is romantic relationships. I’ve only had two crushes in my lifetime, during both of which I was content with just feeling giddy around a certain person and then going about my day. I wasn’t going to act upon any of my feelings because 1. Both of them were back in middle school and 2. I knew I was obviously more in love with the idea of the person rather than their actual selves. Also, what was I supposed to do about a crush in middle school? Get married? To me, the emotions had zero tangible purpose, which was exactly how I liked it; it was the purpose excuse to daydream about someone for hours without making any commitments to them in reality. I’m now in high school and I’ve been quite a few years without a crush. I’d much rather wait until I’m farther on in life to pursue relationships. I’ll be better off looking for romantic partners once I’m more mature, able to take care of myself (let alone a whole other person), financially stable, sure of my beliefs and goals, and generally having a direction in life. Sure, I won’t wait FOREVER, but I have plenty of years ahead of me until I think I’m ready to open that chapter. (Though of things somehow fall into place prior, I suppose I won’t object.)

[@miahan8988]

@@sophiaredwood5825 I have the same beliefs :) I have so much to work on, plus, I’m happily single, I don’t have the need to find someone. Also, I’m barely able to take care of myself, let alone a husband. Wishing you all the luck! 🤗💪🏻

[@sophiaredwood5825]

@@miahan8988 Best of luck to you too! And thank you! 🤩💞

[@culturecoroner]

Me too, to a degree. Did you, by any chance, have a parent who was a completely different and more structured type?

[@INTP_Apologist]

As an INTP, I relate to the ENTP the most, as well as the INTP, ISTP, the ISTJ, and a small bit to the xNTJs. Nice video in my opinion.

[@stephaniesarria9753]

Haha I am an ENFP, and this really IS how we show affection. Im constantly sending memes and my personal thoughts to my friends, but especially to my boyfriend. I always try to fit the humor to the person. This was so spot on 😂

[@hersheykisseys]

Hahah hi 5 i send memes and lame jokes to everyone close to me

[@zhraaashraf3131]

0:02 INFP 0:21 ISTP 0:44 ISFJ 0:48 INTJ 0:57 ESFP 1:13 ESTJ 1:29 ENFP 1:41 ENTP 1:54 INFJ 2:23 INTP 2:38 ESFJ 2:45 ESTP 2:50 ENTJ 3:05 ISFP 3:22 ISTJ 3:49 ENFJ

[@AndreaJosefineYoga]

I was literally just binge watching your personality videos!!

[@dearkristin]

Well, have another one on the house!! (Thank you!)

[@alysonsinkie9296]

Could you do a video on the "ideal pairings" interacting with each other? Like, I know that ENFPs and INFJs are supposed to be perfect each other and all that. Love your content

[@dearkristin]

They interacted briefly in my "16 personalities dating each other" video!

[@dearkristin]

Also, thank you!! 🥰

[@yourfavoritememory4223]

Can you do the male version of these? I’m curious if gender influences the expression of a personality type:)

[@dearkristin]

Hmmm this might be a question for the males in the audience!

[@furumetaru0232]

They really are quite similar actually I find myself doing some of these things. Guys are a lot more singleminded in interest but it depends on the person their experiences partly their personality type and so on

[@hobofett6215]

I mean I'm a guy and I go through basically every Introverted reaction on this video lol (although I'm pretty sure I am INTP but still researching)

[@zak3744]

The people's actions themselves, or how those actions bump up against societal expectations? For instance, "Am I going to do anything about it though?" might be the same behaviour but have different magnitudes of impact if you live in a society where the expectations for "doing something about it" tend to be gendered.

[@Soliprem]

@@dearkristin it's pretty much the same, just add in a random internal scream of frustration because there's the self expectation of having to make the first step, sprinkle in some staring at a wall brainstorming for ways to make compliments that can't be taken the wrong way, pop it in the oven for about 3 months of rumination and the cake is baked. That description didn't go as planned, but I like it

[@SidneyRayShacter]

as an ENFJ who once fully decorated my apartment with Valentine's decor, heart-shaped balloons, a handmade dessert with a note containing a handwritten poem for a person I had been seeing for less than a month... yeah, that's accurate 😂

[@SidneyRayShacter]

Not limited to romantic gatherings either !! My majority INFP friends and I also do a Palentines brunch with heart-shaped waffles each year, definitely living up to our MBTI stereotypes 🥰

[@freya7799]

That‘s so sweet!!! -INFP

[@em-fg06]

Ughh ! This is so sweet ! I wish I was your friend 😭 lol - ENFP

[@richardthury5293]

Actually this is the first time I relate more to the ENFJ. I would not post anything on social media, because my close friends would immediately know I like someone . :D I don't know, maybe it's just me... I really like the idea to prepare everything to a perfect date. Great video though! :) -INFJ

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, Richárd! Fair, I didn't consider the INFJ ghost social status!

[@flusel4949]

I feel exactly the same! I’m way too anxious about what others, especially my friends, may think when I post something on social media 😅

[@richardthury5293]

@@flusel4949 Well, I think I wouldn't be anxious, there are just things I rather keep to myself. My friends have my trust, but I only tell them how I feel about someone, when it's starting to get serious.

[@flusel4949]

@@richardthury5293 Maybe anxious wasn’t the right word... I completely trust my friends, but I like to decide when and how I tell them, when I like someone, and I don’t really like doing so on social media.

[@richardthury5293]

@@flusel4949 Exactly!😁

[@GoodSongs4all]

0:50 That INTJ thing. Yup! Need to wait. Then, within that waiting period, a lot of thoughts always pop up, like whether that person would be good enough throughout the life or whether the person can handle bad situation or something like that. Then, after a lot of thinking, the mind decides that the person is not good enough and it may turn out a little problematic at certain point of life, so ignore that person. The End.

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

I'm an ENFP and I like an INFJ. She posts highly relatable hot quotes on her instagram stories and I get surprised. I send jokes to her and I try to be affectionate but I feel really shy and nervous by talking to her face to face... She maybe thinks that I'm rude or uninterested but in reality I'm just akward. I hope she realize it with her witch powers lol

[@yuanyou2011]

That ISFP one is so on point 😂 That's literally me in all angles. 1. Doubting own feelings as I could be just overanalyzing it. 2. Not wanting to make a move unless the person I like shows it that that they're interested in me too. 3. Not wanting to be in a relationship bc I don't want to be bossed around by affections and not being able to do what I really want to do for myself. The 3rd part though, that was me before I met my ENFP boyfriend. I guess being committed isn't that bad 😅

[@glueball214]

INTJ.. I may be broken, I totally function like the ISTP character here. the inner monologue is spot on. Where do us robots go for repairs?

[@hersheykisseys]

Get to know an enfp

[@GhostofJung]

ISTP was freaking hilarious!

[@magiccake6776]

ISTP one though. I feel that. It's just "today I will be direct" and then the moment arrives and I'm like "abort mission! abort mission!"

[@claracatlady9844]

*INTJ:* We don’t have time for this. This is a temporary emotional … “thing” which will solve itself by simply repressing and ignoring it until it goes away. … and objectively speaking they aren’t even that great ok!

[@WolfoxBR]

INTJ is accurate. In my teens I would fall in love sometimes and take months to figure out the extent of what I was feeling, all the while trying to read any signs that meant it could be reciprocated, which was almost never the case. I wonder why, since young INTJs are so energetic and charming, and so talented in showing how they feel! ;) ISFP seems accurate too. My wife is ISFP and she once described to me how she had that same train of thought before we started dating. ;)

[@dearkristin]

It's a good thing to be able to wait! Teenage Kristin envies that! 🤣

[@ali.q6927]

As an ISTJ i respect INTJ's part. And I'm actually really sociable in the chat, but the emoji part is totally right, I'm terrible at choosing them =/

[@whitneyd6827]

0:45 was so soft. The ISFJ guy I'm seeing always makes sure to ask how my day has been 🥺 it's the little things

[@reshmapanjwani786]

As an INTJ I can confirm this.. as I had a crush on a friend and I literally stopped talking to him for a month to see if my feelings are real or just temporary.. :D

[@alartan111]

You can never talk to me again, let's find our true desires ;>

[@SuitedSlime]

I still don't trust my feelings lol. Never can be to analytical about it am I right?😂

[@thepickles8833]

That’s basically what’s happening to me at work.. and the damn woman is probably an ESTP

[@privatechannel1694]

I loved the ISTJ one! I've never actually done that, but I do worry about emojis communicating the wrong thing quite a bit! Also, it was hilarious how you had those googles in the background! ( reminder of the rainy day video ) I never wear googles, but it's still really funny!

[@HPcedarpoint13]

You’ve got ISTJ down so well, I think you understand me better than I understand myself 😂 that inferior Ne makes me overthink everything until I give up and do nothing.

[@katie6723]

the way I KNEW it was infj within the first 5 seconds of that clip....I've never felt so exposed in my entire life this is ridiculous

[@sunchips18]

1:04 Ummm…is ESFP really that simple, even IRL? I’m just imagining someone picking up their phone, and then just boom hearing “I like you” on the other end. Haha 2:09 Why did my heart sink in anticipation that the story would be them going on a date with someone else? 😅 - INFJ

[@dearkristin]

Haha I exaggerated a bit, but the point was that ESFPs wear their hearts on their sleeves, and if they like you, you'll know it! Hahaha wow, now that's too ruthless, even for me!

[@sunchips18]

@@dearkristin That’s actually pretty admirable. Haha I’ve always envied people that can do that. And yeah, that would’ve been ruthless. But from my experience, for as much as that INFJ was living in la la land, they’re building some sort of contingency plan in case everything goes south. 😅

[@xero6396]

Mine did at 2:09 too.

[@cloudfur29]

Hello, ISFJ here! Gosh, that ISFJ is on point 😂 If my crush and I become close enough, I send them encouraging texts like how the ESFJ in the video does! Ah, I love the video very much. Keep doing great, Kristin!

[@dearkristin]

Thank you 😁😁

[@jorohrbough5383]

Your ENFPs are 100% my favorite of any KZbinr! Always super on point yet without being overly exaggerated 😁

[@FalconOfStorms]

"But what if I wasn't indifferent. What if we decided to elope tonight on a lark. What if she's secretly a reptilian alien posing as a human being. What if reality is a simulation."

[@petersmall1574]

And if reality is a simulation, would it really matter all that much if she did turn out to be a reptilian alien?

[@FalconOfStorms]

@@petersmall1574 I mean...

[@lanaeburkhart7707]

the INTJ + ENTP ones are so accurate haha, also love your brooklyn nine-nine hoodie :)) love your videos!!

[@nopejhonson958]

INTP when they realize someone likes them: "Oh fuck no, not reliving highschool again, It's been 10 years just let us move on and let me sleep tonight, noooooooo, oh shit Cindy was flirting with me then based on the 30 youtube videos on flirting I have watched since then. Internal screaming intensifies as we proceed to go through our teenage years with a fine tooth comb." People wonder why I don't try to be more social or put myself out there, it's so I wont have to stay up all night reliving the worse moments of my life

[@mooh2802]

Your way to portray people is just so funny Even tho i am not that deeply into mbti and not a fan of it i really cant miss ur vids. You and Frank James are just too funny and make it interesting :D

[@dearkristin]

Aww, thank you!!

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Omg the ENFP is so accurate. I try and make them laugh as much as possible but like I can’t flirt to save my life. But yeah tell them all my random thoughts, try to talk to them as much as possible, try to work out her type and then also work out what she might like, and also if they aren’t straight before I tell them (cause otherwise that’s awkward if I ask her and she’s straight). Also Brooklyn 99 is one of my fave shows, love the jacket.

[@JoustingJaguar]

I could never do what this INFJ does. The abundant room for miscommunication would trigger my social anxiety and my tendency for over-analysis would make it worse. When relaying important information to someone, I'm about as subtle as a battle axe, though I generally try to be tactful.

[@Diaming787]

INTJ here: please do what ESFP in this video does. No games, no flirting, no bs. Straight and to the point. I can't do it myself personally because I'm too awkward and can't read emotional cues, it just gets too complicated.

[@itsjune4215]

The enfp with the b99 hoodie is quite frankly just lovable. How do you nail this sketches every time??

[@dracsharp]

Acting without expectations does make you fearless and very genuine. You can praise and compliment and confess simply because you feel like it, not because you need others to like you.

[@dearkristin]

👌👌

[@delusionalfan]

When esfp decided to call someone to say she likes someone, I was like, hmmm that would have been uncomfortable for some people to see the call and even attempt to answer it, imagine hearing that after actually picking up the call lol, I would have thought it was a prank

[@neveragain8904]

I like your username 😎

[@draspotnuk]

I remember when an esfp did that to me, INTJ back in the day. Totally flipped the script on me. It was a haymaker to my sense of control. My once confident self became the biggest wuss, and I didn’t know how to respond. She was really cool 😎 but life goes on.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

There is a Brian/Bryan out there somewhere who thinks you are using your infj character to communicate to him about your crush on him. Nice one, Brian/Bryan. Nice one.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

hahaha!!

[@dearkristin]

He should then swiftly refer to the ESFP sketch, to debunk said theory.

[@dearkristin]

Also, this comment is hilarious 😂

[@elvenfangirl817]

ISFP personality sketches usually don't this soul-crushing feeling of "oh my goodness that is so true" but this one... This one does