Dhar Mann Solves Racism

[@TaelorSmith]

So that story about the adopted girl is actually something that a lot of interracial adoptions go through. I’ve even heard my friends talk about how they’re lighter skinned than their parents and would constantly have to prove that they belong to their parents. The video Dhar made is a lil stupid though because the school would ALREADY KNOW that the daughter is in an interracial home. It’s usually something that gets discussed pretty early on in the enrollment process in order to keep stuff like this from happening. His video also could have focused on the mental toll accusations like this have on the child... the video is just bad.

[@mhm77887]

@@Dragnulls can you not? If you don't believe in God, that's fine, just live your life. Don't force feed your opinions to others. Learn to respect other people's beliefs. Seriously, shut up. It's also completely off topic.

[@politicalwhore4838]

@@Dragnulls uh what

[@l.g.956]

This happened to my cousin's biological kids (she's italian/german and her husband and kids are Pacific islander) and it makes me so mad, like she has been stopped by TSA before because they thought she wasn't related to her children.

[@TaelorSmith]

@@Dragnulls what does this have to do w/ anything ?

[@Emilunatrix]

I came here to say this. I read an article about a single black man who fostered challenging white kids and even ended up adopting some, and he’s had the actual police called on him while out.

[@bubby632]

"Don't be racist, be classist"-Dhar Mann

[@slow_hunter_]

Absolute 📠

[@yuenmienyu]

don't bodyshame your partner, because one day, they might lose weight - dhar mann

[@i_garfed_on_the_carpet]

@@yuenmienyu “Don’t be racist to a black person… because they might turn white!” - Fictional Dhar Mann

[@gollossalkitty]

Don't improve lives, CHANGE LIVES 👍-Dhar Mann

[@calowenby1654]

Yeah, it does seem like Dhar thinks that way.

[@dieselpatches]

Dhar Mann also solved sexism by stating girls can play videos games too.

[@penguinsrbirds2]

@@Dragnulls Reporting all these dumbass comments as spam. Why are there so many spambots on this video? There are at least 3 different bots spamming messages on all the top comments.

[@user-vi3bm2mx2h]

@@Dragnulls what does any of this have to do with diarrhea mann?

[@user-vi3bm2mx2h]

@@Dragnulls ok but most people who are religious who would read that probably would still believe in god, so it's both unrelated and basically pointless

[@irenemt728]

LMAO HEY DADDY DIESEL

[@gummybearslong8432]

@@Dragnulls k

[@parasynesis9260]

"don't be racist, they might be rich." maybe just be a decent human being? if the black boy was poor, he still deserves the same ammount of respect.

[@CatalinRam]

I like your pfp, also a SU fan here :D

[@unknown-u2v3m]

@@CatalinRamWE ARE THE CRYSTAL GEMS WE ALWAYS SAVE THE DAY AND IF U THINK WE CANT WE WILL ALWAYS FIND A WAY THATS Y THE PPL OF THIS WORLD BELIEVE IN GARNET AMETHYST AND PEARL AND STEVEN!!!

[@suriish3re]

This

[@champ1159]

@@unknown-u2v3m ALL I WANNA DO, IS YOU TURN INTO A GIANT WOMAN, A GIANT WOMAN!!!

[@alessandraserpes]

This is so true

[@rexthelegend3180]

Please note: homeless people don’t need to eat the food you give them-and don’t get offended if they refuse. My uncle was homeless and, at one point, he was literally given a sandwich (from Subway I think) that had rocks in it. The two dudes who gave it to him were sitting away from him, waiting to see if he’d eat the sandwich and pick out the rocks. Also, this isn’t a super uncommon thing. Plenty of people will fuck with the homeless, so know if they refuse food-it’s for their own safety.

[@kamillesmith2228]

No BC Fr like they Alr aren’t going through it and then they assume all homeless people shouldn’t have money it’s good to give them money so they can get what they need weather that’s drugs or supplies to live but people with poke fun and record but then the homeless person is the bad person for putting them in their place or trying to scare them away bc it literally costs to live and no one asked to be here

[@hellformichelle]

People who do shit like that are truly the lowest of the low in my eyes. Who would even come up with such a horrid idea? Like, are they proud of themselves for kicking people who are already down? It's so disgusting.

[@PawsandRec]

Thank you for bringing this up, I'm homeless and have received messed with food like that

[@PawsandRec]

Y'all give me hope ♥️

[@Scout800DR]

Well, I mean, doesn't everybody know that homeless people don't eat? They don't sleep either. They don't drink, they don't do anything really. They just sit there silently, judging you, and in the end times the jury of Vagrants will strike revenge on ALL that did them wrong!

[@frying_pann7076]

“My name is Ebony…” “Ebony Darkness Dementia Ravenway, and this is my daughter, Scarlet Johansen.”

[@vinnyart92]

how DARE you

[@sharvareedeshpande4309]

Ohhh myyy goddd I'm calling the school security guard

[@allicat9499]

Ebony Darkness Dementia Ravenway with her adopted Daughter, Snow White Ivory Soap

[@warloslaurez2374]

Only real ones will know

[@greatestgianni]

I knew I couldn't be the only one

[@ThatPazuzu]

I like that the lesson isn't "racism is bad" it's "make sure you're not talking to a rich person before being racist"

[@rhay1255]

wait this is actually so true, that’s literally how every video ends

[@the_entity3073]

@@Dragnulls ok spammer

[@YIMBYKieran]

Spatza how is religion false

[@darksunite8050]

@@Dragnulls Shut up atheist

[@angelikaskoroszyn8495]

@Spatza I'm an atheist but your spam made me want to pray to the non-existent God. This is not how you make people listen to your ideas That being said I've never seen Ice Giants in my life so Thor might exist after all

[@annastascia878]

The lesson is almost always like, “Don’t be mean to people. They could be rich. “

[@Hamnamfam]

Stop advertising your video.

[@clickedweasel1791]

The song was just absolute cringe and garbage. It sounds like he’s reading off a quote generator.

[@xvp08]

yeah

[@pinkity914]

And thats how mafia works xx

[@JustJaidenism]

@@joshroehl6098 kzbin.info/www/bejne/hl6lZIKCgbqihJY

[@annualleopard3063]

"Toxic positivity" is the perfect phrase to describe these types of videos. Good messages executed lazily and immaturely. Great video as usual 👌

[@carbon5525]

No most of jarvises points are just misunderstanding the message of the video. This is lost evident of the black friend one. The point of it isn’t that the mom shouldn’t be racist because he was rich, it’s because she was wrong about her stereotypes. Skin tone does not have any bearing on intelligence or wealth, and that video proved her wrong. He COULD have been poor and dumb, but then she would have been right and would continue being a racist assuming all black people are poor and dumb. The point is that by Martin being rich, it proves that skin tone doesn’t determine your wealth or intelligence, so her stereotype would be wrong.

[@fadeuhhway]

@@carbon5525 but it still comes back to money . Even if it was about wealth transcending race and color. But I believe that based on the other videos , it was more of embarrassment for being wrong and even though it was a POC who’s wealthy when the woman is racist af , she didn’t have some revelation that black people also could rich, it’s more “shit I was wrong YOU do have money I shouldn’t have assumed you didn’t “ I forgot exactly what she actually said since I’m writing this after but either way , the main takeaway is supposed to be don’t judge a book by its cover, because the inside of the book could’ve been cut out to hold a hidden stash of gold” Basically it was more a revelation solely about how she treated Martin, not all POCs

[@carbon5525]

@@fadeuhhway nah

[@aegeon5650]

@@carbon5525 that’s not a very accurate way to interpret racism. The way that video turned out would do nothing to challenge that woman’s view of black people as a whole. Because the thing is She doesn’t hate black people because she thinks they’re stupid and Poor, it’s the other way around. She thinks black people are stupid and poor because she has such a low opinion of them. She believes be it consciously or subconsciously that this is just how black people are, that they are simply lesser people which leads to them making less money and getting poorer grades. which is why she uses terms like “you people”. All she would’ve taken away from that kid revealing he’s smart and rich is that she should treat him differently, not all black people differently. It’s a classic case of the “you’re one of the good ones” mentality that bigots adopt when they meet someone who challenges their view of the group. Whenever they’re confronted with something that disproves their bias they view at the exception rather than the norm.

[@mparagames]

@@carbon5525 Yeah because according to your logic, black people (and every other minority, for that matter) would deserved to be mistreated for no reason other than they being a minority. UNLESS they are rich.... Ah yes makes sense.....

[@Kevin_L_]

“He’s the smartest kid in my school” “He probably doesn’t even go to school” Bruh

[@smcb9979]

this one made me f-cking lose my mind, what do you MEAN you don't think black people GO TO SCHOOL??? what??? like maybe she meant she thinks he skips school but like??? he's ENROLLED, he HAS to be

[@suriish3re]

@@bitspop8239 ICE CREAM, ICE CREAM, ICE CREAM, CHILLIN'--- (sorry I had to)

[@Ilikebugs2464]

That pfp gave me a form of depression that only quagsire could cure

[@Rekter]

That was the stupidest line in the whole video, like I can’t even understand why she would say that...

[@frying_pann7076]

Your profile makes me sad

[@heatherpony]

"You're black, smart AND rich??" *Racism swiftly escapes body*

[@GamerGamerGamer77777]

yeah

[@CounterMS]

Yeah

[@karmanicisadumbass]

Yeah

[@SippenTeaa]

Yeah

[@cryxbxby656]

yeah

[@wesvorley5149]

“Love has no color” - The crowd goes wild, and Kendall Jenner comes in and hands everyone a Pepsi.

[@beevstew1896]

the thing is, dhar man already made a story the exact same as the last one in this video, just that its a black man with a white son.

[@youtubedislikebutton983]

we did it boys, racism is no more

[@ganna8422]

Not the pepsi ✋😂

[@youtubedislikebutton983]

@@ganna8422 yes the pepsi

[@ganna8422]

@@youtubedislikebutton983 omg 😂

[@Isabella-qz6dq]

Dhar Mann always has the same “Don’t judge a book by its cover” lesson. He never gets to the root of the issue. Its like racism, sexism, misogyny, transphobia, homophobia, are forbidden words. The black kid was accused of stealing due to racism, and she had been racist throughout the whole video, but her kid doesn’t say “You’re being racist.” Even though it is implied, it would have more impact being spoken because even though racists are racist, they don’t like being called racist. Then the kids parents end up being rich and they apologize. And then Dhar Mann hits you with the “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” And its literally saying “Oh you can be racist..but not if their parents or they are rich.” 💀🤚🏼

[@carbon5525]

You’re completing missing the point. It isn’t “oh don’t be racist because they might be rich” it’s “don’t be racist because racial stereotypes aren’t true for everybody, like it has always been the case” oh and also because it’s just a basic human thing to do. The fact that Martin was rich and smart, the opposite of the stereotype of black people being poor and dumb just proves that skin tone doesn’t determine your fate, like wealth and intelligence like the mom thought. Some people are still saying she’ll now only respect black people that are rich. Like, no, her lesson was basically that she shouldn’t judge somebody before they get to know them because racial stereotypes aren’t true for everybody. If he wasn’t rich, then she would have been proven right and no lesson learned

[@Yammerzaki123fr]

@@carbon5525 no they weren’t?

[@xofrnkiee]

@@carbon5525 sounds like they got the point to me. the lesson is excited lazily which makes it seem less serious than it really is.

[@carbon5525]

@@Yammerzaki123fr they did tho by saying that only don’t be racist because he could be rich, when i said that wasn’t the point.

[@Yammerzaki123fr]

@@carbon5525 that's what i'm saying as well, they know the msg it was conveying but the result just turned to seem like 'dont be racist bc they might be rich' like @Perris said over here

[@AdamadA2]

Morals of the video: give trash to homeless people, don’t be racist to the rich and turns out you can adopt kids

[@EatyourWafflesplease]

fr so many of his videos about homeless people just portray them as ways for rich people to feel good about themselves by doing the bare minimum rather than actual fucking people

[@molly.dog8brooke792]

@@joshroehl6098 Stop

[@japanesemyth]

Honestly the stuff wasnt trash, Ive seen people actually give trash to homeless people. "heres a half eaten burger with my teeth marks in it!" "Heres a blanket I knitted out of plastic bags I saw on Instagram. Im saving the planet!" Ticks me the fuck off. But a sweatshirt with some water on it or an untouched doggie bag half of sandwich or fries is pretty golden. At least from my experience.

[@sapphire5131]

@@japanesemyth assuming by doggie bag, you mean the ones you clean up after your dog with, what would a homeless person do with it? I'm not saying they wouldn't have a purpose for it but I personally cant think of one, maybe I'm just dumb

[@haagan]

@@joshroehl6098 very cool song

[@thawunk1056]

Jarvis talks about Dhar Mann, and lives to regret it.

[@JJ_lol]

Lmao

[@mooncrysys]

don't give hi ideas

[@anniedangerface]

@@floralnightgowns he’s probably hoping Jarvis will pull a Cody Ko and go for a collab

[@moreplz]

Jarvis talks about Dhar Mann, and does not live long enough to regret it.

[@nherty6172]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Jabrils]

be careful about what black family you treat like delinquents, they just might drive a Tesla ✨

[@Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmm]

"I hate black people" "Obama was the president" "Fuuuuuuck you got a point nvm lol"

[@blckotaku5250]

Jabrils bro big fan didn't think i would find you I bet this is what you do between uploads

[@happi2659]

@@Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmm i feel like if people hated black people you shouldn’t remind them about that cuz then they will go on. rant about bird cameras and shit

[@hiddenleafdrip3869]

All those years of racist ideologies and bigotry that she surrounded herself in and tried to push on her child have been washed away because.......her son's black friend's father drives a expensive car.

[@Funnyrottenluck]

Very well said 😌

[@facanadio]

And remember "we are not just telling stories, were making money".

[@alduinfr]

that's the entire point of making videos at youtube

[@facanadio]

That's the point of my comment. They do make their videos to make money.

[@xstrawberryaveryx9550]

"We're not just telling stories, we're promoting classism."

[@waewae]

​@@alduinfr i dont know. what if a person just wants to make content and build a community around that?

[@IsabellaBloedorn]

The endings of these “don’t be racist” type of videos just feel even more racist by the end. The first one’s lesson was basically “oh if black people are rich, then you shouldn’t be racist,” and the second one’s was “if a black parent has a good enough reason, then ig don’t be racist about them adopting a white kid.” Like what

[@starduststriker8792]

tbh all of these "morals" that they try to teach are completely ruined by their endings. Be nice to poor people, because your mom might give you a PS5. Be nice to black people, because they might be rich. Only do good when you expect a reward in the end.

[@who8518]

the all have a toxic ending. somebody else already said this im pretty sure but giving off the ‘happily ever after’ every time isnt realistic and just shows that no matter what a person does that’s fucked up, it’s okay in the end, meanwhile in REAL life it’s nothing similar to this. not many people are that “understanding” and those bs reasons arent real reasons to be understanding for anyway.

[@LM-ix7pk]

That’s what most “anti-racist” campaigns and figures are. They just make the problem worse by trying way too hard to be ‘woke’ that they miss the whole point of discussing racism in the first place

[@bloodyneptune]

The first ones a trip too. "Wow, that _quarter_ I gave that homeless (?) woman was worth so much to her she cried, giving a homeless person a quarter is going to change their life and also make me an amazing person. So amazing Im not even going to take my reward of a gaming system costing hundreds of dollars." They ah....they really put that kid up on a pedestal for giving those things he was going to throw out and 25 cents to homeless people. I mean...he could have gotten the PS5, sold his pS4, then used that money give that literal homeless child an entire sandwich that like, nobody at all had already ate part of. Or I dunno, I feel like if that lady was sitting in an alley with a cardboard sign just to get 25 more cents for a bus ticket like...shes going to have a multitude of problems still when she gets to her destination. I just think if you're going to make a video with a message about helping those with less than you, I dunno, maybe make it more than a half eaten sandwich and a quarter. And maybe also dont then have the homeless people be like ";_; wow this is exactly what i needed and nothing else, this stained garbage sweater you could have washed first but ok is amazing and all i needed and you, sir, are a hero. oh look the ants on the ground i sleep on are attracted to this coke stain."

[@thatoneguy5433]

@@LM-ix7pk how exactly

[@예랑-g8d]

dhar mann’s solutions are essentially stuff like “problem? no problem. just solve.”

[@stronkcat2112]

first

[@meperd0nas172]

drowning? just swim

[@MissRusababy]

dying? Just live

[@AlexWolf1203]

failing? just pass

[@예랑-g8d]

is fat? just more skinny

[@ericksantiago9130]

"Are you the nanny or the maid or something?" Literally happened all the time when my mom would go out with my brother cause she's dark and he's super white passing. She says that they called the cops on her in the mall once cause they thought she was kidnapping him.

[@ashleyking3385]

Thats so insane to me! people are messed up though. My God mother is black and from Egypt I don't remember ever having this happen when I was with her. (I'm not trying to say it doesn't happe . it totally happens. I've just never seen or heard it around me to the best of my knowledge)

[@sapphicsiren]

It's unfortunate that people's biases and colourism pop up in situations like that. My family is Asian/Latine, and my Latino (darker skin) father would get questioned about being our father when he would take my sibling to the park because my sibling was light skinned as a toddler.

[@clydeclyde4941]

This was me but on on smaller scale. My dad is white and I’m mixed. When I was little and at stores with my dad people always stared at him, assuming that I was being kidnapped instead of the possibility that he was my father.

[@Kfinny55]

Happened to my mom too! She has lighter skin but me and my bro are pale af! Also happened when my oldest brother and I were at a grocery store when I was little. He has darker skin and the cashier asked if I “needed help” wtf 💀

[@lenochod6]

That is insane, I thought like that was a really stretch. But that this situation have ever happened is so fucked up. wow...

[@AKbaby89]

I was homeless for a little over 2 years while I was applying for disability, and it still blows my mind how many people truly think homeless people are just a waste of space. I really appreciate you always speaking positively about homeless people, it's so much easier to just go with the majority and make fun of them. Thank you🙌

[@olivercharles2930]

I am not homeless, but even I have seen a shocking amount vitriol towards homeless people. On reddit in particular they seem to think every homeless person is a psychotic drug addict who shits everywere...

[@nationalinstituteofcheese3012]

A lot of people donate clothes with holes and food that’s going bad. Because being homeless means you’re not a real person apparently and you should be lucky to get the scraps from the better people

[@drooooop]

@@nationalinstituteofcheese3012 This is so entitled it’s hilarious. Oh no, clothes with holes! We should be throwing those in landfills because they’re too good for the homeless. I literally thrift clothes with holes all the time. Imagine expecting people to donate new things to you for free.

[@palemeadows]

@@drooooopimagine wanting to be treated well!

[@princeluffy412]

It's unfortunate, but many people still see us (the disabled) as a waste of space too. And a drain on the system. People can be exhausting. 🫠

[@snowbubbles]

*gives a half eaten sandwich, a water stained sweatshirt, and a quarter* Mother: *crying* THAT DESERVES A PS5!

[@jinxd4398]

Correction, it was diet coke

[@arbiduzzamansyed4254]

Correction, it was 2 half eaten sandwiches

[@beezneez6596]

= one full sandwich

[@jkishhabi]

Lol, the comment of his mom carrying everything that he wanted to throw away sounds like an anime monster, a walking pile of perfectly good cast off items following after him as an adult wailing at him to be grateful for what he has, heh

[@jkishhabi]

Dhar Mann = Capitalist Boomer Emotional Porn

[@Danymok]

What I hate about the second one is that the mom feels bad only because she realized the black kid is smart and rich. The lesson should be that even if he wasn't that smart and wasn't rich, you should still treat them with respect. All the mom learned now is: "From now on I won't be racist to all black people, just poor black people"

[@knuckl6972]

I agree. The message of that video ended up not being "don't be racist" but turns out to be "don't be racist to kids whose parents own teslas"

[@alias4795]

Exactly.

[@spaghetto9836]

Racist people need continual exposure to what they're averse to, like phobia therapy. An exposure that destroys their exact bias. They meet one good human of the race they hate & think they're just the exception, then more and more until their judgement changes. So I think it's good that she sees that blacks can achieve stuff, & that's what'll start changing her. If her bias was in thinking we're all violent, then what she needed was to meet kind poc... and so on. The respect for every individual comes naturally later.

[@JasperXCXeon]

"you don't have to stop being racist, just add classism into the mix" - Dhar Mann probably

[@dunkey759]

Exactly. His videos have a very toxic message. In one, it's about an overweight woman who is shamed by her husband. The story was more about kArMa, when it shouldve been about self love and acceptance

[@Ella35222]

“She doesn’t even have the same last name, how can she be her mother?!?!” I can confirm. As soon as my mom divorced and went back to her maiden name, half of my DNA disappeared, and I am no longer related to her

[@graciespaceycakes3714]

My mother, who gave birth to me, kept her maiden name when she married my dad. That was a decade before I was born. I am and have always been 0% related to her

[@gryffindornim]

@@graciespaceycakes3714 same

[@disasterenbee]

can also confirm, my mom took her new husband's last name when they married and ever since then I haven't been related to her

[@Ella35222]

@@disasterenbee it must be rough being raised by 2 complete strangers

[@disasterenbee]

@@Ella35222 it is, no clue why they insisted on raising me since we're definitely not related to each other anymore

[@BlaineChlala-Lubbe]

as someone who was taught, never waste food, i have a very unhealthy relationship with food currently and hearing you speak about your experience honestly just warmed my heart to make me know that im not alone.

[@thetableoflegend9814]

Second story: she finds out that he’s poor and gets even more racist

[@roxxydesign4424]

lmaoooo

[@prexp9026]

If they don't make 10k a month, you are legally allowed to be racist to them. /s

[@che7269]

Yooooo🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@ethanfreeman9243]

LMAOOO

[@bladerkira888]

@@MakingAUsername dude people don’t need to go do /s

[@dunnovanronel]

My aunt’s name is Ebony Jones. This is cool and scarring at the same time.

[@the_test013]

@John D Gates omg stop 💀

[@amberwingtundrawing776]

Thats a sick name, sounds like the protagonist of a Detective novel

[@dunnovanronel]

@John D Gates Not that this helps, but she is also from New Orleans.

[@bookwormsensation8024]

my cats named ebony lmfao

[@Rabbit-the-One]

Dope

[@KingNothing1118]

KKK: ~exists~ A Black person: ~is a doctor~ KKK: damn I never knew. ~disbands~ Everybody: ~claps~

[@manbabymonke]

Single handed solved racism

[@gj9352]

Delete this before Dhar actually makes it! 😠😂

[@modernkiwi6447]

Kendal Jenner: ~hands everyone a Pepsi~

[@whitespyder9]

This comment straight up made me laugh out loud.

[@fongus6420]

KKK: oh sorry we didn’t know **disappears**

[@portorolla4157]

People not having the privilege of having the same amount of food we have doesn't mean you need to force your kids to gorge their food which can lead to bigger health problems in the future. Of course, as a three year old maybe, you could use the "I'm full!" excuse simply to get back to what you were doing, but older kids like the one in this video know damn well what their body is telling them and how much food to take in. It doesn't mean you need to throw it away every time, as saving it for later is also an option, but forcing children to eat when they're not hungry is just not a good argument and too dangerous.

[@nael-vera576]

Lady: "Don't your parents feed you?" Me: dOn'T yOu gO gRoCeRy sHoPpInG?

[@grim1044]

Tbh though who doesn't have a second milk container

[@comphethime4966]

Also who’s feeding kids Cheerios unless they wanted it but realistically? What’s the chance? Like lady do you feed your son?

[@coralline1984]

@@grim1044 Not me. I always do. 😂

[@ratsp903]

ur suPPosed to buy stuff befOre it runs out aaaa

[@coralline1984]

@@ratsp903 That’s true

[@RachelleAshmanWells]

Anyone else feel like the last one was kinda racist? Like, the response to "You're a black mom to a white daughter, she should be with her own kind!" was essentially "Oh it's okay 'cause I knew her mom and she was cool with me adopting her white kid, I'm the exception." Felt like it implied she needed a REASON to have a multiracial family. Why couldn't the answer just be that she loved her and gave her a good home, and that's all that matters? Idk, kinda sus that he would write a script where the "lesson" is that a black mom can have a white kid if she was given permission by the white mom??

[@buzzinbea]

Right? Both videos having to do with racism are centered around the black person PROVING that you shouldn't be racist to them. Like the lesson can't just be "Don't be racist because it's flat out wrong" but it has to be "Don't be racist because he's actually RICH!" etc.

[@ZachPlum]

@@Dragnulls ah yes, simply abolish a country

[@cameronmcphee8224]

@@Dragnulls Leave people and their beliefs alone. You have no proof, nothing confirming to you that there is no god of life after death or whatever you would like to call it. Think religion is a blight upon society if you want, but do not call for the deaths of people for “messing up society” by being associated with a system you have a personal issue with when likely a lot of them have done absolutely nothing to spread it at all. Faith is an important thing to a lot of people and it helps them, there is no proof of them being wrong, you are not a god yourself so don’t tell people they are wrong about existence and such. Religion hasn’t ruined society. People like you calling for the deaths or punishments of other people based on things that do not reflect what they’re like as a person and grouping them into categories as bad is the biggest problem society has ever faced, so if you care at all about it you will never speak of something like that in this way again, and never call for the deaths of innocents based on religion. Remember the Holocaust?

[@cinnamonwaffles2209]

Thats the point racist its to show that people are racist im soory if thos is so upsetting to you 😒😒😒😒😒🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@ninaasf-ck]

@Lucy Perry I reported it as spam.

[@strawberryqueen0382]

“Even though he seems like a nice guy doesn’t mean he’s immune from criticism.” Yes. Yes. YES.

[@stronkcat2112]

ok

[@AlexWolf1203]

Factss 🔥

[@Omnipresentponi]

Yea ppl automatically assume that just bc ur nice doesn't mean there's something ur not doing wrong know what i mean

[@GivenFailure]

Idk, to me Dhar Mann seems like a narcissist with delusions of grandeur, but whatever.

[@jdwmyt]

Q: Why did the two 4's skip lunch? A: They already 8 (ate).

[@adinarosenstein9586]

Jarvis, I'm so glad you brought up the problem with forcing a child to eat more food than they can handle. That's something I dealt with a lot as a child, and I theorize that it may have led to me having an eating disorder in middle school. Seeing you talk about it was really validating. Thanks.

[@kadehilton9531]

"Eat your food boy, there's a starving African child right now wishing he had that food, so eat it before he can have any!"

[@docchoc2407]

yes

[@TheCoolSuperPea]

yes

[@zenna6000]

ok

[@scoutman66]

Survival of the fittest kid

[@yoshisarethebomb]

It’s funny because not everyone in Africa is poor.

[@teagannorconk6327]

Child: Pours milk into his cereal Mom: *I’M ABOUT TO GET RACIST*

[@quaishan5628]

Life in 1892

[@Idk-do1ui]

@@quaishan5628 Dude cereal back in 1892 was awesome

[@klop4228]

"Milk is WHITE, it belongs to WHITE people."

[@user-xh6cg7zf9h]

plot twist: it's because she's the kind of heathen who pours the milk first

[@autumns6582]

@@user-xh6cg7zf9h u may be on to something there

[@oliveranderson928]

"This is the last quarter I needed to buy a PS5" totally killed me. X'D

[@shrekatemyonions]

Pro-tip: if a character suddenly goes from rags to riches, it’s because they started their own business. Starting your own business always works (except for when it doesn’t)

[@dareangel96]

Literally why do we still have to explain to ppl that “bad” black ppl still deserve respect? Like if Martin was poor and was failing school...he’s a kid

[@fabraygrande]

yes! this!

[@BrothaMan831]

You don’t have to explain that to anyone these are fake hyperbolized stories to stir emotions this never ever happens. And I mean there are “bad” people that don’t deserve respect but that is irrespective of skin color

[@dareangel96]

@@BrothaMan831 …we collectively as a society literally had a whole discussion last year about whether a not so good black man deserved to be choked to death in the middle of the street. This video is an exaggeration but it’s an exaggeration of real life situations black people (men especially) are out through every day

[@beezneez6596]

He was on drugs, it slowed his breathing; he wouldn't have died if he wasn't drugged up

[@nauticalcynosurenc2706]

@Beez Neez why would someone kneel on someone else's neck anyway?

[@VinceTheCreatorr]

As a 25 Black guy the amount of times i've heard "Oh You're one of the Good ones"

[@_Astrogirl_]

Same lol

[@frumbolo]

@@Dragnulls Bro chill

[@duk7933]

@@Dragnulls you realise how racist you are people can belive in what they want

[@Polska_Edits]

@@Dragnulls bot.

[@kittycornstudios3171]

Omg same

[@aeroprpt]

Parents Logic: Kid: finishes meal even if they were full Starving kids in Africa: has food magically appear infront of them

[@ΧαράλαμπιαΔελη]

It doesn't make any sense! If you want to help starving kids then stop buying food that you're not going to eat and donate the money you would spent on it.

[@kumjumba1377]

Yeah, even us african kids aren't immune from it.

[@yannas2803]

No, its a phrase. Its basically like the phrase "Another man's trash, is another man's treasure." Be happy with what you have, because other people (in this case the children in Africa) have less.

[@youn820]

@@yannas2803 i appreciate you for explaining it but i'm sure they're joking

[@suriish3re]

The accuracy

[@stellar3746]

When I was 16, I was at an LCBO with my dad and we are different races cuz I'm adopted (I'm Chinese and he's Italian). We were having some confusion at check out cuz we didn't realize I wasn't allowed to hold beer if I was underage and were talking to the manager about it because my dad literally just needed help carrying like 7 packs of beer. As the kerfuffle was happening, this random woman came up to me and started telling me how "I don't have to listen to him" and "I can run away." At the time I was like wtf that's kinda weird. Then, we left the store and the same woman was following us calling my dad a terrible person and like evil and shit. I was like lmao, what is she on about. ??? and my dad pointed out that we weren't the same race. I honestly never really thought about it too much until this happened.

[@yolandaponkers1581]

What gets me about Dhar Mann’s videos is that the message is always, “Don’t treat people like trash because they may be rich.” You should be kind to everyone because it’s the right thing to do.

[@neveronhereXD]

Or more commonly "don't break up with your partner cause they might be wealthy someday" or something like that :y

[@yoshisarethebomb]

He also makes a video mocking BLM where a girl holds a sign saying "Fire all cops" but a cop saves her and he says "dOn'T jUdgE mE" But then he acts like he's "wOkE" and "EnDiNg RaCiSm"

[@legospider1437]

Your right. You should be nice to everyone because it's the right thing to do... and they might be rich

[@weeweeman5822]

Worse thing is his audience are children and he’s teaching them a bad lesson

[@shaylapimentel8576]

That is not what he is trying to show the lady was saying that he is probably poor cause he is black when she never even knew about his past but since she was judging him about that there trying to show that not all black people are poor or that you shouldn't judge someone by the color of there skin but people like you guys just want a reason to hate on him

[@GSKStudios]

Actuall Moral: Wait for a while to know whether the black person is rich or not. If the black person is poor, you can be racist. If they are rich, don't.

[@arjunpote6138]

@@rowaneditspeppa3361 it was joke bro😂

[@arjunpote6138]

@@rowaneditspeppa3361 oh srry👍

[@haleybutler5796]

Lmao

[@froogletanimations1086]

“Oh you’re one of the good ones

[@creed8712]

Is it race based classism or class based racism. 🤔

[@dunkey759]

Moral: if your partner is abusive, tell them a random sad story that happened in 3rd grade and then forgive them even though they fractured your left arm 5 times

[@jvnxiie2441]

Yeah Bc they will learn to _INSTANTLY REGRET_ It

[@onlymusic1691]

@@jvnxiie2441 that's hilarious man 🤣🤣

[@soratt]

Factz

[@LuunnaGaia]

@@jvnxiie2441 only if you bookend either side of the story with "so you see........"

[@jvnxiie2441]

@@LuunnaGaia once that happens, you HAVE TO start your reply with “oh my god, I-I had no idea..... I’m sorry...”

[@swanofoceane]

The French movie "He Even Has Your Eyes" Or "Il a Déjà Tes Yeux" is a really good movie that illustrates the difficulties of interracial adoption. Albeit it is all in France but a lot of the same beliefs are present in America.

[@whatif5108]

I love this movie, I recommend it to everyone whenever I can

[@jakenahas4684]

Mom:”son, your actions just caused 10 million deaths in Africa” Son: “ya know, it’s really not my fucking problem”

[@vizthex]

lmfao this made me laugh way harder than it should've

[@alvhawk4461]

Kids in Africa when you eat the meal: stonks

[@yourfatboy5359]

I missed the part where thats my problem

[@purple.things]

Spoken like a true politician

[@Xzsh-ol9jg]

I love how the backstories in these videos are more unrealistic than the backstories that anime villains have

[@vaishnavisingh9244]

bruh honestly, destroyed the continent cause you were bored and can't feel alive? Understandable, have a nice day. But these elaborate backstories about how my childhood best friend died from cancer (not even mentioning the birthfather's or the mother's family) and then gave her one-year-old daughter to me. She could have gotten the baby at an orphanage, it ain't always that deep.

[@Xzsh-ol9jg]

@@vaishnavisingh9244 could you write that again. But with better English coz I understood nothing

[@vaishnavisingh9244]

@@Xzsh-ol9jg ah sorry it's not my first language, but I was referencing Black Clover villain, and the back story presented in the video. It doesn't always have to be so deep and detailed (eg: my childhood best friend died from cancer and gave her daughter to me), you could have gotten her at an orphanage and you adopted her so it is still valid.

[@Xzsh-ol9jg]

@@vaishnavisingh9244 I means she’s your best friend so she might’ve trusted you the most

[@vaishnavisingh9244]

@@Xzsh-ol9jg What I am saying is it doesn't matter where you got your child from, most times it's simple (you adopt them), it's not always this deep. You can have a child of a different race without getting the firstborn daughter of your best friend.

[@gin2943]

"I'm not racist. I'm just classist."

[@PanAndScanBuddy]

"I only kick people when they're down. That's what heroes do!"

[@prexp9026]

Classical Classist

[@modlar265]

Classiest Classical Classic

[@redcraig-]

Im the classiest classic that ever classicied on this earth

[@mybigyear]

Exactly

[@archiviste209]

I love how they portray teens because like it makes it seem like all of us either need to be saints or extremely ungrateful so rude appreciates nothing. Like it just feels like how a 50 year old views teens

[@willowwhisp3550]

“*blatant, extremely hurtful racism*” “why are you racist? just stop” “well yeah but i should still be racist” “but wait here’s this important thing i didn’t tell you that just conveniently happened now” “wow that was so moving im not racist anymore”

[@TPNsBiggestFan]

Pretty much yeah-

[@bleusles]

I wish it was that easy in real life lol

[@cinnamonwaffles2209]

Of course there fake! They are ment to be its staged so what you cant tell storys because someone will always hate and you get sad and cry like a baby while he can deal with it and you dont like that so you make it your mission to hate and ruin lives because your not as confident as him

[@lpsquestie3495]

@@cinnamonwaffles2209 Please be a joke, please be a joke 🤞😓😖😖🤞

[@iskandarthemalayfarmer1796]

@@lpsquestie3495 thats a fuckin bot my friend.

[@laurennunes1800]

My parents were very against wasting food. But they never made me stuff myself. My mom would be like put it in the fridge for tomorrow. Leftovers are a thing yall.

[@xexpaguette]

My parents would also just help me finish the food whenever they could.

[@shaycat13]

And like those sandwiches had togo boxes perfect for keeping your left overs like wtf

[@molly.dog8brooke792]

Same

[@suriish3re]

Exactly! I always put my leftovers in a container in the fridge

[@Tengoflow15]

I’ve never been through that experience because I’m a thic boy 😂

[@KFC_Official_]

One major problem that I have with Dhar Mann videos is the following: you do *not* owe your oppressors an explanation. If they didn’t respect you before they knew context, they won’t respect you after they know context. And if they magically respect you after they know context, all you are is an exception because you’ve proven yourself useless to them either it be money or fame. You are not an exception, you are a human being and *that* is enough context for someone to respect your basic being. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for you being you.

[@jaydenrchurley3401]

Facts...

[@trialerrorsharer9398]

Colonel Sanders dropping facts

[@nationalinstituteofcheese3012]

You shouldn’t be nice to people because they might be rich and powerful. You should be nice to people because we’re all human and deserve respect.

[@ethanmoreno6422]

exactly. if someone is being racist towards me, i don't need to be kind or patient. the shit that dhar mann makes does nothing to help the oppressed groups used in his videos, and actively hurts the younger poc in his audience by teaching them to be kind to their oppressors. it honestly makes me sick.

[@ninjabunny101]

THIS

[@pinkapopch654]

When ever that "You're lucky you have food and others don't" point was raised, I always want to respond with "Then why don't we pack these left over and share it to the homeless right now? Come on, if you care then get your car started."

[@nationalinstituteofcheese3012]

I agree. Stop using the homeless as a tool to manipulate your son

[@ppinkhoneydew]

Up next: Dhar Mann Solves Homophobia

[@thedonpurplemanradiohour2508]

I would pay a million dollars to see that

[@thedonpurplemanradiohour2508]

Hahahah! Wow so true, me!

[@sams_not_here]

@@thedonpurplemanradiohour2508 i love the fact that you tried to have a conversation with yourself thats so weird

[@sams_not_here]

Ugh ikr, SAMシ, so weird-

[@skiddykun4552]

I would love to see that

[@Polarbooma]

I feel like realistically being black myself, i wont have a tesla and a wad of cash and a laptop in my backpack, to prove to you that im a decent person. The moms mindset needed to change regardless of her sons friend economic status.

[@user-tu9ke2zo8b]

maybe they should have got a black writer to write that script 😂

[@sediet7492]

@@user-tu9ke2zo8b yeah maybe if they did that the story might have made more sense

[@whatdoahknow3173]

Yah, there storylines don't make sense and offten seem to just double down on stereotypes! Rather than teach a real life lesson.

[@masochistic_art]

exactly, also like, it sucks that they framed it like the only respectable/redeemable thing about the black kid was that his dad had money. just furthers the idea that she only made an exception for the kid because of his perceived wealth/status symbol????? how fucked is that

[@power50001562]

But how can I tell you're good if you're poor? You might just be trying to get me to lower my guard to take all my stuff‽

[@Shaydoereme]

"Toxic Positivity" perfectly defines these videos. These videos made my blood boil.

[@PaulFisher]

Snopes uses the term “glurge” to describe this kind of saccharine story, though it seems like that refers more specifically to fake uplifting stories that are passed around as true. “Toxic positivity” works very well as an extension of that concept. www.snopes.com/fact-check/category/glurge-gallery/

[@culturedkid4570]

That's facts bro

[@martyrhodes]

Yeah

[@Amirrorofmirrors]

yes

[@culturedkid4570]

@@Amirrorofmirrors Oh mighty Rick Astley may I receive the pleasure of a rickroll

[@qwirt8204]

The thing that annoys me the most about Dhar mann videos is that they always play the problem as a "good people vs bad people" thing, they undermine the system that causes those issues (I'm not saying that I expect everyone to be informed but because of what I said, dhar mann videos always end up being fake deep)

[@johnqu8227]

Interesting point. Do you mind explaining about how they undermine the issue? I kind of don't understand but I do agree. Most of his vids are pretty stereotypical, and there are a lot of cheesy clichés that are used to emphasize things.

[@ironicappreciation4374]

@@johnqu8227 they trivialize and infantilize real problems that real people face. The world isn’t good vs evil, and depicting it as such is an outdated coping mechanism used by people who don’t want or know how to actually think about the nuances of social issues. Black people in America are not the victims of explicitly racist Karens-they’re the victims of centuries of institutionalized racism, sinister commercialism, prison industrial complex, and systemic oppression. Of course those problems don’t make for pretty little packaged moral victory videos, but Dhar Mann’s content is a slap in the face to people actually trying to address and solve real world injustices

[@qwirt8204]

@@ironicappreciation4374 thank you for explaining!!, my English is not that good since it's not my first language 🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏽‍♀️

[@msjkramey]

@@johnqu8227 they make racism into an unrealistic character or a real problem. Sure, some racists act like this, but most don't. It boils down racism to the individual when it's really much bigger than that. It's culture and legislation and systemic discrimination. Most racists don't talk/act like this. There's dog whistles and "codes" now. Here's a good quote about the southern strategy: You start out in 1954 by saying, “N*gger, n*gger, n*gger.” By 1968 you can’t say “n*gger”-that hurts you, backfires. So you say stuff like, uh, forced busing, states’ rights, and all that stuff, and you’re getting so abstract. Now, you’re talking about cutting taxes, and all these things you’re talking about are totally economic things and a byproduct of them is, blacks get hurt worse than whites.… “We want to cut this,” is much more abstract than even the busing thing, uh, and a hell of a lot more abstract than “N*gger, n*gger.”

[@chaoticsilver8442]

'Fake deep'? I think you misspelled 'I'm14andthisisdeep' deep.

[@queenofparkinglot]

Jess’s adopted mom and birth mom being “best friends” gives me major “and they were roommates” vibes.

[@doodlecat1325]

Oh my god they were roommates....

[@name-gu8ml]

I was looking for this comment

[@angiewinchester3384]

Ebony is Jess' real mom because she was dating her birth mom.

[@sholem_bond]

I was going to say, I would have probably just assumed Jess had two moms, and that this was the one who didn't physically give birth to her? Also I would have met both her parents before at events/parent-teacher nights or whatever, so I'd know what her mom looks like by now

[@nuny4592]

Literally what I was thinking

[@riotgrrrl8807]

It's kind of dehumanizing to use homeless people as props to teach a lesson.

[@lyricaholland6319]

Forreal tho

[@nuclearnadal3116]

I mean if it's used in a right way like for instance using the homeless persons life or experiences on how they suffer or what reasons caused them to go homeless

[@riotgrrrl8807]

@@nuclearnadal3116 Well what's probably the homeless person teaching themself then, that's different.

[@stardustorchard9316]

Kind of? Kind of his whole channel is using people as props to teach people lessons.

[@riotgrrrl8807]

@@stardustorchard9316 Well, those are actors. I was more talking about within the universe, you know. If this actually happened it wouldn't be such a great thing to make use of someone's suffering like that.

[@animewitchdayflower6672]

3:22 shame tactics for eating, forcing your child to eat through threats of discipline or violence, or even using food as a reward or incentive for accomplishing tasks (to clarify im talking like “you don’t get to eat until you finish this task”, “you didn’t do this so no food” ) are all things that should be avoided in parenting because there is a strong connection between that and later developing an unhealthy relationship with food even going to extremes like eating disorders

[@SaromeGamer]

Yeah my mom gives me rewards for eating sometimes and it feels like im forced to eat food and i hate food

[@froglodyte_]

"Your dad drives a Tesla?" "No, it drives itself"

[@runeistaken]

"No, a tesla drives my dad"

[@sleepyrowdy1826]

@@runeistaken sounds so wrong

[@runeistaken]

@@sleepyrowdy1826 lmao

[@angelita2213]

@@runeistaken more like it rides your dad 😏

[@DarkestKnightshade]

"I'm so rich I can get a massage from an electric car"

[@TheManyThings]

I heard the “starving kids in Africa” line a lot growing up to make me eat more and I still struggle with an eating disorder and invalidating my own problems because other people “have it worse,” so that mentality can go straight to hell.

[@musikluv6]

this!!! that mentality can cause so many eds, its sick

[@blazereho811]

I grew up facing food insecurity, so a lot of times we didn’t know if we were gonna have dinner or not. It was usually one meal a day until around the end of the month. We’re a lot better and rarely struggle now, but I still have that mentality of “I don’t know when I’ll be able to eat again”. It came from a lot of times I would be so hungry and think back to every recent meal I had that I would waste any of.

[@theblaze5530]

Eat the food because people are starving. That doesn't truly help people that are starving.

[@illegallyapollo1637]

@@theblaze5530 exactly. instead of saying "finish your food because some people are starving", you should give extra food to the homeless to help(which my mom actually does)

[@rustybookshelf8566]

exactly , and it just takes away from the fact that kids are quite literally starvng in every country

[@rshnnn]

Another thing is whenever Dhar Mann seems to cast fat people in his videos, it is always in a video where said people get fatshamed. I don't believe that's how real representation works. It just feels like tokenism to me. Isn't true diversity about casting fat people in roles where their weight isn't central to the plot?

[@lukecremecheese597]

what do you mean real fat people live normal lives that aren’t constantly centered around their weight????? /s

[@mr.monkey1914]

Woah, fat people's lives aren't totally centered around being fat, and doing funny fat person things, like eating food!

[@prexp9026]

Oh yes my only identity trait is what my body weight or body shape is. Hahaha. /s

[@superluser]

Yeah I just dropped by to say I feel bad for the actors

[@6_blocks_under]

@suggs yea that doesn't change their point

[@loserchips1112]

Highly agree about that "dont waste your food thing" because I was taught that as a kid, and now whenever I bake something and it comes out inedible i HUGELY overreact to having wasted all of the ingredients I used. (I dont yell but I get really depressed for a good 30 minutes) And then ! One time my mom was like "just throw it out its not a big deal" when I was making a fuss about one of them and I just sort of gave her a look like. YOU taught me to act like this .

[@sourinc9648]

I should not laugh as hard as I did at “I don’t want your BLACK MILK”

[@gargles5270]

that line always kills me lmfao

[@chrisramsden9678]

I mean racism can be funny if it's written by a man who understands the human mind about as well as a Labrador does.

[@Tw0Dots]

@@chrisramsden9678 😭

[@aitor.online]

honestly ebony blackman got me the most. its unironically a sick name too which is hilarious

[@Toywins]

@@aitor.online like a girl named Ebony Blackmon. That's pretty dope, unintentional on his part, but dope!

[@cathulu7975]

"DID YOU JUST FINISH THE MILK?" "CONNOR DRANK ALL THE MILK AGAIN" what is it with entertainment media characters and their milk!??! is dear evan hansen and dhar man videos in the same universe, one with a nation wide milk shortage?

[@enderkai618]

connor finished the milk 😭

[@h.r.9563]

Big dairy

[@thawunk1056]

Dhar Evan Hansen

[@gaycoffeeaddict]

@@thawunk1056 Dhar Evan MANsen.

[@gaycoffeeaddict]

@@Dragnulls this is a joke, right?

[@victorianeechan]

"sorry, sweetheart. my name is ebony... ebony dark'ness dementia raven way"

[@MoondogAlice]

Guess we finally know what happened to her lol

[@ZielonaPastela]

I was looking for a comment like this 😆

[@kattozilla74]

And I have long ebony black hair (that's how I got my name)

[@Black_Clyod]

@@kattozilla74 is that harry potter fanfic?

[@victorianeechan]

@@Black_Clyod yes

[@kylamavencamp637]

I've watched a number of Dhar Mann videos and as Jarvis was pointing out, even when they "solve" one problem, they create more. For example, as Jarvis aptly noted, the spoiled kid who learned his lesson about appreciating what he has will now be rewarded with the thing he so selfishly demanded moments before, which undermines the whole point of the lesson lol. Also I love the term "toxic positivity"!

[@satsujin-shathewitchkingof6185]

Positive reinforcement does work in most cases but you're right that giving someone a reward for appreciating what they have undermines the point. At best, I will teach him that ge can get what he wants as long as he acts nice which will lead to him becoming more toxic when that doesn't work

[@nehas4008]

I hate how in all these videos, no one stands up for themselves but rather they need to prove themselves ??? They don’t even show anger to the perpetrator and that’s low key toxic asf because it normalises racist and sexist and rude behaviour ( sexiest behaviour is ok )

[@burgerhouseinthehouse2079]

Your points are lovely, HOWEVER. *Sexiest*

[@drippycity4135]

@@burgerhouseinthehouse2079 *the sexiest of behaviours*

[@nehas4008]

@@burgerhouseinthehouse2079 big YIKES

[@notyourplateofbiscuit]

Omg I love the replies 😂 and the correction

[@CowchDot]

😈

[@cease842]

“I don’t want your _BLACK_ MILK” *jarvis no-*

[@Chickenjump]

😳

[@girlontheedge2636]

enough internet for today

[@samanthawilliams2046]

For some weird reason this made me think about milk color, like how alot of people think brown cows give chocolate milk, that's false btw they only give white milk.. But like do people think.... black people.... make chocolate milk? Like is there actual people who think that? Like what do they think Mexicans make? Is there different flavors or is it just milk and chocolate in their head?

[@salorarainriver7278]

@@samanthawilliams2046 don't you know. the color of human breast milk is dependant on how much melanin is in your skin. ... human breast milk has melanin, I guess.

[@samanthawilliams2046]

@@salorarainriver7278 ..... No? That's not? How it works?

[@thecolorjune]

My friend is Chinese and her parents and siblings are white, and multiple times she’s been pulled aside at airports and interrogated to see if she’s being smuggled. It’s been very frustrating for her and it can take ages to convince TSA that they are her parents.

[@whatdoahknow3173]

But at least in those situations it's not a rude random lady, it's a security guard who is simply trying to protect a child. Trafficking is a big problem so in that situation is better safe than sorry.

[@grim1044]

@@whatdoahknow3173 mean it's still racist, but at least it's not some random girl saying haha blacks are gay. The security guard at least is doing a more respectable job

[@coconutshrimp7919]

I know. Jarvis thinks this is really unrealistic and dramatized but honestly...it isnt

[@ButterflyScarlet]

@@grim1044 It's not necessarily racist. Yes there are interracial families, but it's better to err on the side of caution because human trafficking is a huge problem. I'm not saying there isn't some element of racism, but it's not exactly a clear cut, black and white case.

[@cassiussky1945]

@@ButterflyScarlet If the kid is distressed looks lost or doesn't interact much with the family then sure. But, if you work in an airport you're going to a bunch of different and diverse families. It's racist to pull a child away from their family just because they're a different race.

[@lonesavior]

The most unrealistic moment in any Dhar Mann video is someone not wanting to save a Firehouse Sub for later.

[@dionemartins0212]

"I DON'T WANT YOUR BLACK MILK" HOLY SHIT I WAS LOWKEY EXPECTING HER TO SAY SOMETHING STUPID LIKE THAT LMAO

[@AirLight1646]

I saw that pfp and I thought “I didn’t write that comment” then I realized it wasn’t me lol

[@indeedical26]

@@AirLight1646 😂

[@TheEtherealLuka]

omg i love ur pfp

[@thewall1179]

I found it especially bizarre because Black Milk is pretty great music

[@snethies]

Momento Mori 😔

[@fatbone999]

Sounds like a Dr Seuss book: “Brayden’s mom, so you see, I do not want you to be racist to me.”

[@cloudlily8835]

Except Dr Seuss was also racist

[@henriettagabrieldivine7062]

Jsgdhgdehydudhehgdd stop it I choked 😂

[@meowmeow3532]

lmfao underrated comment

[@FreyaEinde]

💀

[@mandanal2232]

@@cloudlily8835 what seriously ????

[@BlackZynfyndel]

“Martin is one the smartest kids in my school!” “He probably doesn’t even go to school!” *stands and applauds*

[@RealogOnlyBrodie]

He’s just that smart

[@kaiswaffles]

i would say- bish whaa?

[@user-oi2ef1fc9o]

He dosn't evan go here!

[@rouxman212]

hes so smart he created a hologram in his desk so hes technically not a at school

[@BillyBob-dq7sc]

@@Dragnulls why are you going out of your way to do this there’s no point

[@gingergamer3270]

Jarvis: "no light for me" Dhar Mann: "stop worrying about the things that you don't have, there are plenty of people wishing they had what you did."

[@10DanielaLima]

"Someone could use that sweatshirt, like that conveniently located homeless person"

[@hopelessly.lavenderly]

now I'm just imagining the mother asking the person to move closer to them so she could teach the child the lesson

[@Robiness]

@@hopelessly.lavenderly The truth is she been knew that her son is a spoilt brat and those homeless people are actually paid actors. She set this up to finally teach him the valuable lesson he needed to learn ✊😔

[@Ixe2077]

I think the mom is manipulating reality to make these people appear right in the convient areas near her and her son. This is a dangerous situation and we should call the SCP

[@SuhannaDeSilva]

If she said “Ebony Blackman” instead of “Ebony Jones” I would’ve actually cried

[@bread6052]

I legit choked on my food when it came to that part

[@andrewramlall3560]

"Name?" "Ebony Blackface"

[@hubba_bubbahuex5097]

@@andrewramlall3560 i hate how loud i laughed at that

[@jaceeatscookies171]

I’m crying imao

[@elize2952]

@@andrewramlall3560 I almost spit out my coffee omg

[@UnclePhil73]

Dhar Mann's videos fall in one of three categories: spoiled kid gets owned, Karen gets owned, or rich person gets humbled.

[@Willow.the.creative]

yeah

[@hotxfudge_1407]

Don’t forget good worker gets to be manager instead of bad worker

[@celinelongworth9706]

Bully gets a owned

[@arturoaguilar6002]

23:49 Being how that she is such an over-the-top villain fitting of an anime, she needs the hero to give her an heart-felt speech to make her change her ways and join them as their ally for the next season.

[@manboy4720]

"he is a weak gamer, brayden. if he can't clutch, he's not accepted in my house."

[@jaydenrchurley3401]

HAHAHAH.

[@toastedgraymonds2744]

HAHAHHS

[@moonlightgamerzzz]

Are you winning son?

[@leiwoomynati1372]

"you know _their_ kind, the tryhards. the people that spam the same cookie-cutter combos over and over when you're 3-stocking them. he's a bad influence on you Brayden, i bet he's never even won a tournament"

[@movedchannels5074]

" he's the smartest kid IN SCHOOL " Mom : he probably doesn't go to school Ah yes, logic

[@Apfel99]

He must have been so smart that he wouldn't even need to go to school

[@h.a.s.7612]

That's what I said.

[@hybriddania3595]

I go to school. EVERY. DAY and get straight a’s

[@eddykidplayzyt]

I’m the smartest kid in my med school. I don’t go to med school. (btw I’m not defending them, just making a joje)

[@normaldude06]

@Blade Gaming nice joje

[@dillpickle-no9hl]

dhar mann’s videos give me the same vibe as an elementary school history class. they both discuss serious topics like racism or classism, but they portray them in a very surface-level way, sugarcoat everything, and end with everybody apologizing and forgiving eachother living happily ever after

[@rowaneditspeppa3361]

The natives gave the pioneers corn :)

[@dancenasticsog]

I couldn't quite put my finger on it but that was exactly the vibe I felt when I watched his videos too

[@wooms4643]

The acting is so shitty that its annoys me. Like holy shit, everything is happening so fast. Especially that adoption one, they just want the small parts out and go to the 'most important part' so quickly makes me feel SO AWKWARD

[@felipevasconcelos6736]

Sometimes I am frustrated by my younger brother’s superficial understanding of complex issues, but he’s only 10. Dhar Mann is allegedly an adult.

[@prexp9026]

Ah yes happy endings are historical accurate.

[@Katie-hj5eb]

9:00 the woman only needed 25 cents??? What is dhar man living in the 1930s? You can find 25 cents just by walking along the streets and picking up dropped coins.

[@ProjektTaku]

the way the mom say's "did you just finish the milk?" is just so intense

[@mollykircher3104]

For no reason, too

[@ProjektTaku]

@@mollykircher3104 10/10 best youtube video of the year.

[@brookerobertson5832]

"Did you just finish the milk?" Brayden's mom asked calmly

[@marialopes9730]

@@brookerobertson5832 i wAs gOiNg tO dRinK tHat

[@toxicpoison-j8t]

His Dad Can go get it. Oh wait he he already went 10 years ago

[@zainabbelgaumi8201]

mom: literally tells the kid like 5 times there’s ppl out there who wished they could have what he had kid: not my problem also kid: i fOrgoT tHat tHerE wErE pEOple oUt thErE wHo wiSheD thEy CoUld hAve wHat i hAve

[@FreyaEinde]

The most unrealistic part was that his mom didn't snatch his ass after the first time...that was nuts to me

[@solangelo707]

@@FreyaEinde Exactly 💀

[@matthhiasbrownanonionchopp3471]

Excataly my thoughts

[@luiscastanon6031]

@@FreyaEinde You know what's more disapointing my mom watches this on facebook using this against me to try having me behave.

[@vali_bg5234]

"If you look at what you have, you'll always have more, if you look at what you don't have, you'll never have enough."

[@graceholmes9219]

i love the part where you said that you dont need to force your kids to eat when theyre full and that can have them develop an unhealthy relationship with food. i feel like the same kind of logic can be applied to mental health, if parents say "well others have it worse than you" then it doesnt help the kid in the long run. you saying that was such a small detail from this video but it really resonated with me, so thank you for helping me realize im not alone in having that experience as a kid :-)

[@spectre9340]

absolutely! i've had suicidal thoughts since i was a young teen and i kept thinking "if im not self-harming or attempted suicide then my depression cant be that bad, right?" I'm in my 20s and am still dealing with my childhood trauma cos years of gaslighting myself into thinking i didnt have trauma delayed my recovery process

[@Zenflower54]

I have a very distinct memory of the last time I said "well it could be worse." My dad had been admitted to the hospital and was about to be diagnosed with cancer. Just because someone else is struggling doesn't mean you aren't or shouldn't be.

[@thequeenofcringe1585]

It’s such a small detail, but it’s an important detail. You can’t just guilt a kid into eating everything you’ve given them. Overeating is an issue, too.

[@destituteanddecadent9106]

The mom's logic of "some people don't get enough to eat" is as bizarre as "there are people who don't get access to a movie theater, so you habe to go watch every movie that's released." Parents do get worried though, and undereating is just as much of an issue, especially for children. If they've barely eaten half a sandwich and they're full, and that goes on for a while, I'd say instead of forcing them to eat specific things or letting them eat however they want, go see a professional. Find out if there's a problem, physical or emotional, and work together, not against each other.

[@juliafowlkes848]

this is actually a huge reason why some children are at higher risk for obesity. children who are taught to eat til their plate is clean will actually learn to ignore their biological cues for being full and hungry. they struggle with the concept of a full belly vs empty and have to learn it from scratch as they get older. same applies to mental health. if you’re always taught that you’re not as sad as you could be, you’ll learn to ignore your biological cues for when you’re actually in a crisis situation. sometimes our environments will cause us to override our internal compasses.

[@Kirby666.]

22:57 no way they just go at the end: “it’s fine I forgive you” after that line.

[@itsmetheweeb3498]

As a mixed girl, the race thing happens a lot. The nurse didn't give my dad my brother after he was born because he looked too light skinned, and my dad is black. The doctor who delivered him ended up having to tell the nurse to give the man his child. I've been accused of being adopted in school because my white mother always was the one who helped out at school parties and stuff. That shit's real

[@itz_blxssom6839]

Ik what u mean I'm mixed 2 but a its a black dad

[@pabloescobar7109]

Me Too My Mom Is White And My Dad Is Black. When I Travelled With My Mom They Wanted To Make Sure I Wasnt Kidnapped.🤷‍♂️ Shit Happens

[@bungo2514]

@@pabloescobar7109 I Don’t Mean To Interrupt Or Be Rude, But Why Must You Put Capital Letters At The Start Of Every Word?

[@pabloescobar7109]

@@bungo2514 I Dont Know Why ?

[@caitlynkaufholz4015]

@@pabloescobar7109 THAT’S WHAT SHE’S ASKING.

[@talic-os5899]

"you know someone wishes they had a jacket like that?" Oh my God, that's not the reason to not throw a dirty jacket away. The reason is that clothes always get dirty, and you eventually wash them.

[@DeathnoteBB]

Yeah like??? Does the kid not know what a washing machine is?

[@tunafish5462]

I guess they never wash their clothes then. He just throughs his clothes after wearing them 3 times lol.

[@kuroyukiart]

Slightly off-topic, but I once heard Steve Harvey say that he throws his underwear away after a single use. It's not the same as a jacket, but it's just so wasteful.

[@Panzystubbedtheirtoe]

“My name is Ebony….” “Ebony darkness dementia ravenway…”

[@magpie8249]

the dialogue feels so artificial and it lacks a lot of subtlety, it sort of reminds me of those old childrens cartoons that are like "You see, Mr. Childabuser? Love and kindness really does solve all! Unfortunately, 1 in 6 people in America are bullied everyday. Mean comments can really hurt someone! If you see somebody being hurt in the playground by a big evil bully, don't be afraid to stand up for them and tell them to stop!"

[@KKISCRAZYFUL]

Apparently the dialogue is written in a way that makes it easy to translate into subtitles for other languages. That's why it sounds so strange and basic.

[@zen0vi]

@@KKISCRAZYFUL Honestly, point still stands. Wether it was written more complex or not the message would still be ultimately be "Kindness fixes all" which isn't true.

[@Tureynul]

Imma' beat both yo asses at recess for that inclusive comment and thinking standing up for a random stranger whos' past actions you don't know prevents bullying!

[@corinne5995]

hes trying to break sterotypes while literally stereotyping

[@gojipuddin]

“Not all black people are thief’s >:(“ and white people are always the ones being racist I suppose white people are the only one who are racist towards black people .-.

[@snakeoi8189]

Definition/meaning behind the word "racism", doesn't refer to one race. You can even be racist to your own race.

[@yorukaadams940]

@Snake Oi Basically Candace Owens and Friends.

[@sams_not_here]

@@yorukaadams940 or that one girl from Dr. Phil even tho that was probably staged.......and friends-

[@justyoureverydayravenpuff833]

@@Dragnulls I will give you one vetter: IF NOBODY COMES FOR YOU. DON'T COME FOR THEM AND IF SOMEONE DOES COME FOR YOU DON'T COME FOR THE WHOLE SOCIAL GROUP THAT PERSON IS IN I'm religious because I feel safe thinking that there's someone out there that has my back no matter what. If you don't want to be religious that's fine, but please don't hate me for being different

[@Jwilhoftstg]

"My name's Ebony." "Ebony Dark'Ness Dementia Raven Way."

[@Jwilhoftstg]

@@joshroehl6098 no thanks buddy

[@Jwilhoftstg]

It's a link to his music if anyone wants to know

[@TRexRAWWR1]

Hi my name is Ebony Dark'ness Dementia Raven Way and I have long ebony black hair (that's how I got my name) with purple streaks and red tips that reaches my mid-back and icy blue eyes like limpid tears and a lot of people tell me I look like Amy Lee (AN: if u don't know who she is get da hell out of here!).

[@abloodcorpse3318]

@@joshroehl6098 that was honestly shit

[@Dantheman-cc1mb]

@@joshroehl6098 bruh how r u that shit at singing. Is it just for views?

[@PrimataFalante]

I was almost convinced the first video would end with the boy giving away his dirty-old-smelly PS4 to some poor kid who held a sign saying "I need a video game, any console would help", and than being rewarded with a PS5 (I mean, it's all that was missing to empty all the slots on the inventory and finish all the quests).

[@adriana95108]

Brayden: he's one of the smartest people in our school Mom: he probably doesn't even go to school pardon? did you not hear your son?

[@ramiyahlee6108]

Right tf 😭

[@nevreiha]

the character is dumb enough for that to be consistent

[@ShibuNub3305]

She’s deaf to logic.

[@youtubedislikebutton983]

His dad probably doesnt have a tesla and I bet he wasnt even planning on gifting you a laptop by elaborately and convientently giving it to him in order to prove me wrong and to not be racist and roasts me for being a garbage human being. I bet he can't do that!

[@kaykaygigi795]

These stories are actually like driving a very toxic message with them always ending in this 'happily ever after' as it makes it seem like black people are supposed to just forgive and understand racist white people which is just rude. It makes it seem like you can just be the worst human being and be racist to black people but if you say 'oh I'm sorry' and cry for 2 seconds were just supposed to be this omnibenevolent beings and forgive you straight away cuz 'this happens all the time'. What, just because something happens all the time doesn't make it less wrong any of the times and doesn't mean you should be anymore tolerant any of the times. Honestly, like I know the narrative that they're trying to drive is a positive one but they should just stop with this troupe cuz it's so toxic and holds black people to a higher moral standard towards people that are just plain racist to them which is never ok.

[@bigbearkat2010]

Agreed, it shouldn't be their jobs to teach them not to be aholes. I feel like the satisfying ending to the second one would've been him saying goodbye to his friend, getting into his dad's car and saying later bitch as she tries to wrap her head around the kid she was racially profiling just left in a tesla.

[@kaykaygigi795]

@@bigbearkat2010 Exactly

[@kristyreal]

It's not just racists that are "redeemed" at the end by tv and movies. I detest when a horrible person is forgiven at the end (most times without even admitting they were wrong) because their point is to show the wronged person is a saint for forgiving them...no matter how horribly they were abused by that person. It's infuriating. Did you ever notice that the people who spew that "you should forgive them for your own wellbeing" BS are the type of people that constantly need to be forgiven because they are pieces of shit? It's the narcissist's mantra. It's actually dangerous to forgive people like that and it shouldn't be encouraged.

[@Twistedbookmarks]

Thank you for putting this into words! It also feels like if the black person doesn't forgive them they're "just as bad" or something

[@stannosaurus]

Fr. Equal standards. Racist idiots shouldn’t just be expected to be forgiven just like the people they are/were racist against should just be expected to let it go like it wasn’t anything.

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

The homeless stereotype is so annoying. You know why you give a homeless person food, because they might be hungry. And not half eaten would be nice. You know why you give a homeless person money, because it will help them buy things they need. And how about fresh clean clothes. If a quarter is all you have, fine. But none of these are a solution to their larger problem anyway. Also, apparently wealth solves racism. 😂 What?

[@thequeenofcringe1585]

I am a very firm believer that you should only take what you need, and give what you don’t need to the people who do. And that goes for everything. Money, food, water, sanitary/hygiene products, clothing, first aid equipment, and giving someone a warm place to stay overnight. The current system doesn’t work for everyone, it was designed to not work for everyone, so it’s up to us to right the wrongs until things change. In this essay I will…

[@raiden8929]

“This comment was made by a homeless person”

[@noahsan92]

i want a Dhar Mann video where someone does something bad and gets away with it, and then the protagonist learns to overcome and accept that fact and move on with life yk, like how life works

[@splendidwolf442]

I like how Jess just stays silent and doesn’t even put in an input like: “uh, yeah this is my mom.” she’s just like “yeah this is ok I’ll let this happen”

[@yumikodazaiswaifu]

Yeaaaa if I was jess I would be like "this is my mother, not a kidnapper, OK?"

[@NAME-yg8sl]

@@yumikodazaiswaifu "So mind your own business, bitch!" **flips the bird**

[@lilfizz1619]

& she just lets her mum spill her tragic backstory without asking to a random stranger, too