Did "Denial of Pregnancy" Cause Hospital Killing? | Alexee Trevizo Case Analysis

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[@Metonymy1979]

Whats weird is that she denied being pregnant but she was in her cheerleading outfit with a huge pregnant belly. Whats sad is that her Mom believed her. Her boyfriend and his Mom believed her, her family believed her but she had a huge pregnant belly. Its absolutely amazing how many people wanted to live in a delusion.

[@colico14]

Did they think she'd developed an early, serious college beer-bong-ing habit? "Oh, Alexee's just been enjoying A LOT of brewskis lately." Give me a break. She looked PREGNANT AF.

[@aalucyaf-zp5ut]

The mom knew she was pregnant. You can see she is also a psycho like her daughter.

[@user-vl1um8pr4t]

Some people are just in denial. This happen to my family as well when my sister got pregnant and everyone in the family noticed that she might be pregnant but didn't confront her and we were just thinking that she might be gaining weight. We're lucky that my sister told us about the pregnancy 2 months before giving birth and we told her that we already noticed it, we are just waiting for her to tell us. On this case, I think Alexi's mom is so controlling to her daughter and that's probably the reason why Alexi decided to hide her pregnancy. Can't blame Alexi however she needs to face the consequences of her actions.

[@Amused_Comfort_Inc]

​@@user-vl1um8pr4tSHE OBVIOUSLY DIDNT HIDE IT THOUGH 😢 (not yelling at you lol) but dude her in the cheerleaders outfit is ridiculous, she's obviously so fricken pregnant and if the mom is "so controlling" she would have made her take a pregnancy test, taken her to a doctors to make sure, forced her to be on birth control, NOTHING marks this woman as overly controlling, Just Stupid

[@Amused_Comfort_Inc]

​@@user-vl1um8pr4tI think she's using the "I'm scared of my mom" as an excuse but it doesn't make any sense. I had a controlling parent. They didn't kiss my ass when I got in trouble, or try to bail me out of jail! That's NOT what controlling parents do.

[@SamYesMartinez]

Not only was she in the best place to be to get treated AND give up her baby, but she is over 18 and didn’t have to tell her mother anything. RIP baby boy 💔

[@augustek5382]

Except that she lived with her mother and had no job herself. She is too spoiled to take any responsibility in her life.

[@SamYesMartinez]

@@augustek5382 I mean if she didn’t want her mother to know, as Dr. Grande says in his theory, the mother didn’t have to know because she was over 18 and an adult. It could’ve been a secret. That’s what I mean, but I agree that so far it’s been all about her despite the fact she killed this innocent baby.

[@TheDealMaster]

Very well said. Yeah I was watching an interview with one of the nurses from that night and he reiterated how she could have so easily just left the child there, zero questions asked and they would find a home for the child.

[@doriangrey9702]

Heartbreaking, so many people who would have adopted that baby boy. And she tied him up in a plastic bag. Just so heartless and cruel 💔 😢

[@ellasoes8325]

I don't understand why people put so much emphasis on legal adulthood as if legal coincides with biology and morality.

[@ryancasey919]

Something about “nothing was crying” is so extra disturbing to me. What a terrifying way to say it.

[@rubyoro0]

She knows exactly what to say.

[@kathleendestefano5577]

She’s trying to justify her actions 🥲

[@marim5620]

It makes sense to me that she said it like that. She was emotionally removed from the child and in denial about the situation. It wasn’t her child in her mind

[@ryancasey919]

@@marim5620 yes, the emotional removal! that’s what so disturbing to me. She’s capable of overriding perhaps the strongest instinct in all of nature: a mother’s love for her offspring. Or is she incapable of that emotion all together?

[@1991Meka]

​@@rubyoro0Yup. That's exactly what the white girl Brooke Skylar said and she got away with it

[@sideeffect2]

He was born in a hospital! What a horrific start and end of life. My heart is so broken for the little soul. RIP baby boy 🙏

[@Relayzy1]

I was born in a hospital as well, terrible!

[@kapilsethia9284]

@@Relayzy1 😂😂

[@Bebecat477]

I can remember going to a family cookout. The 16 year old there, I said oh hey when are you due? The whole place blew up on me, she wasn't pregnant, made me leave! Two weeks later, they called EMS, and she gave birth. I could not fathom how the entire family didn't know she was pregnant. Such a sad story here. I am very lucky to have had a very open and honest relationship with my daughter.

[@seferinorino6951]

That’s tragic and hilarious at the same time

[@MyDyerMaker]

You're invited to my next cookout.

[@christinadodd5780]

Way back in high school, I told my so-called bff that she looked pregnant and she got all mad at me! 2 months later she had a little girl.🙄She ended up having 4 kids by the time she was 18!

[@Daredevil_2k16]

Lmaoo did they call you back saying how right you were?

[@Bebecat477]

@lil_scorpion6993 they actually never spoke to me again. Well the majority of the family save one brother. 😆 🤣

[@francineb7340]

I easily could have been in this girl. I was 17, Pregnant, scared of telling my family and managed to hide my weight gain. Shame does some scary things to a young person. I was 2 weeks from birth when my mom gently asked if i have a problem i need help with, and she helped me without judgment. My mom saved me, and saved my son from a possible fate like this RIP Mom

[@TomikaKelly]

The difference between you and this girl is the type of mothers that you both had. You had a mother that would help you when you stumbled. She has a mother who is controlling and uses her emotions to manipulate and terrify her daughter into submission.

[@sophiaandre139]

Your mother was a saint. I'm glad you had her.

[@pamhess2010]

Thank you for your honesty. I have seen the dissociative disorder and it is real. Many other countries acknowledge it. I was a young teen mom too many years ago. I thank God both of our stories turned out like they did. It is awesome your mom helped you. Somehow reality came through for me when my water broke, and someone took me to a hospital. ( I didn't even know what had happened.) There were so many hateful comments on here, but I think this girl was suffering from it. I think it is too hard for men and women who have never experienced anything even close to ever understand. Whenever I see stories like this, it breaks my heart for both child and mom. It also makes me thank God for having gotten me to a hospital. Something clicked for me then.

[@angelastars27]

🙏❤️

[@ianpeddle6818]

You were lucky your mother was humane

[@MegTelevised]

It’s interesting how in a state of fear, the easiest solution is regarded as the hardest solution and the wrong solution is regarded as the only solution

[@Wavy_blade]

Wow well said!🤔

[@donnamariedavidson5065]

Very well-put! Thank you.

[@user-it3mr9gy8l]

Nothing was crying!!!😢 Unbelievable!!!

[@kimberlyevers7031]

@@user-it3mr9gy8l and she repeated it. unbelievable.

[@TonyCox1351]

It’s because at any given moment, the easiest solution is to avoid the problems. In the long term addressing the problem is easier, but on any particular day admitting she was pregnant and dealing with it is a lot more difficult than pretending she isn’t

[@lonemaus562]

The fact that she is allowed to walk around with the rest of society makes me physically sick

[@adrienneromelle2816]

I thought she was under house arrest.

[@nicmagnus819]

​@@adrienneromelle2816She bonded out of jail for now. If she is convicted of murdering her baby boy, then she will be sent to a state prison and not to jail. I said prison and not jail because there is a huge difference. Drunk people go to jail overnight, but murderers go to state prison.

[@adivinemystic]

She had the audacity to go to prom with a shit eating grin on her face!!!!! Her mom must have been so proud. Rest in peace, little man. I love you in ways your bio never could.

[@ashleybish0p]

I can't imagine placing my newborn baby in a trash bag who's alive & then tying it up, walking off knowing that baby is running out of air...then acting "normal" and living in a state of denial like that. Believing her own lies. Psychopathic behavior.

[@Gypsys-demon-baby]

Im pretty sure she smothered the baby before putting it in the plastic bag to stop it from crying, knowing the nurse was right outside the door listening

[@truescotsman4103]

Nothing was breathing though. She referred to it as nothing and it. She had no idea what was happening

[@BookWorm2369]

She was already in a state of affective denial of being preg; she's not going to view the baby as humanely as she would have under a different mindset. I don't think she's psychopathic, but the outcome is so tragic. 😢

[@demolitionFM]

@@Gypsys-demon-baby5:00 - 5:30 autopsy confirmed baby died from being in the plastic bag

[@MintyKitty888]

That's where I'm hung up too!!! Like even with fear, shame and all those feelings...how do you rationalize placing a sweet, innocent baby life into a garbage bag, looking down at that face before tying off all air supply and walking away....she had to have heard him trashing.......she cannot possibly even love her boyfriend and then kill the life they created too. A very disturbed and insane mind if you ask me.....

[@MsLolgirl121]

There is absolutely no way her mom didn't know she was pregnant, plus her mom was very defensive when questioned rather than directing that to her daughter

[@anablackwood6141]

What killed me was how the mother was saying "Do you KNOW what happens to people who do stuff to their babies? They go to jail!". Not "Oh my God, is the baby ok? What happened to him? Is it a boy or a girl?" ect...ect...

[@augustek5382]

When I first heard about this, I thought the girl was in college! It is hard to believe the mother did not know about her daughter being pregnant. Some women do not have baby bellies, but this girl had it!

[@beckydoesit9331]

And not only do Dems want to what she did. legal, they want to put sex ed in all schools to encourage behavior like this. Disgustting. Look for Biden to pardon her if convicted.

[@jinnimoo]

I doubt the mother actually knew. If she did she would've told the hospital when it was clear her daughter was going into labor. She obviously doesn't want her daughter in jail so doesn't seem likely she would also assist in hiding the pregnancy all while driving her to a hospital 😕

[@cathybaldry7822]

You would be surprised how easy teenagers can hide stuff from their parents

[@sharonbateman9316]

I got pregnant at 15 and had my son at 16. Telling my Dad was the hardest thing I ever had to do (at that point in my life) My Dad was a single father and was very strict. After I told him he was in literal shock and didnt say a word to me for about 3 days. He never once yelled at me for it. He finally came to talk to me and asked me what I wanted to do about the pregnancy. I told him that I would never even think of getting an abortion. Then he gave me a huge hug and told me how proud he was of me. Again, I was 16 when my son was born.. this girl is 19!!

[@HunterKiller762]

If I ever have a daughter I’ll definitely be following your Dad’s example.

[@emghee2510]

You were truly brave for facing such a life changing event so young. Your dad was a model father in the situation. Hope you and your child are doing well and have a healthy relationship.

[@tauntasmom]

I am SO proud of you.... thank you for giving life to your child and providing a future for him, there are different answers for each of us, having and raising a child especially at such a young age is no easy task, but when you have a supportive and loving family it can and does make all of the difference in this world! I also agree with you that Alexee's mother wants to tell everyone her daughter is a student as if that excuses her choice? My firm opinion is that Alexee knows right from wrong, she chose wrong PERIOD no excuses!!!! Someone has to STICK up and DEFEND baby boy, he is the victim not alexee and certainly NOT here pos mother....

[@Guriteru]

The way her mom told her “lexee we talked about this” when she got busted for killing her baby … reveals a lot more than anything she said to the police during the arrest. You have no idea what fear of your own parent can make you do. This being said… killing your own baby? I draw the line at murder 😂

[@Sweetliltulip]

I’m a mom of two boys, I will have this conversation with them along with any future girlfriends. But I agree the way she said it made it sound like she had some kinda idea her daughter was pregnant

[@misstinahamilton5714]

EXACTLY!!! When the mom said " we talked about this " I said BINGO ! They knew ! Also there were vids of her - shes in cheer - and you could SEE she had a belly bump !

[@monikarohfeld]

Yes! The mother is the culprit. Something is really off with their relationship. It’s giving “Carrie” just a little bit to me.

[@Poison.Ivy40]

They all knew and she not the staff birthed a baby in 20 minutes like nothing happened.

[@jeanchampion671]

Instead of holding/ rocking her daughter the mother made it all about her

[@nerd55120]

Introductory edit: Anyone whose watched Lexee's arrest has witnessed the mother acting belligerent and argumentative whilst threatening the police and the hospital staff who were actually SO KIND and softly softly to her daughter. Despite that she had commitment the most heinous act. My sense is Lexee is a very young 19 year old and under some sort of constant duress from her mother. It just seems so obvious based on her palpable fear. There are NO excuses for what Lexee did, but her mother is a cold hard fish who didn't even ask about her grandson (the stepfather was thr only one that seemed to). I would like to see lexee restart a life away from her alledgedly horrible, fundamentalist, narcisstic mother after serving an appropriate term of punishment for her little boy. Original: Lexee's mother is a piece of work and explains a lot regarding her daughters abhorrent actions. She had the gall to argue with and abuse first responders who treated her daughter with sensitivity and dignity despite Lexee's disgusting actions. Parenting FAIL

[@jarrodhall3686]

Language, madam!

[@casandrabullock9497]

​@@jarrodhall3686What language sir? There's no profanity here. Her mother is horrible and so is her daughter. Take care ✌️

[@HolyMoly432]

That was an odd comment….Yes I was going to say the same thing! I saw the police and doctors question her and the mother was just awful. Human being fail!

[@wupfwupfinger2182]

Her mother was calling her grandson as a "it". "What did you do with it"?? "U put it in the bag"? etc... U wrote almost all I wanted to write only that it was NOT parenting fail, Alexee is just a reflection of her mother. I have only one question about the school... Everybody in the school had to know that she was pregnant and nobody talked to her?? She was cheerleading with a big belly and that is just normal in the school? Her bf didn't see her in the 9 months?

[@cloelles]

100%. The true culprit here is Lexee´s mother. She had made her daughter so afraid of her that she would rather commit murder than tell her mother the truth.

[@fibonaccifanzeroviews7839]

My heart bleeds for the hospital worker that found the poor little fella. 😔💔

[@carriecree1789]

Ya, all those people probably cried. Some hospitals have restrooms without doors, and I guess it's because of stories like this, to prevent anything from happening. My 2 deliveries, that charge nurse never left my side, they aren't allowed to leave you unsupervised.

[@CarrieBoslough]

All the hospital staff is traumatized. And she actually has a lawyer who filed a wrongful death suit against the hospital. She has weight lose drugs in her system

[@800Frozone]

This is one of the most depressing stories of teen pregnancy I've heard in years; the baby deserved better.

[@crystalclear6661]

There is no way her mother didn’t know. I think we’re gonna find out that this is a very sick and twisted story even more than it already is.

[@Gina19876]

The defence attorney says "Come on there must be some kind of human decency here". The human decency ended when she twisted the bin liner over her babys head.

[@trajano777]

You got that right!

[@byronfoppola8676]

Shut up, not your place to judge. Not your body. You evil laws will not stop us.

[@LisaPeterson227]

Autopsy said asphyxiation, and STRANGULATION.

[@Christ_Is_Life10-10]

Lexi didn’t know her social security number when the police asked her. Mom said she doesn’t know and gave it to the police. Mom seems very controlling . She stated the father physically abused her while pregnant with Lexi. Lexi seemed terrified of her mom. I’m pretty sure her mother knew but didn’t want to accept it so she believed her daughter’s lies.

[@MeganVictoriaKearns]

This reeks of Cindy and Casey Anthony. Casey denied pregnancy unti month 7 when she got too big to deny it and fessed up to mom. She was also 19 and also felt deathly afraid of her mom finding out she'd had sex. Until Casey came clean in month 7, Cindy made excuses for Casey to anyone who inquired about Casey's protruding belly. I personally think, but of course do not know for a fact, that Cindy knew her daughter Casey was pregnant before being told. But Cindy jumped right into the delusional rabbit hole with Casey and helped her hide and deny being pregnant.

[@flossymelton7658]

From some report I read that the girl graduated high school with a 3.?? GPA. Yet she didn't know her SSN!!!!! Give me a break.

[@Christ_Is_Life10-10]

@@flossymelton7658 yeah. I think her mother has all her important documents . She had her ID in her purse and gave it to the police at the hospital.

[@thatvalensteingirl]

@@flossymelton7658 I don't think I knew my SSN off the top of my head at that age because I never used it or needed it-- my cell phone was prepaid, I had a bike, I worked under the table-- I know it's been some years, but it's possible to be a high achieving student and not know your SSN because you haven't needed it yet, or whatever paperwork was handled by your parents. That is the only excuse I think I'll ever make for her.

[@Road_Rash]

Who knows their social security number at 19? I didn't know mine until I was 24, when I went into the military & had to write it down on numerous forms during the first few days of boot camp...had I never went into the military, pretty sure at soon to be 54, I wouldn't know what it is to this day...I just don't retain numbers I rarely use...and what does not knowing that number have to do with anything?

[@oceaneyes7540]

The mother showed no feelings for the loss of a human life! She never asked if the baby was alright! She was just angry! Whether the mother knew or not is irrelevant, her behaviour after knowing what happened is. But you know, this is why this mother's family is wrecked! I hope they don't get away with this by blaming the hospital!

[@killaronjones3933]

she murdered him in cold blood. Hid him for her own sake. She should be held accountable.

[@watama2too]

When Alexee was asked for her social security number and the mom replied “she doesn’t even know it” as if to imply that she is innocent and too naive to have committed a crime based on the fact that she can’t even recite her own identifying information…. APPALLING

[@justiceBustamante]

She probably does not know the social security number because the mom is so overly controlling her only to make the motor look better Lexi is just a tool for her mother make her life look so wonderful

[@bbnessa7695]

This mom is soooooo so controlling! My brother and I memorized our ssn since we were 12!

[@hil4966]

@@bbnessa7695 same. I wonder if Alexee has special needs. She was 19 and still in high school.

[@ayanned]

Be ashamed for being a horr. It is right to shame horres.

[@justiceBustamante]

@@hil4966 special-needs kids usually are not on the cheerleading team and have a seemingly popular boyfriend for years and special needs people usually are not cunning enough to try to hide a pregnancy and then pull off this elaborate Act of murdering their child. Sorry that's not the answer.

[@MaryGIrlMoody]

Oh, I was waiting for Dr. Grande to speculate about a situation like this since I saw the case!!! Thank you, Dr. Grande!

[@glauvie]

I wanted to know more about it but I can’t stomach the possibility that he’ll use tasteless puns about a dead baby, so I’m out.

[@clicheguevara5282]

@@glauvieWhats funnier than a dead baby? A dead baby in a clown costume.

[@GeneralSirDouglasMcA]

@@glauvie He doesn’t. He just tells the story plainly in this one.

[@SaidarRising]

I thought right away “what does dr grande think?”

[@milliewoo337]

Me too- this is the first case I ever requested from him. It’s so horrifying and tragic.

[@jessicaellina3878]

In those before pics she looked soooo pregnant..how could family and friends not pick up on this??? What she did was despicable..she had the chance to deliver the baby safely in a hospital. Leaving the bathroom looking like a slaughter house with the baby in the trash bin..no words. I,d hate to be that mother whose daughter can't fess up to being pregnant..so sorry for the little soul who was literally treated like a piece of rubbish. RIP sweet boy.. there are many families out there who would have cherished you, if given the chance ❤

[@SocPsych]

I'd hate to be the mother knowing that whatever I did caused my daughter to be so fearful of me that she would rather smother a newborn than talk to me.

[@charmainders]

what haunts me more about this case is that apparently the autopsy of the baby indicated air in the lungs. if that doesn't haunt her, i don't know what will.

[@BirdTalk13]

She doesn’t give a shit.

[@kimberlyevers7031]

Right? This is not a normal human being.

[@heidiesimms2536]

It doesn’t haunt her. She had no feeling for the baby and just wanted to resume her life like going to prom. Unbelievable!

[@skreemqueen7520]

This is ridiculous! Obviously she was pregnant, anyone who saw her in her cheerleading uniform knew it. How everyone knew and chose to ignore it is beyond me. Rest in peace precious baby boy. Great work , Dr Grande.

[@colico14]

Visibly pregnant, pregnant, pregnant, pregnant, pregnant. No denying it.

[@alos.h256]

That's what I don't get! Wouldn't the school have to contact her parents? especially because she continued to participate in cheerleading.

[@patricknez7258]

Agree

[@josepenasanchez1491]

There's an article online that says that students from her school knew, and were spreading rumors. But she ignored those rumors and continued to deny it. She said she was gaining weight because of birth control pills. Even her cheerleader coach asked her if she was expecting. Alexee denied it. Her really close friends eventually stopped asking because they didnt want to appear as if they were body shaming. I imagine Alexee probably always wore baggy clothes and hid from her mom when she was home. The article also said that Students at her school thought that Alexee was a fake manipulative asshole who uses ppl to get what she wants, and forgets about them once she got what she wanted. and thought that she was better than ppl because she was closer to the coaches at her school. She low-key sounds like a narcissist to me.

[@gma2481]

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[@Xnataliebrown]

As a mom all I can think of is that poor baby suffocating in a trash can😢 She was 19, she knew right from wrong. Why not give up the baby, plenty of people out there would have loved that little angel. Rip.

[@xdani_thethinkingneko]

Google denial pregnancy + Postpartum psychosis/ depression and what it does the brain. If you understand what the signs and symptoms are, you may be able to recognize it and somebody else and help save a life... We don't understand why these things happen, they keep happening 😢

[@lisadunn1138]

@@xdani_thethinkingneko she didn't have either! Please do not try and diagnose her with something to explain away her vile behaviour. She denied having sex. She was lucid enough to lie to medical staff. Post partum.. The clues in the name. It comes on after birth not before or during. Denial of pregnancy isn't a single diagnosis either and it's not a defence for murder. There are different types of denial of pregnancy and her actions show she DID know she was pregnant but was ignoring it/lying about it depending on who you listen to and not unaware she was pregnant. Her actions afterwards also aren't a usual reaction if she had a post partum issue! Killing her baby was murder. Her need to get rid of an inconvenience overrode anything else. If she was genuinely ill she wouldn't have manipulated and lied and killed and hid the baby.

[@kenya1067]

I truly don't understand people being "so afraid" of their parents but actively doing what their parents told them not to do.

[@jtrinidad]

Thank you Dr Grande for saying she is GUILTY!!!

[@meahdahlgren6537]

Right

[@motorcityjudy]

This case is just so disturbing to me. She could have given birth safely and handed the baby, ALIVE, to a nurse to be adopted by people who would love him.

[@dmbdmb3828]

Agreed. Don’t rush to judge the grandmother based on a lying self-centered manipulative brat. The grandmother was right there beside her daughter. Of course emotions are HIGH in both teen and mother. Don’t rush to judge. An infant is dead at the hands of his mother, with help all around. The mother locked everyone out.

[@srso4660]

@@dmbdmb3828 who's responsible for creating such a lying manipulative brat?

[@IceFireofVoid]

It's possible she didn't know that was an option. Sec education is quite bad in the US and that extends to what alternatives they are. All they are told is a baby happens and you are stuck with it. A lot of places teach abstinence only as the one form of contraceptive and never bring up safe havens, adoptions, fostering...they just assume women will naturally want their baby. This is often not the case.

[@HooLeePhucingSheet]

@@IceFireofVoid no, she was scared of her mother not the law and not when she suffocated that poor thing. I don't understand why she didn't get a safe and harmless abortion.

[@catserver8577]

Those doctors and nurses should have been able to assess the situation better. I don't care if anyone agrees or not, but if they had been more attentive they might have saved the baby. Probably would have.

[@KimberlyLetsGo]

She looks very pregnant in her cheering uniform. Did her mother not see her in that outfit? Wasn't suspicion raised by anyone? Her boyfriend? The innocent baby boy paid the ultimate price of everyone's denial.

[@AnonForever70]

Everyone at her school knew and spoke about it, including her cheer coach who was going to have her resign from the team for safety reason. The mom threatened to sue the school.

[@staciasenkel8913]

Her mother knew she was pregnant she’s it’s a piece of trash

[@drebk]

The denial is strong out there. There was nobody in her life that had any incentive to acknowledge the pregnancy. Certainly not the boyfriend/father. The adult mom is going to blame the hospital, probably sue them now that the secret is out. That should tell you all you need to know about whether the hospital is reasonably to blame here

[@thedollbabys1073]

it was said to be edited to make her belly look larger.

[@pamelasmith6221]

The bottom line is that regardless if she knew she was pregnant or not ( I believe she, her mom, her boyfriend and classmates knew she was) she definitely knew she was when she gave birth. It’s what she did after that. It’s inhumane. Any living and caring human would call for help. It’s absolutely disgusting and the fact that her mother isn’t phased makes me wish she could be charged as well. This should be 110% unacceptable human behavior. Period. If we don’t make her an example then we are doomed.

[@tauntasmom]

RIGHT!!!! Everyone wants to discuss how fearful Alexee was of her mother, can YOU imagine how fearful baby boy was as HIS mother sucked the life from him as she bit the cord and put his body in a plastic bag that made it impossible for him to breathe properly! Oh yeah but he was not breathing because of the morphine injection the hospital gave him....NOT I had several morphine injections with all of my pregnancies and NOT one of them caused my babies to come out unable to breathe....

[@suwaidajalal]

When she put the child in a trash bag and tied it up, she showed intent and consciousness of guilt. I understand she did it in panic and terror but she's still an adult who is aware of right and wrong. She has never once displayed any remorse for the life taken, only concern for herself and seems to have gone on to live her normal life. What kind of upbringing and personality does it take to not have such a traumatic experience leave any trace? Not even a hint of remorse?

[@DamiesEvilTwin]

yup, tying the bag and hiding it under a new bag shows she wanted it dead and was trying to hide it, she knew 100% she was hiding a pregnancy and she intended to keep hiding it.

[@kikismama]

She is a narcissist/sociopath and possible psychopath because she murdered her innocent baby.

[@rowanrobbins]

@@kikismama What a ridiculous thing to say. Are you a psychiatrist? We don't even know all the facts yet. Get a grip on your emotions.

[@byronfoppola8676]

Notbyour body, not your decision. Your evil laws won't stop us. We will abort as necessary and die doing it.

[@HooLeePhucingSheet]

Having fun at prom, graduating with her class.... I'm pretty sure she got what she wanted and her mother was happy that it was brushed aside like that. I wonder if they had a lot of money.

[@Gypsys-demon-baby]

After seeing the photos of her in her cheer leaders uniform i have to assume everyone knew she was pregnant including her mother and bf, she wasnt hiding her belly at all, it was obvious she was in the third trimester, her mother needs to take some responsibility for this for not getting her daughter proper pregnancy care, this poor baby was failed by so many ppl, including the hospital staff that knew she was pregnant and suspected she was having Labour pains, they should have demanded to look at her belly and done a vaginal examination, and not let her go to the toilet unsupervised, this baby could have been saved if just one person did something differently

[@LemonEyeDrops]

I dunno how much power the mom has over the situation, Alexee is 19 years old.

[@edithandlez]

@@LemonEyeDropsDid you put lemon eye drops in ur eyes because everyone knows what a pregnant body looks like regardless of her age. She’s 19 and pregnant what’s your point?

[@AnonForever70]

@@edithandlezher point is that she was an adult and knew she was pregnant. No matter how many people try to rationalize what she did to her baby, she was an adult and responsible for herself and her own actions. The mom couldn’t force her to do anything.

[@edithandlez]

@@AnonForever70oh definitely

[@celesteshenas2155]

The lack of seeing the child as a valuable person comes from the mother not seeing the pregnancy as something valuable. They were all in cross-denial. Also, where is the boyfriend? Is Alexis such a bully that even he had no voice in this?

[@jessicajennifer9827]

There's NO WAY...that...every..single person in Alexis life ( INCLUDING HERSELF) was that blatantly oblivious to the absolute obvious. From her ding bat mother , to her peers( those pictures of her cheerleading CMON) to her teachers, boyfriend, etc. Had such a high gpa, but the lapel video of when the police went to arrest her, she didn't know her own SS number?? Something STINKS

[@sabias3932]

I agree that she and everyone else must have known but most minors don’t know their SS numbers…

[@calendarpage]

@@sabias3932 Agree. My SSN was part of my university student ID. I didn't know it until then. The SSN wasn't given until you wanted a job, not like now when Ithink you get one soon after birth. If this girl never had a job, she might not have needed to look at her SSN that much. There's a lot to berate her for, but not knowing the SSN isn't one of them.

[@racharina]

My daughters are 14 and 16 and they don't know their SS. They know where to find it if they ever need it and they are very smart, btw. Work on a smarter comment

[@racharina]

​@@amariajade255exactly, I think the commenter is the dumbest

[@cplmpcocptcl6306]

Agree with the comments. I don’t think it’s unusual to not know your SSN as a teen. I only did because I was in the Army.

[@user-bx4ti6ig3i]

This is why i always reassure my 4 daughters if they end up in this situation, to let me know because the life of their baby and theirs will always come first. I jokingly told them that their baby would be our baby and very loved. I told them this last year with the girl Alexa, who there her baby in the dumpster. Thankfully, they found him and the baby is safe and well with the dad after a year.

[@paulaharlfinger829]

I agree with you 100%. It is very disturbing to watch her behaving so indifferently to the death of her son.

[@kitchenskills5427]

She was extremely immature for her age which is actually older (19) for a high school senior. I also take this a cautionary tale for parents to maintain an open dialogue with their daughters so that they feel comfortable coming to them with any problem. From the hospital and arrest video her mother seemed quite domineering.

[@Avigailish]

🎯

[@timmeemiller715]

Exactly! My daughter is sixteen and she comes to me for everything literally sometimes overshares when it comes to girl stuff.

[@timmeemiller715]

But I would rather her over share then to ever be afraid to tell me something

[@somehaloguy9372]

If she's a year behind then I think that already shows she's not exactly mature for her age

[@doloresleyva8810]

She was 19 and had a high GPA in high school, she participated in cheer which involves teammates and teamwork, she managed to be in a long term relationship with her boyfriend, her lawyer says she has never been in trouble at school. She was also already accepted into college pending graduation. This 19 yr old adult woman was not immature as she had been responsible per thr above. She really pit on a good act and I believe she already was going to make sure her life would not be impacted by having this baby. She lied and lied and did what she did because she wasn't scared as the scene was a gory mess. She may have panicked but all she had to do was open the door. Her own mother was right there to help her as was all the hospital staff. What she did in the bathroom was not an act of immaturity but a calculated effort. She needs to come to grips with what she did and needs to accept adult consequences. Her mother is a hawk and she had to highly suspect the pregnancy but wanted to hear it from her daughter even when they were told the urine test was positive. Her mother's interrogation of her daughter in the er room was not in her daughters best interest but she has changed her tone now that her daughter has been charged. This whole story didn't need to happen as a 19 yr old knows how babies are made and how they present themselves to the world and that bellies get big. She just didn't want the baby.

[@shane1489]

There’s no way the mom didn’t notice she was 9 months pregnant. If truly she didn’t then I’m beginning to understand why the girl is so messed up.

[@emilylouise8077]

I totally believe her surprised reaction of it being a full term baby, but I’m thinking if they had said it was premature 6-7mo old fetus mom wouldn’t have shown any surprise. When she says “9 months?!” You can feel she means ‘you’ve lied for 9 months!’ not ‘my god you’ve given birth to a full term, human being ready to begin his life’

[@shane1489]

@@emilylouise8077 The point is she’s a sht mom either way knowing or not.

[@JeremiahDoctsonFitness]

​@@emilylouise8077she knew lol

[@Philostipher]

If you look at pictures of her in her cheer uniform it's incredibly obvious. The mother knew for sure.

[@Mel-jy3kq]

This is why abortion should be legal

[@HappyJoyousFreeMD]

Ray Charles could have seen that AT was pregnant in her cheerleader outfit. So many missed opportunities. Definitely a ton of pathology between AT and her mother. AT was so terrified that she RAN down the hallway IN LABOR, delivered a full term baby by herself, tried to "clean up", then strolled casually back to her room like nothing happened. All in less than 30 minutes. ANYTHING to conceal the pregnancy from her mother. Just make it go away... No words.

[@katherinedorton4562]

her boyfriend is also responsible, they are still together, went to prom together and he's defending her. his mom has cut contact with both of them. they are both toxic people. I had my oldest child at 19 and I couldn't imagine acting like this. this is middle class privilege at its finest, she really thought there was no consequences

[@wethepeople1489]

The fact that you went right to the boyfriend is weird… Did he know she was pregnant? No doubt he knew, but I highly doubt he instructed her to go to the hospital, give birth, and then kill the baby. Her panicked and disgusting decision, came from fear of her mother, who was either in denial of her daughter’s pregnancy or didn’t care to pay attention to her for nine months. Which is worse? Her mother damn well knew she was pregnant, along with a plethora of other people. She believed her mother didn’t know and was willing to protect that secret at all costs. Laying the blame on the boyfriend, who probably had no fucking idea what transpired when it transpired makes zero sense.

[@jaxl1931]

Like Dr. G said, she woke up her mom to take her to the hospital.. If she was so terrified of her mother finding out, why on Earth wake her up to take you? Why not call your boyfriend? Drive yourself ,or call an Uber? I am absolutely baffled by her actions. She didn't get an abortion instead. Just went on with the pregnancy and then had her mother drive her to the hospital While in labor! I just can't understand this, She had many options and it's not like she was fourteen she was nineteen! Where was her brain thinking she could just get away with it all? She literally could have just handed her son to a nurse and walked away!

[@vicvega3614]

Her mom knew, everyone knew

[@Cooksongrl]

I agree. Terrified or not terrible mother or not she has personal responsibility for her choices. She was for sure an adult at the time right? The staff would not have been obligated to tell her mother anything.

[@colico14]

And there are STILL religious morons who think a situation like this is apparently preferable to safe, professional termination of a pregnancy. Unbelievable.

[@Christ_Is_Life10-10]

She may have been in so much denial she was too far along for her to get an abortion. Some women don't start showing until the 6th month. Also if her mother was using religious manipulation she might have thought she was going to hell if she got an abortion. Who knows the rationale of a psychotic person?

[@lostandfound5145]

@@caddieohm7059I hope she’s terrified while she rots in jail for murdering an innocent baby. I wonder, have you considered how terrified her baby must have been? The baby she called “nothing”? This 19 yr old girl is pure evil

[@SKISAY]

My mother was overbearing like Alxee’s mom. I was always scared of her and when I got pregnant at 22, my mother KNEW because she saw me everyday… I kept telling my mom I wasn’t pregnant… then my mom sat me down and told me she wouldn’t be mad if I told her the truth. I still denied it. Then my mom CONFRONTED me and said she “KNEW” and wasn’t upset, it made me break down and admit it and we are the closest ever! And my son is now 17. Moms can be overbearing but Alexee’s mom was more mad that her daughter couldn’t tell her the truth which triggered mom to be even MORE upset because she knew she FAILED as a mother. Mom should of consoled her daughter and cried for her deceased grandson and especially cry because her own daughter couldn’t even open up to mom…. MOM FAILED!

[@alwaystired4583]

"Lexi i told you about this" cant wait to hear what she warned her about.

[@lord.have.myrcene]

I had my son when I was 18 years old and the moment I found out- I was terrified but I also had the maternal instinct to protect him!!! I could never have done this even if my mom was going to kill me for having a baby. I would have that baby and protect him at all costs

[@thelocalmaladroit8873]

Poor baby boy. A life unlived -thrown away in the trash. Appreciate you, Doc.

[@Taluta394]

And 100’s of parents would have been thrilled to take him 😢

[@halloumi420]

​@@Taluta394if that's the case why are there so many children in Foster care

[@du6167]

@@halloumi420 Partially because they don't just give out kids to anyone willing. There's a long vetting process. Another reason is because people want babies and not children. If you're over the age of 12, it's basically over :/

[@Duracell231]

He came out of a bag of trash. Not to be believed!!

[@julianarodriguex899]

@@du6167 blah blah blah

[@S_8-]

Her mom reaction, After she murdered her baby and dump it in trash can, is so telling !!! Both guilty 😤 Failed by hospital ?? No 🤦 failed by her mother ? Sure.

[@tinawindham6958]

What about the bf?

[@gengremspring4553]

​@@tinawindham6958IF she told him....?

[@susanwest4137]

​@@tinawindham6958, what about the bf? He didn't kill the baby.

[@S_8-]

@@daquanjohnson9594 how did you find out ? Is my english that bad ?

[@S_8-]

@@daquanjohnson9594 it's prettier spelled that way, isn't it ?😁

[@magaliolalde2028]

Dr. Grande your analysis is so accurate, there where no signs of taking responsibility 😢😢😢 I'm so sorry for the poor baby😢😢😢

[@nettricegaskins1871]

Years ago I got a call from some concerned friends that a mutual friend was "obviously" pregnant and denying it to everyone. I paid them all a visit on my school break. I hung out with my "obviously" pregnant friend all day. People were pleading with me to confront her and I did that evening. I did not ask her if she was pregnant. I asked her what she was doing to take care of herself and the baby. Eventually, she broke down and accepted it. He (baby) is a grown man today but I wonder what would have happened if there wasn't a confrontation.

[@solastranded1744]

Her mother is THE LEAST attentive and most clueless excuse for a mother I have ever seen!!! My 4 yr old would be able to deduce the fact that the girl was pregnant just from looking at her!!!!

[@drebk]

Almost certainly suffering from a similar delusional state as her daughter... What I don't understand is why then daughter let her mom take her to the hospital. Clearly, if she is having sex without her mom being aware, she has the ability to sneak away from time to time...

[@eatnplaytoday]

I am thinking the mother knew but was in denial herself. It seem by her response, she didn’t seem that surprised. It seem fake. She could have bought a pregnancy test if she had any type of suspicion too

[@hannahoman6790]

She knew, I don’t even thing she was in denial about it. She was just going to ignore it as long as her daughter did.

[@drebk]

@@eatnplaytoday no need to buy a pregnancy test when you are 1,000% sure she can't be pregnant. ... because she has never had sex Because denial.

[@catchtwenty22]

I looked long and hard at that cheerleading video of her. Come on, people in the crowd were in whispers. People were looking and pointing at her…. People were probably waiting for another skylar situations because they are all sick in their heads. Everyone that came in contact with her failed that baby.

[@williamthegreat87]

The fact that she was allowed to attend her prom is absolutely disgusting. The New Mexico judicial system is a joke. I’m completely ashamed of it.

[@drebk]

She hasn't been convicted of anything... yet. Emphasis on the yet.

[@williamthegreat87]

@@drebk I get that. There was another one that happened recently out in New Mexico, Alexis Avila, she threw her baby in a dumpster… luckily the baby was found and survived. But she was placed on house arrest while awaiting everything… this girl straight up murdered her baby and is allowed to roam around and enjoy life… for now… it’s sickening.

[@lizlarsen1653]

@@williamthegreat87Also, Alexis Avila got 16 years in prison for attempted murder. Alexee should get life if convicted. Maybe parole in 40-50 years.

[@ikapatino3214]

And what she wore made it worse.

[@lizlarsen1653]

@@ikapatino3214 Her mom allows her to wear a hooker dress, and then forbids her to have sex. Stupid!

[@christinepontecorvo5449]

I agree with you Dr. 100%. Very horrible and very sad .. heartbreaking..not for Lexi or her psycho mom they both need to be charged with murder

[@ThursdayASMR]

The fact that she ripped the umbilical cord out like pulling out a plug from the wall while angry is the most disgusting thing I've pictured all day. SHE BELONGS IN JAIL.

[@BirdTalk13]

The nurses said it looked like it was torn apart by a wild animal. She probably chewed with her teeth while ripping it apart. It is believed that she tore/chewed apart the placenta and was flushing pieces of it down the toilet, hence the multiple toilet flushing over many minutes.

[@MsEvie15]

That’s right. These women who throw away their newborns in the trash are cold blooded and cruel. They don’t think of these babies as humans. She kept calling the baby, “Nothing” and repeating “nothing was crying”. Then she goes in a short dress to the prom. As if nothing happened. She apparently told her friends that she gained weight because of the birth control pill. There is another, Alexis that threw her baby in the trash. It’s Alexis Avila. I think both of these girls live in New Mexico. Alexis Avila threw her baby in a big dumpster but didn’t realize that there were cameras behind the JC Penny building. It was disgusting to see her throw that garbage bag with the baby in it into that trash. She looks as cold as she is. I can’t believe he was still breathing after 6 hours in the freezing cold when the dumpster divers found him. She also saw her baby as nothing when she repeatedly called him, “It”. When she was being sentenced, she said that “She loved him so much”. How? The baby went to the young father and he wasn’t giving her visitation. I wonder what this Alexee is going to say next.

[@ThursdayASMR]

@@BirdTalk13 absolutely just....brutal. Makes me nauseous. I hope this doesn't turn into another case where she gets away with it like that one girl who was a cheerleader. These people need to pay for this stupid mindless violence and for keeping their heads in the sand in life. 💔

[@somehaloguy9372]

​@@BirdTalk13so basically like most animals give birth

[@julijepp]

@@somehaloguy9372 ??? What's yur point, sure most animals might but it is very very abnormal for a human to. Like wtf are you on

[@rx4real253]

For her to attend her prom like nothing has happened in her life.......she's ice cold.

[@edithandlez]

All she cared about was having a dude by her side. She wants a man and will do anything for one

[@anablackwood6141]

Amen. We lost a baby in 2018. People had to remind me to do basic things for survival like eating and bathing. I was a complete recluse and nearly grieved myself to death. It took us getting our rainbow girl for me to get back to any semblance of normal. I still wish our first one was around so they could have been raised together.

[@TomikaKelly]

How would NOT attending prom have changed her situation?

[@stacin821]

​@TomikaKelly it would show she feels some shame for what she did

[@seka1986]

@@TomikaKellyit would NOT bring the baby back but it proves she doesn’t care. Party on, right?

[@dissidentfairy4264]

Alexee killed her own son. There is no way to white-wash it. What she did was cold and callous. Let's call a spade a spade!

[@dissidentfairy4264]

The reason she went to the hospital was because she knew she was in labor. She went to Save Her Own Life in case push came to shove and she couldn't give birth on her own without help. Plan A was giving birth on her own and discarding the baby. Plan B was Saving Her Own Life.

[@ashleybergstrom8934]

Exactly. NO one's fault but her own.

[@alisondawson5116]

SPADE ! SPADE !! SPADE !!!

[@silviacabrera630]

Her mother created a monster not letting her child trust her and making her feel free to be her own self.

[@silviacabrera630]

How sad Alexee didn’t realize she had a voice and was free to be her own self person before all this happened.

[@gregdrivesdriver5104]

At 19 years old, she is an adult. The school had the responsibility to talk with her about her pregnancy to make sure that the unborn child had prenatal care. Attending cheer practice, you can clearly see that she is pregnant. There are administrators, counselors, teachers, and coaches and not ONE person understood that they have the legal responsibility for Alexee and the unborn child? They needed to assume care for her based on her psychological disorder, denial.

[@emilylouise8077]

Not only did Alexee know she was pregnant, but so obviously did her mother. Her reaction to hearing about baby was to immediately spit out that she had just told her about this with girls killing their babies and going to jail. She knew but she didn’t want to call her out on it out loud with professional help, just expected her to be telling the little truth telling Princess she raised. Poor poor little boy 😭💔😭

[@beckydoesit9331]

And not only do Dems want to what she did. legal, they want to put sex ed in all schools to encourage behavior like this. Disgustting. Look for Biden to pardon her if convicted.

[@OOhlUkaTmEImGanSTa]

The mother is odd and seemed really cold. She didn't give a crap about the baby at the hospital, she was more upset that Alexee didn't tell the truth and was in trouble. The baby's father and family were besides themselves.

[@TomikaKelly]

​@@OOhlUkaTmEImGanSTaShe doesn't know the baby. She knows her daughter and was upset and disappointed in her.

[@staciasenkel8913]

The mother is a sick sick woman

[@Arizona_lilly]

Well remmeber she in New Mexico there’s a huge huge story there of a girl name Alexis availa who threw her baby in the dumpster and 3 divers found it… hours later baby in bath too but the tie she uses was broken and there was lots space and air this girl made sure her baby suffocating with that case going on it was all over the news all over in their city and state…. That’s what her mom is talking about seeing the case of that girl Alexis who was 18 a student had the baby at home n drove in her car to a dumpster looks like behind a shopping center anything could of smashed it it could of hit the bottom of the trash a metel rod anything

[@nicholejones1189]

Yes, absolutely, she is guilty. I'm due this mid-August, and there's no way she did not know she was pregnant unless it was a still birth. The baby moves, kicks, pushes, and protrudes all throughout the belly, no matter how big or small the baby is. She was hiding it because she was scared of her mom. She hid it all the way until the end. Even when she was alone in the bathroom, away from her mom, she never once asked a nurse for help. She was a 19 year old adult that gave birth in secret and went searching in that bathroom for supplies she could use to kill that baby (she tied him up in a trash bag and he suffocated), then put him at the BOTTOM of the trash can and stuffed napkins and other trash bags on top of him. She knew what she was doing was wrong, and she thought she would get away with it. Being scared of your mom is not an excuse for murder, especially at 19. She needs to be held responsible. Stop giving these little cheerleaders, "I'm not having sex," lying axs girls' previlege to get away with stuff like this. She killed that baby in a fxcking HOSPITAL of all places. The one place he could be saved, but she didn't want him to be saved because she didn't want him.

[@michaezell4607]

Unless you were actually present in that restroom with her then you don't know for sure what happened....none of us do. These people on social media ALL have an agenda and could very well be editing the official videos and timeline of events to advance said agenda and control the narrative in the process. She's innocent until proven guilty IN A COURT OF LAW and BY A JURY OF HER PEERS.

[@tauntasmom]

the autopsy confirms baby boy had air in his lungs, he was born alive, his death was a homicide due to asphyxiation

[@eternal.faith408]

What an innocent baby boy I can’t believe it, my heart breaks for him so much. I can never even begin to fathom 💔 I pray for his soul.

[@bobbyboucher3626]

Her mother also referred to her grandchild as, “it” while the nurse and doctor were in the room. It was shocking to hear her mother speak that way about a full term baby; her daughter’s full term baby. I have no sympathy for this young woman because of all the opportunities she had to make other plans, starting with birth control. Thank you Dr. Grande for clarifying some unclear details in this case. It’s heartbreaking.

[@beckydoesit9331]

And not only do Dems want what she did legal, they want to put sex ed in all schools to encourage behavior like this. Disgustting. Look for Biden to pardon her if convicted.

[@TomikaKelly]

It's a common pronoun when referring to a new baby.

[@SenorGrandePP]

⁠ They are radical Democrat far leftists they don’t value baby lives, New México is the abortion capital of the world ☠️

[@elizabethCorkins83]

Disgusting & sad

[@RachelRichards]

​@@TomikaKelly- No it is absolutely not. Not when it's your child/grandchild.

[@MF-ty2zn]

She could have surrendered the baby to hospital staff with no questions asked.

[@stageluvr91]

The hospital didn’t offer her help?? They were literally at the locked bathroom door trying to find out if she was okay and needed help. She said NO. Ridiculous.

[@melb1215]

They offered help, she said no, they did what they could. They are not to blame. They did not murder the baby.

[@ViktorVonDoom723]

Her mother was a bad parent but she(Alexi) is to blame. Alexi should be jailed or placed in a psychiatric facility.

[@nellyismotivated7839]

It’s wild that she went to the hospital, gave birth in a hospital bathroom, killed the baby and tried to cover it up with the evidence knowing that she was already told after being tested with a positive pregnancy test. The baby didn’t deserve that and didn’t have a fighting chance!

[@kimberlyevers7031]

@@ayanned dude, if you want to shame the "whores", shame the guy that made them "whores". Let's be fair. Equality, my man.

[@krissya5620]

Apparently they were about to do a blood test because she was still denying the results of the urine test. She probably thought that the blood test would be negative when she came out of the bathroom.

[@TheDealMaster]

After recently watching the full hospital video and then the follow up video where the cops come to the house to arrest her... there is ZERO question her Mom has enormous influence over her and all her actions and inactions and I do believe she was very worried what her mother would think about her being pregnant.. This is definitely one of the more messed up scenarios in recent memory. Thank you Dr., for your analyses. I figured this one was coming.

[@vicvega3614]

But the mom knew

[@supernova11711]

I do agree but that still doesn’t excuse what she did. She had many options in this scenario other than throwing him in the trash like nothing.

[@ashleybergstrom8934]

IF she was worried about her mother's reaction to her being pregnant, why didn't she wonder about her mother's reaction to murdering her son??????? Like mother like daughter.

[@missrose0077]

I watched the arrest video too and was surprised at the length of time and gentleness of her arrest. One of the officers even brought their vehicle closer to the house so she wouldn't be inconvenienced. Honestly, I was shocked they even put cuffs on her.

[@lizveronacounseling3029]

How her lawyer can say that after all the videos we have seen??? Poor baby ❤ she deserves a first degree sentence, she was worried about her social life and not about her own son. The mother was worried about the world but she forgot to teach her daughter accountability for her actions!!!

[@SatyrToon]

Not only was she at a hospital where she could EASILY surrender the baby, she was above the age limit that protected her via Doctor-Patient Confidentiality! She could have safely given birth, surrendered the baby and told her family NOTHING with NO CONCERN that her doctors would spill the beans. And yet, she put her image and her narcissistic mother over the life of a newborn child.

[@mlee40738]

After seeing her in that cheer outfit, theres no way you can tell me no one knew she was pregnant!

[@LoveLivesHere12]

“She just lost a child” says her lawyer. Yeah, she threw “it” away in the garbage. She MUST be held accountable!

[@22quietmouse]

That poor baby there are so many wonderful people all over the world who could’ve given that baby all the love and attention he deserved.

[@moomagpie4265]

I wonder about the mothers' denial of the pregnancy? She knew. The girls cheer team knew. I think something didn't go as planned. The plan may have been to give birth at home and get rid of the child, not have him at the hospital.

[@smakkdat]

Interesting theory, something definitely is off about the whole situation

[@mamacitachang]

But she requested to go to the hospital because of pain so that seems weird that she would do that when she knew that she was pregnant.

[@MeganVictoriaKearns]

​@@mamacitachangYeah, something is missing in the story. A puzzle piece is missing and it's a BIG piece. I'm convinced something has been left out. There are just too many inconsistencies. It doesn't add up.

[@vicvega3614]

@@MeganVictoriaKearns theres alot of pain during birth, she thought she could get pain meds and leave and give birth and get rid of the baby, she didn't wanna go to the hospital she had to

[@the_review_lady_channel]

I think she delivered to the hospital because she knew it was a safer place for herself. And that she could theoretically maybe hide it in the trash underneath a separate liner

[@lizzyvega9612]

I once was 18 and pregnant and too scare to tell my family! When Dr Grande was describing what Alexis was feeling I taught of myself! My son could have died too!😢 But he is 20 now and I’m so proud of him!

[@lynemac2539]

Something similar here. The offspring heard this story and thanked me for not doing that. It wouldn't have occurred to me. Didn't think about adoption either.

[@moonshineblues204]

Right! Why do we share girls all through high school with "don't get pregnant! It will ruin your life!!" No, it won't. It'll be OK. Babies make it harder but not impossible. I wonder what he mom said to her

[@moonshineblues204]

I have a 20 year old too.

[@e_i_e_i_bro]

Had mine at 19. He's the love of our lives.

[@ctaccv9653]

I can't fathom why her mother allowed her to go to prom after this... This does not make sense to me. She was mediocre at school, she murdered her child, she lied and lied again. And now she is blaming the hospital staff... This is insane.

[@AshleysTarotCorner]

Funny that the lawyer wants her to be shown the common human decency she failed to show her own son. She could have pulled the cord and gotten help. She could have let staff in. She openly admitted she was “scared” to tell anyone she was pregnant or what happened. I’m 24 weeks, 2 days pregnant (6 months) and I realized I was pregnant before I was even out of my 4th week. She knew what she was doing, she knew what the results would be, now she’s only trying to cover her own behind.

[@JamieVileOfficial]

my mom didn’t know she was pregnant, until she gave birth to me, at six months along. But she did not kill me and throw me in a trash can. Now, i can’t say she wasn’t scared out of her mind…I know i would be, or at least shocked, but i also wouldn’t hurt my baby. I am a mom of three small children….not all planned, but all loved! edit: my mom had me when she was a teenager. And She told me herself that her mother (my grandmother) was very against them having sexual activity…all that normal stuff a parent will be worried about….as it seems this mother was in the video. Two different outcomes. Because that girl did the WRONG thing, and she KNEW it.

[@blacksuite1]

I have a hard time believing she didn't know she was pregnant.

[@torykincaid4903]

​@@blacksuite1nah, people really are that dumb.

[@alisondawson5116]

With all due respect, your mum was only six months along ~~ she would have had a decidedly small baby than a full term bub. Cheers ti your mum for having had you at such a young age and obviously raising a smart, moral child. Congrats to giving birth pre term age and being so terrified, tough lady. xoxox

[@EChan-eu2co]

​@@blacksuite1Frankly, there are American teenagers posting "How do u know ur preganant?" in forums. It depends how conservative the adults around a kid. In the rural areas in the Philippines, the people don't discuss sex and reproduction since they're very old fashioned. We're supposed to get the reproduction lecture at Grade 6 in school. Some 13-15 year old girls get pregnant by 30-50 year old men and their families are just glad the men are marrying their daughters after that. Cue my eyes rolling so hard it's a wonder they are staying in their sockets.

[@katiebini6064]

I have been waiting for you to cover this one!!! Her lawyer should get an Oscar for gaslighting!!! Absolutely disgusting that he is spinning this on the hospital staff. Thank goodness there is so much video of this showing her not caring about what she just did to her newborn son. This was so well done! You always make your videos with such grace and dignity. I’m not sure in all cases I could do the same ❤

[@melb1215]

This is going to be an interesting case. Especially with the behavior of the mother of Alexee🙄 She's going to go ballistic when her daughter goes to prison for murdering her grandson!

[@fabiolaflores8919]

I bet the lawyer bails on them when he realizes how crazy they are, he’ll probably think it’s not worth the effort to defend Alexee . Just a thought, it’s hard to deal with people who rewrite history and believe their own lies and it doesn’t make for a defensible case.

[@ingrid_inthesky]

That MONSTER traumatized every single healthcare worker who would have done _anything_ to ensure her and baby's health and safety. But no, the monstrous sociopath only cared about herself and her mom's approval.

[@kekakid05]

She went to prom and graduation!? Okay I’m seeing how her home life could make her not care about anyone else but herself. My parents would have forbidden me to go anywhere except for school if I had done what she did. Hope she enjoyed her time at those events bc she is facing a lengthy prison sentence. She definitely is not held accountable by anyone in her life. Sickening to think she isn’t ashamed in the slightest of her actions. She is going to get a HUGE wake up call when she is prison.

[@lucia50em]

oh I hope so from your mouth to God's ears. she needs to go to prison life is not like your mommy tells you alexee. feel sorry for the poor baby r.i.p.😢🙏🕊

[@BeliiSpii]

The hospital staff was way more upset over the baby than the entire family.

[@timewa851]

well they are now opened up to incoming lawsuit from Daddy! uhoh!

[@alos.h256]

​@@timewa851what lawsuit?

[@Lunchtable94]

I cant believe she’s roaming around free after killing her child… when there’s literal footage of her leading to it !! Sheeeshhhh

[@who__cares__]

She literally killed a living baby yet women who get abortions are in prison/jail

[@christiecruzxo2841]

She’s been arrested I thought

[@Lunchtable94]

@@christiecruzxo2841 I read an article and it states that she had been arrested but since then has been released until her trial in October.... can anybody else confirm this ?

[@AmandaLeigh1004]

@@Lunchtable94 She is out on bond

[@the_review_lady_channel]

As Dr. grande said in the video, she is currently out I believe her trial is set for the fall. She even attended prom in April and is not even restricted to staying in her state. She also does not have an ankle monitor. I think it is ridiculous and everyone is treating her with kid gloves because she asked all Meek.

[@conniebrown983]

That girl was an adult. All she had to do was tell the nurses that she didn’t want her mom there, have the baby without mom there, then leave the baby at the hospital! Alexee’s mother didn’t have to know anything!

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

It's a sad story all around, to think Alexee was so afraid of her mother finding out about the baby is really sad and makes you wonder what her home life was like. My heart goes out to the little boy who didn't get a chance at life ♥may he rest in Heaven and I hope Alexee gets the mental help she needs. I think life in prison is a bit much but we'll see how it all plays out.

[@gregdrivesdriver5104]

This is New Mexico, so much incompetence that she won't get much of a sentence.

[@katarina1852]

Alexi thought she had gotten away with hiding her pregnancy the entire nine months and thought she could continue her deception by locking herself in the bathroom and putting that baby in the hospital trash. And after the nurses got wise she was taking too long in the bathroom and threatened to unlock it, why didn’t alarm bells ring when they found blood everywhere? They should have had an inkling it was related to delivering the baby and they should have looked in the only place in that bathroom where a baby could be hidden….the trash can. They knew she was acting strange and even said she was manipulative. I’m a nurse and I would have checked everything in that bathroom. I mean come on, they said blood was everywhere and even had to get housekeeping to clean it up. That blood was a huge red flag, no pun intended. They should have been worried enough, at the very minimum, to immediately examine Alexi (and I mean vaginally) to rule out hemorrhaging.

[@loislynncameron9608]

If I remember correctly, the doctor wanted to do this and she refused. I'm sure it was eventually done. I need to look up the video again.

[@ArtByHazel]

May that little boy rest in peace. This is hard to imagine. How could she give birth alone while she’s in the hospital?

[@Desi365]

And after they made a pregnancy test ! Like, nobody in this hospital could connect the dots, really ?

[@Thats_Right80]

"Nothing was crying" That how DISASSOCIATED and SHREWD she was in describing this full term newborn HUMAN baby. 19 yrs old and keeps asking for her"MOM" yet she didn't give her HELPLESS baby any consideration. She suffocated this baby. The plastic was STUCK to his face as the OXYGEN ran out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She TORE the placenta into pieces to get rid of it and repeatedly FLUSHED it down the toilet which alerted the hospital staff. Hence the BLOOD everywhere!!! She KNEW what she was doing and didn't ask for any help. Cunning, heartless and EVIL 19 yr old.

[@gellisbarber1786]

Pretty much all of the people involved in this situation (Alexee, her mom, her boyfriend) all appear to have a pathological inability to take responsibility for anything. All of them had to be well aware of the pregnancy, but they all kept kicking the can down the road hoping the situation would somehow resolve itself. The mother's only question about the baby was how big he was and she was clearly shocked to learn it was full term. I think the hope was that Alexee would miscarry and everyone could pretend the pregnancy had never happened. Not a single one of them seemed to consider themselves responsible for anything that occurred and are just flabbergasted at the idea that they can be held accountable.

[@gregdrivesdriver5104]

They all knew that she was pregnant. Due to the circumstances, they sat there and didn't say anything because the police were involved. REMAIN SILENT. Who is the father? They laugh?

[@the_review_lady_channel]

I lost my baby to Covid in the second trimester. My due date was in January. I got invested in this story before making the connection. My baby Antonio and this baby would have been born at the same time. My heart is broken again. This is so tragic.

[@sweetnsalty4602]

I’m so sorry 💔 🙏 👼

[@debrapahl7573]

😢❤

[@petergriffiinbirdistheword]

I learned I was pregnant at the hospital and was told I was 6 months. I was in extreme denial and the hospital wouldn't let me leave. They spent the whole night proving to me that there was an actual baby there. I left in shock, but I couldn't deny an ultrasound and medical professionals. I also don't plan to have my baby in a hospital bathroom and then kill it so IDK. 🤔

[@sngray11]

I saw the bodycam footage of this case. The part that makes zero sense to me is a hospital is safe haven… she could have given the baby to staff and not faced any legal consequences. Her son would be alive in a loving home and she could have continued being a teenager: 💔

[@sandracasey3486]

Her Mother knew or at the very least strongly suspected that she was pregnant. The first words out of her mouth was "Lexee I just told you about this - I just asked you baby to tell me the truth". As a Mom of a now adult woman I can tell you 100% that if my daughter was pregnant when she was a teen I would have known even if it was just from the way she looked. Alexie looked pregnant in her cheerleading uniform and I'm sure she was questioned by her coach and talked about by the other girls on the team. My daughter did All Star competitive cheerleading from grade school through college and there is no way that she could have gained all of that weight and not been questioned. In my opinion her Mom knew and Alexie is a murderer - and her Mom is just as bad. The boyfriend knew too- he had to if they were still having "relations".

[@caitlinthompson7540]

90% of the fault falls on Alexee's mother. That girl is terrified of her mother. She's still mentally being controlled and traumatized by that witch even though she's of age. She did an unforgivable act bc her mother has kept her in a kids mental prison since she could walk. I grew up with a mother like this. My childhood was exhausting and sad. I'm proud to say I've risen above it and relish independence and free will.

[@TomikaKelly]

I think this is why I have so much empathy for her. She wasn't a cold blooded killer. She was a teenager caught in a horrible position and felt like she didn't have anyone in her corner.

[@stacin821]

How do you know that's how her mother was? Is there more information than the couple of minutes of bodycam footage?

[@kateashby3066]

Yeah those body cam vids were horrible to watch. The way her mother responded. Frankly I wasn’t that disturbed until I saw this girl in her cheer uniform 🤦🏻‍♀️ she was SO clearly pregnant. Her mother HAD to know! I’d bet my house that this is one of those families where you do NOT talk about sex education. At least my parents bought me a few lame books. I kid you not, my sister’s first boyfriend was age 22 and he thought that women gave birth out of their ass-holes because his grandma who raised him was a staunch catholic and refused to even acknowledge male vs female body parts let alone speak to him about sex. And no, they weren’t sexually active (obviously). These psycho parents are mostly to blame for this. I bet mom spoke to her daughter a ton about college tho, and applying to 30 different ones, and don’t let your GPA fall below a 3.6, and probably told her what profession she would study in school too. 😖

[@carolea7158]

This is a case of fault vs responsibility before the law.

[@carolea7158]

@@kateashby3066 at 22? OMG!!!

[@thesisypheanjournal1271]

If you watch the arrest video, you'll see that her mother was a serious piece of work. My first response would have been "YOU KILLED YOUR BABY!" Hers was, "See? Now you're going to get in trouble."

[@Hamlet12341]

“The hospital failed her and didn’t give her help” negative. She locked herself in the bathroom and wouldn’t come out until they threatened to come in. The only way they may have failed her is by letting her mother stay with her after they found out she was pregnant.

[@ATiredDoctor]

Did Alexee know that her mom knew her secret? I think that’s an important thing here. Clearly mom knew she was pregnant. The photos, and even conversation from the initial conversation with the cops right after they discovered the boy, mom knew. Combining Dr. Grande’s theory with the idea that mom already knew she was pregnant- if mom already knew then she must’ve been lying to her daughter the whole time pretending she didn’t know. Alexee was willing to kill for a secret that her mom already knew. It’s terrifying to think about the amount of elephants that must live in their household.

[@kimberlyevers7031]

An extremely, emmeshed, unhealthy home. No excuses for that girl, though. Arrested development, my eye. I think she acted that way to keep her mother off her back.

[@Zest4life890]

Alexis, mothers, mannerisms and body language is suspect to me, I really think her mom knew she was pregnant because she wanted to protect her daughter, and their relationship is odd. Alexis is 19 but she’s acting like she’s a nine-year-old. Looking at her mom on what to do or say next, they had a special communication with the eye looks and body language, and the other family members didn’t notice her belly growing. This is all suspect to me. Her mother was more worried about Alexis than her grandchild. That is a classic sign how they both didn’t even ask about the baby at all?

[@mjanny6330]

The relentless torrent of excuses for this young womans terrible behavior is insane.

[@beckydoesit9331]

And not only do Dems want what she did legal, they want to put sex ed in all schools to encourage behavior like this. Disgustting. Look for Biden to pardon her if convicted.

[@TentinQuarantino_]

Her mother shouldn’t have had kids.

[@thepoweroftheoilofjoy]

strange how people can't accept that evil exists.

[@DrLC.]

@@TentinQuarantino_I couldn’t agree more. That level of selfish idiocy shouldn’t be allowed to procreate.

[@isocarboxazid]

@@thepoweroftheoilofjoy No need for fairy tales about good and evil. The spectrum of human behavior is enough in itself.

[@marytague6268]

Nothing but the most severe punishment is ordered by the courts in this horrendous episode!

[@jessieg5463]

I find it crazy that they didn’t think she was pregnant with that huge belly🤦🏻‍♀️ But whats even crazier we see in the videos how she calls the baby it or nothing but now when suing the hospital news comes out that she named him Alex with the boyfriend’s last name (released on documents) and made a memorial frame with white angel wings, a baby blanket or onesie, and a photo of the baby (which kinda looks like a baby in a casket 😔). Was gonna say she is something else, but they all are even they boyfriend’s mom who didn’t care to ask the officers about her grandchild either and to be laughing with crazy’s mom when answering the officer’s question 😤

[@sophiaisabelle0227]

The Alexee Treviso case is traumatic. Dr Grande has always been direct and honest with what he has to say.

[@garrysekelli6776]

İt's bizarre watching a Hispanic psychiatrist diagnose a Hispanic psychopath.

[@isocarboxazid]

@@garrysekelli6776Your inappropriate and weird comment is what is bizarre here.

[@isocarboxazid]

I was an ICU and ER nurse in a different lifetime. After many twists and turns, I've been an NP in psychiatry for more than 10 years. As a nurse, I've seen and heard so many terrible things, and I can't imagine how these staff members feel. Going home after a horrible day like that day. Been there, and it crushes my heart. Just can't wrap my head around how terrible this case is. Alexee murdered a baby, possibly gave multiple people- ER doc, nurses, CNA, housekeeper- PTSD. Not to mention the ongoing trauma of having this high profile case that will likely loom for a good while. Incredibly sick, and she needs to be locked up for a long time. Mother is a complete piece of work as well.

[@patriotiac572]

Oh gosh, the poor baby and the poor housekeeper who found him. Such a senseless killing. Nobody covers true crime cases as thoroughly or as fairly as you, Dr. Grande. My undergrad degree is in a hard science and I've been a researcher, among other things, for years. You go as far in depth as I would do, which is why I enjoy this channel and all your videos so very much. Now if only I could hire you to help me with some other research! Oh well, you'll probably be hearing about it soon enough so please stay tuned. Keep up the great work and see you next case!

[@tigq1430]

QUESTION-when the one person at the bathroom door looked in, he didn't see the blood everywhere? She left that restroom as if nothing was wrong. Many of the staff said there was blood everywhere. When the nurse/Dr. told her she was pregnant, the mom said 'I told you about this' I wonder what that really meant. The girl was ready to go to college, the mother clearly had set up a path for her daughter & the daughter didn't want to disappoint. Can't help but wonder if the mother didn't have some type of cruel plan in mind. Nevertheless, uncongonable 😪

[@pamelaanne9489]

lexee was given morphine, which was found in the baby at the autopsy. this could have depressed the baby's breathing and made it look to lexee like he wasn't breathing. also, if the hospital staff tried to resuscitate the baby, this would have forced air into his lungs and made it appear that he took breaths after he was born. on another note, lexee is a 19 year old adult and she should have been asked, outside her mother's presence, if she wanted her medical information shared in front of her mother. idk how no one noticed that her mother was treating her adult daughter like a 10 year old and just went along for the dysfunctional ride.