Don't Care What a Narcissist Thinks of You!

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[@altaerker5089]

Yes, my divorced mother was a narcisist and I married a narcisist...have never known love and I'm 73 years old. Am learning to love myself after two very devaluing and totally abusive relationships. Thank you for validation and encouragement...no one ever takes your side...these folks are liers, manipulators and oh sooo cunning! It's hard to understand how a mother and a husband that you have loved can be jealous of you and want to destroy you! God bless you and the work you and others are doing to help us survivors and others understand this dangerous disease which has become an epidemic!

[@steadypace1262]

The narcissist won't even acknowledge you as being a human being who has the same needs and wants as everyone else. Good video.👍🙂

[@gwenoickle3584]

Soul has been depleted. I was as low as I ever could have imagined. I am now standing one one sid foot and trying my damndest!

[@christinavolpe879]

It took me 44 years of living and two consecutive marriages/ relationships of 25 years of narcissism to come to a point where enough was enough and now on the healing journey.

[@johnpinheiro6211]

It s my mom, i wish i knew this earlier...

[@hankhill3417]

They never loved you! Move on

[@AshkonHemmati]

Are you real? How can someone be so beautiful and yet so down to earth?! I have been healing for the past two years, in part thanks to your videos

[@sondrah150]

I wanted my narcissist to find another supply and forget I ever existed. While he had a new supply he was leaving me alone and I had peace and quiet

[@Tutume1111]

My mother is a typical clinical narcissist.Havent seen her for 17 years and even after she used the brief contact to still deny anything she did wrong inspite of black on white evidence

[@user-zq2rt7rz3t]

I feel like they complement you to test how you'll respond, just to see if you still have a buzz from external validation. Then once they rope you back in and make you feed safe and heard, they tear you down.

[@michaeljackson7361]

I learned alot from several narcissist in my life. If I see them I look straight in their eyes. Without any expression. And go on about my day as if I hadn't even seen them. It's funny af.

[@DEAN_23]

"You're selfish"

[@nicolefiocco4516]

Mine came after me today with money-shaming aka financial abuse. She KNOWS that's a sore spot for me and that I work my ass off but don't make much money. She brought it up THREE times in one "conversation". You can tell she enjoyed it, too. They're horrendous people. Toxic from the inside out.

[@tommyparkerparker]

When I was younger, I felt this from some family members, a couple of former co workers . Not so much now. The older you get the wiser you get.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

This is a real gem of a video. It is the life-changing answer to a habit of energy-draining behaviors that have kept me entangled with the narcissist, and giving away my power. The number one conveyer of confidence is body language. Narcs have it down to a fine art. What it is, is a subtle defiance, or veiled threat that things could get "ugly." Just yesterday, I managed to NOT let my narc mother intimidate me into being fearful of any “outcomes.” Sadly, at the end of the day, I blew it. I started “over-explaining,” and “caring” about what she thought. The triumphant look on her face said it all! This video serves as a great reminder not to fall for any more of the narcissist’s tricks, or crazy antics!! Thank you so, so much Stephanie.

[@ciggytwiggy]

I teared cos it reminded me of my close friend and I. I treated her like an older sis, but she put me down time and time and again.

[@jimmymatt6228]

1:50

[@jmfs3497]

In middle-age, after processing the abuse from a workplace narcissist/OCPD manager, I realized my step-mother was the first one I encountered. I thought I had processed my CPTSD from childhood, until a narc/OCPD became my manager and everything was triggered in me. I found myself being critiqued about everything, like my experienced workflow, my choice of words, my part-time degree work, my goals, my autonomy to have workplace conversations with colleagues, to not checking-in with the narc/OCPD with my every action, etc.

[@UltimateMoralizer]

That’s what I’ve learned to do in my life. The moment you stop caring about the opinions of other people you stop drowning in them. In life, it’s important not to argue with argumentative people as it’s just draining. Let them be and simply cut them out of your life. For example, I’m naturally a happier overseas person, so if someone in the UK tries to convince me to stay here even after I’ve made it crystal clear that my heart doesn’t belong here, I let them be and just avoid them. In life, once you get to know a person well, you’ll know if they’re right for you. You need to trust your gut instinct.

[@amylynn7881]

You are speaking directly to me with this video. I moved my narcissistic husband on October 1st. Took our 2 1/2 year old son and left. I have been battling this so badly and I didn’t know why. I still try to make him happy or do things to make it easier for him, etc. 10 years of trying to prove to him I was good enough and never succeeding … amazing how trauma therapy is helping me realize how my depressed mom and my dad that always cancelled his weekends with me has impacted me now as an adult.