The 90 Day Fiancé FINALE: Relationship Cringe

[@ms-fh8ed]

Johnny is a whole FATHER, he has no business staying in this toxic af relationship

[@chuuseason]

looks like she’s manipulating him some type of way. no one in their right mind would stay with that terrible woman 💀

[@lalakuma9]

I don't know if his parents & the Chinese culture are putting a lot of pressure on him to find a new wife. But if Ella is the prospective new mom to his child, I think the child is better off growing up without a stepmom at all.

[@majonaisse3986]

@@lalakuma9 Yeah the culture can be a huge factor I mean women who don't get married before 30 in China are literally refered to as "leftover women" so there's considerable pressure regarding that. Still if that were me with a whole ass child I would not put up with that

[@majonaisse3986]

@Trinity M Ok first of all sorry if I spread any misinformation and thanks for clarifying! Also jesus that's awful you had me at "too educated" wth

[@cbiancardi9233]

@Trinity M yeah but Ella is no prize here. Johnny could find a nice woman in her 30s and be much better off.

[@dluvs___]

it’s the fact that ella cheated AGAIN. She doesn’t deserve johnny

[@lijo4518]

Yea AGAIN 🤨

[@ChocolateMuffin308]

you can't know that, you weren't there

[@silverstorm1000]

@@ChocolateMuffin308 you’re kidding right? Do you actually believe that guy stayed in another room?

[@elsac4405]

Johnny isn't really bothered by it, probably because he just wants a green card 😅

[@chitae8551]

How did you know?

[@LittleMadameAnything]

THE WAY SHE BREATHED UNDER TEARS ‘I have lost my appetite..’ HAD NO BUSINESS BEING SO DRAMATIC LMAO

[@TJ-jk4ut]

she did the absolute most 😭🤣

[@ora9094]

Im dead, im alive but im dead

[@IllithidKittea]

Bro I fucking laughed.

[@bleedingbellybutton9403]

Ella should get into theatre

[@Scr4mbledM3ggs]

FR😭

[@kozykenma8004]

It’s nice to see Johnny being defended by everyone else. Ella seems to have been guilting him about the whole situation, so it’s nice to show him that he’s not in the wrong for being upset about her cheating.

[@alipennington3764]

That's what she does. She can't take responsibility for her own actions so it's always someone else to blame. Cheating, Johnny's fault. Pressuring him to come to America while not taking any kind of covid precautions (and kind of being ignorant about covid in general), and when he won't come, oh it's his fault for choosing to not travel there. I genuinely believe too, that she only wanted Johnny's "help" losing weight when he got there, because she would have someone to blame when she couldn't follow through 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@kirausamaria5409]

Bad thing they also defended Mike's behavior and just trashed Ximena too.

[@mariel1ly]

this just proves that it literally doesn’t have to be johnny, ella is looking for any asian man that likes her enough to be with her to fulfill her weird asian fetish. johnny know your self worth. do not risk losing your job over this white woman😭😭

[@ashmarie_thatsme6517]

Agree! I’ve been saying the same thing since their first episode… and she just keeps confirming that as a fact.

[@z_bennet4208]

someone arrest this woman. its so disturbing.

[@candycane1744]

Except for Indians

[@Ven-7xv]

@@candycane1744 and Middle Easterners and the rest of South Asia and southe east Asia and north asia…

[@mallumlee5936]

@@Ven-7xv fr, just east asia

[@artstudentlife]

The difference is cheating, lying and breaking someone’s trust vs. being honest and in a consensual polyamorous relationship with trust

[@inyeekaribi4913]

There is a difference, but trust me when I tell you that’s not what Soulja boy was talking about….

[@veggiezz]

lmfao idk if that's what's going on with kimberly and soulja boy... she wants him for sex, he wants her for money, he also wants a younger woman for her womb, and kimberly is so desperate for sex that she'll go along with it... they're the worst relationship by far

[@Shyress]

@@veggiezz They‘re not. None of them are hurting the other and both of them agree to the terms of their relationship. Meanwhile Ella constantly hurts her man, lies to him and breaks every possible rule in a relationship. And hurting someone over and over again is much worse in my eyes, than having a beneficial relationship

[@Aaron-kp6kp]

@@veggiezz Did you.. Just proved our point? “She wants him for sex. He wants her for money” And they both know that, they both agree to that.

[@jcaseyjones2829]

There are times when this is a healthy option and this isn't that. Someone needs to wake this crazy old lady up. THIS ISN'T GOING TO WORK

[@akaLaBrujaRoja]

What kills me is Ella daring to tell Ximena “learn Ingles,” like, does this chick who exclaims “I love everything Asian!” know how to speak any other language besides a few words she picked up from movies and series? She and Johnny have only spoken English together in the videos I’ve seen, so I doubt she’s fluent or even trying to learn Chinese, and she definitely strikes me as someone who has the subtitles on when she watches anything that’s not in English.

[@tirea277]

That rubbed me the wrong way too! That girl is something else entirely💀

[@silverstorm1000]

I haven’t even seen her say nihao. I don’t think she can say anything in mandarin.

[@candycane1744]

She only knows a few Japanese from anime

[@heatherm2055]

Well granted Ella said Stony was speaking to her “like he was speaking English, but it wasn’t,” which shows she doesn’t even understand what speaking a different language is like 😅 She should’ve just said, “Stony is always talking with me in Chinese and I’m trying to learn some words to communicate with him, too. Maybe someday I can teach him some English and he can teach me Chinese.” But NO she’s more concerned about getting her spank tank refilled

[@folddealfeal2740]

i agree till u got to the only watches stuff with subtitles part, like how would u watch a foreign language, im a little confused

[@phlasaban]

johnny better get that green card... its the least he can have for the trauma he went through with this woman

[@ambersmith2612]

He doesn't even want to be American 😭😭

[@silverstorm1000]

I really just hope he meets a good woman. He deserves so much better.

[@matchatneko4956]

@@ambersmith2612 he just want women/wife, in china is hard for him to get wife (guy like him)

[@JanaBanana96]

I don't think that's what he wants 😅

[@lalakuma9]

I dunno man, I'd still rather have people with PhD's getting those green cards instead. Because these days some of them can't even get a green card, that's how hard it has become to immigrate to the US.

[@Altair718]

I am begging Johnny to end this hoax of a relationship. This lady just saw him as a way to feed into her otaku fantasy, but when she realized he wouldn't fit the stereotype it was back to the dating apps she went.

[@snooganslestat2030]

Yep. Eventually (or not) she will realise people are individuals and no one is going to fit her fantasy.

[@deannad8955]

This.

[@shaycat13]

Can we talk about the racist feelings I got when Ella jumps in on telling Ximena to learn English 😬

[@ambersmith2612]

I mean we already knows she's a racist with how she fetishizes Asians is it shocking she'd be racist towards ximena too?

[@Hana-vh1om]

Broo

[@liyah1617]

I been felt that racist feeling about her in the beginning of the show

[@fanime1]

@@liyah1617 I mean, she thinks all Asians are the same despite each country's different cultures and histories. That's already pretty racist.

[@perona.s_bath_water3838]

Frr

[@pekoeji]

nah that person wasn't ella cause she would've tried to make you her next asian prince LMAO

[@temp_unknown]

STOP you're so right XD

[@annyeonglu]

trueee xDDDD

[@lm.1221]

LMFAOOOO

[@byulharangforlife]

Ommmggg

[@sym_]

LMAOOO☠️

[@raindropsandfeathers2245]

I like how he said "buy toys!" Ella admitted she has a ton of toys. And we all know Ella would lose her mind if Johnny cheated

[@amouryong]

You don't have to worry if it was Ella on the plane with you, because if it was her, she would've wanted you to be apart of her 3rd cheating on Johnny

[@akaLaBrujaRoja]

I hadn’t thought of that, why did you put it into my head? 😩

[@amouryong]

@@akaLaBrujaRoja it had to be said 😭

[@Original_Tenshi_Chan]

Ha! Joke's on you because... umm.. he would.. No? Seriously... Why with the nightmare fuel?? Now I can only envision her looking down on poor Ed, exclaiming Vore is her new kink, and everything being wrong with the world.

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

@@Original_Tenshi_Chan Oh, god... no... I'm gonna have nightmares! 😰

[@kelsey_3325]

Oof true

[@kn1402]

I really hope some of Johnny’s friend in China sees this and tell him to leave this relationship. The way Ella manipulated him with the LEAST convincing “I love you so much” is disgusting.

[@wtichery]

He may be too busy to have loads of support system of peers between work and parenting, I have 0 friends and 2 children lol

[@kn1402]

@@wtichery i hope you’re doing fine! but yeah, you’re probably right, his parents should at-least try then since they’re still around him.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

@@wtichery same, 0 friends and 2 babies, 3rd on the way, not gonna have friends for many many years I'm sure

[@princessskies3083]

@@wtichery in one of the earlier episodes they showed him eating at a restaurant with friends talking about his relationship with Ella before he left China

[@MayaTheBeeeeee]

The key is consent. Johnny screaming “nonononono” in agony is not consenting.

[@craydye93]

“I’m so sorryyy I just…wanted to have a good birthday!!” I’m sorry what?? STOP. If you want to have a good birthday then just idk go to a movie or a concert. God it is so hard for me to feel sorry for her. She is the person that will cry when things don’t go her way or to make people feel bad and forgive her for things that she did to THEM.

[@SemekiIzuio]

Shes just spoiled unfortunately. Her parents in that segment they were shown give her everything

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@SemekiIzuio Yep. She reminds me so much of Nicole (who dated Assan) same type of background, same attitude, same awful personality.

[@cbiancardi9233]

I am tried of her saying touch is her love language. Omg gtfoh. She should not date long distance then

[@leonardozhang]

It's so ironic that Ella puts pressure on Johnny to come to the US to show that he's commited when she's out there cheating on him. I hope he knows he can do way better than her.

[@snooganslestat2030]

Shows how immature she is.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

She's probably worried he's cheating on her, that's why she wanted him close to her. Cheaters are always worried that they're being cheated on

[@xxemii5679]

I can’t believe that as soon as Ella is confronted with all of the terrible shit that she’s done to Johnny, she turns around and starts crying her eyes out to him so that she can guilt trip him into still coming to see her, *despite* the ways that it could negatively affect Johnny, his family, and his life at home. Absolutely despicable.

[@tr.ns_overlord3798]

It gave me flashbacks that I thought I had forgotten of my ex. At least she made me remember that I was emotionally abvsed and made me realize that no I don't want him back. So that's good of her to do I guess...

[@peekaloo12]

"I will wait for him" But girl... You already cheated... There was no waiting

[@nicoledoubleyou]

Yeah that's literally not waiting

[@gothANGELbabii]

Oh sure she'll wait now...now that it's a month out to them meeting.. if it was another 7 month or anything longer type of situation I'm sure she'd be cheating again.. smh.. this chick is crazy

[@tirea277]

1. Why was Ella bragging about the fact that she owned cheating on her man? That’s not something to be proud of… 2. Ella didn’t even own the fact that she cheated. She cried about it, blamed Johnny for it, and twisted his words around to make him feel bad for her. That girl💀

[@Kaixjss]

I love how everyone looks at Ella like she’s crazy whenever she cries 💀 but the white woman tears only works on Johnny

[@sugarplum2467]

So if she weren't white her tears wouldn't be fake?

[@Kaixjss]

@@sugarplum2467 I never said that.

[@mrs.h2725]

Pretty sure she's racist. There's been a few red flags between the hijab cosplay, 'Ingles'🤌 and comparing polyamory cultures to her cheating. That and her fetishism of an entire continent of ppl with zero regard to their individual cultures.

[@Kaixjss]

@@mrs.h2725 Exactly. Her whole personality is being a white woman who fetishizes Asians. So People can’t get mad at me for saying she’s using her privilege/white woman tears to manipulate johnny

[@delegsgsg6353]

i wish johnny could realise that too 😅

[@apocalypseready6256]

It’s the white woman crocodile tears every time she makes a bad decision for me. Like, own up to your actions instead of manipulating Johnny into not feeling rightfully angry, for Christ’s sake.

[@sugarplum2467]

WTF do fake tears have to do with race. Stop with that shit already.

[@kieranindahouse]

Agreed.

[@LittleRedPhoenix]

And the "I'm so sorry but YOU...." It's not an apology if it's followed with a "but"

[@patriceharrison1011]

Every time

[@MK_ULTRA420]

Asking her to own up to that is like asking white men to uninvent the gun.

[@yukiihoney]

Johnny is way to kind, I hope he doesn’t get destroyed by her 💔

[@silverstorm1000]

He should seriously cut his losses and run. I feel so bad for him. Idk why he’s so desperate to stick with Ella with how she has been.

[@purplenurple6278]

He must really want that ranch..

[@elsac4405]

@@purplenurple6278 🤣 right & the green card

[@liyre4189]

I don't think it's love, there's no way he actually loves her. He's getting something out of this relationship, and whatever it is I hope he gets it and runs ASAP

[@Ebrill_Owen]

Johnny really is almost too sweet for his own good. I hope this helps him stand up for himself in the future.

[@RNS_Aurelius]

Ella just isn't ready for a relationship. She has a lot to work through before she gets to that stage. She's clearly insecure and needs constant affirmation, she likes the idea of a long term relationship more than she actually likes Johnny. She's also emotionally manipulative and behaves like a toddler when she's done something wrong. Then has the audacity to shout learn English at a stranger. She's so American.

[@vivian9744]

I know these relationship “tests” are super bs and toxic but I want to see Johnny lie to her and say he cheated just to prove that she would 10000% not be “chill and understanding”

[@nicoledoubleyou]

I know it's toxic and immature but I just want him to actually cheat on her to show her how it feels, haha

[@whateverb9778]

Ella cheating again… Meanwhile I can’t even get a text back 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@modewear1202]

💀💀

[@KH0LRA]

samesies 🤸🏻‍♀️

[@beautifullEternal]

Literally, don't worry about that. When you have no standards, the world is your oyster.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

Gotta lower your standards and be willing to do gross things, that's how these kinds of people get men

[@kakal00kio]

Lol. Same here

[@salemmarz3809]

nobody will ever fit into ella’s perfect asian anime boy fantasy because she’s basing this attraction off of fictional characters

[@echomoonrising]

She threw a temper tantrum and cheated when his travel date was delayed a few months and we're supposed to believe she wouldn't be mad if he cheated????? 🙄😒 Toxic AF.

[@marciapeak893]

If her love language is touch, she loving the heck out of the arm of that chair. Ella is enjoying this attention, you can tell by that smirk plastered on her face.

[@fernandamaria1414]

The silence after Ella enter that room, exhales uncomfortable and awkward vibes😬.

[@Voodoorai]

At least they did a great job on her makeup for the grand-awkward-entrance. I've always been confused because she looks anywhere from 21 to 51 and this was the first time I realized it's more on the lower end. Maybe cheating is what gave her that nice glow. 😳

[@craydye93]

Ella be like: Omg I am soooo sad that I’m the only one here without my man that I cheated on because he couldn’t come see me because of something called “pandemic?” and it’s his fault that he lives on the other side of the world even though I reallyyyyy wanted a nice samurai 3D anime boyfriend (I mean FIANCÉ) from China. I sad…. POOR JOHNNY YOU DESERVE BETTER.

[@idontexist1966]

Ah yes because samurai are from china

[@breannap8585]

@@idontexist1966 according to Ella, they are

[@calimango7926]

Ella's whole 'Would you rather I cheat and be honest, or cheat and lie' question activated my gag reflex. It's such a scum bag and gaslighting maneuver by cheaters and it drives me crazy.

[@Otakugatothequeen]

Ella disappoints me. Johnny is so sweet, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on and guilted over it. That was entirely Ella's doing. Polyamory is consentual between *all* partners. Cheating is only consentual between the people having sex.

[@sdrawkcabemdaer5]

I'm too lazy to watch this show myself so I've been waiting eagerly for someone else to give me an update 😂

[@maryb1618]

Same here!

[@Clee-os6pv]

To be honest? Some episodes are kind of boaring anyways.

[@WyspWyrm]

As a child that was involved in a situation exactly like this: I feel like Johnny should be thinking about his son way more. I know he's probably desperate to not die alone or something but, this stuff affects children way more than they probably think it does. There are so many people with unhealthy relationships that have kids that they expose to their toxic behavior and it's just so sad to see

[@pikuthewildchicken]

I think the shows name should be changed to 90 days of cheating if in the end everyone's gonna cheat... Johnny deserves better.... Grandma Edvasion is back!!! I missed him 😭

[@iang.9904]

“I have lost my appetite” I’m high as shit and that made me laugh so fucking hard. Cinematic genius.

[@lj5726]

Ian. G. Ya that really was....the elephant in the room :)

[@saz8610]

“BUY TOYS BUY TOYS” - soulja boy

[@Original_Tenshi_Chan]

Ella has a lot of gawd damned nerve to tell Ximena to "learn Ingles" while massacring the English language in her post. Seriously, what does she have against the language to brutalize it like that?

[@thesocialwallflower8723]

After watching the Ella part I literally face palmed so hard there’s a bruise on my forehead now.

[@supr33]

Johnny's forehead looked kind of bruised on the call, I wonder if that's what happened with him too 😫 what a mess

[@oceanequestrian11]

I got a concussion 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@thesocialwallflower8723]

@@oceanequestrian11 The only person I have face palmed harder to, is Danielle and Mohammed. Like my God she just didn’t freaking get it dude

[@thesocialwallflower8723]

@@supr33 honestly probably, I felt so sorry for that man

[@oceanequestrian11]

@@thesocialwallflower8723 are they from the newest season? This is the only season I have watched (against my will) and I’ve never been so frustrated for a bunch of strangers in my life! I’ve lost all hope in the human race as a result. I reduced to watch that show ever again

[@spookypaladin4667]

I have 0 sympathy for Ella, she's disgusting. It's good to see that people took Johnny's side.

[@MOR7295]

I’ve been feeling stuck in life and down, but whenever I people like this exist I feel so much better about being forever alone with my cat.

[@10qwertypoiu]

Why is everyone forgetting Ella casted a spell on Johnny using witchcraft or something that he would never leave her 💀💀 well there you go she’s cheating and he’s still around

[@Sara-li8pj]

We need to perform a reverse spell then

[@kenjako]

@@Sara-li8pj lets go hijas de las brujas lets free Johnny 🧙‍♀️🧙‍♀️🧙‍♀️

[@candycane1744]

Lowkey ella looks like she's getting pleasure from hurting johnny

[@stilljocelyn_]

It’s like she smiles when she “cries”

[@Tokyo_Rose.]

She has an evil smirk. Grinning an evil smirk when you're hurting someone is not right, its not normal.

[@Cationna]

I'm sure she does. She enjoys seeing proof that he cares about her because that's all that is important to her - to have someone care, as if it's going to fill the void of her own self-hate. I think the fact that the guy is basically a personification of her imaginary Asian boyfriends and she only knows him online at this point also might be playing a part. She enjoys having agency over him because she objectifies him and doesn't really see him as a real full person, just another "Asian prince" on a screen, but one that is "her person" to play with to make herself feel good. It all revolves around her and her trying to feel good enough. That's why she slept with those other guys, that's why she overshared about her sex life in this show, why she's enjoying being criticised by others and feeling like a femme fatale; she desperately wants to feel desirable and lovable and not be alone, and she thought she could basically order herself a fantasy fulfillment by finding a guy - any guy, really - on that dating website. It's all very sad, but she's definitely treating poor Johnny horribly. He also desperately wants to have a dream come true, and that's why he's sticking to her despite what she's doing to him, but the difference is he acts like he cares about her as a person, even if he's refusing to confront reality. He's putting effort in and treating her well and genuinely trying to work on the relationship. His delusions make him vulnerable, hers make her cruel.

[@WhatsGnat]

Ella's dye job is as patchy as her "stable" relationship

[@diediedice]

💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@MultiJordan2005]

Oh Ella sure does love to gaslight. "Remember? I told you xyz" and Johnny clearly did not have that experience

[@renniecakes]

around 11:00 I TOTALLY agree. If a big part of your love language is the physical aspect, it's seriously not a good idea to be or stay in a long distance relationship. I had a partner who felt that way and decided to break it off rather than have it become an issue for either him or myself. To this day i appriciate the honesty and we've even considered, if we become closer physically, we may work things out again. All in all, it's about having a healthy relationship on both sides. Know your needs people.

[@kcrazemijoo2985]

it would be hidden better than 2NE1 making a comeback at coachella.......This guy has my WHOLE HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@zigzaglychee7324]

Imagine being dragged this badly by other people on 90 Day Fiance. When even the other weirdos unanimously call you out, you know you've done something really bad.

[@S_Kirahhh]

If that's stable, imagine what's unstable for Ella😰🕴🏽

[@ItsBanesa]

The audacity of Ella. Johnny needs to run. She’s so selfish and just trash. Thank you for the updates saves me the trouble, really. 🥰😂 That BTS concert looked amazing.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

Nah he needs to use her for a green card and then gtfo

[@Val.Kyrie.]

….. how is she getting these men to sleep around with her? Why does she need a long distance relationship?

[@Sunset553]

i don’t think anyone is sleeping with her. i think she’s making up stories.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

She could be making it up but also, she likely has no standards other than being asian, and she is probably willing to do a lot of gross stuff that normal people with a sense of self worth wouldn't do

[@cathyincolorado1432]

I've wondered that too. I'm guessing the guys she's screwing are dudes no one else wants. Just as gross as she is. And ya, I'm guessing she does some back door stuff most women won't.

[@EXXTREMEGAMER5600]

The fact that ella literally keeps LYING to johnny, but he still decides to be faithful. I feel so bad for him and I feel like he’s pressured to keep staying in the relationship

[@hinatamercury]

Love language of touch is not an excuse to cheat. If she has skin hunger she can satisfy that with other human contact that is not sexual (platonic hugs from family and friends), petting an animal, or wrapping herself in a blanket

[@snooganslestat2030]

She just has hunger lmao

[@PotatoPotataaa]

The host is having the time of her life 😭 this looks like an intervention turned into roasting 😂😂😂💔 But yeah it's really nice to see everyone taking Johnny's side Ella is manipulative, narcissistic and toxic... I know it happens so often that the foreigner in these shows gets the bad treatment, but Ella stepped it up, she even beat Big neck Ed to me :/ hope Johnny finds someone better, he really seems like a good man

[@fadeuhhway]

Ooh, Johnny's face when Ella said she had someone else to spend her bday with...my man, you'll have no tongue left if you keep biting it

[@juliaholladay8821]

Not cheating on someone is the most basic term of a relationship agreement so to speak. Johnny deserves so much better and he should just focus on his son and find someone else once he’s healed from this toxic relationship.

[@NerdyChick201]

I’m so glad that everyone is defending Johnny, poor guy deserves better 🥺

[@urspookyate]

the guy that said "BUY TOYS!" sent me into another dimension

[@0215tc]

I have been cheated before by my ex , now I see it in a different way. He told me the exact line from Ella lol. "If you cheated I will also forgive you and understand you. "But he knew I won't , and he cheated twice lol. just leave these toxic person alone....

[@gxbbs5025]

The “ I have lost my appetite “ is iconic 🤣🤣

[@annonone93]

Comparing poly to cheating overlooks that cheating is not consenting and is abuse.

[@furqans2764]

I um...had an ex like Ella. We were long distance. She had sex with a family friend before we met up in person. We closed the distance and moved in. Surprise surprise she cheated on me multiple times and I was too young, too dumb, and too blind to break up with her until she really killed my heart. My only thanks, is that she was the one that broke up with me and saved me from more pain.

[@amirabouba6978]

Ah finally my daily dose of Ella and Johnny tea :3

[@inderjitkainth5353]

As a fat girl around ELLAS size…. She has no right to treat Jonny this way. It so hard to find a good guy that treat us well.

[@faerykpop]

I AGREE WHOLEHEARTEDLY I'M THE SAME SIZE (if not a bit bigger) it's hard.

[@Владиславость]

Stop. Why do you think your size have sense?

[@faerykpop]

@@Владиславость we don’t think it’s sense it’s because I am and it’s true. It’s not easy. I can be the nicest to them and then they’d leave. I was in a relationship with my high school sweetheart and he just dumped because she was thinner… though he tried not to say it. I knew it was the reason.

[@princessskies3083]

Hey I really don't mean to be rude. I'm a big girl, I'm not near Ella's size but I do keep gaining weight. How did you two end up getting to her size? I can't imagine it myself, though I never thought I'd be as big as I am right now. Are there any warning signs to be aware of or points where turning back becomes less and less likely?

[@chibimoon1432]

@Princess Skies simplest answer is just years of living the same lifestyle. If your habits don't change you get bigger. Or vise versa.

[@Sunset553]

I don’t believe anyone had sex with Ella. She said she called a friend who came over and cuddled, then one thing led to another. That was her revealing anecdote. I don’t think it happened and she just made it up to move things along.

[@user-pp6kd7ut4k]

17:46 that guy trying to comfort Ella by offering her lunch is easily the funniest moment in 90 Day Fiance history for me. "I have lost my appetite 😢" LOL

[@Elora-vd9vq]

its shows like this that make me appreciate being single, it still sucks, but it sucks way less than this!

[@vercoda9997]

As a gay guy at 50, I am officially a Singleasaurous, roaming the empty plains of Jurassic Park... but meh, that's fine. I would prefer to have met someone, but I didn't, and that's just life for some people. No, I don't feel compelled to smother a bed in creepy stuffed toys, or keep 24 cats for emotional support - just get on with life and find things to do. That's why I don't like people like Ella whining about how hard it is being alone - then fine, get up and join a club, or society, or go and do some charity or volunteer work to help others with all the free time she has to sit around feeling sorry for herself. But then, she seems to be profoundly selfish and immature anyway, frankly - she's never, ever shown enquiring about the child she'd have to mother for the next 20 years, and the elderly Chinese parents who she'd also have a duty towards for the next 20 years too - everything js just all about her, her, her, never about the wider family she'd also be taking on, and have responsibility towards, with her BF for decades to come.

[@tiamelancholyjeoncockity]

Well the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is always true and this proves my point 💀never trust a cheater omfg

[@corn7087]

that "learn english" comment pissed me off. How many languages do you know, ella?

[@Chyna_Doll]

That look on Johnny’s face broke my heart. He deserves better.

[@cocorobaroque]

at this point I would rather watch your channel than the actual show, I don’t think I could do it without your commentary 😭

[@kkewsuk]

I love how they all started attacking her for cheating

[@perrious4980]

Looooool the nigerians are Always great 😂. Usman like "toys! Buy toys!"

[@darcyhess3666]

Hey, I just wanna let you know that Ana Luisa’s jewelry is kinda scammy…. I’ve gotten several things from them and the gold coating comes off after only a few months of wear. It also tarnished my other jewelry. Everything on their site has 5 star reviews, which on its own is pretty sus. I don’t blame you for this sponsorship but I wouldn’t accept another one from them if you can help it

[@itschili2711]

These people just make my skin crawl.

[@_captainmagic]

The audacity of Ella. Gurl, this is why people bail on you. 🙃

[@thedietcokeofevil1100]

I thought the same thing, when she said "Everyobody bailed on meeee!! 😩" I thought "hmmm...I wonder why?"

[@dofu0]

10:51 I'm so sorry for being off topic but ayy hu tao song! but yeah when Ella was like "ugh I was so distraught" and being sad and was like I'm not sorry for cheating on you you should be sorry for making me sad and not accommodating my needs like bro omg this lady-

[@bruna7534]

When they asked her if she would be cool with him cheating her, honestly, the way how she tried to justify her cheating by guiltying him and act as if she was the victim and the WHOLE way how she put her needs over his responsibilities with his family, I'm SURE that if she got cheated she would actually be extremely hurt talk about she having trust and self-esteem issues. Not that in this hypothetical scenario those issues wouldn't matter, it does, I'm just guessing how she would act.

[@sungjae111]

"Eternal sunshine of a spotless mind: Johnny edition" would slap not going to lie because whoa... Miss ma'am really hurt that man 😭

[@tatjanadudas8798]

Hu Tao's theme kicking in during that argument got me cackling 😂😂😂

[@I-lost-my-account-rip]

So im not insane and that was actually there

[@monsterenergyfiendd]

Ella trying to play the victim triggered my fight or flight

[@AngelaEAwesome]

Wow. She’s such a liar. Seems so much like my ex with narcissistic traits. Play the victim when they’re called out. she will never stop cheating, narcissists never do.

[@angel127_]

yup, if he ever goes on a trip somewhere without her whether for work or anything else, i don’t doubt she won’t call someone up to come spend the night w her 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@fantabader6694]

That silence was deafening.

[@steamedsamz9935]

Ella is so emotionally manipulative and immature, I can't stand seeing her hurt Johnny so badly.

[@Ebrill_Owen]

It’s a shame. To me, Ella wouldn’t have such a struggle if she wasn’t such an evil effing person. She is quite pretty but her personality and her morals are absolutely repulsive. She needs to drop the victim complex! I’m glad that Johnny decided to stay with his son who needs him. But I’m nervous that he went ahead and bought the ticket to see her anyways. He’s so sweet and doesn’t deserve this shit! Overall as somebody with Asian family members (my Uncle-by-marriage is Japanese) the saga of Ella and Johnny was extremely bizarre to me. PS: “BUY TOYS!” Rofl I also love racist transphobic farting Mike being amused and acting like he’s any better than Ella’s wretched ass.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

Pretty? Hmm..

[@Ebrill_Owen]

@@nicoledoubleyou being fat does not automatically make somebody ugly. Ella has pretty facial features is what I mean, but that doesn’t mean anything because she’s ugly on the inside.

[@omegaPhix]

​@@Ebrill_Owen There's no good looking person that fat. Someone that unhealthy can't be called pretty lmao

[@Natalia91]

I’m disappointed that she never met Johnny in person during the whole season 😂

[@akaLaBrujaRoja]

I’m not disappointed. For his own sake, I hope he never meets her.

[@bunnyrabi]

honestly, i don't know how they are even going to meet, because many my friends in China are in lockdown since quite a few cities are lockdown. Shanghai and Beijing are also the only two places that has airports that fly internationally... also the last i heard the government is encouraging people to not leave for the time being... so yea.... I don't think they are meeting any time soon... this is what happens when you date a person but have absolutely no understanding of their culture and country's situation.

[@ennenoire]

@@bunnyrabi he's taking a connecting flight I believe

[@silverstorm1000]

@@bunnyrabi I wonder if that’s why he’s still so set on Ella. I honestly think he should just cut his losses and try to meet someone else.

[@bunnyrabi]

@ennenoire I think the issue is still the fact there are only two places in China with international airports and also government is strongly encouraging people to not leave at this time.

[@wellhello1603]

I feel bad because Ella like any other manipulator just pushes boundaries of Johnny and watches what happens, and because Johnny takes the blame and let it slide - she will do more and more hurtful things to him. She has no respect for him and their relationship, otherwise she wouldn’t try and hide stuff that she knows will upset him, she would ask how he feels about it prior. She just does it, then shifts the blame later.

[@smol_chilli_pepper]

I love how you edited this like you were in the reunion in person

[@val9343]

Gotta apreciate the little hu tao theme like in the background music at 11:50

[@essaram21]

That awkward silence and then they cut him off🤣🤣🤣

[@gileadsfinest3729]

Poor Ella, experiencing the consequences of her actions as a terrible person 😐 Justice for Johnny and his son because he deserves more than trash

[@GundamFlexing]

Didn't someone screen shot that lady's phone and it turns out she had a tinder app logo on top of her notifications? This was when she was in the middle of video chatting with John too lol.

[@Mary__]

Well i don't think the person that sat next to you on the plane was Ella because if she really was then you would be her next victim......or should i say her new asian prince?? lol jk. I love your videos. Lots of kisses from Greece💕💕

[@yuki97kira]

Oh god... Youre right

[@ll1ghtning]

Out of topic but YOU'RE FROM GREECE??

[@Mary__]

@@ll1ghtning Hahaha yeah. Why the surprise??

[@ll1ghtning]

@@Mary__ because I'm from greece too aaa

[@Mary__]

@@ll1ghtning Ωωω τέλειαα~

[@ILovemj475]

This girl(Ella) can’t even fully commit to a hair color there’s no way they will make the relationship work😂

[@jenfine]

Ella crying is my new drinking game.

[@jcaseyjones2829]

I have never in my life seen someone so blatantly blame someone else for their cheating, and I feel like that poor guy should be legally forced to break up with her before it continues to happen throughout his life

[@DeeSparta]

This week your channel was on my recommended. i had never seen 90 Fiancé so i was sure why a video on that topic would pop up. Well i took a chance and loved the video. i even got my wife to watch your channel with me. i was happy to see content on kpop and BTS cuz that i am a fan of. yes I am 50 years old so it may seem odd i am such a fan of kpop lol and webtoons and anime. You channel has been a breath of fresh air.

[@Sapphires_]

It’s the narcissistic smile for me

[@alexfrost1718]

Watching reality shows with/through this channel is so much more enjoyable, thanks for sacrificing yourself to the cause Edvasian!!