This Asian Obsessed Couple is the Worst (90 Day Fiancé)

[@graysonspaw]

Wow, she's so immature! Dating someone isn't just about having a person around, it's about mutual love. She doesn't love Johnny, she loves the idea of Johnny.

[@georginaabi-hanna2670]

And because he’s asain 😂

[@lijo4518]

Yea whatever Asian guy she can get 🤨🤔☹️

[@jeongout1092]

She really was only interested in him bc he's Asian, that's 💀

[@beexv8857]

Exactly, well put

[@lisbeth341]

@@georginaabi-hanna2670 that itself is the "idea" lmao

[@jackiechan4AAR]

His face when she admitted to cheating was heartbreaking. That poor guy has so much stress on him

[@jungkooklo903]

For real, he didn't deserve that, he went through all that trouble, and for what, only to get cheated, poor dude 😔

[@keomeow1936]

This lady is repulsive, not because of her appearance or anything, but I can't stand when people cheat and turn it into "I'm the victim, you MADE me cheat"

[@yumeka__]

"not because of her appearance or anything" hahaha. It doesn't help all the other stuff when you see her actual face crying and acting like she's the one being hurt.

[@suzyocean7392]

Both

[@butterfliesarefreetofly6964]

Exactly!!! Shes a cheater!!

[@ShutupandListen]

It’s both😭

[@sylnalise2242]

I can't stand gaslighting, makes me so angry, we all choose our actions, sex does not just happened and cuddling with another man? Anyway...

[@zuzanka9998]

i love how she is crying, have a full tantrum and the music is like 💃🏻🕺🏻💃🏻🕺🏻

[@brianvelasquez3759]

Hahaha

[@pavuk_chok]

This woman will ruin Johnny’s life if he doesn’t leave her now.. poor guy

[@5mile595]

my god i agree, this guy needs to say "bye" and then just leave and never look back. Lol i got a 2 year long distance. 7 months is nothing XD

[@Joseph-zd7kg]

She ended up cheating on him.. with her gross self

[@marciapeak893]

@@Joseph-zd7kg I don't believe she cheated on him. I think she just said that to manipulate him into doing what she wants; it didn't work.

[@Joseph-zd7kg]

@@marciapeak893 she actually did cheat on him. It was with one of her male friends. She has friends that watch the show with her on and they would probably out her if it was a lie.

[@jex_zv8049]

@@Joseph-zd7kg surprised any other guy would want her

[@tommywiseauimpersonator]

"I feel really bad now." Only NOW? Did she not feel bad about cheating before she told him??? Ella is exposing herself as a bunch of red flags in cosplay and Johnny should run.

[@EXXTREMEGAMER5600]

Honestly johnny is a sweet guy, when I found out ella cheated on him I was heartbroken. She only liked him in the first place because she fetishized him for being asian, and now she’s gaslighting johnny. You can tell this is gonna fail badly

[@blumeiworld]

the faster Johnny gets out the better

[@JennaSakura]

I watch 90 day fiancé. And Johnny wants to buy Ella a ring AFTER she cheated on him! Why can’t I find a guy like that??? 🤣

[@crypticcorvid]

@@JennaSakura 🤨📸

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

Johnny needs to RUN from her and quick! She is a toxic person and I feel so bad for him.

[@elenhin]

How the hell can someone cheat on Johnny. Or anyone for that matter. Disgusting. :(

[@Atetrigrams]

Whenever I hear somebody say that they hate seeing couples & are extremely envious because they’re lonely & don’t have anybody..I instantly become worried for their next partner because there’s going to be some sort of toxicity that revolves around them not wanting to lose that person.

[@Iblistriggerr]

I'm genuinely angry on behalf of that man, how is she gonna be like "oops haha I fucked someone and I'm only telling you this now bc you won't see me for good reasons, but I still didn't mean to" hearing him say he didn't fulfil his part of the relationship when he couldn't because he has adult things to take care of made me so sad.

[@Pinkpinkybear]

She's a disgusting pig! Manipulating and extremely selfish. Gosh I wish that nobody has that type of person in their lives!

[@Kairibeachga]

She's a narcissist for sure. She is not in love with him she just lusts him, and for her to play the victim makes me wanna throw up

[@silverstorm1000]

Yeah it pissed me off because she talks like it is an accident but I mean, if you're upset at your boyfriend and invite a man over to your home (especially if you're attracted to that man) that's pretty sus. I think she invited that friend because she wanted to have sex with him.

[@ashassassin]

Yeah it's sad. You can't help but feel so bad for him. I hope he finds someone much more suitable for him and his family.

[@Ryuuko-chan]

@@Pinkpinkybear ahaha I *almost* got one like her for life...🙃 I didn't realise he was manipulating me until I read some articles about toxic relationships and spoke with a friend that told me after that someone wrote in a group "oh his trying to manipulate her girlfriend into believing that what he's doing is right and not leaving him even tho he has already cheated on her from day one"

[@94x100karen]

She's just too pretentious and egoist. Johnny feels like such a sweet guy, but really lonely and insecure about himself. I feel so sorry for both of them.

[@CordeliaWagner]

I don't feel sorry for her. She is just another bad person that abuses him.

[@helgmelia84]

Oh my gosh, this woman is ridiculous. She is not ready for a relationship. She needs to do a lot of work first. Johnny: RUN!

[@Baldjotarokujo]

Bro she needa start the entire company first (she's the company)

[@lesha6531]

looking at her im pretty sure she needs a run every now and then

[@yumeka__]

I am afraid for this type the work never gets done... not without intense intervention. Case in point, the 50+ year old woman who fell madly in love with a guy - first guy she ever dated actually - and went on and on about him to me (we barely knew each other, just same gym). I would listen and sometimes offer input. He turned out to be abusive. They divorced (I got to hear the story at several month intervals - felt like watching a kdrama cause so much happened since the last "episode"). After the divorce she met a guy who was "totally different" after she said she would never date again. How is she doing now? I do not know cause I moved countries and she never really showed interest in my life so I didn't make and effort to get contact info... but I hope she is fine

[@helgmelia84]

@@yumeka__ Oh wow, I hope she is fine, too. It must’ve been exhausting and stressful for you to be caught in the middle of that.

[@shannonodea8432]

This was great until: RUN

[@atlashawke5036]

She is so obsessed with herself and her needs she really don't consider he might be longing just as much but DIDN'T cheat. Wow.

[@PrincessNeise]

If she knows that she wants a physical connection , then why did she decide to date someone in a different country? She should've just dated someone closer to home.

[@koobie83]

Because she didn’t. She made it up to pay him back and cause him pain for refusing to do what she wanted. Toddler tactics 101

[@hinatamercury]

Dating local guys didn't work for her? sooooo...

[@MagisterialVoyager]

I suppose it’s because of her need to find “true“ Asian man?

[@ongdesiree]

she likes asian men

[@whitneyluvlife]

Exactly like why not date the guy she sexed and cheated on him with🤷🤦....you clearly have a sex buddy on speed dail

[@indiemacabre9777]

Imagine looking and acting like that and ALSO being a gaslighting, racist cheater? Pick a struggle.

[@bethanychatman9531]

It's nothing wrong with the way she looks. She looks fine, it's her immaturity that's a problem.

[@M123Xoxo]

@@bethanychatman9531 Um she's like 300 pounds over weight. She looks bad

[@LaNoir.]

...racist?

[@Liltwilightprincess2]

IS THIS GIRL SERIOUS!?!? OMG!! Johnny needs to just cut ties! Ella is too much of a risk and is too emotionally immature for a relationship!

[@lijo4518]

Especially for a 29 yr old

[@Liltwilightprincess2]

@@lijo4518 right!? Seriously the gas lighting, the cheating, the pure manipulation, entitlement, audacity of this woman is unbelievable. She is red flag toxic queen

[@krakenemoji]

@@lijo4518 Wait, she’s only 29? She looks way older… wow.

[@lijo4518]

IKR...def looks like late 30s

[@ThexDynastxQueen]

I didn't realize this whole time I was older than her .__.

[@SunsetEnvy]

"I love him but I can't wait forever" well if you did you WOULD WAIT

[@sourgreendolly7685]

She’s giving HIM a chance?? This entire situation is one delusion after another omg

[@tdelioncourt1268]

Reminds me of that time I asked this man to stop acting like a creep with me and he later told me he forgives me for my reaction. Excuse me!? The audacity!

[@shrek-tr4ud]

@@tdelioncourt1268 LMAO WHAT??? im so sorry that happened to u that's just messed up😭😭😭

[@miryamamar5442]

Ella lives in a fantasy world of pseudo-samurai dramas, anime, purple houses and dragon toys! Yeah she is ready to be a mother. 🤪🤪🤪

[@aaartnaz]

i believe free will is deeper than most of us would think; there's destiny and fate but we have control over our choices and just because someone talks to you means you're going to have babies with them and stuck with them

[@kat9pao]

I feel like i see you on every channel i watch lmao

[@alipennington3764]

The part that really gets to me is how he's STILL trying to care about her feelings and be uplifting when you can clearly hear how much pain he's in and how upset he is 😢😢 That's absolutely heartbreaking 💔💔💔

[@madelinehernandez2280]

As an adult who has been working with children recently, she is absolutely throwing a temper tantrum.

[@koobie83]

Bingo. She lied about cheating just to make him feel pain because she feels he’s deliberately causing her pain by refusing to come to the USA.

[@jennyp43]

as someone who works in child care, she is definitely throwing a temper tantrum

[@babieangeljeno1656]

LMAOOO

[@xaquariix]

I'm a teacher, my students have more maturity than her !

[@Suggiemomma8]

As a person who's mother ran an in-home daycare for 14 years, she is for sure throwing a tantrum.

[@mammonslifesupport2609]

She's definitely victimizing herself, Johnny is the real victim. If anything she is severally gaslighting him, fetishizing him and basically inlove with the idea that shes in a relationship. She doesn't love him, she loves the idea of dating her "asian prince."

[@yourstrulycam]

THIS.

[@alleyes4niyaa]

If she wanted an Asian bf so bad, just find someone near you… There are plenty of AA’s (Asian Americans) in america

[@Moi_81]

​@@alleyes4niyaaOr just not fetishize because it is racist.

[@hazellai6908]

this resembles my last relationship so much I died a little inside, so glad I ditched him and stayed in HK after 6 years of toxicity and abuse since 16... god i hope dude can leave her coz i totally understand what he's thinking....

[@krystinay]

Ella: "Physical touch is so important to me" Also Ella: "Let me find my Asian anime Boi from the other side of the world because there couldn't possibly be anyone in America" Also, she smirked the entire time she was telling him she was cheating on him and asking if he was mad. KZbin guidelines prevent me from saying what I actually think.

[@koobie83]

Say it. She made it up. She’s lying. She’s sociopathic.

[@xChijouChanx]

She's lying to try and force his hand

[@yaboinoodle6878]

@@koobie83 she should lose some weight

[@faefruitbat]

@@yaboinoodle6878 this has nothing to do with her shitty behavior.

[@feedmewithhate]

@@faefruitbat true, but she still should

[@kristen2693]

Johnnys a nice looking guy. He seems so nice. She is treating him like a push over. If he goes for another American find one with class.

[@avp8516]

Funny how she got the angle on her camera right when cried and played the victim but not when she confessed to cheating.

[@tnn963]

maybe the producer said her to do the angle so they can get a shot of johny

[@dyodoleu]

​@@tnn963i also rather see that being the case, I don't think she would care to change the camera angle if she already didn't care about the cheating as she started blaming it on him in the same breath...

[@katc.6620]

It honestly sickens me how she immediately starts "getting emotional" after causing him pain. Her sitting there to gaslight him after cheating is emotionally abusive. Poor Johnny was scrambling to figure out how to prove himself whilst still trying to be responsible. This relationship needs to end and hopefully it has.

[@ambersmith2612]

Imagine cheating on someone and then CRYING to guilt trip him into thinking it was his fault... " I feel really bad now" YOU SHOULD FEEL BAD

[@lijo4518]

" I love him but I can't wait forever " cry me a river 🫣

[@vvickedvvitch7550]

Ella really needs help on so many levels. I felt sympathy for her in the beginning, but after the whole, “I cheated on you & it’s your fault because you’re selfish” during a pandemic bit, I tapped out HARD.

[@leesreptilesandaquatics6368]

That crying from her at the end is so forced and I can't believe Johnny apologized for her cheating like this is so very toxic on so many levels

[@maddiesyoutube6023]

She has some serious insecurities. She needs to work on herself before getting involved with a man and his young child.

[@snichols7246]

Second hand embarrassment aside; oof. I’m not sure what these two have discussed about their future but, like, are they thinking about being a family? Is Johnny’s son going to be exposed to her for any amount of time? What role is she going to play as a member of a family? Because I think Johnny may need to start evaluating whether she can be a healthy Partner. More than anything I think she needs a lot more maturity, maybe some therapy (not a bad thing) and to think long and hard about what a relationship is. And Johnny needs to consider his value and boundaries. So. Yeah. There’s that essay no one asked for. 🤷

[@Baguettish]

I'm thinking the same. She's too immature to be in a healthy romantic relationship, much less be a good stepmom for a young and impressionable child.

[@snooganslestat2030]

She has said she wants to be a step parent & wants a child with him.

[@chelseahollis4423]

Yet an essay I feel like a lot of us need, such as myself. Not that I'm in a relationship but I can take these words to mind whenever I start dating again

[@LioMurdest]

I love how she ALWAYS facetimes her stomach or just unaware of the front camera working 🤣 Not the first time, I believe.

[@shelbythisisaresidentialar5397]

Johnny legitimately seems like such a kind and understanding guy,,, he was willing to look at how she's feeling even when she does something so horrible 😭😭 I really hope they break up, he deserves someone who actually cares for him AND his son

[@LilySaintSin]

He legit deserves better than Ella.

[@JazminNevarez]

i watched a video of you styling your hair bc it was in my recommended and now im like 6 videos into your channel wtf. you just have such a good aura, speech, comedic timing, etc.

[@uhmalissa]

I've heard in China they have to quarantine for 2 mounts regardless of their covid status. One month in a hotel and one month at their residence. That is a HUGE ask to have him pick up and go on a trip. China has this zero covid policy, things are really strict and he's expected to think of society at large not just his individual wants. Her asking him to go to Dubai without consulting him first was ridiculous!

[@Baguettish]

For real, dude is trying to do the responsible thing for both himself and the people around him, and she's trying to make herself into a victim (when she set out to intentionally hurt him) and guilt trip him into going to Dubai??? Make it make sense Ella. Johnny deserves so much better, and I hope he eventually realizes that.

[@iehdontknow]

Yes cause you have to quarantine every time you travel to another province. This woman has zero empathy.

[@AndSoWeLaughed]

And this is what people in both interracial and intercultural relationships should think of. East Asian cultures typically think of their society before themselves, so what is it actually that she likes about East Asian men? Because that is a HUGE culture shock to her and she is not going to be accepted by the family if she can’t get over the fact that there are large cultural differences between them.

[@nineteenfortyeight]

It's 5 weeks, and you have to pay for it. So 7 weeks away from his son, and not making money.

[@NatBeNimble]

@@AndSoWeLaughed well, herein lies the problem. She’s essentially fetishising Asian men and a generic overview of their more pop-like culture rather than having genuine interest in him as a person. Which is why she is able to cheat on him and then gaslight him into feeling guilty for not going to visit her despite the many personal sacrifices it would cause him to make. Awful dynamic and awful woman.

[@phemseegrimm]

I love how the music was Klee's theme in the recap as she is the embodiment of chaos and this whole relationship is chaotic.

[@thepinkelephant2520]

Fr 😂

[@vg1384]

when this series started, I thought he was in it for the green card and she had an asian fetish but now I think no green card is worth this toxicity and he genuinely likes her which is so much worse

[@fuchurZero]

He is hardly in this for a Green Card. He looks after his parents, I don’t think he would leave them. Besides: Which reasons does he have for wanting a Green Card? He has his job, his parents, his son and his friends….I am not sure he is willing to give this up

[@vg1384]

@@fuchurZero yeah that's what I'm saying. It was my original thoughts but they have changed

[@fuchurZero]

@@vg1384 sry, I didnt get the meaning while first reading it, you are right. Besides: not everyone wants to live in the US. There are better places in the world to live. I couldn’t imagine living in the States. The political and economic situation is too toxic IMHO

[@vg1384]

@@fuchurZero omg I would never live in the states either

[@monicaprzestrzelski4677]

Don’t forget social too, everyone’s so self centered and entitled which Ella is the absolute EPITOME of, Johnny seems too sweet and too good for constant exposure to people like her if he came here and I’m sure he’d get so homesick, he’d leave after a few months regardless

[@Hope-rr8th]

The background music saved me from an intense desire to gag every time she spoke. I’m emotionally torn between disappointment, rage, and lovin’ a good bop 🎶

[@ayakostitz2222]

The meme said it best and I quote; “The Lion, the Witch, and the AUDACITY of this BITCH!!!” Honestly, how she managed to land ONE guy much less cheat on him with another is waaay beyond me. Run, Johnny, run!!!

[@kathygriffith5164]

She lied about it. Who would eff her?

[@Likelyfairy]

@@kathygriffith5164 righttt

[@famouslastwords0791HR]

I really, really think she's making it all up about cheating. Watching her tell him made me want to reach into my phone and slap her silly. Smirking and pretending not to smile while breaking this poor man's heart?? No thanks, lady. If "physical touch' is so important to her why not try and get with the guy she allegedly cheated with? Cause he DOESN'T EXIST. I only hope Johnny wakes up and gets away from her soon. He can find someone much better than this woman.

[@KimoraLikesGato]

@@famouslastwords0791HR tbh i dont shes neccessarilry lying there are one night stands or in the heat of the moment stuff

[@mittag983]

​@@famouslastwords0791HRHer AP probably doesn't want a serious relationship with her lol

[@surreallane9730]

She reminds me of an old friend I used to have and damn she was unbearable. She wanted to be a victim all the time and took no advice and cried like a baby. I felt bad at first but wears you out when you realize this girl doesn't actually want to improve like she say she does. She never really treated me like a friend either and I was just her trauma dumpster and I could never share my issues without being interrupted and she talks about herself. She was cringey too, and not in a fun way.

[@ashtonmusie8]

Wow, as someone that has been in a long distance relationship and had this exact covid thing happen to me, cheating is still cheating. Gaslighting someone to think it's their fault for being away is so wrong. If the other person can't understand your situation, drop them and block them. What are they going to do? Book a flight to yell at you? Nah, Johnny you deserve better

[@Lola1912]

I had that happen to me. He was very toxic, left him before it was too late.

[@ninalainu3942]

@@Lola1912 proud of ya for leaving him!!💕

[@Lola1912]

@@ninalainu3942 🤗

[@ninalainu3942]

I agree, I was in a LDR and the guy was extremely toxic. He gaslit me as well. So I get it! I agree how Ella should be way more understanding. 😬 But if she cant get that, she should just leave it be, or leave him. But it seems like he genuinely loves her which is wow..

[@NeroMai]

How tf did she *cheat* and gaslight this guy into thinking it's *his* fault?? Someone free this man!

[@astronautviolet153]

Johnny can do better and find a woman that's understanding, loving and and gets his situation.

[@vashythewabbit8288]

@thornback It's not really that simple. In China, dating is completely different from any other country because of the government screwing up the male to female ratio. As a result, Chinese women are consider highly "valued" and have very high standards on who they date. And because of the 1 Child policy ruining the psyche of the citizens, dating a single father or mother with a child is considered a turn off if they want to have a child to continue their family lineage. It's a really messed up situation.

[@AnakinSkywalker-xr1th]

That poor man 🥺 he sounds so genuinely hurt.

[@solarmoth4628]

I hope that he breaks up with her. He can’t possibly bring his son into this relationship. It would just make them miserable.

[@jex_zv8049]

It definitely would. but im not sure when he gonna finally snap and realize that shes a bad person

[@MissieMarie]

you have the most soothing voice i’ve ever heard in commentary videos

[@koobie83]

There’s no way she cheated. She’s just being a toddler and wanting to hurt him badly and make him feel jealous for refusing to give her what she wants. The look on her face when she said to the camera that she cheated 😌 so proud of herself. Johnny needs to ghost her. There’s no way this woman is ready to be a step mother. She’d probably see his son as her competition and make his life hell. She can barely look after herself let alone someone else’s child.

[@Joseph-zd7kg]

How is there no way she cheated. She can pick from the most desperate self hating minority man.

[@nineteenfortyeight]

She can't take care of herself at all!

[@CordeliaWagner]

Plus people this size don't get old.

[@notsuspicioususer4080]

@@CordeliaWagneryes they do? They can live long lives, just with additional health issues depending on how over weight they are

[@aggy8886]

I legit audibly gasped at 9:01. I’m actually surprised I watched this far since it’s my first time discovering your channel and it’s the second video related to this couple but somehow it’s like a black hole that I got sucked into. Anyway I feel so sorry for this man. He seems like he was really invested and wanted to try his best. Side note, these commentaries keep me addicted. New fan here! 😆

[@nightshade6433]

That guy seems too sweet and reasonable. He deserves WAY better. I hate to see that he's being manipulated by someone who doesn't even love him, she just wants a boyfriend to say she has one and can't even be bothered to wait. True love doesn't have a time limit of 7 months.

[@sarahbrown6394]

I honestly do not have access to this show, but I am loving this recount of this. Thank you! It is probably more amusing than watching the show straight.

[@KryssieMe1011]

"Are you mad at me?" Are you serious? It's like asking a burnt victim if it hurts. Giiiirl! You are in no position to demand.

[@fedenciogonzalezjr9051]

Lol that was funny 😁 😂 good one 👍.

[@aca-scuseyou2043]

No freaking way. Johnny's face shattered my heart. Brooooooo.... Nuh uh nuh uh

[@jarjargreens]

Ella is a trash human for cheating on that angel of a man. She never should’ve put herself in a position for something like that to happen if she truly cared about Johnny. Run, Johnny!

[@user-cm5tv3qg8o]

The ad setups in your videos are always insane. You better be getting PAID. Lol ❤️

[@hhh1234h]

This is legit the only way I can watch this show 😭 with you as my buffer from the cringe. Thanks so much fam💙

[@whenpigsfly4136]

This is so heartbreaking and hard to watch 😬 I can't finish this vid

[@hal2054]

she actually infuriates me i can't stand her the smug face she had after she happily admits to cheating just says it all in regard to what type of horrible person she is and she has the AUDACITY to say 'are you mad at me' PLS I CANT

[@aliceouzounidou5350]

i know it has nothing to do with the context of this video, but i really love the tone of your voice. Even though i really enjoy your content, sometimes i just watch your videos that i may not be interested in cause i like the way you speak. It's calming.💜

[@sarahcha]

My reaction was the same as Johnny’s. Just straight to hand over mouth. Like girl what? And now she’s the upset one? It sounds so fake while she’s whining, just manipulative

[@HaleyShay]

omg when u pointed out ellas face cam angle BRO I STARTED CRYYYYINNGGG. AT THE END WHEN SHE SAID BYE IT WAS LITERALLY SO-

[@sakuraa1770]

So Ella shares a sausage pizza with another guy, blames Johnny for it, then STILL cries and acts like she's the victim in all of this???

[@AT3L0PH0B14]

Sausage pizza 😩

[@sophierebekah]

He genuinely seems to care for her, maybe I'm deluded but he shows such kindness and understanding, I don't get it but at least he's a good guy ^^ ...she is genuinely hideous though, she deserves zero sympathy, to cheat on such a lovely guy is criminal!

[@Pooh_Bella]

The fact that he’s taking any blame whatsoever. This woman is beyond manipulative. Poor Johnny

[@destinyIbarraa]

this lady gives me so much second hand embarrassment

[@lijo4518]

She's def an embarrassment to females & Americans

[@dajanah3152]

Bro fr, how are you an adult and act like that

[@camillevee6773]

@@lijo4518 ...you’re so right👍🏼...maybe some serous mental issues too!!

[@cranburrey]

She has a mentality of a teenager

[@Neo-Queenserenityt2l]

What gets me is how she had the audacity to say she still loved him after telling him she cheated like cleary you didn't truly love him because you wouldn't have cheated otherwise

[@krissydiggs]

She is getting married for literally all the wrong reasons. She just wants social attention. I feel bad for him because he’s walking into a situation where he’s definitely going to be abused emotionally. She strikes me as manipulative…

[@ying5798]

she's the same as someone I dated online lmao, cheated then gaslighted and blaming me for being unable to fly to their country fast enough 🙄

[@nineteenfortyeight]

Omg I just remembered that happened to me ! 🤣🤣🤣 I totally forgot! Guy was very memorable. Guess that's why his pathetic scheme didn't work.

[@jungshook8339]

Same man that guy wanted me to fly to India

[@alextheawkward8792]

10:50 is it just me or is she smirking after saying "are you mad at me?" it looks like she's feeling satisfied that she's getting a reaction out of him

[@fatisummer9106]

Cuz she was lying and her purpose of coming up of this cheating idea is to get a reaction from him,she looks so desperate

[@koobie83]

That’s it! She made it up. Just to hurt him like how she feels he is deliberately hurting her. She’s a child.

[@nineteenfortyeight]

Duping delight

[@ninalainu3942]

She’s absolutely lying. She’s immature for her age. She needs to grow up, she’s obviously smirking…which is trying to get a reaction out of him. It’s sad.

[@IfYouAreReadingThisILY]

I feel so darn bad for him, please save him

[@sdrawkcabemdaer5]

Wait, so if he DID agree to meet her in Dubai was she just not going to tell him about the cheating?! This makes me think 100% that she made it up as "punishment" for him not being able to go.

[@AeraYoo]

What’s funny is Johnny’s pics and Ella’s pics both use filters. Like they can’t be real with each other.

[@Rise876]

That crying at the end probably reached a level only dogs can hear! So high pitched it almost hurt my ears 😂 Poor poor Johnny. He needs to find someone who truly loves and respects him. Ella is being very emotionally abusive.

[@nineteenfortyeight]

meeeEEEEeeeeeeEEEEee!

[@bennuya]

I'M CRYING OVER THE TARTAGLIA BODY PILLOW-

[@berryscreamin]

When my boyfriend and I were watching this episode and she said cheated on him then guilt tripped him. We literally had to pause and take a breather for a half hour cause we were both so upset and angry.

[@xXxakurokuxXx123]

Your sponsor segment transitions are so smooth lol

[@teenagedrtbaeg]

Why was I waiting for this. 😭

[@Puncherjoe1]

You know exactly why!

[@_micheller_]

Same 😭🤦🏻‍♀️

[@beasmu]

Fr though I’m way too curious 😩😭

[@jacky4946]

Hahaha same 🥲

[@Panda_54]

Same💀

[@modewear1202]

I’m so invested but I will only watch this through this channel

[@posemwen]

Ella: I cheated on you because of you. 😭 Johnny: What’s your ring size? Me: WTF am I watching? What a bazaar response. She is too emotionally immature to be in a relationship, and to be a mother to Johnny’s child. They are both too desperate and delusional.

[@SpiritPhilosophy]

Why in the world would she be a mother to his child?

[@Liltwilightprincess2]

@@SpiritPhilosophy Because if she and Johnny got married she would be Stoney's step mother which would be a nightmare in itself since she hasn't even taken the time to learn how to communicate with him

[@revinaque1342]

I think Johnny's in it for the green card. That's the only way proposing after she cheated makes sense.

[@sugarplum2467]

That's because he is just as much into "white women" as she is into "Asian men".

[@Psychotic.in.Seattle]

This woman has some serious attachment issues. Needing physical touch doesn’t mean you’re entitled to it (ie. don’t cheat to meet that need!!!) Everyone gets lonely, but that doesn’t mean everyone gets a partner to fix that loneliness. That’s something to work on within yourself before you work on it with another person. …also if you need your physical needs met that badly there are plenty of adult stores where you can purchase a “friend” to fix that for you.

[@MayaTheBeeeeee]

First it was just fetishization and now it’s just looking down on him as a person. Ew.

[@NovaDoll]

That is some crazy gaslighting….

[@temp_unknown]

I hope for both their sake they never meet cause this is TOXIC.

[@Scgod2]

Two things: Ella sounded like me when i was desperate and wanted the experience of a romantic relationship. I now learned that it is best to be alone than being with the wrong person. I also have experience of being gaslighted and punished because all i asked for was a video call with a guy living in a different country. (Yeah, i am someone who needs to see the person i am talking to…catfishing is real.) Johnny needs to run! And Ella needs strong medicine and karma to help her learn that she needs her self-love first than someone living on the other side of the country. I pray that no one gets hurt and they learn their lessons. I am embarrassed and ashamed by this.

[@RoxxyKaosGG]

Ella: Cheats on the man she claims she wants to marry. Also Ella: Is the victim when she cheated. Bruh. My husband is a soldier. Deployment is harder than this crap and I still don't cheat 💅

[@wendynavarrete7216]

Because you and your husband love each other for who you are not some fantasy like them with their fetishes

[@chelseahollis4423]

Yes, 100%! I'm the child of a military family (Father was in the Navy) & even after retirement, he worked overseas to support my family growing up. No matter the distance, TRUE love doesn't let obstacles get in the way of a realistic marriage & my parents have been married 33 years strong. Long story short, if my parents can go through YEARS being apart & still love each other, 7 months ain't crap. This chick is full of excuses 😒 Also, I thank your husband for his service!😊

[@RoxxyKaosGG]

@@chelseahollis4423 And I thank your dad for his service, and you and your family for supporting him! Long-distance is hard on any relationship, be it romantic, family or friends. That still doesn't excuse wrong actions, like Ella did. Hope you're well :)

[@Ash-zf8ir]

Cheaters love deployments! A lot of people cheat on their spouses while they're overseas and end their extramarital relationships once they're state-state side. A lot of sexual assault happens during deployments too...

[@RoxxyKaosGG]

@@Ash-zf8ir It's gross how normalized cheating is in the military. When my husband came back from basic (10 weeks) he said A LOT of people were getting divorced over infidelity. Last year I dealt with a guy who BRAGGED to me about cheating on his pregnant wife (after making advances towards me), then acted like I betrayed him and was awful for telling her 🙄 Deployments are hard, but cheating is a choice.

[@yamii3281]

i waited for 5 entire years until i was able to move and be with my long-distance partner, never cheated. this woman has no excuse

[@helenlong8988]

Just when I didn't think Ella could get any worse she goes and pulls a move like this! The absolute audacity to cheat on someone out of spite because they won't abandon their whole entire life to see you for a few days, and then rub it in their face with a huge smirk in order to hurt them. Like, Johnny is so sweet and understanding, he deserves so much better than this crap. And Ella doesn't need a relationship or an Asian prince, she needs a THERAPIST.

[@mdjalwi9995]

Thank you buddy for there watch this in person, so I don't wasting my time

[@RobinStarrTV]

Johnny is right in this one. Apparently quarantine was 5 weeks when he gets back to China.... that's insane. I understand not wanting or being able to feasibly do that

[@juliamdp]

I just discovered the channel, was watching a few videos to see if I’d subscribe or not, wasn’t sure yet, but then he hits me with “I’m not a nutritionist, so I don’t care if it’s healthy or not, I just wanna watch unhealthy reality tv” (or something amongst those words) and now I’m officially subscribed, that joke was gold

[@hbelleasmr]

omg this couple is the gift that keeps on giving

[@beasmu]

LMAO PLEASE 😭

[@Yuunarichu]

NONO THAT'S TOO UNCALLED FOR LMAO

[@Aloysius_OHare]

and its giving alot.

[@tbh8149]

Can I get the receipt? I'd like to return it 💀

[@Rochelle_Ballah]

I’m loving your hair, it looks so rockstar

[@yessica5231]

Johnny is so sweet, but I'm sure another person could give him the love and respect he deserves.

[@shellieblack528]

oh for goodness sake!!!!! I am an empath too and I know "Look stop acting like you are the only game of emotions in town Ella" deeep eye roollllllll

[@nini52tvxq]

Girl! He didn’t say he doesn’t want to go. You will just need to have to wait for 7 months! 7 months flies so fast if you get to spend quality time with yourself. Jesus, this girl. I would be so surprised if this relationship can last.

[@salsa4817]

The fact that i am invested in this relationship is SCARING ME //I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE// it's 3 am and i have finals and i am here craving more of this messed up show🌚😭

[@starshine9016]

That's so messed up. Poor Johnny. She didn't want a real relationship she just wants a boytoy...she is selfish, spoiled and honestly she doesn't deserve someone like Johnny.

[@etherealE777]

I feel so bad for him 😢he seems so sweet & deserves better.

[@lemon-pop2923]

Y'know if she was gonna have a hard time being in a long distance relationship, why didn't she just find an Asian dude in the U.S. at least it would've been easier to meet up especially during COVID. None of this is Johnny's fault, can't blame a guy who doesn't want to be quarantined for 2 MONTHS. This is short sighted on Ella's part and Johnny's just dealing with the blows. Even if Johnny does finally get to be with Ella, I'm starting to think she still won't be happy because her issue isn't not having a boyfriend, it's her self esteem.

[@angelcake7077]

I have way too many things to say about this but I’m so angry that all I can say is “what the hell is wrong with this woman?!?!??”

[@codsamanta]

I don't think you can say "I didn't mean for that to happen" when not only did you consent, but you set up the whole meeting to begin with. She has plenty of girl friends she could've asked for support.....Also, I "like" how she's been gaslighting him and now cheating on him, yet she says SHE wants to give HIM a last chance.

[@sprintingcookies2895]

Am I the only one that hears Klee’s theme in the background? I was listening to him speak and my brain suddenly hears the upbeat fish blasting music