How To Become A Supercommunicator | Charles Duhigg

[@onemercilessming1342]

How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, first published 1936. You don't need more.

[@notreallydavid]

That title has always creeped me out. 'What can I get from this interaction? How can I get this person to do what I want them to do?' Am I seeing this wrongly?

[@onemercilessming1342]

@notreallydavid Not really. Look at the original copyright (1936). It was a book for people who wanted to rise in corporate America at that time. A bit of a spoof on it was "How to Succeed In Business Without Really Trying", a Broadway musical of mid-20th century America.

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Enjoyed learning from this one. Look forward to reading the book. Thank you.

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Love the book Power of Habit I will be getting this book

[@User84367]

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[@gunnarhamundarson5430]

Awesome video, really like how he mentioned alot of great communicators either wanted to or had to become that from their own natrual abilies.

[@comment2250]

In regards to this subject about communication, I would say it's rather idealistic to communicate in the various ways shared. The boots on the ground experience for most people is not as he and psychologist present it. It's way too mentally taxing and requires a level of self-awareness and in some situations emotional maturity, that quite frankly, is not where most people are in these two areas. Also, in many instances it can come off as being fake, insincere, condescending, not a genuine conversation, especially when you're ASKING permission from the other person to share your thoughts and ideas. In real, organic conversations, I think most people don't ask for permission to ask a question or share whatever it is that's on our mind, except in school or other structured environment.

[@notreallydavid]

As a pedant, one communication tip I'd offer to the world is never to use the newish and widespread, but ugly and undistinguished 'in regards to' - that plural is fingernails on a blackboard. 'Regarding' is what's needed, or sometimes just 'about'. (But everything up to that first comma could be cut, and should be. I've done a lot of editing, _and_ I've just been diagnosed as autistic. Yay!) Please kick me All best.

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