Expressing Sacred Sexuality | how to have better sex *queer tips*

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

Thank you for watching my complete unapologetic stream of consciousness on this topic heh. If you’re excited to connect deeper with your pleasure don’t forget to use code HITOMI for an extra 10% off all LELO products lelo.to/LELOENIGMADOUBLExHITOMI

[@ararefish_]

Hitomi thank you for the video. I wonder if you tried LELO Enigma in the previous design and which do you like better - old or new?

[@julzamidala2865]

So good, thank you! I couldn't find the link to your other video that you mentioned... did I dream it? 🤭

[@e_skoble]

I have never had sex yet, and the way you talk about this topic is so comfortable and healing. I am absolutely terrified of sexual encounters for multiple reasons, and these videos feel soothing and comforting. How much respect you have for sex overall is something I admire and strive for, and I always come out feeling really satisfied and educated from watching your videos. It's like your words build a healthy base for developing the confidence and acceptance that I lack

[@M-xlz3]

Same here. I’m also a virgin. I’m in my mid-30s. I’m physically disabled. How I learned about this topic is through reading, and then it’s through reading where I discovered the sex-positive, kink, and alternative relationships communities. They’ve all helped me feel seen, heard, and validated in this area of my life. Here’s to both of us enjoying our debut whenever it happens!!

[@growing.flowers]

i love this for u

[@ashiamcmillon6484]

Thank you for putting content about queer love and sex on the internet! It is very needed and very brave .

[@anonymouse0123]

i'm 29 years old and have known i'm a lesbian since i was young but didn't fully come out until this year- i just met a woman that i'm obsessed with and we're having a sleepover this weekend so- THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO :') divine timing

[@M-xlz3]

This is amazing to read! Congratulations!! You sound incredibly happy, relieved and excited!!

[@bigauraangel]

literally came here to post the same!! gunna be watching this before my first sleepover!

[@M-xlz3]

@@bigauraangel Congratulations to you as well! That’s so exciting!!

[@anamikamaruthara]

That's crazy. 😂Have the best time of your life

[@angyvslara]

❤ i Hope it will be incredible !

[@greys_area]

such a sidebar - but i love that your phone case is similar to your friend's art. that's so precious

[@donna_irene]

I thought the same!!

[@metal_drumattic]

“Own the pace of your pleasure”, I LOVE that you said this! Sometimes it takes a little bit of time for me to get there & then I’ll usually start to overthink about how long it’s taking me & then it’ll make me take longer 😫

[@shalenah]

i loveeeee being queer and a sapphic woman. as someone who was raised very religiously, i'm so grateful to be here. what you said about how many of us have an awareness of who we are attracted to from a young age, but it was repressed in us for whatever reason deeply resonated. experiencing a woman sexually/romantically is such a brillant, beautiful thing and i noticed after very recently being intimate with a woman (yesterday hehe), how at peace and in tune it makes feel with that little girl inside of me, who even if she didn't have the words, she understood the special connection she felt to the same gender. having these experiences with women/non-binary cuties really make me feel like myself

[@_..Izzy.._]

Ohmygosh thank you so much for bringing up testing! I've hooked up with men in different age groups and shockingly most of them we're like "But we'll use a condom anyway, so why get tested?". Like... Seriously?? Ever heard of getting infected orally? I feel like sooo many people are not aware of that. In the beginning of my "sex-journey" I even felt weird about being so meticulous(?). What a great video! Really inspiring, calming and kind of confidence-boosting! Thank you for providing this space Hitomi, I really really reallyyyy appreciate it!

[@ceoaleostm2146]

They have at home testing kits , i dont know if they work

[@Whimswirl]

Unfortunately, condoms also do not protect you from all STIs.

[@CommandoHamster117]

Just give oral with a condom won’t prevent but will highly reduce risk

[@Cassinova795]

I wish I had this representation growing up

[@rommi22]

Thank you Hitomi. I admire your grace and capacity to bring such politicised topics like sex ed and queerness into ur loving, safer space on the interwebs. Love the choice of painting in your background, it feels for me like a visual for the meanders of thought and your memories shared today.

[@linnmusic]

I so appreciate your openness and honesty, it's so needed

[@alma_sacred.soul_hippie.ego3]

The importance of not putting on ourselves the pressure to come🙌🏼 for me, the expectation that "I have to come" basically kills the pleasure of the process

[@SSL_SSL]

Thank you for sharing yourself in such an unfettered manner. These are the ups and downs of your journey of awakening. For a while, it was riddled with both so much truth and so much sadness. Now you choose love in moments of fear really changed everything for me and finally anchored my beliefs about my own existence. You have the penchant to venture (seemingly alone) into the unknown, work hard, sometimes get bored, but always come back alive !!! You have a brave and adventurous soul that is beginning to rub off on me !!! I feel less overwhelmed by life's responsibilities and become more grounded as I move forward to develop a better coping mechanism !!! You are truly a beautiful, valid, and sexy human being. 🤗💋❤👩

[@aanya.j0y]

Thank you for creating such a caring, fun and safe space to talk about really important but super fun things! You bring the most loving big sister feeling♥️

[@heyfrenchieb2185]

I love that your using your platform to make people feel comfortable in their sexuality and sexual auras ❣️

[@anonymouse0123]

literally SOBBING watching this. as a lesbian, THANK YOU

[@M-xlz3]

@@anonymouse0123 ❤️ Hopefully you enjoyed your weekend!! I know the feeling of sobbing. The relief channels like this give us is amazing!! I’m legitimately relieved but also deep inside still struggling with my sexuality in some respects.

[@em_overlover]

3 videos back to back in one week??? hitomi is spoiling us

[@Jeannagrace_]

Not even queer but I am here💪💪💪

[@M-xlz3]

Your channel is needed and appreciated! Being physically disabled in my mid-30s, I struggle to explore my sexuality not only in general but also in the way I truly desire. Channels like yours are an outlet I so badly need. I’m fairly certain I have kinky tendencies-and then I also have a strong fetish that falls under the BDSM culture. One side of me feels so relieved-with watching videos like this-and then in my regular life I struggle with my sexuality to a large degree. You are amazing for putting this video out there. Thank you a million times over!!

[@louloudelaney9764]

your voice is powerful and this platform has an everlasting ripple effect that is legendary beyond your physical body in this lifetime thank you hitomi thank you hitomi thank you hitomi

[@Firefoxy11]

“If someone is sleeping with you they are attracted to you” that’s such a good reminder bc it’s so easy to forget that

[@Luckytwunk]

I just wanna say even if you were overly sexual and horny, you express it in a beautiful way that teaches ❤️‍🔥 you’ve shown me how to healthily express my sexuality and nurture it

[@melanie4125]

I’m starting to explore the wlw world and I am SO nervous for the intimacy part 😭

[@thatkiddiego328]

Expression is healthy and I like your way. It’s true to you, and the real ones can respect that

[@kneecoal1257]

thank you Hitomi!!!!!! I would LOVE more videos like these around sexuality! I adore all of your content, but what you have to share around sex and intimacy is so beautiful and it's so helpful when trying to reframe the way I think about sexuality after SA. i love you & thanks for existing

[@elsiewanjira]

I am so sorry love hope you are doing okay ❤❤

[@Re_joyce]

Would love to hear your perspectives on overcoming difficulties with queer dating such as meeting people, compatibility, navigating trauma and attachment in relationships etc

[@axolotldaydreams]

listening and watching this smiling the whole time

[@mars_mallow_]

i remember being in middle school, one of the only queer kids out at the time, and asking my health teacher to expand on more lgbtq aspects of sex ed. i was told that the curriculum only teaches “traditional relationships”, so i was basically neglected in my education. videos like this, open conversations, are so so important and help heal that part of me that still feels neglected at 18

[@bellawietrzak3543]

Thank you for your gentle and peaceful energy; really makes a difference in my headspace. I believe that finding your videos was so important for my self-realization

[@Firefoxy11]

You have such a calming big sister presence and you’re so wise

[@andreaalbayeros1415]

This video made me cry. Cuz I haven’t hooked up with a woman yet and it makes me feel sad and scared it’ll never happen but also cuz SA has made it a more sensitive act and caused me to over think.

[@champagnexoxo1198]

I am in my 20s and I have not had sex yet but your videos help me so much to learn about things and being open to the idea of not being pressured into having sex due my age and close people to me acting so shocked when they learn that I have not experienced sexual acts yet. Thank you so much Hitomi

[@Sashangle1]

I love you for this, I don't think I've ever even seen content like this for queer people

[@Niz-ht5jf]

I'm a guy, but I;ve never felt comfortable in myself being a guy, Ive always had this fem energy that im always friends with girls. but i do come from a religious family background so i;ve never accepted being gay. I've never dated much, but my current relationship is with a girl. But ive come out to my friends as being more feminine/queer to my close friends, and as ive accepted myself more, and somehow whatever ive surpressed, is now finally coming out ? I'm more curious and being comfortable wanting to try men too. but yea just thought of sharing as ive struggled with my identity my whole life

[@nadiabarmasse5294]

Thank you for sharing this so genuinely and candidly 💖

[@artlstotle]

i am so happy to have your advice in my mind and heart it has absolutely changed the sex i have and the connections i share with people

[@SinclairButler-gg7bs]

I love you for being open minded and I appreciate you

[@Firefoxy11]

I love your perspective on life

[@orchidchild577]

you're a real one for this, thank u Hitomi

[@iwiki8481]

tysm for all that you share and for your existence, you are such an angel

[@pidoolesco644]

1st from Philippines 😍

[@herzenchristlupian1285]

Una sa?

[@SavannaWoods-l5w]

love these vids!!

[@Bridget-i5g]

hi Hitomi ☺ i love you videos they always ground me so much

[@vickyh3033]

Your videos always bring me so much peace. Thank u for doing this 🍃❤

[@biancaedwards1284]

Love this content 🥰

[@Compassion3333]

Im pansexual and just wanted to say the only birth control that doesn’t mess with your mood, well being or weight and is absolutely AMAZING… is the non hormonal copper IUD! Lasts 12 years! 🎉 I am so thankful for it. Even though I’m mostly queer and haven’t slept with a guy in years, JUST in case! Just wanted to share! I appreciate you!

[@v_practices]

You are a gift and a joy ✨ thank you for sharing with us

[@curlyredtales3532]

Thank you so much for this! I love your deep, open & honest sexually chats! ❤

[@pongtrometer]

Your healthy mind Soul is universal in your sharing ✨🌌thanxu

[@DeoCross16]

so educational and needed.

[@juliaml3368]

Where is the pj set from, I think it looks so pretty🤍🪷

[@SultanAhmed-xn1wb]

Elegant gentle 💞 Hitomi for life 🧬 for love 💕 for hope 🌺 for future 🤗 love you 💗

[@Sianaisvlogs]

The way the clenching part is the key for EVERY THINGGGG GILRRRLL😊😊😊😊

[@claudinha9242]

Love this ❤

[@Bridget-i5g]

I wanted to ask if you could please do a video on feeling confident with a big chest. I myself have a big chest and i often feel insecure about how it looks. And if you have any tips on how to make them firmer that would be awesome. Sorry if its a weird question 🙈

[@vlastabarac]

Never seen someone speak about sex so calm and great❤ This is great....people, JUST MAKE LOVE AND ENJOY🎉

[@jessicalouis2982]

Wow. Thank you for your openess ❤

[@goodnessokoro8075]

Thank you 😊 Hitomi … for changing the perspective on sex and masturbation

[@vicky_thegiantpossum]

Thank you very much for these videos !! Could you make one more center about self dicovery rather then with other people, please ? It's a subject I found difficult to explore

[@SSL_SSL]

智美說得太好了，女人愛自己，才能有更好的人來珍惜你。自信的女人最美，喜歡你的自在及有智慧 !!! 欣賞你聰明有趣的頭腦 !!! 你也懂得用穿著耒發揮長處，給你點贊，祝福 !!!

[@Thereal2727-c2y]

你是中国人吗？

[@jada5229]

the slip dress!! i need it

[@philpaul30]

Your beautiful face, smile and soothing voice starts my day always wonderful, relaxed, inspired and happy. Love all your posts. Take care . ❤🤩😃☺️🌹

[@carolineswn4]

Ugh you are so fucking awesome girl!!!! Love you!!!!

[@se2607]

why did i get shy on the such a beautiful view part😭😭

[@KarlaEmmerson]

I’m 34 and realizing only now I probably have never had a good experience 🤦‍♀️

[@leahfrancis8706]

Omg thank you soo much for this video. It’s amazing because we females truly don’t understand our bodies to even connect with it on such a deeper level, never the less to even connect on that level with a partner , and then we females are left very much unsatisfied. Thank you for your openness and knowledge on this topic 🙏🏼🫶🏼

[@Chakra6Hakini]

We need you 😩

[@moonflowers333]

Thank you so muchhh Hitomi🩷

[@elliemorgan9661]

Would you make one of these but for the straight girls? I struggle with confidence, feeling comfortable, coming out of my shell

[@breakingthematrix9]

Love and sex is a beautiful gift. Religion tries to control you mentally and spiritually through sex and body shaming. ❤ YOU HITOMI!!! I’d be your lover. 🥰

[@lindseyboyle8029]

with the time thing, my first time felt embarrassing bc i didn’t and i took too long, so that makes me feel better 😅

[@MsSmartie9]

Heyy, maybe a stupid question to ask. But what exactly do you get tested on before having sex with a new partner? On every STI there is? Also phv? So glad you’re talking about this 🙏❤️

[@JohnDoe-qu8ny]

Nice ♥️

[@andreaangelher]

Hi Hitomi! How long is your code active for?

[@السعوديهالرياض-د5ع]

يجب عليك العمل بكل الحركات

[@lalalala2845]

Another video?! 🤭🤭🤭

[@Alienbvbyofficial]

THANK YOU

[@ceoaleostm2146]

🔥

[@vishaalalhind1768]

❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@UnfoldingWBird]

watching before youtube does some fuck shit

[@Ssssssshhhhhhhssssshhhh]

Thanks❤

[@HASANFOROFFICE]

The direction your content is going 😮

[@JB-vv9nu]

But it is not the first time she talks about this

[@winxclubenjoya]

this is nothing new lol where have u been

[@Mamajiggle]

This is really helpful im 44 old and known im a lesbian since I was 12 but I m scared to date because I don't know if girls I like are dating girls or not im always thinking they ,just be straight dating apps I didn't try . I dated twice men because they initiated it as im very shy but it didn't bring anything for me . I'm considering of moving overseas to be able to go out in lesbian bars. I'm so looking forward to habe first time,e sex with a woman

[@orchidchamblee]

Good luck to you remember you are a gem on earth and shine ✨

[@superpoolover4352]

this girl 😍

[@virgosmile]

Soooo pure and beautiful... ❤

[@douglascarroll9547]

I adore you. You are very lovely!❤❤❤❤❤

[@juliegahret5236]

❤

[@christophermuro2783]

As a alpha male , i really appreciate the knowledge you're spitting. thank you

[@Kayakamuy]

everything was beautiful except the mouth spitting 😂💖

[@misterrashad666]

I appreciate the subject of this video but when I tell you I was SO shocked when you started talking in detail about positions??? Lmaoo thank you for sharing your journey so candidly but even as a very sexual person, I was thrown way aback by the language in this video. Not complaining by any means, though, just to clarify. Thank u for sharing xoxo

[@aielianna]

i’m so glad that we’re even in a day and age where you can openly, explicitly and casually talk about queer sex at the same time though

[@aromakhosa7064]

You’re beautiful

[@allesae]

love

[@aneeladar]

love

[@mastrsk8]

Who let the dogs out?!

[@Kayakamuy]

can i take you on a date 👉🏽👈🏽 somewhere painting by a waterfall

[@assassin415]

one thing ive noticed about almost all influencers/ people in my personal life who base their public lives around being sexual and spiritual is that they are a lot more prone to being sad and depressed

[@Therealmykag]

I think someone who is willing to be openly discuss sex and sexuality online would be more willing to discuss their mental health, and have an understanding audience.

[@ramonamorris]

i noticed that too

[@missblobbysd]

​@@Therealmykagvery good point!

[@maxjohnson1758]

I think they are casting about, seeking fulfillment, not realizing a family is about the only thing that can really bring it. These days maybe it's better to just cast about, tho.

[@churbichurbi]

Please, fertility awareness method DO work! 🙏 We have to understand that tracking your cycle is something, and doing FAM is another. There’s a lot of misunderstanding about this and it only make girls more suspicious or nervous about this very great option for them :( I think it’s better to say that is a compromised option. You’ll need to take it seriously, you need to study how it works… but let’s not just say that sometimes it doesn’t work because literally any other contraceptive method effectiveness is measured on its “perfect usage”, so it’s unfair that the one that is literally best for our bodies have this fame 😅🌷

[@marijapopovic5097]

i love you

[@michaelnemo7629]

Sooner? Arent you like 20-something?

[@chiara7886]

❤

[@Lee-xg1nx]

You vibrate some real strong feminine energy ! Im out 👋🖐️ ✨🙏