Fat Acceptance's Most UNHINGED Influencer DONE?

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@JohnNathanShopper Ай бұрын

“You can’t just widen a hallway. This isn’t. SIMS.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀

@user-tz6vt5mj4i Ай бұрын

this line had me dying laughing lol

@Catsaregoodandyourenot Ай бұрын

Best line ever 😂

@SiewPhengLek Ай бұрын

This got me cracking up! 😂

@huhnoodles6478 Ай бұрын

HES MAD funny for that bro like BROOO

@DiMagnolia Ай бұрын

The seatbelt extender thing is like a parent expecting every Uber to have a baby seat

@MusikGirl23 Ай бұрын

Yup, in general-if you need something special, be prepared to bring it yourself! A car should be able to SUPPORT using a car seat or extender, but not be required to supply one in my opinion at least.

@twistimcfisti3441 Ай бұрын

Amazon can deliver to you, your very own seat belt extender 😮😊

@Laura-tv2dx Ай бұрын

Travel is a luxury. It's not like accommodations at a hospital or school. If you have the privilege to travel, you need to get two airplane seats and the seat belt extender for Uber yourself.

@djsusiequ2422 Ай бұрын

Exactly! I don’t travel because I don’t know how to pack and always overpack, so I end up paying extra- I never learned how to budget the extra weight on the luggage and don’t intend to; so I don’t travel unless it’s an emergency

@mimisparkles8765 Ай бұрын

@djsusiequ2422 Huh? There are many reasons why people can't travel, but this? Just watch a youtube video on how to pack? Or you can just say that travelling is too expensive and gives you too much anxiety to plan and execute

@tessahiggins8142 Ай бұрын

I love to travel and I'm very long legged. I understand that's a me problem and pay extra for more room in front of my seat. Travel is a luxury not a necessary service.

@olive872 Ай бұрын

@@djsusiequ2422thats such a strange reason to avoid traveling lol

@cierralowery7096 Ай бұрын

He is “a total catch” I’ll say yes because it sounds like the law caught him first

@RachelReduces Ай бұрын

hollering 🤣🤣🤣

@5-1biggiebagextrafries Ай бұрын

💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@BrieCheese Ай бұрын

1. Golden comment but also 2. I wonder if she started dating him AFTER he went to prison? She said that they have only been dating for a month, so even if he just started his sentence then there would have been arrests and court proceedings beforehand. So he had been caught committing a crime and she still thought that he was worth her time and attention when she has two other romantic relationships to attend to?

@jennifertimmons8056 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@minirth.maggie Ай бұрын

For her, that seems to be true...

@evabeveridge9651 Ай бұрын

She should be careful about her new prison boyfriend. They’re in prison for a reason. Been there done that.

@CaraMiaTish18 Ай бұрын

I'm sure he's the only nnoent one in there.

@angrynoodletwentyfive6463 Ай бұрын

I mean there are wrongfully convicted people who go to prison, as well as decent people who were just in a bad place in life and did a dumb thing, but its still a huge red flag to date somebody who is currently in prison. like basic common sense.

@djsusiequ2422 Ай бұрын

Men in prison will literally fk anything with a pulse lol

@yucatansuckaman5726 Ай бұрын

What's the appeal of that? Low self esteem?

@anonymouse9833 Ай бұрын

@@yucatansuckaman5726 My cousin has been in _many_ relationships with incarcerated men. Basically, the inmates shower them with loving language, letters, daily phone calls, poems, drawings etc because they have nothing but time on their hands. They aren't "out running around" because they literally can't. The woman feels like she has become the center of the incarcerated man's life, and she becomes infatuated with this "perfect relationship" thing in her head. It can also be hybristophilia, where the "free" person gets off on the danger aspect of dating a "bad boy" or thinking they can fix the person once they get out. The genders can be switched but it's all the same. It's all about a fantasy. The vast majority of these relationships don't last once the incarcerated person is released.

@SolitaryGem Ай бұрын

Seems like the extreme side of body positivity might be dying out.

@albertaprairieproud7277 Ай бұрын

Literally..................

@Angus-Johnson-8334 Ай бұрын

Yes…need average positivity, never seems to be a middle ground when there should be

@spOOkytimes Ай бұрын

It seems like the media coverage of fat activists passing away from obesity is working. Also, in this economy, it's genuinely harder for people to eat in excess and get take out conatantly because food is expensive.

@animatorstanley Ай бұрын

Good

@Jasmineflowerkisses Ай бұрын

I don’t think she’s arguing that she has a binge eating disorder, it sounds like she’s arguing that she has a restrictive eating disorder. As somebody who’s dealt with an eating disorder for about 17 years now, I can tell you that all these fat activist coming out saying they have a restrictive eating disorder is extremely damaging. I know it’s doing a number on my mental health.

@Taywanee Ай бұрын

Right? Tess Holiday saying she was diagnosed with anorexia yet when I was deep into my ED I couldn’t get a formal diagnosis of anorexia since I was just barely a normal weight per BMI just grinds my fucking gears

@Mspoor70 Ай бұрын

🫶🫶🫶

@spOOkytimes Ай бұрын

It really makes me angry. Ana involves having low body weight. Atypical ana involves behaviors that would cause losing weight pretty quickly. You can't post mukbang-level feasts, clearly stay the same weight or gain over months, and claim to be ana. The laws of thermodynamics applies to everything and everyone.

@MusikGirl23 Ай бұрын

@@Taywaneejust wanted to say I hope you’re doing better now. Ed’s are a special kind of **** aren’t they…(signed, gal who nearly died from a*n*a but has been in pretty solid recovery over 5 years now).

@kerribelleville7958 Ай бұрын

I feel like not a lot of people talk about this. This was me my whole life until I finally recovered a few years ago…I really convinced myself the whole time I wasn’t sick because I didn’t “look” sick so I must be fine. Meanwhile, I was struggling with countless other health related problems due to a long-lasting cluster of eating disordered behavior

@jbp246 Ай бұрын

I'm 10 kg (22 lbs) down today!! 🥳🥳🥳 24 kg to go to reach the normal BMI range. Your videos have been a constant source of inspiration for me and I believe that I can do it 💪

@sofiaa3144 Ай бұрын

Congrats!!!

@whatduck943 Ай бұрын

🎉🎉

@micheleandhenrycasavant386 Ай бұрын

Luv to hear life experiences such yours. You too are inspiring.🤩

@kellymeyer6057 Ай бұрын

im also 10kg down but stuck at my current weight, its hard but we can do it!

@jbp246 Ай бұрын

@@kellymeyer6057 Congrats! I'm sure you will start losing again if you stick with it, I was not losing for 2 months as well this summer but then the weight finally started going down again. We can do it 🙌

@Louiseonajourney Ай бұрын

I find it interesting that so many of these FA's find it so important to tell the rest of us that several people find them attractive. I don't think I've heard a person with great self esteem trying to convince others (or themselves?) how attractive they are

@germyw Ай бұрын

Yuuuuuuup! That’s exactly what she’s doing.

@Louiseonajourney Ай бұрын

@germyw and she's not the only one. I feel a bit sorry for anyone who has to repeatedly tell others that they are in fact attractive, it's just sad

@milikoshki Ай бұрын

The whole "my bf and I have been together 1 month but he's in jail" part doesn't do such a great job of convincing me lol

@Louiseonajourney Ай бұрын

@milikoshki same, but she might be able to convince herself 🤷‍♀️

@nanananananananana00 Ай бұрын

i was so confused on what you had against flight attendants for a second 😂😂

@Oonagh72 Ай бұрын

Isn’t she one of those people who said restrictive ED is fat phobic.

@boosqueezy2418 Ай бұрын

she sure is

@og666 Ай бұрын

i mean i see it? they're at least a little afraid of being fat. it's not a useful comment (esp if she's like "people with anorexia are bad bc they're fatphobic), but it's not inaccurate

@ghostfumes Ай бұрын

ok literally what does that mean 💀

@pinkdragon4830 Ай бұрын

@@og666 fatphobic doesn’t always mean ‘afraid of being fat’. Like with homophobia for example, it’s not a fear, so fatphobia usually means ‘hateful against fat people’

@JasmineBrown-ud2yf Ай бұрын

I mean it is fatphobic. Most ED's 'are' but not in the definition they're giving. but yeah she was the person to say that type of thing, and like not fitting in chairs is fat phobic too

@Soliloquy_lope Ай бұрын

I think the point is, when these people are talking about EDs they're ONLY ever talking about restrictive ones. Never BED or anything like that.

@vegasa2067 Ай бұрын

Yup. The way she mentioned “people living in larger bodies” are not believed when they try to talk about ED. If they were talking about BED then I am sure doctors would believe them.

@kryptofreak74 Ай бұрын

More overeating disorders need to be recognized in the DSM-V

@JasmineBrown-ud2yf Ай бұрын

as a few comments above (Jasmineflowerkisses) mentioned, it does sound like she's implying herself to have a restrictive one by mentioning "Living in a larger body, I was not the blah blah definition you'd see for EDs". It kinda sounded like she kept tryna say it but not mention it

@Nicana68 Ай бұрын

So she's been 'dating' the new boyfriend for a month... while he's in prison? And he's apparently a 'catch'? Oh dear.... 🤦🏼‍♀️

@danparsons8730 Ай бұрын

Sounds like he's already been caught.

@opp811 Ай бұрын

She doesn't like her fiance , the new guy must be fitter and considered attractive. She will leave him lol

@KellyLoom1s Ай бұрын

@@danparsons8730👏👏👏👏👏

@minirth.maggie Ай бұрын

Wow her standards are in the gutter

@anikaschneider2611 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂@@danparsons8730

@alexamandes8872 Ай бұрын

“Talk your sh*t if you want” Turns off comments

@spOOkytimes Ай бұрын

"I'm proud of who I am". Deletes every comment that isn't overwhelmingly positively and unquestioning.

@liv9194 Ай бұрын

I think people are forgetting there's a difference between being overweight and obese. Being over weight is needing to lose like 20-40lbs in order to be at a healthy weight. Genetics and metabolic problems will cause you to be overweight, not necessarily obese. Obese is needing to lose hundreds of pounds, and is generally not caused by genetics.

@emma2370 Ай бұрын

Exactly. Also, genetics usually plays a role in where on your body fat is deposited not if you will be obese or not.

@BrekkeEl Ай бұрын

The way she’s presenting polyamory feels more like a validation tool for attractiveness, than a real conversation on relationships.

@TheSmashism Ай бұрын

"I'm polyamorous" my eyes rolled so hard they fell out of my head. Of course she is.

@NellyNoel Ай бұрын

Her: my boyfriend is in jail John and the rest of us nosies: tell me why! 📣

@writergrrrl Ай бұрын

Me: Ain't nothin' but a heartache (I'm sorry. I'll see myself out)

@NellyNoel Ай бұрын

@ literally what I thought when I wrote the post 🤣

@MusikGirl23 Ай бұрын

@@writergrrrl90s kid like me? lol.

@Cat_Woods Ай бұрын

I mean, it's very relevant information to someone in a relationship with them. I hope she at least knows the true charge they're in for.

@KennyChesty Ай бұрын

"This isn't sims!" was exactly my thought.

@EroticInferno Ай бұрын

People are fundamentally disconnected from this world. ISTG people think their garbage cans are magical and all that waste just disappears. That food just magically appears in stores. Nah, we’re disconnected from the world and what’s actually needed to make it function.

@standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory Ай бұрын

Can you imagine going online & asking airlines to accommodate active alcoholics who wish to binge drink in comfort on flights? Yeah the industry is against your ideas, they don’t have to give a reason because you are promoting self-harm if you promote obesity!

@Miss_Wonderful1 Ай бұрын

And serve drugs too, because it's not ok to discriminate against drug addicts.

@ghostfumes Ай бұрын

like they’re a business they’re allowed to turn you away or say no lol

@Mere_Puffery Ай бұрын

Whenever I’m on a long-haul flight I have to use nicotine gum or a patch because I’m addicted to nicotine - and they won’t let me smoke on the flight! I want to smoke! It’s OUTRAGEOUS that I’m forced to go without cigarettes when I *choose* to get on a 12 hour flight and go on a holiday.

@blueeyedbatman Ай бұрын

Thats no more crazy than all the arrest videos where they allow them a cigarette to calm down before being taken to jail tbh...

@lauramcguan Ай бұрын

Or bring back smoking on airplanes people want to chain smoke!! Health at any lung function!!!😤😤😤

@dopamineme Ай бұрын

Oh dam.. the only reason these guys in prison sweet talk women is to use them for money. Trust me, I spent years living the lifestyle where I knew these kind of men through friends or when my bf was in prison. They will send fake hostage videos of themselves to their families for money, that's how much they are willing to do to get commissary. Ladies, DONT date a guy locked up. Don't go back to your ex if he calls when he's locked up. He's just tryna get that canteen

@GigglewithFelix321 19 күн бұрын

Nah, didn't you hear her? Her imprisoned convicted felon is a catch.

@l111thium Ай бұрын

DEFINITELY!! it's hypocritical to claim its your ed that's making you overeat and cry wolf when in the next sentence you're trying to celebrate the body your ed made you have. eating disorders are the deadliest mental illnesses in the DSM-V and you would NEVER catch an anorexic this self aware about their problem "celebrating" their body

@BrieCheese Ай бұрын

Did she specify that her ED involves overeating? I remember when made video saying that it was ignorant that people are fat due to overeating because money and genetics can play a role, but then would post travel content that would suggest that money isn't an issue for her. She would also post videos saying that fat people shouldn't feel bad about eating while she ate junk food while on oxygen. She seems in denial that overeating lead to her size or to her being on oxygen.

@vn8600 Ай бұрын

ya know, i started years ago at a horrifying 350. over time i got down to 320, stayed there for years. last year i developed a taste disorder, which seriously screwed up my eating. I am now at 285. I STOPPED EATING SO MUCH!!!!

@karlamarx5954 Ай бұрын

I also want to add, you NEVER see underweight folks, including those with EDs, complaining about this. The audacity and entitlement that the world should accommodate ME...nope.

@hitfasthithard Ай бұрын

Because anorexic people dont need size accommodations, duh.

@Miss_Wonderful1 Ай бұрын

In my country, where people on a wheelchair have no access whatsoever to public transportation, she would be buried under a huge amount of criticism and mockery for not being realistic.

@spOOkytimes Ай бұрын

People like her go to other countries and are somehow shocked when they don't have infrastructure and accommodations big enough for them. See Anna (Glitterandlazers) constantly complaining about this. A restaurant literally didn't have a big enough chair for her.

@AyaTheTyga Ай бұрын

Privileged 👩‍⚖️ you hit the nail on the mark 😂 these people need a reality check

@evakuroda6920 Ай бұрын

This woman is deeply disturbed. That’s it.

@vn8600 Ай бұрын

A true horrorkow

@fatchickinabarn6145 Ай бұрын

Poly people always seem to be "alternatively" attractive

@danparsons8730 Ай бұрын

They try to collect enough partners to make at least a 6/10 of them all.

@loopyloon5401 Ай бұрын

Most Americans are overweight due to easy access to processed food & general ignorance of a proper diet, but genuine obesity usually comes about from disordered eating & addiction.

@VerminaeSupremacy Ай бұрын

imagine walking at least 10k steps a day and eating only around 1800-2200 kcal a day. Like, you know, the normal people in other developed countries do even if sedentary. Lost 36kgs in 1 year, went from 107.4 kilos (almost morbidly obese for my height) to 71 kilos, 156 lbs, still a chubster, but healthier chubster.

@loopyloon5401 Ай бұрын

@VerminaeSupremacy Nice! I walk my dog everyday & only stock my kitchen with ingredients so I have to prepare all of my meals, & I haven't consumed a soda pop in 2 years now.

@VerminaeSupremacy Ай бұрын

@@loopyloon5401 high-fiving you from Eastern Europe. For me it was cutting down alcohol and snacks and sweets intake, because inflation and price hikes on takeouts already rendered anything but food at home/from grocery shop expensive. I also upped my protein intake for better satiation and it landed me comfortably in the range I mentioned without major overhauls (I still indulge in sugar-free soda and adult beverages from time to time, but sparingly)

@RachelReduces Ай бұрын

JaeBae got 3 partners! I guess the rest of us out here struggling 😫🤣

@Gaia_Seraphina Ай бұрын

Well ... she's big enough for 3 dudes lie on her simultaneously.😅

@Zeusdog4ever Ай бұрын

As a woman who dates men, it's hard enough to find one good one. Multiple partners? I don't like those odds. 😄

@SolitaryGem Ай бұрын

@@RachelReduces I'm stuck in the trenches just trying to find 1 partner lmao😅

@Louiseonajourney Ай бұрын

Well, if you have low standards your opportunities increase and vice versa 🤷‍♀️

@SolitaryGem Ай бұрын

@Louiseonajourney haha she def has low standards since she mentioned 1 partner being in jail. Sounds like an episode of Love After Lockup.

@TyaColo Ай бұрын

8:38 I can relate to this as I went through almost the exact journey you’re talking about, I unfortunately had to learn the hard way about losing the weight through self hatred and disgust, as in my teens I went from 260 something to 155 as my lowest at 6’1, and it got to the point where people were vocalizing their concern about my health. I have distinct memories of looking in the mirror and punching my own stomach to the point of bruising just out of pure self hatred. And of course, inevitably when you transform like that it doesn’t last forever and I ballooned back up to 281 at my heaviest ever. As much as that part of my life saddens me though, I wouldn’t trade it for anything as it’s my journey, and was a catalyst for me to eventually approach my weight loss in a much more measured, thoughtful, and sustainable way. Doing it with consistent exercise and while I won’t lie and say my diet is perfect, I count my calories (without obsessing over it), think about what I’m eating and how it fuels (or doesn’t fuel) my body, and when I do have a day where I overeat or make bad choices, rather than beating myself up (mentally or physically lol) I am developing the skill of giving myself grace and moving onto the next thing. Accepting that I can’t change what’s already happened but I can change what happens right now in each moment. I appreciate your content so much as I hope that other people in a similar position can learn these lessons without having to personally go through them the hard way. Thank you for what you do ❤ And Happy Birthday!!

@amandaggogo Ай бұрын

I feel like, with the seatbelt extender, it shouldn’t be up to everyone else to accommodate. In the same way I don’t expect every space to provide me with a cane or a wheelchair. I bring my own.

@erlandaislund4594 Ай бұрын

I feel verry uncomfortable when a place is too crowded. When i notice, that my tollerance of humans for the day has reached its limit... i leave, lock myself in my room or go on a walk in the woods. JaeBae would probably expect everyone else to leave, to "accomodate her needs".

@KM-xx1qb Ай бұрын

“He’s a total catch” minus the felony? Lmao dude is like please, I need a place to live when I get out.

@blondbraid7986 Ай бұрын

If you can afford eating for two, you can afford seating for two.

@kirausamaria5409 Ай бұрын

If you're dating several people while one of them is in jail I don't think that counts as a polyamory relationship.

@karlamarx5954 Ай бұрын

Accommodations are understandable. However, at a certain point, when your body drastically varies from the general population, you have to accept that. Does it suck? Yes. But it's reality

@AlicePRabbits Ай бұрын

How is she “dating” someone in jail? Same as ALR dating and having a girlfriend she never met!!

@ambersummer2685 Ай бұрын

People like her will never understand the mindset you develop once you lose weight from being obese and being able to maintain your weight. You never want to go back so I see why these influencers hate “ex fats” so much. They’re reminders that anything is possible if you put in the effort to form healthier habits.

@AmberA52 Ай бұрын

2:30 as someone who once worked in a role supporting compliance and safety of buildings, unless it's been grandfathered in due to age or historical codes/zoning etc. buildings in the US are required to meet standards that are pre-established to support ADA codes. So, based on what the government says, they good friend.

@1822romantic Ай бұрын

most people with BED aren't morbidly obese though. BED isn't just over eating, it also consists of periods of severe calorie restriction, fasting for spans of time, over exercising, shame about one's appearance eg; not wanting to be on camera and film yourself eating etc. i have diagnosed BED and i have never been obese in my life, the biggest i got was just over the average size for a 5ft3 female. i feel like a lot of obese/morbidly obese people are starting to use BED as the sole reason they are obese and to garner sympathy and to avoid taking accountability for their behaviour around food. once again actual BED has strong elements of shame within the disordered mindset, i don't even talk about food if i can avoid it. so most people who post 'body positive" bikini photos and openly admit to being comfortable with their weight probably do not have BED bc their way of thinking doesn't fit the criteria of the mental disorder. also not seeking help for BED is not an excuse to stay fat and complain about "fatphobia". i had to force myself to get help for my ED and it has finally paid off to an extent, i am at a healthy weight currently for my height, my binges are rare now. i still have disordered thinking but i am working on it and making progress after many years of struggling. hopefully this doesn't sound sanctimonious.

@x_candyvampire Ай бұрын

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! 💜

@nickymo Ай бұрын

We can’t even say “eating disorder” on youtube? Jesus, next they’ll demonetize videos that say “poo poo pee pee”

@alexamandes8872 Ай бұрын

How many airline passengers have anxiety? Should they have xann*x on hand for us? Should they have someone there to hold my hand and tell me it’s going to be okay as we take off? The amount of people doesn’t mean anything. You’re the outlier. Period.

@kimf1993 Ай бұрын

Your being funny but that would slap

@Whewwha Ай бұрын

💯

@jirarara669 Ай бұрын

Why did you censor xanax?

@Jesse.D33 Ай бұрын

Yay!!! You guys are moving in together! Congratulations man. Love to see it and love your videos

@Angus-Johnson-8334 Ай бұрын

I’ve said it before but average body positivity should be a thing. Shouldn’t be both extremes but focused on the averages because that’s the most realistic for the most people.

@catladydimitrescu Ай бұрын

"He's a total catch!" No, JayBae, he got caught. Big difference.

@ratbeach Ай бұрын

She's too young to remember when you couldn't even get a seatbelt extender on a plane, or when you couldn't assume that a chair in a public waiting room was sturdy enough to risk sitting on. Re--her airport/wheelchair drama. Why didn't she just stand there and call the other person back? Apparently she's perfectly capable of walking and just doesn't think she should have to.

@mandycastillo3900 Ай бұрын

I'm excited for you moving to MA! I'm also a Californian, born and raised, but my dad lived in MA for a couple of years and I LOVED going there to visit.

@Riri-ih9ic Ай бұрын

She’s over here having a fiancé and a boyfriend meanwhile I can’t even get one bf

@DocInABox Ай бұрын

Well have you tried looking in prisons?

@BronzedBeast Ай бұрын

Even if this boyfriend wasn't in prison. What a miserable relationship. Can you imagine sharing your partner with another individual?

@jameslunsford8069 Ай бұрын

Saying to change the elevator give me "thats a load bearing wall jerry its not going anywhere" moment.

@wwondertwin Ай бұрын

Imagine how ticket prices would go up if all airlines were forced to create these changes into their planes. That's billions and billions worth of modifications first, and then more billions lost in revenue because then the planes fit less passengers per flight. Who's gonna pay for it? Oh and on top that they want other passengers to subsidise their travel by getting free seats and definitely no "pay by weight" tickets.

@erlandaislund4594 Ай бұрын

Funny thing is, that airlines already offer those options. I mean... i would also love to get a seat that fits someone like Jaebaes size. But if i have to chose between more space and a higher price or beeing slightly uncomfortable (1,80 tall, so legspace can be a issue) on a lower price, i would still chose the lower price. I have flown only on 3 travels and everytime my BMI was around 30. So on the edge between overweight snd obese. But never have i spilled into the seats next to me or was in need of an seatbelt extender. So... they already accomodate for OVERWEIGHT/Plussize passengers. Just not for "tripple size" passengers.

@Earthto_allie Ай бұрын

Happy Birthday! Also 32 here! Love that you’re coming to the east coast, I’m in Jersey and LOVE traveling to Mass! I hope you have a smooth move!

@tinaspice Ай бұрын

I’m moving to MA in the spring. Excited to move and I hope you enjoy the area as well!

@invisibleplanets Ай бұрын

FA seems to be dying and on it's last gasps. Finally.

@katiemc66 Ай бұрын

I was traveling this past week and on several flights, and I thought about Jae Bae. Having the flying experience so fresh in my mind and seeing how chaotic getting on and off flights can be, it’s insane to me that she wants airlines to bend over backwards for her unhealthy choices.

@Hasmik-r1q Ай бұрын

Happy birthday and welcome to Mass!

@artistebella Ай бұрын

Welcome to my side of the country! In RI... excited for you and your reasons coming this way!

@Irishczech Ай бұрын

If he is the 'kindest, sweetest, person then how did he end up in prison?

@Mspoor70 Ай бұрын

An excellent question 👏👏👏

@KendryDiazsolano Күн бұрын

I almost die laughing 😂

@pig3292 Ай бұрын

Omg I'm also 32 and in MA, so relatable 😜

@DollishDes Ай бұрын

lol

@Scrambledbrains3601 Ай бұрын

Omg I'm 40 and in AZ what a SMALL FUCKNG WORLD!!!!

@DizzyME13 Ай бұрын

These people that are still living under the delusion that being big isn't harmful need to wake up. Everyone deserves kindness no matter their size, but they do not need the world to bend over backwards to make stupid changes just so someone that's 600 pounds can feel like they aren't too fat because they can fit in the giant seat or extra large elevator or double wide trailer...etc. 🙄✌️ Edit: sounds like she fell for an inmate's sweet talking'... I'm sure it's some guy with a list of girls and guys he calls each week to get them to put money on his books. When they do this they just tell the person whatever they want to hear just to get what they can out of them. She said she's known him a month. So she must have met him while he's in prison. I guarantee he will disappear when he gets out!

@bethb4432 Ай бұрын

He might not disappear. She sure seems to have a lot of money, as much as she travels. He might want to stick around to reap those benefits.

@epowell4211 Ай бұрын

Imagine if everyone with a child went on a tirade because the uber driver didn't have a childseat, a restaurant ran out of booster seats, a bathroom didn't supply diapers. What if every wheelchair user called out every business that didn't have an automated door, halls not wide enough to turn around on, got mad a wheelchair wasn't provided and no one was there to push it for them. Heck, what if every allergy sufferer threw a fit because tissues weren't provided freely everywhere they went? I am not saying her need for accommodation is any less important to her well being than anyone else's, but I am saying she needs to take responsibility for it. Our rights extend only to the point they become a problem for someone else or interfere with their rights - once our needs create an unfair burden for others, we have overstepped. Soo....being fat has nothing to do with eating habits, but she has an ED that needs support?

@meredithgrubb4497 Ай бұрын

One simply does not stay that size without a matching caloric intake

@johannas.l.brushane2518 Ай бұрын

It's interesting that they initially want to give the narrative of being morbidly obese is something that happen for reasons that can't be influenced by themselves. Brittany Sauer admitted to have abused her body with binges just a week before she passed. The channel Mutt Fitness makes content from reddit discussions he reacts to. In one there was someone who claimed to be a healthcare worker at a hospice where they had an inpatient treatment of an annoying person who was an influencer who had difficult to accept that staff may not want to be filmed and also being inconsiderate and rude when staff don't want to assist to turn the person, help to the wheelchair by themselves but that they need to be at least two to avoid to hurt themselves but the influencer as well. The person of course did not identify who it was but I could think JaeBea or FatGirlFlow could be that kind of annoying.

@RachelReduces Ай бұрын

I thought of JaeBae too when I saw that lol John made a video on it in September. kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJ7bk56miN-qoa8

@standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory Ай бұрын

I think it was Anna from glitter and lasers but I could see that too

@johannas.l.brushane2518 Ай бұрын

@montananerd8244 I could think of Anna being that intrusive with wanting to film everything but don't know she's been in such poor mobility status she been in strict hospice care.

@twink6235 Ай бұрын

So basically change the whole world to accommodate your bad choices. Okay got it

@antonichristian5845 Ай бұрын

I can guarantee she has gone through a lot of bad stuff in her life growing up and is most likely full of pain and sadness. I find most people her size (man or woman) use food as a form of self medication due to some kind of sadness or emotional pain in their life.

@BlessedwithChristt Ай бұрын

Let’s gooo I’m from Massachusetts!!!! Hope you like it here!!

@3brosinwinter781 Ай бұрын

Shes probably had a major health awakening and is no longer feeling fat positive

@elysemulheron7470 Ай бұрын

She doesnt appear to be advocating for healing so much as she is trying to argue that fat people should be included in that issue too. It would make more sense for her to say that EDs come in different forms rather than saying the people who have them come in different sizes and shapes. It's a weird way to put it

@HandleThatYoutubeWontFilter Ай бұрын

what infuriates me is traveling while being a wheelchair user myself... not every airline can physically accommodate wheelchairs in every area or up every ramp, especially in her size or down every plane aisle. The ramps up and down to the plane door just don't always work that way, depending on the airport- some take you straight to the door, some idk how they even stay upright but I'd feel safer just jumping out of the plane and praying. And there's not always enough people available to be pushing the wheelchairs around the airports in the first place- an especially frustrating fact when some of us aren't traveling for fun, but medical procedures, and people DO feel entitled to wheelchairs just for the priority boarding it gives you

@devilsandsuch Ай бұрын

i will say about elevators- last year staying in chicago the elevator to my hotel was so tiny that my wheelchair touched all four walls of it 😭 anyways good luck with the move and happy birthday!

@ThePennyDropsYNAB Ай бұрын

I’m only like 2.5 min in but you’re extra fired up today lol

@Janelolll Ай бұрын

I can’t even get ONE partner, how TF can this woman get THREE 😭🤚

@CatherineB554 Ай бұрын

Standards, I'm sure you have them..😊..

@thepissedoffgerman2459 Ай бұрын

She's putting out.

@lo-lifts Ай бұрын

that’s how i be feeling watching ALR

@DD-rs6mn Ай бұрын

Guys would Fuckk anything 😂

@BronzedBeast Ай бұрын

The fact any of those men are willing to share her goes more out to their characters than hers. They are either depraved, extreme losers, or idk but those men are not worth even looking at. I would be more jealous over the dude that married a doll rather than this relationship haha

@ladyB59 Ай бұрын

I just see greedy on all levels. Plus keeps her too busy to deal with why she is so big. Focus outside on the rest of society to change. Now loads of lovers to boost esteem. No self awareness. Talks as though she has swallowed self help books, not one original thought.

@LittleAussie_20 Ай бұрын

Well one things I'm 100% sure of, she's not eating salads or veggies

@Moonhart44 Ай бұрын

Do not date convicts or ex convicts. Speaking from watching people do it and from experience. She pays for his attention and has a bunch of other sugar babies

@Tocinos Ай бұрын

Hearing you're moving to my state is the most hype thing I've heard all week. 🗣️ You'll fit right in (No pun intended.) but don't be alarmed at how common you'll find yourself in a conversation with someone in public, especially elderly folks.

@nicoler.7051 Ай бұрын

Not to say all guys in prison are like this but it's common that they latch onto the vulnerable when they are getting out to have a sense of security (place to stay, resources etc). I hope she is being careful.

@CO_fanatic Ай бұрын

Happy Birthday!🎂

@canecorsomom2023 Ай бұрын

I always find this groups language around ED interesting They talk about it like its a virus you catch or cancer....its behavior that you chose that got out of control, and you have the ability to move in a different direction if you choose to. You were never a victim of ED

@powderandpaint14 Ай бұрын

It's not really a choice of behaviour, in fact it's usually a compulsion that you feel unable to control (for all kinds of eating disorders). It's an unhealthy coping mechanism that becomes an uncontrollable disorder that needs mental health treatment.

@canecorsomom2023 Ай бұрын

@powderandpaint14 I disagree. The compulsion doesn't just happen. It doesn't exist in a vacuum. You make choices, and then the uncontrollable compulsion follows. You dont just wake up one day and start purging your food uncontrollably. You had to choose to do that many times over a period of time before it becomes a compulsion (yes, that's personal experience) And I had to come to terms with the choices I made that led to that compulsion before I was able to stop.

@powderandpaint14 Ай бұрын

@canecorsomom2023 I also have experience of EDs and I respectfully disagree. But everyone's experience is different.

@BronzedBeast Ай бұрын

@@powderandpaint14 I hard disagree. You choose to eat and you can choose to stop. Yes absolutely it's difficult. If I didn't controlyself I would absolutely have BED. I get where you're coming from but at no point do our brains shut off and we graze like cattle. We just don't know how to handle those temptations and some crack

@powderandpaint14 Ай бұрын

@BronzedBeast how do you explain people with anorexia not eating to the point of risking death then? The compulsion of the disorder goes past logic or safety.

@alicakeys13 Ай бұрын

Happy Birthday and I live in Massachusetts as well. Welcome!!! P.S. Be prepared for the traffic, cause it makes no sense -__-

@lynny75831 Ай бұрын

as a fat chick, the only thing i agree with is the bathroom.......why is the toilet roll thing right there at my hip? Like, move it up a couple inches lol

@haleyboyer9148 Ай бұрын

good to have you in New England!

@SiewPhengLek Ай бұрын

Is she payingt for all those demands??? If she is, by all means... she can go ahead with her "project" 😂

@YouRemindMeOfTheBabe08 29 күн бұрын

Isnt losing weight easier than taking on the world to change to accommodate your size!?

@catherinesquires8743 Ай бұрын

Western mass gal here :) Welcome! What a great new addition for us 😁

@EmilyElizabethxox Ай бұрын

Okay, my theory on this… is that her fiancé is gay, like we all kind of suspected, and so now she is looking for companionship elsewhere. And she decided to go the “prison boyfriend” route for maximum controversy as well as needing someone to be focused on her 24-7. A lot of these prisoners who seek out these sort of partners are not attracted to the woman at all and just need commissary money. So they’re willing to say or do whatever to keep a woman thinking he’s all about her.

@Kriistall7 Ай бұрын

Can we talk about that questionable gray sculpture on the right of the screen 😂

@BOOcketMan 20 күн бұрын

LOL

@madisonking332 Ай бұрын

Omg so happy for you !!!

@mintgreenghost Ай бұрын

1:45 I've seen some ridiculously tiny elevators (looking at you, hotel i stayed at in london, the elevator was maybe 2 feet wide) but most USAmerican elevators, just going off her accent, are spacious. Huge. Multiple elevators. Stairs are in Timbuktu, everyone is expected to take the elevator. If you cant fit into a standard USA elevator you have bigger fish to bake - don't fry em you don't need the calories! Ik she travels, ADA doesn't exist everywhere and she should know that by now...