Fiancé Demanded I Put His Family First, Even Over My Sister's Health Emergency. I Dumped Him & Now..

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3 ай бұрын

Fiancé Demanded I Put His Family First, Even Over My Sister's Health Emergency. I Dumped Him & Now He's Homeless After Assa*lt His Own Father.
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@DarkEinherjar 3 ай бұрын

Rob: "You'll never find another guy like me!" OP: "...are you threatening me with a good thing?"

@ninaslacanac9755 2 ай бұрын

Nice

@shayanshafiee7987 3 ай бұрын

The audacity to claim that she would "never find a guy like him!" I mean he is not wrong. It is extremely hard to find someone this stupid and self-centered.

@CreditR01 3 ай бұрын

I love how she answered that. "I don't want a guy like you. That's why I'm ending it." BURRRRRN

@axinhedgelion8417 2 ай бұрын

@@CreditR01it’s like that one part in KH: BBS “It’s always about your friends. Isn’t it?” “AT LEAST I HAVE SOME!”

@mackabbot1439 3 ай бұрын

I actually love that his friends gave him 2 fucking rules and he immediately broke both of them that night

@sophiaisabelle0227 3 ай бұрын

He's way too demanding. He isn't even asking you what are your needs or wants. I guess selfishness get in the way sometimes.

@FlipTheBard 3 ай бұрын

Loved how OP clapped back at some friends telling her to help that sorry excuse of a man. "Oh, you think I should let him get back into my house?If you feel such pity for him then why don't YOU house him?" _Crickets_ "That's what I thought".

@marcruth4531 28 күн бұрын

real easy to virtue signal, too. "We would if we had room, but we don't." makes me curious what their excuse would be to not house him if they DID have room.

@susanrand512 3 ай бұрын

You didn't know BF was such a petty jerk, you dodged a BIG bullet, thank goodness. Seems to have a very lovely family, wonder where they got him from.If the friends are so concerned you need to move on from them as well, what poor advice.

@almostidioticgirl 3 ай бұрын

I think he wasn't that way before he got in touch with his father, even his more than a decade friend said he became so different. Many abusers are also a master of gaslighting, I guess that's also the case with his father.

@Zephanir 2 ай бұрын

Kim's eye emergency was a blessing in disguise as shitty as that is. Her sis indirectly saved her from something far worse.

@Maria-wi1pj 3 ай бұрын

Op and everyone around her are real badass. Op took no bullshit, good for her. And she also had a really good support system. It's sad that Rob exchanged his relationship with his wife, brother and mother, who all seem good people, just for the approval of a piece of sh1t. It's also hilarious. He literally argue with op because she didn't prioritize his family but he's the first one who doesn't prioritize his family and betrayed it.

@samsonxd 3 ай бұрын

Ive seen this story before. Fiancé was a real piece of work.

@Renkencen 3 ай бұрын

Same, can't remember if it was on here or another channel similar to this.

@renadu30 3 ай бұрын

@@Renkencen It was on this channel, but there wasn't the update about Rob attacking his dad.

@MrArielK 3 ай бұрын

Is this story real?

@Renkencen 3 ай бұрын

@@renadu30 Yeah I did suspect that part sounded new to me. Wished the channel owner hand simply put an "update" and mention the story was told before but with an update like this other channel does!

@Imcreatorbutwithaknotac 3 ай бұрын

I FOUND THIS ON REDDIT

@katje5087 3 ай бұрын

“And I had a cup of tea” was the most british thing ever 😂

@roymerlo6975 3 ай бұрын

For those saying that this is an AI Generated Story, the Original Post was made by ThrowRAsisterseye and was covered before by other Reddit Stories Channels who read the story themselves. For those who wanted to know the Source of the Original, you're welcome.

@DarkEinherjar 3 ай бұрын

It was covered in this channel too, though the update of Rob a--aulting his father is a new update.

@MrArielK 3 ай бұрын

User doesn’t exist, April fools was yesterday, nice try though

@roymerlo6975 3 ай бұрын

@@MrArielK I don't Celebrate April Fools, go to Mark Narrations if you want proof that it's real. As every time I try to link the Reddit Post, it gets removed. (Whether by KZbin or this Channel? I have no clue).

@roymerlo6975 3 ай бұрын

@@MrArielK I don't celebrate April Fools, if you can't find it then that's something you will need to sort out on your own. KZbin or this Channel won't let me link it or tell you where you can find proof that it is. So best of luck on finding it.

@stanminori 3 ай бұрын

Akutagawa PFP spotted ‼️‼️

@n7y8c7 3 ай бұрын

OP, you owe your sister BIG TIME for the bullet you dodged!

@amandaelmer5533 Ай бұрын

"I don't want a guy like you; that's why I'm ending it." Killed it

@jinxtheunluckypony 3 ай бұрын

You know your ex is bad when their family is calling you to let you know you dodged a bullet.

@dagoth-ursbeekeeper9119 2 ай бұрын

He was trying to separate her from a powerful network of support, which is the bane of every serial abuser. She left before he could really sink his hooks into her.

@SilveryBlue1010 3 ай бұрын

Lol 😂😂😂 Did he taking an advice from someone whom divorced by his wife over his behaviors? Also it's so sweet of people asking how OP's sister doing 😊

@lya9677 3 ай бұрын

Yeah If someone is described by your friend as ''he is the sort of person, who walks in a pub, and everyone quickly finishes their last pint just to get away from him'', you'd think it'd ring a bell or something...but noooo... Rob's tinted glasses, sees the cape and the huge S Delulu

@NessieNice 2 ай бұрын

@@lya9677 at this point, I'd feel bad to leave the bartender alone with him. But I guess that's the occupational hazard

@TOMMY716 3 ай бұрын

I always found these types of guys interesting that they look up to their fathers who act like this but their fathers don't actually like them and treat them like shit

@LunaP1 3 ай бұрын

With the abusive parents, it's called spiteful sabotage. The abusive parent will pour poison in their ear to the point they are disconnected from reality. Then the affected kid ends up sabotaging their own relationships thanks to the brainwashing. Rob is THAT child that was brainwashed to be like his incel father.

@khaleesireyna731 2 ай бұрын

I wouldn't be surprised if that's part of it. They desperately want the approval they can't get, so they chase those moving goal posts.

@TOMMY716 2 ай бұрын

@@khaleesireyna731 yeye typically these guys are a macho man

@jenniekham5838 3 ай бұрын

Bro is speed running ruining his life he had it all litterally A women that loved him a house w no mortgage a loving family And he ruined it to get his abusive deadbeat dad approval

@smilygriffin1144 3 ай бұрын

"So this should be my final update" Halfway though the video. Uh oh.

@respecttheweirdness.2144 3 ай бұрын

I WAS LITERALLY ABOUT TO TEXT THIIIISS😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀

@0karmaticfrost010 3 ай бұрын

ppl that are able to so easily betray the morals they were taught all their life in the span of a year are childish as hell and dont deserve to be in a relationship. Ho w can op's ex be under his mom all his life and yet be dumb enough to listen to his dads marriage advice when the EX HIMSELF saw with his own eyes his fathers failing marriage???

@GreenPaganWitch 3 ай бұрын

ABSOLUTELY DO NOT LET HIM IN, EVEN FOR TALKING. Your friends that think you should let him stay, need to get a reality check. As soon as he's not getting his way, he explodes, and it will only escalate.

@neuvibathwaterpavedtheway 3 ай бұрын

wow, i never had an urge to punch a guy this bad until op introduced rob.

@Qdelilah 2 ай бұрын

It's funny he can blame everyone. i mean everyone, BUT HIS FATHER, like his father, kicked him out after giving him bad advice, but he is still defending his father like he's not the reason he's homeless 🥴🥴🥴

@Katzykeens 2 ай бұрын

His mom is a fuckin REAL ONE

@moonsaces2122 3 ай бұрын

My Freshman year of college was rough on me and my boyfriend. Lot of fighting and dealing with long distance which wasn’t easy considering it was my first relationship and his second (first ended BAD and messed him up) so we were inexperienced and dealing with a lot of change and pressure. But that spring we were just getting back on our feet when I got a call from my parents. My Dad (who I’m very close to)had a heart attack and was in the hospital. He was okay, he hadn’t let my mom call me til after surgery cause they knew I’d freak, but I was a wreck and needed to see him to make sure of it for myself, but had no way to get home since I was living on campus with no car. I called my boyfriend hoping he could calm me down. He and his Mom drove an hour down and back to get me to the hospital to see my Dad. Then the next morning he picked up to drive me back to campus, went to my morning class with me, and stayed with me until he had to leave to drive 2 hrs to his own classes. It’s been 7 years and while it hasn’t been easy at times (growing up with someone never is) I’m still with him and we’re getting married this year.

@saltwatertaffy7020 2 ай бұрын

🎉😊

@gabriellaverdeja 2 ай бұрын

Honestly this women was right to break up with her ex-fiancé.

@Lena-Angels 2 ай бұрын

Man saying he is the man of the house while not having a house.

@shawnycoffman 3 ай бұрын

All this for parental approval. Parents take heed. I'm in my mid 50s and I catch myself every now and again doing or saying things in an effort to get parental approval. That shit is real and lifelong. If you do not intend to be an actual parent do not have kids.

@charlottearrington2030 3 ай бұрын

You did right by ending that relationship. Do not let him back in your house , he will never leave . Please take every precaution to be safe , I think he could be dangerous .

@Bass-ef3dr 2 ай бұрын

21:10 dammit rob, you had ONE chance and you still f*cked it up!

@KDannXII 2 ай бұрын

Him: you need to put my family first His family: she doesn't. Him: NO!

@URLHASBEENBANNED 3 ай бұрын

Once again after 10 minutes people are commenting even though it’s 24 minutes

@MrArielK 3 ай бұрын

2x speed

@URLHASBEENBANNED 3 ай бұрын

@@MrArielK still only 20/24

@MrArielK 3 ай бұрын

@@URLHASBEENBANNED you can skip intro and go to the juicy part since the title gives it away

@ThePawerStation 3 ай бұрын

I feel happy for this update and Rob having a reality check on jail and looking for the chance to have a 2 digit years sentence.... All thanks to his dad.

@MumwaW 3 ай бұрын

Bro made every wrong decision

@bakujin 2 ай бұрын

LOL too much, when R went to his Dad and he kicked him out too.

@DarkEinherjar 3 ай бұрын

Repeat story, but it's a good one, and the final update is new.

@sanddagger36 Ай бұрын

So I get that he was trying to make his father proud by being a misogynist like him, but how did that become, "let your sister go blind in a hospital"

@we11s99 2 ай бұрын

Idc if these are fake they are entertaining to watch like a mini soap opera I can watch on my phone😂

@NessieNice 2 ай бұрын

Even during peace and calm, calling your friend's wife a b*tch and order her to make you a sandwich and all in front of her husband (your own friend) isn't appropriate joke. Slash that. That isn't even a joke at all just plain insult not to be said even when drunk

@RisingMC 2 ай бұрын

Lost another dude to the manosphere😔

@edenfieldjason 3 ай бұрын

The entitlement is amazing

@NourAmsterdam 6 күн бұрын

Finally some in laws with a moral compass.

@I_Eat_Lemons 2 ай бұрын

Ah yes Zach, 29 meters.

@alieninvasion2950 2 ай бұрын

It meant m as in male not meters

@Heiura 2 ай бұрын

- Rob : '' you won't find another guy like me '' - OP : '' that's the point mf ''

@smokinggnu6584 3 ай бұрын

I know i'm just a few minutes into the vid, but i can't help think that i may be detecting that Rob maaaaayyyy have an issue with the fact that the sister has a wife. It hasn't been mentioned outright so far, but could that maybe be a bit of subtext here? All in all it's just really weird to react to this that a persons actual sibling is undergoing a medical emergncy, even if it isn't life threatening (but potentially life altering) and he's just so fucking weird about it? It can't be that he gets it from his family, because they seem cool with the whole idea and even asked how she was and for pictures of the stitches, but he acted as if she'd spewed medical waste all over everyone (figuratively speaking). I was half expecting him to demand she go no-contact with the sister at that point. Again, i might be jumping to confusions here, i will admit it, but it feels really off. Edit: Well after hearing the type of person the dad is and the kind of toxicity that was being fed to the man, i'm even more suspicious now.

@TemporalOnline 3 ай бұрын

So, Rob has 29 meters? I wonder what's her dad's size in order to make a 29 meters guy afraid 😂

@Elyoph 3 ай бұрын

i feel like that I heard the same story but with another drama involved, but the same detail of the family member who helps her, and the dad who has a bad influence

@legoninjagoinc9221 2 ай бұрын

Here’s the most recent update: Final update, hopefully Hi all, Sorry its been a while since my last update, but i wanted everything to be finished before I updated again. Rob spent Christmas on remand in prison. He didn't get out until the second week of January and that was only because his mum agreed to let him stay with her again. He had his plea hearing the first week of February, where he pleaded guilty to a section 20 assault. He then had to wait until last week to get his sentencing court date. I didn't know how much actually goes into sentencing. They had to get a victim impact statement, a pre sentencing report from probation, statements from his mum and brother. His barrister even reached out to me to give a statement saying that we had broken up and I'd asked him to leave the house. He used our break up as an extenuating circumstance, saying that because of the break up of our relationship and him losing his home, that had seriously impacted him mental health. The statements from his mum and brother also confirmed that he had lived in an abusive home when he was young, so he claimed he had ptsd because of that. These were all read out at his sentencing. He was going to get 3 years, but the judge knocked time off for pleading guilty and for mitigating circumstances. That left him with a 16 month sentence that was suspended for 18 months. As part of the conditions for his release, he isn't allowed anywhere near his dad, he has to go to counselling for his supposed ptsd and he isn't allowed to drink alcohol. He even has an ankle monitor on that tests his sweat every half an hour for alcohol and will alert probation if he gets a positive result. Luckily for him his boss has let him go and work at their main location in the city thats half an hour away from here and probation were happy for him to live there as well. He moved into a flat there this week, so I don't have to worry about running into him. I haven't spoken to him at all and I dont want too. He has tried reaching out through a coupke of friends, but they've respected my decision and told him to move on with his life. However, I did speak to his mum yesterday and she said that she thinks he's depressed, but so far he's doing OK. She's the one I got all of this information from. Its a strange mix of emotion for me towards him as I still care on some level, just not enough to keep him in my life. I know I need to keep him away from me as I can never see him like I did at this time last year. Its crazy to think that its only been a year since we got engaged. So much has happened. Other than thoes mixed emotions, I'm doing well. I've been hanging out with my sister and her wife alot more as well as catching up with friends. I'm still working at the same place and I don't see that changing anytime soon. For the people asking about my sister, she's doing good. She had a set back last month but she seems to be over that now and has just been approved to have some form of newish stem cell treatment at the UKs biggest eye hospital. Which is fab news. She tried to explain it to me but it involves them taking her blood and putting it into her eye which grossed me out so l told her to stop. However, because she's my sister she then sent me pictures of what they do and mum had to step in and tell her to stop. No matter how old we get, I dont think we will ever stop trying to annoy each other. So all in all, I think we're all moving on with life. Unless there's something big happen then this should be my last post. I really want to thank everyone for their kind words and support. This has restored my faith that there are still good people out there.

@SarimFahad-ze1hp Ай бұрын

UK prisons are full 💀 ☠

@saltwatertaffy7020 2 ай бұрын

Why didn't Rob seek out renting a room? Does he have a car? If he does, then he can watch YT videos on how to outfit it wgere he can sleep in it.

@RandomTrinidadian Ай бұрын

OP dodged a bullet

@RagnarokAvatar 3 ай бұрын

I guess it took him getting arrested for Rob to finally learn his lesson.

@ginganinja411 3 ай бұрын

The most offensive thing in this video is the fake parkour in the background gameplay

@slyph63 3 ай бұрын

Met this guys type on the gay scene many times.

@hellohowareyou4642 3 ай бұрын

i heard a similar story except that no one was assaulted

@shellecebusiness7244 3 ай бұрын

Think it's an update to that story

@user-hr5pc3rt2n 3 ай бұрын

Has he told you yet that you will be expected to move in with his family and be responsible for all the housework and cooking.

@lynngrant533 3 ай бұрын

I don’t know if anyone actually reads these or cares what they say, but when you read (26m), it means 26 MALE, not 26 metres.

@alieninvasion2950 2 ай бұрын

Finally someone knows that means male not meters

@boldnbrash7028 3 ай бұрын

This feels like a repost or at least a popular post

@angelique3907 3 ай бұрын

This man lowkey has some toxic traits in common with my ex

@AzraelSkinnerofficial 2 ай бұрын

The first post was posted on my 22nd birthday so wow

@spankosupreme2070 3 ай бұрын

Getting mad deja vu here, pretty sure this might be a repost

@fl-ri- 3 ай бұрын

It is, I think there is a new update though.

@irdonna 3 ай бұрын

Last few videos have been re-uploaded. Wonder if the old ones were forced to be taken down

@nida9999waqas 11 күн бұрын

Wait, the op posted on my birthday 🎂

@IAmTheSarcasmQueen Ай бұрын

yeesh i had to get stiches recently (7 on my eyebrow) & i got them out in like a week, didn't know stiches could be in that long

@andrewpeart4798 9 күн бұрын

It’s on a more fragile body part so that’s probably why

@endergamerz7977 3 ай бұрын

yes yes 29 meter very much

@Misty10120 3 ай бұрын

I liked my own comment

@RavenDarkHeart1 5 күн бұрын

I haven't but my late friend has with her ex-boyfriend

@bradg8055 3 ай бұрын

iam sorry but they surgeon was away for 4wks ................wtf wasnt there anyone else there to do it???

@joshuastewart2039 Ай бұрын

Iliketrains 😮

@samuelw4492 3 ай бұрын

This is a re upload

@The_Jaded_One 3 ай бұрын

Yea, why does he/she not just say it is so as not to waste some of us time....thumbs down for this one.

@canineatnight6026 3 ай бұрын

Is ok yo be tgere for both side of the family. But is also fucked up to ignore a more serious problem so your spuse dont look 'bad' and act like a king if tbe house

@jerryfongsrisin 3 ай бұрын

This story is re-upload, the old video is still in this channel with a different title. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bmnFp4yVd5yfbq8si=YRFq60FCTsL1uDIM

@Zeni_ye 3 ай бұрын

Coolioso

@TheDandyCarrot 3 ай бұрын

UK hospital and they didn't send her out in an ambulance to the other hospital before family got there? I'm calling American writing not knowing English hospital norms.

@christopherbull7856 3 ай бұрын

This is just a upload of a story u done. Find a new one or create a fake

@cloudydays6374 3 ай бұрын

Ugh. You’ve been doing so many reposts lately :/ you already posted this on your channel

@Mooffyono 3 ай бұрын

Repost

@gachacatproductions431 3 ай бұрын

reposted video rahhhh

@goodnightmyprince6734 3 ай бұрын

Plonka

@rootbeard2294 3 ай бұрын

is a christmas miracle!!!!!!!

@unleastzgaming9282 3 ай бұрын

Don't get me wrong but I am feeling bad for Bob I think he is suffering because of his father ( my opinion)

@Maria-wi1pj 3 ай бұрын

He definitely is. I also feel bad, but he's also an adult capable of using his judgment. If he didn't agree with his father's view even a little, he would've cut contact with him as soon as the father said something f#cked up

@dokuganryu1565 3 ай бұрын

1. Rob 2. It was his decision to stay in contact with someone he knew was toxic and he let him affect his mind. No need to feel bad for soneone like that.