Forced My Dad To Choose Between Me And His New Family And Also Face Eviction r/Relationships

[@CrystallynRose]

I wouldn't be surprised if OP's dad gets dumped by his wife. She clearly seemed like a gold digger and probably had a rude awakening once she realized that big house didn't belong to her husband.

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

the only reason daddy is doing this is he wants to get serviced, get laid. proven point: people lie through their teeth to get what they want sexually

[@fionaeckert4556]

Wait... the final update... Why did op put a down payment on a house for her father and his new family when HE MAKES SIX FIGURES??? I really hope he's going to pay her back.

[@SilentDecepticon]

I have to wonder how pissed the stepmother is that the father doesn't own that sweet house and isn't as rich as she had thought. Honestly, the father is not nearly as good as the OP wants to believe. He married this gold digger behind OP's back, let her and her spoiled brat daughters treat OP like garbage, told her that OP's house belonged to him, chose that pack of greedy shitheads over his own child etc. If I were OP, I wouldn't even bother having any contact with the father. Let him live with his decision. He'll probably try to come crawling back once they clean him out and discard him.

[@thedestroyasystem]

Not to mention a classist… bf isn’t good enough because he’s middle class? Says the man who lied about owning a house lmao. Trash taking itself out.

[@pippo17173]

@@thedestroyasystem this really opens up on the kind of dynamic the family is with op. Dad is basically an entitled rich kid and I guess op got lucky with a nice mom who doesn't follow that.

[@marshawargo7238]

@@thedestroyasystem It really doesn't depend on How he said it (she lives with me OR I live with her) more it depends on how she Heard it! It's possible she Just Assumed, I mean how many parents live with their child of That age? I think New Mommy thought "Cinderella Story" gets real. (First Part Anyways)

[@alyzu4755]

Seems like Evil Stepmother and Stepsisters assumed everything was in new Hubby's name, but learned otherwise. Hope they enjoy their new, hopefully tiny & crappy, apartment.

[@niyablake]

I believe Daddy told them that lie

[@lauralfreeberg2179]

He's an engineer and makes good money. I doubt they are living in a hovel, as much as we'd all like that

[@alyzu4755]

@@lauralfreeberg2179 Yeah, I heard that part after I posted. ☺️

[@neilyb4590]

Sounds like a modern panto

[@alyzu4755]

@@neilyb4590 ☺️

[@superkingoftacos2920]

Dad not approving of the "middle class" boyfriend speaks volumes about his personality. He sounds like the "image is everything" kind of guy. Makes perfect sense that he would choose his new family over his old one.

[@damien678]

I just gotta pause and say: GUCCI and HERMES as chihuahua names feel like they're on completely opposite sides of a theoretical dog name chart. and i completely adore both, omfg.

[@roowyrm9576]

Today I saw photos of 2 cats called Vera Wang, and Louis Vuitton!

[@agirlwithajournal]

I guess you Mena because he pronounced it like the Greek God not the Hermes luxury brand. That would make more sense combined with Gucci.😂

[@catandrobbyflores]

Well it fits considering those dogs will be carried in purses.

[@technicaldifficulties368]

Gotta baffle them. Name them Pasta and Beverly

[@Gay_Priest]

We used to have this adorable little mutt, what he lacked in brains he made up for with love. We named him Danger Dog

[@Mew_Mokuba_Akari]

Its good that OP shut daddys new wife down when she did. She was already miffed at not getting OP's room. If OP had not shut her down with this is MY house and you are a living here by my kindness. Then eventually she would have tried to kick OP out. Saying things like she needs to move out and get a place of her own. We need the room. All because dad wanted to impress his new love by lying and saying the place waa his.

[@lauralfreeberg2179]

It was more a lie of omission. He said op lived with him. If he'd been semi honest, he would have said I live with my daughter. Or even honest and said I live in my daughter's house

[@eliability]

Story 1: OP has every right to want to remove them from their house. The sheer entitlement of these people to be so horrible to her. It’s _not_ going to get better. They clearly aren’t going to compromise and this isn’t going to work. Constant disrespect and treating OP like dirt *_in their own home_* after how much OP put up with? Nah. Get rid of ‘em. First commenter who brought up not inviting OP: Yeah, the stepmom is 100% manipulating OP’s dad and is trying to take control over everything.

[@Rose_Bride]

I 💯 disagree with OP helping her dad's "new" family find another home and even making the down payment. That's CRAZY. Sounds like dad is unable to even support this "new family" on his own. Will OP be paying their monthly rent/lease/mortgage as well? It wouldn't surprise me. And WHY did dad CHANGE HIS WILL to include two girls he ONLY recently JUST met? He has BARELY known them and ALREADY REPEATEDLY put them ahead of his REAL daughter. He doesn't seem to care that his "new wife" doesn't feel the same about his own child. Does he think his "new" wife will be putting OP in HER will?? *NOPE.* Even more infuriating, most of that money dad is leaving to his "new" family sounds like it CAME from OP's mom, anyway. Dad can't even afford to house his new wife and has to depend on OP. So dad is perfectly fine with giving over money to his awful, spoiled, entitled "new" wife, even AFTER she insulted OP as well as OP's mom. Did dad EVER care about her mom? Or was he simply ALWAYS pining after his high school sweetheart throughout his marriage to OP's mom? Is he imagining her two daughters as HIS, had they gotten together after highschool? The fact that he would even suggest moving his new -golddigger- wife in his late wife's ANCESTRAL HOME is disgusting.

[@NovaGirl8]

the way I see it, at least he won't need to pay child support if they ever divorce. and if the new wife and daughters have a taste for expensive stuff, the money won't last long. maybe then he might see why he married his first wife in the first place and not this harpy.

[@alexshaw8167]

Maybe the daughters ARE his. Maybe they dated throughout the entire marriage.

[@draconicdreaming]

​​​@@alexshaw8167 im so glad i am not the only one who was thinking the exact same thing

[@nr7701]

Idk, moving his new family into his late wife's home is not so bad to me because he needs a place to stay after his wife's death and he was right that the house was big enough for all of them so if everyone could get along, then why not? The issue is that this new family wasn't respectful IN THE SLIGHTEST. I agree with the rest of what you said.

[@BaeBunni]

it's crazier because he doesn't like Op boyfriend for being middle class but needs his daughter to help pay for a move? Like guys is super pathetic.

[@Resilient_Sage88]

The dad is a snob for looking down his nose at the fiancé for "only being Middle Class" meanwhile my broke ass is like "Must be nice.."

[@karolinababusek516]

But he needed help from his daughter by buying his own house and not from his new wife. the Stepmom and the daughters invest all their money in luxury bags when the twins are too cheap to rent own apartment during the college.

[@pansprayers]

It's funny though, because the dad is essentially in the same boat as the fiance. He's a hypocrite.

[@NovaGirl8]

same

[@marthas.4456]

Also he lied about the ownership of the house. That's a very important detail, Steph and her daughters completely believed he owns the house, not OP.... that suggest he explicitly told them he is the owner.

[@LunaMane]

OP said that Steph and her daughters took her dad, but it honestly sounds like her dad left willingly. And he doesn't have the stones to admit it so he uses his new daughters and wife as a shield. OP is better off without the coward.

[@annhans3535]

Dad got new woman and is in the honeymoon stage with the new kittycat.

[@LunaMane]

@@annhans3535 You're right about that. The honeymoon stage I mean. I wonder how much of a happy family they'll stay after that. And if they don't remain that way - it sure as shit isn't OP's problem anymore.

[@gypsygem9395]

"8.5 baths the hell" - Mark you crack me up!! 😂. (Now finished watching, and you're STILL gobsmacked by 8.5 baths 🤣🤣🤣🤣)

[@carolroberts4614]

What is half a bath?

[@gypsygem9395]

@@carolroberts4614 apparently it's a toilet and basin

[@shteve119]

@@carolroberts4614 A half bathroom is just a bathroom without a bath/shower, it only has a toilet and sink.

[@smilingbandit6900]

at the mention of the pool its clear there is a full bath there of course. And 7 bedrooms with en suit bathroom. Alternative old money old house 1 bathroom for the serving staff ;)

[@lina9535]

Then I have to ask. Is half a bath like just a toilet sink/basin or can it also be just a shower? Trying to figure out what gramps old house was. The mainfloor bathroom had all three, but the basement bathroom was a half, then further in we had a shower right next to the sauna (don't at me, he built that house together with his dad in like the 1940-1950s)

[@ArcticWolfGod]

"My dad's a good man" Was. He was a good man. Well I'm only halfway in the video so we'll see how this goes. Edit: Well I guess he wasn't THAT bad considering he didn't put up too much fuss about moving out and still keeps in contact with OP.

[@annhans3535]

My father was the best of men, until he started having an affair with his now wife. He has become entitled, a thief and dishonest. It's crazy how a new pussy can change a man.

[@pippo17173]

@@annhans3535 to be honest, people who change like that for the worst, were not really good people to begin with.

[@britvica]

@@annhans3535 yeah, most men are like that and I find it so hard to respect them. Being a woman, having heard all stories about how disloyal the women are....I have to say, in this world I live in, it was always men who get some new pussy and forget the wife, oh but not just the wife...they forget they have children. Like somebody erased their memory.

[@sandramurphy4681]

If dad makes 6figures with his job and paid no rent why is she helping him with a down payment?

[@lauralfreeberg2179]

Probably to avoid the long costly eviction process

[@nr7701]

As a good will gesture towards them so they can't complain.

[@drewthistlethwaite8909]

They legit can’t say she left them homeless with 0 options. A lotta rich folks would rather pay a medium cost now to never deal with mooches again vs play the long game if they can afford it

[@foureyedelf6151]

I'm a little disappointed in OP for staying in contact with her dad. What's he going to do, walk her down the aisle? She can't expect him to be a dad anymore. That ship has sailed. Friends? Definitely not after he tried to ruin her life by bringing strangers into it to wreck her house and treat her like crap. But now he's "proud" of her? He's seen the writing on the wall with the new wife and step brats and is just trying to stay in touch so that once he gets rid of them - or vice versa - maybe OP forgives him and maybe he can be in future grandkids lives. I get that she still loves her dad but he essentially "cheated" on her trying to create a new family in secret then just springing them on her. He clearly wasn't anything close to a dad to those girls either.

[@eriibooo]

I almost wonder if it's possible that the dad had an affair and those twins are his bio-kids as well. It could explain why new wife hates the mom so much, why he's taking their side, and also why he's added them to the will.

[@karolinababusek516]

Wow, this was my thought too.

[@adelia988]

Yes that was my first thought too

[@pansprayers]

Or he just has the interpersonal emotional IQ of a butter knife, and the intrapersonal courage of a fainting goat. Both of my biological parents are like the dad - the serial cheater didn't marry her affair partner after any of her divorces she just put her relationships and their baggage over the needs of her existing biological children. My biological father married his high school crush, and I know he didn't cheat with her (there's no way the timelines would ever intersect), he just is entrenched in the past (he STILL whinged about the woman he divorced 38 years later, and speaks about what is for all intents and purposes a stranger) and refuses to acknowledge his part in the marital break down (the whole thing was a dumpster fire, and they never, ever should have married, much less reproduced). Some people just suck. I try really hard not to go towards entertaining the thought of cheating in these situations though, without hard evidence; some states allow you to sue the affair partner for renumeration (as a surviving child in this case) on simple suspicion, years after certain conditions are met, and a wrongfully accused defendant then has the near impossible and expensive task of collecting non-exisitant evidence to prevent financial ruin.

[@pippo17173]

That.....is a high possible chance of what is happening. I wouldn't be surprised because even OP is shock hearing that.

[@Grace_x68]

Oh my word.... Had the same thought. Does your family also call you a conspiracy theorist 😂 What makes me mad is that the spineless dad inherriret from OP's wife. So in an indirect manner his step " children is going to inherit from OP's mom's money 😡

[@valeriejames4675]

When you're in the position that the step mother and twins were in. Someone like OP opens their house to you, you're not paying rent, etc. The correct thing to do is bring OP breakfast in bed! Walk the dog for her, remember your please and thank yous. Don't be a doormat or become a servant, but be sure to show your gratitude for the kindness of others and always return that kindness with interest.

[@britvica]

Well that would be too much thank yous for me. I'd rather have my own breakfast in bed in my studio apartment in that case.

[@diamonddiva3204]

OP says that her mom will be disappointed in her kicking out that family I think after the way they treated OP and the home the mom would be proud of OP for standing up for herself and getting rid of the entitled idiots

[@kratkartan1486]

Good that OP is keeping her father at arms length. What he did was so disrespectful to his daughter and the fact he lied to his gold digger wife about who owned the house tells me that he was trying to force OP out. If I was OP, I'd probably not trust him for years if at all ever again.

[@sweetielee9193]

I would have NEVER gave them a down payment. The father is so weak. Smh

[@AnonyMous-lh3cm]

The way her father is acting……I can’t help but think that those twins are her fathers kids and he had an affair with that “love of his life” when he was still married to OP’s mother prior to her passing.

[@frankhooper7871]

OP was lucky to get them out without having to resort to a long and costly eviction process. It was nice of her to allow her new step-mother to move in...it was mad to allow her _adult_ step-sisters the same courtesy.

[@MorganVsTheInternet]

1- The f-ck. First he blind sided op with the marriage then moved his new wife and her adult daughters into op’s home and just let her disrespect his late wife and the owner of the home.

[@mariem8705]

I feel like op is laying to much blame, bitterness and resentment at her step family for taking her dad away. When Dad clearly made his choice and was thinking with another member of his body.

[@immortalsofar5314]

Dad sounds like someone who just goes with the flow and is easily manipulated. Not telling her about the wedding was the easiest thing to do _at that particular moment in time_ so he went with it. Asking to move in and letting wife think the house was his, ditto. Benefits happen now and consequences happen not-now.

[@SilentDecepticon]

Absolutely. OP is acting like her father is a helpless bystander in all this when he isn't.

[@bunnyslippers191]

OP's mother died when OP was 16 and she's now 25. Her father started dating the stepmother about two years ago, so OP's mother died 9 years ago and her father started dating the stepmother 7 years after his first wife died and married again 9 years after she died. That's not exactly marrying again "so quickly."

[@kemonono]

I guess, but with how they've treated her...I think that's not much of an issue IMO.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

The dad and the other family are crap.

[@Tammohawk1]

You don't move into another woman's home and think you can just take over and then insult that woman's family! I don't care if OP's dad told her that it was his home, his adult daughter lived there w/him and she really should have thought twice. She messed around and found out didn't she? They won't be happy for long I bet. OP's dad is going to realize what is up before too much longer I feel.

[@DrawciaGleam02]

I'd say a MAJOR EXCEPTION could be if the mom or mom's family member(s) has done something very reprehensible. Then it would be okay to call out the behavior, though it would have to be done with some tact.

[@Margatatials]

Interesting how Dad wasn't interested in resolving the conflict and getting Step Mum to be civil until he had already threatened to be kicked out.

[@PhoenixDragon86]

Talk about a Cinderella story where Cinderella wins very early in the story like the evil stepmother tried to take over but op kicks her out before stepmother could

[@Ospyro3em]

I just had this inkling that they were under the impression it was OP's father's house- nice little wake up call for them! 🤣 what a spoilt, entitled family- sounds like they've never been told "no" in their whole life!

[@porter0311]

The father makes 6 FIGURES and daugter still STILL did his down payment? And then he CUT her from his will? WTF? I understand she doesnt need his money. But cutting her out is yet another stab in her back. Especially after securing him and his POS new family new housing. WTFx10

[@lindah3803]

Total BS for OP to help with the down payment. Hell she even had a friend of hers help find a place for them. I wouldn't have done a damn thing for them. Also dads new wifee would have gotten literally fiscally kicked out the door after her comment about my dead mom. Those 3 would be heading for the hills. OP is definitely kinder and more patient than myself.

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

The twins are majorly overstepping their boundaries. Like taking down all of OP’s family pictures and having the audacity to put up their own?! That is not their house. Steph can get run over by a lawnmower. The way she kept saying it was “her house“ she’s literally the evil entitled stepmother. If OP gave into her dad and let them stay longer she will probably try to worm her way into Op’s inheritance.

[@fionaeckert4556]

I would have taken down their pictures, put mine back up and then celebrated with a little bonfire...

[@nr7701]

Doing this risks a bonfire with your own photos. I'm a little surprised they never did set fire to her family's photos, especially with this happening more than once. I guess it's one small good thing out of the situation. @@fionaeckert4556

[@theprodigaltrue]

She kept telling stepmom it was her house, stepmoms fault for not listening

[@damien678]

8.5 baths sounds like the OG home owners either 1. had a lot of parties or 2. just had a family full of IBS

[@pansprayers]

Bathrooms, weirdly, add more equity per square foot than other living spaces in the US. I lived in a neighborhood that unless you had 33% more bathrooms than bedrooms, your house would easily be worth 50% less than the lowest evaluated property in the zip code. The craziest I've ever seen is a 5 bed/11.5 bath.

[@greenbeacon394]

My FIL remarried after my MIL passed, he favored her grandchildren over his own, she passed also, we told her family where to go. I still haven’t forgotten this! She probably left the father after learning the house wasn’t his

[@scousemouse9566]

OP did more for them than they would ever do for her. She is a good person with a good soul 🧇🧇🧇

[@BersealiaDreamheart]

Yeah, even after they treated her badly, she didn’t double down, try to get revenge, or leave them in the dust. She remained civil and professional, and even helped them find a new place to live. That’s more than I can say for most people with toxic stepfamilies.

[@Hanzo1]

theres a difference between being a good person and a doormat

[@rustym40]

I would have done the same thing. They needed to go after disrespecting OP & her mother in OP's Mother's Ancestral home. Her father had no claim to the home at all. The Step-mother is definitely a gold digger with a set of gold digger twins who wanted the big house (Mansion) for herself.

[@NCAnon]

The minute stepmother said it was her house, I would have told her to prove it. Show proof that she is the rightful owner of the house she claims is hers.

[@Furzkampfbomber]

I've never heard of a relocation so stressful that it shatters your fragile soul and forces you to act like a damn invader to the person who is so kind and let you live unter their roof _for free._

[@SkyEcho751]

Wrong sub-reddit but for the Initial Story: NTA, the father is doing some very stupid things for "Love". He deserves to get kicked out for all this. Quick Update: Good on OP getting the Lawyer involved, and yes OP appears to be, to some degree, conflict avoidant, she dislikes arguments or causing them and actively chooses not to. You don't have to like causing arguments, but actively avoiding them can be just as harmful. Update 1: OP is doing all the right decisions regarding this situation, dad is not, I mean he didn't even correct his wife that "No it is my daughter's house and you must be respectful". The Dad is blinded by love and doesn't get his new family is like oil and his daughter is like water. Update 2: I feel sorry that OP thinks being kind to people means being a doormat, OP was kind to them, but once those people crossed a line she had to shut them out. And now I know that the dad will be regretting it in a few years, once this step-family drains him dry, physically, mentally, and emotionally. And it will rest on his shoulders for choosing a gold digger over his own child.

[@Margatatials]

Sounds like Dad thinks keeping the peace is being a doormat too, that would explain why his first reaction to his new family crossing his daughters boundaries was to try and convince the daughter to remove her boundaries, right up until it became clear she wouldn't and he might have conflict regardless.

[@FredRated1967]

Oh, were I OP, soon as Steph said that about my mom, she would've lost several teeth.

[@Margatatials]

I bet Steph never would have behaved that way if the Dad had told the truth.

[@Malia504]

Sooo is anyone else waiting for another story from OP titled something like “AITA for not inviting my dad’s wife and stepdaughters to my wedding after they disrespected my mom even though he won’t come if I don’t?”

[@chelseapthib36]

Oh HELL NO! REMOVING my family's pictures, disrespecting my mother, the dogs using the entjre house as a toilet, the twins having no respect for privacy, Steph saying that its HER house?? 😂😂😂 They would get the hell out the easy way or the hard way, and trust me, the hard way would have been NUCLEAR! She'd have caught these hands for saying what she said about my mom. Yall are better people than me.

[@Andrea.S.Alvey12]

Wicked step monster had to hear from Op that Op inherited the house from her mother at least TWICE before it sunk in that thick skull . . .

[@sukichann776]

Poor moxie being bullied ,glad she git her house back 🐕

[@raianaladeira5241]

I was waiting for when the shoe would drop that the father and Steph had always been together and step-sisters are actually half-sisters. Wouldn't be surprised at all by the way that history was going

[@floraposteschild4184]

My mind reels at a big house like this with doors without locks, let alone all the other shenanigans. Kick them all out. Dad can do what he likes, which seems to be choosing the place where he keeps it warm over his daughter.

[@AndyyWithAY]

OP is wring to place so much blame on Steph. That's a near stranger who owes her nothing. Her father is at fault. He lied about the house, what else has he lied about? He's more concerned with being desirable at 50 plus than the well being of his flesh and blood

[@janedoll3237]

Yeah, but you can blame strangers for some things. Who lets dogs urinate and defecate in the house? Beyond vile.

[@kelleygreengrass]

Nah took down the pictures eff her

[@philippamarsh8185]

Nope. They’re staying in her home, entering her world & her family through the father. Steph & her kids sound like absolute peasants. Yuck. 🤢

[@lina9535]

Steph is equally to blame. Who comes into someone elses home, regardless of who owns it, and just acts like that? It's abhorrent.

[@Lady_Blade_WarAngel]

I wager that the reason OP’s Father didn’t tell her about the new Girlfriend/Wife, because he made out he had a lot more money then he did. The wife probably thought the house belonged to her new hubby. He didn’t want OP to burst that bubble.

[@barbwong]

I love the stories where the entitled whoever gets a shocker when the house/money/etc doesn’t actually belong to the person they thought it did 😂

[@dianasmith8248]

Yep. I can guarantee that her dad did not tell her that it wasn’t her property.

[@britvica]

@@dianasmith8248 his property. You mean that it isn't his property???

[@dianasmith8248]

@@britvica nope. The house belongs to the daughter only. She was just letting her dad, stepmom and stepsister’s live there.

[@britvica]

@@dianasmith8248 ? I KNOW THAT? Can you read your own sentence before replying? You wrot:" her dad did not tel her (stephanie) that it WASN'T her property! If by second her you mean Stephany-of course it's not, she just moved in. If you mean the daughter: IT IS HER property. So what the f... did you mean to say unless it he didn't tell her WASN'T HIS property?! Are you on drugs when you write?

[@meiamymei]

@@britvica if you're going to write multiple comments berating someone for a simple typo, shouldn't you check them for typos before posting? It'd save you some embarrassment, js

[@LoveableNiki]

So before any updates...did father not tell wife that this is OP's house or does wife just have the AUDACITY to think she can take over OP's house?

[@NovaGirl8]

dad told wife daughter lives with him. wife assumed dad owned house and he never corrected it until it came up I guess?

[@donniejefferson9554]

The dad is worse than his wife or step kids in story 1. Couldn't be bothered to tell his kid about his wedding before moving his new family into ops house. Then after all the horrible things they did he defends them. The family was awful but it's not like they had any connection to op. Dad doesn't have that excuse

[@lina9535]

The first red flag to me is that the dad didn't even seem to have asked OP if his new wife and kids could move in with them. Since it's OP's house and not his.

[@Lillypop93]

Dog pee and poo being in the house all the time is a huge health risk Thats reason enough to evict them I'd not deal with that

[@1tiptip187]

I remember a story where a woman was very reluctantly letting her mom live in a nice three bedroom trailer on her property where she had a huge house, barn, three trailers. constantly having her guest booted out due to many having been her dealers and fellow other illicit crime pals mom kept insisting were "clean" and just needed a chance like her. Mom was a ex convict with drugs, con work, and basic social scammings. She was spending more and more time away for months. Claiming she had work. Turns out she hooked up with a widower with an adult kid and two youngers who she would sneak over. Daughter warned him but apparently mom claimed she was the ex con. One day the guy came to demand the daughter get her friends out of the house and let her mom have he house back. They were married now and him and his son would actually be helping mom run the photo/ranch business. He was done watching her force her mom to live in the smaller house while she mooched off her business. Man had the contract that was drawn up before the mom was allowed to use the trailer slapped in his face. Mom was evicted same day. Parole officer contacted. Guy was arrested for trespassing and harassment and in court before he realized he was the conned one. He had sold his own home and quit his job thinking he was moving into the ranch and taking over a partnership business.

[@melosidhe779]

OP is looking at this all wrong. They didn't take the dad away. HE LEFT. This was HIS choice. From keeping everything from dating to GETTING MARRIED a secret, to moving then all into OP'S house, to letting them disrespect OP and his late wife, to adding them to his will. All HIS choice. Dad ISN'T a good guy. He's just happy to be getting laid

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

It’s interesting how she thinks that a person who isn’t a doormat isn’t a good “kind of person”.

[@Bleg94]

Cinderella situation within a few more months? no no no the Cinderella situation would've been the instant they moved in, remember evil stepmother wanted OPs room, she probably wanted to throw OP out at the same time

[@karlab95]

The second anyone moved any decorations off my living room, I would've sent them packing. They overstepped massively. Glad OP got rid of them.

[@ravencroftgraphics3d]

holy freaking 'cinderella' IRL!!!! get them out and then have them banned via restraining order and have the locks changed so even 'daddy dear' can't get back in. but... WTF did she help with a down payment when both dad and apparently stepmonster HAD THEIR OWN MONEY!?

[@msredux]

Op's father has makes really good money, op shouldn't have paid for the down payment, but it is what it is, he will come crawlinf back when the gold digger leave him

[@drkatbun8566]

Honestly op shouldn’t have helped her dad out with the house, that’s a whole can of worms, and when he no longer can provide money or gets into debt because of them, he’s gonna ask op for money and all that because “you already helped in the past”, I wouldn’t be surprised if the dinners are mostly for him to keep up appearances and access to ops sympathy. Op has rose colored glasses with her dad, and still sees the new family as the “you took him away” when the dad left op to be mistreated by them and left op just because hes fucking Steph.

[@PiscesMoon2You]

OP's home, Yes kick them all out. Honestly you don't need your Dad and his scraps for you. Grieve the Dad you love and have lost. Really grieve that loss as if he died. Then move on with your life. Daddy won't change.

[@threeducks157]

Ugh that woman sounds like the woman my dad married (she and her kids are bot anything to me) she was under the assumption that my dad had money, he doesnt, and that my wealth was somehow connected to him, again dead wrong lol. Also i got 10 1/2 bathrooms lol 1 per bedroom (8) 1 guest, half by the kitchen and then "my throne room"

[@awkwardswan2463]

Why is no one talking about Mark's confusion about the 8.5 baths. It's hilarious!

[@Nevermore-Nevermore]

I literally started chanting “kick them out”.

[@fcold9402]

1. NTA. It is your house, they are not respecting your space, they have to go.

[@heymikey4025]

Anybody wondering if the step sisters are actually the dad’s kids and OP’s half siblings? I mean maybe the stepmom only recently became single enough to try to legally get her hooks into the dad (maybe she had a rich ex that she didn’t want knowing that the kids weren’t his)…but it might be another reason why the OP’s dad chose the gold diggers over his (basically orphaned) child… I wonder if the dad was smart enough to get the stepmother to sign a prenup…I mean if she didn’t she definitely should be looked down upon more than OP’s “middle class” boyfriend who easily signed a prenup…

[@shirleyanneyoung955]

Op helps with the cost of a new home for her father, who chose his new family over her, and his wife and stepkids who did nothing but disrespect her and who now ignore her. Jeez, she obviously has more money than sense. “Dad, I know I’m bottom of your list of priorities but here’s some money and can you please make some time to see me, if you can squeeze me in of course. It’s wonderful that you’ve changed your will to include your stepdaughters who you’ve known for a couple of years and who don’t even care about you. I’ll be hanging around to take any scraps of affection you can spare for me.”

[@phoenixsky6124]

NTA but….. when you get married you move out of another’s house (generally your parents and not vice versa) don’t take it personally that your dad chooses to live with his wife.

[@toothless3835]

What I can't figureo ut his how the new wife didn't understand it was the kid's house after she told her multiple times its "MY house" not "My dad's house" >.> That would rise questions.

[@manunuod_ako1766]

Dad spring a this relationship on OP and expects her to adjust to make him happy with out regard to long term. Wrong move dad, wrong move.

[@lharchmage6908]

The stepsisters are full sisters. Story 1. Tell dad you wont pay shit for the new house. Just disown dad

[@snowflake-lord8872]

I love listening to your videos while I draw. I'm currently drawing a Christmas present for my bf and his family, and I'm making them look like different marvel characters

[@bloonh8tr619]

Ah just in time Mark! Currently studying for my Business Organization final and I'm kinda stressed. Thanks for the afternoon waffle my friend!

[@MarkNarrations]

Oh my word Bloon, wishing you all my luck my friend. I'm sure you're prepared as you can possibly be, just do what you can

[@sammieg8641]

Why the heck did she help with the down payment?! That was ridiculous… that woman is going to find a richer man as soon as her kids are out of college and she will be gone

[@Grace_x68]

Uhm I think dad had contact with Steph while mom was still alive. Maybe that's why the secret surrounding the wedding. Also - maybe the stepsisters is half sisters

[@Tammohawk1]

Oh yeah, love the long story!! That is a mansion that OP lives in w/that many bathrooms!

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

Cinderella kicks the evil stepmother and sisters out of the house... ...would make a good Disney movie.

[@SakdineeRattana]

I guess the issue is with the dad. He might want to look good in front of everybody, considering him keep saying everything's gonna settle just give time, plus how the stepmom took the house as his. Stepmom and her two daughters give doubtful vibe about their finance. The bags, the dogs named Gucci and Hermes. One thing that OP has got it on point - the dad is a f***king grown man.

[@Iflie]

That father is going to be all pickachoo face when those selfish women take him for everything he's got as he gets older. Especially if his health will fail, they will just stick him in a cheap home.

[@sparkerparker70]

I'd use a different bathroom each time I had to go 😬😂

[@eliability]

Right on time! Just woke up from a nap, the timing was perfect, good evening everyone 🥰

[@MarkNarrations]

Ooooo lovely, nothing like a cheeky nap right?

[@damien678]

hope it was a good nap ✨

[@Pika_nyachu]

okay but like, what does 8.5 bathrooms mean?! do they have 8 bathrooms and half of one??? who needs that many bathrooms my goodness.

[@joshuaadkins9820]

im going to assume the house in the first story has a bathroom in every bedroom, and a washroom downstairs.

[@MasochistMouse]

Dad probably had an affair before OP's mom died, and was embarrassed...Or is definitely being manipulated by his new wife. Also I've never been married, but how did they get married without her finding out he didn't own the house??? Another thing why did she think she would have the right to remove all of OP's pictures from the wall- not just the families, but actual pictures of OP even if it was the Dad's house why would she want to erase OP if she's not a bad person?? What kind of an idiot wants grown adult children that are too lazy to take care of their dogs living in the same house-- pet feces inside is a health hazard.

[@dorriegibson8074]

Story 1: Dad is worried about losing his sausage wallet. He doesn't care about the treatment of his daughter.

[@debdoug4136]

Ok. Story 1 I've already lost my mind at its OPs house but they want op to move to a smaller room. Wtf? Emancipation and eviction. Nta. I dont need to hear anymore.

[@anonymousbrooks8194]

Story 1. Miss thing, two demons, and those rats she called chihuahuas can find a new place to stay for all I care. Op is a saint putting up with all that crap cuz if it was me I would have kicked them out in the span of 3 days. I refuse to put up with the tomfuckery.

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

8.5 baths is 8 1/2 baths. Basically the half bathroom just has a toilet and a sink.

[@patrickkirby9265]

I’m very certain that your father never told them it is your house. Not his. He is the AH as are they.

[@singer2be256]

Crack Theory: Charles Perrault time travelled, read all the subreddits on step families, went home and wrote Cinderella

[@gypsygem9395]

🤣🤣🤣

[@neil999ish]

Yep, he hitched a lift with H.G. Wells on the time machine. 👈

[@TheComedyGeek]

Story 1 : If she'd said that about my mother I'd have smacked her so hard she would have been laughing out of the the other side of her face.

[@minisnakali]

I have two Chihuahua's, the peeing and pooping inside is disgusting. There are even peepads you can get if you're too fucking lazy to take your poor dogs outside. They don't deserve those dogs.

[@7thjester16]

I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see 8.5 baths and think WTF

[@ririns]

IOP said they prefer to be non-confrontational, but, personally, the first time any family pictures were moved I would have snapped. I try avoid conflict whenever possible, but my petty ass isn’t letting someone disrespect my family’s sentimental items in my own home even once. OP is a patient and kind person to put up with that much nonsense for that amount of time, all for their dad’s sake. Seems like it kind of bit them in the butt for a while but at least things worked out in the end. Btw, nothing exciting but I like to listen to listen to your videos particularly while doing my nightly skin care. It makes the tedious nature of the routine feel less annoying. Thanks and hope you’re having a great day :)

[@dagnytheartist]

1:51 I'm going to assume "8.5 baths" means bathrooms, and that one of them is a half-bathroom with just a toilet and sink. Wait a minute, why and HOW does a house have more than 3 bathrooms?! OP lives in a McMansion! 7 bedrooms?! I've been in rich houses before (not 1% rich more like middle class rich), but they had like 5 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms at most!

[@marshawargo7238]

I Highly Doubt dad "Just out of the blue" changed his will...🐒

[@noydb-1]

Sounds like daddy went back to the hometown bragging about how he got over and is now living large in HIS big mansion. Of course the queen of the gold digger tribe instantly fell in love with his house, and daddy dearest thinking with the wrong head, actually believed that she loves him. Well played OP. You may have even saved your dad's life, since I'm sure a large part of her plan was to get his will changed to give her everything, then arrange an accident for your dad and kick you out of the house. You just have to understand that daddy really thinks the witch likes him and isn't just out to drain his bank accounts and leave him. I'm sure he will be crawling back, broke and alone in a couple of years.

[@muppetsrule1143]

8.5 baths. My guess is that each bedroom has an attached bathroom. An additional full bathroom upstairs and a half bath (toilet and sink) for guess.

[@madisonl3401]

Omg yay! Relationship stories! Thank you for covering this sub again! ☺️

[@MarkNarrations]

A pleasure, a few people been calling for more relationships and I enjoy it so it's a win win all around my chucky chuck!

[@madisonl3401]

@@MarkNarrations thank you! Hope you give Poppy a boop and tell her she is a good girl for us!

[@suem8591]

I wonder how mature and intelligent adults marry toxic and entitled people and then loose contact with their own children Boggles my mind .. I don't know if I were her would continue in a relationship with father.

[@markiusgalfordii9248]

Wow this chick is awesome seriously what a smart person you cut that snake's head off real quick and smart of you not touching your family's money until you actually need it too many people would blow it and buy stuff they do not need