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45:41 The Black Manoshpere
1:02:00 The Derision of Black Women’s Student Debt Load
1:07:04 Rejection, Mental Health, and Neurodiversity in the Black Manosphere

[@ForHarriet619]

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[@karlwilliams8625]

Do you believe the Justin's should find women in America or join the passport bros?

[@xenophilia.lovegood]

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[@internettuffguy1197]

Truth is, this Harriet girl wouldn't be making a video about this Topic unless it got under her skin. She's probably going to figure out the hard way that she's the least desirable type of Woman How do I know this? Your own Black Men are fleeing overseas to get *away* from Women like you lol 😆

[@ForHarriet619]

@@internettuffguy1197 I have the man I want so, y'all do whatever makes you happy.

[@alwaysreliable3]

@@ForHarriet619 I thought you were happily single. I am glad you found a man that makes you happy, and hopefully you make him happy as well. This should shut down all of the "she hates Black men talk (I am a BM)." Congratulations

[@MariaAcosta-ms2hr]

Speaking as a Puerto Rican woman this "snaggging an American Man" is an old game. Be sure to check in after the 5 year mark when immigration stops doing check-ins, that full citizenship kicks in, and marriage tourist man forgot about the prenup. Some men don't realize women have starter marriages too.

[@Mumandmarketing]

I was thinking this too. Sounds like a marketing tagline. These women hopefully have the ability to leave this explorative situations

[@elray9553]

Congratulations adios

[@Nihilist_Porcupine]

Lol oh yeah. It's funny I've watched distant relatives of mine be so thrilled to bag a white American man... Then be shocked to find that they're not all rich and classy. You married a redneck who barely works, hun, and his parents call your kids slurs. Barely worth the paper his passport is printed on. But if you want that piece of paper, it's worth it to suffer for a few years to these people. You'll be bombarded with threats of deportation from your own husband and walk on eggshells the entire time. But when they get that citizenship... Poof, they're gone. And the moron never understands why because 'everything was going so well'.

[@laughingshaman1]

I don’t know where you’re actually from, but if you were Puerto Rican, you would know that Puerto Ricans are 100% American citizens. There is no “full citizenship” needed.

[@CyberMachine]

@@laughingshaman1 You do know that Dominicans do this with Puerto Ricans right?

[@longlivebeans]

My neighbor is a passport bro & his Filipina wife hates him lmao. He’ll be trying to have a conversation with her & she just walks away mid sentence like he doesn’t exist & it’s the funniest shit I’ve ever seen.

[@aesanonymous8936]

I can't trust anybody with a mail order wife so much so that it's hard to even trust people who married somebody from another country. Obviously not all International relationships are like that, but it's hard not to side until the coast is clear. I literally helped end the marriage of a woman who was married to another woman because she was being abused and having her immigrant status threatened and used against her to stay in the marriage.

[@ms.x1669]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LifeAfter50withTerree]

I too have seen this in person!😆😆😆

[@YashChoudhary-sz7mn]

It's how it is, a normal relationship 😁

[@promiseland772]

My father is also married to a Filipina. He’s a deadbeat father and grandfather and a sexual predator. She’s able see past that and certainly doesn’t care.

[@KeepItInLaLaLand]

Marriages are declining globally Putting this on BW is similar to what has been happening in China over the last decade or 2 with the concept of "leftover women". B/c of the 1 child policy, boys were preferred over girls. Now there's so many more men of marriageable age (and old age, Lol) than women. But a lot of women are either focusing on career, or not wanting the hassle in general. So the campaign with the term "leftover women" was started to shame the women into hurriedly marrying men, when in fact it's the men that are the left overs and "in need" of women

[@rosepink9961]

Things are so bad, poor chinese women and from neighbor countries are being human traficked to be wives

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

That's such a cognitive dissonance : complaining about being single while shaming single women.

[@anikasmith8361]

YUP, I saw that in a docu and was confused about the "leftover women" title. There are WHOLE VILLAGES of single men with no chance of getting a woman to marry and have kids for them.

[@CyberMachine]

@@rosepink9961 They could easily solve this with immigration but they want to keep China pure.

[@iamlaurengill]

And I heard the men were miserable and tired because they can’t find wives

[@KeepItInLaLaLand]

Any BM not selling drugs on the corner or not trying to start a rap career considers himself NOT a "Pookie or Ray Ray" when attempting to disparage BW

[@submissiveproviderstboth9485]

They ALL pookies and Ray rays to me 😂

[@angechrisman1694]

@@submissiveproviderstboth9485 This is not a divestment channel

[@kaylove4507]

Listen some of them don't sell drugs because first of all they're not smart enough to and not to say all drug dealers are smart but they don't even have the business acumen to get started with selling drugs because it does take a little bit of business one-on-one to even consider the thought of selling drugs which a lot of them don't want to be independent That's why they don't do it it's not because there's such great men or because they have high integrity now is because they know that they would fail at it because none of them are builders. In the saddest part is that most of the action that was taken to build the black community back in the day had to do with the drug dealers. It was them who looked out for the community back in the day at least It was drug dealers who made sure turkeys and Christmas gifts got to kids This was back in the day though not these new drug dealers

[@aswrittenbyash]

I know. The bar is so low for black men in America. They think just because they are not found work in some warehouse or in construction, are not unemployed, or did not end up in jail they are "high value men". Then the few black men that somehow manage to obtain a college degree and get an office job believe they are God's gift to women because they've managed to do the educational bare minimum that other races of men have been doing since forever.

[@Karina_Borz]

Yet y’all procreate with those ones and become single mothers 😂😂😂

[@SCFLEUR]

All I have to say to these pASSport Bros is “so long, farewell, auf weidersehen, goodbye. Adieu, adieu to you and you and you 😆 👋🏾✌🏾

[@vsperatos]

Lmfaoooooo

[@jensendsflowers]

LOL

[@rafiqah4106]

Precisely.

[@candycoatedreams]

😂😂😂

[@RayRay-yt1ly]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bonniem5963]

I've heard stories of women in mostly west Africa thinking they have fallen in love with a white man from Europe and following him there. When they get there they are abused and basically not allowed to live or leave. This one lady told a story of how this man would lock her in the house when he went to work and took away her phone. This passport bros thing feels very predatory to me

[@moustik31]

I saw one bragging about r@ping Asian women in the Global South, so I think you are right: passport bros are very f*cked up.

[@davichigbue1835]

It is, it's just repackaged séx tourism. Word for word bar for bar

[@korionterivers9995]

It’s very predatory. They are using there privilege of being from a better country as there Xfactor in poorer countries

[@Bree5three]

@@korionterivers9995 That part! And it also shows what sort of narcissist you are, or level of narcissism you must possess to think an entire country's worth of women is undeserving of you or "not good enough" to wife. Like who tf do you think you are? If you're getting that many undesirable partners either you need to pick better (like they love to tell us to do) or reevaluate what you actually lack and don't bring to the table that the woman you desire, requires (also like they love to tell us to do).

[@sorel7342]

It also reminds me a bit of the "Thai brides" thing. Do you have that in America? In the UK some men who struggle in the UK dating scene would somehow get brides from countries like Thailand (I'm sure Thailand isn't the only one) and the idea is that they are submissive or whatever. I think it's something done through the internet but I think it's been a thing since like the 90s and before the internet was widespread. There was this idea of "mail order brides". Again it's like generally kind of weird guys who are struggling to hold down relationships because of something they might need to work on or understand about themselves, rather than finding a woman who they can get away with treating worse because she's in a strange country and wouldn't find it easy to get away. I don't know my memory on this phenomenon is kind of sketchy though

[@rosepink9961]

I just want to add that this is nothing new. In the African community, getting a wife from « the village » is common too. It’s weird cause sometimes, parents will encourage their son to do that while encouraging their daughter to be independent and not settle.

[@fa_abdi3001]

Yes, because they know they did a poor job with the men. We have the same in the Muslim community. Men are vicious, education was left in the toilet and doing random job to get by while their own sisters are getting PhD in masse. So mum and dad know that the daughter deserves better. The guy has to find some desperate girl from the village that usually after 5 years she is leaving.

[@YashChoudhary-sz7mn]

Life is predatory and unfair

[@sallyhemings2295]

Complete LUNACY 😂

[@breannajoseph2018]

that is a madness

[@hazelbasil6451]

But why? That makes no sense?

[@asmrcity3147]

It’s is increasingly embarrassing and scary every time I hear some new dumb idea a lot of my brothers are in to. I read ‘passport bros’ and thought we’re finally promoting “catch flights not fights” or somethin about exposure to life abroad. And here tf we go, some ignorant shit. If these men think they’re just gonna fly back to the states with silent, frail geisha stereotypes…ugh🤦🏾‍♂️

[@aesanonymous8936]

Yup its mail order brides all over again. Straight up advocating predatory sex tourism to each other.

[@FreyaEinde]

But for real can we talk about that weird fantasy trope men have about somewhere out there is a race of submissive women that’ll grant them emperor status. Like it’s a straight up psycho desire and needs to be called out. Nobody deserves to treated like a sex servant with no avenue for independence, it’s mad gross to have that as an expectation.

[@Bree5three]

Honestly same, I thought nothing of it and then was annoyed and appalled when I actually found out what it really was. They never cease to amaze, their ignorance always manages to reach new heights

[@lmusima3275]

I wouldn’t call these guys my brothers 😂 they’re new to actually having passports for the first time in their lazy, dusty, unproductive lives. They’ve chosen to be at the bottom end of society, doing the bare minimum, looking for 50/50 relationships. Then they go as far as hating on BW from the west to the point of elevating foreign women as the ideal wives. What have these BM brothers got to offer?

[@fa_abdi3001]

You must be protected.

[@BlkMedusa]

I think it’s so funny that WM with BW don’t have the same things to say about black women being hard to deal with. But you always see non black women complaining about the same issues with Bm that BW have with them.

[@moneylineparlay105]

Wm don't deal with y'all in any significant way

[@BlkMedusa]

@@moneylineparlay105 wym I’m married to a WM

[@niratomas579]

Non black women get the same BM!🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Shaylala19937]

@@moneylineparlay105My 2 sisters and I are the product of a marriage between a white man and a Black woman. So….

[@damnkevindeaderthanamf6068]

@@moneylineparlay105 I'm married to a white man so 🤔

[@briolivia]

The idea of traveling to find a mate and not the intrinsic fulfillment that comes from traveling is weird to me. If you meet someone...fine...but I can't imagine booking a trip with an ulterior motive of manipulating a vulnerable person

[@moneylineparlay105]

You are a female, you don’t live a male experience

[@Juiceharlot]

It's pretty interesting that one guy said " looking for caring loving partners." But he said " cooking and cleaning as the traits" I said "Sir that's a maid but go off." 😂😂😂😂😂 Passport bros are just 90 day without the reality tv show.

[@aesanonymous8936]

This is definitely tied to the unfortunate reality of when women and men are asked what they love about their partners, men tend to describe things that their partner does for them versus who their partner is.

[@AndSoWeLaughed]

Thank you! He really so they’re looking for love SO they’re looking for cooking and cleaning. How is one related to the other without nuance and context (of patriarchy, feminism and everything in between which I doubt was his intention at all”. He used ‘so’ not ‘and’ which is very weird to me.

[@abbeywalker5283]

I was looking for this! I wish more of them would watch 90 Days as a cautionary tale. Especially the updates.

[@businessbuilder92]

@@aesanonymous8936 and women don't describe their men by what he can provide for them more than his personality? When women are asked what they want in a man Is providing and protecting not his opinion on third wave feminism lol

[@bowalker7114]

I bet $10K this is a baby mama

[@joshedaforrester5966]

"...because being a wife/married is not about love." 100% facts. b/c when men complain, its not because of a lack of love. It is bc she doesn't cook or clean or doesn't want to have sex more often. They want certain services out of her and w/o them, they start to look elsewhere.

[@ladybug3380]

Exactly their “love” is conditional

[@LoneWulf278]

Exactly. It would be more bearable if these services were appreciated and compensated, but guys act like women are supposed to be grateful to have more work. 😂

[@Harold10ful]

Yeah that's hypocritical. Up down and all around this channel when the topic is different you see oceans of women in the comment section complaining how they want a man of means or a man to pay this or a man to protect that etc. Facts is YES men want certain attributes from their wives or gf, the same as women wanting something from their husband or boyfriend. In what world is it fair for a woman to demand a man to have certain things but when a man ask for what he values I the same dynamic, then it's a problem. What type of backwards thinking is that. Yes my love cost something and so does yours.

[@joshedaforrester5966]

@Leonard Washington your word salad has absolutely nothing to do with my point. My point is that, in many relationships, men make their women feel like they're only purpose is to do tasks of service for them. And that they're easily replaceable. No person wants to feel like a maid and cook. We do what we do out of love. Not bc we aspire to be glorified help. Women are people. We want to be loved in our entirety. Not just for what you or any man can get out of us. So think before you type and think twice before accusing me of being a hypocrite.

[@Harold10ful]

@@joshedaforrester5966 ONCE AGAIN, your soggy argument is you want to hold someone to a standard but you do not want a standard to be held to you! you are a hypocrite! Men too want to be loved in their entirety as well, but we all know a woman will not be with a man if he is not providing, protecting and making provisions. Which is completely understandable! and true but for some insane reason when a man says "hey! I want a woman who is feminine, respectful, cooks and cleans" now it become a shaming tactic and political debate. You will get what you give you will not introduce a man to a certain standard then drop off mid relationship the same of how a man who stops dating his wife or gf soon finds himself single. This "I can do it but you can't do it" ideology has yall completely washed smh.

[@msa565]

I'm a brazilian woman and been interacting with US culture trough internet for some years and the way black man treats black women is so wild, like i know women are hated but i don't know where this specifically hate come from, it's a pattern i see in the internet and always the discourse of feminism destroying black family unit, anyways i don't know if they're trying to approach Brazilian black women but it's good to be aware of this movement

[@Lena-ks7pn]

@MSA Nothing to do with feminism . There is alot of BM (Black men) are trying to use women for their resources along with 2nd mommies and trust they taken those behaviors over to Brazil / Columbia . They looking to run the same game on unsuspected foreign women. In the US alot of black men create kids and abandon them to the mothers . This pattern is also showing up in other communities of other races here in the US that black men try to run through other races of women in the US . In the US alot of black men create kids and abandon them to the mothers without any further care in the world

[@RichBoy-dc2dq]

Don't worry. Passport bros have a rule to not date Brazilian women who speak English because they tend to think like American feminist.....so you're "safe" from the passport bros.

[@zerotolerance2026]

@@RichBoy-dc2dq Good! Now scram!!!✈️✈️✈️

[@brotherNegus]

...no they not in Brazil looking for the same type of women in the states

[@longbeach225]

@@RichBoy-dc2dq Exactly she maybe Brazilian background but MSA is not a REAL Brazilian. She is a American not Brazilian.

[@didyallseethat499]

Basically, they’re looking for a mail order brides with curbside pick up but at a discount 😂😂😂

[@LoneWulf278]

Not curbside pick-up 😂

[@Goddess_Infinity]

😂😂😂😂

[@didyallseethat499]

@@michaelputin28 not really 🤷🏽‍♀️ Why would I compete for something that I don’t want… you gotta think, sir 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Goddess_Infinity]

@@michaelputin28 No one wants to compete with them for a broke incel dusty. They can have y’all . 🤮 Y’all men pay street hoes for sex 🤢, because you cant get it from the women you actually want it from . Same concept, and it’s sad and pathetic to be frank .

[@Goddess_Infinity]

@@didyallseethat499 That part !!!!

[@tamararodriguez4413]

So basically they want "traditional" women who don't ask for accountability and are ok with them doing the bare minimum... and they are using old tropes to hide their real intentions. Is not black women fault they can't compete and step up.

[@Heyu7her3]

They want "traditional women who sex them without marriage or without paying dowry (if that's required)" 🤔

[@shagans6701]

@@Heyu7her3 I think we just want functional woman, and woman want functional men. Right now we have dysfunction and most losing virginity before a life plan is ever played out, we allow our children to have boyfriend, girlfriend relationships as young as elementary, instead of making sure they have an economic plan to compete in the real adult world/ society, it's self sabotage in the name of emotion and feelings.

[@everlyngathoni3027]

Black men are garnering a worldwide disrespect. You cannot hate yourself, willfully destroy your own and be accepted elsewhere. Maybe as a joke or amusement but respect is not a possibility from here. It’s the fool in proverbs 😭

[@dnycebushton5008]

Ikr...dumb. Just silly

[@brotherNegus]

Nah... bros just out here on vacay having a blast lmao

[@everlyngathoni3027]

@@brotherNegus if you insist

[@brotherNegus]

@@everlyngathoni3027 ok let's have a real conversation. Why do soooo many women in america have sex and children out of wedlock. I think that's a good starting point

[@brotherNegus]

...is it fair or correct to say that in america the percentages of women without children are vastly disproportionate to the percentages of Men without children?

[@Lovebrix99]

I love that black men are leaving. I just want them to stay gone and to stop talking shit about us. Also leave us divestors alone

[@hild-demongoddess7498]

Facts!!

[@Lisa-em6ed]

Girl they up in here arguing the women in the comments but swear they hate our existence, yet they always manage to find our spaces .

[@Queennyla16]

This is not a divester space sis

[@imhereforfitnessvideos7213]

My trip to Colombia was the first time I’ve ever seen large groups of black men traveling together 😂 they were all in the clubs in vip and the women were trying hard to get their attention. Looked like a music video, and the women were definitely beautiful and the men were 👹There was probably 10 girls for every 1 guy I can definitely see why they do it. I’m always hesitant to date a man that’s been to Colombia, and I know it’s irrational but I can’t unsee what I saw 😢

[@SCFLEUR]

Everywhere they go the sully the image of said place 😑

[@BlackberryTitties]

They go there for the Transformers!! 😂😂😂😂

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

There's something else about men who have been to Columbia. Have you seen the Vice documentary about donkeys ? 🤢 Edit : For all of those who don't know what's up with men and donkeys in Columbia, don't look it up. No seriously, don't.

[@EspritsFantomes]

For me it’s Thaïland. Where I live Thailand is popular. A guy who went to Thailand with a group of guys or alone? Suspicious 😂😂

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

@@EspritsFantomes Same. Here in France it's associated with sex tourism. Not that it's the only thing to do there. But when you hear a guy who never goes to the museum, reads etc. tells you that he goes to Thailand for the culture and to visit temples, it's hard to believe.

[@moustik31]

NB: As to the bm "rejecting me", all I have to say, is: I dont dream of labour. I dont dream of cooking everyday, do most of the chores, raise children mostly alone, stay in shape AND be available for s3x on demand. I do not dream of being (mis)used, despised and dehumanised.

[@CornellG]

As a feminist, an old fashion man and yourself wouldn’t naturally mesh. Nothing wrong with that. Only a man who doesn’t agree with old fashion roles would sync with you.

[@submissiveproviderstboth9485]

@@CornellG old fashioned equates ABUSIVE, GOT IT 😂

[@TheCasou]

@@CornellG who thought you those old fashion ways? We know Black men in America had never played a major role in building family, in building wealth. There are documentaries from the 50s and 60s that show it. Black women keep getting told a myth, the myth of a patriarchal past

[@CornellG]

@@TheCasou My upbringing. Grandma, grandpa, uncles, parents, etc. I work in finance so building wealth is within my DNA. Building family has always been a goal of mine as family is the foundation. My wife and future children will be well taken care of. Not all black men are the same.

[@CornellG]

@@submissiveproviderstboth9485 Old fashion for a man equates to providing and protecting his family. Something I’m able to afford daily. Is that not a trait you want for a spouse? Would you rather be the provider and protector?

[@AlexaGoldSoul]

“The passport bros - this entire thing does not work without grossly inequitable home lives- if those women had leverage, if they had power, they would not be desirable” Kim, this is a WORD and such a powerful observation! THIS IS THE KEY, THE CRUX, of this entire movement. The fact that these men don’t realize this is incredibly telling…

[@zerotolerance2026]

This is why they hate “modern American women”.

[@moneylineparlay105]

If men in the United States had leverage, most of y’all would be undesirable.

[@hunadimakgatho3403]

Slavery basically...

[@acertainslantoflight]

They are exposing themselves as predators

[@dkt4377]

The average woman that a passport bros encounter is fit, feminine, and cooperative... that's her power/leverage that makes them attractive.

[@lesliewit]

As I'm reading these articles you suggested I have come to realize why it has been incredibly difficult for me to date black men. On the apps especially I tend to allow more space and do not stick as stringently to my deal breakers with regards to black men and men of color. And still no interest. The few times at black men have actually approached me in public it has been aggressive and angry, often insulting. I remember one time I was working at my second job at target, and a black man was hitting on me, which is typically a non-starter for me. Don't hit on people at work, it's predatory. But I was being polite and respectful to him, I even laughed at his jokes. He kept speaking coded language though, I guess trying to be slick, and was ultimately frustrated with me because I was being polite and professional and not responding in the overtly sexual way I think he wanted me to. He got visibly angry after I finished checking him out and stomped away. When I asked him what was wrong, he just yelled at me. My experience with dating over the past 7 years is that many black men have created a narrative in their mind that paints black women as the betrayer, and their enemy. I just don't have the energy for it. I can't do more work for folks than they will do for themselves. And if people don't want to work on themselves but instead want to externalize all of their trauma and grief, they're never going to be satisfied with anyone.

[@Cng215]

Now you don't have to worry about them. Throw your hands up and celebrate 🍾 🙌 they are done with bw so not your problem anymore

[@Lena-ks7pn]

Chile it is not you .Open yourself to dating other races because majority of BM do not know how to court or date a woman properly. I seen way too many bm that throw tantrums when you tell them NO ( for dating) . Most of them need therapy and are not worth the headaches or trouble they bring

[@Heyu7her3]

That's a grown toddler.

[@brotherNegus]

....stop the cap, I saw your pic. We know the real reason it's "hard for you to date black men"

[@mrdino5101]

@@brotherNegus I was just about to say....

[@imhereforfitnessvideos7213]

My uncle Is a passport bro. 65 married a 23 year old girl from the Philippines. He’s no catch, 5 divorces under his belt. She’s his retirement plan, it’s really disgusting.

[@SCFLEUR]

Oh Lawd. In his big age he’s still acting the ass. Don’t worry, when that young woman gets her footing she will leave. She’s not trying to be a hospice wife.

[@asmrcity3147]

Damn

[@aesanonymous8936]

Five divorces is a lot, did the woman initiate each one?🤣

[@shopece8807]

Wow, he has a guaranteed live-in nurse for the next 10-20 yrs **if he makes it**.

[@LoveLaRieXO]

@@shopece8807 No he is not. It’s her husband, not her baby. If she is smart she won’t make any with grandpa. She is gonna be out. Jokes on them

[@BlairCadetabc]

I used to live in SE Asia...White American men and European men have been "finding traditional and/or meek" wives, girlfriends, or easy sex for decades! I lived in Bangkok for about 3 years, no one blinks an eye when a young Thai woman is with a man 30 years her senior. It benefits her (and her family), as marriage to a foreigner with a "strong" passport, provides a higher quality of life. But the Western man has to have **resources** money, social security, a pension, property, and/or well paying job. If they think Black American women are materialistic and gold diggers, phew going to Asia thinking women will just accept a man "as is" is foolishness. Marriage is a business, many families expect a dowry, want proof of wealth (deeds of property, tax returns, pay stubs, bank statements), and expect a husband to take care of the wife and her family. Sadly, Black American men wouldn't be able to afford a wife (andher family)...or would be accepted as a good match by most Asian families who focus on legacy, wealth, and status. Either way, left over Black American men are catching up to what Western Caucasian men have been doing for a long time....but with few resources.

[@nathanj3665]

@Angela Do you really believe all that you just wrote. There are many, many,many bm with resources.@Angela Do you really believe all that you just wrote. There are many, many,many bm with resources in America. Countless in the corporate world. It's just that we have too much options to want to get married. An untold litter of beautiful wmen to always have and choose from. I'll tell you why we have so much options? Because from the sub par looking, average lookin (like this Kimberley) , good looking to stunning looking w'men want us types of men. Then also add the educated wman, the rich wman, the broke w'man also want us pool of men. And here lies the problem. No need to ever get married or settle till wear are ready and well spent in life. And even then we can still use money to keep our options still available to us.

[@Chambermenz]

That part

[@Shaylala19937]

Passport bros haven’t watched nair an episode of 90 Fiancé and it shows 😂😂😂😂

[@Lena-ks7pn]

This right here is a word. I also spent some time in Asia region . Us Black Women dont got nothing on these Asian women as far as gold digging. We are lambs( BW) vs crocs (Asian women) in terms of gold digging . I had some enlightening convos with these chicks about men . They need to teach a class. lol

[@charleskeyessr4288]

I can pay $2000 in Fl for a apt. or $400 in SE Asia for a luxury Condo. and get a beautiful woman and food for another $600......

[@realbeautyness25]

LET THEM GO 👋🏿

[@amgofficial7791]

ikr?! tha st. lunatic prophet, nelly said it best: "Dropdown and get ur eagle on, boy"... im over these types of conversations...hahaha...

[@shagans6701]

@@amgofficial7791 ISAIAH 4:1 And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear [and provide] our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame [of being unmarried].”

[@guinealove3744]

@@shagans6701 Quoting from the bible eh? Seems quite convenient. Men hung out with JC until it came time to stand by him. Instead, one snitched on him, another turned chicken, whilst the others just hid in the bushes. As I recall, didn't women watch him take his last breath, and went looking for him whilst the disciples were hiding? They did make sure to write how cool he was..afterwards. Please don't go there. Thanks

[@pdg23]

This is such a great conversation. Your discussion of passport bos reminded of the 1990s in Eastern Europe when all these American men came to find wives and these women would end up in very precarious conditions. I love your take on this!

[@nogodsnomasters6963]

The 90s huh? Gotta correct you here, that never actually stopped, it's also happening TODAY. And it's not just American men. It's euro men too, big time, all going to countries in Eastern Europe, Asia, Africa, south America, looking for "traditional" women. I've even met some men like those , and hoboi do i feel bad for the women they idealize.

[@pdg23]

@@nogodsnomasters6963 very well said

[@damnkevindeaderthanamf6068]

@@nogodsnomasters6963 look at Brazil 😂it's so praised and visited yet these women single moms like CRAZYYYY

[@icelugedoctor]

Precarious? Most found themselves in better living situations. The ones who found themselves in bad situations are the ones who went for “work” not marriage.

[@jaymt1982]

I think both sides of this passport bros thing are gross, condescending, annoying towards women in other countries and generally people of other countries and cultures. It seems a very eurocentric, colonialist type view of the rest of the world. Anyway in general passport bros are very mistaken if they think women in other countries have no standards and will take anything they throw at them which seems to be their general mentality.

[@morgansubtilis6852]

I think plenty of people in the US have seen these marriages between a richer, older American dude (of whatever ethnicity) and brides from much poorer countries. You are correct that the women are not always doormats -- but they are often enough that *that* is the reason these men go for it.

[@Heyu7her3]

@@ReesieDenise wdym, passport bros don't marry

[@Ashley-bm9gc]

@@morgansubtilis6852 I think it mostly works for the men that have a consistent stream of income to maintain the submission of their foreign wives. The ones that see oppurtunities to make more money either by themselves or by partnering with a more financially stable partner dip at the first sign of financial trouble. Especially when they realise the US is not the land of milk and honey.

[@MissTraeHarris]

Girl I almost spat out my tea when you said "don't threaten me with a good time" ..lmfaooooo

[@user-lx8bb8et6d]

That was my favorite statement of this video. 😅

[@moustik31]

As a feminist, I care about migrant wives getting an education about their rights here in the West (and getting more rights, if necessary). They need clear and safe ways to exit the situation, if necessary.

[@fa_abdi3001]

I think with internet and smartphone so wide spread globally, these girls have more chances that those mail order bride from the 90s. The passport bros are too ignorant to seek women in the dept of a village. They will stop in the main cities and those places between a Nigerian Prince and a global scam, will go to US with the sole purpose to get better opportunities and help their family and grew her daughters to be independent and fearless

[@lightel652]

Hey as a feminist, also. "Feminist unite" I also care about these migrant wives having a mind of their own and choosing to not get an education, cause they know the education system is trash.

[@AlyssaMakesArt]

“The West” will not provide everything for these women and it might be helpful for your feminism journey to examine why you view “the East’ as a homogenous, backwards place that doesn’t allow women reasonable access to education. Especially considering by different metrics including education many women are doing better (by various metrics) in places outside of “the west.”

[@moneylineparlay105]

We don't bring them back here lol

[@moustik31]

@@AlyssaMakesArt Again, wish, people would just take the time to read what I actually read before answering. Whatever you understood isnt what I wrote. 🙄

[@PLTbyCormie]

I really wish women would stop responding to these men..it just give them clout when they rant about women being mad they have decided to go elsewhere..if we really don’t care then we have to stop talking about it..the moon does not bark at the dog..just let them go in peace ✋🏾

[@dnycebushton5008]

exactly...the feeling is mutual as a mfer.

[@sailormoongoon90]

A word! Amen.

[@VeteranNomad]

I’m the son of a passport bro. What most of you fail to realize is the passport bro movement started with black military men. Most passport bros have military background. A lot have no kids or kids are grown. Some have retirement pensions and work remotely from anywhere. A lot are in IT field and usually make 6 figures. It’s common to see 30 year old IT guys making 6 figures like my cousins. My brother who is retired military has a pension for the rest of his life and just turned 39 with 20 years of service. He is a passport bro in Thailand. As much as folks want to label the movement about women it’s more about a lifestyle that may include women. My brother got offered $180K for a IT job in Miami. He turned it down for a complete remote job making $130K and moved to Thailand where cost of living is cheaper. So these passport bros are making moves for economic reasons also. When they speak it’s about showing other men how they live and how they were able to have this lifestyle.

[@tam6011]

I would agree with you if that was in message in terms of jobs and cost of living. However that’s is never in the message. Most people in IT make 100k to 300k. If it’s about your money stretching it would be hey get a job here these are skills you need. I haven’t seen that story. Everyone needs to thrive in life.

[@VeteranNomad]

@@tam6011 I said it’s a lifestyle and women are a part not the main reason. You don’t have to agree because you only talking from what you see. I’m telling you as someone who interact with actual passport bros so I think I know what I’m saying. Why make $300K and stay in the US with inflation when you can go overseas and operate off the strength of the USD? Why stay in Cali making $300K when you can move to Mexico and save more of your money? 🤦🏾‍♂️ There are also tax incentives. I sat in on a few passport bros zoom conferences about tax strategies, getting digital nomad visas, purchasing real estate, forex and IT jobs. The fact of the matter is there are a lot of 6&7 figure guys with their stuff together in the passport bro movement.

[@tam6011]

@CamsWorld what I am saying to is what men are saying online isn't what you saying. Trust me I know plenty of military men overseas with women. Been around around them all my life but what you see online and words they speak thats not what they saying. People do what they want. I don't care. I debating your point on what is said online. That's it.

[@VeteranNomad]

@@tam6011 You are debating based upon a snippet. There are a large amount of Passport bros that do not like the US system and they talk about it all the time. Some have issues with women. Some take advantage of tax breaks you can get from working overseas. Some do not want to be married in the US because of US laws. You are trying to simplify the movement about BW because of what you heard. I know you don’t care because I’m telling what the movement about and you are telling me about snippets to make it a gender war. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@tam6011]

@@VeteranNomad no I debating based her snippet. Her snippet even in this convo. Look I have worked in IT overseas I understand. I have gotten tax credits. I get 96k tax free. Free housing. Free food. Doing less. I get the marriage advantage or what they call it pu**y pay. What I am saying to you is I don’t see that convo amongst the masses. I know all IT doors where you can triple the money than in the states. IT folks with clearances have been doing that before 2011.

[@ljackson24]

The fact that my ex let me for a mail order bride and is now overweight and miserable….😂 But, she’s overweight too so I guess he had to match her energy 🥴🤷🏽‍♀️ When he said he wanted to break up, I didn’t argue with him or anything. I told him to do what he needed to do to be happy. Next thing I know, he’s online with a chick from Iceland and her baby by another bm. Smh I was like, really?! But I never wanted him back. Not even for a second. Just wish I hadn’t wasted my time.

[@tessy28]

Sounds like a mid life crisis happened to him lol be glad that mess is no longer your problem

[@hotstreak9805]

what did you do wrong in the marriage for him wanting to divorce you?

[@Bri-nc8yp]

@@hotstreak9805 You have poor reading comprehension skills like most black men. She said the word "break up" which would imply she dated him only. She never said "divorce" which would indicate marriage. Also, who cares what she did or did not do. The man said he wanted his freedom and she granted it to him so he can marry and take care of a white single mother. When BM want to go BW should let them go..who cares about the reason why he wants to go.

[@matildajean9748]

Kimberly, you look stunning!

[@anisaskcirmoht57]

Yes, gorgeous 😍

[@brotherNegus]

🤥

[@peachdumpling9053]

Honestly blk men showing their true colors has made it a lot easier to accept advances from other races of men. It was hard at first but being desired the way I want to be desired…. How can I not like that??😮‍💨

[@gregoriopassport]

Based on dating site data other races of men not really checking for blacks...

[@Lena-ks7pn]

@@michaelputin28 I get plenty as well as a BW . You will deal as BM .

[@Lisa-em6ed]

@@Lena-ks7pnthey hate black women so much but yet stay in our content and spaces. Make it make sense 😂

[@tessy28]

@@michaelputin28 I've gotten attention from and dated all races of men, black, Asian, Hispanic and European. My current partner will probably be my husband as he has told me he plans to propose at soon. He is Polish. Plenty of bw have options they have just never considered them out of some misguided loyalty to bm until now. Now bw are choosing whoever they want, however they want.

[@OP-er9tm]

Y’all not dating anyone cope

[@aarondavis2258]

A self-titled "passport bro" was just set up in Columbia. As soon as he exited the Taxi to his destination, the girl he was coming to meet had him robbed at gunpoint & several men stole everything on his person. I think we call that justice. Is it justice? It feels like justice to me LOL safe travels. I love that for them.

[@TheDCbiz]

How is that justice?

[@nikimd7833]

I love this song!!!

[@BremiiXO]

Like you wanna go to these countries and take advantage of these women 🤷🏾‍♀️ you can’t be mad when they take advantage of you lmao

[@CadillacBoss30]

It's sad that you think that someone getting robbed at gunpoint is ok just cause you don't like them.

[@bronzebomber814]

Passport bros are going to see that living in abject poverty a woman will do anything or one to get out but let them figure it out for themselves..be safe out there I hear those international streets are wilder than anything stateside

[@zee-zm1io]

Polarity (femininity and masculinity) is the lazy man’s answer to figuring out who complements you in a relationship.

[@brotherNegus]

What your husband think....

[@angelmartin7310]

I know some Bros had a chill go down their spine when you mentioned creating laws to protect these economic migrants they bring over here 🤣

[@aesanonymous8936]

As they should and we should apply even more laws because these women historically have been easily abused compared to women with citizenship in the country.

[@moustik31]

They should be laws. Too many stories of migrants being locked in, having their passports kept away from them and being forced to work from dawn to dusk. This is akin to slavery.

[@gregoriopassport]

I don't think the passport bros are wanting to bring the women back. They will travel there, have families there, and many are talking working remotely and living in foreign countries.

[@lamar1990lg]

Creating laws just shows you're defeated and you running to White Daddy the same man that took Roe vs Wade away lol

[@moustik31]

@@lamar1990lg BS.

[@nikkih4692]

Its wild that these men would rather go to these lengths to find women they can manipulate and control rather than just.....be better men and grown ass adults, mature and act right so that women of their peer-groups would accept them as partners. Sheesh.

[@nikkih4692]

Also, they are sooo happy to consider themselves as "Traditional Men" when they can't provide the way traditional men historically have. These poor foreign girls are going to be expected to accommodate and do 80% of the household labor AND work fulltime, and if they don't simply oblige these jerks will gleefully pull out the "green card" bluff. These "passport bros" are straight parasitic.

[@zerotolerance2026]

@@nikkih4692 Right! Now they can’t use money and marriage to trap women here in America . Now it’s the green card.😂

[@guinealove3744]

Agreed! Whenever a PB would post how BW are pressed because they are "winning", my response is always that (most) BW really don't care. Just leave us out of your discourse. EGADS! The BM I know that travel and live abroad, left in search of adventure to build consultancies and would never speak ill of a BW. Truth be told, they credit their moms for inspiring them to grow. It's so embarrassing!!!!! Why does their message have to disparage women. For jimmy cricketts...leave but leave us in peace.

[@PortraitofAsha]

It's not the toll of rejection, it's the toll of entitlement.

[@MsMizz1]

☝🏾 that part

[@thatguy9088]

Uh huh. "Hey Alexa, what's the rate of paternal fraud in America?" "32%."

[@Cng215]

@@thatguy9088 35%

[@sophon238]

we are all entitled, you feel entitled to men as well.

[@TheDarkAdventure]

@@Cng215 @That Guy and that is just the men who asked for tests

[@sepharcallwood2422]

Coming from someone who lives in the Caribbean, good luck to these “passport bros”. Idk where what island they’re going to specifically but I find that people aren’t dieing to go to America. If they do, they shipping barrels home to their families and sending money home to build their. The same house they will retire in.

[@RickyTPB4L]

We not bringing them back 🤣

[@RichBoy-dc2dq]

These men are leaving America. Meaning they will not bring any women back because they now live in that country.

[@hotstreak9805]

Are you panic coping because of competition anxiety? 🤣

[@sepharcallwood2422]

@@RickyTPB4L exactly!

[@Bri-nc8yp]

@@hotstreak9805 competition anxiety? There are about 3 billion men in the word if someone has anxiety about getting a man then they have issues. The world is large place... BW only need to step out side of their box and open up their dating options.

[@r.walker7986]

What's not to love about smart, informed, thoughtful, funny, clever black women? Good show.

[@Harold10ful]

That is not what the PPB's issues are and you know it.

[@r.walker7986]

@@Harold10ful I could care less about them, That was a compliment on the the woman behind the show.

[@hotstreak9805]

They become leftovers because they're angry 304 and not wife material

[@brotherNegus]

....I don't know but it's not looking too good

[@r.walker7986]

@@eliottlindsey40 Time for guys to admit their obsession with "marriage" is more about the fact that they don't have the ability to consistently get attention from attractive women or get regular sex instead of genuinely valuing the institution or family. Stop the gaslighting.

[@laughingshaman1]

I genuinely wish them the best of luck.

[@adriarchy]

It's not that the guys hate these "hard" jobs, it's that they hate not being exhalted for having them. That's my dad. Wants all the cookies for back breaking stuff when we tell him to just chill instead. I don't wanna worship my dad dude.

[@yourroyallioness6607]

I’m not so mad at a man for wanting praise and kudos for doing “back breaking work.” Traditionally, this is what men did and because he did so (and she didn’t HAVE to), was worthy of the love, care and devotion of a provided for wife. Notice I said provided for and wife, not slave that is hardly given a thought about. Nowadays, msn want to be praised for the most basic and common place duties that they take on. They do this, not even understanding that women work “hard duty” jobs, plus complete the most basic and common duties, daily. This is especially so, if you are a BW, across the diaspora. I find that so many BM can’t handle typical everyday tasks, such as holding a basic conversation or eye contact. Many don’t know how to speak up for themselves or articulate themselves to express a thought, idea, suggestion, etc. Let me also state that being articulate doesn’t mean that your speech must be flawless and perfect English, French, etc. Men nowadays, lack the confidence and desire to even respectfully woo and court a woman. Traditionally, it wasn’t such a bad thing if a man was short on words because he was overwhelmed by a woman’s beauty and grace. He still was able to speak sweetly, gentle and kind to her because that’s the communication and feelings that he wanted to express. These disgusting brute beast, nowadays… everything that comes out of their mouths is harsh, sexual related, and downright destructive and or demonic. Don’t catch a glimpse into the eyes of some of them, because you will be looking directly at a demon. You know something is extremely wrong with a man who says that he desires a woman, but uses his mouth and hands to destroy her. I could go on and on, but I think the point has been made. Brute beast are just a turn off; unless of course, you are the type of woman who desires that type of relationship. If you do, there is something seriously broken within you and therapy should be the option.

[@sheh.9163]

I love that she pointed out that a lot of these are leftover men that nobody wanted anyway. Nobody was signing up for their particular brand of partnership; nobody desired what they brought to the table….so they are going where they think they’ll have a better chance 🤷🏽‍♀️….👋🏾✌🏾 poor tink…Good Luck!

[@Nygnotyogf]

Not "tink".......lol.

[@debrabelton3161]

No one is getting married, men nor women. Are the women "left-over?"

[@sheh.9163]

@@michaelputin28 they invite commentary, criticism and ridicule by constantly speaking about it while also disparaging blk women. Be for real

[@ERoss338]

Damn that sounds like coping.

[@sheh.9163]

@@debrabelton3161 Keep up Debra….women are increasing opting out of marriage. Meanwhile these men who desire the type of marriage that no one wants are choosing to go overseas to “find it”

[@tylerhackner9731]

Love your concise thoughtful perspective always

[@WWJD-MIA]

After a recent experience with a passport bro I do know many of them are looking for places where they can express sexual deviancy and I’ll leave it at that.

[@Shaylala19937]

Facts on facts on facts. Most of them aren’t marrying. They’re just making more single mothers in other countries.

[@Lena-ks7pn]

oh of course , all in the name to exploit women in those counties. We can safely say about 95 percent of BM aka Passport Bros have bad intentions brewing

[@sdothoward2743]

They don't have to leave America to find the Succubus

[@chey6073]

EXACTLY! Look at where they’re going! It’s places where the US dollar stretches the most and where sex tourism is incredibly common

[@Ricoyoung-ju1fj]

Now it seems that all of the black women who had a conversation with a passport bro is in this chatroom caring about men, they say they didn’t want us doing what is wrong jo more dinners dates or step daddy season is over

[@thesmileyeffect]

Catching up and CACKLING at the $12 hoodies comment. Kimberly!!! 😂😂😂😂 Can’t wait to get my merch.

[@saav1385]

It sounds like we are looking for well rounded individuals and the men are mad. Outbursts are a common weird thing ive seen with dating.

[@FashionAddict411]

Passport bros gives tlc spin-off

[@submissiveproviderstboth9485]

Property Bros VS Passport Bros 😂

[@louisachalarca6494]

As a Colombian from Medellin these passport bros are the pushed content when you KZbin TikTok my city in the USA it’s rage inducing and sex trafficking for the most part

[@taty87]

Was listening while cleaning my house and heard you say you were ending the “Are y’all okay”?! Ran to my phone and purchased immediately!

[@taty87]

Mind you it’s Sunday lol

[@thirdeyeopen2606]

The ending of this video you hit the nail on the head. The social awkwardness no emotional intelligence is not it. There is an arrested development with a lot men. So many things to contribute to this.

[@shagans6701]

ISAIAH 4:1 And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear [and provide] our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame [of being unmarried].”

[@chescawest]

Talking about accessibility… my French Canadian/American coworker is on his third international marriage. He pays alimony to the first wife. Child support and $600k divorce to the second wife so she won’t ask for alimony. His third/current wife he’s building a house for in Thailand where she’s from so that she can return home when he passes away… BM don’t have the foresight nor the capital to do the same.

[@ayanomar1408]

my dad worked in a french company and almost half of the white french men he worked with were married to south east asian women because like they said “french women are hard to deal with” but we all knew ehat he ment was “other women are on to my BS”

[@StoicEver]

His mistake was marrying again after the first one failed.

[@Boahemaa]

If a man in their 30s is online looking for dates its not because they are good romantic partners. Those often have intimacy issues as well as others. Its a problematic crowd.

[@ninagrace-lee8323]

Yes and no. I think it truly depends. My current bf was on Tinder when we met. He’s no perfect guy, but he’s a very good man who adores me. I see quite a few guys who are doing okay financially but live in big cities where the competition is fierce. Most of those guys eventually give up online dating because of the skewed gender ratio though. So I’ll concede to that EDIT: I would say financial issue issues is the #1 reason why women pass over these guys. They may make decent money but they’re not making like, 400k a year.

[@Boahemaa]

@@ninagrace-lee8323 I doubt the financial issue as the number 1 issue. I think its only a problem, because most women expect the man to have some other issues like lacking empathy or being inconsiderate and so will compromise on the lack of these things for expensive gifts and financial comfort. But of course as we can see the richest men in the world get divorced multiple times its not enough. I even suspect the Cardi Bs and City Girls of the world would take a man who makes a decent living and makes them feel secure in the relationship over their men. Unfortunately all men have bought into the idea that women are to be owned and controlled. Less than a quarter of all Americans earn four hundred thousand dollars a year. Seems like all the men want to date the two women who want billionaires.

[@ninagrace-lee8323]

@@Boahemaa I disagree. I think many women would not opt for a man who makes less because he doesn’t fit their lifestyle and needs. There is no security and quite a few women have expressed they don’t see a reason to be with a man who can’t make them feel more secure, especially considering all the labor we do in relationships/marriages. I think it’s why many women are choosing to be single, it’s simply less work. Even *poor men are still a lot of work.

[@debrabelton3161]

Approximately 1.8% of men make $400k. I doubt that those guys are in dating apps.

[@Boahemaa]

@@debrabelton3161 thanks for clarifying it's even less. Money is a stand in for the lack of community and support. Why tolerate a broke narcissist?

[@cameroncapers7807]

“The bottom four quintiles” killed me 💀

[@SCFLEUR]

Straight in the ground 😂

[@katiez688]

The only group in the US where marriage is going strong is the upper middle class and above. Its pretty easy to see why. A couple with advanced education, stable good paying careers, and relatively high IQs are able to create a stable household together. They aren’t constantly facing the threat of financial ruin, fighting over having to budget every penny, or unable to do things to take care of their physical and mental wellbeing. As long as Republicans and Democrats continue to be owned by the ruling class and we keep getting their same garbage economic policies marriage will continue to decline for the bottom 80%.

[@shethewriter]

I love how you're able to articulate these dynamics because I see aspects of it mirrored in my community (just cultural-background wise), and it really needs a more realistic framework. I keep telling women of my ilk, stop limiting yourself to adhere to some collective fear of insecure men who want to adhere to the worst aspects of our culture to compensate for their own failings. I'd rather deal with the difficulties of dating outside my race than be dealing with all that.

[@laurekapinga4279]

😘😘😘same

[@moustik31]

If the Black manosphere is FINALLY the reason why straight bm start using condoms, I'll take it as a win. We've been through an HIV/AIDS pandemic for decades, the amount of unprotected s3x still happening is scary.

[@zee-zm1io]

A win is a win!

[@hatkingempire6286]

Lmfao like y’all can’t say no to sex. Coming from a bw most of y’all own these bm to sleep with y’all unprotected then cry wolf.

[@brotherNegus]

I'm telling you!! Black women been thru EVERYTHING.. except marriage

[@Ching-ii1ib]

@@brotherNegus😂

[@mcsaism]

The main topic of the video starts at 14:09

[@vsboardza]

You're an angel thank you

[@roseopl7]

I scrolled and scrolled for this lol. Thanks

[@lawabidingbaddie9595]

I KNEW I RECOGNIZED ONE OF MY OWN!! I some areas in your vid when I though, “hmm, she may be have ADHD.” It’s a gift and I love how you communicate and get sht done. It’s very inspiring. My ADHD is living my butt rn. 😫😅

[@JoMbangasta]

It's always the kings chiiiiile 😂😂😂

[@shanaehardy6399]

I had a conversation with a self proclaimed 6-figure passport bro and he was so strange. It was very obvious he was on the spectrum or if he wasn’t, his social skills were incredibly low. It was interesting he kept blaming black American women for having “unrealistic standards” but he had no self awareness, the charisma of a blank wall, and was boring

[@BillionaireMusk]

So that was a lie😂 he makes six figures and he was just on the spectrum ? Which is it? Why would he meet you if he was a passport bro? He would be out of the country looking for non black women ya liar

[@Bri-nc8yp]

@@BillionaireMusk Black men have reading comprehension and you proved it...she never said he made six figures (how can she confirm this she was talking with a stranger) she said he CLAIMED to make six figures but how he was presenting himself she doubts it. Just like how most BM in the comments section claim they are all alpha males and multi-millionares living their best lives with instagram baddies but they stay in the comments section all day arguing with women.

[@jamesmanter8731]

Could it be he was a rich man who could care less what your opinion or interaction because he thought of you as a very low value American woman?

[@biboebbs624]

@@jamesmanter8731autism

[@Thatdentalgurl]

Listening to men like this makes me wanna go “Mhm…and Is the angry jealous non-submissive black woman in the room with us right now?” Lol

[@larrisaporee1301]

@13:31 : “These are not that”…🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are so adorable! 💚💚💚💚

[@MelbourneMaster]

Getting a wife from a poor country only works if you stay there. Bring back a woman from a 3rd world country and she will leave the minute she meets a man that makes more money.

[@Shaylala19937]

Same thing I said. 😂😂😂

[@Heyu7her3]

With what money are they bringing her back?

[@dnycebushton5008]

as she should. Because if he couldve gotten a "better deal($$$)" he would have. He couldve gotten something cuter & younger for less he would have. I root for the women...get your money & your papers!!!

[@MelbourneMaster]

Its a dangerous trend no doubt. America is already one of the most feminized countries on earth. If it gets any worse it will become mainstream for men to leave the US in search of feminine, traditional, submissive women to start a family with. Society will crumble without men to run all the jobs that maintain the country's infastructure. But like all things it will have to hit rock bottom before it gets better.

[@grav9992]

Just shows you know very very little about the world and these men. People don't want to come to Amerikkka who live in better countries with their own FAMILIES. Secondly, you women don't even know what a 3rd world country is, so that makes you women sound even more stupid and uninformed. The world is bigger than Amerikkka and everyone doesn't want to come here to experience these cops and random shootings that won't stop happening

[@costella43]

Ugh I just love your breakdown of everything in this video. I have come across men in these circles and trying to discuss the nuance and root causes of this ideology to them is worse than pulling teeth. I’m glad I stay out of men’s business because I don’t see that content often. But once the black men who identify with these (and other) harmful ideologies just admit that they hate black women, then maybe more meaningful conversations can happen. Until then black women will always be blamed in our community.

[@ljackson24]

Yesssss!!! Like, just admit it. Smh

[@blackseed9293]

I married a woman from West Aftica, probably much darker than the average Black American woman. So there's your argument. There are also far more BW abroad than in the states.

[@dorothyjean9530]

Yes to New York! I'm actually here visiting from Houston.

[@MyTruth1771]

This is called "say anything to discredit the competition."

[@atrail3832]

We don't care! The universe will deal with them. They don't represent us. We are our best representation of who we are. And we are REPRESENTING!!!!! You are so well spoken and beautiful.

[@shagans6701]

ISAIAH 4:1 And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear [and provide] our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame [of being unmarried].”

[@td-es5bi]

Oooweee passport bros GOT YALL SHOOK!!!!!!

[@semplybalanced3210]

This is so odd to me bc none of this is about relationships, marriage etc… it’s about black men committing sex crimes. And we shouldn’t down play it as “tricking”. This is super serious stuff and idk why black women content creators aren’t treating it as such. This isn’t about “I’m not jealous, they’re undesirable men, those poor women can have them”. These are serious crimes of predators preying on vulnerable women & promoting sexual tourism to more degenerate black American men, putting these women in danger, who are most likely underage. This is horrifying.

[@icelugedoctor]

What crimes?

[@anthonynelson4015]

There is no undesirable men just undesirable women 😂😅😅😂

[@blackliongirl2402]

Excellent content, Kimberly!

[@weirdwesteros1109]

Just wanted to take a second to say how amazing you look!! Absolutely killin it!! ❤

[@ForHarriet619]

Thank you so much!!

[@brotherNegus]

LMAO

[@Kiki32131]

Yassssss meet up, lunch, dinner, Im there!!!

[@kikibrown9548]

My attitude is “do you, boo!” We’ll see how this all plays out 10-20 years from now. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@moneylineparlay105]

Happiness, with sons we are able to raise, no parental alienation by the evil united States government and a legacy that the West can't destroy.

[@lifeisfunny6486]

@@moneylineparlay105 so why are you on an American womans comment section move on you weed yourself out of any meaningful conversation. Go raise those sons but I'll be sorry for him when he realize what being a child from a black man really mean. Wherever you go there you are

[@delle3955]

Their "movement" is going to age like milk!🍼

[@moneylineparlay105]

@@delle3955 lol, keep wishing.

[@dnycebushton5008]

Child support & alimony for everybody!!! Go Girls...get all the $$$!

[@kentara_excelsior]

Yes. Come to NYC. I’m free after 5:30! We can to to Buddha Bar, Buddakan, STK Midtown, Times Square Edition (near Broadway, next to your play).

[@niratomas579]

I was literally at Buddakan this past weekend!!! Great food!

[@geewhiz747]

Great places, but I try to avoid Times Square like the plague

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

Passport Bros are so gullible. Thet really think African women are submissive and affordable to maintain?! As an African woman, we can't wait to pluck out their wallets with our families. They complain about American women being gold diggers while being ignorant of the monetary and lengthy process of acquiring an African/Arab bride. Lmao!

[@moneylineparlay105]

So why Africa so poor lol

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

@@moneylineparlay105 Not poor. Poorly managed. You tried it.

[@d.o.s.2394]

It’s the “Leftover blk men” fa me! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MickiMontana]

This has been probably one of my favorite videos from you. Keep up the good work.

[@s.vernon5118]

Passport bro's are finding happiness with women that appreciate them. Kudos..

[@ladybug3380]

We’re very happy for you guys!

[@brooklyndecember]

Yea. Because like Kim said, wtf business of mine someone stuck in a developing nation looking for a way out has to do with me? We have very lives.

[@gregoriopassport]

These backhanded comments are the best...lol

[@ladybug3380]

@@gregoriopassport how are they backhanded? I personally encourage men to find happiness, as long as it’s not hurting anyone else. If a group of men aren’t happy with women in their country then they should look elsewhere.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Nah they appreciate that future green card.

[@lianagerhardt]

The crazy part is these men just broadly assume things about vastly different cultures. Mexican woman isn’t the same as an Argentinan woman even though they both speak Spanish. Flocking to Latin America with NO REGARD for the culture that exists there is sick! Especially if they don’t even attempt to learn the language at the very least

[@lianagerhardt]

Also I don’t think many black men understand the anti-blackness that exists in other countries. Yes you may be able to get the traditional girlfriend who does domestic labor in exchange for monetary gain but the family may not allow her to marry you or accept you as one of their own. Again I don’t mind international relationships but do understand the culture you are jumping into

[@gyata7270]

PB's aren't going to just any S.American countries, they go C.America, Africa and Asia, but it's always been standard procedure as black people to do the racist research for overseas trips. A lot of PB videos advise to check too

[@gregoriopassport]

Why all the push back on men traveling to find compatible women?

[@lianagerhardt]

@@michaelputin28 I have traveled to multiple countries lol what are you talking about?

[@lianagerhardt]

@@gregoriopassport there’s nothing wrong with it as long as you’re not going in blind. PBs don’t seem genuinely interested in the cultures they are trying to marry into that’s my issue with it.

[@diamcole]

Let them go lol these men are not among the type that I would want to engage with or build a life with, not a loss. Blessings and luck to the women who choose them!

[@CornellG]

Hmm, and there goes the irony. Being a passport bro means you’re making a certain amount of money. There has been a large complaint about the lack of black men who can afford marriage and a household. Only 2% of black men under 40 make $100k. So if half of that 2% is going overseas, it affects the community.

[@mif4111]

@@CornellG this is my issue. Money is not all that women want. What these men are describing as a good marriage sounds like misery to me. It’s like master trying to convince me that slavery is better than freedom and then trying to demonize me as if I’m wrong for wanting freedom by showing me all the slaves he can get. It’s not appealing. Some of these BM demonize modern women in the black community with this fantasy of how it use to be in the 50s when that was not black Americans reality. It’s 2023 I’m all about progression which should be the focus especially for black Americans. It’s like these men want to go back to the day we were “strange fruit” instead of worrying about mental health and decreasing the wealth gap. Smh

[@CornellG]

@@mif4111 You say that relationships have progressed but the majority of women still want a man who makes more than her and is a provider and protector. Roles that are old fashion for men. Modern women cannot say they want a old fashion man, yet want an old fashion man not to want an old fashion woman. Those things don’t mix. Money affords men the possibility to afford a household and consider marriage. The problem is there are a handful of modern women who are now older and regret not getting married to a man of means. They’re tired of having to always pay and always work for themselves. Look at the recent Taraji interview. The older you get, the more important family becomes. What type of men can afford marriage and a household, a man of decent means. Hence why money is fundamental to progressing of the family structure.

[@mif4111]

@@CornellG sir that is your perspective. You keep bringing it back to money. Let me give you 2 examples. An clean and a hood one. Ex 1 hood: I use to braid a childhood friend hair every Friday lets just say he was a street pharmacist that had consumers that buy in bulk. His consumers use to make jokes about him because he really didn’t dress like that and nothing was flashy at all about him. His customers however were buying all the new clothes, cars, and living in these nice areas a lot of girls liked them so there is that one type. I thought he just wasn’t materialistic like me. He then dropped a jewel and basically told me to be smart with my money and move silently. This man was stashing and now he owns so much real estate and a great business man. It wasn’t the money that was attractive it was his MENTALITY.

[@mif4111]

@@CornellG EX2 clean: my ex is a 8th grade math teacher and also a football coach. I make way more money than he does. Although we didn’t work out because of other reasons, his choice of career is what was attractive to me and the fact that he decided to make a difference in his community by being a male role model in the inner city. He created a purpose for his life. My income is significantly more than his income so it wasn’t his money it was his MENTALITY. There are so many different types of women in the world and just because you make a lot of money does not mean that is all you need. You can make a lot of money and have a trash mentality with no purpose.

[@yblimited]

They CLEARLY aren't able to compete in the US dating market. So it's their choice to leave. I doubt any of them will be missed 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@grav9992]

Clearly these women aren't able to compete in the US dating market, given the FACT that these women can't land a husband to save their life.

[@moneylineparlay105]

Their productivity to the government and tax dollars to feminism which allows female independence will be missed

[@yblimited]

@@grav9992 Why do you men still think that women care about marriage??? These modern women could care less! You can no longer hold that over their head lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@grav9992]

@@yblimited then you need to tell that to all these women making videos complaining about the state of dating, because clearly they care. Modern women in their 20s might not care, but they will when they hit the wall and the attention dries up

[@zorgnax]

Cesar from 90 Day Fiancé…lol

[@zee-zm1io]

The institutional problem we have is a black community that coddles men. Sure marriage is down across the board, but I think the system of patriarchy that underpins marriage just doesn’t work is societies where the patriarchal power hardly exists. Just my view

[@zerotolerance2026]

I totally agree! Bm want to benefit from being a part of patriarchy, but unlike other races of men have not put in the work to make it work for them. They have been coddled and have an entitled attitude and believe they deserve patriarchal privileges- not for building, protecting or providing- but simply because they were born male. That’s never going to happen. Now they are throwing tantrums and threatening to run away like a bunch over grown children. I find it quite comical😂😂

[@sami.1983]

Yup, patriarchy depends on power and power depends on money. If men can't compete in the money arena, there's no patriarchy for men

[@shagans6701]

Then you woman have full power to control that , men don't coddle other men, who's the majority head of household in the black communities? I mean this stuff is pure mathematics and has to be dealt with in a mathematical way. Encourage your sisters to keep their sacredness closed until the proper time, other than that it's just the kettle continue to call out the pot, god is not going to pick and choose, these brothers speaking out after decades of you woman not checking the media and many other things like welfare crutch, dominant society propping up black woman artificially over their male counterpart, this is just warning before complete destruction cometh, do you seriously think brad and Becky has a place in their world besides a Sally hemming role?

[@andreyamatthew2035]

So glad I caught a live!

[@lorenkmp]

Wow this was spot on.

[@tresvegan3633]

People are just not okay anywhere. It’s sickening to see this type of injustice around the world and like Kim said have the nerve to dump all these hate ideologies onto our backs before letting the door hit them in they ass on the way out 🤦🏽‍♀️ just sick 😠😡🙄

[@grav9992]

So, in your mind, black women are all good and anything that's said about them by these men is a lie???? Only bw think they're perfect and beyond reproach, that's why they're the least married but lead the league in baby mama life

[@AlexaGoldSoul]

Honestly, all of this stuff is incredibly confusing/hypocritical to me because on the one hand, these men claim they don’t want gold diggers but they don’t want hardworking independent women either - however, they’ll spend their money and resources on a non-American woman believing that she truly loves him for his soul and not his ability to provide. It’s all exchange of goods - I’ll praise you and pay you for your ability to be the wife I desire while I’ll disparage American women for the same thing…my question is, what happens when these women suddenly decide they don’t want to be “the damsel in distress” anymore?! If these women are suddenly uprooted to a country with more opportunities, I would assume that some may even desire a life outside of wife and stay at home Mom. I wonder how these men would react to that…

[@niratomas579]

The fact of the matter is these women play the game strategically! The internet is worldwide! They are aware of the transactional aspect of the relationship! They act meager then get their green card and keep it moving!

[@Shaylala19937]

If they bring those mail order brides back to the US, that woman will be gone in 6-18 months. I’ve watched it happen with male associates over and over and over again. These dudes just won’t learn 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Kmama801]

Pls stop paying attention to people that anger you. Live your life. Focus on positivity. Try to make things better for yourself

[@endl1234]

I'm Haitian and this ain't new, just wait 3-5 yrs after they get their green card and see if there's still bliss in that marriage. This is marriage for paper, then she will leave for someone better. He will be so blind sided when he realize he's been her most successful scam.

[@niesta8843]

You mean vice versa

[@nonapplicable3055]

Yeah, we aren't bringing them back. That takes away significant leverage. You go to a place and you stay there. If one messes up. Then you find another. Pretty simple

[@leilabarry1831]

1:12:44 I was thinking the same thing about the neurodivergent thing, I have ADHD and autism and I see it

[@Heyu7her3]

I have ADHD and I refuse to see it. Mainly because this would mean that 99%of Black American men are neurodivergent, and also because neurodivergent people care about equity and they don't.

[@glass_slipper9149]

KIM I LOVE YOU😂❤❤❤ not only do you keep me engaged, but you make me laugh and make me think. i love seeing your videos pop up. i’m a fannie lou patreon supporter and will continue. you deserve all the things✨

[@Blahgirl283]

It’s not just seeking women who are “more submissive,” eesh but it really is just seeking women who are poor. And have less options for upward social mobility in their countries of origin.

[@Shaylala19937]

Facts

[@ERoss338]

See here’s the thing. Life is about leverage. You just prefer the women to have the leverage. So be honest and say it

[@Heyu7her3]

Poor is submission

[@Nashaytrowerauthor]

1:13:15 that part about them being neurodiverse is definitely something to look at 👀 (for someone else cause like you said it ain’t my ministry either 😂) but RSD is common for neurodiverse people. Taking rejection REALLY hard and hyper fixating on that, stewing in it. It’s an avenue of conversation for sure.

[@dudeeveryone391]

Tbh also the black and white structural thinking of men vs women and very specific gender roles and becoming irrationally angry at people that don’t perfectly align with them.

[@Heyu7her3]

They're not neurodivergent. They're toddlers in suits. Neurodivergent people (I am one) typically value equity and morality.

[@dudeeveryone391]

@@Heyu7her3 I’m also neurodivergent and I (unfortunately) know a ton of other neurodivergent people who are extremely misogynistic/racist/homophobic. Just slip into your average magic the gathering play space and you can meet a ton. I’ve known several that way and the rest I know are my coworkers in IT. That’s really an extreme generalization to make. Neurodivergence has nothing to do with your personal moral beliefs and does not magically make you a better person. It does tend to cause people to have extremely strong beliefs and ethics, but in no way means they are going to be “good” ones.

[@Jstmaree_]

They definitely just want their egos stroked. Cause the second those women get over here and get the citizenship they want and they disappear and leave them with babies they gone be looking crazy😭

[@lallableutri1580]

🕵 wow did not think that Kimberly would ever discuss the manosphere

[@cassyj17]

Ive heard someone say a marriage license is really just a work contract for women 🤐 and its stuck with me ever since

[@dkt4377]

Marriage is work and full of responsibility for both husbands and wives.

[@immortan-valkyrie90]

As a white Cuban living in Miami, fam they can save their money and just get on Spirit here or to Orlando; plenty of Caribbean women whether they're from DR, Haiti, Cuba, etc. Yall don't need a passport, just $90 and wait on stand-by at the airport lol Jokes aside, Kimberly makes an excellent point about not chasing after these dudes, they're not worth it. Marriage / kids is on the decline because of economic reasons NOT because of 'feminism' or whatever.