FULL GIRL CHAT: January 28, 2020

Today, we are chatting about Selena Gomez opening up about her emotional abuse, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, and PSAs during the big game.

[@90Outside]

Tamera the reason I first started watching because she’s my sister sister.

[@tamerilee]

😞😞

[@DanielleAlessandra]

She go bye bye

[@alisonsophie1570]

Didn’t realise she was leaving ‘til I read this 😞 she was the reason I started watching too

[@sen-cher]

Me too but then I discovered and stayed for Jeannie

[@Shad106_]

That's why she was paid the most intentionally. Tia is why I started watching the game

[@BATOOLESK]

i love amanda and jeannie 's energy together , they are definitely the most woke at the table

[@shakirahgraham39]

I agree those the only 2 that makes since and get straight to the point

[@heyblacksone]

Lol being woke is wack

[@kcirdetal9697]

@@heyblacksone yea we know why you would say that

[@heyblacksone]

@@kcirdetal9697 why....

[@johanash2010]

I cried knowing Tamera is leaving. The show will NEVER be the same. My heart is sad just thinking about it again 😢

[@tamerilee]

She’s truly one of a kind 😞 it’s hard to find someone like her in that industry. I’ll always miss her

[@fj5072]

Wait where did you get this news?

[@johanash2010]

Fizza Jafri she posted it on her instagram

[@fj5072]

Johanash Garcia the real is going to be so weird not having the religious, pure innocence, love for her husband, kind, and a very different view point that Tamera has than most people.

[@gaila.9852]

The idea of a couple being “relationship goals” needs to be retired. You never know what they are going through.

[@bf9358]

I personally always felt like their relationship was toxic because they were constantly cheating on each other. Other couples can be relationship goals, they just weren't.

[@gaila.9852]

Butterfly Flower Infidelity is just one of the many ways a relationship can be toxic. Making others think everything is fine is easy. My point is that you never know what is going.

[@bf9358]

@@gaila.9852 true

[@indigo_blue_s2830]

Yup. Beyonce and Jay-Z showed me that.

[@Msshashad]

Amanda sipping on her tea when Tamera said Justin is a believer now 😭😭😭😂😂😂

[@conniestyles3435]

Tam will be missed :), but very happy for her that she’s moving to the next chapter in her life ❤️. Good luck gurl 💋

[@yonce2347]

If they replace Tamera, it should be with someone similar to her. Her personality, insight, and values were needed on this show.

[@TheCattleist]

meagan good insight is similar to hers i think shell be fitting she vibed with the other girls the on few visits she had here

[@CloroxBleachCompany]

Hoping they bring on Yvette Nicole Brown and Keke Palmer as co-hosts, I think the chemistry would be great

[@kgomes1126]

Yes KeKe Palmer needs to come on the show especially because Strahan and Sarah was cancelled!

[@yolenskiejules7959]

Yess those are my two picks as well! I rlly hope they don’t cancel the whole show

[@marian95943]

I think Keke Palmer would be amazing

[@uayee5468]

Keke is already a cohost on another daytime talk show so If she joined the real that would create conflict of interest. But I could see her on this show though

[@IrinaGomes0209]

@@uayee5468 what show? didn't know that

[@lovelife610]

to think I wont be seeing tam's beautiful face, or hearing her wisdom and counsel hurts MY HEART. I love TamTam and I am happy for her, it's just a hard adjustment for me. She was like my bff 😭😭

[@krissentiacharlery8154]

"That's terrible. I hate that" JEANIIIEEEEEE you better tell 'em

[@rihannahunt536]

I can't believe Tamera gonna go, first tamar, then Amanda now tam, who's next jeani like omg, this show will never be the same

[@tamerilee]

Yeah idk how they can survive this 😞 They haven’t even posted a statement yet. It depends on us tho to keep them on but they need to think long and hard about which new personalities to bring on and LISTEN to our feedback on them!

[@jackson5643]

Yeah, I love the show but I feel like it's falling down the drain and I hate that

[@LiLmSzDiVa]

Yea it won’t be the same. Tam is my favorite, I always enjoy her opinions on things.

[@jal45100]

The only acceptable replacement for Tamera is Tia but I doubt she'd do it

[@dasiaclendenning9901]

I was just saying the same thing

[@mfonabasiikpeikpe1929]

I think Tamera would feel hurt if her Sister accepted such offer. I know I would feel hurt if my sister made such move

[@jal45100]

@@mfonabasiikpeikpe1929 I respectively disagree, It doesnt seem that there's any bad blood or hard feelings, it seems that Tam was just ready to move on, maybe go back to acting full time, she did say her and Tia are working towards getting Twitches 3 made which I'm SUPER EXICTED ABOUT!!! so yeah It would be kinda awkward but I doubt Tamera would be angry

[@gaila.9852]

Jaleel Dennis I highly doubt that would ever happen. People compare Tia and Tamera enough already.

[@jal45100]

@@gaila.9852 That's why I said I doubt it

[@bakangmlangeni]

Yesss to Adrienne’s stylist, she always does a great job👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 girl knows what she’s doing

[@gaila.9852]

“We were told to speak about it, so let’s speak about it.” Loni is so shady, hahaha.

[@Anas-rx1he]

I feel like we’ve heard about Selena and Justin’s relationship for the past decade. It must’ve been a really bad relationship, sounds like both are still scarred from it.

[@iacobus4227]

I think we’ve been scarred too at this point.

[@tamerilee]

This truly is the end of an era 💔 but Tamera we love and support you on this next chapter of your life. I know it took courage to do it, we can’t wait to see you on another girl chat soon 🤍

[@gaila.9852]

Does anyone else not keep up with the royal family?

[@Anas-rx1he]

The person who comments ‘Tamaga’ on every video must be over the moon that she’s leaving. Hopefully his/her crazy ass obsession ends now

[@h3artands0uLL]

Now they’ll be like Tamexit :/

[@sunnyside1419]

@@h3artands0uLL 😂

[@vivienneavivo]

@Anas Lol! I was thinking the same. Scroll down and you'll see her reply on one of the comments. She is STILL obsessed with Tamera and her husband. 😑

[@sharminbegum5204]

Can someone help me by explaining why she has been labelled as Tamaga? I don’t have social media so don’t really know

[@yenitaylor683]

Did people actually comment that? Wow I never noticed or saw it

[@kennyray4458]

It’s kind of hard to even imagine Tamara not being a part of TheReal because of the positive energy she bring to the Topic Table and we all know that she was there at the beginning

[@sarongebretatios652]

I wish we would’ve known Tam was leaving earlier... I would’ve soaked up every single second she was on my screen 😭

[@mikaylavanderheyde2061]

I was thinking the same but atleast we have KZbin so we can still watch her even though it's sad

[@amethystwolf24572]

I think its important to recognize that when Selena was suffering emotionally, she was also suffering physically with her lupus. She went through something truly exhausting, and it would certainly have impacted her emotional journey as well.

[@UnlikelyAngel14]

Exactly! That all seems mentally draining. Just because he was going through something does not justify him taking it out on Selena. On top with her issues she had to deal with his abuse.

[@person8520]

@@UnlikelyAngel14 she kept going back tho

[@shaynalavon]

Adrienne is like a walking meme lol She quotes a meme on almost every episode. love her, though.

[@j0esum]

i am so heartbroken that tam is leaving the show ☹️ adrienne, jeannie, loni, and tam are my ABSOLUTE fav! i wish the best for her and hope that she visits the show every now and again.

[@adeina777]

I hope that she left for positive reasons. However, Tamar, and Amanda are gone. I'll pray that this THIRD departure is for good reason.

[@mjaydubbleyou]

If ade or jeannie leave. I'm done :( tamar was my fav!!!! Then it was tam! :(

[@Yvp13]

Victoria Ramirez I don’t even think paying them more will even help. A lot of people stopped watching after Tamar left. Now tamera is gone I don’t see this show going on for long

[@trendalecharon7021]

Thank you loni for bringing clarity

[@ruthankrah7191]

The fact that some people think Selena’s statement is so she can sell her records is sooo stupid because every other album that comes out by any other artist has a story behind it so why can’t she have a story behind her album, like that’s the point of it, that’s what made her write her songs. Also she should have her own time as to when she wants to talk about it, it’s not fair for the “guy” to be happy and you go through that moment everyday so it’s always good to talk to someone or talk about it someway and I think her song was perfect.

[@lakishalindsey9106]

I love watching for Tamera and Loni’s dynamic. It’s so rare to find good sister-friends once you hit a certain age and I enjoy witnessing it. I’ll still watch because I’m a fan of Loni’s but Tamera you will be missed! Take good care of your beautiful family ❤️ OAN: I know of a lot of women who are choosing to take a sabbatical of some kind this next year due to the pandemic - if they are able to - so as not to expose their families and potentially home-schooling. I wonder if that may have something to do with it.

[@kd-xp6eg]

Amanda is very smart, I’m going to miss her on the show :(

[@andreabasanta7652]

Why did she leave ?

[@IrinaGomes0209]

@@andreabasanta7652 because she wasn't allowed to speak up for what she believes and defends

[@chelseygarrett4221]

I'm going to miss Tam ♥️

[@kaylarose1491]

I’m so sad Tamera is leaving. She’s the reason I started watching the show. She’s also apart of the reason why I found Jesus again and I began my celibacy journey. I will miss you Tam🥺

[@tamerilee]

Keep on with that journey 🤍🤍 this isn’t the last we’ll see of her I have a feeling she has a lot in the works

[@jenny-yn3lu]

Awww 😍 Tam don’t leave us 😭

[@valeriazgherea]

I’m really happy for Tamera! Can’t wait to see what the next chapter in her life will be. BUT Tamar is gone and now Tamera....the show is coming to an end unfortunately. Tamera was the realist!!! She didn’t mind having her own opinion. Loved that about her

[@zanellemutoko4372]

Urgh. You guys said this when Tamar left. Let's just choose to be optimistic

[@tx_bby]

Really can’t imagine the show without tam :/ she’s my fav..

[@gaila.9852]

Amanda looks fabulous.

[@lori1591]

Y'all the show won't be the same without tam tam. No matter who came and left, those 4 were the constants of the show and it's not gonna feel the same. This was heartbreaking.

[@chantelrobinson1372]

Not that the first topic is good but this was done on my birthday and it’s so sad Tamera is leaving 🥺

[@nnadinemounajed6702]

Noooo not Tam, the real has 4 main girls that I think cannot be replaced, Tamera, Loni Jeannie, and Adrienne. These amazing women remind of the Flossy Posse and are each unique and special. My heart will never be the same :(

[@chrislynnnyasia2631]

yi k. qe

[@preciouslartigue7550]

A LOT OF US have no examples , hints why there are so many divorces...we don't know what a good, healthy, beautiful loving relationship is..

[@runswithmooses87]

i think your talking about your story too much when it becomes what defines you .

[@joselineorellana7568]

What did I miss?!?! Since when is tam leaving ?!

[@ItsMe-yg8vq]

She wrote a statement on Instagram. She wont be on The Real anymore

[@jonigurl]

look on her instagram she basically said she wants to move on :(

[@vanessa-ul7nj]

Adrienne speaking really ignorant about the meghan markle situation

[@Itstaut]

I turned 22 this day lol

[@RiahMunnblock]

We gonna miss you tam 🥺💔 the show gonna be different now 🥺

[@briceidaperez5856]

Now after a year of leaving a friend i realized she emotionally abused me and thats why i overate

[@alessiajoy2906]

Amanda shady with the eye roll at Justin's being a Christian

[@mellisamngomezulu5121]

You ladies are absolutely amazing I’m truly inspired by you guys everyday! I even started my own KZbin talk show because of you guys! Check it out please🙏🏿 and so sad one of you is leaving😢

[@ManiB_4]

Oh wow that is so upsetting

[@greyfullbuster6653]

I don’t think the show can last with just 3 hosts. Adding someone new just makes it weird.

[@ellaa5986]

I agree, they should end the show with just the four of us because it won’t be the same. Someone new would be off...

[@tarawrr20]

Colin K was never sitting around without a job. The social justice warriors found him plenty to do let’s not get it twisted!

[@shaniceramos4128]

What's Tia doing these days?!

[@Rokia2003]

Her anser company and family reunion

[@23Fadu]

I wish people in the USA understood how bad the press is when it comes to Meghan Markle, it’s disgustingggg!

[@krissysmiley4]

What are they doing? I keep hearing about this

[@horton12wright]

Marriage didn't mean he changed, Loni

[@shakirahgraham39]

Tamera was wrong in this because anybody can say they are a believer and go to church but do they actually follow the Lord? And is his music right? He could just be saying that for more fans or likes have Justin really changed.

[@denisemachado8353]

I’m so sad about Tamera leaving. 😭 I would’ve preferred it be loni instead but that’s just me.

[@henrycamargo2674]

Hello from Panamá🎊🎊🎊

[@SarahsDalyLife]

As a true fan I can say... The Real is cancelled. Tamera and she was the realll reason most people watched initially because Loni and Jeannie were unknown to most. Adrienne was a pull yes but she is no Sister Sister. Tamera was the heart and of that table through and through being graceful, humble, modest and sticking to her beliefs. THE SHOW WAS TAMERA. Either get new hosts all together with greater diversity or cancel it before they have to run you off TV...

[@Rokia2003]

Yesss I'm gonna miss her

[@sorayae7415]

Don't you think they should consider moving to a location that would work for everyone?

[@diariesofagrowingcaramelqu6665]

C. I. A. R. A will be a great option to come on she has a good backstory with Russell and her kids

[@periwinklebell3964]

what does jamal the intern mean?🤔🤔

[@MsMak03]

sharie kombati It’s Loni’s phrase for saying every work place should have a black person /person of colour working there to sensitive and conscientise people to inappropriate

[@periwinklebell3964]

@@MsMak03 oh i see thankyou for explaining it ....iam melanesia so i did not understand but thanks to you now i know😄

[@gaila.9852]

People need to stop hoping that Justin and Selena will find their way back to each other. That relationship is over. Let it go.

[@carlaborens4004]

NFL, apologize to Colin Kaepernick and ask him how you can help then go from there! Is your turn to submit!

[@mairamenezes5883]

I loveee Amanda

[@xiahnewright3823]

Outfit are 💯

[@ms_ga_cali1613]

The REAL....is always on some superficial shyt!!!!

[@akbarsalim439]

I liked Tamera, but I'm glad she's leaving. The network can now take her $3 million paycheck to pay the girls who carry the show, Adrienne and Jeannie, and give what's left to 2 new girls who won't be afraid to have controversial opinions and can actually contribute to a discussion instead of saying "ahh gaht too keeyeds!", "I'm confused", and "Why are you asking mee??".

[@babygirl4949]

I. Agree. Lol. I think she’s a fun and sweet person but doesn’t really add much to the show nowadays. Her experience is so limited.

[@ellaa5986]

@Jasmine H I agree she’s a pretty nice person but her advice is sorta generic and repetitive

[@gettintipsy101]

You forgot “I have a question” lmao

[@jeromebaxter2987]

1:51

[@srr_3489]

She’s gone.

[@Michelle-ss8km]

So It’s just gonna be jeannie, ade and loni?

[@rohidnablayy6060]

Michelle yes, it’s gonna be so weird without having Tam

[@gaila.9852]

Happy birthday, Loni! instagram.com/tv/CCiSIN6pgMh/?igshid=1banhwayhpc7

[@xiahnewright3823]

Is Tam leaving the real

[@08angelluver]

Yea she confirmed it on instagram.

[@Mamobo96]

Was Justin’s demon pizzagate?

[@trendalecharon7021]

Jeannie need to stop how can u sit up here and say everyone has the right to tell there story . Then say he can't

[@mrspmg13r]

Can we get another Latina

[@jp3887]

This show along with this topic is useless. This issue with Selena is still going on??? Nah, she clearly needs attention. OR she can’t get over the fact that she ain’t the one Justin chose. Hahaha this show is starting to go down hill.

[@ellaa5986]

I agree that the show is going downhill... the new topics are kinda repetitive and generic

[@bremarcle2729]

This show is sending men to MGTOW

[@mawandenxumalo6538]

I can't Jeannie talks to much, the one person i was watching for is gone now there is no need to watch the show can't watch jeannie flapping her lip( litrally skip every tym she talks she talks to damn long)