GARLIC BUTTER MUSSELS AND SHRIMP - SEAFOOD BOIL - Lesson Learned!!!

[@YankeesGirl1022]

Another great video, Nina. Always love when you share your pearls of wisdom! Hope all is well!!

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

Thank you so much!

[@tdionne595]

"THE BASIC RULES OF LIFE".....Nina, my son's going thru a situation with his wife, ex-wife & I literally just told him a few hours ago, "WHEN SOME1 SHOWS U WHO THEY ARE THE 1ST TIME.... BELIEVE THEM!!!!!" It can save us so much extra hurt & heartache!! I've been watching u 4 Years & you've given me so many gems 2 live by!

[@dianmadrid2304]

Hi Nina, thanks for sharing another vedio,just love all your vedios and can't get enough of it.sending Love form Belize.🇧🇿

[@mizueeats5415]

Garlic butter mussels and shrimp🦐 Mmmm that looks absolutely fantastic

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

Thank you!!!

[@MDrod2011]

Your video came just when I needed it, I needed to hear this. Thank you, Nina! ❤

[@CassieIanniello]

Helping people struggling with bags or opening the door for someone is just good manners and being polite..... putting your heart and soul and time into someone is different ... You have a Good heart Nina ... but there is a difference xo

[@rgsaldana]

What a great video. Just what I needed to hear! 🫶🏼💫

[@stefanietrimiar9565]

WOW! You go Nina💋 That's a million and one! You got that girl!✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@jenmyl05]

Wow Nina this is one of the best videos you've posted in my view!! I really love how educational and relatable it is.. especially once you started mentioning animals, I had to immediately like! 🙏🏽❤️ Beautiful message...keep them coming! I live for these talks

[@SUGAR-1128]

THE BASIC RULES OF LIFE! REAL TALK QUEEN NINA. 😘🥰😍🫶❤️🫶😍🥰😘

[@Somethin_hazel]

“Basic Rules of Life” 💯✨❤️✨

[@yessizam35]

Hola 💋 thank you for you chats and advice honestly 🌟 😊

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

I think we always needed to be loved, cared for, nurtured, understood and since we were not given this.... we then nurture others asap because we know how it feels to struggle!!!!! I have that toooooooooooo

[@marshahislop280]

I can feel people's energy . I always get strangers telling me their life story !!!!! Most times I have to excuse myself and walk away 😊

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

Great idea!! ❤

[@Tenebarum]

Isn't that creepy? I used to do telephonic case management and had to leave because my clients told me so much of their lives. I liked them but it was exhausting.

[@JTKITJA]

It’s because you’re a good person. You can walk away from toxic people & situations and still be the innately good person you are. Being kind exerts less energy. Let’s keep chatting girl! Your advice is inspiring!

[@joannaazar7396]

Aww HUNTER IS Adorable 🥰

[@lexifer123]

I love how candid this video was thank you so much for your life lessons ⭐

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

You are so welcome!

[@ritalyn3296]

You have to have people in your life Nina but you have to set boundaries not rules, BOUNDARIES!

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

💯👍🏻👍🏾👍🏽💋

[@Cybrcowgirl]

Nina, you're a beautiful soul. For you to know deep down in your soul that you don't want to take away that family you know your ex can create for himself is such great karma for you. Some women would take advantage and be extremely evil and petty and latch on like a mosquito to men like your ex but not you. So much respect for your words & thoughts and high vibes. As a Hispanic, that's rare. We're out here trying our best. I resonate so much with your way of living/thinking. I just went through a horrible situation where my mother basically stole my aunts husband, and I had to cut her off because I knew it wasn't right. Everyone in my family tells me to "have her back" because she's your mother, but no! I do what's only right! So I also learned through heartbreak and tears I can't help everyone, and it's okay to cut people off. In my case, sadly, family. But I think I will be okay. Sending you so much love, Nina! Keep up the great work!

[@cobaltpetals5476]

🌟thank you for sharing this message. I'm in the same stage of life, working on myself, being with myself, and not wanting to date. I agree also...the let down is too real. I appreciate you sharing your journey. 💖

[@mimimadison69]

Preach it nena. Your family dynamic is the same as mine that's why I don't let anyone mess with my serenity. I love my peace and quiet. 🤩

[@KimberlyShedlock]

Wow wow wow . Yessss

[@danajawaheri5778]

Omg!!! Nina!!!! It is as if this topic was speaking to me!!! You were literally speaking to me! Im always somewhere some how finding me a ‘project’ broken people, unhappy people and trying to fix their situation, advice etc. and at the very end i get the shit end of the stick. I have lost many many many people around me because of being an empath, and once they get what they want im left feeling fucked up!!!! At what cost though? Perfect question i will have and will continue to ask myself and hopefully find the answers👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💜💜💜

[@T3361t]

I was the same! Always wanting to fix other people's situation. But you know why we do that right? It makes us happy and fulfilled to help broken people, but in reality we are avoiding doing work on ourselves, or there's something in our lives we are avoiding. In order to feel fulfilled we take on others problems. I'm an empath through and through and its SO exhausting.

[@T3361t]

My advice is keep doing what you do. Even if they get what they want and leave. You just be the beautiful person you are and one day it will all come back 3 fold.

[@xotica111]

Nina for the win I want everything you dream and wish for come true mama ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you’re such a beautiful soul

[@jeanettepelletier1402]

Gurl I always come and check on you and this video I’m so proud of your growth! You’ve come along way it’s good to see your smiling ☺️ and in a good place good for you …💪🫶🏼❤️☮️💯

[@kathyquartel773]

Life IS what you make it, our attitudes play a very big part as well.

[@MomsBusiness74]

Testimony to greatness 🙌🏾 🙏🏾 ✨️ 👏🏽

[@cornelia7504]

Great video!!!! Keep it up Ninaaaaa❤️❤️❤️❤️💪💪💪💪💪

[@sbrightpink]

As women we are hard wired to want to nurture and care for people… As a mother you were robbed of being able to take care of your son and help him grow …. You’ve been trying to fill that void unconsciously by helping people who didn’t deserve it… it’s never a bad thing to have a good heart but it sucks when people take advantage of that or didn’t accept the help that was given❤

[@melissaveillette9922]

I love videos like this girl ! They’re my favorite 💋 💋 💋

[@abbyechevarria5322]

Thank you for sharing your video, I really enjoyed it👍😊

[@theblahblahreport1743]

9/5/78 virgo here....I struggle with the same thing....I "need" to be of service, and often times at my own expense. almost like I have to be a martyr. it is a gift and a curse because kindness is hard to find in the world, but self sacrifice isn't always the best route.

[@marieladiazO]

10:13 I’m the same exact way Nina. And yes with the words we have to be carful how we say things every day we learn something new from our words. Also I’m happy I’m listening to this video idk if I’ll be able to finish it I’ll be back , but I’m happy you made this -- I needed a little push to stop doing this.

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

I understand!!!!! Completely!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@KimberlyShedlock]

Wow you’re totally speaking my words .

[@justin821]

I heard somewhere, that CATS are Blessing they got some magic to connect positive ways 😊 so everyone love ur cats and take care well.

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

Yummy!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@DeniseHaenze]

Some people say they r inspiring but really they r just making themselves feel better and sometimes I don’t think think they know what they r doing.

[@erikafregoso3444]

AMEN!!!! It’s 2024 like you say .. but that seafood 🥰 I need a boil now lol much love ❤ love your videos

[@jojodawson]

Hey, sis, you're the bomb 💣 the food always looks delicious 😋 much 💕💕💋💋

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

Your not crazy!!!!! I feel the ENERGY TOO!!!!!!!! QUICK!!!!!!

[@erykaho6271]

I'm exactly the same way Nina, and I myself don't even have it all together and I always want to see others around me elevate and win, but they take it as I think I know everything or they think I'm better than an that's so far from the case. I had to realize helping others and giving constantly was draining me especially when those same actions weren't being poured back into my cup.

[@floresapril7]

Once you Truly Love yourself you won't ever accept any lesser love from anyone else.

[@latoyagivens8634]

Hey Nina❤. Im the same way. Its difficult, but I am learning to meet people where they at..Its best for MY mental health. You are not crazy!!! I think cuz Im a leo/virgo..im naturally a giver so I think thats why were like this.

[@MsIndigoVision]

Ninaaa this is literally my favorite meal 🥘 😅

[@MIT80smaria]

Babe, there’s a difference in feeling the need to help people fix their life and be better or a better version of themselves if they don’t want it, and helping someone that’s struggling by opening a door or carrying something for them. Although both might be unwarranted, one is almost always taken the wrong way and not always appreciated for what it is and the other is just being a compassionate human being. You’re right that it’s not your job to help people that don’t want to be helped and that applies in both situations. Put your energy into people and things that are going to reciprocate that same energy and not just drain all of yours.

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

I don't have family either we're estranged.... wish you were my sister!!!! Your awesome and strong!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@tiffanymoore7849]

I feel you on that

[@leegonzalez8290]

Love the real talk Nina⭐💋💋💋💋

[@cowgirll8117]

Your food looks delicious Nina

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

Thank you!!!!

[@janeenwilson7513]

Hey girl, I wanna bless you and your family and your girl you did that hamburger mug bang I like when you get your drink on girl you talk that shit and you be so real I’ll be feeling it I want to sit down and have a drink with you and listen to it but I couldn’t I was at work but I want you to know that I appreciate you keep up the good work and I’ve been rocking with you for a minute so smooches have a blessed one that’s why don’t you ever let no one ain’t no one gonna make you tear you down you got it. Keep doing what you’re doing. Smooches.

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

It's a gift from God!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@AliceBenn-r2b]

I'm a new subscriber and I love your videos.....I love your energy. I'm on a new path too and I truly feel what you're saying. We aren't responsible other's happiness!!!! Yesssss.... I'm a Virgo too and our intuition is off the charts!!!!! I feel you 100 %!!!❤

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

Thanks for subbing!❤️

[@roseleepastrana4020]

⭐️

[@sbrightpink]

You want to help and rescue people…. Because YOU NEVER HAD anyone there to rescue and help you!❤ But….. it’s time to put YOU FIRST❤

[@marshahislop280]

I always want to help people . That's is also my downfall . I'm concentrating on myself this year and let people sort out their own stuff ..... ❤ you Nina always inspired !! ❤❤

[@Camiboo]

Love you Nina! Will you do some vids on dating advice and keepin it real? Miss your raw talks!! 🖤💋

[@Kavine]

FACTS!!!❤

[@wandalopez3149]

Nina estas despertando a la Vida.

[@cowgirll8117]

I’m praying 🙏🏾 for you Nina

[@ritalyn3296]

The spirit of timidity has gone from you and you now have embraced BOLDNESS❤

[@sandrasigala1378]

Hi Nina ⭐️⭐️

[@Sammieluj]

My friend( pisces) and Me ( Virgo) are always who people go too when they are “ broken” or a “ project”. We used call ourselves the caretakers. Because we did just that. Even to this day we do. All the homeless people near my work will come up to me and just talk to me and tell me their life story and ask for advice and help. And then they stick around me. They always come around and ONLY ON MY SHIFT. which kinda creeps me out but I can sense they aren’t “ bad” people or mean violent. I was actually able to get 6 of those homeless people jobs at my store. And they are doing so great. ON THEIR OWN. Now I can be happy for where they are at in life. Because it’s going so good for them.

[@colleenhocking9022]

loyal ! i love them

[@Embracingallofme]

I'm the same way, always wanna fix everything and go out my way to please everyone before me, been that way since I was a kid!! Now I'm finally saying no, it's time to put me first. You're definitely not the only person who feels this!!!

[@joe34096]

15:05 she’s shining, you did it!!!

[@boomitch6132]

You’re right tho. Being an empathetic person really makes you wanna reach your hand to anyone who is struggling however, those people who doesn’t want to do what you’re advising on them, I think they just wanted someone to listen to their problems. They know what to do, sometimes they just don’t know where to start or it is overwhelming for them all those thought process. They want to vent their problems to someone who actually they trust not to find solutions but to just let out some steam.

[@Lisa-e8m8u]

LOL hunter owns the shows girl lol gosh hes so damn cute. I get where you are coming from. Heres my take on it. I have noticed that not everybody wants advice and just wants to complain . I have been dealing with 2 people..my god ....EVERYDAY at their job they whine and complain. Other day I said- not one good day ever? I mean if you are having bad days everyday, maybe you should change your job. Problem is one of them likes the money but they are burnt out,stressed and whatever else. I will listen to it for about 10 minutes and then I need to jet. Heres the other thing too, when you start to elevate your frequency, I have noticed that people get annoyed and people start falling away. Thats what I have been experiencing during this shift. This past lunar eclipse really did something to my energy. Its like a flip of a coin...its really weird. The day after the eclipse, I kid you not less than 15 minutes before I went to the beach by myself just for a self care day....people were flipping out, yelling at people etc. I tell you, I was in such a good mood. I am sure Nina you have experienced some of your own shifts during eclipse? I mean you are a person who is very in tune with your frequency. Im curious...did you feel anything during this years eclipse? Sending you nothing but light and love.

[@marieladiazO]

Idk if it’s just a Virgo thing I’m a Taurus and I do this as well. And people connect with me very easily too.

[@wendyeats37]

I needed to hear this today my love thank you for the good word!!!

[@KimberlyShedlock]

🌟

[@user-gn7in7tp4b]

💫💫💫 watched all the way thu❤ btw do you pay rent for the atl and the vegas crib?

[@louniece1650]

It's so heartfelt to see your fur babies weren't kicked to the curb, completely. 🥹 Look at beautiful Hunter!❤

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

Yes, thank you!

[@ritalyn3296]

No, no Nina don't insert yourself in people's life unless they ask for your help. Some people may touch on their struggle but you have to be very careful how you give advice, always be mindful of when enough is enough, so just say, "I just want you to be happy " and Smile. So you can't go to the other end of the spectrum and say "I don't care, it's not my problem" because now you're being selfish and self-centred!❤

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

💯

[@joe34096]

49:30. Wisdom ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

[@justavanessaguerra9865]

11:54 gurl you ain't crazy. I know exactly what you are talking. You can read the room with people's vibes. We are like sponges we can absorb each other's energy. Good for you on distancing yourself from negative vibes. That is OK. Remember that saying, you are your own problem but you are also your own solution. Is up to us individually to save ourselves, to change, to grow.😊 I get it.

[@rachelkavanagh8608]

I get what ya saying about family I totally agree I haven't seen or spoke to mine in 9 years and my mental health has been the best ever as my family are so toxic the best thing I did was walk and do me

[@MiaLunaaaaa]

I'm a Virgo and I can 100% agree that we are intuitive by nature, sensitive to energy and extremely empathic. I am alo extremely sensitive but look very intimidating I guess. Unfortunately, my experiences have been that men are either intimidated by me or misunderstand me because of those traits and women are offended by those same traits and wind up wanting to compete with me. I am extremely kind, loving and giving, but that intuitive part of me has to learn to just let others be. As much as I want to protect them, I have to know my place and let it be. It's sad because I have to turn off this part of me and all I want is a good long lasting friendship. We are the perfect candidate for other to take advantage of! I feel you mama... I really do! YAH Bless!!

[@tiffanymoore7849]

I’m a Leo I can read ppl and feel energy even when I don’t want to

[@mariahveras7415]

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[@ShardayGworl]

Heyyy Nina ❤❤❤❤

[@PinkGlam111]

Amazing videos ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@justin821]

Your seafood video ❤ loving more....

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

It's hard, being alone, of course God is my source but aside of God I'm by myself. ❤❤❤❤

[@BS-bp8oc]

I have no words, I feel like we are in the same room as many of your beautiful friends on this channel 💖. You are not close to crazy! Call me pre menapase Brandy lol

[@PlatinumKookie]

⭐ ✨

[@Raiderette74]

⭐️🌟

[@luv_leena]

⭐️ 🙏🏽

[@ReginaRoberts8418]

⭐! Great advice! 💯!!!

[@Ana_Michelle3]

🌟

[@NINAUNRATEDEATS]

💋

[@Myracastilloo]

9:00 i get what youre trying to say, you struggle with letting people figure out their own battles on their own, you feel obligated to help them even though you know you shouldn’t or dont have to

[@poppopps]

The basic rules of life😊

[@sbrightpink]

⭐️ 😊

[@eatpraylovetube2146]

I get hurt too!!! They receive it as negative 😢😢😢😢😢

[@elainewhite7176]

🌟⭐⭐⭐🌟⭐🌟Nina I agree with everything you said cause I'm A empath also and I'm done trying to fix people the focus is on me alone.I love you keep doing you you are beautiful

[@tanyagrey1134]

🎉

[@rebeccaveal7670]

Ty Neena 💞💋💋💋💫

[@brianna1350]

Welcome back to the A!

[@jeanettepelletier1402]

It’s a trauma response I feel like that too but it’s not our responsibility. People have to learn their own trials and tribulations… it’s sad 😞 when it’s the ones who you love dearly.. and you want them to feel their worth!! I completely get it.. it’s because you’re an empathetic person.❤

[@sbrightpink]

I decided to not being around anyone I have to have boundaries with… because no one has to put boundaries up for me not to cross so I refuse to have people in my life that need them in regards to how the treat me!