The Ultimate Advice For Every 20 Year Old

EVERY SECOND YOU SPEND THINKING ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE ELSE HAS, IT IS TAKING AWAY FROM TIME THAT YOU CAN CREATE SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF. SPEND THAT ENERGY ON YOUR VISIONS AND EXECUTE.
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Gary Vaynerchuk is a serial entrepreneur and the CEO and founder of VaynerMedia, a full-service digital agency servicing Fortune 500 clients across the company’s 5 locations. Gary is also a prolific public speaker, venture capitalist, 4-time New York Times Bestselling Author, and has been named to both Crain’s and Fortune’s 40 Under 40 lists.
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[@lethaihien12345]

we should all thank Taylor for taking all the insults for us, while we only take the good advices.

[@MeghanmarinePrior]

Oh my god I was thinking the exact thing the whole time!!!!!!!!

[@mainethang7531]

Lê Thái Hiển I swear😟😟

[@Rama_Mwaguya-254.]

So true

[@Michael-go9hm]

Haha😀😂 yep!

[@damavara8773]

I agree with you.

[@ninabielawski1277]

I'm 24 and I feel like Taylor is speaking all of my insecurities, worries, and fears of being at this age. This is exactly what I needed to hear

[@Vanessa-nr4pn]

Same I appreciate this video sm

[@80milekyle70]

make yourself happy by having small wins

[@tharpeaddy]

Count me in on this too

[@RandyEscalanteGarcia]

Same boat girl 🎯🎯

[@kiks399]

Guess we're not alone in this one

[@firefighter3600]

My notes: 1. Micro speed, macro patience 2. Play the long-term, no fast cash blitz 3. Work extremely hard on only one thing 4. Don't keep your head on the goal, but on the process. Don't mind what they say. 5. Work work work. No daydreams, no Instragram, no bullshit. I spend more time playing in a weekend than Gary V spent his entire 20s having fun. 6. Compare yourself only to yourself. Don't care about other people's early successes. They have the rich parents DLC, chase the fast cash --- totally irrelevant to you. Everyone else is irrelevant. 7. Do not flex. You can't trick, bullshit the winners. You can only trick the losers. No winner thinks you're winning. The winners will smoke you out of your bullshit.

[@sovanbiswal7417]

Thank you bro

[@biazon9058]

awsome

[@domo_willson]

Salamat idol

[@pratyaya4032]

Thanks

[@ichbinkang]

Terima kasih bro

[@anthonygold6583]

When you stop learning , you get left behind . Never stop educating yourself

[@anthonygold6583]

Being successful don’t happen by magic Success is dependent on the action or steps you take to achieve it. Show me a man who doesn't have an investment and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke Investment is building a safe haven for the future: with the right choice of investment that has at least 1% minimum risk and with an Expert guidance, profit and interest should be 💯 guaranteed.

[@daothai5056]

@@anthonygold6583 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior colleague at work who was doing well but never had an investment. Unfortunately he lost his job and went from living a comfortable life to hardship. There would had been something to fall back on if he had an investment

[@elisabethhamilton1048]

@@anthonygold6583 NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT

[@eduardomarquee551]

@@elisabethhamilton1048 I believe The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.

[@jessicaallen6874]

@@anthonygold6583 It is the planning you put into today that will yield the dividends of prosperity for you tomorrow.

[@agungputra1676]

"Every second you spent thinking what somebody else has is taking away from time that you could create something for yourself"

[@THE_UPSC_GIRL369]

Mine is 1.2k like👍

[@siddu4194]

Agung Putra y

[@llounfox9290]

Nester he mean stop comparing yourself to other people, or stop needing validation from other people

[@amishasingh6227]

True

[@princessvictoria8516]

Agung Putra I wrote that down too

[@janealtaya6678]

"Slow and steady wins the race. You're only competing with yourself." That hit me like a ton of bricks.

[@nomam7358]

Lol ya

[@magicturtle69]

Powerful indeed. Hard to focus on yourself sometimes with all the noise on social media

[@hamzasaifranjha4859]

Don't use that to boost your procrastination tho. Just don't rush about having it too soon.

[@pianofry1138]

I like racing and from it isn't slow and steady or balls to the wall all, out that racers that win. It is the fast and steady racer. Sometimes even the best racers get in a wreck completely out of thier control and somebody else wins but there is always another race.

[@prathamesh338]

16:00

[@andrewcleverly1322]

When you invest as a youth, you are buying days that you don't have to work.

[@andrewcleverly1322]

@John Alfred you can reach out to him now on FB 👇

[@andrewcleverly1322]

@John Alfred Mark J. Ramsey

[@InZaNiOnGaMiNg]

but what im investing into

[@rohangarg5473]

@@InZaNiOnGaMiNg spam

[@SangNguyen-uz4pb]

I feel like Gary wants her to be successful more than she wants herself to lol

[@thataaronromano]

every time this pops into my recommended videos I say to myself " I wonder what she is doing now". The first time I checked, she was in MLM and then I forgot about this video. i just checked and now she has an onlyfans, which is exactly what you think it is. I'm fairly certain she didn't care about garys advice and leveraged him to build an Instagram audience. I wonder how Gary feels about having his name leveraged for MLM?

[@user-qq8tp9cn9p]

@@thataaronromano link to her OF

[@shiylon]

@@user-qq8tp9cn9p down bad

[@user-kf2pq8rt3r]

@@thataaronromano hustle is hustle, don’t judge

[@zuscanga30]

@@user-kf2pq8rt3r nah we will judge, she went the same road as all these other young girls that are “hustling”

[@ElliotScottDating]

I love his brutal honesty here. This is what she and a lot of people need. At the same time, I wish I was 22 again...She's lucky she's hearing this shit in her early 20's

[@JamesBond-mq7pd]

Elliot Scott Dating I'm 22. And I'm going to graduate in next year. What I have to do with my life? Girl or money? More girls with more sex or just one girl and no sex? House or freedom? Job or life?

[@JamesBond-mq7pd]

***** In Russia we have another life) girls seems don't pursue wealthy boys. They can easily bring you to their house if you not live alone. It's normal here. I have question to you. You will choice wealthy guy or part of your soul? Probably in Russia most of us want second option

[@onurbayramoglu880]

I m 19 and so fickin happy about discovering this channel with that video omg

[@diplayball]

Elliot Scott Dating I agree with you completely. This is why I'm following him. His soooo fucking honest and I love it.

[@najibcasa2745]

This was great, I have been researching "social media marketing education" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Dylantey Social Severable - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my cousin got excellent results with it.

[@digitaljimmy123]

Gary is not the type of person everyone likes, but his answer is real, that's what people need.

[@CharaTheChampion]

that's specifically why I love him

[@Flokuz]

Who doesn’t like him? Lol

[@bolobalaman]

Yeah brother cause people hate the harsh truth

[@thinhphung1507]

Agree with U guy :)

[@zerad3307]

Honest answer hurt people that’s why not all person like him.

[@tysalkoski1368]

This is the best fucking video I have ever seen. Im 23 and haven't started College yet and have found myself looking at other people's success in envy and jealousy. I have suffered from Drug addiction for the past 4 years and I'm now in my first week of sobriety scared of what my life will be in the next 4 years. This just gave me a swift kick in the ass and im so mad I didn't find this channel earlier. Time to put my energy into my Sobriety/Goals in life rather than looking at what everyone else has. Thanks Gary

[@034belesushilkumar8]

thats me bro, same situation with me but i am trying my best. All the best to you👍

[@silverbowftw5225]

im 19 and i graduated last year, Im still not in college and I feel useless as fuck just leeching off my parents and my aunt...

[@rathoreimran5734]

Same shit you feel useless living with your parents and you see people have their shit together and getting jobs starting businesses moving forward and I am just jumping from shit to shit and failing when I can only get minimum wage jobs got fired from a sales job in 3 days failed at starting an agency have a 100$ to my name but keep going

[@deseanlothian]

Thankyou Taylor, for being the girl in class, that's the only one confident to ask questions, while the rest of us sit and pretend.

[@hamzasaifranjha4859]

(reminder) confidence is the key

[@jonkatsuutv8528]

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[@karoprudyan9454]

bro i want your profile pic lol

[@deseanlothian]

@@karoprudyan9454 lol, it took me exactly 1 minute to change my profile pic after finding this one.

[@deseanlothian]

@Kuba P had a class where no one asked questions except this one girl. When she left, we all slowly left. You only know how valuable these people are when they gone.

[@DreKC]

"Every second you think about what somebody else has is taking away time to create something for yourself." GOLDEN WORDS...

[@sujanpaudel2031]

Andrew I loved that point! it was powerful ☝️

[@ausafali7617]

Andrew totally agree with this

[@meemosrepairguide5064]

Andrew tr

[@MikeHersnt]

TRUE bro, agree!

[@shahroor97]

you haven't done shit! hahaha 6:02

[@rayanalasow9535]

Yo that really hit me. He pressed every button that we all have. We want riches but don't want to work for it. We want quick cash so we can buy that bmw to show off to our friends. You'll never become successful thinking about yourself. This was a gem and it really opened my eyes. I don't care if I ever make a million dollars but I sure will work like heck to get it. I will enjoy the process and this will lead me to nothing but fulfillment.

[@buttercup3883]

I'm 15 and watching this. Whoever this girl Taylor is may the universe bless her, she kinda solved a lot of my problems bc I'm relating to her 100%

[@Ceskyify]

That girl is taking insults and harsh truth very nicely. The girl is fresh outta college too. Wow.

[@bolobalaman]

Not Bill Clinton i guess she don’t care . She willing to take the hard truth tobe better

[@shade7648]

Watch her go back to her old ways after this we’re always different at the moment

[@strategicprogrammer5167]

@@shade7648 Fortunately, she didn't. Can you see how hard Gary worked to make the lesson stick? Here is the followup, about a year later: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZpabdIKtq9F5i8U I can't wait to see the five-year follow up.

[@strategicprogrammer5167]

Yes, she is taking it very calmly... too calmly. I love how Gary sees right through the PR story she is telling herself. I don't think she really got it until the very end when Gary asked for her Instagram handle and made it public to the "Vayner Nation". She got 8,000 new followers in a week, all holding her accountable to what she said she would do. We all tell ourselves similar stories. We all need accountability. I think this video has two and a half million views because Taylor's problem is universal. We all see ourselves in her.

[@everythingcool101]

its not insults, its constructive feedback but i know what you're saying most girls fresh out of college would take this as insults. it just goes to show she has the strong mind to play ball with the big players in business. (she has a business mind)

[@skullzzz1968]

"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has, is taking away from time that you could create something for yourself." Damn.

[@siddharthbhandari1991]

i took screen shot of that line...that what hit me most

[@sagelioneldsouza8230]

goosebumpy shit

[@mithildixit4416]

Watching Gary tear into the girl at the beginning reminds me so much of my high school principal yelling at me about how I’m worthless and will never amount to anything bc I had trouble staying awake in the morning and drew doodles during class. The only advice he gave me to improve anything was “take sleeping pills and force yourself to act normal”. His advice led me to be pretty miserable and the way he delivered it left me with anxiety issues that required therapy. My life only started to get better when I said “fuck this I know what I want”. Now I make $3 extra an hour bc turns out we still need overnight workers and most people aren’t happy doing it which makes my weird sleep schedule a valuable attribute. I also wound up getting a job thats creative work making fancy desserts, which I love and not everyone can do, and make extra money on the side as a children’s book illustrator. Point is this type of self help def does hurt people and actually is really counterintuitive bc not only do the traits you’re asked to give up tend to benefit you due to their rarity but honestly what is the point of being rich and successful if you waste your whole life and don’t enjoy yourself on the way? Best case you’re miserable for most of your adult life and make it big in time to spend a few years with a fragile body and money you won’t have time to spend, worse case you save for years and die before you can do anything with it. By all means save up and be financially responsible, but dont think of money as something you want just to say you have it; go on vacation, go to a show, buy a game, just let yourself enjoy things. Life is short. I wasted 20 years only to find out I’m prob not gonna live to 50.

[@kennethreed8746]

It’s delayed gratification, work hard not to play harder later.

[@DustinTylerMoore1]

Seriously toxic. But everyone here will applaud him. People die young!

[@phisharkk]

DO NOT COMPARE YOUR BEHIND THE SCENES TO SOMEONE ELSE'S HIGHLIGHT REEL! everyone struggled just like you do. they just dont post the struggles and failures on IG or FB. they only post the occasional wins. the master has failed more times than the beginner has tried! may love and light guide you on your journeys!

[@codinginflow]

This is real motivation, not watching videos where guys drive Lambos

[@ConsumeristScroffa]

Fuck the motivation. Gary provides knowledge more than anything else. But by trying to apply it using motivation is a losing proposition. Habits are everything.

[@kyleafavor7522]

Coding in Flow right !!

[@relaxwithme__]

Real shit!👏

[@ConsumeristScroffa]

@Letucces Satan Motivation is good. Most amazing things happen because of it. But you just can't rely on it for long-term success. Not that you won't take advantage of it when it comes.

[@badbud2330]

Wow didn't know Mr Bean is such a great motivational speaker

[@1999jack]

gary you're a fucking savage

[@PetterHughes]

9:57 "I want the process of trying to buy the New York Jets more than buying the New York Jets." Love that!

[@mekdib9269]

I'll turn 20 tomorrow, and it's good thing to hear, i love that he's realistic and super honest even tho other don't like that

[@jasonw6659]

Work hard is never bad advice, but having done the 7 day a week long hours grind for my 20s too, I think time for family, relaxation, and personal growth is important as well. Those things are important to a good and balanced life and it is easy to forget them.

[@gokudog18]

Jason Wolford yeah he said to not go on trips or nothing, not everybody is like him doesn't mean that shit is not gonna go right for her, she has to take a different path not the same path as him.

[@uhuhuhuwhauwhauwhaaha7918]

"y o u h a v e t o b e p a t i e n t" _starts overloading her with anxiety_

[@muhammadshayanfarrukh6481]

He's trying to get her on the process

[@itashio777]

He was trying to shut down her from rushing herself , Therese never a rush when your young

[@leeroymlg4692]

@@itashio777 there is a rush, its always a rush, why do you think he was talking about not having any free time

[@itashio777]

@@leeroymlg4692 rush to her goals , the rush to get it done sure but why think big if can't think attainable

[@leeroymlg4692]

@@itashio777 make it attainable

[@JERRRY26]

2021 and Gary still speaking straight to my damn soul

[@Chriix14]

Same man

[@MarketingHarry]

Make sure you give your energy into something productive! Macro patience, macro speed is something I go by. Gary is always giving the best advices.👌

[@NamasteTech-UnboxZone]

I am 20 year old from india and i have never seen a man explaining in such a great manner as no one does not even my personal mentor!!! Respect from india

[@Filmsbysaii]

Unbox Zone I can feel you bro

[@pratikchaudhari4315]

Unbox Zone I'm also from India...I'm 21 years of age...I also had an entrepreneurial spirit in me...but being young...my mind was being consumed on too my things...it's natural at this age...but now I think I have received the best advice and I'm lucky to see this video now at this young age which woke my inner spirit...

[@luffyitachiuchiha5688]

go watch sandeep maheshwari videos much much better

[@mirulamrie7321]

Free palestine

[@infomaniac5592]

Unbox Zone i m from india.... 19 years.... i love to be a trader...... (that guy...is true... slow and steady wins the race.... i thought i wouod become millioner by 1 year.. but everything takes effort and patience and experience...... try all thinks ,u r intrested... love wht u do.....fix on one thing.... work hard, and smart...............love journey of succes...........any body can success.....

[@katelyngreen6397]

This was filmed 3 years ago, and yet he is talking directly to me...

[@luxyluz2442]

literally

[@Tradingbeginners.]

True

[@hamzasaifranjha4859]

it's will be applicable after 5, 10 years more

[@IamJochebed_]

Same!

[@EpikPink]

The fact that you’re saying we need to enjoy the process just further confirms I need to do something that is a passion. I am stuck and I don’t know what I wanna sell, all I know is I want an online business to escape my home.

[@lishbean6389]

Gosh, I really needed this. I literally used to text people for hours, go through their posts, and feel like nothing all the flipping time! All this while speaking about accomplishing things.. I can't believe I wasted six months mulling over wasting the last 17 years of my life.. Thank you for helping me realize where I am, at the moment :)

[@thekenndubisi]

This is GOLD.

[@thekenndubisi]

Thanks so much Gary! Literally ran over once I saw the notification. Even though I'm in far away Nigeria, and things are not so straight here, you've motivated me to do shit and I'm glad I did. Thank you.

[@eurostepperz]

Fuck gold this shit is diamond, we've hit the motherload finding this. This video has fucking opened my eyes to so much its insane.

[@danielmontano851]

Ken Ndubisi keep up the hustle Ken. many blessings

[@christiantambun5506]

nigga wtf is gold?

[@ssaarr00]

hey guys how are you dm me @sarogabounian i have a business to share

[@sapnasrinivasan9908]

Where my other 19-year-olds at? :)

[@jacobstergiou3590]

17 bout to be 18 lol

[@lwandilezama2353]

Turning 20 in December 👊

[@Kirungi_Birungi]

Sis I'm here.

[@Zalenciaaa]

15

[@CODloverPS3boy]

18 here

[@jenicajames]

I remember this one! I needed to hear this at 20 and shouting it to me almost 27 year old self! Thanks Uncle Gary

[@andrewolmega4898]

For me, this is one of the best conversations of Gary.

[@FabledNarrative]

"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has, is taking away from time that you can create something for yourself." - Gary Vaynerchuk (@5:40) Thumbs up for others to see!

[@goxr3plus_studio]

Timothy Miller Wow!

[@djtanikgotbeatz]

Timothy Miller looove it 💪🏼💪🏼

[@faisalmohammed7453]

Timothy Miller Changed my life already 😍

[@maurizioventurini6856]

Timothy Miller throwing this up on the whiteboard

[@TBEASTchannel]

This is the part that made me subscribe. I had to rewind and hear out again 😁

[@pointdex007]

Gary looked so happy at the end of that convo. He looked liked he really hit the message home to not only Taylor but to everyone including myself.

[@skybreezy3404]

"I don't think so. I think you're saying you need to hit rock bottom because it buys more time to bullshit." damn I felt that

[@stillnotamillionaire8997]

So lucky I've found this video, I'm currently 23 and really needed to hear some of this stuff One problem I believe is related to what we see in social media, ends up putting much pressure on many young people

[@tadiqshahid4625]

It's not real. It's all a curated bullshit highlight reel of someone's life who probably inherited all their fortune and/or is living beyond their means and will be dirt fucking poor in a year. Regardless, nobody else fucking matters, the battle is you vs you, you cant compare yourself to other people, you don't know how fucked up they actually are.

[@mikeliterus1628]

No bullshit - this is the single best piece of content ever created. Wether Garyvee or otherwise. This is beautiful.

[@jacobmacias7809]

Ryan D I couldn't have said it better

[@TechCaribou]

Ryan D Yeah this was completely insane. Imagine if Gary was a guidance counselor

[@RoyalStreetKingz760]

I AGREEEE !

[@AdamDesignsz]

*Guys please here me out out!* I am serious.... I am a *20 year old* entrepreneur who is also at university and thinking of long term accomplishments,* however the one issue I have is 'recognition,' and being recognized for my craft and creating awareness for it. I have many entrepreneurial ideas that I wish to implement in the future, which I will... however I am just starting off, so I am in the 'process.'* *I have also created a small business online that goes by the name of Adam Designs, where I do branding for all types of businesses and done so for many big organizations such as BBCThree, I am self-taught and I know I have the skills to create an amazing branding concept for small and big businesses. However i need more recognition to get myself out there!* *My work is on Instagram @AdamDesigns1* *and Twitter: @AdamDesigns1.* Please do give a *look at my work* and see if we can help you!

[@rationalityrules111]

Check out vedicmojo.com Cheers!

[@topknotclare456]

The advice to pull from this great, in-depth response, the advice that IS applicable to EVERY young person: 1. "Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has is taking away from time you could spend making something for yourself. " 2. "You’ve gotta deploy patience, and you’ve gotta love the process. "

[@setelf1547]

I’m 18 in college and am stuck deciding to graduate early or stay for 4 years. After watching your video about your thoughts on college made me make the decision to stay because the same opportunities here won’t be easily Available out in the “real world”. Even so, I’m trying to plan my college life (freshman). I’m impatient to become an artist, get my brand out there, and go to Japan to learn about manga,draw and travel. I can see why my dad listened to you for years every morning and now I’m the one listening to you. Thank you ❤

[@ariannabasha9316]

I watched this at 19, I am now 23 years of age with a remote job all without a degree, I didn't want my internet day told me to do. I put in the work, now I am working to do some side businesses. I'm so grateful that I live in the generation where I can have an internet dad like you without you l, I would stayed in college and most likely would have lost.

[@margo1186]

*advice for all 20 year old's* Me, a 17 year old: interesting

[@acoleman251]

Same rules apply.

[@hanishtandon]

Advice from 22 years old .Times fly I still remember the time when I'm 18 and thinking I have lot of time but now I'm 22 and still haven't achieve anything significant .So if you have any goal start working on it right now .

[@margo1186]

@@hanishtandon wow it's like u know exactly what I'm going through...a lot of procrastinating. Thanks for the advice Hanish!

[@margo1186]

@@acoleman251 also don't worry too much, your time will come to thrive

[@adhilmehmud8171]

@@hanishtandon great advice man

[@103swagg]

I like his message. Social media allows people to put a filter on their lives, people will make it seem like they're successful but in reality they're really not. He's just saying forget the glamor and rewards but enjoy the journey because once you do you don't have to worry about the rewards because they'll come automatically.

[@DanBorgia]

I find myself coming back to this video from time to time. It resonated with me that I was the same age as Taylor, and now that time has passed, I can say everything Gary shares here is great advice. I’m glad I followed it.

[@taqikh376]

In general, how much did your hard-work paid off?

[@kieranmays2297]

i absolutley love how gary was teaching this girl a valuable lesson, yet still grilled the absolute fuck out of everything she said

[@snehalsingh9800]

I'm 17 and this hit me hard... Worth it thank you

[@joserolandogarcia8025]

u just skipped three years in life

[@ItSAaliya_onSCREEN]

José Rolando García lol

[@ItSAaliya_onSCREEN]

Snehal Singh good thing you are watching now

[@harmonyb786]

I'm 15...and I look at myself and say I want to reach that maturity. But I just procrastinate and feel look at my friends, I know I shouldn't...haha

[@iamkarandudeja]

You guys are lucky. I mean I am lucky too. I am 19

[@drchtct]

*The ultimate advice for every 20 year old THAT WANTS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE Spending your whole 20s hustling without any free time is so ridiculous if you don't want to be really rich. There needs to be a balance, otherwise you'll have your 20s spend doing nothing but getting money and you'll regret it. You can always get money, but you won't ever get your 20s back. Don't go too hard on you in your 20s, money will come and if you got it, you'll want more. There's no end to money, but there's an end to time, so choose wisely.

[@ceelo5556]

I agree with you a hundred percent. Everybody has their own drive and ambition. Balance is everything.

[@KaiserNick375]

Agreed!

[@corinnecaluza9937]

Love this

[@videologs2400]

This is gem and so true! I spent my teen years trying to do freelance day-in and day-out now outta college I see I have no friends to talk to or go out with. I have money but lol it's not that much that I get to stop working and start spending. Whereas those who spent their time in their teens enjoying are very well connected and help each other out in their biz or grab a new job opportunity. Trust me money is waste. It's relationship and your happiness which matters at the end of day.

[@ConorEiffe]

It all depends on what you want, if you don't wanna hustle hard then Gary isn't talking to you in that field. Shits obvious.

[@justineraymundo3125]

I’m at my 23 years of age Gary.thank you for the life lesson I’ve heard from you. I’m from the Philippines and somehow anxious and stressed about what happening in my life.I hope I can hear from you someday

[@millionjoc627]

This guy talk the realist things. I love it I think everyone needs advice from a person like him 100%.

[@mrvideogame007]

20 years old making $16/hour as a personal trainer. Working 15 hours per week while attending university and just got an internship at a local Marketing Agency. Good things can happen to you if you focus and stay disciplined.

[@madelinenb]

Congratulations man! Keep at it. 💕

[@O3FILMS.toronto]

Keep at it!!!! Let's hear back, how'd it go?

[@mrvideogame007]

@@O3FILMS.toronto I got a raise to $22/hour :) I stopped training for a while for the virus but everything is going well.

[@monsterboomer8051]

@@mrvideogame007 When you quit working for others and start working for yourself?

[@raina.9438]

thank you for this!

[@Coolness6179]

He’s saying to work hard but idk wtf to work towards. Idk what I’m doing with my life.

[@randomish4285]

Find what you want to do with your life, set a goal. And once you have that work towards achieving it.

[@gotfetti]

backtucks

[@chazitybontempo2681]

That's my problem too UGH! It's so discouraging and frustrating. I know I want to bust my ass and work hard at building something, it's just figuring out what it is I'm passionate about. I have so many different interests and passions, but when it comes down to narrowing it down and deciding what basket to put all my eggs in, I can't picture myself just doing that one thing... Wish someone could slap me in the forehead with my purpose so I could just work it lmao fuck

[@midi6615]

I totally feel the same way. I have decided to keep myself busy buy learning and building skills like photography, digital art, editing, dancing,etc

[@skiddy5294]

Just go try shit. Go volunteer or pick up a new hobby.

[@tripleg8352]

This is THE BEST advice anyone can give a 20-year-old!! Thank you GaryVee for giving your positivity and reality check!

[@jessicadomingue5664]

Thanks Taylor for offering herself up to this amount of criticism, and its so good for all of us in our generation!!

[@AliBahadori]

I love this part of the show! I am 45 and I wish someone like you yelled at me when I was 20.

[@kevinm5053]

Ali Bahadori what other things do you wish people told you in your 20s?

[@TejaswiBitra]

Never too late Sir

[@jackmiddleton2080]

No you don't. That is just an excuse you are making for your failures. Sorry lmao just trying to be like Gary.

[@nigzn789]

bullshit im 45 and I got a team cleaning sewage system. it's not the nicest business but no excuses fren.

[@ssaarr00]

Ali Bahadori hey how are you? can i share a business to you ? plz dm me @sarogabounian

[@3xAudio]

The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago, the next best time is now.

[@hamzasaifranjha4859]

dayum

[@3xAudio]

@@hamzasaifranjha4859 Hits hard doesn't it haha

[@hamzasaifranjha4859]

@@3xAudio real hard, i am getting stitches rn

[@ravi.jangra]

- Chinese Proverb

[@sixtynineelephants2403]

I heard this when it first aired, and as a father I keep coming back to it to help my kids. 🙏

[@kaori2686]

5:55 this part hit me hard lmao..I'm currently in the middle of thinking that I'm freaking useless because I'm already 20 years old and the thing I'm always doing is wake up in the morning, exercise, feed domestic animals, and sleep again (repeat again and again) I'm doing this for about 2 years now.

[@emekaossai5485]

This could be the best piece of content that Gary has put out

[@hjfdjful]

Emeka Ossai I agree this is the realest thing I've ever heard him say. He drops knowledge at 8:25

[@nothingtodo183]

i need to stop being lazy

[@beau_de_jour]

MR.STUKES me too.

[@dancole2994]

I said that once. It took me years to break the habit. I managed to overcome it in the end, although I still catch myself slacking time to time, like now, I'm replying to this post when I should be doing something more worth my time. The solution I found is to start getting things done. Stop wasting time planning what your going to do because that's fantasy fiction in your head. Spend 5 minutes bullet pointing a few things you can get done in the next 4-8 hours you have available. Then do it, no matter what. It's not easy, it's hard and it feels shit to begin with. You need to put it into physical practise on a daily basis to develop the new habit. That's step one. If you think about doing it, you won't do it - that's where I spent 7 years messing up and feeling down about it. Changing your routing takes practise, therefore time and effort. Do it or don't. I don't care if you impress me by changing or not, but you do. It's your call. Now get off the net like I'm about to do right after I hit the reply button and get shit done. Don't even waste time replying to this message, I don't even want to see a quick "thanks". Get off your ass and move NOW - period!

[@escxbvr4884]

I really appreciate this post.

[@meessk8]

MR.STUKES small steps son ❤

[@survialgermany1299]

DID YOU STOP?

[@doragary3717]

When you invest, you're buying a day you don't have to work

[@royalhighness8383]

@Hart Thim You're right Sir, it's obvious a lot of people remain poor due to ignorance, it's better to take risks and make sacrifices than to remain poor

[@peterfaulkner8391]

@@royalhighness8383 It's not ignorance but due to some unprofessional broker in the market

[@lorenzosantos4825]

I recently got into forex trading and im already marveling over the profits I'm making, I'm like " how the hell have i been sleeping on this

[@jenkinzbrown9519]

@@lorenzosantos4825 Same here, I wish I knew about this Bitcoin trading earlier, brace up and get yourself some Bitcoin before it's too late

[@chrispaul3778]

Obviously trading in bitcoin is very volatile and risky to trade that's the reason most traders trade with a company

[@melaniedeatherage637]

Thank you so much for this, I love how real you are with everything ☺️

[@lilegoe3834]

She is 24 now. I wonder how she is doing. Hopefully she is closer to her goal

[@timico6]

Here is ~1 year after the call. And you can also check her insta. kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZpabdIKtq9F5i8U

[@thebatman9915]

I just checked her insta, she got better

[@lilegoe3834]

@@timico6 thanks.

[@lilegoe3834]

@@thebatman9915 thank you ^^

[@adel-ut7ot]

U gys in USA finish univ at 20 y/o or what ?

I am 20 years old and came across this video, I felt like he was talking to me. Thank you so much for sharing this ❣️

[@Rama_Mwaguya-254.]

Hahaha, act on your plans as soon as now. Thank me later.

[@acuteninja8269]

Holy smokes cutie, same. I’m 20 in October, anyways

[@mrlandrei624]

Same age 😇

[@x.potential3949]

Cierra Reneé yh stop trying to be famous woman, go leave your mark on the world not your pussy hair or your pathetic makeover

[@flumxrecords4863]

@@x.potential3949 yo wtf is wrong with your attitude man, she didn't even attack you. Gotta be so u happy to treat others that way

[@sunnc]

Damn Gary I miss these days. I was watching these when they came out & im so happy they’re still here.

[@blizzard762]

The eyeballs have observed, and collectively cringed at this huckster.

[@solisinvictus4238]

came here hoping to find another fan of the eyeball

[@dankswank9088]

How do you do, fellow follower of LORD OCULON?

[@tylershattuck1306]

This girl needs to UNFOLLOW a bunch of people on her IG...clean her feed up and influence herself in the right way

[@saifchogle]

Tyler Shattuck she still folllows Kylie Jenner tho 🙄

[@ZixZone]

Saif Chogle how do you know?

[@saifchogle]

ZixZone I looked it up on her instagram handle

[@Shannxy]

Or just uninstall it if she's serious enough

[@IlikeBball234Hiphopfan]

Social media in general , it's like a cancer

[@lawforladies]

This is so funny 😂 everything he saying is true but his delivery is sooooo raw!

[@sarjanshastri3076]

Bree Giselle sometimes we need someone like him.. tired of formal way of communication.

[@srushtigawade9261]

Hey Bree, Ours too is an initiative to make people smarter and innovative. So please do look at our Instagram account. Think School is the school of ideas where we add value by teaching innovative courses as the content we provide is raw and original so please show us some support. Love from India!

[@akuffoemmanuelamoako7073]

Yh true. But when you got the target to hitting it on the nail, you need to hit hard. Never compromise on the true advices

[@akuffoemmanuelamoako7073]

@Harry Gerry That's the point. Forget the attitude and take the gold from it.

[@Nsup22]

I just turned 20. I’m a realtor and it’s been incredibly slow and hard so far. I needed to hear this shit. So much value and perspective in this video

[@lyesbenloulou6634]

This is the video that I need to watch every morning, cuz it's sooo motivating and keeps me see the real facts not my fuckin illusion about success

[@dracula5159]

Am 20 and this got to me real hard. This is my first video from this guy. God dammit this guy is on another level.

[@DrStark-pe8pt]

No matter who they are, Never Believe a Prediction that Does Not Empower You :D

[@courtreezy]

i feel so attacked, but thank you for this video wow

[@gilbertsimanjuntak7716]

word.

[@lsd-rickb-1728]

Wtf

[@ceelo5556]

Sometimes the truth that we need to hear hurts in the short term but a bitter truth is better than a sugar coated lie. Keep striving

[@akuffoemmanuelamoako7073]

😂😂😂. That's the best way to go

[@LondonsPointOfView1]

LMAO same. I'm 22 and I this hit different

[@dicksaidesuarezblanco9726]

Much respect to that girl, I in the exact same game. And I learned something very important thanks to you two.

[@samsoni9189]

I will come at the age of 25 to New York and shake your hand when i can say yes - ‘I’ve Made it’ . Wish me luck I am 18 All the best everyone!

[@rike2040]

Working hard is good and important. But people forget that time off is essential! Taking care of your physical and mental health is important. Making time for friends and family is important. And it’s so hard to work 24/7 and have a social life too.

[@owowcherubim6948]

You clearly don't get what the man is saying up to this very day, my friend. Maybe you're special.

[@AntarixOfficial]

You need to do what it takes . If that means not taking time off and working 14 hours a day ? So be it .

[@maryanne2025]

The Paradoxes do that for a couple months and let me see me be result

[@SoilderKrizer]

rike and you have answered the rule. It's good to save but if you save 500 treat yourself then get to 1,000 it's all about treating yourself when you reach a saving goal

[@CovertFilm]

So good. That 'macro patience, micro speed' thing is fire

[@jacobgoughenour390]

Covert Film right!

[@ingridayarza]

Yes!!

[@nuralifah7485]

What does it mean ?

[@boon3805]

I think it means you need to be really patient. Work a lot, be patient(or persistent) because the progress you see right now is slow (micro speed). You won't see 100 dollars, much less 1 million dollars for a long time. (micro speed).

[@nuralifah7485]

Boon Huat Cheng whoa, thanks a lot !👍

[@eightonethreeh.3799]

I fucking love how this man slices the truth without trying to sweeten the pill or soften any corner. Glad I found this channel. Thanks for your work.

[@skinnybuddha553]

Listening his advice from 18, and I am 22 now ..gotta say he changed my views over the process!

[@braxtondalton9763]

Wow. As a 20 year old in a very similar spot this is by far the most impactful video I have watched. Thanks Gary, you got something man.

[@twilightselena4eva]

Jesus i'm 20 years old rn and spend my weekends on insta and doing f all, i needed to hear this man.

[@caribaez5711]

so true

[@sssslumber]

im 23 and do the same while mentally exhausting myself thinking about all the things I should be doing -_-

[@Anonymous-sj8ds]

twilightselena4eva your Australian I know it

[@ChookaParkerTV]

We all did. Even the people who work hard often don't maximize every second they have to work. Myself included.

[@GhostSamaritan]

Well, it's better than going the incel route and spending your free time watching porn…. I really need to quit.

[@Darry141]

Gary is the mentor we, 20 year olds, need!

[@Mhadzanzisa]

Am 20yrs old too but i feel like my photography business is not meeting up toy 20yrs i feel like its for are 19yrs old I feel really bad

[@moronaisatorii1679]

When you watch this and think of it as a conversation between you and that voice in your head it actually effects you. thank you garyvee you rock! and I need to get tf up and work see ya

[@Megapixlelol]

I needed this. I’m 20 right now and straight up lost on what I want to do with my life. I feel like everyone around me knows what they want to do or they are doing it. I need to look at the process of getting there not the end result. But again I am lost still. But this was a good pep talk

[@outfromshadows1862]

You are not alone

[@maitreya9495]

Namaste

[@veetee4826]

make a vision board sweetie

[@tomcoldman4470]

Yo Meg have you graduated or you still studying

[@Megapixlelol]

Tom Coldman still studying, going to be a medical assistant

[@JosephJonesJRJ]

What a great conversation. She sounds like a smart kid, highly motivated, and with her head generally screwed on straight more than 90% of her cohorts-- this just gave her the 10% redirection she needed to kick ass over the next decade. Well done, sir.

[@joeldorne241]

I think she had the 10% and Gary gave her the 90%. Trust me I wasted from 16 - 24 caring what people thought too much trying to play the fast game hanging around with internet and TV celebs when I should have been doing my own thing playing the slow game. Eveyone in the world has that drive but nobody is playing the slow game I'm still young and I would love to have not wasted all that time playing fake fast game.

[@JosephJonesJRJ]

Fair enough-- recognizing that bit, even thought it's a relatively small realization, is a huge component of moving forward effectively. Ah, to go back to my 20s armed with the shit I learned in my 30s and 40s... :)

[@joeldorne241]

I suppose everyone's different but for me, the passion easy and everyone I meet has the passion but no ones going slow and putting in time. I spent so much time trying to do so many things fast comparing myself to others and trying to catch up. It's a hard habit to break and I still get caught up in it. Every month I seem to care less about what others think and get better at playing my own game but saying and it doing it are completely different. I have a pretty good business now that's growing slowly.

[@davida5658]

So do you mean just go full on one project? No distractions and just keep pushing it? So just get going by your own way and stop getting attention? I understood? I'm 21 and got next level stuff in mind, still not going full on, maybe thinking it too much, but I'm always my way although indeed tend to study and investigate a lot of my surroundings, trying to learn and craft everything that I see others don't target and trying to distinguish myself but need to go 100% still

[@kevinm5053]

Joseph Jones so what are other words of wisdom you would add to what gary said?

[@cherryb1056]

I’m turning 20 next week... and I’m scared what my future would be, I don’t want to do any wrong decisions that I will regret but I saw this video and watched it- I realized that I’m just starting and creating my path towards the future to be aftaid

[@waynesdae]

I'm a 19 year old watching this while stress eating😭😭

[@unstoppable.1834]

Same here no idea what to do !!😔 Don't know what real life means....😔..

[@tijani3141]

Gang gang

[@martinmotyka241]

lmao :D same

[@aena5995]

@@unstoppable.1834 i am 19 and i am trying to figure out wht exactly to do with my lifee , was considering medical just cuz society expects tht even tho i know i dont like science labs etc as much , i was considering law,economics or pilot training nd i literally never felt so lost beforee :(((( serious advice help needed here uni is also something i wanna experience and i cant decide if i should do pilot training cuz tht uni experience wouldnt be there i wanna make frnds and memries but also earn alot of money and be successful like i always wanted as i come from a middle class background sorta .. also this whole corona virus BS made me consider whether its a good idea to enter uni when everthing is online currently and for awhile it seems :(( wht do i do , almost felt sucidal ngl

[@aidarosibel]

@@aena5995 It's like you just described my life... I am also 19, and I'm facing the exact same problems as well. This sucks:(

[@boredom247]

damn i felt like he was talking to me at one point

[@andyisom9650]

I feel the same. We've all been there to some degree or another.

[@kcsnipes80]

Danielle Parks_661 he was

[@jordi0m]

You and 99% of the people watching, like he said.

[@Prim3Pursuits]

This is some real talk. This is why I love Gary Vee, even when you think you're winning, he will remind you to push things to another level.

[@AleighaNicole]

Girl. Who you telling! I swear.

[@aaliyahsymone]

Gary is so funny . Always getting to the root of the “issues” we have when chasing our dreams

[@plugsfordays648]

It’s amazing gary . How people will listen to you . Without getting offended. You have a gift . Thank you

[@ibro_47]

I'm 22, college student in computing. I currently live in France but I'm from West Africa. I build android apps since 2015 but all of them failed, I can't get enough downloads but it won't stop me from making apps. I want to be successful in making apps because : - I want to build something successful in what I love doing. - I want to be financially stable, my parents send me money every month for my living even though they don't earn a lot and I want this to stop.

[@stundown]

good luck brother.

[@Candyrock15]

Ibrahima Sow When you make an app, what exactly is your motivation? do you make an app because you want to, or you think it will be cool and people will like it? OR do you make apps that solve problems and fills demands? if you do the latter, keep going. keep looking for problems to solve. eventually you will make an app that will be guaranteed success. you will get a lot of downloads because it will SOLVE A PROBLEM or SATISFY A NEED that people have

[@darkmind4881]

Ibrahima sow my best advice for you to seek someone who already successful making apps and copy what he does because 9 out of 10 you fail if you go on own.

[@andyisom9650]

Just gotta grind! I see you have the determination, just be consistent.

[@MrDoneman360]

Hey dude, is there way I could contact you, through email maybe? Have a business opportunity.

[@robert23kim]

Very interesting. Everyone is wishing things, but no one wants to put in work.

[@DaveThaBossDTB]

Robert Kim No some put work in but its either too late or in the wrong areas. Like working hard in college when you could've done it in highschool. Frankly, degrees don't mean shit. Experience and evidence of passion mean more than anything.

[@BROMINN_GUY]

garyvee is the guy who motivate and roast at the same time and thats what makes him one of a kind

[@slayysis]

Wow the timing of this video appearing in my feed is impeccable. I'm 21 and had the same questions and mindset as Taylor, but now I'm awake. Totally Subscribing.

[@rrrina27]

How did she handled all of those cussed answers with grace? If I was in place of Taylor I'd be crying river. All the good wishes to Her and thank you Gary.

[@ryanthepianoman27]

May I’m scared

[@parkerjeans5777]

May when he swears it's at himself. He can't Remmeber somthing and he gets frustrated. One of his inner workings is that he constantly feels a need to fulfill the picture of reality that is closest to the truth

[@thedodo3380]

LMAOOP ME TOOOOO

[@timramone8009]

I'd thank him if he talked that way with me. Really makes you think of yourself.

[@123backflipman]

sounds like a douche

[@mdxr7888]

hahaha kylie Jenner roasted hard lmao 😂😂😂😂

[@TechCaribou]

mudasir ul haq for real though 😂

[@RoyalStreetKingz760]

HAHAHA

[@jakejakobz]

Illuminati reloaded lmfaoo

[@mdxr7888]

damn didn't expected so much likes

[@anonymouse6890]

this guy just fucking healed my subconscious mind. im in the same boat as that girl, same exact fucking boat in every detail except im a guy. this was the best video ive seen so far on youtube. when you hear it from a credible guy, you know its the truth. winning a lotto is 1/100000000.

[@ricoc4881]

His brutal honesty wakes me up everyday.

[@ethanconradie3945]

I am 22 and why am I only discovering you now. Man! This is a game-changer for me. Great advice.

[@DeeLaneArts]

This applies to every age

[@cristiannviveros6745]

Man this is what is happening to me. That girl it has my same mindset, I am 22 and I am looking at other people and want to reach that goal. I want to be successful like now just like her... I am focusing some much on other people that I am losing time to focus, I am not enjoying the process, I am just looking to the get there that fastest way and not focusing. This is so helpful Thank you Gary....

[@lwoody863]

VL This happens to everyone, not just people in their 20's.