Learn From Our Mistakes (with Tim Ross) | The Leader's Cut w/ Preston Morrison

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[@jeremiahmoody4828]

I will admit. I have left Tim a message on mentoring me 😂😂😂 so I have learned to sit an be quiet. I am so patient now lol. I know I'm not ready to help others. Cuz I'm still in the middle of transitioning to what my purpose is to be. I know that God is great and for the first time in my 46 years of living. Being in peace and content and letting God take control is the only way to live. Thank you Jesus and love you guys. So happy for you 2.

[@jeremiahmoody4828]

And what is so great too. It's like the closer you get and the more you do read. How much God will reveal to you on how great he has been to you. Here to tell you. Even tho I lived in sin for 45 years for sure God never leaves you. I will just leave it there saying. God is the greatest. God is the kings of kings. Lords of lords. Thank you so much my lord for these 2 guys.

[@annahwanjiku7130]

2n😊

[@abieyuwaekuase8699]

I learned the “sit and be quiet” from Tim as well. It has helped me a lot

[@juliomook937]

I needed this message more than I needed food this morning…. I’ve been silent for TOO LONG. Lord I’m ready to get my voice back.

[@niyacotton4692]

It’s INSANELY beautiful how often you all offer up your lives & lessons for our benefit. Thank you.

[@jerrydunbarjr90]

This is the duo the world desperately needs

[@hosannaasobo4543]

God bless this brotherhood & bond. Such a blessing!! 🥹🥹

[@JQ_StaySunny]

Man, I saw this video and avoided it for a few days because I was afraid of that whole conviction/ cringe embarrassment.. My goodness, thank you for your help and comfort in knowing my mistakes are not the end of the world and examples on HOW to Learn from mistakes instead of pushing them down as if they’ve never happened. 🙏🏽

[@b.country5855]

Fellas, Ever since seeing you two on the Basement I have been blessed when I get to see yall together. The convo, relationship, love for each other, & above all the love for God....ewww weee! Thank yall for sharing & being H.O.T. with us. Love & respect to you both... 🙏🏼❤️✝️

[@CBGOODE]

The relationship between you two is so special. Not many people experience this. Keep sharing your stories and helping us grow. ❤❤

[@monicadennis8206]

I know you teased this last week, but I did not expect the Dynamic Duo again so soon. What a treat. And I am so grateful for your connection because it is clear how you help each other, but the particular way Tim has softened as well as sharpened you, Preston, is something I am even more grateful for since your ministry has been a huge part of my own growth over the past couple of years. And I don't even live in your part of the country. I can only imagine if I had the opportunity to be a member of your congregation, but that's OK. Thank you, Jesus, we are in this tech age that allows us to be blessed by people both near and very far.

[@silverpaladinx1667]

I absolutely love listening to these two men of God, it’s nothing but straight wisdom from God with Tim and Preston

[@emonieg-]

I don’t normally comment on videos like this.. but this was so heartfelt, this challenged me to see how prideful I really am. I absolutely loved your vulnerability. I honestly crave to have a friendship like this. This was a perfect example of how iron sharpens iron. Thank you so much for your transparency! May God bless your ministries.

[@deontefentress8095]

Preston…your sneaker game is IMPECCABLE! Love to see it man😂 blessings to you guys

[@abelhara2835]

I admire your friendship so much😭

[@jeremiahmoody4828]

Listening to this again. When Tim says he is on a short leash. That reminds me of being on one too. Now my leash is not too short. It will reach Scottsdale Arizona or Dallas now. It cuz god has restored my marriage. Just the other day my wife told me that she is truly the happiest that she has ever been. This last year the transformation of my heart has been noticed. I told her plz just give all the thanks to the lord. Only god can do this.

[@HolyWarriorPrincess222]

Amen!!!

[@antoprophy]

Tim and Preston! Wow, wow, wow! Your relationship, your vulnerability, your wisdom leaves an indelible mark every single time. Thank you for allowing God to give us a relational blueprint, it's a thing of beauty. Wow!

[@monettevalliere]

It is indeed a thing of beauty.

[@daschuhow]

Thank you both for modeling what a healthy godly relationship looks like. I learn so much, not necessarily in what is said: but how it is said, the tone, the posture, the body language, eye contact, the flow of the conversation , the organicity ( a word?) of the relationship. I’m certain people will criticize both of you and say some hurtful things ….. yet you persist in modeling this for us.

[@markandjuby]

GREAT takeaway! Couldn’t agree more on the value of everything you pointed out!

[@girlylifestylerealtor]

All I can say is, “Thank You.” Thank you and thank you! My soul needed this.

[@brownie006]

Because of Tim I am now paying for my Preston. Thank you. I’m still a beautiful bewildering. It’s uncomfortable being vulnerable. But Tim makes it look like a super power that’s so fruitful to him. Thank you Tim and Preston

[@daschuhow]

Good for you!!

[@lucywarutere5894]

Thanks Tim and Preston for mentoring me. Powerful! Let the redeemed of the Lord say so. Talk about what the Lord has redeemed you from or through. So much wisdom that you've shared. Was always ashamed of sharing my shortcomings. I know better now. You've given me a gift. God bless you dear bros. Love from Kenya.

[@Coast2coastwoman]

I sit and listen to each of you talk and I am hanging on to each word that is said. I feel like a student learning to understand parts of my life that I questioned for years. And also characteristics about my friends that I ask God to explain to me and God gives me your videos, especially at the 50min mark. I thank you so much for you taking the time to create the gems of experience and knowledge that I cannot control my excitement when I see another video has been posted on one of the channels with you two in it. I’m truly grateful.

[@dwayneking319]

Great message !

[@amandadiaz4385]

Oh man, the way you guys dig in and discuss the value of character, and share your stories as teaching moments for us is so beautiful. Thank you for the gift of your vulnerability, wisdom and experience; and thank you for creating a safe space to expose shortcomings for the purpose of getting to the real work of healing and wholeness. You two are the real deal and your authenticity, emphasis on genuine God-forged character, air-traffic-controller-like direction/encouragement into God’s process, and emphatically endorsing obedience as that oil of anointing for our life calling creates safety and space for us to follow y’all as you follow Christ. Exceptional leadership and mentorship!👏🏼

[@StevenPitt-xm3gq]

Thank you Tim Ross. Your messages have been a blessing to my life.

[@simply_nikisha]

Through you two…Learning the necessity and okness of transparency and accountability and vulnerability open my eyes to the divine connections in my life. I’m tired of isolating.🙏🏾

[@ant_marasco]

So blessed by the both of you! Thank you! 🙏

[@jionfender449]

This was such a blessing! Thank you guys

[@wityagurl]

My spiritual uncles. Even though I don't know you personally 😂

[@MalloriDan]

😅

[@syreetaadams622]

My goodness this was good, this was good. The connection is understandable, it confirms my faith awaiting and inspires me to get ready, my God. Thanks, dudes❣️

[@nikkimaddox3831]

Wow amazing

[@beetotheay5783]

Thank you for sharing such deep moments in both your lives. More twinning conversations please🙌🏼💖

[@12TBJ34]

This same relationship is what two “brothers” and I have for the past 31 years called “The Round Table.” Incredible vulnerability but incredibly valuable.

[@Accountable_living_pod]

The bromance I didn’t know I needed to see, so spirit filled and emotionally evolved! I love it, God really is good! 🤎 Thank you both for normalizing something that shouldn’t be rare at all but is.

[@allisontork]

Integral warmth. Helps face oneself a bit easier. God drags some of us over hot coals, cauldrons, deep cliffs etc, and it hurts to view those with easier loads. It’s not between us and them, it’s us and us and god, full stop. Those recovering from trauma… have to walk on egg shells often, because emotion/pain is too “big”. Friends expect loved ones to get therapy. Finding a match, without going in circles, spending by the clock instead of by process doesn’t work for everyone. Transparency is salve for the world, gods sword cuts clean in fair and loving hands. Bless your openness. Jesus teaches love is everything. Here you both sit, gently righteous and humble, makes the world a safer place. Many thanks.

[@mrsferg35]

The heart posture and character stumbling blocks and thank you God for letting Tim show us this heart check ! Character check

[@ThankYouYahweh]

Thank you both. So much. Thank you.

[@Kareemwilldream]

Woot woot. Big ups from the Bahamas!

[@allyfurey293]

This is great thx for sharing! I’ve made a lot of mistakes and this gives a safe space to admit failure. “Failure brings findings.”

[@jennifermorton1456]

I love watching you guys because it shows me what Holy relationships look like, and what its like when God sends you, your persons

[@Antixocialbutterfly]

That last part I felt like Preston was talking to me. Thank you for sharing the beautiful friendship God has given you two.

[@amberhanzy6576]

I had a person like that once. She is present with the Lord now, but the way that Tim and Preston speaks to each reminds me of my best friend. I miss her so much. It’s hard to find someone that you can trust on that type of level.

[@IndieGoInspire]

You are the Jonathan and David for each other. ❤

[@tabithaazor913]

This is by far the best thing/episode I've ever heard/watched. This has challenged me so much. Thank you for your obedience.

[@robertmiller4640]

Thank you fellas for your gifts of vulnerability. This encouraged me to continue to be vulnerable. Thank you for the practical steps in going deeper. God bless

[@niajackson2879]

The more you hide the more guaranteed it is you will be exposed.-Preston

[@lucianoerrico452]

Haha bomb on her , on-site 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I love it

[@jordandandy4767]

I appreciate y’all so much. Thank you thank you thank you.

[@kingdomcitizen777]

These are so good... I'm so grateful for the two of you. Such an incredible example of true discipleship ❤❤❤❤

[@Jay4usbyGrace]

This was very raw and so authentic thank u guys for your transparency

[@PatriciaRose907]

Ohhh Seeing Preston crying was so heart moving, and so glad he was able to share that vulnerability with us. God has divinely appointed this friendship and brotherhood and I'm so grateful they both share their heart, their flaws and their success with us. Praying for you both.

[@jetellison147]

😮”SCOOOOOREBOOOOOAAAARD!!!!!!!!📣

[@sethtanner1]

Loved this one

[@joshuaakins4638]

This was an absolute blessing! 🙏🏿

[@meliahsmith1212]

Thank you for wisdom

[@Oneofficialll]

Fear has no.power.and the name of Jesus has power and also a strong community

[@OneiArMani18]

I NEEDED THIS (ALL CAPS)!! THANK YOU!!

[@gugungwenya7836]

Yoh guys you inspire me...we're blessed to have you ❤

[@mangosaba]

I enjoyed the episode and it was refreshing to see that you made mistakes and no one is perfect.

[@paulesaturday9490]

Amazing!!! Loved this conversation. #beaccountable

[@donnaellis4037]

So blessed to listen from colorado springs

[@JandF42708]

Literally every time u guys do videos together is always sooo awesome and amazing ever!! U guys are true Godly friendship ☺️☺️☺️🔥🔥🔥🔥😊

[@prayerwarrior7400]

Powerful Conversation ❤

[@resurrectiongrace]

This is so good! Praise God ❤

[@ashleymolina6059]

this was absolutely wild! The many things I have learned from both of you, excites me to hear the next podcast. I have grown in a Hispanic cultural church and not that ethnicity matters, but the difference in growth and being able to be real with leaders could never be the case with me. Tho I love I can learn from other leaders and see what good I can apply to my life and the way I walk with God.

[@mrsferg35]

This was so good !!!

[@jessijones5811]

This was so good ya’ll! Thank you!

[@markbentz7585]

Maaaan! This is so good!

[@talasaware6428]

Juliette said if you stay ready you don’t have to get ready!! 😂😂😂

[@monettevalliere]

This is so good!

[@mannalawson432]

13:14- Yessir, people will LITERALLY talk to everyone else but you first to actually get to the root of the problem. 😮‍💨

[@lazycricket1380]

This “shoot your shot” mentality, fam. Guilty 🖐🏾🖐🏾🖐🏾. Thanks for this, faaam. Like, I would never have known it was an issue if It was not pointed out.

[@robietensaie]

Yall gotta put “that’s exactly right” on a t shirt 😂😂😂😂😂

[@daschuhow]

Lol!!

[@ItsKeee]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@niajackson2879]

This is not a cold call Kingdom!!!!! 🤯🤯🤯

[@KrystalElizabeth]

That's right. Mm hmm That's absolutely correct. 😄

[@merariquevedo9740]

How do I find the right type of therapy? Christian oriented

[@uriahray5498]

I feel lonely and alone in my church

[@darrellwarren3860]

I’m just repeating what Tim said. You go first. If God has placed you there, reach out first and ask God to guide you to the relationships he wants for you. Be courageous in the Lord. Gods peace be with you.

[@LizChatter]

These conversations are so important. For lack of a better term, I'd call this passive mentoring/discipleship because of the wisdom that the hearer can glean. In many ways, listening to this conversation will impact people more deeply than a sermon from behind a pulpit because, at least, those like me are churchy and will get hyped in the fire of a hot church moment but not necessarily walk out with practical tools for change. Thank you for having this conversation, sharing your experience, and propagating wisdom. We appreciate y'all.

[@msjhelaire21]

I don’t think that girl should be called delusional so quickly. It sounds like the same feelings you experience when you’re dating someone were created. If those were not the intention then they shouldn’t have been created. We don’t know what experiences people have with dating and married people in the church have the opportunity to be examples of covenant keeping as God intended for marriage. This is just one instance of why ongoing discipleship and male-to-male or female-to-female accountability can be so important. God help husbands and wives in the church go to you when they feel their affections wandering from their spouse and for singles to practice fidelity to you when they’re desires lead them astray. Amen 🙏🏾

[@prestonmorrison4094]

Def not calling her delusional. The issue was that my brother barely knew her and she was saying they were going to get married. A little bit too much too fast, right? She’s not bad, but that approach seems to be.

[@msjhelaire21]

@@prestonmorrison4094 thanks for clarifying then. I didn’t catch that when I watched the video. I only heard the part about her saying they were dating. I appreciate you guys’ candidacy on these topics.

[@johetheridge5319]

I'm puzzled why do all three of you mention hebrew yet won't accept them?

[@GodisKind399]

"Jesus chose His disciples His disciples didnt choose Jesus" Oh.....🤯🤯🤯

[@tmariet]

“Jesus had 12 disciples, Jonathan had only one David.” YUP AND Jesus chose his inner circle… Peter, James, John… so it really don’t need to be a lot of people… it really, really don’t. 59:52 Which the world does not teach, the world says you have a lot of influence, friendships, connections then you are winning…

[@sneakyhenry16]

I loved it until you quoted "Andy LGBTQ supporter Stanley".

[@brittnepeacock1461]

Y’all are legit some of the best, Big Broha’s in the fam of God on plant 🌍a girl could have! Holy Spirit has used u both so mightily in my life over the last 8yrs. I had respect 4 y’all #insertsnaps 🤌🏽b4 but, ur humble, H.O.T.🤍‘s 2 willingly bear ur scars is on another level. I took so many pages of notes. 🤓Keep the truth bombs coming! Plez 😬🤣😁Plus this Byron dude seems pretty lit & impeccably remarkable. My words of gratitude seem so significantly insufficient. Unfortunately, I do not have adequate verbiage to express my appreciation 2 The Lord 4 y’all but, I have! TY4 being confident enuf in who Jesus made u 2 B. TY4 being comfortable in ur humanity 2 B perfectly imperfect but, redeemed. TY so very much 4 posting this. 🙌🏽

[@jeremiahmoody4828]

Lol. Like 3 years ago i spent alot of money and got my bank account in a horrible position from the website CAMSODA. Thank you God for making me have no desires to ever want to even look at porn or anything like that.