Getting My Life Together 🧘🏻‍♀️ Self Care Day

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Hope you enjoyed this day in my life getting my life together. These are a few habits that always help me feel better about myself: meditation, eating healthy, reading, yoga, cleaning & decluttering, skincare. What's one activity that (when done consistently) always makes you feel like you have your life together?
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[@lavendaire]

Hi my loves!! Just wondering - what type of content do you want to see in 2021? 💝 Also pls check out my new 2021 Artist of Life Workbook!! Yellow is surprisingly selling out faster than the blue :) → lavendaire.com/workbook

[@sophiayuna]

i personally would love to see more "how to deal wtih [a feeling or a circumstance]." Also maybe more videos on how to become a successful youtuber!

[@kamarae.2444]

More vlogs! They’re really soothing

[@Cherryyyyblossom]

I love any kind of videos of yours aileen ❤️ your videos are really soo relaxing and soothing 😘 your vouce, the color theme of your videos, what you say, anything ❤️ i first found your channelsl before about a month ago, and now I'm like addicted to them😅 I'm watching your videos in the morning and before i go to bed coz they are soooooo relaxing, inspiring.. probably everything i could imaging...❤️ You are so adorable🥺❤️ i love you so much🥺 i love to be with more and more people like you.. so any video you post, even the content is not useful for me.. ni matter i watch that as soon as i see that😍😍😍❤️ ( but the content in all of your videos are really like.. life changing❤️) you should be soo proud of your self aileen.. you r spreading love all over the world, spreading good vibes everywhere❤️ I don't know how to explain but you are like.. an angel❤️ you are a blessing🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️ lysm❤️ i wish you best of luck in 2021.. I'm sure it'll be a really successful year for you... Good people like you never fail ❤️ i don't know how to thank you for changing my life sooooo much. I was a teen girl who is very sad and thought that I'm the most unluckiest person on this earth, I don't have both mom or dad.. i was really pessimistic... I thought that I'm a person who is not useful for this world. You changed everything dear❤️❤️❤️ you changed my whole mindset.. and now I'm a new person🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘 again thank you aileen❤️

[@user-ke9nd9nv2k]

Home tour

[@naveenagirinath8528]

Habits and self care ideas are so much usefull Aileen .....♥️ Also confidence and self love videos 😍

[@mariaa109]

Three habits that make me feel like I have my life together: exercising, reading books , sticking to my skin care routine

[@riyalouis1259]

Girl SAME!

[@mariaa109]

@@riyalouis1259 right? When the quarantine first started I had a perfect routine, now I feel accomplished if I do one of these things once a week 😂

[@CanLifefor]

Same

[@riyalouis1259]

@@mariaa109 Yes exactly! I think it's just important to remember that we're all going through a difficult time. And if we can even do one thing daily, that's more than enough! ❤️

[@mariaa109]

@@riyalouis1259 For sure! We live in peculiar times so we should take good care of our mental health! Sending positive energy to you ✨☺️ take care!

[@HIXHAM]

“One small crack doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you were put to the test, and you didn’t fall apart.” Have a wonderful day guys ❤️💚❤️

[@gabrielleerika351]

grateful for you and this message 🤍

[@veganlunchmom]

💕

[@pratibhasingh7157]

Her voice is so soothing I can easily fall asleep to it

[@pratibhasingh7157]

@@dh6414 she actually does make

[@lavendaire]

hehe :) and i have a new guided meditation coming soon !

[@SweetAsElle]

Habits that make me feel like I have my life together: journaling/planning, reading and deep cleaning my home and/or my body ✍🏼📚🧼

[@aitana6455]

Maintaining my skin care routine, working out and not skipping class are my top things for feeling like I really have it together

[@dnwmz4657]

Things that make me feel like I have my life together: waking up at 6 am, meditation, reading, studying for 2 hours, mindful eating, drinking tea, journal, decluttering.

[@MindBodySpiritBliss]

Some habits that make me feel like I have my life together is definitely cleaning, having time to myself (3 kids, spouse, and a dog, tends to lead to sensory overload A LOT!), and writing down my goals. I feel like when you become a mom everyone expects you to give up yourself for them and that’s not the case. Writing down goals that are personal helps me to not lose myself.

[@HIXHAM]

“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.”

[@shreyadey1850]

Your thoughts means a lot , thanks 💜

[@sofiaolivia8676]

the habits that make me feel like i have my life put together are doing my skincare routine, having sufficient time to spend with loved ones and listening to my favourite music

[@unmiss-com]

Be yourself! Never listen to others about what you should do. Others limit your possibilities compared with theirs, that's why they don’t believe that you can. But you can and you will.

[@munimuninitc]

tbh, its waking up at 6 45 am. i dont have to follow a morning routine, but showering, eating and chilling before classes is imperative for my sanity.

[@rootedro]

I have a ritual where I set a timer and clean for 15 minutes a day. It keeps my space and mind freeeee of clutter. ❤️

[@lavendaire]

love that!

[@sophiayuna]

anytime aileen puts "self care" in her title you know it's gonna be extra good. queen of self care 👏

[@soumyaperuri7510]

Habits that keep me grounded: Reading and Meditation 😊

[@angelinemary6119]

One thing that make my life put together: My daily communication with God❤

[@a.b.2405]

Amen ✨

[@dryvonneburkart]

Sleeping, eating well, and reducing stress are the absolute bare minimum for me.

[@whiteflowercrownmusic7124]

Habits that make me feel like I have my life together: running, cleaning my flat really well and getting dressed and putting on makeup even if I'm indoors

[@SanjeevKumar-ot3op]

My soul is always happy when I spead time with what I like which is painting

[@sabothebooklover1978]

Good luck with your painting 🖼 😊

[@savannahcutshall1189]

Reading my Bible daily and doing daily Bible study makes me feel like I have my life together! 🙏🛐

[@dv7361]

Things that make me feel like I’ve got my life together: yoga, prayer and skin & hair care. Thanks to working from home I’ve been able to do all these fairly consistently this year 😊

[@alannahlee1705]

Her voice is so calming!

[@kusumshibaranjanibohidar5996]

Habits that make me feel like I've my life together : workout, watering my plants and when I complete one whole question series.🙈♥️

[@keshiathompson-simplehealt5013]

I love the gratitude and powerful affirmation, " I align with the highest, grandest version of me." Really love that you are making it a point to do yoga and move your body. Yes it is cleansing to the mind body and soul. To answer your question, the one thing I need to do consistently is exercise, move my body more that will make me feel like I have my life together more. Yes it does feel great when your environment is clean. Thank you Lavendaire for this self care day, getting my life together video, it has truly inspired me!

[@lavendaire]

:)

[@sylviakwamboka]

the habits that's make me feel like I have my life together is journaling, exercise and meditation

[@forevermore9431]

I feel that I got my life together if I can cross out the three important tasks in my daily planner. It makes me feel great and organized.

[@AllThingsAlexa]

Agreed exercising helps me feel like I have my life together. Also a clean space! Especially the kitchen! The kitchen gets out of hand way to fast!

[@theyearoftheunicorn]

"Yoga is like a shower" love that perspective! The one thing that makes me feel like I have my life together is journaling

[@preciousdelapena9657]

Habits that make me feel like I have my life together: reading books, journaling, sticking to my routines, exercising, and meditating.😊

[@erion3017]

One thing for me that brings everything together, is the love for truth!!!

[@rashikabhardwaj6227]

Beauty is not on the outside. A positive mind, a happy soul, a pure heart and a beautiful smile, that's beauty, happiness and peace for you and everyone. So take care of yourself 💞💞

[@nivedita-priya]

One thing for me is meditation and giving myself more time in the morning

[@SteAndRach]

both of those are big ones for us too!! btw, we left a comment on your video but just wanted to say we love your dance moves!! 😍

[@nivedita-priya]

@@SteAndRach thank you😇and your channel's amazing as well🥰

[@amraakmadzic2134]

What makes me feel like I got my life together is journaling. I finally started to journal consistently this year (it's been a goal of mine since 2016) It pushes me to be more productive and control my time better.

[@lauraoshea1701]

I'm quite the same when it comes to tidying up and cleaning, I might be super lazy in the beginning but once I start I keep finding more and more spaces I want to perfect! Love the blue hair!

[@jeon_artemis]

I can't tell you how much I am grateful of the fact that whenever I'm in need of guidance in life, there's always going to be a video uploaded by you in that aspect of my life. Yesterday one of my cats passed away, and I've been feeling quite low as expected. Thank you for reminding me that it's important to take care of myself, even at times of grieving.

[@lavendaire]

aww i'm so sorry for your loss

[@ayushi6247]

You'll never know what you're gonna become in the future and if you're going to achieve something big. She never knew she's going to be a great youtuber and a contributor at the age of 20.

[@manjimaroy1164]

Yoga and gratitude in the mornings and reading /audiobooks on my way back from work makes me feel put together! Also I really enjoy these reset videos

[@janum6291]

You are the positive girl who passes the positive vibrations to us 😉👍🙏.....

[@SteAndRach]

So true, her vibes are contagious!, Aileen is actually the person that inspired us to start our KZbin channel to try and inspire others in a creative way! Forever grateful for this woman 😍🙏💛

[@AndreyZenperial]

YESS!! Who else has meditated today too?✌🏻

[@girijagopimv4802]

*Your channel has helped me a lot you deserve the world And I have been doing things you show in your Chanel trust me it has changed my life*

[@yuvraj206]

doing chloe tings workouts daily makes me feel happy and super activated daily . ☺

[@JournalingWithNadia]

Omg I totally relate with not being able to stop with decluttering once I get started 😂 the urge to clean also pops up the most when I have so much to do and I'm avoiding doing those things

[@aitana6455]

Oh god, same, finals season turn into cleaning season 🤦

[@ViniLaggad]

My favorites thing that make me feel together with my life is maditate every morning with lavendair guided meditation! ☺️

[@gurudra]

The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone

[@user-uy9uo7um1i]

hey just wanna share what I am going through right now. After my first heartbreak from last year I decided to love myself more and it did went pretty well and then this day came all of these self love, self improvement, and those walls I build to protect myself just collapse. Here I am starting to love myself again. Self love isn't linear one day you'll found yourself in a not so good space but what matter is that you get back up.

[@OO-ct4hq]

@@user-uy9uo7um1i Self love is also being vulnerable i think, so it's a good thing you're opening yourself again.

[@lesmortimers4791]

I actually think it’s different. If you don’t love yourself, you’re gonna love others too much, even if they don’t deserve it.

[@OO-ct4hq]

@@lesmortimers4791 THAT'S WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR GIRL THANKS

[@elizabethmary2439]

One thing if done consistently is budgeting. Definitely budgeting. Habits that make me feel like I have my life together, meditating, skin care/self care routine, to-do lists/planning/organizing, journaling.

[@lucyw4543]

I feel like ive got my life together when i medidtate, journal and read often

[@glymandane-ballesteros]

Prayer and meditation as soon as I wake up. I hope I'll have a solid habit of soing yoga because it releases tension on my body every practice. I can fall asleep with your voice. I love you, Aileen! Thanks for this video!

[@elizabethsolomon1254]

Habits that make me feel like I have my life together exercising and reading which I also want to get back on

[@rayalantin6742]

Who needs a therapist when we have Aileen’s voice 🙈

[@melissaarispe265]

IKR!

[@Cherryyyyblossom]

The one thing that feels my life together is journaling ❤️ (i started journaling after i started watching your channel aileen❤️)

[@ameliaandwatson]

To whoever read this: Hope you'll have an amazing day. Just be patient and positive. ❤️ (I'm a small youtuber looking for help)

[@natravelandyoga71]

Just subscribed! 😄 let’s follow each other’s adventures? I’m a small creator too

[@smitham.k4055]

Keep going 😊😊

[@clau_sing_]

I am too

[@natravelandyoga71]

@@clau_sing_ just subscribed to your channel too 💗

[@clau_sing_]

@@natravelandyoga71 ohh thank you! hope you enjoy my videos, if not it's totally okay haha

[@jocelyneatscooksandmore]

Habit: waking up early and having my morning routine (brush teeth and hair, make bed, put away dishes, etc) done before my baby wakes up

[@aviin8568]

These are the things that when I do consistently it makes me feel presence and put together: When I clean up my room daily and read books, also meditating and listing 3 things I’m grateful for that day or night.

[@neharvaishnav4400]

When I excesice daily I feel like my life has come together!!!

[@hellobitter-sweetdays6923]

I've never been so early inone of your videos. One habit that I've started last month was journaling/planning each day and it makes me feel more organized. Also, I started listening to meditation/yoga playlist on KZbin to help me feel relax and sleep better. Thanks to you I started to look up for yoga and meditation videos 😊

[@ICEcoldJT]

Self care is the best care

[@sierrareed11]

That "One thing" for me is yoga and journaling :)

[@MariJadeWrites]

One thing that helps me a lot is journaling

[@sachadanielle6596]

100% having a clean environment and exercise make me feel like my life is together!

[@S1r3nc0r33]

Organising and planning my week/day 100% makes me feel like I have my life together✨ I’ve noticed that I’ve been slacking off meditation as a habit & plan to get back into it consistently, Thanks for the video❤️

[@SteAndRach]

Yesss, organizing my week and my exact daily to do's the night before has helped me (Rach) so much too! Ps, love the blue hair 💛😀

[@sangichan]

I love cleaning & writing in my journal, it‘s so therapeutic 💜

[@esbenthesentinel9962]

Theese are the habits that i use to get my life together: Yoga, meditation and body scans.

[@milkbread5036]

For me it's cleaning (you don't have to think about it, you move about and feel more clean and put together). Exercise, detox tea, being out in the sun, long showers, skin routine, body massage, essential oil candle, social media detox.

[@Kilofa_tarot]

For me it’s cleaning, if my space is clean and clear my mind is clean and clear and I can focus on other things fully knowing I am in a free and airy space. No clutter = no built up negative energy that nests there. I also like to sage my space or use incense as this makes everything feel more clear and fresh.

[@ivandure63]

you're the most peaceful person I know, thank you for sharing your light with us ❤

[@casandratanare5470]

Decluttering and tidying things up is the best feeling ever.

It’s never too late to get your life together 💙💙💙

[@dhruvihate4331]

Meditation, journaling and working out

[@nurfarzanaabdullah58]

I do decluttering everyday to reset my day because I'm an organised and neat person.i also do journal for about 10 months now and it makes me feel so good about myself ❤️❤️❤️. my journaling interest sparks from me watching ur vid.it almost a year now I'm Incorporating gratitude and meditation in my life from watching ur vid.i will always pray for u aiileen...u are such a beautiful soul and such an inspiration for the world.we need more person like u .I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️will keep watching ur videos 🌼🌼🌼🌼

[@shivanisinghsengar7616]

Three things I'm gonna do put my life together are exercising, skin care and do my tests daily in my study bubble.

[@MalanaBouarouy]

All of your videos are so aesthetic and positive, I wish to have a channel like yours one day ✨

[@jonathangubisch-createyour2666]

Every day is a peace of your mosaic called life. 😊✨

[@lindymahlangu4941]

Just at the right time!😀💜 Some self care is needed before all the festive stuff

[@TrueStature]

Yay! You showed a dirty kitchen counter, and admitted you've not been awesome about exercise lately. I really appreciate your being real with us because it gives me hope when I look at my dirty counter.... which makes me want to clean it! Thank you.

[@utsamaity2906]

ONE THING that makes me feel that my life is together: meditating or grounding myself

[@SteAndRach]

Can totally relate to that! Breathwork has really helped us! It's a really intense form of meditation, we actually made a video about it! Just thought I would share since you seem like a really likeminded person 😀💛

[@utsamaity2906]

@@SteAndRach sounds great

[@avokido9388]

The habits that make me feel like I got my life together is meditating, reading and skincare!

[@redcookie2976]

Dancing helps me feel better every time

[@mckenziekay708]

How are these videos so perfectly timed?? The right ones always come when I need them. Thank you, Lavendaire!

[@enkromelleandrew]

Self care allows you to give the world the best of you and not what is left of you ❤...

[@rachaelteoh3285]

Journaling, cooking, getting out and about & learning are the things that put my life together.

[@Sojourn07-b3y]

Aww!!! The more & more you're growing the more & more you are grounding 💓

[@lavendaire]

[@summersunnysmile]

Quiet Time this is the one thing that wraps (if I do it at night) my day or makes my day if I do it early morning or in the morning....

[@purplediamondify]

1 thing for me is Journalling when done consistently especially for 1hr . I go into a flow state and insane Mental clarity. I haven't been consistent is been on and off for months. 😭 Sadly I told someone I Journal and they were judgemental so I stopped so its been hard to get into it again just giving myself the time and patience to slowly Integrate it back into my life ✨

[@ragahdalmomen3377]

The one thing that make me feel I got my life together is journaling..It is make my thoughts clear

[@crystalagena1348]

Thank you for this! You are incredible Aileen! I love my morning routine of yoga and meditation. It makes me feel ready to conquer the day!

[@ashmontenegrohart8795]

my most important habit that i started implementing two months ago is a daily epsom salt bath right when i get up in the morning. i lay for 10-15 minutes to ground myself either praying or meditating (guided or not). on my days off i don’t have a time limit. i notice such a difference💖

[@dirthmother]

my one thing: Going for a walk after work, for at least 45 minutes. My job is very draining, mentally and physically, so I'm tempted to just plop down on my bed and be unproductive as soon as I get home. While this feels good at first, it makes me regret not spending my precious free time more productively. So, one walk a day it is!

[@notebeansstationery]

For me, it’s definitely Reading a good book in the morning (currently reading Marie Kondo was life-changing magic of tidying up ☺️), making a delicious cup of coffee or earl gray latte, and running a half mile every day before I shower!! ❤️❤️

[@saniyaskitchen6474]

Iam always all over the place, but recently my life is more better than ever I think it's because of you, your podcast, your videos, and afcourse your voice. Just one Habit that I want to adapt is SLEEP EARLY

[@avaharker3554]

For me, one thing that just feels good if I do it every day is stretch and roll out. I’m a ballet dancer, so it’s sort of a necessity for muscle recovery, but I notice such a difference in how my body feels when I do it

[@tamarapavlovic9124]

One thing that makes me feel like I have my life together is planning Amazing video 💛

[@rosiejohnson1096]

your voice is so calming😌 also, the habits that make me feel like i have my life together are; making my bed as soon as i get out of it, picking my outfit the night before (also means i get a little more sleep, who doesn’t want that?😂) and cleaning my car inside and out every sunday, i can’t stand a dirty car😖💚

[@amalieeng]

thank you so much Aileen. you're always here when i need u

[@samruddhiingale3666]

Habits that make me feel like my life is aligned and sorted are reading, Journaling and doing my workouts and dance routines....they are the best for putting my mind together ❤ 😌

[@munhassan7840]

I love reading I appreciate having a book in front of me and being able to turn the pages. It’s healthy for the mind. This video so inspiring and encouraging thank you 🙏🏻

[@leaf9411]

I am way grateful to KZbin for showing your channel on my recommendations.🤗. Your channel inspired me to start a KZbin channel and it's going well ( fake it until you make it😉).

[@Niffringo]

Wow...so early at the first time..... About the self care day Awesome.... going to try it tomorrow I am not lying i am going to try it

[@AudreyVlogs]

This video is such a perfect way to start my morning 😌😌

[@nicoleonfeels]

Self care is crucial! More people should make time for this, esp in our culture that glorifies overworking.

[@Patricia-fi9zo]

Love yoga and meditation for self care and feeling put together. P.s. Had a good chuckle at your yoga & showering analogy, love it 😄

[@lavendaire]

😂 loved it too

[@Patricia-fi9zo]

❤️