How to be an Independent Woman

[@priyasundaram9806]

Hello Madam...you have covered so many aspects of being a truly independent person...today's media incorrectly portrays independence solely as a woman stopping cooking as it is a sign of illiteracy and picking your laptop and going to work. both working ladies and homemakers deserve equal respect for their choices. Your tips are solid facts!!Thanks a lot madam

[@locomate818]

Trust me me being today’s women I go in search of Ted talk to learnt this . How lucky there kids are to have mom like her . She is a huge precious human to our society Amma 🙏🏽

[@vsrig]

Agree! "Just a housewife" is something that irks me too. Having been one, and then later becoming a career person - I always feel that being a housewife is tougher.

[@GitasKitchen]

Absolutely.. specially when one never "retires" from being a housewife!

[@vijayalakshmitilak8920]

Good morning madem.i am watching your videos from past one year.everything you are delivering in simple and realistic way. Really feeling good to watch.have a good day🙏

[@Gajulapalli_Mounika]

Especially when your father treat you like “ohh! my daughter is just a housewife” and treat your husband nicely as he is earning ( not giving value to his words but for his money) it hurts like why am I even alive 😒 when your own father treats you not worthy because you are not earning. This is what my life is now.

[@kaverishettigar8530]

Very good information madam

[@Meena-nl6wv]

Awesome & Inspiring video mam, "IN A GENTLE WAY, YOU CAN SHAKE THE WORLD"

[@superoldways]

Thank you Madam Gita. You are reminding me of all those aunties in my life that are gone now. looking back, what a gift they were. I should have paid more attention then, but it's never too late as their words will always ring out somewhere at the right time. thank you again.

[@kalpanajagarlamudi8795]

We have to keep on learning regarding., cooking, making good relationships with in-laws and learn where to draw a line and not let others to step in to your shoes.

[@rekhanarendra3261]

Amma, I felt like a child who had lost something for longtime, upon seeing this video I have found what I had lost. I fall short of words to explain how wise you sound. Believe me these pearls of wisdom is the only difference between a happy & a miserable life. Thank you so much.

[@GitasKitchen]

Wonderful

[@maliniarya2088]

Absolutely right, Ma'am! Without financial independence a woman cannot be truly independent, so educate your girls well.

[@essvecan73]

You are simple, homely, motherly, articulative, concise, clear, dignified, ... Your teachings though these videos are like most important life lessons not taught at schools, universities, or this well put by an older family member (in most families) God gives you good health, strength and wisdom to provide life lessons...

[@ritatyagi8730]

When I saw the topic I wondered how you will cover it .Then when I saw it, purely out of curiosity I said wow ! You have not only covered every aspect but explained both sides of the story . Hats off to you Gita . Well done .

[@wearekat5100]

I really needed to hear this. It's true many women these days are educated and yet don't participate in decision making, be it personal issues, family or professional life. Standing up for ourselves is the most important but difficult things to do, as we always run the risk of hurting someone.

[@veenaagopala5083]

Oh very true. I hate taking help because ppl say u cant do things yourself and so u need help. You modified my view. Thank you so much. Wow. You covered all points.

[@evelynmonteiro5690]

I wish I heard you years back....u r a loving mother❤️, adorable lady

[@shirleygeorge6351]

Had slipped watching this..you know Gita,you are truly one angel in our lives!God's blessed you with this unique talent..may it elevate & enrich all of us,young & old.

[@GitasKitchen]

Not at all Shirley! I'm sure with your experience you would have a lot more to share too. Thanks for your support!

[@kamalanatarajan4557]

Geetha ji very proud of u what a explanation on independence hats off u . I admire ur English .👌🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@GP-ct1wz]

You have touched upon very critical points towards independence and covered both emotional and physical aspects. I enjoyed listening. Thank you.

[@sarikayadav493]

Dear Geeta Ma'am 🙏thank you so much....keep showering your blessings on us through your simple yet valuable videos. Good wishes for your new channel.

[@579curly]

Well said ma'am. I had a major surgery 2 years ago that left me with a disability and now I am at a crossroads in my life. I'm trying to rebuild myself and start over but it hasn't been easy. This video is very motivating. Thanks.

[@GitasKitchen]

Be positive. All will be fine.

[@viddo257]

"With independence comes responsiblity also". 3rd video of yours and am already your fan

[@charlettesequeira9450]

Oh you lovely woman!!!...One more nice quality of yours is out...ur a good councellor. .one of ur best videos ...i say...i listened to it 4 times...i needed this Gita....at d age of 50 im going through this feeling of being left out . .. Or feel ive not made d best of my life.. Im a housemaker..& since i have lots of health issues.. I got depressed easily..& am on medication for anxiety disorder without which i cant sleep...i worried a lot in my life..unnecessarily..considered myself unworthy although im gifted wid lots of talents...May all who listen to your video be helped & blessed...its truely inspiring.. God bless u Gita

[@sheilaben1]

Good Morning Charlette! U are able to relate to the video which means u have the qualities of a strong women. So keep going it's a beautiful world if u see it that way. U wrote so beautifully that I am responding to u. Keep yourself happy because that's what you are worth. Have a wonderful day 😍

[@ciriqs2430]

charlette sequeira take care of your wellbeing and share your talent go out and and meet people or study

[@bollywoodtalks3043]

U look so pretty in Every video.. I like ur uniqueness n human touch u show in Every video.. thnx for this video as well.. N yes I like the attitude u mentioned B Yours3lf ...loads of love ..take care .🤗🤗🤗

[@bibitanner7310]

How wonderful to hear this from you. The person who married me should LISTEN to this.Huge jealously for who I am and my believes. There are so many points you made I should jot down and point it out to him. There is NO such thing as sitting down and talking no matter the subject which has led to a miserable married life. So thank you. I will listen to this clip over and over again. Will get back to you with some my very personal experiences. I am still very confident, happy(thanks to a level head above my shoulder) and will continue to follow my dreams and vision.

[@GitasKitchen]

You can do it !

[@jyothimaddala4412]

It's so inspiring. Your way of explaining the correct things is so lovable. Thanks. More videos please

[@anupamakedia4731]

Till date,I have never commented on ANY video.But this was so well said and straight from the heart,that simply couldn't resist congratulating you.Super !!!

[@MsSuba7]

well said on financial matters,i am back in insurance and other deposit things ,but now i realised how important to know about,Thanks a lot for sharing and hereafter i follow to know on finance matters

[@dollyarora1716]

Mam i hv wkd for 40 years evry i knew but listening was good thank u as if i m talking

[@anitabhosale4899]

MARVELLOUS!! very nicely explained..I watch all your vedios ..u are a genius in cooking as well as giving guidance and solving problems. God bless u Gita ma'am

[@GitasKitchen]

Most welcome 😊 Thanks Anita

[@indirat.s4495]

Mam really it is a powerful speech on this topic...very relevant.. understandable..full clarity....till the end very nice to hear..excellent...

[@nmenon09]

Thank you for your advice Gita mam. There are very few people, who I love to listen to and you are of them. You are a great mentor and your tips and suggestions have worked well for me. Be it cooking, kids or about self care. Looking forward to more such videos.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you Nisha

[@rituagrawal2218]

Beautiful wisdom. Thanks u for sharing

[@akhiladronamraju1291]

I rarely comment on KZbin Videos. You are soooo cute madam. It's a treat to watch you. You speak so sensibly. I binge watch your Videos. ❤️.

[@smithasusan1125]

True

[@minnieksangha1635]

Agreed💗🤍💗

[@yashavanthikarkera7696]

Madam very nice.your sayings ' be your self Don't copy others' Hundred percent true mam. You are also a good councillor

[@pnrv]

Great advice Gita. I am in my 60's and you gave a really wonderful answer to that young woman. It took me many years to feel comfortable living by my own standards -- but once I did I became a better person. And this made me more approachable to others. It is one great advice that young people can follow.

[@GitasKitchen]

Well said.. true words of wisdom pnrv

[@shadisharma3450]

@@GitasKitchen very nice.advice

[@lakshmiv1167]

Thanks a lot Madam, these are really very motivating words. Lucky to have you on this.

[@radha8549]

Very well explained. Thank you madam. Wish to make more videos on motivational. Being a homemaker I’ve experienced so much... it hurts when ppl take memories granted. Am talented, an artist , creative , love keeping my home very clean n perfect, loves stitching embroidery, crafts and gardening and also a good cook too ... from 5 years. But no kids yet. Keeping this as a reason many have seemed help, and sometimes it hurts like anything when they just use me for their needs😒 . But today after watching this video.... I mad myself to say NO henceforth for any kind of help. Thank you Gitas kitchen.

[@preetim4871]

Geeta aunty, thank you for sharing your wonderful and inspiring thoughts with us in this video. It is a much needed reminder of what is important and what our focus should be in life. Much appreciated. Lots of love.

[@kanikakalai]

Thanks madam. Lots of love and respect to you. Though you were talking but it was like a heart to heart conversation.

[@raghavishanaz]

Thanks for these valuable words which sounded as one would hear from a mother or a dear teacher.

[@maureensamson4863]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions in this video! Every point is relevant and beautifully presented! Wishing you all the very best!

[@kintanhongekar5154]

Great.. wonderful thoughts shared in simple yet effective language..🙏

[@yashodashetty2396]

thanks mam for such beautiful explaination.looking for more such videos.

[@GitasKitchen]

Most welcome 😊

[@vinnettepope8255]

Wise counsel.✋✋✋✋🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👊👊👊👊👊👊👊

[@usharohidekar4089]

Thank you mam,pls keep posting such a helpful videos.hats off to ur knowledge n ur simplicity.it is a great help to the society.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you, I will

[@smitajadhav4842]

Motivational and every lady should once watch this video...helps alot....👌👌

[@TheSindhusharma1]

Such a useful video Mami... thank you for this much needed motivation ♥️

[@aahanadavesharma3610]

No words !! Just an amazing !! I am thinking how lucky and blessed will be your kids to get a mother like this!!

[@vasanthisarangapani4989]

Thank you ma’am for giving such valuable advice. Seeing and hearing you speak with a gentle smile gives so much energy and confidence... please can you consider to put some videos on parenting mainly for working mothers who has to handle office work household work and also small kids...it’s so stressful especially in this lockdown period ...how to handle all this effectively

[@GitasKitchen]

My pleasure 😊 kzbin.info/www/bejne/fmW1pJWZbbSZe7M pls watch this and also the one on Good manners in children

[@vasanthisarangapani4989]

Thanks for your reply and sharing the links ma’am. It’s means a lot to me...I realise parenting is not so easy nowadays with everyone being as nuclear family...it’s a big responsibility and a challenging one...I saw through those videos but not easy to implement or change in one night ... need lot of patience in dealing with children and repeatedly need to watch such videos to understand and implement in day to day life...please do share more such videos...thanks 🙏

[@preetirajan1385]

Very sensible and inspiring for youngsters and middleaged. Keep up the good work. God bless.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you very much Preeti

[@surbhiverma9456]

Very inspiration video for all women. Mam you are experienced so we will get so many thing by you.

[@girijatripuramallu3576]

It's very impressive to hear you madam...thanks to the Internet platform which actually helps to connect the seekers to givers....keep going mam...

[@nalinidharanipragada1997]

Mam, you have brought out all the imp. points of being independent. You have shared your own experiences which are truly common to many of us women. Thank you mam. Also, if you can tell us about being individualistic, without hurting others, it would be very nice.

[@jyotsanathacker7615]

Ma'am u are too good. I love to see ur videos and I'm inspired to try ur recipes.

[@srivanikalluri5925]

Hii Amma... Nyc & useful video for everyone .. Thanks a lot for sharing such Nyc suggestions ...👍🏻 Amma we defenetly follow your suggestions ..

[@positivevibesj5490]

You have opened a detail notes about quality of a personal attitude to be independent but not arrogant 🙏👌👌🌹love you Aka

[@sarikapawar4766]

Namaste Ma'am... I recently joined ur channel... i loved all your videos whichever i have watched....and off course i am gonna watch more... Recently i watched your this video and felt very confident and also felt like i am listening to my own Mother...I loved ur simplicity and clear thoughts ....Thank you for sharing such briefer ideas ... Love you Ma'am ... keep sharing the videos... Thanks.

[@sugarbellefernandes3322]

Lady Gita, Thank u .very sound advice for women of all ages. I will share it with my teen.

[@nagalatabs6577]

Very rightly said amma...people just casually say oh she is just a housewife....really it hearts when people take us so lightly....even after watching us working almost twice in this lockdown....this attitute didn't change..

[@saraa16]

Every single word is so true ma'am......I need to learn so much more ......More examples would have been more helpful.please make more such videos

[@anayataklikar2977]

Very. Inspiring. Video,.There. Is some thing magical. In your. Personality. We get positive energy from you .Thanks.

[@hardeep5714]

@@anayataklikar2977 u r correct

[@jayapillai7866]

Thank you M'am... understanding oneself and be yourself ... truly the points to practise

[@victoriabr1000]

Just awesome aunty...u really brought the issue really well...u are so nice ..thanks auntie ..love u for the way u put the matter

[@jananipa2455]

Your video is not only informative and useful to the younger generation but also to others like me. Thank you very much for the clear explanation and moral values behind each and every point of yours.

[@charuiyer2231]

Beautiful. A lifetime of experience shared in a nutshell. So simply put yet so meaningful!!

[@PreetisKitchenltr]

I watch your videos very often and everytime you boost up my energy level by giving so many good suggestions and ideas to lead a happy life ..thankyou so much mam 🙏🙏

[@anuradhaanu5290]

I just love you Geetha didi.even though iam58 i have not thought about life like this. Thank you. I will also grow up after listening to you. Thank y once again

[@GitasKitchen]

that's so sweet of you Anu!

[@rishij2133]

Keep sharing similar contents mam.your words n way of presentation gives all a confidence and hope.Thankyou!

[@akshayamanimekalai4980]

Inspiring talk, valuable points shared.Thank you for your Share.Keep moving,the more you share the more you grow.

[@suprabhanair2488]

Amma..You are too good...I m a new subscriber of yours...would like to know more about you...You speak so well.. 🙌.God bless you and your family and you keep.motivating us this was....

[@preethababukuttan3441]

Great inspirational talk Gita Mam. Will be of great help to many. Do expect more of these.... Thanks a lot.

[@kirananand4902]

बहुत ही सुन्दर ढंग से वर्णन किया है आप ने , धन्यवाद 😊

[@maladas966]

Madam,your cooking,your inspirational talks are blessings to me.May you have a long,healthy life. You are so pleasing personality. I remember my grandmother who used to inspire me like this.

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much Malaji

[@albinadsouza5320]

One of the beautiful video Gita ji. Waiting for more videos from your experience which is helpful for young and old.👏👏👏

[@rachnadave6744]

Mam, this video was one of the best videos that i have seen so far, you have very nicely summarised being independent for a women.

[@monaafonso9526]

Love the explanation exhibiting so much love and care. You're very cute Aunty - Love you!

[@shradhaa7898]

Very very useful video mam....thanks a lot for taking this topic.....ur videos and thoughts always inspire me a lot

[@scientistswife]

Was just waiting for another out of the blue topic. Thank you Aunty.. Well explained.

[@krithikavedhachalammusical]

Well explained,mam I was waiting for these concepts KZbinrs,always cook recipes, but that does not define a woman,should analyse ,on all sides,atleast in the women point of view There is a big difference between indepedence and freedom Running a channel is not an easy task,so women youtubers,please work on some social aspects,its my humble request It is not possible for all to run a channel,i believe,youtubers,make the best use of it,to a level Thank u,gita mam,its just a begining,expect a lot more from you

[@yaminivijay24]

All picky true points straight from u r heart for any women to start a new family ....a real confidence booster .... 🙏Thank u ... Expect more videos like this .

[@ramachakkaravarthy5951]

Well explained most of the valuable information in this video so very nice to hear from you thanks for sharing

[@shantireddy4411]

Awesome ma'am you talk very nicely and I love watching your videos on any subject

[@shibanimitra4108]

Your guidance is very useful, aunty for today's generation. 🙏 Agree learning is till the last day of life.

[@GitasKitchen]

Yes 😊

[@rupaliambre4552]

Well said mam. Feel homely watching you . It is an inspiring video😊

[@sapnas6066]

Mam this video shows how clear u r about life! U r leading a very quality life and that’s very inspiring 🙏🏻

[@chytrak4060]

Well explained ma'am. Independent woman is a very hyped topic among in today's world.Thanks for lovely tips.

[@heenashah6036]

What a lovely way to explain Geetaji thank you 🙏😊

[@sonysadanand3078]

Mam I am planning to buy a refrigerator ... Can you plz suggest a good brand... How long have u been using whirlpool? And how is it's working?

[@sayalipshinde]

It was a very informative talk :) Gita aunty, your speech will help me in near future. Thank you! You are sweet n beautiful too!

[@sayalipshinde]

The beautiful and pleasant thing about you is the lively greeting of "good morning" and "thank you" when the video concludes!! Its very adorable :)

[@sunadnakashid427]

Mam very nice and useful video,....... Thanks for share ur experience......

[@sujathachada1583]

I am a big fan of u mam. Ur words, personality, thoughts & cooking style inspires me a lot. Especially this video is awesome. Thanks for everything mam. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@shriyasrivaz3369]

Wow!! Just found your channel. Real beautiful insights ❤️❤️

[@priyantharasrig1995]

a lovely speech..I wasn't really interested in watching this video..I hought how can someone else tell me how to be independent.. but I was wrong.. this speech is very inspiring,very uplifting yet very keen on being grounded too..thanks so much..people of today need to listen to such videos,they have the world at their feet and they quite reckless..they need a video like this to bring out their inner potential and peace..

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you liked it Priya!

[@jagdisharwade2351]

Excellent, Intelligent guidance to the new generation. It was the need of hour. It's difficult to speak to one child family. The child is the Bose & parents are subordinate. KEEP advocating. 👍✔

[@padminimaratha9393]

Really I enjoyed lessing your advice. I agree with you, you don't normally get partner with same interest as you have. Geetajee your advice is too good 👍 👏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks for sharing!

[@manoharamexpert9513]

Namaste mam and sir, Ella ponnukkum seedhanama neenga sonnadhadhan kudukkanum, There can be nothing more valuable than these valuable points. Truly very inspirational, motivational and valuable. Oru video madhiriye nan feel pannala. There was so much genuine concern in every word of what you said mam. Directa manasula pasumarathu aani poal padhinjuruthu. That effective it was. I really hope/wish girls/ladies incorporate all these in their lives for a quality life. The video truly reflects how refined and quality life your family leads! Truly blessed to know you mam.

[@GitasKitchen]

Ennaku manasula pattadha apadiye pesinen Meenakshi.Especially the finance part it is really important to be aware . All events nd happenings which I see around me ,make me share my small contribution.

[@bhagyashreer.ab942]

Mam this is my 1st ever comment on KZbin which made me comment desperately as this topic is so energetic for women n also like a boosting dose thanku.

[@aravindaranidt2187]

Excellent tips, Madam. Your tips will be very useful to all of us! Thank you

[@jambunathanv7043]

Gift of the gab and your finger in every pie! May God bless you!

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you so much

[@rav047574]

Well said maam.👏.basic values is what we need to hold on strongly..that defines a independent lady rather than t just money.. S..to keep oneself happy will surely reduce lots of frustration that ladies often undergo..

[@poojashri24]

Great respect madam....you are absolutely true and giving a right guidance...to today's generation 👍

[@GitasKitchen]

Thanks a lot

[@chryshanthishivaji3364]

Thank you Mam for this inspiring Video... God Bless You...❤️🙏

[@GitasKitchen]

Thank you very much

[@alkagaur2662]

Really interesting and valuable Dear Geeta Mam. Like to listen it again and again. Women like me can't be able to say NO many times. You inspired me and you boost me. Thanks a lot dear.

[@pankajamalajure1543]

I am so glad . Your all programs are so good and informative. Thanks

[@GitasKitchen]

Glad you like them!

[@dharenithulasiraman1879]

Thanks a lot for your advice...that was really valuable and worthy of time listening to your words....thank you so much

[@GitasKitchen]

So glad!