His Silence Is A Decision! 3 Things You Should NEVER Do If He’s "Hot And Cold" Or Distant...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you want to learn the secrets to attracting a high-quality man and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/ The flowers in this video are from Rose Forever. They're preserved with natural oils so they last for a year! Check out their website here (use the coupon code HART25 to get $25 off your order!): bit.ly/3fPAxqx Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/helenahartcoaching/ Listen to my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@MonicaSancio]

And your top is gorgeous, too! Thank you, Helena, for this video! What about a guy you are just starting to date? What about if I'm ok with him giving what he can, as I keep my options open?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’d follow what feels good to you - your feelings are always an indicator that things are going well or that something isn’t in alignment with what you TRULY want. 💞

[@ennkay2756]

2 months into dating a guy 8 years younger than me. I'm 39 and he is 31. He has a start up and has to concentrate on that. Also he says he has trust issues that has nothing to do with me and he is working on that. With that said, we meet almost every week and mostly on weekdays. He used to text every day and calls every other day. He ain't texting every day now but a couple of weeks he called everyday and recently he couldn't call frequently because he was unwell and had work pressure. How does this situation sound? P.S. we had a discussion about marriage after a month of dating and he asked for a year to know more about each other to take it to that stage.

[@joshpatrick8809]

@@ennkay2756 if he says he is busy, leave it at that...don't act like it's not going anywhere. You've only been dating for a month and already talking about marriage? You need to chillax, for real. You move too fast and he will think you're a gold digger and just want to get his money. Do what he said and get to know each other better before rushing into something as major as a marriage. He has trust issues as well...you move too fast and you're probably going to get the opposite result. Just saying...don't disregard him and his feelings/choices...if he wants to take a break from you, let him...he needs time to work and sort out his life. If you truly love him, let him do what he needs to do.

[@mellead8727]

The truth ladies: if a man likes you, it’s obvious. If he doesn’t, it’s not so we look for crumbs. Helena is spot on!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, thanks for sharing! 💞

[@jusjeany]

Actions don't lie... if a man really wants a woman, his actions will leave no room for second guessing...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here - I agree! 💞 My husband and I talked about that in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM

[@lauriepeifer7297]

LEAVE!! I just did a few weeks ago. It totally sucks, but the sooner you end it the better. "Situationships" are the most toxic of all.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Laurie! These videos should be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@carlaageday1989]

🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Desda1000]

When you are with the right person, everything is easy. Things just fall into place, like a jigsaw puzzle with the right pieces.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here - I agree! 💞

[@ciggytwiggy]

I kept affirming I am chosen I am a priority and I am important. We have been going out for 8 months but the pace has never increased and never seems to get off ground. Recently I asked more personal questions and it seemed like he pulled away even more. Then I realise I was affirming choosing myself. Today I had an epiphany. I told him I was unwell and I just wanted to share it with him. He just gave me a usual gif and he didnt even ask me how I was feeling the next day. I just snapped internally. Like I just woke up. I cried for many hours because I was suppressing so much disappointment for so long. But I finally felt free. All the points you said are 100% him. I'm done with making excuses for him. F that. Thank you for this.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gH7JYZSBm9Z2eNU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM.

[@jcatron1633]

Ladies, time wasted is just time wasted. My motto is I don't want anyone who doesn't want me. I'm not begging for his time or attention. Nor am I auditioning for his love. I chose me and my peace always.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Janie - I’m happy to hear that! 💜

[@akuasalaam490]

Totally fits the dsmissive avoidant man I was seeing for a year... Thank goodness I left; He was emotionally EXHAUSTING, and I even recall consciously thinking he was breadcrumbing me, and "managing down my expectations!" Ladies, stay mindfully present and be prepared to LEAVE if need be! We all deserve a healthy, consistent love! Wishing you all the best!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! I’m glad you were able to move on. 💕

[@courtneyburnett4902]

Wow very well said!! I’ve been in a hot and cold situationship for almost 2 years. I love how you said “you can’t scare the right one away”, I need to communicate my boundaries and if it scares him, he’s not the one!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Courtney! These videos on boundaries might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZi3i3SAj9NkhKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGaUeZxriKebl6c.

[@courtneyburnett4902]

Oh thanks so much!!! 😁😁 I appreciate that! I love your content! Very straightforward and encouraging!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@707tich]

This just happened to me 10mins ago speaking to a guy for 3days and he asks me out I say ok he said let’s go for a lunch I say ok he said pick somewhere I did and a time. Then tonight (I’m from uk) I text him hi how are you and he responded im shattered from long hours at work. I said oh well rest have a early night he then says I need some TLC …I said only tlc iknow is hot chocolate and rest. He responded I meant hot sexy…doughnut. And I responded whelp krispy cream is a good shout. And he went silent. So 2hours ago I texted him About a tv show no response. And just now I texted see you tomorrow at 13. No response. NOW it’s confirmed to me as I’m not stupid he went into a child strop and gone quiet this evening becos I caught him out in trying to be slick with his words about TLC and I shut it down with hot chocolate. He prob wants to sleep with me. Instead saw this video just now on KZbin and it’s a sign. Lol I’m no going anywhere 2mrow.

[@gionagrace3343]

ALWAYS mirror a man! That's exactly how you know his worth. Helena is right...in doing so....keep keeping on....keep dating other men....go out with your friends......enjoy family time...enjoy your hobbies....travel....trust and believe......look for his consistency and mood swings...2 very important things. Many men claim they want a relationship when in reality...they only want casual sex and they have multiple women in motion at one time.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💜

[@Annamelese]

What does mean?

[@lwontherez7927]

It’s a narcissistic man-whom YOU always have to fit YOUR life into HIS schedule. There’s little to no give and take; just give. Your life revolves around him; because in his mind everyone revolves around him (a lot like how a child feels; narcissists never grew up emotionally…no matter HOW responsible they are in the work world, etc.)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! This podcast episode should be helpful for anyone who’s dealing with a narcissistic man (or keeps attracting them) - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/3NE34U7nic4fZqFSvKVAOQ?si=yrOoFOKmSGiLomCXQjgY5Q …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537158156

[@mariasvensson4558]

Thank you LW on the Rez, a very apt definition/description.

[@Kiana-Michelle]

Ladies! Dont think that being understanding of his excuses about the situation is gonna inspire him to want more with you. He has to EARN your understanding AFTER he has been consistent in showing up in your life. Because lets keep it 💯, WE ALL HAVE STUFF GOING ON IN OUR LIVES. And, Im sure many of you still make time for the people you love even if it's hard. Therefore, his excuse for why he cant do "x" right now is trivial. You want someone you can depend on and you can build a life with someone who does make you a top priority!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Kiana! These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@GGGG1040]

So true

[@MonicaSancio]

"... With the right person, it's enough..." - Helena Hart

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@Hope-qu6tv]

If he ignores you he is not interested.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I agree! 💙

[@wendygray5385]

I just got out of a year and a half relationship with one of these guys. He was consistently seeing me every other week for 4 days, rarely more. I finally had a good talk with him and said I wanted more than that in my relationship. Now he is gone, no communication. His silence is his decision. It hurts but it is for the best. No more of these guys!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Wendy! I know many women can relate. These videos should also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@lwontherez7927]

A narcissist will often have all the qualities/traits you’re looking for in a partner: he’s social, spiritual, super smart, funny, happy, optimistic, high energy, etc., etc., etc. So you end up putting him on that pedestal…which is RIGHT where he wants to be (but not in the long run). And if he hurries into a committed relationship, you may think, “Wow! I’ve never received such intense interest and motivation for commitment from a guy before!” Narcissists rush into relationships. They don’t give themselves enough time to get to know the other person long-term; or even get to know THEMSELVES when around this person. Don’t fool yourself: just because he “has all the qualities” you’re looking for,…how do YOU feel about YOURSELF when you two are a thing? Do you feel insecure about whether he cares as deeply for you as you do for him? Women, make sure the guy loves you JUUUST a little more than you love him! -so you can feel secure he’s in it for the long run.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! This podcast episode should be helpful for anyone who’s dealing with a narcissistic man (or keeps attracting them) - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/3NE34U7nic4fZqFSvKVAOQ?si=yrOoFOKmSGiLomCXQjgY5Q …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000537158156

[@sarahwilkinson3670]

18 months of wasted time with a man just like this! Tragically I still love him but I love myself more. I will get over him.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Sarah! These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpSodXuirc2FgKM.

[@avril.227]

Yikes! Been there. This sounds like an Avoidant and/or Narcissistic man. You deserve the best! ❤️ Easy to see in retrospect it wasn’t what I wanted. They will use your energy. Agree! Trust the actions.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing! These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@suecole5543]

You can never say the wrong thing to the right person....If he loves you , you will know ladies.. Keep your standard . know your worth .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

[@ifeelprettyohsopretty806]

I had this type situation in my youth. After watching the movie "He's just not that into you" decades later, I finally got it! I went on with my life got married had kids etc.....he NEVER married!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💕

[@ifeelprettyohsopretty806]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you Helena. There is so much more to share....just don't feel comfortable sharing it on a public forum.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I definitely understand. 💜

[@SS-cd6ie]

Id like to hear more the type of man you went for who you married. I keep wanting the wrong type.

[@Rexoij]

I‘m watching this and I’m SHOCKED how much I refused to take all the signs seriously. We’ve been in a relationship for three years and I felt for a long time that he’s not giving me what I want and deserve. When we fight everything is my fault, how I want to be treated is „just not his way“ (he literally said that calling and flowers and other stuff is not his way of showing love but obviously good communication and true consistency isn’t either so what is?) and my expectations are too high, „that’s not how a relationship works“. On other days he’s lovey dovey and crazy about me and the next day I’m stupid for not being able to give him what he needs. My gut told me long ago that it’s not working and I silenced these feelings and rationalized everything, hoping he would come around and if I just work on myself everything will work out. Well: i worked on myself A LOT, I grew massively personally, still nothing changed, but I developed the strength to wish him all the best and walk away. Never again.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many people can relate. I’m glad you were able to find the strength to walk away! 💕

[@sism3028]

I just learned recently that a man's kindness can be mistaken. I thought that my neighbor who was interested in me because he was always doing nice things for me, but I was mistaken he has been seeing someone for a while.

[@rsamuels6969]

“Leaning back trying to get a guy to chase you is actually being in your masculine energy” whoa mind blowing. My first video of yours and I learned SO much. You have a new subscriber

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m happy to hear that! Yes, feminine energy is a state of mind - it’s about not being attached to the outcome of any interaction you have with a man. If you’re leaning back because you’re trying to “make something happen” or as a strategy to get a man to do something, you’re actually in your masculine energy. 💕

[@misha_ry8476]

"you want someone who is not interested in you to just fade away and drop off then you continue moving forward with your amazing life, not even trying anything to make him chase you" I just did this for a week and it really felt so good for me, and I actually feel relieved now knowing that I do the right thing. Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here. 💗

[@LindyLouCantu]

"Always something man!" That's a perfect description!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! I talk more about that type of man in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU

[@LindyLouCantu]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you! You have great advice!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@rchainuwong]

Thanks so much for this! I had a relationship with a man who behave in all of these signs for 6 months. At the end, I decided to let him go and I am now in a much better place 😌.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 Thanks for sharing your experience here. These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@jennsteeves2790]

The “ always something “ man. I like it.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Jenn! I talked more about that type of man in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU

[@nickymehta1138]

I married this man and made two beautiful daughters with him. I have never felt his love and is never consistently there for me. There's always something that stops him from loving me. He blames his childhood. I am so grateful for my children but wish I was in a loving and respectful relationship. It was my dad's funeral last week and he's not been able to be there for me.

[@jokster4409]

W0W!

[@sayless1445]

Prayers for your family 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ciggytwiggy]

What the. We are here for you ❤

[@Moespeaks]

Oh hun, i am so sorry, that would really really hurt. Sending you a big hug x

[@arxsyn]

He needs therapy. Tell him the marriage is in trouble because you lack connection. Go to marriage counseling together

[@JaimaJoy]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been trying to figure out how it became this way, and you hit the nail on the head. Taking my energy back. I deserve so much more than this!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. Yes, you definitely deserve more than this! ❤️

[@donnajames6067]

I love what you said about ‘managing down my expectations’ wow 🤩 eye opening…..thanks Helena xx

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Donna! 💕

[@cherieanne3659]

I just went through this for the SECOND time with same man. He’s showed all 10 warnings. Tried telling me the second time that he has more time. But, he doesn’t, at least not for me, anyway. Just told him the other day that, not only can’t i be FWB, but can’t be friends with him at all. I’ve felt sooooo much lighter since then. No longer feeling like I am doing something wrong and why didn’t he want to have a relationship with me. Thank you for the validation that I did the right thing!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Cherie Anne! Yes, you definitely did the right thing. 💕

[@sjay19babybaybay93]

I've been going through this with a man. I felt all these feelings like l was being managed down! Thanks Helena for being very clear on what that means.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJqnaZKrppubhsU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIPJmGWwr9Cch8U.

[@eileenstuffs]

Love your no-nonsense advice. Back in the dating scene after divorce and this is the stuff I need to hear.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Eileen! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eYTZeZSkaNprqZo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJqnaZKrppubhsU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIPJmGWwr9Cch8U, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGS9Y4pvmN6CbKM.

[@beatricebliss9379]

Avoidants ought to be avoided:)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Beatrice! 💙

[@WahkeenaSitka]

This is exactly what's going on with my boyfriend that I've been with for over a year. We love each other and we're best friends. But this is exactly spot on.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞

[@mos2704]

Aha moment! Thank you! I needed this today. He ghosted me after 2yrs of dating exclusively. He turned into the guy your speaking of.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@heatherpalmucci5999]

Excellent… we need to focus on being high value women

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Heather! These videos should be helpful for anyone who needs some extra help with that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2K1qYNuba-nq5o and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs.

[@cm9859]

If a man likes you, he will pursue you. Your video is EXCELLENT! This is what I needed to hear! Everything you say is accurate. What I have been going through the past 5 months. Good looking, hard working Indian man I met online in December We live 7 hours apart in CA. He love bombed me at first. Excuses, he started bew job, stress and promotion. I have been worried and stressed about him for months. I literally asked him again about us and finally meeting? I do not trust him. We have had falling out. Now he doesn't call me. Just breadcrumb messages. Done with him, sick of him. I have bent over backwards. Space, time, patient, accommodating. I stopped initiating contact. If he sends me message, I will no longer respond. He has not stepped up.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m glad this helped! 💗

[@yohannacarrasco5811]

I really love this it fall to everything I have been doing I have been healing my past traumas to actually get someone who actually care about me, now I can see does red flags 🚩som I’m very happy to listen to this video because I can see how much I have grown ❤🎉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💗 This video I recorded with my husband might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrssi=NW6QFOmpAx_FTnca

[@PrancyBiscuit]

Helena can you talk about if we have anxious attachment? Then even a man whose energy is coming towards us (sometimes they're slow but steady 😂) we have trouble feeling good/secure unless we take control (and then are in our masculine energy) and we end up sabotaging or cutting off abruptly something that could have been nice. Love to you, wish i had a friend like you! ☺️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Great question! These videos should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGOxnHiGjruirKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y5fQkoVunMeNpMk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iZ7VkHV3ia9raZI.

[@brandbuildernc]

Wow thank you so much Helena! Finding your videos has been a game-changer. I'm so appreciative for your guidance and wisdom.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@hirschiegirl]

Thank you, Helena, for laying out all the signs that he’s not the one! Unfortunately, I got tangled up with this guy who was every point on this list to look out for, for 8.5 years! He is a narcissist, and he refuses to let me go, despite me finally cutting all ties with him for good. He just surfaced again recently (and multiple times since last December) full of apologies and begging for me to respond to him, NEVER AGAIN! His behavior destroyed my self esteem, which then took me two years to repair. I love me too much to allow him back in to my life, in any capacity. At our foundation, despite what he says to the contrary, I realize that he was never my friend. I recognize that a true friend would never treat me like he did, nor press on my vulnerabilities now to selfishly try to hook me again. It’s awful to realize how often this happens (that you addressed it in a video and so many girls can relate), but it’s extremely helpful to have validation via your insight that these signs are red flags and an indication to value yourself and leave the situation. Thank you so much, Helena!!🤗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here, I know many women can relate. These videos might be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@hirschiegirl]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you for the links!

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

I also went through this with my narc ex . He abandoned me and our son to go out with different women. He was always unsure about us. It has destroyed my self esteem 😔

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

So sorry to hear that, Gigi. This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZSqXoiqp5h3prM

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you so much ! I’m trying to keep strong 💪 for me and my baby . 😔

[@anneharrison257]

Thank you for the reality check. All of the videos about how to attract the specific person are bs. Rather than put all of that energy into ‘magically’ attracting him, put energy into your own growth and self care.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Anne! My latest livestream might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@How.Dare.You.]

Such a great insightful and thorough video!! "Work is really crazy" 🤣🤣 I just laugh whenever they pull that card. Thats awful... I had so many hopes about him. He was perfect 10/10, only felt like that once about someone in my whole 35 years old life, it was the second time. But had to let him go. Shame

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! My latest livestream should also be helpful for anyone who’s in a situation like that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@ssharma861]

This was hard to listen. It was so spot on. But I needed to hear it. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Sonia! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@sweetsimpleslowlife2709]

I had a man in my life who acted hot and cold , and he would talk about relationships and but not take any action with me until I let him go, that’s when he finally asked me out to dinner, but I declined because by then I lost interest in him.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! This video might also be helpful for anyone who’s dealing with a man like that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@gewfone]

He was in your life? Talking about relationships ? Until you let him go ? Seriously ?? What do you mean he finally asked you out to dinner ?? You were just casually chatting with him ?? You don't make any sense at ALL....

[@amansilla28]

Thank you for educating us!! Definitely true; watch his actions don't get blinded by his sweet words.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Angie! Yes, that’s so important. 💕

[@eliagudes]

Some men will talk and talk and will tell you a fairytale, but don’t act upon it. Actions or words alone don’t mean anything. Words need to match the actions.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Elizabeth! 💜

[@pinkypie445]

Never met him,got breadcrumbed ,and hurt but my own fault for letting him do the sht he did. DONE, and these boots are made for walkin......✌✌

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💕

[@avgonyma1]

12 years. Yes, "there's always something". Exactly. Either his job, or his retirement (yes), or other women, or his father, or COVID, or money, .... He's not putting his life on hold, but dragging me along and throwing breadcrumbs at him. Also: just randomly throwing in the things he knows you're looking for, without meaning it (e.g. marriage, mowing to live with you, spending vacation with you, to having a child together). He doesn't plan with you, but things he prioritizes, he has no issue to plan on time. It's 1 step forward, 2 steps back.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. Yes, I talked more about that type of man in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHyooKZrd75lpKM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrs.

[@avgonyma1]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you so much! I will watch them. 🙏 Congratulations on your baby,such good news!!❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗

[@iamlioness5]

Wow yes EVERYTHING was on his terms & as soon as I called him out on breadcrumbing me he disappeared. I told him actions speak louder than words. His answer was always maybe for plans although he kept telling me how special I am. When I told him I date with intention He told me his intentions are pure but “nondescript.” Yet at the same time he told me he sees things through & doesn’t give up easily. It was just all over the place. I moved forward & never looked back.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m glad you were able to move on! 💕

[@cheryly820]

Wow. You nailed my situation. Time to let go!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who can relate: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.infozKEos5BY2nA?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@valariecrebbs4751]

Thanks for the information. 😊not wasting my time with these guys

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 I talked more about this kind of man and dynamic in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIvHfZJjlNZlnJY and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@kourtney5749]

Met an older “divorced” guy from out of state when I was out one night. We really hit it off and he pursued me daily for over 2 months. Good morning/goodnight texts and consistent communication throughout the day even LD. He even drove back to visit me for my birthday weekend. However, the texts started fading over a few days span and then I just didn’t get the usual text back from him. I waited 4 days and still 👻 I got a weird gut feeling so I checked his FB and to my surprise his status said “married” when it didn’t say that before. I got pissed! Immediately cursed him out and blocked him.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Kourtney! 💙

[@abbyxiong3931]

I think when it comes to dating to be open and be honest helps.

[@kourtney5749]

Update!!!! The guy, his "wife" and their 2 friends came into my local bar tonight and the wife's friend confronted me. Told me to "stay in my own lane". I told her to get out of my face and back off or I'll have her arrested for harassment. So warped how they blame me for him being unfaithful to her and me having no clue. Unbelievable!

[@starcatcher3691]

@@kourtney5749 You didn't have to react so violently. It was wrong to blame you, though. I would've said "I didn't know. He lied to me". Put it back on them.

[@kourtney5749]

@@starcatcher3691 there was no violence involved. She actually put her hand up in the air and kept pointing it at me. I was in the line for the bathroom, she walked up stood within 2 feet of me and "confronted" me. I put both of my hands up to block her. Even my friend told her to back off. It was uncalled for and childish actually. Btw, I don't do well with confrontation. It triggers ptsd from past abuse.

[@peggymicsky8607]

If you start off a relationship with this behavior, leave. It only gets worse. Why should he change? You have set the pattern for your relationship. You!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Peggy! 💜

[@mbalimabaso9485]

I agree

[@ayahomar5182]

So true sadly 😞

[@mistykaikai]

Thank you for this video Helena. Your words and advice here go right to the core. A reality check!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@estellegirl29]

Helena our QUEEN 😍😍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww you’re so sweet! ❤️

[@HD-mg9ru]

I haven't dated in a while. I actually took myself off the market. I took time to get more into myself and the things I love to do. I recently met someone while I was in a store. I was loading water on to my cart. This employee/truck driver helped me. He had a big smile on his face. After I checked out and walked out to my car he followed me and helped me load the water into my car. He started talking to me. And ask for my number. I kind of felt he was watching me on surveillance in the store. It kind of creeped me out. But after a while speaking to him I'm like what's the harm get to know this guy. I'm not anxious to jump to go on a date. I want to get to know him. It's been a couple of weeks and he goes across country a lot. When we speak it's kind of short and it makes me wonder why don't you have the time to talk. He wanted to see me Halloween evening but we decided on the 8th of November. It's been 5 days and I haven't heard from him. I feel if he's really interested he'd want to speak with me. That's actually one of my requirements to have an interest in each others life. No contact for 5 6 7 days tells me he's a possible player. Not acceptable. Everyone's advice would be really appreciated because I've been out of the dating scene for a while. Thank you 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGTHoomarMlma68

[@HD-mg9ru]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Helena thank you so much. That was a Phenomenal video. I learned a lot on what should really transpire when you first start out dating. Like I said this guy is a truck driver and he made his way up to Oregon and I told him how beautiful it is up there to send me a picture he couldn't even do that. I have guy friends that I've known for years. They wouldnt have a prob sending a pic. That was a disappointment as simple as that seems. But anyways thank you again Helena. By the way I absolutely love your name. That's my name too ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 Thanks for sharing your experience here. This video should also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmGwl6pqqcemm9k

[@traceyread1934]

Thank you so much, Helena. This is the best dating video I've ever seen.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Tracey! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@ozzyoz5210]

I was told that he doesn't want someone's problems! I thought, " good luck with that"!

[@DeitraNechelle]

How do we work on forgiving ourselves for being so stupid and falling for these “excuses?”

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’ll keep that in mind for future video topics, thanks for the suggestion! In the meantime, this article I wrote might be helpful: helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-stop-being-hard-on-yourself-to-get-the-love-you-want/

[@DeitraNechelle]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you!! 🥰🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@the1rockgirl]

You are describing my ex.of 2.5yrs. This is a emotionally unavailable man most likely with Narcsistic Personality Disorder, (NPD) My ex had no empathy or a conscience to cheat. The hot and cold make Cognative Disonence which creates a Trauma Bond

[@hirschiegirl]

💯

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Lisa! 💜

[@the1rockgirl]

@@HelenaHartCoaching ❤

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

Me too girl after 4 years 😕😔

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZSqXoiqp5h3prM

[@katarina1122331]

I've been in such situationship for 2 months. He broke up with me once, saying he has no time for gf in january. I removed him from my life, but he came back 6 weeks later, in March. I gave him another chance. Last month I couldn't meet him, because I was sick. When I got better, I realized he is pulling away. I got mad, we had fight. Now he says he doesn't know what he wants and he asked me for space. I asked him "how long space do you need", but he said he will let me know. I just left message that I'm going on a trip, i respect his space. But if his space is gonna take months, then I can be no single anymore. I'm tired. It makes me sad, it's spring, I see happy couples everywhere, and the only thing I have is "i need space. Later".

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. 💜 These videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIvHfZJjlNZlnJY, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iamXpad7gLp_has and kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk.

[@maureenmoh2785]

Why do i know these things but still find myself repeating the same mistakes😭

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Maureen, this episode might be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZY

[@timetraveler1976]

They will tell you what you want to hear also..... We will get married one day, you are mine, you are my heart blah blah... but they will ignore your calls for a day, take trips without you and your gut will feel it constantly.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Heather! These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s experienced something like that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHyooKZrd75lpKM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/epWupoZsmM6hm7s.

[@instagamrr]

So what is the end goal of these ‘always something’ men? Is it to just take whatever they can get for as long as they can? What is their motivation for wasting their own time?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Great question! While every situation is different, many men in situations like this aren’t necessarily focused on a particular “outcome” so they don’t see it as wasting their time - they’re just living their life. I talk about some of the things they may be getting out of it in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYi1fZuQf7CpsLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iGLLg4mqnMSDe8k.

[@instagamrr]

@@HelenaHartCoaching wow, great answer. Makes sense - even their lack of focus on an outcome shows how they think differently than me 😅 I’ll watch the videos!

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

1) you feel his energy is coming to you consistently

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@sandradaeschler6620]

Helena..thank you im finally convinced listening to you now its exactly whats going on with me for 7 years..Im done seriously after this clearly has penetrated my thick skin and heart!! Ive been busy dont worry have not had any more expectations any more but always hoping that my neighbor guy friend would change..but this video for my circumstance HAS FINALLY WORKED!! LOL..Your a great lady and thank you sweetheart for this common sense advice 🤩✌💌

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Sandra! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@shadeadegoke_]

Whao! This is just mind blowing! I stumbled on this video and I loved every part of it. You just gained a subscriber.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! 💜 My latest livestream might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@AM-yw6bc]

Thank you, Helena Hart. Your message really is helping me ❤️.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! My latest livestream should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@ashleyoverholt449]

With my boyfriend mark, he and I have been together, for two years. He started out being, a really nice guy, and being really into me. But over time it got to the point, were he was willing to let me go. And he and I were always on and off so many times when we were seeing each other. And over two weeks ago, he was willing to leave me, and I told him that I was leaving him. and the whole time we have been apart, he started coming back around again. And just last week I told him, that I was willing to take him back again.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! “On and off” is usually a red flag, in my opinion. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@sism3028]

This is an awesome video! I needed to hear this! Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad it helped. 💗

[@cjlove4]

I’m gonna b 50 this year, my bu is 35, where we r both at in our lives right now - what we have goin on is perfect for both of us. It may not look like what a lot of women want aka a label, a committed relationship, a perfect two way street. But it works and at this point in my life having the best lover I could ever dream of is A ok with me until further notice!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@empressmeheather]

Thank you, So spot on, with everything hits home on all levels...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@beestreet9996]

Nailed him to a tee

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@tinainthehousetoo2510]

Always something kinda of person. 100%

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! My last two livestreams might also be helpful for anyone who’s dealing with someone like this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM.

[@tinainthehousetoo2510]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you so much

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@visst777]

Spot on, on every sign!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you, Lucy! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@deonduncan9865]

Perfectly said am having that experience right now thanks 👍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! My latest livestream might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@Avoid_Low_Frequency]

Wow just wow… resonates a little too much

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞

[@jennsteeves2790]

Thank you for this video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@haniewood2153]

Being in such a relationship dynamic is very straining. Everything u have put across is exactly wats going on with me. Sending my boyfriend a text and he will respond after days, wen you decide to not communicate though you are thinking about him, he will too until u check up on him. but you are not even sure if you even crossed his mind during that time. I think i am done just have to gather the courage to leave...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@gabrielaraimondo2430]

Well you're lucky bc at least your boyfriend is clear... Mine (for 2 yrs made me the happiest woman! ) then started doing whatever and now we are apart and he calls me and says he misses me but he doesn't come forward or mends anything... so he confuses me and I can see he doesn't want me to go ahead with my life (but bc of his ego if he doesn't anything different) So his days are counted... I may not even pick up the phone anymore!😣

[@gewfone]

Cut him out of your life, not responding to a message for days ?? That tells you "he's just not that into you " He's not valuing you, or respecting you, he's checked out, gone, left...

[@nancymwanga3535]

It's been like a month at first he was taking things too first asked him to slow it, he wants an assurance there and then yet we are just getting to know each other.. but he is now hot and cold rarely calls or text. Tired of such games

[@missfrostproof07]

O.M.G. I thought we had a unique thing yet here you're describing what I have without knowing us 😂😂😂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, it’s amazing how common this situation is - I hear about it ALL the time. 💜

[@cukk-hj9xn]

WOW….this pretty sums up my experience. Thanks for the insight and advice!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💛 My latest livestream might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@ClydeFrog27]

Hey Helena, There is this guy, I have been going to his gym. We have been texting for over 4 month. He is definately hot and cold. We went on one Date and he asked me that same evening if i would go on abother one.... that didn't happen, instead he keeps helping me with moving to a new apartment and renovating that. Whenever he is helping me he calls me honey and touches my hands or shoulder etc. but he has not made a move to kiss me... When i asked him how to thank him he said no need to thank him and he is very happy to help me. I'm very confused cause he is very sweet and keeps asking me if he should help me. However whe i suggest something like making dinner for him there isn't much of a reaction. Should I forget him? I don't understand why he does that. He helps gets cold, helps gets cold. Why does he put so much efford into this and then nothing happens....

[@colleenfremont-smith3783]

I don’t know but girl, do not make him dinner. Does he deserve wife privileges yet? I think not…lean back and let him step up or not.

[@joshpatrick8809]

Uh-uh...forget this 'wife privilege' bullshit femi-nazi propaganda. If he didn't like you, he would NOT be doing stuff for you. Perhaps he's just shy or is worried how you'll react if he makes a move...the #method and false allegations of rape are real...if you like him and want to know if he feels the same, fucking ask him! Stop being coy and wondering...just be honest!!!!!

[@ginaalesha2]

Love the video! Keep them coming Helena, they have helped me tremendously ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Gina! 💜 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@immortalgirl6973]

Amazingly helpful! Thank you🌹

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@priscilamonte-serrat2520]

Going through it right now.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Priscila, my last two livestreams might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM.

[@sherinewalrond6534]

Every single point. Wow.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGS9Y4pvmN6CbKM.

[@teganobrien1378]

this was my last relationship its been 2 years and i have no contact with him yet im sill hung up on him and dont know how to let go and move on

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Tegan. ❤️ This podcast episode might be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/047HKuunLUeN5HF167l65w?si=BFUS3B-_SeCSYGUysb9a8w …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000549483589

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

This is where I’m at with a guy friend who I think may be just playing games. I’m leaning back, just focusing on myself and seeing what he does. ❤️

[@zebibafewerki4699]

Me too

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

My latest video should also be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@charleneclark1817]

In the same boat

[@mayapanayotopoulou6645]

Absolutely right 👌Thank you for your advises 🌹🌸💜

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Maya! 💗

[@maya4771]

i missed this live but still happy to see the replay…

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hope you enjoy it! 💕

[@maya4771]

@@HelenaHartCoaching i did & realized that having tolerated this guy's behavior (the x) for so long was not a good move. It could have saved myself from this heartbreak if I had paid attention to the signs.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many women can relate. These videos should also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@lindalim5901]

Wow, thank you thank you thank you Helena. This video really resonates with me and I think it will help me decide on what I need to do. You're amazing, i enjoy your videos ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Linda! 💗 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKCpeGBoh9Rnbrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k.

[@ayleenmufudza1780]

You nailed it Helena, thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ I did another livestream yesterday on a related topic - here’s the link if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@laureenbrandon7209]

4 years late,lol this confirmation really helped,thank you,

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 My latest two videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/hJTWiZWmmpamjpo.

[@blairjr2570]

Yep this is exactly it.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Blair! My latest livestream might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@dnibcn93]

Holy crap. Thank you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZukg6uho8hkbJI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJqnaZKrppubhsU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKvcm4CihKlmpcU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iamXpad7gLp_has, kzbin.info/www/bejne/ol6bmJaCrtWbpdk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gH7JYZSBm9Z2eNU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k and kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGS9Y4pvmN6CbKM.

[@nataliadtut]

Haha! “I’m very independent” means that he is seeing a lot of other women. Stringing them along.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Natalia! 💙

[@swenjaweber1323]

Exactly what I needed to hear.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

My latest livestream might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s

[@peterpisspotty3052]

This is so horribly true ... sadly - great video and advice

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!