How an Influencer Couple turned into Murder

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

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[@exlex2576]

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[@totti.]

Adrian if you were blond & your cat was a dog You would be Tintin ( Kuifje)

[@alexandraiceland3480]

Much Love from Iceland 🇮🇸 💗😊

[@misshoney-mustard]

I already played this game, I didnt like it... but to each their own

[@Jen-rose76]

Been playing for over 2 years!! My fav game of all time. I’m so sad cause I’m getting close to the end. 😭 have looked for other games like it but can’t find any.

[@mnm5165]

Listen guys if you’re in a happy relationship you don’t have to post every second of it online. Couples who do that always have something going on in the background

[@monsieurcharcutier4490]

Yeah I'm so happy in my relationship people on the internet don't even know I got a relationship oops I guess you know now

[@lordeltorious997]

FACTS 💯

[@MrVenat0r]

Exactly. People who need to try and prove they're happy you can just tell they are unhappy.

[@Evelyn-1958]

Agree.

[@Jaclynn.aka.Torikisu]

I like to see my friends’ happy posts. This comment makes it sound like you are jealous of people who are happy. Just saying.

[@QueenOfSheeba187]

Thats why I'll never envy anyone online as it's just a highlight reel. Nothing is as it seems, behind closed doors things are scary and brultal for some...

[@jxn1056]

Truth!

[@serenetiv]

I'm jealous when someone i follow posts delicious looking food they will now eat (I'm a foodie xD) but all the "perfect couple"-stuff is as fake as all those family-tuber are. (it's different if people i actually know post something sometimes but all the influencer couples... nope, not trusting that, so no envy there)

[@lowlowseesee]

i go a step further and im just never on any social media lol. too much life to live to be sitting around watching other people show off. when i go on vacations i dont even post all the cool shit im doing. i dont need peoples approval or the dopamine from that. im also 43 so i existed before the internet. i know its harder for young folks who dont know the world without smart phones etc

[@changeintheair9648]

@@lowlowseesee Get what you are saying. Internet existed a long time before your age. When windows 1995 came out user friendly, we purchased our first computer a little before your birthday. BUT, hear you. Nowadays, young people constantly air everything they do, spin it to look so exciting (fake). Whereas, you & I just go on with life & vacations never caring to upload except to family. Now, people in competition as to who has the best fake life.

[@tanikokishimoto1604]

​@@lowlowseesee so... KZbin isn't social media?

[@sun-youngsunnykim8794]

RIP Alexis. Domestic violence is incredibly heartbreaking. A friend's sister was murdered by her partner, and her 3 children came to live with my friend. They all went through hell. So much pain. But thankfully, they are now stable.

[@sun-youngsunnykim8794]

@Mirel. I don't know the details, but I know she didn't cheat on him, not that cheating deserves being murdered.

[@Fxo2]

@Mirel.who cares if it was cheating ? Nobody deserves to be murdered …

[@MacaylaReilly-jq4xw]

What the f*** you talking about idiots ​@Mirel.

[@annapajak5116]

​@Mirel. why would anyone deserve to be murdered because they cheated..

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

@@annapajak5116 ikr? Let them live to regret their cheating. Or let them live and not regret their cheating. Either way just wash your hands of them…..

[@Moon_salty]

The pos killed himself while basically hiding behind his own daughter. She has to live with that forever. This is seriously bottom of the barrel as humans go. Of course he did it

[@Wenas2005]

Dekat Aqiss ft Rafi rekaputri @rekaputri

[@johnkonde1975]

It's also a lesson to women, don't focus on shallow traits. Just because he's tall, has a fit athletic body, and a high paying job, doesn't make him the perfect man. Give more importance to his character and personality, even if he's short and chubby

[@layn6516]

​@@johnkonde1975lol really? Its lesson for men, to be kind and not to DV their partners. Mr Nice Guy.

[@johnkonde1975]

@@layn6516 looks like you got really hurt by my previous post and you're lashing out in rage. Stating the truth makes me a nice guy? Both men and women DV their partners, look up the stats

[@JB-bm1to]

@@johnkonde1975yeah I see why and agree with the 4B movement for these young ladies. The lessons being learned and watching these women flourish is way better than stuff like this happening. Just stay single! Tall, fit, short, chubby, old, young they all have done horrendous things to their partners and sometimes kids. If my marriage ever ends I will be staying single. It’s scary out here!

[@lieslwright70]

What a coward! Not just for abusing and killing his wife, but what about his poor daughter? He killed himself in her home just feet away from her! How selfish! He wouldn’t face his consequences to spare his own daughter such immense pain and trauma 🤬

[@peterbalac1915]

EXACTLY, big man terrible thing to do to your child and his wife for that matter. ❤

[@nicole5506]

Choosing an older partner doesn't always guarantee maturity. This is a very sad story.

[@schmidtytime]

It is. Unfortunately a lot of young women are led to believe that men older than them are ideal partners. Girls, if a 30 year-old man wants to date you when you’re 18, run the other way.

[@ruthhaywood3473]

I thought this in my younger years. Boy he was so immature and so stupid. He still wanted 2 b young. Just when I was maturing

[@aceshigh5157]

we seek partners who are on the same emotional level as ourselves. a much older partner doesn't mean they're mature, it just means that people their own age aren't interested in them for whatever reason and they have to date younger.

[@Wenas2005]

​@@aceshigh5157melengkapi bahagiaku wenas @rekaputri

[@Wenas2005]

​@@ruthhaywood3473melayang melambung wenas rekaputri @rekaputri

[@ames2727]

Never envy any online focused relationship or influencer couple.

[@ifgezroxy]

Exactly! It's all false. They show nothing but good things online. All the bad, struggles and sadness is left out...

[@verydark..1988]

Never envy anyone. Whether online or in person. Do you and be your peace.

[@AlexKaneROTN]

Facts

[@Wenas2005]

@rekaputridaily

[@Wenas2005]

@@verydark..1988 @wenas2005

[@chicocannon]

A body builder with anger issues, I wonder why that could be

[@illmatic33]

Roids😂

[@nicole5506]

They call it tess now. Gross

[@jackdobson1992]

Tess injections 100 %

[@UriasMathis]

Tren

[@ChrisP-ni4lz]

His weiner was small despite big muscles .. the muscle that most counter was petite

[@akashakhan5811]

When people are unhappy, they tend to overcompensate by seeking validation online, which is a reflection of human psychology. In the past, before the internet, people used to brag, throw parties, and create hype in social circles for the same reason. A content mind doesn't require validation from others.

[@Rob-z7k]

Its why women cry online like morons to hundreds of strangers.

[@patiencefullerton6250]

Well said ❤

[@classyhoboclips7805]

Serious question, how are so many of these people “influencers” but I’ve never heard of any of them? Does not just go for these two but any one who is a self proclaimed “influencer”

[@kellyalvarado6533]

Instagram defines an influecer as someone with 10,000 followers. They aren't famous.

[@ScottishScot]

The victim had 80K followers on Insta, that equates to a few thousand on KZbin. She was hardly an influence on anyone.

[@piperatoms5926]

I would guess you’re like me and youtube is your go to platform. I dont understand the other ones 😂

[@Wenas2005]

Indonesiaku wenas rekaputri @rekaputri

[@Wenas2005]

@@piperatoms5926 @wenas2005

[@rudiklein]

Don't expect maturity and empathy from a guy who loves himself more than anything else.

[@Solobreed91]

I agree with you , a man is an umbrella and we are meant to love comfort protect and provide .

[@marleyhill34]

I don't expect maturity from anyone who dates someone young enough to be their child. It's like they are feeding off the other persons youth. So that they don't have to face the fact that they are ageing.

[@Dantethegrey621]

@@Solobreed91 Man, these kind of comments, give me hope and I hope i have a good relationship with a woman with that attitude.

[@bekabeka71]

Usually a gym rat addicted to workout out, has nothing going for himself apart from his own physique

[@juanpablosaenz9037]

Simp.

[@Tarmaccyclocross]

The one thing I do is not to let influencers influence me 🤣

[@onglilynicole]

❤ it's very SMART of you 2024May14th, Tue

[@gatdemun]

Riiigghht 😅

[@67nBrynhurstCuh]

internet "influencers" don't influence a damn thing ironically. Just a made up internet title 😂

[@TheGuardianssorrow]

@@67nBrynhurstCuhExcept they do actual influence a lot of people. Its a huge problem too.

[@67nBrynhurstCuh]

@@TheGuardianssorrow my only influence is the positive role model in my life, my mom. I never looked at someone on the internet and thought, I would like to be like them 😂 but I'm mature and got a lot of self love so I guess I'm not easily "influenced"

[@daci4819]

I honestly think the most healthy relationships are when you don't post anything

[@lila-gracenunyasun1334]

My ex asked me once if it bothers me that my current hubby doesn't post about us online often. He posts the important things & celebrations and his photography of us and that's all I need. I don't need him shoving my face & relationship down people's throats via social media. In fact, I prefer it. We don't need to prove anything, to anyone 🤷‍♀️

[@chiberjuberdourado2487]

A friend asked me why I never commented on my husband’s posts. I replied because I live with him and don’t feel the need to run to socials to put my responses to him! 😊

[@joanhoffman3702]

You and your husband are sensible people and are not getting sucked into the “post everything about us online!” mindset.

[@lila-gracenunyasun1334]

@JasonM-lq7ri agreed, though he needs constant validation so I'm not surprised. He's also notorious for still trying to drive a wedge, so trying to plant seeds of doubt lol

[@fil1329]

I dont post anythjng to do with my self or personal things When peoole find out what i do or where i go.....i kerp them guessing But not thst i care what they think......i do things for myself and my own enjoyment........not for others opinions I could care less about what others think

[@neencompoop]

​@@lila-gracenunyasun1334 If he's known for this why isn't he just blocked? 😅

[@rickseiden1]

I feel bad not just for Alexis' family, but also for Tom's daughter. He ended himself in her house. What kind of trauma is that going to cause? His daughter was innocent in all of this, and now she has to live with not only a father who was a killer, and who ended himself, but who did that in her house.

[@GetCraftyLemons]

And, he killed her mom!!! I cannot fathom how hard it would be to get over all of this!! Hope she's doing well.

[@andrew285]

@@GetCraftyLemons it was not her mom. I guess she was from another marriage.

[@GetCraftyLemons]

@@andrew285 Missed that detail then!

[@Mikemonoa-hz2rz]

I don't understand why this young silly woman went with him in the first place just plain dumb 🤦 🙄 lol

[@melindaroop1346]

​@@Mikemonoa-hz2rzYeah. He was too old for her.

[@MeredithBell-v3f]

Influencer just another name for snake oil salesmen. All definitely narcissistic personality

[@mistymeasles2527]

The creep ran to his daughter AND killed himself IN HER HOME!?!... GREAT,THANKS DAD

[@ImOk....]

Seriously, what a pos! Poor girl has to live with that now on top of everything else

[@GuavaClouds]

He probably thought 'im gonna die with my daughter, she's the only one who loves me'...ppl's rationale can be so weird I swear

[@CHIARIEN]

Right! Now she has the trauma of that to deal with😑

[@Moazz786]

I thought of that too - she has to sleep in the same bedroom her own dad killed himself. Also making it hard to sell the house if she owned it. What a scumbag dad.

[@nicole5506]

Selfish, desperate dad using whom evern he can for his own selfish benifits. I can't not imagine doing that to someone let alone my own daughter.

[@seewobble7048]

Apart from sex, what could people (in a relationship) with a 20 yr age difference possibly have in common?? He was a whole generation older than her. Any male who goes after women who are considerably younger than him is a walking red flag. RiP Alexis

[@paulcarpenter7844]

Demi Moore Linda Hogan Susan sarandon you see where I'm going here

[@seewobble7048]

@paulcarpenter7844 - none of those women are still with their much younger partners now, are they? No. Why not? See where I'm going here?

[@jenniferboyd3995]

Any 26 yr old girl going for a 49 ur old man isn't in it for his youthful self... She went to school for make up n what?? Then worked at twin peaks n he gave her great tips! From his great paying job!!! She wanted his money and to travel the globe as was said while she posted pics... then she wanted other young guys when he wasn't around... Women are manipulators... And men are jealous... That got her killed... Be honest with urself and everyone u wanna be with... There's no use for liars, cheats, n users...

[@skycloud4802]

I agree that 20 year age gaps is not advisable, but I don't think lays the lack of commonality being the issue. Afterall, many international adults of the same age can have wonderful romantic relationships despite coming from completely different countries and opposing cultures. The problem I think of these large age gaps is the maturity (or rather lack thereof). And then there's the difference in bodies. Hormones, varying sex drives, and niggling age related problems get in the way.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I don’t think so as many things shape who you are not just your age. Your experiences and so many other things too. There are many who are the same age but have nothing in common while others who have an age gap get along well. It just depends.

[@CoffeeinAmerica]

"Let's caffeinate while we investigate", love it!

[@ohemdoublegee]

If you're planning on getting divorced, leave and stay with family, dont announce that you're leaving, just have someone else serve the papers. The most dangerous thing you can do is tell your partner you're leaving.

[@sarahissersohn5495]

Or better, stay w/ people he doesn’t know - NOT by yourself

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Yup and that was what my friend did. She went back to her family and did not tell her ex that she was going to divorce him.

[@WannabeShady90]

Don't worry, bitches will be coming back once no money comes in anymore. Money makes the bitches come.

[@blacksilverchair3315]

Americans love to divorce.

[@JB-bm1to]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Just commenting to boost because this is life saving advice!

[@sheilacotton1167]

I think he killed her 99%. Jealousy and controlling. He didn’t want to go to prison. Toxic relationship😔

[@Interesting.Factor]

Nah frfr..almost bent my damn thumbnail back

[@cdes1776]

They were *both* "flirting" with other people. No question.

[@justmeagain7]

Why do some men kill when faced with divorce? Shame because their wives let them?, jealousy?, greed?, revenge?. Why?!

[@ТоняЗаліська]

More like 999% certainty he killed her

[@amandalidey329]

Yes. I agree.

[@whoopiist]

He knew he was guilty and wasn't going to spend the rest of his life watching his back in prison. Some of these big, muscly guys are pretty scared when they realise that they'll be locked up with murderers and not weaker and/or defenceless women. 🙄

[@rachaelm3298]

AND they are also most afraid of what women are simply walking down the street.. r@pe.

[@willytodd2750]

Bad news jack but women aren't weaker or defenseless. Just because you hate women doesn't make them less than you.

[@cjvaye99]

😂😂😂

[@JB-bm1to]

Yep, cowards.

[@dwightrenfield2241]

Interesting - I thought the woke & feminist movement says that women are as strong as men. I suppose that fallacy is supported until a woman is harmed by a man, and then suddenly it’s: “but she’s a defenseless woman!”

[@RRRRRaa]

Online couples are usually pretty weird. Making a living out of covering your life constantly and boasting to the world isn't a very healthy dynamic.

[@Wenas2005]

Baru kenal wenas @rekaputri

[@infinitejest441]

As we have noticed

[@Wenas2005]

@@infinitejest441 dekat Aqiss ft Rafi @rekaputri

[@davidperez5089]

Yet another reason to hate FB and others similar.

[@Wenas2005]

@@davidperez5089 @wenas2005 , @rekaputri

[@cathe8282]

The fact that he selfishly killed himself at his daughter's place speaks volumes.

[@annas.5763]

If you're truly in such a fantastic romantic relationship, you want to be able to be present in the moment & enjoy every second. You don't feel the need to take copious amounts of videos & photos to be posted on social media for external validation. People that do this aren't only trying to convince the rest of the world that everything is 110% wonderful, but need to convince themselves as well.

[@onglilynicole]

you're 💯 spot on ...... 2024May14th, Tue

[@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368]

Yeah both seem fake and phony. And dude's a murderer too.

[@itsinesantonio]

Very true!

[@Cicooka]

I dont agree with this fully.

[@fiddlersthree8463]

@@Cicooka Can you explain what you disagree with?

[@12w0]

Oh lordt, not the School of Hard Knocks. 😂

[@lizzyinthahizzy]

Right? Immediate cringe

[@RisingRecluse]

I bet he also played hard and worked hard.

[@NoFailureAllowed]

It is a story as old as time. Husbands are always pretty much guilty when they wife disappears.

[@rachaelm3298]

Sadly.. and it seems most people are focusing on her online/social media presence, borderline, shaming her.. instead of focusing on the REAL problem/issue, the man... No doubt it is most of the males using her lifestyle choices as a means to deflect on the real issue, them and violence against women. And they know it. Men are dangerous.

[@paulcarpenter7844]

And women kill men also mostly poisonous

[@willytodd2750]

Even if she just disappears for a few days or weeks with another guy, she'll definitely say its the husbands fault.

[@Phoenix2024-k1g]

​@willytodd2750 yes you are right cause the man ends up unaliving her

[@paulcarpenter7844]

I love how my comment was canceled out

[@zanjoo3430]

I honestly believe social media has been a absolute detriment to modern relationships

[@darlenefraser3022]

No, social media just allows us to see it. People have found ways to misbehave throughout the ages.

[@VioletJoy]

It feeds mental health issues and personality disorders.

[@jxn1056]

And society

[@melindaroop1346]

​@@darlenefraser3022Very true.

[@siobhanrose1680]

Modern society.

[@AlwaysKDawg]

She used to live in one of my friend's apartment complex. Used to see her around the pool and taking Instagram pictures around the property. When I realized that she was Alexis Sharkey, it made me honestly feel weird, because I remembered seeing her around all the time. It was sad really, no one deserves that. RIP Alexis.

[@shilde]

It’s an eerie feeling when these things hit close to home like that. Makes it feel close and makes our safety feel that much more vulnerable. She deserved her entire beautiful life. Too many women are snuffed out by insecure men.

[@PlanBModels]

I've met a number of guys who look like Tom, and every single one of them turned out to be a rage-fueled asshole with a lust for dominance and intimidation over other people, so I have NO doubt he killed her in a fit of rage typical to that type.

[@infinitejest441]

Roid rager 💉

[@CobiewithaK]

How deceiving appearances can be in the smoke and mirrors of social media is mind-boggling. Greetings to all from South Africa 🇿🇦 🤙

[@stephendacey8761]

It's funny that I never met anyone or knew anyone from South Africa until just recently. I took a cruise recently and I met so many South African natives and I know of many that have KZbin channels. Also, they all seem very nice.

[@CobiewithaK]

@stephendacey8761 Why thank you, Stephen Dacey! We are also very welcoming to tourists to our robust and colorful country. I stay on the Garden Route in the Western Cape - defenitely one of the most scenic and beautiful places in the world. Put a visit on your bucket list - it's worth it!

[@stephendacey8761]

@@CobiewithaK Yes, I would love to visit South Africa. I would love to take a safari and see some lions and other wild animals. South Africa seems so far away from where I live (northeastern part of the United States) that it is now on my bucket list. Actually, I had a back massage from a lady from South Africa on the cruise I just got back from. Thanks for commenting.

[@primesspct2]

well said

[@jenniferrivera9149]

That’s true, you can pretend to be anything on social media and some sure do. Hello from Maryland USA!

[@RE1GN_BLOOD]

I would use the word “bodybuilder” loosely. Bigger isn’t always better. Dude started bulking and never stopped

[@jontaedouglas7244]

If my FRIEND tells me that they terrified of their spouse to the point of fearing for they’re life, I’m doing whatever In my power to get them out of that situation ASAP

[@tinameyer7080]

Statistically, women in dv situations, attempt to leave/end the relationship 7 times before "successful". Please keep that in mind when honoring your commitment to "do whatever in your power" to help. Have a great day!

[@jontaedouglas7244]

@@tinameyer7080 of course , I just wanted to point out those same friends who were contracting themselves saying in one moment she was happy and healthy and in another breath later on saying how she feared him

[@tinameyer7080]

@@jontaedouglas7244 Yes. Women in these situations (if there was one) can be "complicated".... it's usually tied to the cycle of abuse. If you're in the "down" portion- many women hide or downplay it. If you're in the "up" part of the cycle- many women seem extremely happy....

[@acephas3]

Statistically, women in these situations are likely to stay at least 5 years; 15 years in they are married.

[@tinameyer7080]

@@acephas3 Agreed.

[@confessorsedai]

His poor daughter… Committing suicide in her home and room is another despicable thing the man did before he left. He obviously only cared about himself!

[@tyadelgren4495]

I've known Lexi since we were 6 years old, me and my brother and her sister tobi and her cousins the blicks and the vanhoutens and our other family friends the ordiways. We all went to church in Russell Pa called praise Fellowship since youngsville and kiantone are close about the same distance for us all to attend church about 30 min drive. This was so traumatic for all of us and we miss her dearly. We all thought Tom was responsible long before everything came out and mind you it took over a few years to get it resolved but we knew in our hearts🥺 Nothing he told Stacy or Mike made any sense and then would tell her gfs in houston something else. Mind you, None of us met Tom before they moved to Houston and this was a huge red flag. But we trusted lex to be a good judge of people but what we heard about him and then when she informed us all of the age gap, it made us very wary and uncomfortable and we didn't trust him.All his mannerisms just rubbed us the wrong way. We all grew up together and he wouldn't let her visit us and showed no interest in knowing us and was so jealous and controlling mind you all us boys treated her like a sister and vice versa. She didn't deserve anything that happened to her and the fact he left her naked on the side of the road is heartbreaking because yes she was a influencer or whatever that means but she was always shy and modest about her body especially since we all grew up in a very tight knit christian community and families. I miss her so much😢 She really was our angel

[@HilmarSchacht-zm8kg]

Thanks for the novel 😅

[@CelionYerkash.AllRightsR-by2lo]

There is a reason his family has been silent. Start with his DNA being excluded from what was found on Alexis. Maybe there was a new development or "'Plot Twist' after the Documentary. 'Letting it all play out" "Dealing with Demons" "Breadcrumbs"

[@camillesissons1619]

These narcissistic men can’t handle someone choosing to leave them. I believe this was like hundreds of thousands of domestic violence cases where the man has decided “if I can’t have her, no one can” - greetings from New Zealand 🇳🇿

[@MiguelDLewis]

“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” - Ecclesiasticus 26:23✝

[@ldn1929]

And she was what? Glued to her phone for constant attention plus getting married to a man twice her age. Oh I guess his job in oil industry had something to do with this? Men her age working at basic jobs were invisible I guess. But no he was the only narcissist around here.

[@MiguelDLewis]

@@ldn1929 Alexis abandoned her fiancé from college for the bodybuilder guy. It was doomed from the beginning.

[@ldn1929]

@@MiguelDLewis it never stops to amaze me. Female ridiculousness and lack of accountability. This instagram thot was as messed up and narcissistic as this rich simp bodybuilder. Yet they want to portray her as an angel who just doesn’t know what happened.

[@Bettinasisrg]

Looks like you got the incels up in arms. Huh is fragile egos a thing with those types?

[@norielarmstrong9928]

We dont need to show everything on social media,the less people know about your life the better.most times people ruins the best things anyway.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I totally agree and social media is so toxic. Privacy and low key is always better.

[@naturalbeauty4734]

​@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjAgreed 💯👏 "I don't share my personal business with anyone!! especially people on social media..

[@michhaynes7272]

Yes he was guilty, he not only took the cowardly way out but also lied which isn't a sign of innocence. The most dangerous time in DV is when trying to leave! My heart goes out to her family.

[@chicocannon]

Lots of innocent people lie, many even give confessions, some do it simply to try distance themselves further, but yeah he was 100% guilty.

[@melindaroop1346]

Yeah, he was guilty AF, but innocent people lie also.

[@wsmith3849]

@@melindaroop1346yes, everyone filters what they say to meet their needs.

[@johnkonde1975]

let this be a lesson to the ladies, don't marry a man simply because he's tall and/or has a lot of money. Give less importance to looks and money and more importance to his character and personality

[@PK-qk2hw]

His last action indicate his guilt. Even from the beginning of the relationship, the age difference.. is usually an indicator that he seeks dominance. Greetings from sLOVEnija ❤

[@rachaelm3298]

Even if they are older.. we arent even safe.. remember this ladies.. 😢 Single is safer.

[@Spooky_Platypus]

Facts!

[@CalvinLangatMMA]

First red flag for his family should’ve have been that he was double her age. What a coward how he went out. He doesn’t deserve to be here so it’s probably for the better. RIP to the woman

[@dikeledimothiba65]

Sad for his daughter who likely had no idea her dad could be such a monster. Worse yet, the trauma of his bloody death in Her place! Gosh.

[@MiguelDLewis]

“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” - Ecclesiasticus 26:23✝

[@CalvinLangatMMA]

@@dikeledimothiba65 that too! The trauma she must have and continues to experience has to be awful. I wish her healing

[@CalvinLangatMMA]

@@MiguelDLewis there’s a lot of instances where innocent nice women end up in the arms of evil men. I hope your Bible quote wasn’t related to my post because the problem here is the evil man and the huge problem of domestic violence that we have in this country. A lot of innocent women (and men) suffer

[@MiguelDLewis]

@@CalvinLangatMMA There are no innocent men or women. There are only innocent children. "All have sinned and come short of the glory of God." I was abused by older women too when I was a young man and that's because I was committing adultery with them. I thought I was so innocent because I judged my morality based on my own opinion, not based on God's objective morality.

[@cdes1776]

Social media 'influencers' and YTers seem to be a new subgenre of crime. Higher profile. - viewer from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦

[@FullTimePatient37]

Either between themselves or with their stalkers haters or any of the audience..

[@CrystalRicotta]

Seriously. Have you seen the one about the mother and daughter duo. Complete sub genre happening here.

[@cdes1776]

@@CrystalRicotta There are so many! It's now part of their lifestyle descriptors on the correct assumption that this is from where they are most known.

[@trishdelacour8746]

You nailed it, the sort of people who are in that field seem to live in a world of psychosis. With people obsessed with their bodies ie body builders following closely behind.

[@cdes1776]

@@trishdelacour8746 There's the fantasy world and then the real world. A house of cards has a shaky lifespan.

[@Mojaveknight17]

Older doesn't mean mature

[@leonardpriestley6822]

No kidding. Especially older people seeking out partners young enough to be their kids. Nothing about that is mature.

[@Mojaveknight17]

@@leonardpriestley6822 True

[@MalesAreDemons]

Disgusting predator he is

[@megant3051]

Not sure what sources you're using, but Feb 6 was not her birthdate! It's Jan 25, 1994. Besides that, what a horrible case. I hope Tom felt absolutely horrific about it at the end.

[@Yelluz]

"Influencer" is a synonym for "idiot."

[@angelinamiamor]

Quite often if not always.

[@Trini2dbone868]

🤔

[@cherylbrangaccio4498]

Thank you for your uploads. They got me through University the past few years and I'm happy to say I finally graduated! Still here to watch every upload and support you! 💜

[@hollymiranda0826]

Congratulations!!!!

[@Msjay77]

Congrats 🎉

[@elizabethscott952]

Congratulations!!

[@AgnessMuponda]

Congratulations dear.

[@junglegirl5174]

Bravo! 🥳🍾🥂

[@SmileAustin]

Story was in Houston but you showed the crime rate statistic chart for Austin. I’m in Austin. It sux too.

[@lizzyinthahizzy]

First red flag : uses the phrase "school of hard knocks" 🤢 Second red flag : going for woman 20 years his junior. 👀😬

[@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366]

There are happy relationships with age gaps. It's more complicated than that.

[@lizzyinthahizzy]

Large age gaps often comes with great power imbalance due to vast differences in experience. To seek that out as the older person is a red flag. Also, nobody said that happy and healthy age gap relationships are non-existent.

[@MiguelDLewis]

“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” - Ecclesiasticus 26:23✝

[@NeroFreyr]

Hey Adrian! Long time subscriber here. Been subscribed to you since the beginning of your channel! Just wanted to give a HUGE THANK YOU for all the work that you do! I love seeing how your channel has grown and the passion and love you put into it, while still paying respect to the victims! Thanks for making my mundane work-life less boring and more interesting! I am always eager to watch your videos as soon as they are uploaded!

[@kaydwessie296]

Her suddenly disappearing off the internet hits home. I had a friend who was on instagram and snapchat a lot, and we'd chat in those places constantly when bored. I was getting worried because she hadn't posted in two weeks. Turns out she was having seizures and nobody could figure out why, and when I finally got asked if I had seen her around...it was because she fucking died. This is why I had a whole panic attack last year when my new friend was offline for a week due to a hospital visit, but luckily this one's fine.

[@Tardisntimbits]

​@@Godbody_GladiatorsWay to be cringe, bro. What is wrong with you?

[@ChapyGuy]

@@Tardisntimbits report him for harassment

[@Cybersixx.]

​@@Godbody_Gladiators What a weird response...

[@primesspct2]

I am sorry for your loss. I have epilepsy and its not usually dangerous, and its very common. Remember she isnt hurting now, its you that are, shes in a better place. RIP to your friend. I recently had a scare just like that, I have a gaming partner, see him every night and he dropped off the map. 6 weeks later he was back, had been in the hospital. I was worried sick So I took down all his contact info this time! It takes something like that to make you realize how much you care about your "online friends". Mine really are friends. There is a real life human on the other end of our keyboard.

[@jxn1056]

I'm so sorry 😢 Hugs & Prayers! ❤

[@SLDFMechWarrior]

The fact that they met and married in just a year or so is a red flag. Like that's too fast I think to start tying the knot.

[@melindaroop1346]

It isn't too fast when you know it's the person you want to be with. My husband and I knew right away and have been married for 10 years.

[@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368]

Also a red flag is he was a customer of Twin Peaks. Usually only douche bags go there.

[@melovetorun]

@@melindaroop1346It’s fast.

[@angelinamiamor]

I got married after 6 months of meeting my husband and everything worked out. Marriage’s not easy but we managed to make it work. 24 years and counting!

[@Daishi43]

Ita considered fast now. That used to be the norm. Plenty of 60 year marriages started with less than a year of dating.

[@TheThreatenedSwan]

People want to act like it's completely shocking that a vapid MLM model would pick someone like that. Murder is still a rare outcome, but let's not pretend narcissists don't find each other

[@thelandlord111]

Was my first thought too. He’s a scumbag, she’s a gold digger, and both of them are narcissists.

[@richard7743]

B-b-but, she wanted to be a doctor! She just happened to end up working in a tiddy bar and a shill for an MLM bEcaUse!

[@HEllis-qu5nn]

EXACTLY. Sorry she was murdered but she was a sad cliche that just wanted attention.

[@Lucy-mf5gk]

​@@HEllis-qu5nnso nasty

[@Cat-fb3pd]

USA It appears to me that Tom was a somatic narcissist. Showing off his body being flashy womanizer history of domestic violence control issues it's all right there in front. Took no accountability no responsibility, no remorse etc ..

[@Spooky_Platypus]

Boom! I found someone intelligent in the comments. FINALLY. Thank you!

[@belle83]

Adrien!! Love your work! One of the only true crime channels that doesn’t make me feel icky and give me anxiety after watching. Your quips are always appreciated! ❤

[@marshabrubaker185]

Husband is 100% guilty. I live in a small town outside of Houston and am well aware of the increasing crime in the city.

[@ginaterrey1491]

My brother was murdered there. 😢

[@jackswanson1943]

As a Houstonian, crime is very low. The "increase" is a very condensed area such as 3rd ward. Greater heights, independence heights, Montrose, east downtown are all thriving.

[@darkside6101]

Yea I moved out here after I got out of the military because of a job offer. Houston is beautiful but I’d stay out of the city. I live in Katy and only work in the city and I see some of the craziest shit

[@AstarionWifey]

@@jackswanson1943I’m also a Houstonian and no bruh crime is bad

[@zp5718]

@@jackswanson1943I’m also from Houston, shootings, rapes, murders, assaults, are all common place all over the city. It isn’t confined to any specific area or neighborhood. Quit spewing nonsense, and vote red.

[@amandalidey329]

I had a feeling her husband was involved since the first day this case was reported. I knew it. & I was definitely right. The fact he took his own life also goes to show how unstable this man was.

[@curlysue29]

1.99M 😱 let’s go 2M! Your hardwork is paying off. Thank you from Hongkong❤

[@DaBeezKneez]

He's a copycat

[@treebarb5750]

Women be careful who you get into relationships with and fuck around on sometimes you meet the wrong one like crazy tom

[@MarianaSantos1974]

Be happy ONLY then look for a relationship 🙏🏻

[@cdes1776]

I'm happy not being in one but it took a long time to get to that point.

[@MarianaSantos1974]

@@cdes1776 and that's why we don't jump into commitment that easy 😊🙏🏻

[@FullTimePatient37]

Will you do a countdown for 2M Adrian 🎉 Congratulations already 🎉

[@cdes1776]

One TC channel is hosting a live Q&A to boost his audience over the 2M mark.

[@TBNOLA]

The happier a couple looks or says they are the more suspicious you should be

[@gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203]

Not everyone is single like you, deal with it

[@IgorMironov-rq4ye]

​@@gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203 I take it your not single then? 😆 Good for you Princess

[@missondo4887]

Not always

[@naturalbeauty4734]

Agree 👍 "Many of my family and friends have that FAKE!! social media lifestyle 🙄🤦

[@TBNOLA]

@@gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203 lmao...you told on yourself in so many ways.

[@cameron6249]

since when do cops look for a missing adult in 24hrs?

[@Spooky_Platypus]

Since ages and ages ago? You’re encouraged to report someone missing as soon as you can. That’s… pretty common knowledge I thought?

[@cameron6249]

@@Spooky_Platypus wrong! do your research, cops will tell you 48hrs before they consider an adult missing... kids are a priority!

[@Icegaze039]

​@@Spooky_PlatypusReporting a missing person and cops looking for that person are two different things, keep up ...

[@ytmndleaks1598]

the same happened to me i was 16 and my ex was 38 years of age, he was much older but i thought he was mature and smart but i was wrong,when i was 18 we got married and left my mums home and just after 3 months and pregnant he started treating me like a slave, he tied me up abused me deleted my socials and git rid of all my friends by telling them that i was busy, he later caged me for 8 years in his basement and rap3d me everyday with his drunk friends, but when i became 27 he got bored of me because i put on weight and divorced me and left me and my kids in the streets to fend for ourselves,now am 30 and still recovering i work 3 jobs for my daughter and live in a shelter but will never get justice, Ps. am a indian girl and my ex husband is a white American conservative man from Huston Texas.

[@leahoakwood9988]

I married a man 12 years my senior & it was REPULSIVE START TO FINISH! He went from my "oh dahling, I love you so much", "adoring" suitor, LOL, to my SLAVE OWNER the moment the ring was on. Found out I was expecting, right around the same time I was about to ask him for an annulment. He threatened the home I owned before I met him & the baby in my belly & I didn't want to be a "single mom" so I tried to hang in. IT WAS A NIGHTMARE & I just had to ESCAPE, with my 8 month old baby. NEVER AGAIN!

[@Spooky_Platypus]

My mother married my step dad who was 20 years older and they were best friends and loved each other until they died last year. She died of broken heart syndrome 8 months after he lost his life to COVID. Age has nothing to do with abuse.

[@richard7743]

Sounds like you're just a stereotypical woman who makes poor choices in life. You let him hit it raw, now you a single mom. Good luck our there! LMAO

[@morbiddiathesis4428]

You chose to marry him, though. This is coming from a woman btw, so spare me your illiterate 'incel' response.

[@startingtech3900]

what was your role in this failed relationship? Dont just blame the man

[@paulcarpenter7844]

Oh stop you were perfect you didn't deserve that you're a woman we believe all women

[@VioletJoy]

Social media feeds mental health issues and personality disorders. Alexis posted her life online. It's really sad and interesting that she had a degree in psychology yet didn't recognize red flags in her own personal life. However, that's very common. I'd like to see psychology taught throughout school. It's critical to positively influence children before they start making choices for themselves.

[@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368]

Like most with a psych degree, they don't learn anything.

[@gimpee8113]

i was always pretty impressed with ppl who has psychology degree or psychatrists. Not anymore after seeing these ppl got scam and how they dissect a lie.

[@rachaelm3298]

Why are you using her social media presence to deflect from the real issue and cause?? Men, and violence against women. Be real, thats the issue. Thats what needs to change. Stop blaming social media.

[@VioletJoy]

@@gimpee8113 Exactly. Look at Shirley Strawberry. She was a "relationship expert" on the Steve Harvey show but ended up with a con artist ex con.

[@VioletJoy]

@@rachaelm3298 I'm not blaming social media at all. I was making a point that it feeds those who ALREADY have a mental disorder or personality disorder, which both of them clearly had. 99.99% of the time, personality disorders develop due to unresolved trauma. That's why I'd like to see psychology taught throughout school. If children are at least educated about human psychology, there's a better chance for them to heal. Men are more physical by nature, while women are more emotional. We tend to notice physical damage much more than psychological damage. Both are traumatic.

[@agnesogah2878]

Social media does not have to know every single information about what's going on in your personal life.😢 May we never end up with toxic partners. RIP to Alexis. Love from Nigeria.

[@laurahornick9827]

holy crap! you and mike are both closing in on 2 million!!!!

[@SarahDixon-tx4zx]

My money is on Mike ❤

[@jamiewilson9262]

Who's Mike? Another True Crime channel I can watch?

[@TheGrr]

@@jamiewilson9262ThatChapter! One of the best.

[@owenross7470]

​@@jamiewilson9262That Chapter. VASTLY better

[@ImOk....]

​@@jamiewilson9262 Mike from ThatChapter. Another great channel for sure!

[@travismiller1491]

Marrying someone for a more lavish lifestyle never ends up well. Most likely you will end up controlled and abused. Please grow and build together because guys like this are everywhere.

[@tamaraspencer4024]

Yes sweetie these guys are everywhere, regardless of income too. Perhaps it would do much more to stop this type of thing if you would condemn the actions of the narcissistic abuser than it would to blame the victim. Especially considering it was just as likely to happen if she had married for love and he was broke. It happens to men and women everyday who married for love and not money. Hyper focusing on a fraction of a problem is not going to solve the problem if you are only vaguely acknowledging the bigger fraction of the problem.

[@travismiller1491]

@@tamaraspencer4024 no one gives a shit about your essay, go chose the bear.

[@travismiller1491]

@@tamaraspencer4024 wouldn't happen if it was a bear huh

[@tamaraspencer4024]

@@travismiller1491 Spoken like a true narcissist, deflect and make baseless accusations. All I said was the truth but I guess you must be one of those abusive narcissistic murderous men that would kill a woman without a second thought and blame it on her. Why else would you respond like that? FYI I served in the Army sweetheart and I'm an expert marksman. I can take out a man just as easily as I can take out a bear 😂😉

[@JB-bm1to]

@@tamaraspencer4024I agree! I was done worse and controlled by the “build with me” men that I could ever imagine by my husband. Took me a long time to up my standards and learn that the “ride or die” and “build together” men are no better than successful men. I was warned about my husband, how he’d “control me” because he had more money than me in the beginning. (By women in my family who were married to deadbeat men for “love”) He knew it was a worry of mine so he took action to make sure I never felt that way. But the my ex that had me paying 50/50 and was supposedly “equal” was a horrible person. There are evil men everywhere regardless of income or physical appearance. At this point the best thing for young women to avoid running into a man that will control and abuse them is to stay single! 4B movement seems to be a good thing because there isn’t much women can do to avoid this.

[@shanneyp1]

He definitely unalived her! Greetings from Panama!🇵🇦

[@Madddddieo]

This is my first time watching early enough to caffeinate while we investigate

[@the503creepout7]

Hey Coffeehouse: Might wanna make an edit for the graph posted just passed 3:55. You displayed the Austin homicide rates instead of Houston's. That said - another solid video. Keep up the good work.

[@startingtech3900]

We got the message its fine

[@humaneventures9821]

All abusers are cowards!

[@dreamangus1505]

Florida: I'm the most violent screwed up crime ridden, murder infested state in America Texas: hold my beer

[@abbieryan9420]

I often wonder if the people who expose themselves, their relationships and home life so frequently online, and often portray their life as amazing, carefree and are trying almost to make their family, friends and followers envious or at least sit up and take notice. It makes me feel as if actually they're trying to convince themselves their life isn't as bad or as awful as it probably is, and the validation from people posting back how great them and their life looks from the outside, means it can't be as miserable as they feel it is. Are they ashamed to even confide in someone they trust? It could at least help ease the burden. You can only try "keeping up with the Jones" for so long before something breaks. I just wanted to say how much I love your channel and how much effort and time you obviously put into your content, it shines through how much you care about the victims and their loved ones. Keep up your amazing commitment to the channel. A huge thank you for all your hard work. Sending love from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿.

[@Spooky_Platypus]

Yes. Abuse victims are frequently ashamed.

[@einienj3281]

"Insecure and jealous husband kills wife and himself". The story is always the same, only the people in it change.

[@febbym.szambia.9484]

He killed himself because he was guilty and people please dnr admire wat u c online. Its just a second thing and every one has a darkside. No relationship is perfect and run away from a Toxic one, dnt worry about how others will c u or laugh or talk. Your life first is worth more. To Alexis rest in peace and to her family be strong and stay blessed . Thanks for sharing the story.

[@nathanspreitzer6738]

These influencer couples always seem to have “issues”

[@maryjane4432]

Same with family channels! I only know of one halfway decent family channels

[@bladenukem]

Huge age gaps are usually a red flag for predatory behaviour.

[@fhelnor2783]

Not true. I met my husband when i was 16. We got married when i was 20, his almost 20 years older than me been together since then, im now 44. Love doesnt discriminate. Age has nothing to do with it. Its you as a person.

[@julianlarralde1298]

My dad is 17 years older than my mom I had a good life

[@julianlarralde1298]

Also what you said is just a claim with no proof

[@eagleeyeeagleeye3143]

😂😂😂 Such a limited mindset

[@CyPhaSaRin]

@@eagleeyeeagleeye3143 i mean, he needs to change ONE word. usually, to what.. often.. sometimes.. i mean do you have the stats n studies in front of you? the statement doesn't just fall from thin air. -not saying i agree with it, but it could be said that if you never wanna find yourself around someone that could have the predator mindset, that's its just easier to keep it within what some would call your lane.

[@MadVybez]

Online is just highlights of people's best moments. Many people forget this

[@49ers_red_and_gold2]

He looks like he belongs in the WWE 😳

[@ea8269]

I really don't like when people post on social media about every single thing they do every day. It's ridiculous.It's not safe. Why expose your life to others?

[@leslieheltmach]

Ah, love being coffeehouse blessed in the morning ˁ῁̬ˀ

[@scottyerkes1867]

Tom was a selfish monster. Killing himself proves his guilt in murdering his wife. Thank you Adrian

[@mrssalt09]

Murder is NEVER the answer when a relationship is over.

[@lukebignell7846]

She was cheating and his roid rage got the better of him

[@diligaf1000]

Seems like an unusual number of so called influencers end up in cases that end up on true crime shows.

[@VidGirl88]

I almost lost my sister to a controlling, rage monkey so-called bodybuilder, so this case hits home.

[@vtriksta2858]

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤

[@hayley6728]

I think he is guilty 💯 especially the fact he took his own life says it all. It's very sad that cowards like this can't face the consequences of their actions and take the easy way out. Families and friends of victims need and deserve closure on their loved ones. R. I. P Alexis❤. I am new here on this channel and am enjoying the content. I am watching from NZ.

[@Cachicochip]

She obviously had something with someone in Mexico and he found out and snapped. Either she told him or he saw texts or whatever. It's also obvious that the people close to her will always say she would never cheat or do such a thing, no one is going to say "I mean... yea, she coulda... it's a possibility", so yea, that's my theory.

[@nunyabusiness8000]

They say don’t judge a book by its cover but I mean look at him! And he’s almost twice her age? Yeah I could have told you this man had darkness in his heart.

[@cdes1776]

And steroids in his blood.

[@justmeagain7]

​@cdes1776 That's what I thought. Big rage and small balls, both induced by steroid consumption.

[@professorhoratiohufnagel1341]

@@cdes1776this has far more to do than the age factor. People who bring up age have a hangup or mental block they can’t get over. Age is just a number. I’ve met many that are either immature or mature for their age. I’ve met 18 year olds that were more mature than some 35 year olds. It’s about the person and who they are not their age. The same thing applies to race. It’s not the color of the skin it’s about who you are as a person. There are A Holes in every single race and there are beautiful people in every race too.

[@cdes1776]

@@professorhoratiohufnagel1341 Preaching to the choir. My late dad *only* 'dated' teenagers including my birth mother. He always said age was just a number and I agree. I've dated older and younger men and it wasn't age that defined them. It works both ways. I can say with authority my dad's behaviour resulted in a very complicated messy family history though. It's extremely awkward when you're legal stepmother is your own age and more like a sister. p.s. I think your comment was for the OP, not me.... I admire your views and conviction.

[@nunyabusiness8000]

@@professorhoratiohufnagel1341 lmao cope harder. If you’re dating someone half your age you’re not automatically a predator. But you are automatically a loser as we see here. Hit a nerve when the obvious is pointed out?

[@TheMegantheGreat]

Most that post happy relationships online are a facade. The trash DID take itself out. I'm from TX.

[@discobikerAndRosie]

I've been to Texas. Was not impressed. Huge bugs cover the walls at night when the lights come on. The cities were like anyone elses cities; congested & dangerous. It's astounding, the arrogance of Texans. They think their poo doesn't stink. Texan: "Where are you from?" Me: "Michigan." Texan: "I'm sorry." Me: "I'm not. It's a beautiful state with lots to offer." It threw me off, orherwise I would've said a whole lot more! I've been to several different places in TX. I don't have the desire to ever return, except I miss a young lady from a small town in middle TX. She was sweet.

[@corimyers4985]

I’ve been to Michigan and am a born and raised Texan. I liked your state and I like mine. If you were talking to a rude Texan, likely they weren’t born here. Texas and Michigan each have their own brand of beauty. You don’t like it, that’s fine, but please don’t malign our character. We’re not arrogant, just proud. Just as you should be about your state. Only thing bad here is our Governor.😊

[@francesghoul7]

Texas is terrible 🤣

[@leeannesilcox6945]

Congratulations on 2 million xx

[@backpackingtony1779]

Morning Adrian! Hope your coffee is good today! Have you ever considered covering the case of the "Killer Jock" Talen Renner?

[@Tom-sj3vn]

I’d let Talen destroy me he’s so cute

[@kathleenh1998]

​@@Tom-sj3vn Really? He looks a bit inbred to me. To each their own, though

[@robswystun2766]

Friendly reminder: age does NOT equal maturity.

[@AstroNomical-fi2hc]

I'm not sure why people is so naive when it comes to judge personalities properly. If is truth that there's not such a thing called a normal person, but on the other hand, is very obvious to see the abnormal behavior on somebody if you just take your time and pay attention carefully to the things they do and say.

[@tone5476]

Roid rage .. probably had a cocktail of steriods and burst into rage

[@acediamond7524]

If EGO was in human form it would be that guy!

[@cdes1776]

Her too!

[@Hilsonhouseofcrazy]

What a total crappy human. Sadly he is still hurting someone else…his daughter. He killed himself in her house and left her traumatized for life 😢

[@prettypuff1]

Ladies in your 20s there’s a reason why a man that’s 40+ wants to date you and not a woman his own age…. That reason is usually a red flag You can do better

[@neoasura]

Likewise for men, if you are in your 40s and a girl in her 20s wants to date you, there's usually a reason, and its a big red flag.

[@prettypuff1]

@@neoasura it’s the same flag honestly