I just want to be the guy hiding behind the orchid.
@erichschader10792 жыл бұрын
Epic
@meredithe13612 жыл бұрын
Ha this made me laugh out loud ty
@meagoodwoman2 жыл бұрын
Just commenting because many people did not seem to grasp the wisdom in the simple answer. There isn't a need to always get rid of your object of attachment or suffer unnecessarily. The young lady loves her sister, and therefore, misses her. Thay says that geographical distance cannot separate two people who are mentally close. Giving time to your loved one matters; the mode of communication does not.
@essbaticharaf8969 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god the woman explaining to him speaks in mindfulness. You can feel that she speaks as if the best thing to do is to explain. She is not hurried. She isn´t rushing the questions. Wonderful.
@JC-hh5lu Жыл бұрын
If you're dehydrated, the solution isn't to practice detachment from the idea of water. Good answer.
@lesliearia5 жыл бұрын
Thank you-such simplicity to an emotionally complex question. 💝
@waldwassermann2 жыл бұрын
It is not about attachment vs non attachment; it is about realizing why all is flux. The reason is 💛
@ConexionHumanaOficial5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot to this young lady for the excellent question because I'm in the same situation. Thanks to Venerable Thay for the practical solution, I'll do my best. Evangelina Cortes.
@Yotrek3 жыл бұрын
Summary: There are many solutions. One solution- Practice non-attachment by practicing attachment. Ask the person questions about your shared interests.
@ashleyl36992 жыл бұрын
so that's not what he was saying at all. he said to ask about what her sister was doing, and practice that alongside her as her means of feeling close. her sister is at a monastery living a semi-monastic life. he was skillfully using the older sister's attachment to the younger sister, to try to influence the older sister to practice more because that is her sister's interest.
@zngcete2 жыл бұрын
Perfect summary. The solution proposed is exactly what we all instinctively do to maintain connection, i.e. attachment! So disappointing 😞
@Cowface2 жыл бұрын
I think the first answer was a joke, and the second answer was to transform attachment into curiosity, and instead of clinging to a certain outcome regarding the relationship with the sister, learn about her by learning about her interests. That way sister can be sister, and she can still feel close to her from afar.
@hoopinessandjoy4 жыл бұрын
Ok, so why did the lady on the right restate the question the lady on the left had JUST ASKED?
@CapitanTavish4 жыл бұрын
Zealotry, did you see her unnecessary way to hold the mic ? She is far away from enlightenment as much Jupiter is far away from my sink knob in my bathroom
@SuspiriaX3 жыл бұрын
Disrespect! :')
@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou3 жыл бұрын
So “just stay in touch”? Not what I was looking fot
@vidhyapriyadharsini2344 жыл бұрын
What solution did he offer 😳
@fernandoorozco59683 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dazknight9326 Жыл бұрын
If someone does not love you back, let them go. Archangel Michael
@NikMontanaBeats3 жыл бұрын
Grounded?
@NikMontanaBeats3 жыл бұрын
Stay Still?
@shadabahmed4547 Жыл бұрын
There are many solutions. Audience - hahahahahahaha