How Do I Come Out If I Don't Know Who I Am Yet?! | Dear

[@queeeerchameleon]

Aghhhh! Happy Coming Out Day everyone 🥹 I am so excited to celebrate with the first episode in this series! 💚 I hope you enjoy it!

[@Rosemary-rr9jf]

@@queeeerchameleon im so happy your here to help💜

[@ZestyScreaming]

Thank youuuu I really needed that (context the school's outing me as trans to my hater mum :')) but tyyyyy! You're awesome ❤ AND HAPPY COMING OUT DAY YA'LL!

[@FlowerAnimates]

@@queeeerchameleon Love all your art/animation work I've seen, but this might just be my favorite!

[@russc8971]

@@queeeerchameleon do you have to be born LGBTQ?

[@rouga-senpai7613]

@@russc8971 elaborate?

[@lilyslibrary8623]

I came out to my mom the other day. Told her I was still figuring it out and didn’t want it to be a big deal and that I wasn’t ready for anybody else to know yet. I kinda expected our relationship to change a bit (she’s pretty religious, we never talked about how she felt about this kind of thing) but… we just moved on to our normal life, which made me so happy 😊

[@Romain_Galland]

@@lilyslibrary8623 that makes me very very happy for you and I hope this will keep being the type of experience you encounter when you decide to come out to someone else. You were very brave. 🫶🏻

[@thetranssonofapollo]

that's so great to hear and I am happy for you to have a good experience

[@ChrisRkr]

I do have 2 gender identities and one sexuality. Non-Binary, Genderfluid and Bisexual. And I like it. One day I wear a oversized shirt and a baggy jeans, the next day I wear a dress and a leggings. Many students from my class think that's weird, but I don't care what they are saying. As long I feel comfortable with myself❤❤ Having more than 1 gender identity is a great thing. I can show the world who I am and there's nothing that's going to stop me from doing that❤️💜🏳️‍🌈💪🏼

[@heytrace]

I’m similar to this expect im bi, non binary, and aroace

[@lolitachang7244]

YES another bi person

[@YanicaKyneva]

I remember when two of my friends understood that I was qeer by seeing one of my videos from tiktok at first I was panicking but then I was surprised to hear how supportive are they

[@TheMothOnUrWindow]

I went from a straight and dis girl to lesbian and gender-fluid. Then I was gender-fluid and pansexual. Then I was a Demi girl and pan. Then I was a demiboy (he/they) and pan. Then I was non binary and pan. Now I am a demiboy (he/they/it) and questioning whether I am pansexual or omnisexual.

[@Perhaps-hehe]

For me, I was like “oh yeah I’m definitely aroace” ..my gender on the other hand-

[@lilnasbol]

@@Perhaps-hehe THAT IS LITTERLY ME😭

[@dubon9999]

We Gay men, united are stronger 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️🌠🌠🌠

[@Goobletheartist]

How do we ask our own questions?

[@EthanKo-tb9xe]

Sometimes you don’t have to as I went from a feeling and reserched it to have a proper position.

[@itgetsbetter]

You can drop one here - we may answer it with Queer Chameleon in the future!

[@Ilikemarinescience]

This helped so muchhh!!!! It’s good to know someone else is asking similar questions to what I’m feeling. Thanks queer chameleon!

[@Wilderness-Autorka]

I was raised in a catholic family and due to internalized homophobia I wouldn't let myself believe I'm queer. I first started questioning my sexuality at around 13yo when I kissed a girl during a Spin the Bottle game, but then repressed it even harder... Until my 20's. It came back HARD. Turns out I'm a panromantic demisexual, and recently I learned I'm also reciprosexual! I didn't even know there was a name for how I experience attraction! Anyways, you learn your entire life, and that also comes with self-discovery :)

[@-_sailor-chan_-]

I’m part of a big friend group where practically everyone is queer, including me. My problem is, almost all of my friends have come out to their parents, and yet I haven’t. I know coming out isn’t something you have to do, but sometime I feel guilty for staying in the closet, while they all had the courage to tell their parents.

[@summer27619]

hey-hi um i think you just mention how you're feeling at the moment/express that it's in flux n you're figuring you out *hugs*

[@andrewmalinowski6673]

If coming across this advice when I was in high school, maybe it would have been easier to "figure things out" before stumbling across the answer. It's still good to hear when still trying to accept the labels I've found for myself, even if it's still hard to feel like I can express them.

[@InfinityzzStarzPawz]

Love you QC!!

[@HameleoshaDeHoga]

I like to think of myself as a godlike entity that can be whatever it wants... So, nonbinary, right? I'm fine with he/she/they pronouns, sometimes "it" when it's in a joking manner, because I grew up with the concept of "it" being referred to inanimate objects or "stupid" animals/inferior beings, but as you can see I already referred to myself as "it" in the beginning of this comment, so... I'm not sure, it's like a 50/50 for me. I'm not familiar with any neopronouns and that's why I don't think I'd like to be referred with those, but I think it would be similar to "it" but just slightly less preferrable. My goal is to make it impossible to misgender myself because I'm really, like, genderless... I'm just an entity, like a cluster of energy, the kind that doesn't exist on earth, like, otherwordly or somehting XD so I guess even if I'm not familiar with neopronouns (or don't like how "it" refers to inferior things) I want to try and not feel uncomfortable/weirded out with those I'm more confused with my sexuality. When I was younger I was definitely aro/ace, when people asked me about love I always either didn't take it seriously or joked about it. My childhood feels so far away now, but I think I can still analyze how I felt back then, and I believe the feelings were definitely aro/ace. More recently, due to some unfortunate events I no longer feel just aro/ace. Sometimes I feel bisexual, but also I still prefer men more, like 20/80, but maybe I only feel romantic attraction to women? But also I'm just naturally too "stupid" and basically don't know how to be romantic and I don't even feel it?? I don't think I have any romantic attraction to be honest, just sexual... But at the same time I, like, want nothing to do with it? I like to fantasize about me being with made up people, but I never stay with one for too long, I always get bored and make up a different one for myself, that's what makes me want to completely avoid real life relationships, because, like, I can't do that with real people... And also the fact that I can't just go "alright I had enough of you for now so I'm gonna make you disappear on command and go spend my usual real life waking day like usual" and I'm also a hermit who prefers being alone. And I don't think I can say I'm "only attracted to fictional people" because very often I get, like, "uncomfortable" when real people are near me. I think I'm just too horny, I don't want to be with any real people but that doesn't stop my body from having a panic attack when in certain proximity of a guy. I don't think I should be talking about this... I don't think this is an okay thing to do. But at least I'm trying to avoid people so I don't make them uncomfortable too and avoid being borderline creepy degenerate, like, I don't want anything to do with this. I have problems and I'm trying my best to get better, it's not my fault I got exposed to so much bad influence that made me feel like this... It's actually my priority goal in life right now to deal with this particular situation first, I've been trying for 2 years and it only got worse, god damnit, I swear it's possible to fix myself, I can't fail forever, right?

[@Romain_Galland]

What a wonderful and thoughtful video. Internet can be a lot of things however it’s truly magical that such material exist for queers’s youth and more. I came out more than 20 years ago, and nothing like this was around, well internet was barely around yet 😱 but it would have made things so much easier, not perfect surely, but I would’ve felt very much less alone. Thank you so much too everyone involved in this initiative, it’s remarkable. 🫶🏻

[@rayleaf8114]

WTF I do not know how to feel. Like this is so cute. But its so out of the realm of reality for me when I was coming out. But thank you❤

[@angelikichannel3951]

When someone calls me a girl or say's you go play with the girls i feel something is dieing inside of me (I'm girl but I'm not sure is I want to be...) Do you have any advice for that?😅

[@Junebuggly]

Hey, obligatory, I am not an expert. I'm just some person on the internet so you can disregard this for any reason. But, if the concept of being a girl doesn't sit right with you, explore what it would mean to be trans masc or non-binary for you. Try to compare it and find out what's different between being non-binary and transmasc versus being a cis woman, even if you aren't super stereotypically feminine. It is possible that you are just a tomboy or not a super feminine woman, however, if you're having doubts you should explore the possibility of being trans or non-binary. And remember, if something doesn't feel right for you then just don't be it. If the alternatives don't seem like a good option, try it. Digging deeper into why you don't like being called a girl. It's because you don't perceive yourself as a girl/ don't want to be a girl? Or is it something else? Does the word girl have a weird connotation to you. All of these questions might help you start questioning your gender identity.

[@angelikichannel3951]

@@Junebuggly THANKS YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!

[@Junebuggly]

​@@angelikichannel3951 yw! I myself am nonbinary (demigirl) and I figured that out by first not feeling comfortable with being 100% a girl. Sometimes I feel completely disconnected with womanhood, while other times I may still feel adjacent to womanhood.

[@155ethht]

Ustedes viajaron en el tiempo ?

[@Cathalreilly762]

I am a little sissy girl transgender ⚧ and a bisexual un 🌈🌈🏳️‍⚧️👭🧑‍🤝‍🧑🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🌈♀️♀️⚧️♂️♂️🌸🌸🌸🌸💙💜🌈🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🌈🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🌈🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🌈🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🌈🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@Mason1253Shorts]

@@Cathalreilly762 Open the channel 💀

[@Lufia4]

Cute

[@Cathalreilly762]

There is millions and millions of pronouns transgender people and queer people does millions so there is

[@witerunguard1737]

2:12 If I see anyone colour outside the lines their dead to me

[@swhertzberg]

I don't know why we are so obsessed with labels.

[@Markish32]

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