Narcissists also love and relish to kick you when you're down. They love to attack you when ,for whatever the reason, you're at your weakest. They're actually evil.
@Eva-zs4tt5 ай бұрын
Yes, and hate it if you are happy for a moment.
@43warriormode985 ай бұрын
So TRUE
@kimberlielawrence3695 ай бұрын
Yes Beautiful that's because they can't reach that high 😅 That's why the best defence is offence, to literally rise up to where they can't reach you any longer. Trust me, its easier said than done & I never thought it was possible, but when you're up high enough, you can actually forget about them completely 😅 it's AWESOME 🎉❤ 🥰 ✨️
@deeprollingriver525 ай бұрын
Then DO NOT BE WEAK. REFUSE TO BE DOWN. Stand up like a warrior. When you learn to do this, Heaven will open up.
@jenniferalves68085 ай бұрын
and when you're succeeding and doing well, they'll remind you of every single real or perceived (ie: completely fabricated, or something THEY did) transgression you made in the past, even if it was decades ago-bring up something they did last week and the spiritual narcs will tell you to "be present" in the most passive aggressive, self righteously hostile manner possible. I wouldn't call them "evil" unless they're in positions of great power, then yes, they're the sickest evil, zero remorse or empathy for anyone else. It's like some kind of dark dense sickness has been unleashed into the world, and those with weak mental and spiritual immune systems are completely infected.
@Admit-Audacity4 ай бұрын
If Satan cannot break you, he sends along a narcissist in his place….
@vivianeprudentiabuelens91424 ай бұрын
Really ??? 12:44
@anitanash77774 ай бұрын
@@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142YES, really🎯
@user-uz5fw3ko5e4 ай бұрын
Damn! So well put
@marlagodette51664 ай бұрын
True dat
@staceyphair53264 ай бұрын
Now that’s eye opening.
@deeprollingriver525 ай бұрын
I don’t care anymore about his silent treatment, the arguments, his jealousy, etc. I JUST. DO. NOT. CARE. I’m retired and have money, AAA, Medicare, friends across the state. I’m a solo female camper. I go without him while he sits home planning for the Apocalypse. According to him, I’ll go camping, the world will end, and I’ll regret not making it back home to him. What a joke. I have mastered the art of solo camping with my dog. It’s a joy and a pleasure to be in nature. Rain or shine, I’m happy. When he starts his abuse, I load up the SUV, my equipment, and my dog and we’re off to have fun. I’m gone sometimes up to two weeks at a time. Traveling across Texas. No contact the whole time. One time I returned home and he came out screaming and angry. Without a word, my sweet dog and I just got back into the SUV and took off again. I saw him in the review mirror shaking his fist. I was beautiful. The next time I returned, he didn’t say a word. I’m selling all my stuff and I’m going away forever.
@OneJennifer2475 ай бұрын
I am so happy for you. I can't wait to be free❤ I know your dog is happy too.
@mysterydiaz53024 ай бұрын
Strong and smart woman….excellent!!
@anasimoes24874 ай бұрын
Stay strong and safe you are brave 🙏trust in God
@thefilmarchivesofdrmichael44434 ай бұрын
Wonderful, you won’t have a single regret. ❤
@miownleyhope24734 ай бұрын
Girl, I couldn't quit laughing at your post. Not in a rude way, but just picturing it is so inspiring😅😅😅 You go girl!
@johnwhite63125 ай бұрын
1) Oppression 2) Desperation 3) Bitterness and resentment 4) Broken spirit ABSOLUTE TRUTH
@IntuitiveGoat5 ай бұрын
I was looking for you. ❤ Thank you
@Magamomma222455 ай бұрын
@Donna Andrews
@JuliannFlavin5 ай бұрын
RUDE. Make your own KZbin channel instead of piggybacking on a Creator and hijacking their video that took extreme hard work, effort, time and money only to have it "time stamped" by some "editing" donkey. How would you feel if someone did this to you??? it's like you're saying "Don't bother watching the video, here are the main points." "You're welcome everyone" thinking you are "helping." NEWSFLASH - you're not. You're selfish and rude.
@marytaylor95045 ай бұрын
Oh God! Create In Me A Pure Clean Heart!!!
@marytaylor95045 ай бұрын
@user-nq9qp4ht4u ice written out all these scripture verses you have given! Thank You for your input!!! Go With God and Be Blessed!!! 28:45
@LastMinuteMinistry5 ай бұрын
No wonder I am so tired all the time 😭
@karenmason49125 ай бұрын
Me to
@mariad34315 ай бұрын
It goes beyond just physical tiredness...it's emotional and spiritual exhaustion also
@LastMinuteMinistry5 ай бұрын
@@mariad3431 You are right.
@iopakayalo34595 ай бұрын
I am sorry, dear. Went through the same abuse too and for 15y, I couldn't place my finger on it but am seperated 4y now I'm healing. Self education helps alot too. Please look up Prof. Sam Vaknin as well. Sending you much love and light. ❤❤❤
@freevideos0515 ай бұрын
Check your diet too, have a great day
@christinevandenberg84 ай бұрын
I'm in the bed right now in hermit mode. Sending love & healing to those in need. We are all one. ❤
@shannonmcginnis88384 ай бұрын
I send you strength, sweet sister. You have a God given gift that this spirit hates because they cannot possess it themselves.
@maximalzufrieden13494 ай бұрын
Also hermit mode after another mean narc attack of my ex a few days ago. This is torture. Evil. Big hug to all survivors.
@honestandfair15724 ай бұрын
Get strong pull out of it ❤❤❤
@lavictoria274 ай бұрын
🙏🙇♀️
@nevaehbest23094 ай бұрын
❤
@heatherwagar58685 ай бұрын
The diabolical nature of these people is incomprehensible to someone with a good heart. I am still struggling spiritually. God help us all
@allyettiene17305 ай бұрын
Same here😢
@marilynb66455 ай бұрын
Try to find a relationship with God, Not Religion, Relationship & a spiritual counselor. I have come a long way with this after being to a Narc for 37 years
@allyettiene17305 ай бұрын
@@marilynb6645 Yes hope is in Jesus Christ 🙏
@TheFusedplug5 ай бұрын
They attack Empaths that's what we are Empaths but now we are EMPOWERED with the knowledge
@jenniferrosteski39555 ай бұрын
It's hard to accept that our 20 year marriage is coming to an end(quietly quitting it), it took 20 years and two teenage daughters to find out that I have been sleeping with THE enemy. That this is why I am at the point of suicide. I feel so trapped I can't go anywhere I don't have a job anymore and I don't want my daughters to think that I am the bad guy, for not only leaving their father, but leaving them with him. They do see how poorly he behaves but they still love him because he knows how to charm them. I am grateful that I understand that this is what is happening and I am working very hard on my path back to our Lord and Savior, God. It's just so hard to be around him lately now, that I know exactly what he is, and what he is doing to me. I actually feel physically sick when I'm around him and feel anxious when he gets home😢....I always thought that I am the problem in all of this and that my family is in this nightmare because of me. I grew up in a very unloving dysfunctional and now knowingly Narc home. I was always desperately looking for any kind of true unconditional love and desperately taking any scrap thrown my way. Here I am again, 53 years old emotionally drained and weak again, trying to pick up the same pieces of myself.. It is no longer about having hope. I am building up my faith that I am on the right track and where I need to be for now. I will be free one day.
@user-nv8po4py4s4 ай бұрын
Satan's demons need a body to work through. Know this and pray them out. Amen
@fena19313 ай бұрын
Narcissist are evil soul parasites ...
@vivianeprudentiabuelens91423 ай бұрын
My God ….❤️
@linda72793 ай бұрын
You cant pray them out if they enjoy their demons and wont let them go.........and they do...
@fena19313 ай бұрын
@linda7279 but that is they're problem, ... pray for those creatures at least once is because we empaths are empaths ..
@carolgarrett94793 ай бұрын
Could you include instructions for HOW to pray them out? Thank you.
@vanashridubey33724 ай бұрын
So True! Only Narcissistic abuse victim can understand this...
@richardkennerly78014 ай бұрын
Absolutely, I can't it happened to me
@Sagittarius12-2-774 ай бұрын
❤
@Victoria-tc5cm4 ай бұрын
100%!! Facts
@darlenealessio76093 ай бұрын
Only only those that have the regrettable experience UNDERSTAND
@lilac624Ай бұрын
True
@marlenelindsey76385 ай бұрын
Others to them, even their children are nothing but “supply”.
@mrdeshonline5 ай бұрын
I have stopped giving my mother the supply
@ryanlewandowsky20775 ай бұрын
Especially their children
@BrittLu135 ай бұрын
So sad but 100% accurate
@mikelockhart55285 ай бұрын
It’s a hard pill to swallow when you learn about this. Most children are brought up, believing that family is everything, honor, your mother and father, be a peacekeeper. These are all noble things….. BUT…. These things do not apply to narcissist - they are used as weapons by them. It is 100% simple. They know that you believe those things and they use them like a battering ram.
@mrdeshonline4 ай бұрын
@@mikelockhart5528 what makes me stock to my evil mother. "Children obey your mother".
@saty47725 ай бұрын
The lord is close to the broken hearted and he saves those who are crushed in spirit
@Beautyforashes7915 ай бұрын
Jesus came to set the captive free
@joycebutterworth53354 ай бұрын
Amen! Greater is He that is in us, than he that is in the world, and narcissism is demonic, so when you are weak, the Lord is strong. You can make it through! I’ve been with my narc 50 years, but discovered the covert narc 13 years ago, and I am a survivor. Thank you Jesus! Thank you Lord! With God all things are possible!🙏✝️☝️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@joycebutterworth53354 ай бұрын
What the government is doing now in these end times days is the same as what the Narc does, which is called Stockholm Syndrome. People are being controlled with the same symptoms the narc can do to the victim. Our Only Hope is Jesus Christ, because the world is coming to an end. They can destroy the body, but God can destroy both body and soul and cast you into hell, the lake of fire.
@joycebutterworth53354 ай бұрын
If the Lord only becomes strong in Jesus, the narc 😈 knows they cannot take Jesus from you. Our hope is in Jesus Christ, not in our demonic narc. Your strength comes from the Lord when you are weak… Press on!🙏✝️☝️💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@amybrown86134 ай бұрын
Amen
@lilyflower65115 ай бұрын
19, yrs married and in middle of divorce. He was soo detrimental to my health and our children's health, that the judge ordered lifetime restraining order for the 3 of us and gave me custody. The judge put him on a registry for violent offenders against women.. thank God the judge saw through him and how destructive he was to our kids. Free and healing now, it's still hard after 3 years separation
@kitty.k19245 ай бұрын
Courage ! It's a long recouvery but you are lucky you got your kids. I lost my whole family 🐘
@Gain-Health5 ай бұрын
Similar … 10 years raised our children alone … 10 years lived in hell with him … 2+ years … Been working on healing … Finally the clouds are lifting I lost my family too He’s turned my Son against me … and abandoned our daughter who is a mess and so much for me to love unconditionally… as I’m afraid … she’s a budding narc too … there is nothing easy about this … and no real ending either …. Your only Choice is to become a warrior of self love
@kitty.k19245 ай бұрын
@@Gain-Health It really is like (The never ending story ). He turned my only son against me also and stops me from seeing my grand children. But when i hear your storys i feel less lonely✨🌎
@attractarattigan35745 ай бұрын
Stay safe & well
@caramelapple40534 ай бұрын
@@kitty.k1924❤
@wk18104 ай бұрын
The "bitterness and resentment" part hit me HARD. So true! Seeing no return on your investment yet having to accept part of the blame for making a bad investment. It's the shame which brings the bitterness and resentment -- the profound shame of having been so careless with your heart.
@rhondaroberts22234 ай бұрын
Your statement hit me in the heart.😢 So true...my absolute anguish knowing that I chose to be with this person for the past 18 years. He's not verbally or physically abusive, but he has NEVER touched me in 18 yrs of being married. I feel so broken and worthless.
@Solov_d4443 ай бұрын
Acceptance of the situation, learning of the lesson and better choices in the future can be healing!❤ sending much love and healing!
@machglass3 ай бұрын
There is zero shame in innocence ❤️
@Lynn-wf3ys3 ай бұрын
“so careless with your heart” yes… 😢
@Pattistar235 ай бұрын
He was the most karma ridden toxic person I ever met cloaked in charm and bs- he used many to try to destroy me and outside of shining I asked God the archangels to step in on my behalf and that was the key to my shift… they literally should be charged with attempted murder
@darleenmcbride89005 ай бұрын
Oh I can't count the time's I've said this exact same thing.
@user-oe2jt2oe2j5 ай бұрын
I agree😢
@user-bn2st5kx8h5 ай бұрын
@@darleenmcbride8900me too
@sarahbouckhuyt5385 ай бұрын
Me too 😨
@brandyclouse10174 ай бұрын
YES YES YES I did die...I do not know who I am & who or what I'm turning into. Most days, I do not like me anymore. I'm having violent thoughts that I've never had before "HIM" I have numerous suicidal thoughts that is all new to me. I've NEVER ran from conflict because I always tried to find a way to help the situation become positive. I've also noticed I'm having problems remembering anything before "HIM"
@kittensugars5 ай бұрын
I felt that murderous spirit...he was verbally violent, and stood over me and screamed like a lunatic....and then ran away, saying he had to get away from ME. Cripes. 6 years of this. I escaped almost two monhs ago. I still cry daily, but I'm surrounded by people who actually love me now.
@santiMedina145 ай бұрын
MATTHEW 11: 28-30 - Come to Me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Says the Lord JESUSCHRIST Blessings.
@kaylaschroeder14 ай бұрын
There will come a day when you don't cry anymore. It will become a memory of nightmares, but you will also love and appreciate yourself more for how you endured, survived and began to grow stronger again in yourself. 💙 Wishing you the best on your healing journey. It's not linear. It'll be wavy for a while. You'll be alright. Blessings.
@TrudieTiger704 ай бұрын
Keep your head up. It will get better. I promise
@eugenia-divinecasey27553 ай бұрын
God bless you, I pray one day I can help other women realize this before I did 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@MuseLaBet13 күн бұрын
Have same M spirit in me now, God help me. Mine ex is wealthy politician, police dont help me. My ex is kind of Epstein. My ex sold my nude pictures on porn site. My ex tried to sell me to prostitution, My 3 devices are hacked. He pay for flying monkeys, stalking, harassing me in constructive way, almost nothing to prove. My health is in pieces, i hope i am not going to be disabled. I used to look like a model, now i am Ugly, bitter face, and overweight. Writing a book but not sure if i will finish, my motivation is poor.
@kathleenwharton21395 ай бұрын
I was suicidal most of my marriage to a narcissistic man who belonged to a narcissistic church. God Saved and Freed me from Both of them! 😊❤
@wolfgang78125 ай бұрын
3:46 God save us from all from narcissistic people from all walks of life (Ameen)
@kathleenwharton21395 ай бұрын
@@wolfgang7812 Amen! Amen!
@SuperReznative5 ай бұрын
Jesus ,the Holy Spirit, read the word of God, meditate ,on the Wisdom within the pages. Puttingg on the full armor of God
@mrdeshonline5 ай бұрын
"narcissistic church"🤣
@kathleenwharton21395 ай бұрын
@@mrdeshonline It is Not funny Asshole.
@cassmartinez-lo5it5 ай бұрын
Healing takes time. And I can't go into a relationship until I am healed again
@NickeyVamp5 ай бұрын
That is the best thing you could possibly do for yourself, because without the healing of self, you’ll find the same kind of partner again I know this from experience much love for healing and light for you
@lauriemorales76054 ай бұрын
Same. But I'm in so much emotional pain 😢
@CynthiaCaresse4 ай бұрын
Through my last narcissistic relationship i ended up in an emergency woman’s shelter, through the shelter i was able to get my own apartment. It’s the first time in my life im living alone, no housemates or partners or siblings just ME. I’ve never gotten a chance to know thyself in this way and i have taken this time to develop a disciplined practice around health, healing and spiritual development. At first it was very difficult to be alone, but in no time at all i felt so grateful to be alone. A few hungry spirits have tried to lure me out of this space, but i was surprised at my own strength to see them for what they are and graciously say “no thank you”. I refuse a relationship (even new friendships) until i feel i know thyself better 💛
@Victoria-tc5cm4 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯! I'm feeling like the next one would be worse😢
@Fenali33 ай бұрын
Facts.
@TheChapeaumelon14 ай бұрын
Hate and resentment will kill you, whereas anger can save you.
@Solov_d4443 ай бұрын
Angered transmuted to passion for happiness and a calm nervous system! ❤
@Labradorite15 ай бұрын
Imagine having been given the gift of life and use it to exploit other people aiming to take advantage of it. Great video, thank you.
@kimberlychristine92845 ай бұрын
That's a great way of looking at it. God gave them the gift of life and they use it to be cruel to others. What a waste of a gift! 😞. I'll never understand these narcissists.
@user-wh2bs9tp4y5 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking last time I was talking to him. Imagine being born so beautiful, so talented, so athletic, so intelligent, so fearless with such a great deck of cards from the start, and the only thing that brings you joy is seeing the confusion and defeat on peoples faces while you’re torturing them with mind games. While the victims are unsuspecting people just trying to care about you. So sad 😞
@From-Hurt-to-Healing5 ай бұрын
Narcissistic abuse is a heinous crime.
@leaoleary16015 ай бұрын
Don't have to imagine I live it
@leaoleary16015 ай бұрын
I'm sorry what I mean is my daughter uses my grandbabies as leverage against me
@marytaylor95045 ай бұрын
Only God's Holy Spirit can heal restore your Broken Spirit. Break the chains that bind.Release the hold A Narassist has on you!!!
@tresmegetit3695 ай бұрын
Just diagnosed with RA and I have been living with an abuser. The body is the creature of the mind. I regret waiting out to see what would happen. It has cost me my health. Now i am limited in another way. I have trapped myself in my body, my painful body. Please, learn to not wait. You are worth an infinite amount. Remember that.
@melaniegaspar5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. I got ra too. It's awful
@johnwhite63125 ай бұрын
Me too😢
@dollpartz4u5 ай бұрын
What is RA?
@tresmegetit3695 ай бұрын
@@dollpartz4u rheumatoid arthritis
@jnooyen90765 ай бұрын
Recognizable, me too Reumatoid Artritis, Auto- immuum. Run if you can!
@deborahshankovich84425 ай бұрын
None of this was available in my day. anybody relate?
@Briakoi5 ай бұрын
Always look forward boo
@randy_cbc88115 ай бұрын
If you're near my baby boomer age, and saying that Narcissism was not recognized nor well understood as it is today, you are spot on right, Deborah.
@helentucker64075 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree, so much more information available to us all these days. I was born early 60s and so much changed 👍
@lafter86555 ай бұрын
yes ma'am, in the 60's I was being groomed by my 2 older brothers for the 2 narcs I had children with, they set out to destroy their own children in order to get even with me because I left them, their entire family were narcs. one actually promised he would do just that If I ever left. She is such a mess I can't even help her. just like him. fortunately he met an early grave!! she still worships him, sad sad sad,
@brennadickinson29205 ай бұрын
@@randy_cbc8811 Apparently Narcissism is a spectrum and we are all on that spectrum. I think we are in denial of that and don't want to look at ourselves for fear of what we may find. But there is a huge difference between 1% narcissism and 100% narcissism. Toxic narcissism is deadly and about control. Love bombing by someone you hardly know is a red flag.
@4207SumiB5 ай бұрын
Resentment and bitterness did make me sick and I allowed myself to be used and abused. I am glad i recognized it!
@alwayspeace8985 ай бұрын
forgive yourself and make sure it doesn't happen again stay away from people don't love themselves narcissist r ppl that r miserable hates themselves. u must learn yr lesson or it will for sure happen again cause sadly we live in a world full of unhappy people. Corinthians 5:11 But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.
@helenwarren52174 ай бұрын
I became suicidal and relapsed.I lived but I will never return to my prior state of mind.Thank God I made it out.
@user-to6nk8sf6u4 ай бұрын
@@alwayspeace898😮😮😮😮😢😮
@fearless79895 ай бұрын
I've always said that "desperation" is the primary feeling I had for so long, during/after growing up with them. Being in the world completely alone, now, also causes desperation. God is good. He sends me what I need. ❤
@ginaesrar99455 ай бұрын
I have clung tightly to my spiritual beliefs. My spirit was very sick. I stayed alone to heal. I'm grateful for it, but very sad as to how sick my spirit really was. I only know how sick it was because of the phases of healing I have gone through and the phases of that horrible FOG lifting.
@leethomas88392 ай бұрын
Gina you look nice
@jue-jp1vg3 ай бұрын
I was abused by narcissistic parents and narcissistic teachers who literally isolated me in empty rooms for hours on end, it's taken me over 20 years to start to understand the damage these creatures have done to my soul.
@vivianeprudentiabuelens91425 ай бұрын
THOSE NARCS ARE CRAZY ‼️And they love it ‼️ 1:38
@helentucker64075 ай бұрын
Im so shocked by how many narcissistic figures have been so prominent in my life! Thank you for this information. 👍 ❤
@jacksg18095 ай бұрын
Oh Helen me too ...do we have a "light" continuously on ...and how do we turn it off?
@Soo_Blessed5 ай бұрын
They look for us people with our temperament good people
@novadomena33093 ай бұрын
i have had between 10-15 (family, bosses, colleagues, "friends")...it is epidemic. Reasons behind are negative soul attachments, interest economy, doggy dog life style, selflessness turns into greed, androidization of society = digital society (Archon's strategy)
@teresa28ist3 ай бұрын
You can't turn it off you have to confront them. Let them know you awe them. Call it out as it is
@sharonbice74903 ай бұрын
I hear ya plain and loud. 😢
@andi8794 ай бұрын
It’s very heartbreaking when your narc husband (40 years married!) abandons you physically, emotionally and spiritually, but still has the facade of being such a “nice guy” to everyone else in his life. I have been hoping his heart would change for four decades! I’ve developed high blood pressure, autoimmune issues and have pre-diabetic symptoms; on meds for all three. He has now convinced our 3 adult daughters that HE is the victim. So I’m estranged from my daughters and also our 7 grandchildren. He’s divorcing me, telling everyone that he’s tired of MY CRAP. The irony. I’ve gone through some unbelievable emotional suffering and yes, trauma, as a result of all the narcissistic’s classic evil behavior and actions. Through counseling, I’m learning to change my mindset from grief and sorrow to thankfulness that he will be gone, Lord willing, and I will finally be in peace.
@whoisimani443 ай бұрын
Have hope in God to heal and deliver you!
@i.am.navkaur3 ай бұрын
God bless you on your rode to a better life. Be gentle with yourself.❤
@marlasteely200512 күн бұрын
Prayers n hugs❤️. This is horrible.
@faithispower75 ай бұрын
This was probably the best description of how narcissistic abuse insidiously affects the victims. This is so powerful, Thank you so much for this. I know at least 10 people who need to watch this so they can begin to heal!
@estelled3894 ай бұрын
Profoundly
@leethomas88392 ай бұрын
Those dimples are amazing
@elizabethtucker64335 ай бұрын
God please help me to allow your spirit to deliver me from bitterness so I can move forward in Christ my husband is a covert narcissist. I am called and chosen of God. I please o lord help me as you only know my issues and needs. 🙏🏼😭Help all of your children in Jesus name
@ellenarnett35275 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Dale-ei4sm5 ай бұрын
Jesus is a one word right now prayer I call on him all day Jesus ❤
@K.j.h.2795 ай бұрын
Thanks for this. I shut down, a breakdown, couldn't function move or eat, it's taken lots of meds and a lot of alcohol and an awful divorce , but now I'm me again, no drink , not ill.
@NickeyVamp5 ай бұрын
I am currently going through this, and I am looking toward the future reading. This comment gives me real hope. Thank you.
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
This happens in churches and they use others and when vulnerable too!! Money is at church not God!
@randy_cbc88115 ай бұрын
Yes, you have to get out of churches who are not following the Lord. Who are preaching and living a "different gospel" from the one in the Scripture.
@Leah_Olson5 ай бұрын
Yes it does happen, especially the opression.
@nicholecornes19155 ай бұрын
No paying tithes is biblical 😊
@sarahodom70914 ай бұрын
I'm Christian and believe the Bible, and love Patristics and early Christian writings, but churches can be dangerous places, and people using twisted scripture. And sometimes about the social aspect, not God. It seems that every time I've met somebody who makes a big show of how Christian they are, they hugely stabbed me in the back.
@jennifermerva95385 ай бұрын
I was blind but now I see.😊 Thankyou
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
I don’t tolerate any bs now and dealing with it again in a highly toxic disorganized systems. I don’t play and we just leave! No more bs
@sll1105 ай бұрын
me too, leave those hopelesx Garbage
@sll1105 ай бұрын
y
@user-qr2nl1cj9i4 ай бұрын
Same NO BULLCRAP ever again
@amandam41485 ай бұрын
Hope is what keeps any addiction alive. Let it go 🎈
@nadimjamal73675 ай бұрын
Real Hope is rooted in God, it's not codependent. But hopium is addictive.
@maryvelneelemantenaya19665 ай бұрын
@@nadimjamal7367- YOU WIN ! The dictionary needs to get rid of Bootylicious and replace it with the "Hopium" !!
@narishaloflin93144 ай бұрын
Thank you for that, Amandam4148! I never heard anyone connect hope to addiction. It's so TRUE! I've been holding onto false hope...& that keeps me tied to a narc. Thanks for opening my eyes! ❤
@ScoutMcGovern-vd1rx4 ай бұрын
Hope + trust = disappointed and betrayal. Especially, with these emotionless encounters with a stranger,you didn't know at all. And he will be like that with anyone. Repeatedly!!
@i.am.navkaur3 ай бұрын
That’s soooooo true. I drank for ~25 years and the day I let go and stopped hoping, I was free. No more drinking to numb.
@Sezfluffy5 ай бұрын
My narc Dad destroyed his family but I think due to my faith I survived it x
@frodoggbooboo5 ай бұрын
I hear you. Same happened to us.
@staceycook64045 ай бұрын
I hate to even say it but realizing my 23 yr old daughter is a narsasist ,it has been hell being abused by my own kid has been so emotionally confusing , just now this last year cutting ties for my own sanity I have to if I want to live and be there for my other children ! Having a narsist family member is one of the hardest things to go thru , 🥲
@Shilpa910004 ай бұрын
How did you survive it?
@river13044 ай бұрын
46 year old daughter of a narc father, breaking free. I am now honoring my soul and respecting myself. Working through the self-hate, parenting myself. I thank god that I saw the light.
@amandapryar46755 ай бұрын
I've been abused by a NARC since I was 6 years old; I got married, divorced, and then met Narc number 2 at 32 years old; I'm now 63 and last year I ran; I don't think I have very much time to heal and know what its like to enjoy me as a free person, after 32 years living like a prisoner in my own home isn't something I thought I would escape, but I did it and now the hard work is now beginning; I have anxiety attacks and I rant at myself and tell my self that I'm pathetic, I'm useless, why did God create someone as useless as me; that's the hardest part of healing, you have to learn to love yourself, and that's my mount Everest, and I'm climbing it naked; at 63 years of age I'm hoping to be able to walk, drive and do other things without asking for permission. Any victim KNOWS there are good days and bad days but I hope WE ALL get to the top of our Mount Everest. My Narc never beat me, but my spirit IS sick, in fact I've wanted to die many times over, but I can't say anything because I'm being watched by my family, which sometimes feels just as bad.
@gloriahuffman66125 ай бұрын
I understand being watched, which silences you. In severe cases you are “disappeared” from the family, & the bad guys badmouth you in your absence. Silencing you and disappearing you come from their murderous impulses. They want to “kill” you in order to make your story die, leaving their lies in its place. Why? To make the bad guy(s) look good and make you the bad guy. They maintain their own status of goodness by “disappearing” the badness of the bad guys, so that their reputation stays unsullied as they associate with the white-washed and they disassociate from you. If this sounds convoluted, it’s because it is. (Th3-7th-24-0137E)
@missfreshair5 ай бұрын
I pray for the healing of your spirit 🙏🏼💛🙏🏼
@warangel43895 ай бұрын
You are free - God will not leave you. I’m 63 as well. I escaped in 2015. You will thrive.
@stevenclark56825 ай бұрын
Great Spirit will restore the years those demon narcissists destroyed. UBU
@AmandaPhoenix75 ай бұрын
You need deliverance. Repentance, baptism, and born again with Christ. These creatures are demon possessed and they transfer demons onto us. May God bless you and set you free 🙏🏻❤️
@user-vc6sk7jc5g4 ай бұрын
Amen!! By the end of my 36 year relationship with my high school sweetheart who is a covert narcissist, I was so sick . I was in a wheelchair, loving in complete darkness (literally) with a series of eye infections. After two years of being in and out of the hospital 24 times, I went blind in one eye and had to have it removed. The pain I endured those two years was like nothing I’ve ever experienced(and I’ve had three child births) I found out my narcissistic husband turned to his female boss as ‘support’. I finally found a sexual text that gave me my out. I ran like Kevin said. I was oppressed spiritually for all 36 years. I escaped and had no contact for 2 years. I am recovering, reclaiming and rebuilding by living with my parents and diving deep with God again. HE is the answer to my healing. Thank you for explaining this so clearly Kevin
@user-vc6sk7jc5g3 ай бұрын
@@erin6220 thank you for your response. We all suffer at the hands of narcissists. I’m sorry you were suffering, but I am so happy that you have figured it out at your young age. Most important thing is to learn what it is in your personality that was attracted to a narcissist. When we, look at ourselves and change, then we change our future. It was the best gift I could give my adult children and myself. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. Respect Courage, strength, and wisdom.
@forestsnow65085 ай бұрын
I am severely alone. I am starting to like it 😉😊
@BrianKlumker5 ай бұрын
I am severely alone also for a long time now and still crave validation from narcissistic parents. I understand that this will probably never happen and remain bitter and resentful because of it
@MarkieMcG.5 ай бұрын
Having boundaries and standards is their kryptonite. Have a line you won't allow to be crossed. Don't be unwilling to walk. They only understand LOSS.
@Chrss9773 ай бұрын
👏 me currently….inset boundaries and drew the line…and he now says I am manly and cold and dark and he doesn’t like it
@gloriacoleman70125 ай бұрын
It can be SILENCE NO AFFECTION LOOKING DOWN REGARDED AS NO VALUE.
@margaretcantlon99605 ай бұрын
😢
@margaretcantlon99605 ай бұрын
Yes, the Silence! Night after Night. 😢 As if I didn't exist. I left. Took awhile but I made new friends, who cared about me. Caring giving, Reciprocal friendships. Take your time, Watch what people Do...before you trust what they Say. Bless your Journey 💜✝️
@gloriacoleman70125 ай бұрын
Thank you Margaret it means a lot when others know what you are talking about my son and I had to move hundreds of miles as he would have ruined our lives..@@margaretcantlon9960
@4207SumiB5 ай бұрын
Just got MYSELF out of a 6+ years relationship. I am on the road to recovery. I knew something was wrong, was missing and I finally figured it out. This person was acting in the same manner as my ex who was also a narcissist. At least, I was still strong enough to pull myself up and away. I am being my authentic self again Hope deferred can be a killer! Thanks for this video.
@miriamhavard76213 ай бұрын
You are of HIGH VALUE. Their silence is a blessing in disguise. You don't have to listen to their abuse. 💗🌺
@kimberlychristine92845 ай бұрын
This video is so spot on. I've had hope for years that if I just acted happier, nicer, if I became who my narc parents wanted me to be that things would get better and they'd treat me better. As an adult who's researched much about narcissism, I've learned that they will never change. To be in a relationship with them is making me sick spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. I'm saving up money to see a therapist but I'm pretty sure I have CPTSD. I've also struggled with eating disorders restricting food and binge eating disorder for the past 11 years. I have adrenal fatigue as well. I've realized no contact is my only option to heal and become the real me.
@garyeberle625 ай бұрын
Yaassss…sooo spot on, we know it! Great comment. Peace e light to you!
@sandrawelch48935 ай бұрын
I'll be damned if I'm going to be sick I rebuke that! Because I am God's kid.......
@dannmurray11995 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this sad realization. Healing and encouraging thoughts for you.
@sll1105 ай бұрын
ME TOO
@sll1105 ай бұрын
I have very very serious CPTSD, but It's all my faults let Demons into my life!!
@TheChapeaumelon14 ай бұрын
As soon as my mother SAW that I finally SAW THROUGH her imposture, she destroyed my reputation, severed my from my whole family and tried to send me to a psychiatric hospital. That's how crazy their resentment can become, that's how hard they feel the need to destroy anyone who can expose them. I had to run to another country to escape her tentacles...
@estelled3894 ай бұрын
So sorry I went though the same trauma. May God Give you the strength to heal.
@PhyllisLandry-yz7ud27 күн бұрын
@@estelled389help I’m new to healing ❤️🩹 my mom and I are no contact I’m heartbroken yet angry
@gatheringbeauty87225 ай бұрын
Genius Kevin. Thank you for applying scripture to these difficult painful situations. The truth is the real answer.
@ellenarnett35275 ай бұрын
Yes, it is! Ask God to help you “Seek first the Kingdom of God” (His reality) and then listen for His input, constantly, and He WILL show you what is true.
@user-nh8ou4jc7b5 ай бұрын
I have 2 siblings. Our father trianguled the 3 of us. We don't have a good relationship. I decided to walk away in order to preserve myself. It's hard because it's not what l want. I'd rather have my siblings in my life, but they are manipulative, secretive, deceitful. Our father died last year. It was a mess. Mentally, l wasn't in a good place. I grieved a lot, for the death of both my parents. I also grieved for our non existent siblings relationship. I gave up the hope for them to be the ideal siblings, because they can't be. Their mindset is different to mine. The word family means something different to everyone.
@karenzupanic7184 ай бұрын
I hear you…my father the same with same # siblings and was estranged from mother because of lies told about you. Then Married one..watched the lies, experienced the word salad, the unreliability, gunna nature (gunna do this, gunna do that, but nothing gets done), the torturous divorce process, the isolation and losing both ‘families’ from lies told about you. More peaceful on own with pets. Also, if you have clutter issues, (and I add weight issues to that) it is a trauma response (thanks to crappy childhood fairy for that insight), not you. It buffers you from anyone getting close. You don’t invite them to your messy home…and are always ‘tidying up’, never tidy.
@KATHERINEGWRIGHT4 ай бұрын
😪 I’m an empath married to a frighteningly dark narcissist. I’m physically ill now from all the abuse - panic attacks, horrible anxiety, stomachaches every day. I had a bone marrow transplant in 2018 and my father was convinced that my cancer was a result of all the abuse I live with. I’m scared all the time. Working on getting out of this horrible situation. I don’t think I’ll ever trust a man again and that makes me so sad.
@theanonymoushelpline72484 ай бұрын
With GOD all things are possible. Find a trauma based therapist and a somatic therapist to release the trauma from the body. It’s stuck energy. That icky feeling is stuck trauma energy that needs to be released. You’ll love again but it will definitely take a very patient & empathetic man
@theanonymoushelpline72484 ай бұрын
And please leave this person
@theanonymoushelpline72484 ай бұрын
Your gona be ok. You are safe and loved and have the strength that the hood lord gave you. We are warriors. You will get through this transition and GOD will send you support.
@KATHERINEGWRIGHT4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words 💝
@shaylalasalle48174 ай бұрын
Your father is right. All diseases come from emotional trauma
@dannmurray11995 ай бұрын
I love how you use Biblical references. What better examples and words of wisdom from the most compassionate, wise and loving teacher to ever walk the face of the Earth. Thank you for extending his work.
@FancyTruth15 ай бұрын
Praise Jesus
@43warriormode985 ай бұрын
This is so true !!!!!!!!!!! So TRUE .......I was near death ....and it was 2 years of asthma maybe longer ...could not breathe ...constantly on a nebulizer...felt poisoned and may have been ..but toxic people can posion with words too ...yes spiritual disease !!!..you're so right ...I got to this point of bitterness and resentment...i had never been so spiritually bankrupt!!! You have helped me GOD SEND❤God bless you...I'm now in constant warrior mode ..armored ..silent as a dove and smart as a serpent.....🌬💨🔥👊🙌🏻💪.....spiritual sickness that made my physical body so ill ....I was fighting for my life! Literally...this narcissistic round is with my adult daughter ...she's all of them IN ONE ...and my hardest to see the true colors ...and they aren't pretty...
@43warriormode985 ай бұрын
My spirit was dark and once again I shine ..Amen ❤
@trumpeterswan41775 ай бұрын
Hey Sister, love to hear from another survivor! Very similar story, and now 100 percent healed and happy, thank you Jesus!
@aliciaoliverez91965 ай бұрын
That is me right now! My husband is an alcoholic and dose a lot of verbal abuse and than is so loving when he's not drunk! But my spirit is noum! And he doesn't remember what he's said to me! Help.
@ast14765 ай бұрын
@43warriormode98: *Wow!* Ihr Kommentar könnte 1:1 von mir sein! Sie beschreiben es perfekt, wie mein Leben aktuell ist! Hatte einen Tumor und eine Blutinfektion und Atemnot. Ärzte wussten nicht wo es herkommt! ~~~ ABER jetzt heile ich und richte mich wieder auf! ~~~ Alles Liebe für Sie! Wir sind stark und die Narzissten können uns nicht besiegen! ; )
@salettamyers88455 ай бұрын
They remember- they tell the honest to God truth of how they feel when they have their liquid courage- full armor beautiful one💙@@aliciaoliverez9196
@jenniferalves68084 ай бұрын
I knew someone like this for almost 25 years, it's such a huge relief she's gone. Beware the spiritual narcissists who preach about "love and light" and use spirituality as a weapon against you. Be honest, have faith. I can assure you, those who stir the shit pot end up licking the spoon. RUN!!
@user-ft4ub2yk7y5 ай бұрын
This is all so ve4y true. Married for 58 years and beaten down so badly that I believe if I had not left when I did I would have died within a year.
@user-un9qn4zo6c4 ай бұрын
❤
@taghazoutmoon50314 ай бұрын
58 years is a lifetime
@user-ft4ub2yk7y3 ай бұрын
@taghazoutmoon5031 Sadly yes it is. I stayed for my family but they no longer seemed to care. I left.
@antoinetterandall21245 ай бұрын
▫️Excellent PERSPECTIVE ▫️Excellent TEACHINGS ▫️Excellent APPLICATION of the SCRIPTURAL references.
@SharonMessage5 ай бұрын
All caps is shouting
@antoinetterandall21245 ай бұрын
Hi Sharon: It is my sincere hope the manner of my writing style did not cause you any distress. My intentions for using caps was for the purpose of emphasis only. Respectfully, Antoinette
@jatins49665 ай бұрын
@antoinetterandall2124 , Firstly, God bless your kind heart. 2nd, learn to be ok with offending others sometimes. 3rd, the bald man in the video is telling some deep facts like he always does.
@antoinetterandall21245 ай бұрын
Thank you Jatins for your kind words and support. You have read me well, as a general rule, I do not like offending people . . . and this is the first time that anyone has ever - openly come to my rescue. Thank you. I really appreciate it. You have made my day. Have a great day. I love this channel and the unique perspective presented. I will continue to watch and I will look for your posts in the comment section.
@DaveMasters11215 ай бұрын
I went through discard back in 2007. I had no idea about narcissism and I had to pick myself back up. No one could understand, even I couldn't understand why a man who gave me nothing could make me feel so low. I was so confused and did everything that discarded victims do. Looking back, he did the hoover, but luckily I was not interested anymore.
@RonSafreed5 ай бұрын
I had a narcissistic father & younger brother & both abused me, my mother & baby brother & a pastor of a church & he really adored my narc. father & kicked my mother out of the church!! Then as a young man in my early employment I was around so many narcissistic workers & bosses!! Then working in a business with my baby brother, the narcissists we encountered!! I am 68 & have various health issues!!
@christyviolet9264 ай бұрын
Ugh, that church 😢 Shame on the churches that allow themselves infestations with narcs, destroy spiritual experiences & leave them with oppression!
@sharonrichards52034 ай бұрын
Appropriately expressed . . . anger is an emotion of self respect.
@editbajkai20835 ай бұрын
This is killing also , any possible way with their words , acts . They kill you , destroy somone life is killing .
@chantalishimwe40905 ай бұрын
I wonder when I will be free from this veil that covers my mind and thoughts since when I was hit hard by narcissist abuse. I feel I lost myself, can't recognize me!
@GeriRogers5 ай бұрын
You can do it!! I did at 70 years old after 50 years of living awful hell!!!!
@chantalishimwe40905 ай бұрын
Thanks for your encouragement. My first step was to at least give a name to what I went through from childhood. I don't know what should be the next step as no contact to aging parents is almost impossible. People would consider me as a monster and their smear campaigns have been so painful in the past. Moreover, despite going low contacts, they are dominating my thoughts. How can you stop living in the past?
@patriceroach63735 ай бұрын
Look up your beautiful attributes choose all of the ones that are you that's who you are!
@emma-kp8vz5 ай бұрын
Your first step is to walk away from them, trust me. Then the next step is to start learning to heal, then start following your own path!
@emma-kp8vz5 ай бұрын
Your first step to stop living in the past is to remember it and make sense of it. You have to first recognise it, not ignore or try forgetting it happened. You need a therapist trained in this to help you deal with it and make some sense of it, then learn from it, and start the healing process. It's takes time and alot of mental energy, but the end result is worth it. Iv Been there, but it can be achieved and it does get alot better x
@jasonhebert4310Ай бұрын
In the big book "“Resentment is the number-one offender. It destroys more alcoholics than anything else." Acceptance and forgiveness are the answers
@stevenclark56825 ай бұрын
Come out from among them(narcissists,demons,devils)!!!
@darylgreen38815 ай бұрын
🙏 We Will continue to Bounce Back.. like a cat.. land on there FEET!💪🤠
@fordfairmont34725 ай бұрын
I was "raised" by a narcissist, he was violent, spiritually and verbally abusive. This continued into adulthood, having my own children made me reaslise how evil he is. I cut him off, i began to heal. A year later i split with my narcissistic wife, i had already mourned the death of our relationship, the day we separated an oppressive weight lifted from me, I'm now married to a "normal" person who loves me and is at peace with me. I resonate with your message.
@agnesh44895 ай бұрын
My mum was never so nasty to me as when I lost ( killed by a fox)my beloved she -cat, that I had bottle fed since she was a tiny baby... I really understood then... She pushed me towards the edge. It worked. I attempted suicide 6 months later. But, never to have any more contact with her after almost 60 years of abuse. It can take a life time to understand that your parent is an actual monster 😢.
@mysterydiaz53024 ай бұрын
Yes….it took me a life time too🙏🏻
@dollydavis71563 ай бұрын
It took me 48 years 😢
@teresaorth78325 ай бұрын
Oh, how I needed to hear this tonight. God used you to speak to our hearts. Blessings!!! Thank you !!!
@nancybrand36294 ай бұрын
If you can make a plan to leave, please do that before your soul is completely destroyed
@jacquelinepace1893 ай бұрын
Narcissists are caught up in the worst of all the devil's snares: the LIE. Nothing is true about them. Only God can save them, no one can help them directly. Please pray for them and for their oppressed. Let's respond with love to their hatred, like Jesus did
@beckysafe79905 ай бұрын
Wow never heard this before; dealing with a narcissist causes disease??!! This just spoke volumes to me. My ex hubs and son are both Narcissists~ I’m Exhausted physically, mentally and emotionally, my body is in so much pain (I wake up tired) & I feel empty inside from Giving and giving of myself so and receiving nothing in return.
@missshroom55124 ай бұрын
I had to let go with my own Mother after decades of hoping. The ruminating is the worst part of holding on. It took me having to have a raise my own child to really realize I was wasting my time. Good luck to everyone out there. It is a worth while process to let go.🌎☀️💙
@TheDarkPlace-p6t5 ай бұрын
The scene from The Matrix is a powerful analogy as it suggests that our spiritual well-being affects our physical and mental health, as they are all interconnected. If the spirit is unwell, it can affect our physical and mental health. This would call for holistic healing to address spiritual issues along with treatments for the physical and mental.
@Sezfluffy5 ай бұрын
Yes reiki is amazing too.
@meloworx2215 ай бұрын
“It is the soul that is hungry, not the body” Caroline Myss and many other spiritual teachers have pointed at the spirits authority over physical health. Being spiritually healthy guarantees physical health, but being physically healthy doesn’t guarantee spiritual health. Most physical and emotional ailments begin in the spirit, or our energy systems depending on your terminology. Everything is spiritual in origin; everything is a manifestation and expression of the spiritual
@lisalisavirgowarrior76065 ай бұрын
My medicine is Prayer, Frequency & Lots of Laughter.! 😊❤
@philu46215 ай бұрын
Man I've been thinking of those same words lately I just feel spiritually sick from being infected by these narcs.
@EC-yd9yv5 ай бұрын
🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️Run ..as fast n far as you can from these creature. do yourself a huge favor plan your escape Now.! 🕊️💛🙏✨
@ckl58015 ай бұрын
Powerful teaching happens in this video!!! My heart is resonating with the spirit of TRUTH and the truth will set us free!!!❤🎉
@tooakki5 ай бұрын
I can attest to this, Im born of Malignant Covert Narcissist Mother, it's no joke.
@jennifs68684 ай бұрын
i totally bounced back, even though my health is now reflecting some major stuff. but wow! i cannot believe how happy i have become after 7 years of FREEDOM!
@elizabethgillespie-gray12144 ай бұрын
A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22 There are a lot of people with arthritis ❤
@Delfina-Zafira5 ай бұрын
I developed an autoimmune condition from a psychopath partner in less then 2 years! I was perfectly healthy before I met him at the age of 36. This affected the whole hormonal system, causing other issues, like endometriosis.
@gjinkalla235 ай бұрын
I feel you❤
@crystalgranqvist12575 ай бұрын
Feels
@Delfina-Zafira5 ай бұрын
@@conceptobject This has happened long time ago Almost 10 years ago. Chill 😅
@shadowivy5 ай бұрын
Despite all the deliverance prayers Ive gone through this realization of Spiritual damage feels surreal. For years Ive been conditioned to minimize everything that happened. This year suddenly everything collided into flashbacks I can’t seem to heal from
@ellenarnett35275 ай бұрын
Keep turning to God for your healing, for HIS regeneration. for the renewing of your mind. Be patient (it takes time to process it all), steadfast (standing completely firm in your grasp of God’s reality, as He reveals it to you), and teachable (see Psalm 143). 🙏
@shadowivy5 ай бұрын
@@ellenarnett3527 Thank you so much for these affirming words of encouragement. It truly is a process . The Lord is so good🙏💐
@kristenmarie92484 ай бұрын
@shadowivy , the minimization, and then the realization, and flashbacks! I know that currently. The 💡🤯 moments where you put 2+2 together! It's challenging, and yet a relief to figure things out even though it's shocking to realize what they were capable of. 😮
@kevins58335 ай бұрын
I survived an extremely toxic relationship with a narcissistic woman. I had never before been with this type of female before, before I discovered what I was dealing with, I had a small basal cell carcinoma appear on my nose for the duration of our 2 1/2 year toxic relationship. I asked God to show me who she really was, God woke me up in the middle of the night, I drove to her house and found her with another man at 2:00AM. I broke up with her instantly. After the breakup, I was so relieved to be away from her lies and gaslighting, that the Basal cell cancer literally healed and disappeared. Stay away from toxic people, they will indeed make you sick and toxic as well...
@rikkibowman31965 ай бұрын
Absolutely true. My narc ex triggered my awakening , it was incredibly traumatic.
@Mom4cool5 ай бұрын
Healing from full blown narcissistic personality disorder/sociopathy is challenging. It requires a level of self honesty that I have not been able to achieve in spite of 48 years of therapy, 12 step programs, and inventory. Denial is strong in a person who was a victim, became a perpetrator then reverted back to victim. Taking responsibility without beating up on your self is another gem.
@randy_cbc88115 ай бұрын
Gosh, well, bless your heart and be encouraged because at least you're trying, which is more than most can say.
@patriceroach63735 ай бұрын
Your going to make it ! God Deliver This Beautiful Soul 🙏 Right Now In The Name of Jesus 🙏 AMEN
@patriceroach63735 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@ellenarnett35275 ай бұрын
And ESSENTIAL. Do Step 4 objectively, without self condemnation; asking God for His total help, and the courage to keep looking at whatever He shows you. He doesn’t want you to be consumed with guilt. He wants your freedom from every lie from the Pit which you were believing 🙏
@jenniferalves68085 ай бұрын
You're the very first person I've witnessed with NPD who has owned up to it and is working on it, and I've been interested in learning about narcissism and personality disorders for 10 years. You deserve to be encouraged. Believe me, if you're taking responsibility for your actions, you deserve hugs and not to feel down on yourself. You're exceptional.
@Sezfluffy5 ай бұрын
I totally understand the oppression of the spirit, it lifted when I went to university .
@ledbygod25334 ай бұрын
They come in the form of obsessive friends as well.
@karenmason49125 ай бұрын
Thank you so much , I just came across you video now and I now understand why I am the way I am, my husband is narcissistic and I am a very loving , caring and giving person and he is only for himself from looking at pornography after just getting married , always staring at other woman, and denying it , when I confronted him he would swear at me and make me feel like I was the bad person ,He now has dementia and I am having to look after him , I am so tired and drained of energy , I am 65 young and he is 76 , we married in 2015 , I am very Spiritual and always Praying for others who are suffering and I am Praying to God to help me have a better life and to be able to meet someone one day soon who would love me sincerely 🙏🏻
@Vulture-885 ай бұрын
I pray for God to relieve you of him, in Jesus name.
@LS-ek1fd5 ай бұрын
Nursing home….drop him off m, get some rest and go live.
@jacquelineglitter43285 ай бұрын
I don't yell, bully, insult or gaslight people and I won't let anyone do that to me. I have many narcissist in my family and I've walked away from all of them except one.
@MHLivestreams4 ай бұрын
I've managed to break free of the demons, and feel so much healthier all round. Having strength in belief, and, trusting your inner guidance is extremely important, letting go of the nonsense is so liberating. It took years for me, but I'm sure it can be done sooner with proper awareness of the scenario. Healthy self-love is the answer, loving oneself enough to not put up with it. Good luck, everyone.
@anastasiapritchard60245 ай бұрын
I cured me. They just made it so I couldn't ignore my issues anymore. I'm not giving them any credit.
@chelongogan39045 ай бұрын
Very good video. Trust in Jesus.
@ronyalemerrill4 ай бұрын
My Mother was an A+ narc. I went no contact 6 years ago and am still physically recovering from decades of abuse.
@MayaChadalavada-nz7qg3 ай бұрын
I was so sick I almost died. Two months after leaving the sadistic psychopath my health got better and better. Two years in now and 98% of my health issues are GONE!
@healthy7114 ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining all these traits. After the narc uses, they devalue you and discard you making one feel foolish, unloved and picked upon. It's not easy to deal with these emotions especially when you are pure at heart and only want the best for people
@kaylabryson19325 ай бұрын
I have left 3 yrs now and I’m still physically beat up… but spiritually & emotionally I am happier than ever ! Just want to heal from painful illness I got in a 35 yr covert narc marriage.
@kathymc2345 ай бұрын
Sugar, my narcissistic husband died and my doctor's couldn't diagnose an illness for 10 years. It broke my heart that he had ruined my life and he wasn't even here anymore.
@cassmartinez-lo5it5 ай бұрын
I was married to a narcissist for 6 yrs. He decided we were done when we found out we were gonna have a 3 rd girl. Not a boy like he wanted. He brought home papers for divorce the next day. Made me sign them. Then got pissed after I got a lawyer. He kept the house made me buy my paid for car. I still ask the question was it me. I did play my part but I think that saved me , and my girls. 5 yrs later I was planning a wedding with a new partner. Unfortunately he was diagnosed with a brain tumor that killed him 3 months later. His mother was a narcissist and abused me during his death, so I am back to square 1 . I don't trust I can't and hope for anything is gone . I was a very god devoted person , but I wonder what the hell he has planned for me next. How much is reasonable. I feel God has no mercy for me or my children if he had why would God put us through all this shit.
@ellenarnett35275 ай бұрын
God is for you and not the cause of this person being in your life. Read Psalm 143 daily, be very very teachable, and let God show you how HE sees you. Let Him change how you see yourself. Ask Him to create in you the warrior against evil mindsets HE wants you to become. He whom the Son sets free can and must live free from oppressors. Listen to this video daily until you have digested it all!
@SkibidiMomm5 ай бұрын
I understand soooo much. Ask for God's discernment and wisdom in every decision every day all day. I have found God's Provision when I'm seeking to carry out His will, and not expecting God to do MY will in my life. I escaped my ex, and my sole purpose in life now is to guide and educate my kids on the reality of what is out there, not to engage in narcissistic traps and baiting, to recognize the red flags, etc. I find purpose in that, and at times thankfulness for what I know now, even though coming to the actualization of what narcissism is was, and continues to be,very very painful. I pray we can spread the word and share our knowledge to spare others and our kids the experience of getting trapped by a narc. Praying for you.
@Solov_d4443 ай бұрын
Have faith as he has brought u far and hasn’t brought u this far to leave u look for the blessings and his hand on ur life( silver lining) all around u to start ur life!❤
@ErinP7924 күн бұрын
LORD, thank you for getting these videos out for someone like myself. I honestly felt as though God was talking to me through you 🙏🏼 Praise God!
@msdecemberloveangel82364 ай бұрын
This definitely resonates with me because I have given so much that I'm empty inside.
@ginaesrar99455 ай бұрын
I am self empowered even when struggling, my ex-husband couldn't ever let me enjoy my strength or anything that made me happy. Now in our divorce, he can't stop himself from trying to take my resources, he can't stop himself from trying to oppress me in the courts. I need opportunities for complete financial independence, but I've really built something, know I'll make something out of it soon. I'm so tired of using my energy fighting him, when I could be using it for so many other things. I work part time, work isn't even work because my job is just my job, but divorce is taking so much away from really going for things related to my highest good. I get so disgusted at times.
@kristenmarie92484 ай бұрын
I understand. I have experienced this. Hopefully, it will be over soon for you so you can move forward with your life. ❤
@pamfreeman23705 ай бұрын
Where were people like you when I needed answers 50 years ago, 30, even 20 years ago? 10 years ago? I am a void!
@kristenmarie92484 ай бұрын
❤ You are worthy of love, and acceptance. Please remember your worth. Tell those dark spirits to LEAVE.
@rubybegonia70524 ай бұрын
Pick up your pen and start noting.
@glenbutler96114 ай бұрын
Praise God for your sharing these revelations. Narcissistic abusers attract themselves to giving, compassionate individuals; then play on their guilt when they are called out. No one is ever emotionally or spiritually safe around them. One must have discernment of the Holy Spirit to steer clear of them!
@kpf20142 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. No one has explained to me what was happening to me and what he was actually doing the whole last 10 years but this is it. He studied my hopes and dreams and then promised to move where i wanted and even went to the schools and trainings and sabotaged it all. Discarded me upon selling our family home and he had someone else on the other side of the country and remarried after 30 years. He waited until last child went off to college to lure me, promise me, isolate, and abuse to the point that I left - he was “victim”. After 3 years of healing and no contact- i am seeing that i actually am the person that won her life back. Thank you so very much for this. I am so grateful. 🙏
@sharonbice74903 ай бұрын
I healed myself. I feel wonderful. 😊
@Eva-janeMiddleton-xu9lk5 ай бұрын
The thing with hope. I believed it would improve. They throw you crumbs of affection at the point of you pulling away. I needed to be with a npd to be healed from the trauma In my family of origin. He mimicked 1 of my parents. I'm no longer broken beyond repair. It's a difficult job to recover but it's possible.❤
@kristenmarie92484 ай бұрын
"He mimicked one of my parents." Omg. 💡 wow. I had an epiphany when you said that. Thanks.