How Not to Handle Rejection

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[@6PieceNugget]

I think "get ahold of yourself" is one of the funniest things a person can respond with

[@AnimeLove-q7e]

I swear Charlie is the best at making these

[@Felix_hobi]

It’s so simple but yet so effective

[@mippyflippy6706]

That's like my son telling me a while back that he got a thumbs down from another driver while out instead of being flipped off. He said it hit so much worse than the finger, so now I give a thumbs down 😂

[@LazyMofos]

In the old movies and tv shows whenever anybody dropped that line it was usually followed with either a slap or a splash of cold water.

[@diphylleiagr]

i feel like “get a grip” would also be pretty good lmao

[@POOKIEMEISTER1]

Got rejected this past week by a girl I thought I was connecting with. Videos like these make me feel better that I just got sad and moved on with my life instead of having a meltdown

[@andrewmontgomery8428]

Happened to me last month brother. Just don’t lose your cool about it. And sometimes they do change their mind and come back.

[@RevenantNeverDies]

This shows you are more mature than half the population of grown ass people. props to you for handling it well

[@Memorial24]

Don’t take no for an answer man Edit: Do people not understand what a joke is?

[@Andrew-hv6sy]

Same thing happened exactly to me too man, and to tell you the truth, the fact that she didn't see it that way or rejected you means that she's not worth it at all. I think connections are the best way to get into a relationship because most people normally date by looks, and relationships like these usually don't last. All I'm gonna say is, she's just like the rest of women. The fact that you can connect with somebody on such a high level and still not even go on a single date with them proves my point. I just wish some women would start dating men by their personality/connections rather than looks or status. I'm gonna tell you this brother: the girl that rejected you is probably dating an asshole and is gonna regret not coming back to you lmao.

[@briannemarie9214]

@@Andrew-hv6syokay, virgin

[@ohhuhwhatyeahuhhuh.ok.9354]

The absolute power of the last woman just saying “get ahold of yourself”. Absolutely brutal.

[@vivienm2037]

I couldn't stop laughing for minutes

[@Liamsnieceson]

Clearly feels like she’s dealt with some unhinged shit before. Like, this is just another Tuesday with this guy.

[@scyi.3665]

fr I feel like it gotta hurt way more than being said "you're pathetic, seek help"

[@XRyukhan]

It was a very good slam but jesus dude it is just a text message lol it isnt that crazy 😂

[@aplive58]

It was actually a guy to another guy lmao. I saw it on Reddit.

[@scrubyt2668]

people that unironically say "clap your cheeks" when talking to a girl they are trying to sleep with are actually painful to be around

[@ZenithintheMaking]

He thought he was Eren Rizzler...

[@ReaperXxK]

I would only say it to a girl I'm already sleeping with

[@ImTheReverse]

@@ReaperXxKlet us know when that happens

[@ReaperXxK]

@@ImTheReverse it has. I wish I could've let you know years ago lol

[@StainsStainsStains]

“Ay yo lemme clap ya cheeks” *slaps hands on face cheeks*

[@chloe-d8g8n]

him dropping the "i have a child" bombshell extremely casually just let me know that this was about to be a dumpster fire of a conversation

[@squirrelbugg99]

And a child that he desperately wants to get away from, too. Like my man was trying to get a hotel room to get away from his own son. Major bad vibes 💀

[@LazyMofos]

Exactly, thats usually one the first things people talk about when dating, is being a parent. Hes not even the "good single dad" creep stereotype, I can only imagine what other behavoirs he thinks are acceptable.

[@feraltaco4783]

I hope with every fiber of my being that he's lying. The realist in me knows better.

[@feraltaco4783]

@@LazyMofos that thought is utterly terrifying. Hope the poor child was able to get far, far away.

[@Ultimalocked]

@@squirrelbugg99Just to play devil’s advocate; It is possible that he was making up wanting to get away from his kid as a convenient excuse to book a hotel room for the night.

[@AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH]

“Accept that Respect that And move on.” -Charlie 2024

[@legthieff]

in short: move on loser

[@noodle_tax]

​​@SordidusFellatio you good lil bro? Was that you in the video?

[@PokiByte]

​@SordidusFellatioI think you have caught the stupid

[@UstaRobinHood]

​@SordidusFellatioWho hurt you lil bro 💀

[@thefurdrake]

@SordidusFellatioGet ahold of yourself.

[@1R_D_Z]

I’ll never understand how someone can get rejected and then start to insult the other person as if they didn’t just try to ask them out 😂

[@ryanmcclosky3312]

Lmao yes its cringe level 5000

[@uh-oh-thats-not-good]

nah, ITS OVER 9000!!!!1@@ryanmcclosky3312

[@Lawrence_Talbot]

I wonder what these people do for a living. Like no way they could handle a sales or customer service job. “Would you like fries with that?” No just the burger “Look here slut you’ll eat the fries and you’ll like it!”

[@kintama3453]

They just get mad so they try to hurt the other person

[@dyrr836]

It's called negging, it's a pick up artist/incel meme where you try to undermine the other person's self confidence to make yourself look more desirable in comparison. It's complete pseudoscience nonsense but it especially doesn't work here when they do so by throwing a temper tantrum and making themselves look like a whiny piss baby.

[@ujustgotpwned2008]

I feel like Charlie would reject a woman or end a relationship by saying "Okay, that's pretty much it. See ya."

[@baeljr666]

I feel like he ends every interaction like that

[@ImTheCazual]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheOneAndOnlyBobbie]

lmao

[@dixie8329]

Brilliant. Period. See ya

[@Lomlomlomlomlom]

@@p-__wrong, I would know

[@stuartward1755]

The fact she initially agreed to go on a date with him. He was right there. He was right there and he blew it..

[@faded9581]

Well to be fair I think it was the mention of a kid that put her off. She was looking for an excuse to get out once she heard that, but his awful attitude and awkward backpedaling gave her more than necessary.

[@seanwalsh7542]

@@faded9581 nah she liked him initially

[@ZodiacKriller]

Millions of years of evolution brought about a creature this bad at securing a mate

[@bink]

​@@seanwalsh7542Nah what, he agreed that she liked him initially.

[@themug406]

Yes what about that fact?

[@ZiroWatt]

"I need a break from my son" 💀 Biggest red flag right there

[@KuLaydMahn]

Nah, a yellow flag maybe. Children can be a lot, sometimes parents need a little time to themselves. It doesn't mean they don't love their kid or don't take care of them. It varies from situation to situation

[@rokukou]

@@KuLaydMahn Yea but his first mention of his son was "I need a break from my son" lmaoo

[@leanflavoredpringles2353]

Him having a son means he was able to pull in the first place. So if he can still do it...

[@knowwhoiamyet]

@@rokukou That we saw.

[@jonnnnniej]

​@KuLaydMahn I would have agreed with you if it was a very young kid, who can't sleep through the night, needs constant supervision, etc. But he said his kid was 13. My benefit of the doubt went out of the window when he said that.

[@AkivaMerkavah]

It seems like this guy ruined his own chances by immediately proposing getting a hotel room and hooking up. It's presumptuous and creepy and sends nothing but red flags.

[@RobbieStacks90]

That's neither presumptuous nor creepy. In fact, most girls want a guy to take them to the hotel room and fulfill their fantasies; they just won't tell anybody other than really close friends because the truth would stigmatize their reputations.

[@RobbieStacks90]

That's exactly what most women want.

[@sunnyandthechlo]

@@RobbieStacks90 Get ahold of yourself.

[@P3ret]

@@RobbieStacks90 oh yes most women want a creepy man who has no self respect from himself totally

[@taylorbug9]

I turned down a hot red head with blue eyes (fav combo) because he wouldn't quit trying to invite me over to his house at night without meeting in public first.

[@necrogon22]

Guys turn to insults after rejection because anger is a much easier coping mechanism than sadness

[@King_of_Hamsters]

Fuck you, I'm not too weak to cry!

[@stuffystuffsityas6302]

Yeah I think they’re inept at dealing with their emotions. When society calls everything but anger “emotional” an immature man or boy seems to shove it down. It’s not helping them at all when it comes to long term relos and just causes a limiting experience in life - or total instability. Wild

[@mexicandannyphantom2668]

I like this theory

[@neondemon5137]

Like women don't do this too. It's normal human behaviour.

[@aidenanderson2777]

That is not an excuse nor is it true, the men that turn to anger and insults after rejection are the ones who are not ready for a relationship, if they cannot handle being told “no” in a healthy way then they should not be dating.

[@huntercool2232]

6:48 It’s because some guys believe the most detrimental insult to a woman is to call them “fat.” Which is honestly the mindset a 14 year old guy would have.

[@KizaruKizaru]

The best part is that he was totally digging her weight earlier from that same picture, since he wanted to see her in lingerie lmao

[@scottkrafft6830]

No, not 14 year old guy. 14 year old BOY. That's the difference here

[@ilikeoranges3869]

If you're gonna insult someone atleast get creative with it

[@fluffypinkpandas]

thats why i dont call them "fat" i just say "jump scare" at their picture and let them mald at me in chat about what that could possibly mean while I say nothing

[@IWontBuy-RP]

​@@fluffypinkpandasgotta hit em with that "ew, gross"

[@thekidwhogrows]

"Clap them cheeks too" is such a stunner of a line. I'm so shocked that didn't work.

[@bluetheminx]

😂😂😂

[@AxelAlarcon]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@acethebeast9971]

That shit caught me so off guard😂

[@what_4836s]

Anti rizz type shit 💀

[@ViSR23]

I recently asked a girl to go for a movie and some dinner afterward. She rejected me, which hurt a lot, but I just said that it was okay and that i was glad to have an opportunity to speak to her. This makes me feel better. At least im not this guy.

[@kitty1931]

That's a really nice and decent response. Rejection hurts, but it just means it wasn't meant to be. I'm sure you'll find a girl that likes you back :).

[@ViSR23]

@@kitty1931 Thank you. I appreciate your words :)

[@compsigh9275]

Ask the next one. You’ll get one eventually. KZbin the boomhauer dating method.

[@928doxjs]

Shouldnt let it hurt alot💀 aint that serious

[@featherlight2652]

You got this king, you did good! You’ll find somebody, I’m sure of it

[@CyflureReborn]

This guy had WAY too much confidence Edit: why are little kiddies talking about alphas and Andrew Tate in the replies

[@oddabandon]

😵‍💫 75% of all dudes online I talk to have that much confidence, I think it's more of being an asshole instead of being confident

[@CyflureReborn]

@@oddabandon real

[@ryukami404]

That's because they are talking behind a screen where they know they won't get slapped across the face or called out by anyone within earshot. That and some people I knpw with this mentality went to the Boomhaur school of picking up dates

[@AParticularlyConcernedCitizen]

No, this was insecurity. Confidence manifests as saying, "Let's go out," and leaving it at that because you trust yourself to get what you want out of it instead of having to beg for acceptance of your ideas like this guy did.

[@layersofjade5197]

​@@p-__Again?

[@bluetiger2468]

I have a brother and he talked about how surprisingly easy it is to date. He said all he had to do was be nice. I told him the sad reality is a lot of guys are unable to date because they act like this.

[@Adelaide_Cuthbert]

The bar truly is in hell when common human decency is what we all be looking for in a partner. 😭 Let's just be proud of your bro for not being a mouth breather.

[@rubn5515]

Give me your brother's contact so I can get enlightened by this master of dating you speak of. My romantic life is cooked 💀

[@windy8544]

@@rubn5515 don't! what if he uses his powers on you?

[@psuedo_levi]

​@@rubn5515 sincerely, don't chase people not interested in you, be a good person always (not only in front of people you're interested sexually in), know what you're looking for and don't play games (if you want to hookup don't act like you want a relationship and vice versa), learn to handle rejection. Also make yourself look desirable, if you're not a looker it is twice more important to be confident in your appearance. Good luck!!

[@rubn5515]

@@windy8544 Duhhhh I fumble him too obv

[@catie7466]

are there any other girls out here with trauma who find it genuinely therapeutic to watch charlie, a super popular male youtuber with a mainly male fanbase, just look at weird creepy guys and ruthlessly make fun of them? idc how simple, repetitive, and silly these types of videos are they are so healing lol

[@rotted2023]

It does help me keep my faith in men alive haha

[@DakotaofRaptors]

​@@rotted2023nah, we're a doomed sex

[@rotted2023]

@@DakotaofRaptors nah dont say that. there are lots of good fellas out there.

[@user-is7xs1mr9y]

Not even creeps approach me, and after seeing this, I'm happy to be like a fly on the wall.

[@rikimura_rishi]

me :3

[@whatsthename22]

Sick charlie only needs 1% of his power to handle creeps

[@yemeatrider]

@GregaJohn-gb6evsucks to suck lil bro

[@lowestpoly64]

​@GregaJohn-gb6evi got 2k views in a day on a video because it was good not because I bought a zillion bots to plug it where no one asked

[@Pinchechango]

@GregaJohn-gb6evshut up freeloader

[@alexk9642]

​@@p-__i was hoping to see you

[@COD_is_a_sin]

Bruh my nickname is shaggy, I don’t tell people my real name, it’s my plug name, my name on cod(I probably need a few more nicknames, ima leave a trail😂)and nobody ever gets wtf I’m saying when I make that joke😂 Damn internet.

[@BigMac87963]

These always make me more confident in dating apps. In the back of my mind I know I will never be as bad as these

[@darianclark3980]

Naw, dating apps are overrated and don't work still.

[@zombotaro]

theres the exact same comment whenever he posts a video abt that. unoriginal

[@Dowjy]

Great pfp

[@pozzoom5892]

​@GregaJohn-gb6evLMAO

[@vcorkleth]

I feel better because I know I won't be bad as these guys, but I also feel worse because I never get these matches in the first place.

[@Steef_Lee]

I know I’ve said this before, but It’s crazy how similar all these guys are. It’s like this is an actual personality type or disorder.

[@AliciaGuitar]

I think it IS a personality disorder, and this is just the modern manifestation

[@belledelfino5274]

as someone with bipolar, probably bipolar

[@EmyN]

Entitlement runs rampant I suppose

[@tarantulady]

Men with borderline personality disorder often act like this.

[@Percey_7]

Desperation reeks misery

[@captain_vaughn]

Charlie could never know rejection. He’s just too majestic

[@namantherockstar]

Charlie inspires me.. My parents said if i get 70K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally Begging..

[@ThreeSheep69]

Estoy triste porque hoy es mi cumpleanos y no tuve ningun. Suscriptor.

[@christian1491]

@@namantherockstarmf you do music😭

[@TygerHillis]

@@namantherockstarI’m good fam

[@Your_Local_Nerd]

but remember his little gamestop incident 💀

[@isaacsnead9046]

I will never get tired of these messages

[@volvo09]

Same, they are great... Some pathetic people out there.

[@pozzoom5892]

​@HelpMeplease991your the second person to say this lol

[@Adam-tu1qx]

How do you endure the unbearable cringe? I open the videos every time but cant finish reading the texts lmao

[@Memorial24]

Would you still feel the same if it was fake?

[@lemer2935]

​@Memorial24 wait are they!?

[@mr.coffee5220]

Dude I asked a girl at school for her number after we had a pretty enjoyable conversation a couple days prior and she told me the “Phone’s not working” lie. So I just said “Okay” and haven’t talked to her since. It’s not that complicated.

[@3More140]

Fr, people can be so childish when it comes to getting rejected. I asked this girl at work for her number this past Valentine's Day and she said she was seeing someone; I apologized to her and that's all there is to it. I feel like guys who take non-issues extremely personally tend to resent themselves deep down and project it onto other people.

[@OpalLeigh]

@@3More140I’m a chick and I asked a guy at work if he wanted to grab drinks sometime and he very gently told me he was seeing someone:) and same as you, I apologized and moved on. This was years ago, and since then we have managed to become really good work friends who trust and support each other a lot. And I’ve met his partner now and she is the sweetest person and cute as a button:) Someone rejecting you doesn’t have to mean you lose an awesome person unless you go scorched earth 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think some gentlemen see that as friendzoning though and it’s sad they look down on it.

[@Ty1350]

Yeah it’s not complicated to accept rejection but it’s also immature to make up fake excuses instead of being direct since it’s unclear if it’s actually a rejection. I got told that and then ghosted before I ever got a “no” lmao some people suck at communicating

[@mr.coffee5220]

@@Ty1350 yeah. I wasn’t intending on dating her, I just wanted to be friends. It’s just that as a guy in hs it’s kind of difficult to interact with girls without having them think you like them so I think she thought it was that and rejected the request. It is a little confusing though because when we had to end the conversation on Monday because it was lunch and she had a friend group to hang out with, she said “I’ll see you around” and waved goodbye and then 4 days later turns around and goes “Nah”. Tf is that?

[@Ty1350]

@@mr.coffee5220 yeah I get that many girls and women are overdefensive since a lot of guys pretend to be friends when they’re expecting more but it can make it difficult to make genuine friendships with them, which especially sucks since guys without girl friends are often viewed as misogynistic creeps. Sometimes it seems like respecting those boundaries can just dig the hole deeper lmao. As for your situation, I’d say it’s best to leave it. I’ve been in your position many times and it just wasn’t worth it. In a perfect world, people would say what they actually mean but unfortunately we don’t live in a perfect world. While there’s always the possibility of the excuse being true, it’s just not worth it to continue putting effort towards people who don’t deserve it. If it’s meant to be, they’ll come back to you

[@nczioox1116]

In college I had an enormous crush on a girl in my major for weeks. I finally got to courage to ask her out. She rejected me. It hurt for like 5 minutes then I suddenly felt great. I stopped thinking about finally her and it felt like a weight was lifted off my mind and it made me realize that rejection is not that big of a deal. In life you win and sometime you dont

[@Andrew-hv6sy]

and?

[@nczioox1116]

@@Andrew-hv6sy rejection can be a good thing. Thats the moral of the story

[@AboutDatMoneyy]

@@nczioox1116 For some people it can.

[@Rose07242]

I respect that you even have the courage to ask out someone, it’s hard to do

[@goatbabe0666]

My go to statement: "I don't like wasting people's time. Thank you but I'm not interested."

[@PCAMY]

From someone who handled rejection pretty badly because of a lack of social skills, here are a few tips: Thank them for being honest, and give yourself time to be sad about it. It’s not a fun experience and you’re allowed to be upset. While you’re grieving, keep contact with them to a minimum. Talking to them too much will give you too much opportunity to overshare and often ends in the person feeling on edge. If they seem uncomfortable around you, just give them space and the situation will improve with time. It hurts really badly to be looked at like a total creep, but it happens.

[@scrappybadger4369]

Genuinely good advice 👍

[@angelkat333]

I would say if you still have strong feelings for someone who doesn’t like you back, I would suggest you don’t speak at all unless you have to (like at work). Do not interact with them online, no liking photos, watching their stories, DMing, etc. You need to put up that boundary for yourself to let go. The more time and energy you spend on that person, the harder it is to move on. Trying to be friends with someone you have feelings for is a disaster. I have never seen it end well. People try to convince themselves that they really just want to be friends, but deep down they’re holding onto hope that maybe the other person will change their mind. But they’ll never change their mind, and you will be tormenting yourself with false hope. It always ends in more drama and pain. Keep any necessary conversations civil and surface level. Don’t be rude ofc, they’ve done nothing wrong. You’re just protecting yourself with those boundaries to keep them off your mind. Focus on other things, then one day you’ll realize you don’t want to be with them either. (Psych major)

[@Adelaide_Cuthbert]

​@@angelkat333 🤨 I'm concerned that you think it's normal to end a friendship over being denied more. It gives entitled energy, the all-or-nothing ultimatum that you didn't value the friendship if you can't have them, just truly isn't healthy. Big yikes.

[@Malamesa]

what? I don't think being in a friendship with someone you like and they don't like you back would feel nice, it hurts and is very awkward, setting boundaries for yourself is good and try to overcome those feelings, hell those feelings can interfere with being friends with them and not be on the same page, I've been in a 10 year old friendship and I've had feelings for that person for few years (back then didn't know how to deal with it nor what to do) and yeah doesn't feel that nice, we are seperated due to unforeseen circumstances but it's really not healthy to be in a relationship where ones has feelings and another doesn't.​@@Adelaide_Cuthbert

[@beansandboarsontherun5762]

@@Adelaide_Cuthbert I think you completely missed the point here buddy. Cutting off a relationship because you have unrequited feelings is perfectly fine, and also healthy. If you're madly in love with someone who does not feel the same, absolutely give the relationship as much space as you can until you're actually over them. That's entirely normal.

[@victorconway444]

"I'm not crying, you're crying!" I love it every time Charlie says this, the delivery is chef's kiss

[@Dope-Bomb]

Never seen a guy escalating quickly from cuddles to sex

[@xmateinc]

Yea she’s like “no not on the first date” and he responds, “alright thats cool, let’s just clap cheeks then”…. 😂

[@ZenithintheMaking]

Not only trying too hard, but trying too fast also 😂

[@Lawrence_Talbot]

Bro watched way too much Andrew Tate

[@Unknown22885]

@@xmateinclmaooo “I see cuddles was over the line, but..”💀

[@chebotheepattinson1330]

@@ZenithintheMaking probably splurges in a few seconds too! What a guy

[@afriendorfoe]

One of the things I've learned in life is that how you handle rejection is extremely important skill. Example (my life); I was rejected from a job at my current company, but a few days afterwards they called me and were so pleased with my resume and my interview they had a job better suited for me that literally became available soon after. Turned out the job I applied for I was too qualified for and the position was laid off. So now I make more money, have a better fit, and I wasn't laid off. That rejection helped me out. As for dating, one of my friends broke up with an ex from high school. They met each other years later and now are engaged.

[@andrewmontgomery8428]

I too am living proof of this. I got terminated from my last job, but I took the firing so well my supervisor petitioned to get me another job within the same company. I’ve been with the company for 5 years now and have made lots of friends along the way. Never lose your cool.

[@AngryDad.]

Or just never get rejected like me. Never had a woman say no before. All you have to do is ask them out while on a cruise ship. They won't say no because of the implication...

[@sunnyandthechlo]

@@AngryDad. Who would go on a cruise with someone they're not interested in?

[@AngryDad.]

@@sunnyandthechlo oh no, you approach total strangers when they are isolated

[@AngryDad.]

@@sunnyandthechlo you wouldn't dare say no, hopefully it's not during a thundstorm otherwise it would seem menacing

[@plutonium09]

Men have got to understand that “playing hard to get” doesn’t exist lmfao

[@koriharpoon3357]

It's more complicated than that. Women like bold guys but not aggressive guys.

[@Argylleagen]

playing hard to get is very much a thing, some women are aroused by the persistence. But with all the negatives it brings along in most conversations, it should be considered a kink! If you like being persuaded to do things romantically just give full disclosure or else the default is 'no means no'

[@hazybubblegum]

The amount of times that ive had to tell grown ass men that no doesn't mean convince me, is actually just sad. They then get upset "its not like that" then you throw in a well thats how its coming off. then ignore them after

[@jasonbrody8724]

Start telling the grown ass women too while you’re at it

[@justalostlocal]

​@@jasonbrody8724 Aww did we hurt your feelings? Did you see yourself described here? Except women don't act this creepy this frequently. Charlie's addiction to DMs is entirely sustained by dudes, in case you haven't noticed. Men can learn and do better, but that would require introspection instead of the bruised ego you flaunt like a 12 years old.

[@AboutDatMoneyy]

@@jasonbrody8724 Exactly.

[@AboutDatMoneyy]

@@justalostlocal Women act the same way when rejected so dont even play lil bro.

[@AboutDatMoneyy]

Women too.

[@tranquilanxiety3055]

Hey Charlie, 6:30 Therapist here: people tend to turn to insults when rejected mostly fall under the "Rationalization" psychological immature defense. Human brains have a hard time dealing with rejection, so if we never learned how to deal with it in a healthy way we create "Acceptable explanation" instead of the true and painful reality. Work with these folks is a focus on self esteem and then empathy 😊

[@andrewmontgomery8428]

Yeah. I was once like that. But I finally got over myself and finally learned how to be a real gentleman and not a phony one. It only reaffirms their decision and just makes you look pathetic. Sometimes the greatest thing that can happen is they say No. In the grand scheme of things that’s 18 years of child support you may not have to pay.

[@P3ret]

Why the fuck is a therapist causally watches Charlie’s videos

[@MasquedMocha]

@@P3ret you... you know therapists are people too, right? people with interests in who they watch and what they do? like, can therapists not watch youtube?

[@janthran]

@@P3ret therapists deal with internet poisoned brains and this video is about rejection, a topic therapists engage with a lot. if you thought you had something valuable to add to a discussion then you'd probably watch a video outside of your normal range of viewing, but you can't understand that because you haven't yet experienced the feeling of having something valuable to say

[@Snowstar837]

​@@P3retlol this has serious "I saw my 3rd grade teacher in the grocery store and now my idea of the world is falling apart" energy 😂

[@fuelsfornerds]

The thing about most cringe rejections is that you can see that they are actually doing well at first but then proceed to fuck it all up with trying to sleep with them

[@KatieHuni]

They do that because they wanna see if they could change the girls minds by saying some stupid shit, but ends up failing so miserably at the end 😂

[@ToastJelly]

@@KatieHuniI genuinely think they don’t understand that when a woman says no it means she does not want to and the last thing you SHOULD do is try to convince her. My current boyfriend of almost 3 who I met on tinder wanted to sleep with me, I said no let’s get to know each other better. He was respectful of that. It works! .. except for the one day I hadn’t texted him for a week and he randomly sent me an eggplant emoji. Not his finest hour. lol

[@rieJW]

How they even do well in the first place is baffling

[@Todd-erate]

I really think we gotta start teaching kids about disappointment and start promoting learning coping mechanisms. Being let down is like 80% of life, success is worked for.

[@BasicallyBasic990]

its a cultural problem we have now, people push success like its something everyone will have, not everyone is going to be successful in life. Also desire, a lot of people are taught that you can work for anything just to be told they'll never have something or someone ever, making them feel like there not good enough or have wasted time, making them angry. I think its a big reason a lot of dudes are going to other countries for girls when it comes to this situation, also going and getting escorts or prostitutes, as then you know what your getting and can get what you want. People do get tired after a while when they get rejected, especially when its all the time and when you've wasted tons of time.

[@scottkrafft6830]

The cold, hard truth is that not everyone on Earth will have a romantic relationship; some people will never have even one in their entire life.

[@dosomestuff1949]

@@scottkrafft6830 so theres just no fucking hope for some people? no matter how hard they work? Absolutely not true.

[@dosomestuff1949]

@@BasicallyBasic990 so some people are just doomed to live a miserable life?

[@retrorobbyreviews]

Rejection can hurt but at the same time No means NO. It’s sad to see in the modern world how some people have forgotten that concept.

[@chebotheepattinson1330]

A lot of men never even heard of that concept or learned basic human decency

[@retrorobbyreviews]

@chebotheepattinson1330 sadly, that is true 😞.

[@edsp666]

Forgotten? When was it ever known?

[@pvinixje6852]

@@chebotheepattinson1330yeah these edge-lords are a great example.

[@noway377]

Men never understood that concept and I don't think they ever will

[@Neubtoob]

I’ve never understood why an alarming number of guys literally blow tf up and get super personal when they get rejected. Just accept it and move on.

[@Pandcakes936]

Ego/insecurity. I've never blown up, but having been rejected before, I've gotten melancholic for a few days. I do struggle with insecurity. Confidence can take you a long way. Not arrogance--Confidence!

[@soupluv]

Because they feel entitled to women’s body and time

[@temqwerty]

inability to not take it personal.

[@shawnbass-ig2bv]

Incels

[@vladimirgluten781]

I dont think its an alarming number of guys tbh. You just arent shown the good ones because theres nothing interesting about it.

[@Spugatti6729]

5:51 The way he just went from a bit upset to enraged was hilarious (and Charlie narrating it made it 100 times better)

Charlie commented on my vid

[@fade9209]

stop spamming this shit under ever comment you weirdo@@p-__

[@krychur4956]

I never really experienced rejection because I never had the courage to confess in the first place. still, if I got rejected, I would just sit and cry in my bathroom, not in their DMs.

[@TheCyledacosta]

You will never know how other person feels rejection is just a risk you take when asking so do not be afraid of rejection and dont be like that guy

[@leanflavoredpringles2353]

1: Don't hype her up in your mind. Calm down son, it's just a woman. She's not that big of a deal. 2: You're going in with the goal of getting to know her and asking her out. Don't make it like this secret plan that she can't find out about. You're not "confessing" your love for her like a fantasy romance movie, you're just saying you have interest in her and want to take her out on a date. Ez. Worst case scenario she says no. 3: If she says no she says no. Getting worked up about it is just a waste of energy. Brush it off, respect her decision, and try again with someone else. Yes there will always be someone else. It's about as easy as talking to a friend.

[@TheCyledacosta]

Thanks for the tips@@leanflavoredpringles2353

[@thavrisco1632]

@@leanflavoredpringles2353Worst case scenario she says “ew”, tells the group chat about it, and you find out people are laughing at you for it

[@joeschmo4646]

@@leanflavoredpringles2353yawn

[@xenigma1414]

People that don't understand the meaning of no are genuinely some of the most annoying people out there.

[@sarthakthakur357]

Bro wanted too comment so bad

[@user-ep2sm3jm1o]

And the most concerning

[@sarahg743]

I like how you're sharing these so much. Gives men an insight to what some women have to deal with on a regular basis.

[@jewishwaffle3527]

Whomp whomp

[@DopeioThePhoneBoi]

A lot of men think this sort of attention is flattering tbh. They're so attention starved and delusional that they think women getting deranged creeps in their DMs is flattering. It's mental.

[@sophie1706]

@@jewishwaffle3527u definitely talk to women like this

[@Dg_Daddio]

I’m just putting a bookmark here for the inevitable “not all men” cringe comment

[@jewishwaffle3527]

@@Dg_Daddio only the fun ones

[@mo0nlitmystic]

I'm glad you included that bc the "get ahold of yourself" response (what I imagine was also deadpan and just emotionless) cracked me up. Idk why I found that so hilarious 🤣

[@frank8917]

Look, being confident is not bad It becomes bad when you have TOO MUCH confidence

[@3More140]

"Confidence is key, but self-awareness is golden."

[@frank8917]

@@3More140 exactly

[@reborngreatnesss5712]

Nah it’s not too much confidence it’s too much dumbass ignorant can’t take the hint thinking that he can get away with anything with insults it’s really sad but no empathy from me

[@dimitris_kleisiaris]

its fake confidence also

[@comfortable_east]

People with low self esteem have really bad coping mechanisms. Not saying these people are inherently bad, but they need a lot of self awareness and character building to do.

[@Adam-tu1qx]

First guy was one "sorry my bad" from things going well with her

8:35 the ol' "get a hold of yourself" line, when used right, hits the right spots. Had me laughing in the kitchen hearing it.

[@mickblock]

"Learning how to handle rejection is a necessary part of life." - Charles Christopher White Jr. I hate to admit it but I've never heard it put so plain. I've only thought of it as something to avoid!

[@乂]

Charlie's reactions to these texts are priceless. Every time he uploads a video about weird text messages it's like a wild ride

[@luke8536]

Is this channel AI? I see you on a lot of videos and all your comments sounds like AI

[@PotatoObliteratorGD]

@@luke8536no they're just stolen

[@rubykdc9829]

​@@luke8536bought an account and is trying to get liked

[@geodefence]

🤖

[@grenada9347]

One must imagine a comment section without bots

[@marcusbordignon]

1:15 Charlie mimicking the laugh right there was menacing🥶

[@smilehoyaaa613]

☠️

[@what_4836s]

Hahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahhehehwhyeyznsls8ywnsmajagbakimhavingastrokepleasehelpme

[@sk8legendz]

Idk how people can do anything but try disappearing after rejection Just forget they exist and move on. Because they will

[@DotingDiamond]

i've never seen such joy in a person

[@pieceofshoot]

i’m really sad

[@Aegis4521]

@@pieceofshootgood

[@Soap8752]

Hahaha

[@notsewking3886]

I am usually a lurker when I go online, but this time I feel like sharing something. Charley has been one of the most positive influences that I have taken in. Which feels ridcules to say, but I really was verging on becoming one of these weirdoes in my younger days. This guy has been great entertainment and pretty good advise for a lot of people who were like me I imagine. I have become bored of most content on the internet but this is a channel that I keep coming back to. Keep up the good work :).

[@tarantulady]

Charlie is out here smiling and handing out free self-awareness.

[@giygas_9577]

Me too. I would say I've learned a lot about common decency and just how not to be weird from Charlie.

[@theOneTrueCactus]

Why is this such a common recourse for people after rejection? I always feel so bad about myself that I don't want to talk to anyone, much less the person who just rejected me. I'm on the other end where I blame myself, not the person who isnt interested, so I just spend the next few days reflecting and then the next few months building my courage back up.

[@ypp0p]

If it helps with the courage thing, just know that the fact you spend time in self reflection means you are probably a great person to be around :)

[@theOneTrueCactus]

@@ypp0p you would like to think so, but you'd be wrong.

[@vladimirgluten781]

i dont think its really that common. or i would hope not.

[@theOneTrueCactus]

@@vladimirgluten781 given how often i see it pop up, it makes me wonder how often it isn't publicized when it happens. There are people who want the awareness brought to this, and then there's some who just want it to be over with and in the past. Thankfully people do bring it to light though, there are some individuals out there who could gain some insight from these behaviors.

[@dosomestuff1949]

good. it is your fault. you both weren't compatible. focus on bettering yourself.

[@zxwhitesmokexz4974]

@7:33 "you dead yet?" is wild

[@texanarchy666]

not really

[@Zorgot.]

@@texanarchy666 ?

[@KayliColeman]

It’s honestly horrible tbh

[@texanarchy666]

@@Zorgot. ive said much worse to my ex

[@PaninaroAurora]

I'd reply, "not anymore. I am officially undead, and I'm hungry for brains and blood. You're good on the blood, but I need to go somewhere else for brains."

[@NaveeSeal]

"what do you mean you're calling the police?" i can tell that's gonna be a new clip

[@nickpirozzi6789]

As someone who just got broken up with, I needed this. I’m glad I’m not going down this route and this was a much needed laugh.

[@downwthethicccness]

8:10 was a missed opportunity to say Sexually Transmitted Demons

[@Maze383]

3:07 goes hard out of context

[@akuuso]

I went through rough breakup a couple years ago, at first it was just a regular "This isn't working out, I think we should just end it and focus on ourselves" type of breakup. Then my ex attempts to get back with me, spams my number and social media, then at school hands me a suicide note, all happened during the same week. After I report it to the school in fear of their safety my ex just blames me for getting em in trouble, which was weird but it was whatever at that point. Another week goes by and I discover my ex cheated on me with 5 different people, 3 of which I knew and was friends with. Of course I had that pre-teen tantrum for a couple days but I decided to move on from it all up until my mother passed away due to suicide. Not even 2 weeks after the tragedy I heard rumors my ex was mocking and dancing on my mother's grave, and as much as I hoped it was fake, it turned out to be true. I wanted to retaliate so bad but there's really nothing that could've been done about it, so I forced myself to move on although I wish I did something about it till this day.

[@EmyN]

Holy shit dude

[@akuuso]

@@EmyN yea lmao, it's very sucky

[@KEKW-lc4xi]

that first rejection was the nicest rejection I have ever read wow.

[@Timmy_Turners_Burner]

I loved when she said “get ahold of yourself”🤣🤣 like dude get a grip. She’s the best

[@LEMATTOFFICIAL]

This dude ruined his shot and he actually had a shot but is so unbelievably focused on sex he fumbled badly. How are people this weird?

[@mywrlddotwave7655]

For real . Like he could've had something better going on than sex . He gotta focus his effort somewhere else

[@f0rth3l0v30fchr15t]

Sometimes, I feel like I've got no game. Then I see stuff like this and realise things aren't that bad.

[@elijaihtaylor3859]

Same here brother

[@thebigmeow999]

i used to scroll through r/niceguys when i was in high school all the time, really appreciate you doing the leg work of finding the best/worst of the best/worst

[@CyberWarezz05]

Regarding the "it always comes down to insults", this reminded me of a story:I had a Uni classmate that wasn't attractive, you could even say that she was ugly by today's standards. One dude thought that she would not reject him. Needless to say, she rejected him and of course he started insulting her, and when I asked him why he was trying to date her if he thought that she was ugly and stupid, he genuinely replied with "I thought I was doing her a favor since she is so ugly". So maybe this is also the case of the dude in the video:he is probably so delusional that he thinks he is doing this "fat, ugly woman" a favor by trying to date her. I wish I was joking, but things like these happen in real life

[@sipinosapa]

4:06 Here is your perfect out of context clip. Enjoy

[@R0DBS]

Clipped

[@Thatgeometrykid]

lol 😂

[@KyanoAng3l0]

As someone who suffered from chronic loneliness and RSD, I was expecting secondhand embarrassment from this. Instead, I found myself scratching my head over this guy's texts. I've been socially awkward and mishandled rejection before, but never like this. I hope he gets help.

[@bribro23]

Be glad to know TOO MANY guys are like this so you’re doing good there 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@KyanoAng3l0]

@@bribro23 I find that more concerning than reassuring, but thanks ig.

[@KyanoAng3l0]

@@bribro23 I find that more concerning than reassuring, but thanks ig.

[@vladimirgluten781]

@@bribro23are they short

[@FerRod2113]

I’ve been rejected about 2-3 times in my life, 2 that I for sure will never forget but I didn’t have this kind of melt down, I took my L and moved on and learned. It is what it is, but after Highschool I got pretty good confidence and learned “how to read the room”, and it’s been good after that. Bring a positive vibe and confidence and it’ll get you far.

[@nikkixo6334]

Charlie blessing us again with these messages 😭

[@namantherockstar]

Charlie inspires me.. My parents said if i get 70K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally Begging..

[@exp-channel0]

Watching these while eating is pure bliss

[@nikkixo6334]

@@exp-channel0its like a weird bliss but obviously very action packed entertainment

[@terraxgaming4117]

2:47 instant block

[@k23kay]

A man with a kid of 13 years old want to clap cheeks in the first date💀

[@giovanna3035]

As much as I’ll never understand people who can’t take “no” for an answer, I’ll also never understand why as soon as a person crosses the line, the person receiving the creepy messages STILL RESPOND BACK ANYWAY! As soon as I get a weird af message I leave it on read & block.

[@shamrous7368]

True. That's just waste of time.

[@squirrelbugg99]

Because at a certain point I guess you want to give them a chance/explain what they did wrong so they never do it again. Sometimes it actually does work, but most of the time it doesn’t. Idk, I don’t think it should be our job to educate men on how to be decent human beings, so I never answer 😅

[@CyberFreakMisa]

Charlie’s robotic “hahahahaha” makes me just so happy.

[@Slasher6665]

These videos are a literal goldmine

[@smergthedargon8974]

Not literal.

[@Zorgot.]

@@smergthedargon8974 .

[@Slasher6665]

@@smergthedargon8974 For sure, I really dig into this content.

[@burtreynolds8030]

@@smergthedargon8974I am wealthier having watched this video

[@BobbieGuam]

It's wild to think guys still have the idea in their head, whether their own or others, that getting told "no" means they're playing hard to get

[@logminick5429]

All my favorite creators just streamed or posted all at the same time I could never be more blessed🎉

[@ReaperXxK]

That's a curse 😭😭 cuz you can't watch em all at oncee

[@raspberry3863]

Who are they I need new shit to watch

[@Ethen2Nice]

@@raspberry3863if u like mma or ufc the Jaxxon pod is funny asf lml

[@MedicoreMacaroni]

Drop those recommendations!

[@Memorial24]

@@raspberry3863Probably Asmongold, Some Ordinary Gamers, and every other slop creator infesting this website

[@katem5520]

"get a hold of yourself" is quite possibly the best way she could've responded 😂👏

[@MissyJ]

It's been over three years and my ex still emails at least once a week. Some dudes are absolutely unhinged.

[@quantifying9184]

3:24 "an added bonus" man wtf💀💀

[@anubis8718]

Last year I rejected somebody and it went worse than this, they spent a week insulting me, slandering my name, harrassing me, and etc. Thankfully, it fell back on top of them when people heard the full story and knew the truth. I don't understand how people can be so childish . . .

[@Tiger516funny]

4:15. That joke truly is criminal. To the extent, I'm dead on the floor.😂

[@allison._.marieeee]

i cracked up 😭

[@MonoHasJono]

3:31 "When are you coming over, are you at the door yet?"

[@raykazmi8521]

“Get ahold of yourself” got me giggling too Charlie

[@justinchaffin8195]

Heres how you properly handle rejection "Would you like to go on a date" "No" "Okay have a nice day"

[@calebramat7649]

Unhinged people really make the best content

[@Lumoblack2024M8th]

2:33 "clap them cheeks too" he's down bad ☠️☠️☠️

[@k23kay]

Shit went dark real quick

[@Lumoblack2024M8th]

@@k23kay 😭🙏

[@what_4836s]

Shit went 1 to a 100 💀

[@Senseandstrategy]

Charlies body language at 3:00 made me die. The desperation it oozes accompanying his sassy tone is just peak.

[@soren_prod]

After the tombstone comment he was screaming “IT WAS A MISINPUT!”

[@Soviendows90]

This man is a absolute creep, like hell he’s giving side quests during a this entire thing and adding more to the every greater journey.

[@LordToastTheGreat]

I want an hour long video of this. I always love these videos

[@justdroppingthings]

A lot of dudes who don't take no for an answer usually at least try a different approach, this man went whole hawg and ramped up the approach that failed

[@KeniYT0]

The moment you hear one your dates, not someone youre already in a relationship with, say they love to cuddle--it means they love the opportunity to get you all hot and bothered while in a compromising position so they can "persuade" your no to a yes. Same thing with the body massage thing. If youre the best at something youd be making a lot of money doing it.

[@Cloud-wh6np]

How to handle rejection: "Understandable, have a nice day." 😂

[@Eren-cy6ln]

You can be sad about it, cry about it and be in general emotional pain etc but you must under all circumstances accept the no and keep to yourself after that out of respect for both the other person and yourself. I think this kind of behavior is due to bad parenting or the lack of parenting.

[@PaninaroAurora]

I have a hard time handling rejection myself. Because a lot of things go through my brain: 1) I can't grow socially unless I have successful experiences with others, which requires them saying yes; 2) I can't prove to the broader public that I have good people skills-- a must for succeeding in life in general-- if too many people say no to me; 3) The hardest one, because it's the thought that still lingers even after coming to the conclusion that rejection doesn't say anything bad about my character or personality, it just is what it is: the other person saying no to me means I miss out on a valuable life experience, and while I absolutely can make myself happy and do fun things alone, it just doesn't count as much as experiences shared with others. I can't really say I have rich life experiences in the way someone who's had a lot of yeses, and therefore people joining them in life, could. Overall, I feel like I'm not really in charge of my life. I feel like other people's feelings and decisions are the final determinant of my life outcomes, and my efforts mean a lot less than I hoped they would. Because my intentions are less important than impact, and someone saying no to me is a pretty big statement that my impact on them is unwelcome, negative, or just not as good as the impact they get from *other* people. Rejection really opens up all these existential questions for me, even after taking ego out of the mix. It gets to the heart of whether I can become the person I want to be-- I suspect that I can't without other people's cooperation. And whether I'm really living, or just existing; and as an unwanted presence at that. I absolutely loathe any think piece about how people are social creatures and how we need relationships to thrive and even to enjoy good physical health. I just want to ask them all, "Don't you realize how easy it is to NOT get those vital relationships in the first place? Don't you realize that what you say can induce people to disregard others' boundaries because if you say that having a relationship is THAT important, people will do whatever it takes to get one?" All of this is to say, I suck at handling rejection, and even I wouldn't act the way these three manchildren did here. (And for mere *romantic* rejection at that. Wait till these sweet summer boys get to experience the job hunt.)

[@ohfudge]

With regards to your second-to-last paragraph, both statements are true. I myself don't really have any friends but also acknowledge yes, humans are social animals. Unfortunately, when you have disorders that affect your social skills, even if you have taken steps to remediate it, you're working at a disadvantage. You want friends, but everyone thinks you're an annoying weirdo, so the more you try, the more you get hurt. It's difficult to deal with - imo even after all the social skills classes in the world, you will still never be as adept at situations as someone who never needed them to begin with. There's a point of vanishing returns.

[@PaninaroAurora]

@ohfudge -- and that makes me suspicious and cynical as to why people form relationships in the first place, and what is really important to people. It seems like people *really* like you when you either do as they say, or you're entertaining or at least convenient for them. And if you cease to either be what they want you to be or become too much work, you will lose that connection that so many people tell you is crucial. Why would I want a relationship where the other person only likes/loves me if I'm calmed down with the help of antidepressants? Or if I agree to join their church? Or dedicate my life to looking as beautiful as possible for them? Or only give them good vibes and never the heavy stuff? And yet, people make these little sacrifices and compromises every day to stay in their loved ones' good graces. It having a social circle and loved ones requires on a daily basis that you either *not* be the very best person you want to be, or submit to "nice" coercion so you're "easier for them to deal with" in a way that goes beyond courtesy and decency, then maybe relationships are not as good for our human potential and mental health as the think pieces say.

[@marthalovesbutterflies9223]

This is a very logical conclusion that I have arrived to multiple times before. ​@PaninaroAurora Is it all an illusion that most people don't realize? Nobody will be your friend if you are 100% yourself. Relationships with others are built on expectations of what the relationship will benefit both parties and if one party feels disappointment they can move on. I try extremely hard to take rejections smoothly, but it's never satisfactory because I don't know what my shortcoming was. If I can't make an improvement, I am likely to fail again. It takes more time when you are grossly unaware of the standardized qualities men are looking for in a relationship, and there is an implied motive behind their actions of which they deny and take no responsibility. Romantic relationships feel kinda pointless, except for improving survival outcomes and offspring. Is love, as we have been taught, a real phenomenon? Or it is just a lie that most people believe?

[@5und43]

Try not to think of it as rejection or missed opportunities but as redirection. You know, like those invisible walls in games that keep you on the map?

[@haiszx]

dbt is your friend

[@bowdenproductions]

I know you can’t hear texts, but I felt the confidence of that “get a hold of yourself” from her 😆 He didn’t phase her whatsoever

[@xhivo97]

3:09 Charlie is [rightfully] very proud of what came out of his mouth there, surprised even

[@wyattnance3756]

It’s actually insane that each new video manages to shock me with the pure audacity in some of these messages

[@justSunny7]

3:12 the way I laughed when he said this 🤣

[@TobiDaJoker]

4:14 The way Charlie says "what do you mean you're calling the police" followed by the video cutting to the next clip 😆

[@michaelhodges2000]

Ngl I think these text message videos have been my favorite type of content recently. Please keep it up😭

[@ferrarif4019]

2:54 thank you for this break

[@xwannabeetinkerbellx]

"You dead yet" Actually kills me